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Social IssuesRalfMurphy/r/MensRights01/07/21 10:50 AM
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Social IssuesRalfMurphy/r/MensRights03/02/25 04:46 AM
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Fundamentals RalfMurphy/r/seduction25/04/25 05:19 AM
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Successful college women know their value. So I'd rate them as difficult as any basic bombshell doorknob. If she's attractive, successful and college educated, you'd better be dumb AF and hung or supercede her success 3 fold
/r/MensRights04/07/26 01:34 PM
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GL getting to the 2nd date with those rules. Yes, we're looking for reciprocity. At the same time, most women I've come across in the dating game are playing power games, looking for men who bend to them. For those I've met, they are looking for cheap slavery, a person to own and a person to work for them in the fully committed delusion that it's love. For those who are offering equality and reciprocity (and here's the brutal truth) are fat, ugly, old or poor. They are looking for a savior and a…
/r/MensRights04/07/26 05:34 AM
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You missed feet
/r/seduction10/06/26 04:48 PM
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Not according to dating app profiles
/r/seduction09/05/26 07:57 AM
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Do it just to flex on what they're missing out on. Then walk away
/r/seduction09/05/26 07:56 AM
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Not. Coz beautiful things don't require your attention to exist
/r/seduction23/12/25 07:54 AM
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Develop a killer social circle, then be at the top of it
/r/seduction12/11/25 05:03 AM
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They want the security of a nice guy as a stable, non threatening and platonic long term partner but who they aren't necessarily turned on by sexually nor have intentions of having sex with. Basically a substitute for their father's or brothers. Think Oedophis complex but for women. However, hormonally, they want physically strong, tall and attractive guys who aren't necessarily nice, who pose the sense of danger that is often associated with violence, since violence used to represent safety lon…
/r/seduction05/09/25 04:29 AM
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It's a part of inner game. Understanding who you are, what you are and your place/fit in the world
/r/seduction25/07/25 05:20 AM
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Work place injuries and/or death
/r/MensRights11/06/25 04:52 AM
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Whatever you're getting is what you're giving
/r/MensRights25/05/25 05:23 PM
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So is there any realistic way of bagging 10's? Is that a realistic target given that I don't look like a male cast member of Temptation Island? It seems I got good indicators from her (and a few others), that my confidence is there and I keep in relative good shape and hygiene but the reality seems to be it's opportunistic and won't last long term.
/r/seduction25/04/25 04:29 PM
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By adopting the mindset that women love sex just as much as guys. And even if sex isn't on the table, they simply love the attention
/r/seduction25/04/25 10:16 AM
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It's so sad that masculinity now means not being "happy", bubbly or excited by life. One must be stoic, a dark and mysterious thing hovering like a black cloud over a room in order to look strong, deep and like you've seen some hurt.
/r/seduction25/04/25 05:27 AM
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Dry Creek Dwayne
/r/MensRights09/04/25 05:44 AM
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Why wait for tomorrow??
/r/seduction08/04/25 04:06 PM
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Flip it up your waist band
/r/seduction05/04/25 07:22 AM
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Here's the thing. It works. Complimenting a partner is part of reinforcing your bond. However, in those cases where the vloggers tell you not to overdo it, it's mostly from their experiences in relationships where it was not reciprocated. Reciprocation, for me, is the highest sign of respect in a relationship. Seeking a partners acceptance by constantly finding new and creative ways gets very draining very quickly if it's not recieved, not appreciated, not reciprocated and not paid back in kind …
/r/seduction30/03/25 02:27 PM
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Girls like ncie guys, but not for the reasons nice guys want to be liked
/r/seduction29/03/25 08:32 AM
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Why is this comment so undervoted. This is it. Find your own happiness outside of women. Be a massive gravitational body and the planets will pull in toward you.
/r/seduction29/03/25 08:30 AM
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I beg to differ. I think that it very much is the situation, that girls know this, and thats part of the excitement that a hot guy may or may not hit on them that night. Girls want sex just as much as guys. Why wouldn't she go home with someone if he checked all the boxes? The oneous, then, is on the guy to make the right impression, make all the right moves, make her feel safe and comfortable and sexy, and then (and only then) she has the power of consent (read: the right) to select you for the…
/r/seduction29/03/25 06:12 AM
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It's a game for her. She just wanted the validation that you thought she was hot. Then she goes back to her friend group and brags about how she got you to approach her. She probably didn't know how to escalate with you and so hid her insecurity by rejecting you first.
/r/seduction29/03/25 05:56 AM
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I had this very conversation with a girl casually. She said she gets approached at least a few times a week, from every corner and situation like grocery stores to Uber drivers. It's not the lack of approaches or nervousness or not knowing how to react when guys approach. It's quite the opposite, that she's so used to getting it daily that she's bored.
/r/seduction29/03/25 05:51 AM
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It's like having the pain of knowledge. You went out into the world to experience, you just didn't expect the experience to be so fkd up. I'm with you 100%. I've been used and cheated on (without her admitting), I've been assaulted and exposed to pictures of a gf getting anal from another man. I've been accused of harrasment and made to feel like a rapist approaching women in clubs. I've been gossiped about in girl circles, I've seen girls tease me by walking off with other guys while looking ba…
/r/MensRights26/03/25 04:39 PM
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First time, ey? You'll get used to it.
/r/seduction17/03/25 07:57 PM
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This girl gets it.
/r/MensRights03/02/25 07:31 PM
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Bubble bath and massage beforehand
/r/seduction03/02/25 03:30 AM
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They tend to hold onto grudges (ducks for cover)
/r/MensRights31/03/24 12:49 PM
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My very one-sided opinion as a male (and rightly placed in this sub and nowhere else).... Women are the cause themselves, shooting themselves in the feet by all the competition in social media. Their aggressive comparison and putting each other down today's most in-vogue form of violence. They kill themselves before even going on dates. The ones who've elevated themselves to (gag) slay queens or husband hunters are killing the game for their other sisters less interested in looks. Their mental g…
/r/MensRights24/03/24 11:10 AM
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Look, as long as men are weak of character, and don't stand up for themselves and for the sake of their own self esteem, women (or any person for that matter) will derive pleasure from putting them down
/r/MensRights23/03/24 06:34 AM
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Right around the time the whole "marriage" thing happened. Your life, money, means of living independently was sold for sex. And you'd better still be a virgin too
/r/MensRights21/03/24 05:02 AM
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Record it on your phone. Regardless of if you take it to the police, she may take you to the police or even bystanders. You gotta have your own back up. Martial arts will teach you that defending yourself doesn't always mean fighting back with fists. Verbal warnings are good defense methods and the evidence will back up your case.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 06:16 PM
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My ex says (proudly) that sluts make the word go round. She happily sluts without me now. Nothing you can do to fight it. Absolutely everything you can do to control your reactions and emotions to things like this. And this, sadly, only something a man can do. The Stoics have taught it, and I'm yet to see a good example of a female stoic today
/r/MensRights23/01/24 10:41 AM
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OP is my hero
/r/MensRights12/01/24 11:42 AM
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Narcissists, the lot
/r/MensRights11/01/24 12:07 PM
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Sounds like women who watch too much porn.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:13 PM
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Didn't know gaslighting is now a profession
/r/MensRights05/10/23 05:13 AM
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It's a needs based dependancy. Those who are looking for replacements for their parents or someone to simp on them and another who appeals to their primal/hormonal instinct to mate. Sometimes you can't get both.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 10:09 AM
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I recently tried to embark on finding a good sex therapist to see but, frankly, I had a tough time researching a good one. Without a personal referral (and this would be quite taboo/hush hush to ask around about), what qualifies a good therapist? There also seem to be many different spheres and needs/niches/fetishes to sexuality and sexual difficulty, most often I see the therapist websites give references to helping couples struggling with intimacy but nothing with helping singles with their st…
/r/MensRights13/09/23 06:44 PM
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Magazine doing a CRAZY amount of hair, makeup and wardrobe to say "look how crazy men are for not dating these beautiful women, men are the problem". No, you sold your soul to your career and company. You're probably not drinking enough water, do no physical exercise, and probably a "joy" to hold a conversation with. You probably wake up with cheetos dust all over your face.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 06:49 AM
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I guess the test for this is for him to do the same and see if she shares the same view point.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 05:45 AM
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It's also their right to decide when is the time for sex, the conditions and circumstances. And don't you DARE reject a woman's advances or make her explain herself or you'll be tarred and branded a misogynist and an incel. Sex is her right, not yours.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 05:43 AM
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This is how the next World War starts
/r/MensRights19/07/23 12:35 PM
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"Expectations"
/r/MensRights19/07/23 07:10 AM
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I'd love to know how many women in that survey were economically attractive themselves
/r/MensRights13/07/23 05:06 PM
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Just keep spreading the message and create awareness.
/r/MensRights05/07/23 12:26 PM
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I feel that OP is slightly misguided or incorrect on some points..... Women's standards haven't increased, for the large part I think things like security, companionship and strong social support circles have always been key for men to stand out since the dawn of time, but maybe their options (read: distinction between the use of standard vs options) have changed. Maybe some women now have the option of liking men who wear makeup and that's not your thing, so you immediately think all women have…
/r/MensRights19/04/23 11:53 AM
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Acceptance is the only way, man. The game ain't gonna change
/r/MensRights08/02/23 11:15 AM
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*handsome and/or tall
/r/MensRights05/02/23 05:20 PM
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Let him be. One experiences many other influences by the time they reach adulthood. He had made the decision from his own experiences. He's finding some aspect of life that is changing him. This happened to me recently too.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 04:42 PM
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Putting aside the, like 4% of women that are in STEM, let's just say it outright: Women only take the soft jobs.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 09:32 AM
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TIL the job title Intimacy Coordinator exists
/r/MensRights22/12/22 07:12 PM
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I guess I'm part of 1% of men who accepted equal responsibility for raising kids with a career
/r/MensRights02/12/22 08:47 AM
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Besides everything else, these letters sound like a manipulation of your emotions. Don't let them (or any other communication that she tries to engage you in) get to you.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 04:59 AM
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r/nothowguyswork
/r/MensRights23/11/22 11:22 AM
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I used to think like this. And so what if humanity collapses? Life goes on. The earth will continue to be a rock floating in space. It matters to you because you're worried about your future and the life you'll see unfolding. You're trying to avoid pain that hasn't occurred yet. Just let life happen and don't worry about where we're headed as a species. It's both in your control and not in your control at all. As a scientist, practise some systems-thinking. The system is too huge to change or st…
/r/MensRights01/01/22 07:53 AM
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Ok, so you're mad that the girls in porn get "free money" for whoring themselves on camera. Money that you couldn't hope to earn. So what's the difference between actors/actresses in commercial movies? Do they have legitimate jobs? Are they needed in society? If you want a proper skewed idea of romance and relationships, all I need to ask you is to watch a Bollywood movie. Let's talk about that false view on sex and romance and societal views there. Do the dark, ugly guys get the lead girl? Why …
/r/MensRights01/01/22 07:46 AM
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Hey man, while I kinda know where you're coming from being a scientist and engineer, I gotta say your world view needs expanding. The world needs all sorts of professions to progress. Artists, Humanitarians, Health workers and caregivers, Teachers, Chefs etc and even more professions that do not require sitting in an office all day but going out into the world to make a difference. Even the street sweeper is needed. Yes, your fight to promote and advance the sciences is one admirable path, but t…
/r/MensRights01/01/22 06:39 AM
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As a man of color, the right certainly does not have my best interests prioritized
/r/MensRights01/01/22 06:11 AM
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You'll change your mind once you see your child born. Once you become a father, when you stick around to see their birth, everything changes. You'll wanna do whatever you can for your kid. What's different (and maybe your fear) is some stupid court order to pay an amount that's far too excessive or if your ex was batshit crazy and you know she'll burn thru that cash for no good reason. But there'll be much more you won't have control over in your kids life, so it'll just be one more thing to get…
/r/MensRights24/11/21 08:59 AM
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Wanting to harm men for real or imagined crimes of others..... Seen this before
/r/MensRights25/10/21 06:06 AM
1

So basically I've been shopping like a boomer and need to get with the times....
/r/MensRights02/07/21 07:58 AM
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Completely agree with you.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 05:27 AM
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How old would that study be, coz the current market must be lagging in that view. Seems very 1950's Perfect Housewives vibes coz I do an equal amount of shopping for my house and I'm sure it's the case worldwide now.
/r/MensRights01/07/21 12:43 PM
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Ok so : business is business and they're just gearing for the segment that spends more on clothes. So hear me out (for the sake of healthy conversation), what would be the reasons why men spend less on clothes? Coz we don't want to, don't need to, coz its more of a chore than a reward, we don't care about our looks that much, we feel guilty spending rather than saving, our clothes last longer, styles don't change that often, etc?
/r/MensRights01/07/21 12:36 PM
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Yes, I'm pointing to the many paradigms that the retailers support and perpetuate, making it worse by engraining it into social culture till its not even questioned.
/r/MensRights01/07/21 12:16 PM
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I thought about online shopping and it may be tough to quantify the range of each but I'm sure you'd find the same. But I would contest that sizing is just as tough for men, especially with limited range. I'm a medium sized guy and can never find stock of anything. The same goes for shoes. I've successfully found a single brand of jeans that makes a suitable cut for me.
/r/MensRights01/07/21 12:12 PM
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Y'know, if Gillette wanted to, they could use their Venus brand to support their Gillette Men's messages. Anyway, are we really reliant on corporate advertising to be championing any sort of worthwhile message? Do you really mean to tell me we believe what's said in ads as being morally correct or what gets said in them is that important? More important than our own moral foundations derived from deep self enquiry, religion or solid parenting and upbringing? TV and ads have replaced our religiou…
/r/MensRights03/05/21 01:14 PM
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