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RamboGunsBlazin/r/askMRP13/03/21 04:29 PM
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In this case, I think it was horny, tired and a little drunk. I do like the idea of tracking anger as a diagnostic tool, though. I will definitely use that in the future.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/21 07:51 PM
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I regret it because I don't believe a HVM should have to resort to voicing this type of thing. It's definitely true, but I should not have hinted at Dread Level 10. I'm not certain why the remainder of the weekend played out well, but I would suspect it stemmed from resetting like the comment didn't happen, and still being that fun, energetic guy I want to be. If I could redo it, I would not have made the comment I did.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/21 03:33 AM
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After reading it back, I can certainly see why you think that. After a night of being the man I want to be all the time, I was mad at myself for not maintaining OI, though. After 2 weeks of no action, I find OI much harder.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/21 03:28 AM
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OYS #18 Stats: 35, wife 34, daughter 4, son 2, 5'9", 172lbs, 13% (Navy) Read: The Rational Male: Year One, NMMNG, MMSLP, MAP, WISNIFG Currently Reading (listening): TWOTSM-70% Lift: FSQ 185lbsx1, BP 175lbsx1, DL 265lbsx1, OHP 115lbsx1 (Last set of 5/3/1 - Deload) Reflections On The Week: I was part of a wedding this weekend. Long story short, there was some drama and uncertainty around reception events due to the groom drinking too much the night before. There were obvious moments with leadershi…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 06:12 PM
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OYS #17 Stats: 35, wife 34, daughter 4, son 2, 5'9", 174lbs, 14% (Navy) Read: The Rational Male: Year One, NMMNG, MMSLP, MAP, WISNIFG Currently Reading: TWOTSM-15% Lift: FSQ 175lbsx5, BP 165lbsx5, DL 255 lbsx5, OHP 110lbsx5 (Last set of 5/3/1) Reflections On The Week: I will be doing more driving from now on so I've switched to the audio version of TWOTSM. As I listen and digest I've realized that I am not living at my edge. I need to explore how to live with passion. Fear and saftey have dictat…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 12:00 PM
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Thank you
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/21 08:59 PM
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Maybe. How does one respond to a shitty comfort test? I would think it's different than a comfort test given the tone. If I had provided comfort in that moment I would have been pulled entirely into her frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/21 11:38 AM
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I agree but unfortunately it has been easier said than done with changing this mentality. It might just be a bad week but I'll keep experimenting.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/21 11:33 PM
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Thank you for the heads up, I will definitely keep this in mind as time goes on.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/21 04:11 PM
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OYS #16 Stats: 35, wife 34, daughter 4, son 2, 5'9", 174lbs, 14% (Navy) Read: The Rational Male: Year One, NMMNG, MMSLP, MAP, WISNIFG Currently Reading: TWOTSM-15% Lift: FSQ 165lbsx5, BP 155lbsx5, DL 240 lbsx5, OHP 110lbsx5 (Last set of 5/3/1) Reflections On The Week: After noticing some progress last week, I had hoped to carry some of that momentum into this week. As soon as the work week hit, my wife went extremely anxious, and I know it was all my fault. My paperbag frame could not handle the…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/21 12:19 PM
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I can see that. My thought was more around not focusing on initiation, but you're right, when I don't get laid I can't think straight. I took a long hiatus from jerking off but unfortunately had to start again last week. I find that when it's been longer than a week, that's when I feel more anger/resentment, covert contracts/owed sex, and initiate like my name would suggest. Since I cannot be OI when I haven't gotten any in a while, this is my temporary fix, but I agree, the long term goal is to…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/21 11:43 PM
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OYS #14 Stats: 35, wife 34, daughter 4, son 2, 5'9", 175lbs, 14% (Navy) Read: The Rational Male: Year One, NMMNG, MMSLP, MAP, WISNIFG Currently Reading: TWOTSM-15% Lift: FSQ 165lbsx5, BP 155lbsx5, DL 240 lbsx5, OHP 110lbsx5 (Last set of 5/3/1) Reflections On The Week: I previously changed what I wanted from my life due to fear. My own fear along with the fear from others. I am going to lean into the fear and do what I can to get started now. I've wanted to invest in real estate for 5+ years but …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/21 01:43 PM
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OYS #12 Stats: 35, wife 34, daughter 4, son 2, 5'9", 173lbs, 13% (Navy) Read: The Rational Male: Year One, NMMNG, MMSLP, MAP, WISNIFG Currently Reading: TWOTSM-15% Lift: FSQ 165lbsx5, BP 155lbsx5, DL 240 lbsx5, OHP 110lbsx5 (Last set of 5/3/1) Reflections On The Week: Due to some helpful feedback from my last OYS, I have a better understanding of why my sex life is still fucked. If I attempt to initiate from my frame, it's way too aggressive and validation seeking. Instead of DGAF, I'm completel…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/21 07:54 PM
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This is such an obvious covert contract, I can't believe I did not realize it. When you put it so simply it sounds retarded that I can't just have fun with my wife without expecting sex. I think seeing it this way will help me to remove that expectation. I will work on it. All of those shit-tests apply here, especially 1 and 3. A month ago I made a big effort to work on game. This work seemed to cause a shift in my mindset, slightly more towards abundance. I think that shift resulted in me passi…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/21 05:10 PM
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You nailed it. I went through a phase of initiating too aggressive like a fucking retard. I wasn't initiating from desire, it was all about outcome. So then naturally, she knew that and no sex. When I backed off on initiating, I started getting laid 1-2 times a week, but 100% inside her frame. Reflecting back, I think the kitchen KINO was truly from a place of desire with no reliance on outcome. If we're in kitchen 6 times during the day, I'm not hung up on if she reciprocates. It's just a slap …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/21 04:48 PM
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As I reread my response I cringed. I see what you mean about being entirely in her frame. I will try what you suggested instead. After reading your description a few times I suspect that is what I'm doing naturally without thinking about it, when those kitchen makeout sessions happen. I will reread how to communicate without words and work on internalizing.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 01:07 PM
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I will keep that in mind and be aware if I am using the kids as an excuse as this situation develops. As you said, there are added challenges with having small children. I have not successfully navigated around them yet, so that was what I planned to think about.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 12:46 PM
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I'll try this one and see if I owe you a ten spot.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 01:07 AM
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Very true. I will think on how to make this work with the little ones.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 01:05 AM
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I think that's part of the problem. I am still figuring out what actually generated feelz. It seems random at this point so if it happens, I go with it. I much more work to be done here.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 01:05 AM
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OYS #12 Stats: 35, wife 34, daughter 4, son 2, 5'9", 177lbs, 14% (Navy) Read: The Rational Male: Year One, NMMNG, MMSLP, MAP, WISNIFG Currently Reading: TWOTSM-15% Lift: FSQ 165lbsx5, BP 155lbsx5, DL 240 lbsx5, OHP 110lbsx5 (Last set of 5/3/1) Reflections On The Month: After grinding out 50+ hour weeks of school work on top of my full time job, I finally finished. After wearing myself down this way for a few months, my whole family then got COVID, which put me out for a few weeks. I'm now finall…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/21 11:44 AM
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This is an excellent comment. The way you breakout and explain each section is very helpful to identify flawed mental models.
/r/askMRP10/07/21 12:13 PM
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I definitely feel less angry. Working towards having options has helped. I still have a ton if work to do but I am starting to believe I will truly be fine if I stay or go.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/21 07:37 PM
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OYS #11 Stats: 35, wife 34, daughter 4, son 2, 5'9", 181lbs, 17% (Navy) Read: The Rational Male: Year One, NMMNG, MMSLP, MAP, WISNIFG Currently Reading: TWOTSM-15% Lift: FSQ 190lbsx5, BP 170lbsx5, DL 265 lbsx5, OHP 120lbsx5 (Last set of 5/3/1) Reflections On The Week: Over the last few weeks I shift my focus over to finishing my capstone so I can be done with grad school. I was still able to progress my game outside the home and was able to have some really positive interactions with some random…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/21 01:35 PM
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I can see why you would think that, especially based on the BJJ comment. I left out a critical detail. The validation I get from BJJ is not my motivation for doing it. It's a byproduct of developing skill at something I enjoy and helping others learn it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/21 11:52 AM
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A lot here on your reactions to her and sex/lack thereof. This is dancing monkey behavior. I can see why you think that, now. I focused on sex/initiating and my wife's reactions rather than my thoughts on the situation. It should have been written as: "Last night was the first time I did not get a hard no when initiating sex passed a LMR. I found it odd."
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 01:23 AM
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OYS #10 Stats: 35, wife 34, daughter 4, son 1, 5'9", 182lbs, 17% (Navy) Read: The Rational Male: Year One, NMMNG, MMSLP, MAP, WISNIFG Currently Reading: TWOTSM-15% Lift: FSQ 195lbsx5, BP 175lbsx5, DL 275 lbsx5, OHP 125lbsx4 (5/3/1 Deload/Test) Reflections On The Week: Lifted 4 times this week and also went to BJJ 4 times. I hit some recent PRs on lifts and feel my cardio coming back in Jitz. Weight has been pretty consistent but I'm slowly chipping away at BF, which is the goal. Something that c…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/21 12:05 PM
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OYS #9 Stats: 35, wife 34, daughter 4, son 1, 5'9", 182lbs, 18% (Navy) Read: The Rational Male: Year One, NMMNG, MMSLP, MAP Currently Reading: WISNIFG (re-read) Lift: FSQ 190lbsx7, BP 170lbsx7, DL 265 lbsx7, OHP 120lbsx4 (Last sets of 5/3/1) Reflections On The Week: Last week u/HornsOfApathy and u/JCX_Pulse called me out for being a pussy and not using STFU correctly while my wife grieved. I was able to correct and provided comfort without saying too much. Things turned around and after only a f…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/21 08:09 PM
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I think it depends on the situation, but I will maintain awareness on this in the future. For the most part I would say I'm an optimist that takes things for what they are and accepts people as they are but I'm sure as I pay attention to this moving forward I will find out where this is not true.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/21 08:44 PM
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Agreed, I've swung too far the other way. I still say too much in these types of situations but that is not the kind of captain I want to be. I will work to find the balance moving forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/21 08:39 PM
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Exactly, I've had a long history of verbal diahrea, especially in highly emotional situations. I've definitely over corrected now, I will recalibrate.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/21 08:28 PM
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OYS #8 Stats: 35, wife 34, daughter 4, son 1, 5'9", 182lbs, 18% (Navy) Read: The Rational Male: Year One, NMMNG, MMSLP, MAP Currently Reading: WISNIFG (re-read) Lift: FSQ 165lbsx5, BP 155lbsx5, OHP 110lbsx5, DL 240 lbsx5 (Last sets of 5/3/1, 5 PROs) Reflections On The Week: I haven't mentioned lifting a while but progress has been good. Having iron in the basement and working from home makes it easy to stay consistent, so I have not missed a lift. I started 5/3/1 again a few months ago, with lig…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/21 11:55 AM
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I may suck at self awareness but at least I had enough to pick the right UN.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 12:36 PM
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OYS #7 Stats: 35, wife 34, daughter 4, son 1, 5'9", 182lbs, 18% (Navy) Read: The Rational Male: Year One, NMMNG, MMSLP, MAP Currently Reading: WISNIFG (re-read) Lift: FSQ 175lbsx7, BP 160lbsx7, OHP 120lbsx7, DL 250 lbsx7 (Last sets of 5/3/1) Reflections On The Week: Prior to last week I did not post for a few weeks. This was for a few reasons but partly came down to the fact that things were going well. I had stopped being so unattractive, STFU more regularly, and was finally passing shit tests.…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/21 11:31 AM
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That is an excellent question. I've taken the lead on much of the nightly routine (dinner, play, baths, etc.). I do the majority of commuting to and from daycare. I would like to lead on more fun activities for the kids but want to wait until the they are a bit older. I've been the lead on finances from day 1. These are my main priorities for the family right now, but I will keep this question in mind moving forward. The sleep issue was the last thing that needed immediate attention. Your questi…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/21 01:38 AM
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That makes sense, thanks for the feedback. Reflection over the last few weeks has shown me how much that conditioning really effects me. Before that I was in denial on how fucked up I am. At least it's starting to click.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/21 02:05 PM
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I am currently rereading WISNIFG now and should also probably reread NMMNG after that. I obviously did not internalize this core concept the first time around, so I will focus on it more this time. Thanks again for the feedback.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/21 03:10 PM
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Thanks for the input. The way you phrased this really resonated with me on how dumb it is to wait to initiate. I'll keep working on the reaction. "Selfish - lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one's own personal profit or pleasure. When I read that I think negatively about it. I don't want to be selfish based on that definition.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/21 01:30 PM
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OYS #6 Stats: 35, wife 34, daughter 4, son 1, 5'9", 179lbs, 18% (Navy) Read: The Rational Male: Year One, NMMNG, MMSLP, MAP Currently Reading: WISNIFG (re-read) Lift: FSQ 180lbsx1, BP 175lbsx1, OHP 120lbsx1, DL 265 lbsx1 (Last sets of 5/3/1 - Deload) ​ Reflections On The Week: After a lot of reading in the r/marriedredpill and r/askMRP posts and field reports, I've come to a few realizations. I was flying through books to add them to my OYS list. I was trying to write what I thought should be sa…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 12:18 PM
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OYS #5 Stats: 35, wife 34, daughter 3, son 1, 5'9", 178lbs, 18% (Navy) Read: The Rational Male: Year One, NMMNG, MMSLP, MAP Currently Reading: WISNIFG (30%) Lift: FSQ 180lbsx1, BP 170lbsx1, OHP 115lbsx1, DL 260 lbsx1 (Last sets of 5/3/1 - Deload) ​ Reflections On The Week: Started using Red-Curious's Deconditioning the wife who is disgusted at your touch last week. Broke my 5.5 week dry pee pee streak. Immediately wanted to start to initiate two days later. Decided to use the big head instead of…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 11:58 AM
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OYS #4 Stats: 35, wife 34, daughter 3, son 1, 5'9", 182lbs, 19% (Navy) Read: The Rational Male: Year One Currently Reading: NMMNG, MMSLP, MAP, WISNIFG (30%), MAP (75%) Lift: FSQ 165lbsx5, BP 160lbsx5, OHP 110lbsx5, DL 245lbsx5 (Last sets of 5/3/1) ​ Reflections On The Week: I said I would do a certain chore that I hate to do, over the weekend, then realized I've done it the last two times. Decided I didn't want to do it right before I was supposed to, in my head it seemed like a way to hold fram…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/21 11:23 AM
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OYS #3 Stats: 35, wife 34, daughter 3, son 1, 5'9", 182lbs, 19% (Navy) Read: The Rational Male: Year One, NMMNG, MMSLP Currently Reading: WISNIFG (30%), MAP (30%) Lift: FSQ 160lbsx5, BP 155lbsx5, OHP 105lbsx5, DL 230lbsx5 (Last sets of 5/3/1) Reflections On The Week: I was very unattractive this week. I snapped at my wife in front of my kids. So much for STFU. It's been a month of no sex due to a similar incident last month and after being unattractive again I suspect at least another month or t…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/21 12:41 PM
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I will check that out, thanks!
/r/askMRP22/03/21 04:16 PM
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I questioned a lot of what he wrote about beta qualities based on what read here and listened to on YT.
/r/askMRP22/03/21 12:26 PM
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I will look into that, thank you.
/r/askMRP18/03/21 06:16 PM
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Not how it was meant to sound. It was pure curiosity but I now realize my thoughts on dread were all wrong.
/r/askMRP18/03/21 06:16 PM
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On it, prioritizing being high value. I will worry about dread when I am closer.
/r/askMRP18/03/21 06:15 PM
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So focus on being high value and STFU?
/r/askMRP18/03/21 06:14 PM
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A great analogy, thank you. I now have a better understanding of how dread works.
/r/askMRP18/03/21 06:13 PM
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I realize I was thinking about dread incorrectly. Thank you for the response.
/r/askMRP18/03/21 06:12 PM
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This was very helpful, thank you.
/r/askMRP18/03/21 06:11 PM
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Definitely working to make my life better, this was more out of curiosity. If an older but still attractive neighbor flirts with me in front of my wife, will it still cause dread? If my wife thinks she is more attractive than the neighbor will there be no effect?
/r/askMRP13/03/21 08:17 PM
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MRP Beginner’s Guide for the Career Beta You will not last eating 1,200 or even 1,700 calories a day. You will burn out and not be able to maintain this, eventually. I suggest reading up on reverse dieting for long term weight loss and maintenance. Layne Norton (Biolayne) has some great information on this.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/21 05:20 PM
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OYS #2 Reality Check Stats: 35, wife 34, daughter 3, son 1, 5'9", 183lbs, 20% (Navy) Read: The Rational Male: Year One Currently Reading: NMMNG (65%), WISNIFG (15%) Lift: FSQ 150lbsx5, BP 150lbsx5, OHP 100lbsx5, DL 220lbsx5 (Last sets of 5/3/1) Reflections On The Week: I had trouble engaging with WISNIFG so I put a pause on it and am almost done with NMMNG. Will pick it back up after. Finding some of the guidance in NMMNG to contradict MRP. Specifically, on sharing thoughts, feelings and emotion…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/21 04:49 PM
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That makes sense, thanks for the feedback! I don't think I painted a complete, accurate picture, though. Since finding RP, The Rational Male, etc. I started acting like I had a pair of balls again. And magically my wife responded positively. I had sex this week by initiating and not asking for the first time in a very long time. I stopped acting needy towards her. I've set the pace this week and she has been asking me for input and direction. It seriously seemed like magic. Start acting like a m…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/21 12:26 AM
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OYS #1 Initiate Unplug ​ Stats: 35, wife 34, daughter 3, son 1, 5'9", 185lbs, 22% (Navy) ​ Read: The Rational Male: Year One ​ Currently Reading: WISNIFG ​ Lift: FSQ 140lbsx5, BP 140lbsx5, OHP 95lbsx5, DL 210lbsx5 (Last sets of 5/3/1) ​ Introduction: I am new here and I am thankful to have found MRP before things got too bad. Buying into 'happy wife, happy life' caused me to slowly creep into beta behavior. The changes were so small and incremental, motivated by life improvement due to BP condit…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/21 02:31 PM
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