RaistlainMajere79 Archive

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23	Fellas don't let this happen to YOU. Trust your gut. No one is worth what I have been through.		RaistlainMajere79	/r/Divorce_Men	06/09/21 10:23 PM
3	Not sure what to do. She has threatened suicide and to make fabricated stories.		RaistlainMajere79	/r/Divorce_Men	04/10/21 11:40 PM

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1	Not sure what to do. She has threatened suicide and to make fabricated stories. Thanks brother. Sound advice that I have followed somewhat. I have talked to a family lawyer a couple times before she found out about it by putting spyware on my phone. But I told him I'd like to set up child support for the day I leave I want it coming out of my check the following week and him pay it for me. He said this was a good idea so that way she can't say I abandoned her and the one kid remaining at home. But the other two kids altho being 1 18 and 20 are in college I'm not sure what I…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/10/21 01:34 AM
1	Not sure what to do. She has threatened suicide and to make fabricated stories. I forgot to mention I have no where to go as I have no one to lean on outside of my marriage. I've let her isolate me and I'll be damned if she wasn't slick about it. That REALLY gets to me when I let myself stew about it. Then when I bring it up she says I'm a grown man I can do whatever I like. Lol until I try to have activities of my own then I get the third degree when I get home or the cold shoulder because I didn't stay home and either argue with her stupid ass or sit there and watch whate…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/10/21 01:26 AM
1	Not sure what to do. She has threatened suicide and to make fabricated stories. Sorry bud just haven't had an outlet for years to vent to. Plus it's embarassing to admit I let myself be worked into a corner you'd say. I'm wanting as far away from her as possible but with her threatening to call the law on me and accuse me of causing the bruises I don't know what to do unless I carry a recorder with me 24/7 and start recording every time we talk in hopes of her saying it, which comes up almost all the time. As much as I hate her she is the mother of my kids and besides I don…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/10/21 01:04 AM
2	Advice needed to leave wife I am going through something very similar to you now with the exception of leaving and coming back. Once I'm out of here and a couple states away from her, which I've already been told she will stalk and follow me, I will NEVER look back. Don't you love how it's all YOUR fault when's it been you doing the heavy lifting this whole time. With me it is the opposite she has the bachelors degree and I have a GED but I've always had a better paying job, benefits etc then she has. Because I worked my w…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/10/21 11:54 PM
1	Fellas don't let this happen to YOU. Trust your gut. No one is worth what I have been through. Thanks and yes it has definitely impacted my life and I'm still deali g with the fall out 36 years later. Like I told people Ive talked to about this, when you murder someone that's it their dead, the family deals with the fall out yea but the person doesn't. But people who have been raped or molested have to deal with that shit every day until.they either take their own life or their choices in life lead them to their death all shaped by what happened. I just did enough drugs to kill 20 men to …	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/21 04:49 AM
2	Fellas don't let this happen to YOU. Trust your gut. No one is worth what I have been through. Yea I have 3 with her but two are over 18 and my youngest is 14. And as y'all can see by my post being deleted it sure as fuck wasn't me who deleted it. This is the bullshit I'm talking about. She waits till I go to bed and then hunts until she finds my phone, deletes stuff I post or pretends to be me and makes posts that paint her as the victim and me the asshole	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/21 04:38 AM
1	Help Gun question Call your dad, mom, brother, SOMEONE you trust and is reliable and have them come to the house WHILE you are documenting all this on video, have them remove all the guns from the house. While you are still recording take an inventory of all the guns you have given said person and write it down and have them sign it, you sign it, and finally have HER sign it showing they have been removed from the property. And like it has been mentioned call a lawyer TODAY.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/09/21 10:44 PM
1	Nervous taking first major step Brother it will never get better. I am in the same situation always tried to work on it but always one sided. You are asked to forget everything that she has said or done and asked to move forward but at the first argument after the supposed "reset" what you have said and done in the past is the first thing brought up but if it were you to do it then you are "bringing up old stuff we are supposed to be moving past" Get a hold of an attorney and set up support payments for the kids so that way wh…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/09/21 10:39 PM
1	Sad because it's true Yup been there my friend. Use the kids against you. Mine has turned my son against me. It is to the point I want nothing more then to kick his teeth in when I look at him. Bastard forgets who it was that made everything possible for him to do growing up. Sure as fuck wasn't her lazy ass	/r/Divorce_Men	06/09/21 10:28 PM
1	Sad because it's true I would like to find one that says if you stay with her BECAUSE of the kids it's bound to fail. That's what I was told even by my mom, what about the kids? She moved her because if you, she doesn't have anyone etc. Now the shoe is on the other foot. She has run everyone off that I had in my life way before her.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/09/21 10:25 PM