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Thanks for the response. Hope it gets better for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:12 AM
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Sorry for disturbing you. Have a great day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:21 PM
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I did. Did it when I initiated the process to get one and once more when you told me to. After that I responded to you. I'm not sure where you are going with this, could you help me understand ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:08 PM
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I'm French. I'm sure you mean well but your comment sound ridiculous to a French citizen. Don't trust what you see in Emily in Paris. Cheating carries A LOT of social stigma, especially in the upper class. I can assure you that monogamy is definetely the model here. Polygamy is associated with muslim culture (black and brown people). In a country were the far right score 42% in the latest presidential election (against the right), it's not really a good look. Regarding DNA testing, I don't know …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:56 PM
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Sorry for what you went through and thanks for sharing. I understand your story. If you looked at it at a macro level, while trying to exclude your personnal situation from the context. Do you believe that mens have a right to test for paternity? Would you put some conditions on it ? Which one ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:25 PM
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Could you please develop a bit your message ? I don't understand the meaning of your question. English is not my native language, sorry for that. If it helps clarify, I'm just stating that in France, it is written in law that a father who seeks to factually establish his biological link to his presumed child is illegal. You not only get fined, you also get sent to jail 1 year). As law is a reflection and a way to enforce societal vision, you can assume that the majority of society (french) view …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:13 PM
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In France, it's illégal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:45 AM
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You don't need a justification to leave and certainly not from any of us. You can and should make your own choices. ​ With that being said, can you detail a bit more they ways you feel disrespected ? With the distance we have from your situation, we might be able to have relevant feedback. ​ Give us something to work with.
/r/askMRP01/04/22 08:10 AM
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Donnt fight him, don't keep him as your friend. If HE wants to stay in touch then he need to give you the money he stole from you. That's mandatory. Now for an advice, 100 $ is not a lot to clean yourself of a bad company. You should let it go, the cash and the "friend".
/r/RedPillBooks16/01/22 09:08 AM
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His stats are not correct, at least not in my country (France). ​ The government (INSE) stat on divorce is 45%. Another stat, not from the government though, is that on the remaining 55% of mariage, 40% are staying married for financial reasons. ​ I can link the sources but they are in french.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 07:42 PM
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Sorry for the late reply buddy. I'm not from the US but from europe. My ex-wife is a doctor with one of the best speciality. She does outearn me (for now). The custody is 50/50 and I'm currently paying 60 % of my salary to her. I'll be able to get back half of what I'm paying and reduce the alimony when she accept leaving MY apartment. My lawyers genuinely consider this a win. It's not an odd occurrence , I've got several colleagues who went through it. btw, I was with here for 10 years before g…
/r/askTRP15/04/21 07:37 PM
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I dont think it's an overestimation. What makes you believe that? Have you seen the stats on divorce?
/r/askTRP12/04/21 05:41 AM
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OYS #3 Height: 6'3'' Weight 218 BF: 26 Age: 36 kids:1 (4y) currently 2 years into divorcing, married 2 years, together for 10. Finished: How to Win Friends and Influence People The Way of the Superior Man, next is no more Mr Nice guy. Physical: Running, biking & pushups. I never lifted before, I felt that it was shallow to lift, that people and I should not put value in my body. Rationalizing why I wouldn't move my fat ass to the gym. I believe I know better now. Anyway, my country is in full lo…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 08:29 PM
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OYS #2 Height: 6'3'' Weight 220 BF: 26 Age: 36 kids:1 (4y) currently 2 year into divorcing, married 2 years, together for 10. Finished: How to Win Friends and Influence People The Way of the Superior Man, next is no more Mr Nice guy. ​ Physical: Did pushup sessions every odd days and cardio in between (running/bike). I feel a bit better. ​ Health: I still can't sleep more than 4/5 hours a night, but I had 2 real night of sleep. I drink more water which I feel is helping me. ​ Divorce: Situation …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/21 01:48 PM
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Thanks mate
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/21 02:31 PM
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OYS #1 ​ Height: 6'3'' Weight 220 BF: 26 Age: 36 kids:1 (4y) currently 2 year into divorcing, married 2 years, together for 10 . ​ Reading: How to Win Friends and Influence People The Way of the Superior Man, next is no more Mr Nice guy. Physical: Plan to start lifting once Gym reopen. in the meantime I'm running and doing pushups/tractions/crunch at home. I "look" like I'm in shape, I'm making steady progress, but I don't feel good about where I am. Health: Lost some weight, that's good. can't …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/21 09:44 AM
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I actually read what you wrote. It is cumbersome to read without spacing. Please use them. No hard feelings.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 09:06 AM
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Man, who wants to read that? Use some spacing ffs.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 08:46 AM
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The core principle of trp is self-improvement. TRP is NOT easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 02:27 PM
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It seems like your advising him to chase for LTR. I believe that's her job. Nothing wrong with not having sex on a date though, but what you are advising looks like a losing move, not the kind of thing a man with abundance would do at all. It might solidify the beta view she already has of him.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 02:22 AM
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My best advice would be to focus on your intentions, not her's. It seems you are still attached and would potentially go for second.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 02:13 AM
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Could be several things. Fuck with your head, making you review all those picture, making you fight to keep those pictures (your story together). Or maybe she's undergoing a Reborn phase where all proof that she was sluttin around must be deleted so she feels secured presenting herself as a virgin. Either way, she's in your head for free right now, getting you asking for guidance to your bro. Is she worth it?
/r/askTRP28/02/21 02:09 AM
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I was going to ask the same question. Chicken rice and brocoli is my main meal!
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 09:52 AM
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I don't believe your figures. Do you have sources to support the "hundreds of thousand kids " missing? This is simply impossible and this wrong figure is the fondation for your speech.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 11:00 AM
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What your ex or your mom thinks of you is not relevant. What do you think. Are you being hostile, argumentative a lier and a racist? Is this a problem for you? Why? What do you intend to do to fix it?
/r/askTRP19/02/21 02:32 PM
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Nobody said that you should lose respect for your father, in fact nobody is telling you not to cry or that he shouldn't have cried. We are saying that if you do it in front of a woman it will perceived as weakness which often leads to breed contempt and disgust.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:12 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 08:13 PM
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Heu buddy, do you have some good sources describing the stages you mentionned? I have a child and i'm undergoing a divorce, i'd like to put all the chances on his side. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 03:31 PM
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Can you elaborate your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 07:58 PM
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I feel dumb for asking, but he's trollin right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 07:57 PM
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Hey buddy, it's Always possible. You are VERY young, you have struck thé Goldmine by reaching this community at your age. There is hope for you, plenty of it. Contratry to most of the post we see, you asked how to change, which is what newcomers struggle to prioritize. All the informations you need are in the sidebar, it's well explained and practical. For specific adice, I could see from what you wrote, that you tend diminish yourself, probably to fish for pity from us. This need to be adressed…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:07 AM
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Hey buddy, I think your focus should not be on slaying girls right now. If you are at the level where you are comparing yourself to random thugs that fight often with a low end job, then that's what you need to fix first. I'd say that for the looking tough part, gym should cover that, as many will tell you here, lift. For the job, it's up to you to change, find something that gets you money, as a brown dude you need it more. Ask for help, always stay hungry and have a plan for your next better j…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 09:35 AM
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You don't. Discard the past, work in the present to enjoy your futur. Your "hate" is an excuse, destroying others will not improve yourself and your situation. You are a man now, your mom is not responsible for your life or your hapiness. We will be there to support you as a community, but ultimately you have to walk alone. Good luck and be strong.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:00 AM
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I doubt that it's possible to go from red to blue
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 06:27 PM
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It was !
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 11:01 AM
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Read it, lots of rp truth in there, sadly they are twisted toward bp. The book is a bit controversial, even though it's designed at pussifying you. Might be an ok "entry point" toward acceptance that men and women are actually different. For a deep BP Guy it Can have it's use.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 10:50 PM
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There is something you lose, that you forfeit. The control of your destiny, the very thing that makes you a man.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 09:45 PM
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How old are you brother? Do you have kids with your ex? What's your status right now? Stay strong and crush it this weekend !
/r/askTRP01/10/20 11:57 AM
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I'm sorry but I struggle to extract value from your post. To me, it looks like you are larping as a sociologue to shit on women.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/20 05:28 AM
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I'm not saying my case is representative of the all western civilization. It's anecdotal. However, I can definetely say that the family court system is heavily biaised toward the mothers. Structurally. How can the father only gets custody in 5% of the cases when he is asking for it? Basically, he only gets it if the mother is sick (mentally or phisically) has drug or gambling issues. I don't know the stats in the us, but I guess it's around the same. This could and should be corrected. I'm convi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 07:58 PM
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I know, but there's good reasons for that. I had to go through 3 lawyer before I found one who said that there was a chance that I could get shared custody. I raised my son alone the first two year, she left the house. I still had to fight to get shared custody. I have to pay an alimony even though she earns more than me, I got kicked of my own appartement and I still have to pay for it so that she can stay in it for free. She made an appeal to get full custody and she wrote by mail that if I di…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 07:08 PM
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I discovered that somehow you are authorized to lie in a court of law in my country. It's up to the other party to prove the lie and there's no repercussion other than a loss of credibility. I'm from France, you can look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:49 PM
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Well, my case is a bit more complicated. There's the child support in itself which is not a lot (100 euros), which I need to pay. The problem is that I had to let her stay for free at the appartement, which I still need to reimburse every month to the bank. Even though it came out a year later that she lied on her revenu (she actually have a slightly better paycheck than I do), They kept the current arrangement until the final step of the divorce. Lawyer said that this can go on for a few years …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:50 PM
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Responded in pm
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 11:17 AM
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It doesn't "just happen". It's enforced by the court which is HEAVILY biaised.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 08:13 AM
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Anecdotal but let me share with you my situation. I have a pretty good salary (3 times the median salary of m'y country in Europe) but I can't fully pay the child support, I'm actually in debt and living at a friend's house because of it. So yeah, maybe they don't get the full amount, but can you give us the figures? I'm genuinely interested in knowing what's the overall situation. I mean not in percentage but for example the average amount men are supposed to pay to "raise a child". By the way,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 08:09 AM
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Just remove the "only" part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 05:40 PM
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Must be fucking blind buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 05:38 PM
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It's more complicated than that. Try being married, you've got a kid, then suddenly, your wife decide she doesn't care about the kid, wants some strange dick and blow up your shared account without thinking about tomorrow. Would you try to shut your shared account because you are now in the red financialy? Would you ask her to stop going out half naked and coming back in the midle of the night, drunk and waking up the kid? Would you nag her to take her part of the workload to raise the child or …
/r/askTRP13/09/20 09:42 PM
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Always on point
/r/askTRP08/09/20 04:53 PM
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Did you go to North Africa?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:43 AM
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What part of Africa middle east is a rape culture state?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:31 AM
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There's a lot to unpack here. Not sure if this is a troll post or not. Before answering I'd like to get a reply first, what led you here?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 12:43 PM
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Adressing issues with "warnings", we all know what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 11:32 AM
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Was it not fucking clear to you when she left a broken noodle outside the window? How oblivious can men be to these clear warnings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 10:36 AM
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You said that even your daughter or your niece was a "vile creature"... That's actually not anger phase, this is bordering blackpill philosophy. You are dehumanizing women and entered hatred territory. The TRP ideal is to ride the wave, not spit on it.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:20 PM
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You guys are so deep in the anger phase... Snap out of it already.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 10:07 AM
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If you really don't want to fuck anymore, then don't. Once a month is ok and you are managing well by not begging etc..
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:41 AM
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Depending on wether or not you tolerate that she engage with other men, you have two course of action: If you don't tolerate it, you cut her off, no contact. If you tolerate it, you demote her from being your "girlfriend" to being a "plate", meaning that you start seeing ans engaging other women. Given that you are New to this, i would advise to do that without telling her. If you had rock solid frame and game on point, you could casually and openly plate her. An overall advice I'd like to give …
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:37 PM
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Might be an ego issue, this can come from a dysfunctional upringing affecting your self confidence. If you recognize yourself in this, true work is needed with a therapist. If not, that's great.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:57 PM
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You might be lacking in execution but you did the right thing. What I would have done differently is no contact once breakup is announced. But in your case it seems you would have been fine with keeping her as a fwb. If that's the case, I understand why you did what you did, but then again I would have stealthly demoted her. Easier said than done, but for someone new to this, you did great. Hope you will adjust and improve for the next one.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:53 PM
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I've always been impressed with their capacity to be outraged at the very same thing they are doing and convey such a genuine feeling of betrayal.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:22 PM
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Highly disagree on the guilt part. Please look at endorsed contributors comment for a better take on thé situation
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:19 PM
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If she came with a clear plan of how to fix her behavior, do you believe the situation would have been salvageable? Openly flirting with an ex is quite critical.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:16 PM
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The hate is not needed. She's just playing games and following her nature.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:10 PM
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He is probably the plate in this case.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:07 PM
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Number 2 is terrible advice in this specific case, our mate is in doubt, the mermaid has really delivered a powerful speech for him. I strongly advise to follow point 1 only. Good Luck!
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:06 PM
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Exactly, don't give in OP, nothing in her message is genuine, don't fall for the song of the mermaid.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:04 PM
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I did not expect her to get so many good results... I mean 25 match the second day... When I was using it I had maybe 2/3 match a day max.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 08:13 PM
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If you have principles, they should stand on their own and only concern yourself. Why do you give a fuck about what your whore ex-wife gave up or not. Time to live your life buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 06:06 AM
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I get what you are saying, i'm sure a redpilled man will surely mitigate the risks. With that being said, I would like you to understand my point, which is that you could be the most alpha man of the world, at some points your spouse will get bored with you and get tingles from the pizza guy or her work husband. Once that happens, if you have put yourself in a situation where divorce is free gift (huge emotion boost mixed with money and victime status...) you can get divorced raped and the thing…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 05:10 PM
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The stats on divorce are speacking for themselves. Sure, you can keep telling yourself that you are way better than 95% of the population. Even if that was true, know that woman get bored of alpha male as well. If you add the incentive of divorce money then it's over for you. Check your ego my friend, mariage is with two people, you can only control yourself, don't delude yourself into thinking otherwise no matter how alpha you think you are. awalt /she's not yours. there's a good reason lot of …
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 04:26 PM
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