It is the woman who decides to give access. She is a strong independent creature who has complete control over her body. She knew letting a man do this could cause a child but she decided to take on that responsibility. Completely her fault.
Anytime a married guy asks me if I'm married , I always say "no way, I'm too smart for that". You can see it in their eyes, that they envy me. They never have anything to say.
The normal thing to do at the movies is watch a movie. The normal thing to do at a frat party is to get drunk and fuck. You are not making a valid case.