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| 2 | Is this a valid perspective?You’re not trippin in the sense that what you’re feeling is real. A year out from a divorce at 26 with a kid is a lot to carry. The bitterness makes sense as a phase. But I’m going to be straight with you because that’s more useful than agreeing with you. What you’re describing isn’t clarity about women — it’s an open wound talking. When you’re in that place, everything looks like evidence for the story your pain is telling you. That’s not wisdom, that’s damage doing the thinking. The problem is… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/26 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Losing kidsFirst — you’re not overreacting. That fear is real and it’s one of the hardest parts of this that nobody warns you about. Going from tucking them in every night to every other weekend is a grief that doesn’t have a clean name. But here’s what I’ve seen, and what I lived: the quantity of time matters less than you think it does. The quality and the consistency matter more than almost anything else. Your kids aren’t going to lose interest in you. What creates distance isn’t time apart — it’s a dad… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/26 04:13 PM |
| 1 | [CO] How civil temporary protection order affect custody decisionsA few things worth untangling here because they’re separate issues that will affect your case differently. The TCPO being “mutually settled” without a court finding on the allegations is actually meaningful. It means no judge ruled that you did anything wrong — you both agreed to the order to resolve it. That’s different from a finding of abuse or threat. Your attorney should be ready to make that distinction clearly if it comes up in the custody hearing. The status quo argument from her attorne… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/26 04:11 PM |
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