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I dont often hear men talk down on sex workers tho? Not unless the topic is brought up like right now, and even then they mostly say that they would use them but not be with them, whats the problem there? If by disrespect you mean how they talk about them online then yeah i guess thats true, and i figure its the same thing as when people talk shit about anyone else online, because its online and not directly at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:17 AM
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I always figured it was more like "i support sex work, and get that bag gurl...but my man better not watch that shit" so like they have no issues with the industry women but do take an issue if their men consume it idk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:06 AM
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I have to disagree, the whole thing about dating, especially at a young age, is having confidence and optimism, sure as you get older that fades, but thats why most people meet someone in their school years, if you take that away then what will be left? Its like telling your child he can only become a janitor or mcdonalds worker, are those bad jobs? No i dont think any job is bad, but obviously you want to motivate and help your kids dream big, when they grow up they will of course be let down i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:59 PM
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I started "dating" in 6th grade, but giving up in middle school? Thats nuts, i think if by 12th grade you still havent had any luck then yeah, thats a good indicator, at least back when i was in high school, im 31 years old now, so back then social media wasnt so huge yet. I still believe HS is the biggest indicator tho, by college most people already had some experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:53 PM
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Lol bro life goes on so fast, honestly i loved my time in school but i couldnt wait to get out, totally forget sometimes, its crazy how much things change, i mean i have two kids already
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:55 PM
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My wife is a traditional woman, the thing you dont understand is that restrictions to someone like you is just a given to my wife. For example, not allowed to go out with girlfriends alone? To you it may seem like control, to my wife its "well i wouldnt want to go out without you anyway, if you dont go i dont go" basically saying if her friends dont invite me shes not going Not working? To you its control, to my wife its more time to do the things she loves, raising our children, taking care of …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:26 AM
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I think so, when did tinder really take off? I know it was after my time in school for sure, but i had been dating my wife since 2012 so, im 31 now anyway, yeah man who knows, when i was in the dating game it never felt that way to me, i thought it was easy to talk to and go out with girls, but because it was before dating apps and people having options go from whoever is in your classroom to a 10 mile radius with social media, i might have the wrong idea. Im not saying you are wrong, if anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:13 AM
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Again i dont think thats true, like i said before people are looking for real relationships, a lot of the time sure women have an easier time getting into a relationship, but that doesnt mean its a real one, would you consider a month or two month fling a relationship? I dont think so. I think its just the fact that we are looking for vastly different things right now, some women want a 6 ft tall man with 100k and 6 pack sure, but some women want to be career independent, only fans model, stay a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:42 PM
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I will agree that for women getting sex is extremely easy, any woman can walk into a bar, say she wants a hook up, and at least 1 guy will take up the offer. But i think relationships are very different in that regard, and thats what most people are looking for, i think both men and women struggle with this because the genders are extremely divided right now, not just politically, but on what they expect out of a partnership, ive noticed that. Anyway, i dont think youre right on that regard, sou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:11 PM
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Idk man i still make love to my wifey the same wat i did hen i first met her, once a day minimum, idc that we have had 2 kids and she doesnt look the same, to me its about the connection and how well we know eachother after 14 years together. Once we broke up for like a month on like year 6? Before we got married, and i slept with a woman who was way more attractive, and i didnt even enjoy it half as much, so i think when you love someone for real it just feels different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:08 PM
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I get that, but that is a personal choice, and choosing one or the other doesnt make you a bad person, it simply means we have different values, the guy from the post is not an asshole for not looking out for the kid, he could be doing it a bit less obvious, but if he doesnt feel like it either for money reasons or personal, thats his choice, he has no obligation to care for the kids feelings, not if he doesnt want to
/r/MensRights11/08/25 03:24 PM
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Lol i was hearing you out till that last bit. How is me not seeing people outside my blood as important make me a bad father? I love my children, they are everything to me, and i would never be able to see any kid that is not my own the same. Can i be nice? Sure, would i pretend they matter as much? Nope, and im a pretty damn good father and husband, so gtfo with that bullshit
/r/MensRights11/08/25 02:58 PM
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This is why my wife and i have a golden rule in our marriage, we cannot say no to sex ever, doesnt matter if we are mad, sad, not in the mood or anything like that, we own eachothers bodies and its worked out great, we have sex a minimum of 5 times a week after 13 years. In a case like mine then yeah porn should not be used, but if youre not satisfying your partner you cant really be mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:36 AM
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Well i can respect it, it only bothers me when those same women go on to complain on how the asshole hurt her/single mom and all that stuff, if you own up to it i respect it 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:02 AM
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Is it cheating? Idk girls seem to talk highly about dating multiple men in the talking stages, sorry but if im not getting it from you im getting somewhere else, thinking a guy should wait and calling it cheating if they dont is stupid. If theres no food in the house you go get take out, same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:37 AM
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Dont say the dating part, thats the part that upsets a ton of red pills lol "she will have fun sex with the assholes but at least she only dates nice guys"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:32 AM
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I mean i dont have any close friends irl but have a ton of online friends, ive never had anyone call that a red flag before, then again ive been with the wife for like 13 years so i guess its different now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:12 PM
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True, i used to sleep with a married woman and it really freaked me out how shed be giving me top and 20 mins later kiss her husband in the mouth infront of me when he came to pick her up. I didnt ever want to get married after seeing that but eventually you just learn that its not “married” people who cheat, its just bad people who happened to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:45 AM
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Being a virgin is not a red flag itself, i think people just see it as one because men who are still virgins after college will usually have a reason for it thats a turn off, maybe he doesnt have good hygiene? Maybe hes socially inept? Maybe he spends 15 hours a day in wow (love me some dragonflight lol) My point is that if youre a virgin but go to the gym, good hygiene and can atleast talk to girls, then your virginity will not be seen as a red flag, hell most people will assume you are not one…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:55 AM
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Same reason why women will ask whats your income but men wont? Idk why this questions keeps being brought up, men and women have different requirements when it comes to dating. My wife knew i had bodies and didnt care, i sure as hell did that she didnt tho
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:13 PM
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Literally freedom, you cant put a price on it, i have been with my wife for 11 years now, love her to death and would never change it, but i sometimes daydream of things i could do if it wasnt for her. Want to travel? Better pay for kids and her so 3x more money. Want to buy that expensive yet unecessary thing? Got to check if everyone is taken care of. Things like these are something plenty of men and women take for granted
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:19 AM
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I think its just another shift, when trump got into office a lot of independent or people in the middle were pushed to the left because trump had good ideas but cant shut the fuck up. Now with the whole LGBTQ being pushed down peoples throats, and seeing the pushback its finally getting like with Dylan and bud light, or even Nickmercs saying “leave the kids alone” being called hate speech, those same people especially parents are starting to lean right. My wife and i were both in the middle for …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:51 PM
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Again, it has nothing to do with what your beliefs and shit are, just like short men shouldnt get mad at women not wanting them, promiscious women shouldnt get upset when a man doesnt want to settle with them, its your preference. Its not even being about being a hypocrite. Anyone who shames someones preferences like height, weight, penis size, breast size or body count is an asshole, let women want their tall kings, let men want their traditional women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:52 PM
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This is like calling a short girl a hypocrite for wanting a tall man, it has nothing to do with your beliefs or what you feel is morally right or wrong, its about what you want and thats it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:17 PM
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You cant base most men on tate, im red pilled as fuck and I dont agree with a lot of the nonsense he says. However based on my experience theres nothing wrong with being a player and wanting a virgin to marry, the problem is you better be happy being alone because its likely not gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:05 PM
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I enjoyed the casual sex with women quite a lot before marriage, theres a difference between wanting to hook up with a promiscious woman than to SETTLE down with one. Personally I believed since very young that i wouldnt get married ever because i thought the whole “old” marriage thing was fiction and thats okay, i dont think these women are wrong, its just i dont want to be with them long term, i thank god i somehow lucked out and found a traditional wife with no bodies at the end, and i cant t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:03 PM
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Yeah that's my mistake, I didn't get the question until i re read it, read the bottom of my edit for my answer on that. Don't be discouraged, I doubt it's your looks, I did very well before but never got the hang of it in bars, the dynamic changes when you're in there or a club, not the place i'd recommend finding a long term partner anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:35 PM
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Probably a waste of time based on your responses, you're not looking for a debate you've clearly made up your mind and just want someone to agree with your views. When I was a single man I'd have sex around once every other week when I was in high school (not impressive when i'd have sex with the same girls in rotation basically) then in college it dropped down to like once or twice a month if i was lucky, it helps a lot when you go out to parties and socialize. I didn't get to experience how th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:22 PM
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LOL RIGHT OF COURSE LMAO XD!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:04 PM
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I remember my mom always telling me that girls didn't care about looks and only wanted you to be a good guy, i sort of believed her at the beggining, I was nice (doormat) most of my school life up until my mom put me in a military school for like 2 years. You really had to be an asshole there to not get bullied, and it was a co ed place so girls were just as savage as guys, this school was in mexico btw, hardly any rules. Anyway i get back to regular school for my high school years and I kept ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 01:34 PM
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For sex? Sure For a relationship? Hell no, if im exclusive to you why would i accept you not being the same towards me? To me other men having access to looking at you naked is the same as cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:30 PM
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I’d respect them for sure, but no dating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:33 PM
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You're missing the point, if you don't do this he will never let it go, and clearly you don't love him if you cant go through this for him
/r/MensRights05/03/23 12:21 PM
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By then it's too late, he has to take care of them now.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 11:47 AM
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I think he's only treating her like this because 1. She obviously did not tell him her past, which i'm almost sure is pretty promiscuous (nothing wrong with this if your partner knows, not telling him is like trying to hide something) 2. She's saying no, i know a lot of women must do this, but this to me just seems selfish, considering that it's a simple test and honestly having your support from the get go would probably just fix it right there.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 11:44 AM
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If my wife would of left me for testing our kids then I would be glad to let her do so, if she doesn't care about my feelings why should i stay with her? She wasn't thrilled about it, but when i took the time to explain it to her she understood.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 11:42 AM
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I'm pretty sure you hid this from him then, he couldn't have known before or else he would not overreact, i think the problem here is your sister thought your husband knew your past when he didn't and now you're dealing with the consequences of not being open to him about it.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 11:40 AM
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Yes it should be mandatory, because once you sign those papers you have to pay for that child regardless if hes yours or not, not to mention the trauma it would cause a man to know th child hes been loving for years is not his own. I think he's wrong for not asking it since the beggining, i mean did you hide your romantic history from him? it kind of sounds like you did, why is he just finding out about it now? Anyway he's wrong for not doing this at the start, and you're wrong for not caring ab…
/r/MensRights05/03/23 11:38 AM
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People will always regret the things they didnt do, its just human nature. I dont think people are wrong for giving up because the game is just unfair, im married now but i know for a fact i wouldnt be dating again if i got divorced, i know some of these things can be exagerated but a lot of it is facts, the game is unfair atm, why should one gender put in more work than the other? Why is one seen as the prize? Its no wonder there is so much resentment
/r/MensRights28/02/23 03:09 PM
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So with all this evidence/double standards that are being showed all the time you still think its in peoples head?
/r/MensRights28/02/23 02:47 PM
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I never said she was not attractive to me, i said there was obviously better looking girls i had a chance with, just like im sure she had better looking guys going for her than me, but i factored in her personality which is why we are still together. Looks aint shit when it comes to LTRs, anyone who thinks otherwise is dumb, looks fade, it shouldnt be a priority
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:33 PM
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“Hey babe…youre really pretty, but what makes you the perfect woman for me is whats inside” Its funny for people who like to pretend whats outside is whats most important
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:14 PM
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Lol what? Im being realistic and yes ive told her these things, my point was that the inside matters a hell of alot more than the outside, been together 11 years now
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:31 PM
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I married my wife who was a virgin before me, she wasnt the prettiest girl physically i could of been with, but her attitude, no past, and her sweet loving nature makes her the most beautiful woman i could of ended up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:51 AM
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Define “date down” because my wife is not the best looking girl ive been with, not even close. But her personality, values and attitude? They are pure gold and are worth much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:28 AM
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I’m pretty sure the only reason i could do that was because dating wasnt so hard as it is now. I dated around 12-14 years ago, there was no online dating like tinder where you can just swipe on potential partners, only competition you had was the people around you in school for example. Another thing is that, unless it was always the case, girl standards have gone pretty high up, i didnt even need to have money back then. And the nail in the coffin is that im shit at texting, i always used facia…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:55 PM
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What i meant on my case is that i was a player, i slept with anyone who gave me the time of day back then because i was popular with girls. Whats insane is that i treated them all like shit, my wife was an A student and didnt date anyone, she had genuine good guys asking her out and shed decline. But then she dates me after knowing all of this and even that i messed with her friend, how do you explain that? This story usually ends up with me dumping her after getting what i wanted, ended up marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:49 PM
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Well im just basing it off my experience, my wife is a red pill dream, and she was not dating until she met me because she was focused on school. She knew i was a man hoe, she knew i played around with her friend, she had really good guys like her asking her out, and she still chose me. I mean yeah i married her, but usually this story ends in me dumping her after taking what i wanted, only difference is i actually fell for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:46 PM
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I mean i think the fact that girls really and honestly go for the assholes must be really shitty. I feel bad for my younger brother as he is reaching 20 and hasnt had a single girlfriend even tho hes not bad looking or anything, its just that the dating market now is so shit so i feel for him. Sucks too because he always says he wants the family man life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:04 PM
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A lot of people who get married go into it without knowing the risks, most men dont even know about these kinds of things until after they have been burned. I’m happily married but i didnt know any of this when i decided to do it, kind of glad too because i’m not so sure i would have done so now with all this information.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 10:21 AM
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My wife choosing me over the good guys. Back in high school there was a bunch of really good dudes (not nice guys) that were really interested in her, and she would offer friendship but no romance because she was focused on school. Then i come in, people know im an asshole, i was friends with her guy friends and they knew i used girls for fun (not models ofc just w.e girl i could) i start noticing her because she says no to everyone and i start trying to get her. Literally all her friends told h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:37 PM
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Something ive wondered is why is porn legal but not prostitution, the ladies in both scenarios are getting paid to have sex right? Wonder whats the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:29 AM
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Thank you for noticing, you sound like a damn fine woman
/r/MensRights20/10/22 09:12 AM
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Like i said, there's idiots in every community, don't forget that not all MRAs are in this sub reddit, hell most dont even know this place exists, dont let a few ruin your perception of an entire community
/r/MensRights20/10/22 08:35 AM
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you'll find assholes in any community, you're just focusing on the negative. There's MRA's that are assholes, there's LGBTQ that are assholes, fem, red pill, blue pill, blah blah. tell me one community that doesn't have them? if you let them influence what you like or dont like you let them win.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 07:58 AM
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Fuck no lol, shes such a good woman, im just saying it doesnt matter what you have in life, it always seems greener on the other side
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:43 AM
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Hmm when i was dating id do split, but to be honest when i was really interested id pay for the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:22 PM
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Thank you bot :D
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:43 PM
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Its really not that complicated for men really, just respect him and be nice, loving and as non confrontational as you can be when it comes to small issues, thats not to say you should be a doormat, but when it comes to problems voice them in a nice way, a good man will appreciate this much morenthan screaming like if you were a man. Youre supposed to be his peace at home, his support and his best friend. My wife did all of this for me when we were dating and trust me when i say shes the most be…
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:42 PM
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Oh i can see that for sure, im not saying you have it easy or that its good or not, im just saying most people would rather have something than nothing. Sex is validation after all, no matter how crappy the person giving it to you is, it is still validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:22 AM
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The grass is always greener, i love my wife with a passion but i wont deny sometimes i feel jealous of single guys and the opportunities they have. Like for example ive always wanted to live in a loft somewhere with tons of snow, been a dream of mine since i was growing up in texas, i have the money to literally move to any state and do it….but i cant, i cant uproot my family on a whim. Now ill probably get a house soon and that will be the end of my dream, worst of all in texas where the sun ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:16 AM
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I agree with you casual sex has nothing on companionship, but at the very least its something you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:11 AM
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I havent any studies or anything but my guess would be because women even if single know they can get a relationship if not at least casual sex if they really wanted to. Most men probably dont have that chance so they end up having negative emotions or thoughts. I was happy as hell when single tho so who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:08 AM
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Lol i have 2 kids and a wife buddy i know what responsibility is, but honestly women like you scare me, so blind to see how much poison you have for men that you cant see youre literally in favor of inequality, which kills this whole “feminism is for equality” argument that movement has going. And i said pregnant for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:21 PM
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So in your situation the woman is just as guilty as the man, she chose to bring the baby into a fucked up situation. It is barberic to demand men to have a procedure they dont need, how would you feel if the same thing was said about women? Lol seriously most of you are hella misandrist and pretend youre not. You dont advocate equality thats for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:08 PM
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Yeah no if a condom breaks, if the birth control fails, if for whatever reason pregnancy happens and either party doesnt want the baby both should have a way out, women have abortion, if you truly believe in equality youd agree that men should also have a way out, or you a misandrist, its okay if you are tbh just stop pretending youre not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:05 PM
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Yeah i mean its all about the situation right? If i divorced my wife shed only have been with me, and any dumb dumb that would reject her for not being a virgin would miss out on an amazing woman. At the end of the day its about character, personally i love the fact my wife had the kind of upbringing where she is old school, it makes me connect with her better, but i understand men who would be turned off by a “prude” like her. All i know is i dont miss casual sex at all, and im grateful my wife…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:40 AM
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I was very promiscious before my wife and she was a virgin, we are still together 10 years later, about to be 11, it has nothing to do with body count or w.e, its about the persons character.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:05 AM
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Lol what? So if we both agree her body her choice how the hell can you disagree with his money his choice? Dude either you support everyone having an equal say in the matter or youre not a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:34 AM
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It actually is tough shit when the system then goes on to force the man to accept whatever decision the woman makes. This subject ticks me off because you seem to think the reverse never happens, theres men out there who want to keep the baby and they have no way of doing it if the woman says no, its over. But if a woman wants it and the man doesnt? Its still over because he has no voice or say, you say it takes 2 to tango when it comes to making the baby, but when it comes decisions and all tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:54 AM
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She asked which one would i prefer being, a woman or give up 18 years of income, i said woman. I didnt say women dont work, i didnt say they dont have it hard (just like men do) im saying that in this particular situation id choose to be the woman who has a choice to have the baby or not, rather than the man who has no choice at all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:52 AM
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Uh no, how are you going to advocate my body my right but then say that about men? Do their bodies not matter? What the other commenter said sounds logical, thats just barbaric
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:50 AM
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As long as theres no way for that agreement to be canceled this sounds like a solid idea so i agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:49 AM
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Id choose to be a woman actually, sis youre literally using your biology, something no man had to do with, with a man losing his hard earned money for 18 YEARS. In this day and age yeah id be a woman any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:58 AM
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Im married now but i actually would have to say 4 in order of the most important first. Silly sense of humor (not afraid to act silly with eachother) we both have this Good Sex/chemistry (tons of people underestimate good sex, it can really hold people together) id say im ok here, but ofc it depends on who you ask These next 2 are important but i wouldnt mind if they would of been challenged by whoever im dating Marriage oriented/LTR (Applies to me yes) Traditional roles (My wife is a SAHM and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:55 AM
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Youre comparing your period to a man losing his income for up to 18 years? Lol my god.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:29 AM
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So then whats your solution? You seem so good at claiming this is an issue because of the kids, so how would you solve this obvious inequality? Unless of course you think its fine because its the man who is not equal here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:27 AM
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No it does not, it would make me a BAD person if i lied to them or otherwise said anything that was not real during the talking phase, i always made it clear what i was and what i looked for. I never made any woman who had a high N count less than, i simply did not see it going further then just dating for a while, i didnt tell these women id marry them relax. I understood that it is wrong to seek something im not, but its my choice and preference, if anything its up to the women to decide if sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:15 AM
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I dont know why its so hard to grasp that caring about N count is a personal preference just like caring about income or height, people shouldnt need to justify their preferences, if that means they are going to end up alone then thats on them. I had multiple partners before my wife, and yet i knew that i wanted a girl with low or no N count, it wasnt because of religion or anything, i just knew i wanted that, does that make me a bad person? No, because i knew my chances of it were low as hell. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:45 AM
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I believe 100% in equality in the genders for sure, I will support feminism for that and that only, once it became clear that wasnt their goal anymore they lost my support. Feminism is not about equality anymore, in fact men are now being taken advantege of in so many areas its insane, so for now i back up mens rights, if there ever comes a point when we want more than equality it will lose me as well.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 11:22 AM
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Its odd since id agree with this, but ive also seen women be given the world and still they cheat or leave. My uncle always made my aunt a priority in everything (i lived with them for years) i never saw him get complacent, and yet she cheated because she was bored. Im really just thinking its impossible for marriege to work in this generation honestly, and im saying this as a happily married man, i just want to enjoy my marriege until eventually something happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:20 AM
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I think people exagerate the number of women who actually have those insane stupid requirements, either that or its a case of the vocal minority. I can assure you most women dont have these silly requierements, they just dont go on social media to let people know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:38 PM
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Depends on the lady, my wife had no issues with me doing this for our 2 kids, i didnt sign anything till i got me a test
/r/MensRights02/10/22 01:51 PM
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I think texas allows you to challenge right away even if youre married, however the smart thing to do is not sign the birth certificate until you get a dna test
/r/MensRights02/10/22 04:12 AM
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Thats like asking why some people hate pizza and some dont, its just up to the people, i dont really think it says anything about their character.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:04 AM
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Its not up to you to decide whats weird or not, everyone has their likes dislikes and no need to justify it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:23 AM
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No, it's logical for men to marry someone they click with, not some pretty lady they have nothing in common with, sadly most people both men and women dont realize this until they are getting divorced wondering how the hell this happened. Looks will only take you so far, my wife and i are currently heading to 11 years together and our love is still strong, she wasnt the most attractive girl i was with, but i'm sure i'm not the hottest guy on earth either, it's not settling, it's being smart. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:52 PM
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never had this experience but i probably wouldnt care because if i'm already dating her, then she's not doing all that stupid crap to me, but if it did dip into our relationship i'd dump her asap.
/r/MensRights27/09/22 04:23 AM
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For casual sex it would probably be a younger more attractive woman, but for a relationship? It needs to be someone my age
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:33 PM
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Not being able to share your feelings as easily since we need to be strong
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:15 AM
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Uhh no, how would it be? Unless youre forcing someone into it, its not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:23 PM
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Id say its pretty common, but i dont go for that degrading shit, mostly rough and some naughty words and stuff and thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:52 PM
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Im here because i enjoy debate, and it so happens my wife and i have very different views from dating than others and i liked that challenged. I dont get anything out of it but my debate need fulfilled, i dont think any of us feel good about seeing single people struggle. If it matters we often discuss the popular threads over dinner or while driving.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:37 AM
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Before it used to be that talking to women you like as the boys gives a better success rate because you're less likely to fuck up by overthinking what to say, and you're more likely to come off suave. Now? my biggest advice would be to not let negative thoughts cloud your judgement, i know that the dating scene has changed, but if you go into every encounter thinking "Oh i'm not 6', i'm not muscular, i'm not in the 6 figure range she'll never like me, betabuxing" etc then you're way more likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:16 AM
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I don't think anyone needs to justify who they date, it's their fucking prerogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:13 AM
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You not living in the real world, karma? Good? Dude the world is ran by greed and negative shit, thats why life is so hard, what are you talking about? How many fucked up people live life in riches and pleasure? How many good people live and die poor? If youre gonna argue my points do it on the real world not whatever youre talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:09 PM
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I never said it was right, i said the truth, which is that women get to choose if they keep the baby or not even if the man refuses, imo neither should be able to opt out, but at the moment only women can do it without negatives, men dont get a say, and if the walk away the pay child support for 18 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:07 PM
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Lmao honestly same
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:44 AM
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we not talking about a perfect world here, both men and women opt out all the time. The problem here is when some women know the man they sleep with is not responsible, get pregnant, expect the man to “change” and keep the baby then go on to complain. I feel at that point it is the womens responsibility, especially if she chose to keep it after the man said he cant or wont do it. Only way this doesnt apply besides assault ofc, is if the man says he will help, then bails which sadly happes all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:57 PM
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Also would like it if talking to your partner on what they like wasnt seen as inexperienced in bed, i feel thats what experienced people should do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:08 AM
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I think the best way is talking to your partner, not every girl likes the same thing, for example i once had a girlfriend that hated having oral sex done on her, had a girl who only got off to being on top, had one who loved giving oral, had some that dont etc. I think talking to your partner is essencial here Edit - tho tbh i learned the most from a bi girl i hooked up with a few times, she taught me some stuff that was game changing so who knows tbh xd
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:07 AM
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My wife has no social life outside of her family, she had 2 best friends she had to cut off because they were toxic asf to her. Now i think about it neither do i tbh, and i used to be really social…i dont think friends on discord count do they? Cuz if so i have 2 friends! lol To answer the question i think its fine, sorta do wish we had like friends who are couples, but we dont really try, besides with all the horror stories you hear about those situations maybe its best we keep to ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:49 AM
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No gender should be the “catch” its all about finding someone who is right for you…thats it, never thought of my wife as the catch. Whats with these mentalities in the dating game?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:47 AM
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A whole year? Bro cant be x.x if it is then sorry to hear that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:38 AM
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Then shit dude idk what to tell you, all i know is id keep trying, you cant tell me theres not a woman on earth who would like you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:04 PM
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Then ill agree that if a girl does EVERYTHING you just mentioned then sure, blame life, but most girls dont go this far out. We used birth control and condoms, it didnt fail for 5 years, idk what to tell you at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:04 PM
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Work out doesnt mean buff, it means im not fat, muscular sure, but im not gigachad with huge biceps, thats what i meant. As for the confidence thing idk, i never had that mentality even when i was a skinny dude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:02 PM
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I mean idk what to say at that point..you could try working out? Investing in better clothes? All i know is that doing something will beat not doing anything at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:01 PM
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At that point ok, but who would have unprotected sex knowing these things before hand? Like i said i didnt get mine preg until we were ready, you cant get pregnant if you take precautions
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:56 PM
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You lost me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:54 PM
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Give me an example? Assuming you were not dating an asshole, how can you not get one?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:53 PM
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Im not buff homie lol, ok you got me i said hate thats my bad tho. But you got to agree if you go to talk to a girl while having no confidence its gonna be hard to have success
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:52 PM
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Because youre saying the same thing, that you cant get an abortion even tho you can
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:52 PM
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By doing what i said, approached her and talked to her like one of the boys, she talked back…thats it. Im not saying its 100% success but thats how a lot of them start? By talking
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:51 PM
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I was?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:50 PM
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What? But you can go and get an abortion to the states that allow it what? Its not illegal in the whole country you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:50 PM
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Bro i didnt say women hater, i said negative mentality, as for the rest idk what to tell you, im a 5’8 mexican dude who works out, thats literally it, when i met her i didnt have a car, had a lame ass job and nothing else, still worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:49 PM
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Read the rest buddy, or this debate becomes meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:48 PM
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If its a good guy odds are he will support you regardless of your choice, thats why hes a good guy, and even then if you get knocked up its still on you. Dated my wife for 5 years before she got preg, so its not impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:47 PM
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Uhmm no, see thats how i know your maturity level. The minute my wife knew she was pregnant she told me, we discussed it, and we decided we were ready together, had i told her no right there she probably wouldnt of had it. Also key word wife here, she didnt let me get her pregnant before i married her…you know…. 5 years into dating…like everyone should do it? We never risked unprotected sex before then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:46 PM
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When i approached my wife i was friends with her for like a week or two, then i said this “hey just so you know, im looking for a relationship, not just friendship, if thats okay with you good, if not let me know so theres no mix up” granted i said that shit in spanish so i changed words but thats what i said I was friends with her for longer after that but we both knew we were looking for more at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:39 PM
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Im like 27 dude wat, i know the dating scene changed but it hasnt changed as much as you guys make it seem. A ton of women will still like this approach, but if you go at them with this negative mentality its gonna be a turn off. How many women see a man that hates on them and thinks “hmm what a catch”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:38 PM
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If you slept with a man who felt this way then you picked the wrong man, its still your fault bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:35 PM
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Then you are biased? Tell me, why do you think these bad men keep having babies? Women keep giving the time of day. Moment i found out my wife was pregnant i started working my ass off to provide for them, im a bad man too? No, its just my wife and many other women were smart and didnt fall for the douchebags like the majority of women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:34 PM
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Lmao monkey man what? Just because you havent been able to do it doesnt make it not true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:17 PM
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What the fuck are you on about? You can get an abortion in most states still what? And even before rode a lot of women were still keeping them, i dont get your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:15 PM
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How is anything she said wrong? She hit the nail on the head, the thing is not a baby at that point, and you are literally choosing to give this child a shitty childhood by not being financially stable and no father figure, the stats speak for themselves on that. Women need to learn to take accountability for their actions, you shouldnt go on social media and expect praise from fucking up, getting preg by the wrong man, and then even with all the information out there choose to keep it, like i s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:14 PM
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Of course it doesnt, but the women knows this, shes making this choice for herself, the only time i ever feel bad for a single mom is if the douchebag dad said he wanted it then bails, but if she knew he was leaving, she knows whats gonna happen, how is it not her responsibility at that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:08 PM
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Actually not true, as of this post men cant just walk away without being held responsible, theres child support for one, if you were married theres alimony, my point is the man cant just walk away without losing something. It is? I mean its probably harder after rode, but its not impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:05 PM
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I like how you guys cant seem to read everything i said, and then youre surprised on your success rate, i said talking to them like a friend as in not trying too hard to hit on them or you come off as cringy or not yourself. I also said if shes one of those girls that need more to even give you a chance shes not worth pursuing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:02 PM
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Big disagree, fat women get perky chest and a huge butt, tons of men will find that attractive, us guys get nothing positive out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:59 PM
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Im assuming he doesnt want to keep it and she does, if she decides to have it even knowing he doesnt want to be in the picture then at that point it does become her responsibility 100% If women can opt out of parenthood them men should be able to as well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:57 PM
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Youve probably seen normies make it tho right? So you know it aint impossible, just got to keep trying
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:23 PM
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They can afford to date up? Yeah thats a given, wont argue that at all, but thats just how it is bro, either you push through it or give up, i promise you tho if you stop thinking negative all the time youll get better results
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:18 PM
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We probably have different ideas of what normal would be, and yeah they do get hit on as well, but odds are they wont have the stupid idiotic requirements the hot ones do, i had never heard i needed to be 6ft by any girl i dated before
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:14 PM
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Its difficult yeah, but not impossible, comparing yourself to the rich assholes wont help you, also not going for the stacies helps as well. I cant tell you how many times i saw cute “normal” looking girls get overlooked for the bitches, it happens a lot of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:10 PM
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My wife doesnt work at all so what do you mean full time? Also i mean im about to buy her a house next year, but yeah shes probly depressed for having to do doc appointments you right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:20 PM
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So according to you if youre not rich youll never get a regular girl? You cant be that cynical, tons of broke dudes find women all the time, hell i wish i could post a picture of me and other people i know that did just fine to prove us normies can still work with what we got
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:23 AM
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Lmao rip my guy, man if you cant find a woman with that mentality how the hell can you be surprised? This is why us men in red pilled get trashed so much, by exagerating the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:20 AM
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Im red pilled the fuk? Lol dude if you honestly think 100% of all women in the planet go for the trash men you are lost. Tons of women go for bad men yes, just like tons of men go for those women instead of going for someone who may not be as good looking, but has better values and morals. You said it, many women, not all women, you look for the ones that dont need the crap they spout on social media, the minute she seems like one of those you leave…simple
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:17 AM
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Sad but true, i mean i believe in the red pill, but a lot of it is nonsense as well, most of the guys on here would have more sucess if they had realistic expectations i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:13 AM
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You are the perfect example of the type of women im talking about. When did i say i didnt know how to do doc appointments? Clean and cook? I do know how to do these things, but they fall under my wife’s responsibilities not mine, i said we are a team and thats her job. Are you the kind of woman that would have a problem with that? I work every day hard as hell to make sure shes taken care of, our kids as well, i took on the financial responsibility, should i still have to do those things? Doesnt…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:12 AM
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Im just glad im married and done with the whole dating game, it was exciting but really dumb at the same time, i wouldnt be able to handle the current date scene with apps and all that. Met my girl when thats how everyone did it, meeting them in school and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:05 AM
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Oh thats good, yeah i guess the guy missed his shot, but thats what i would of thought anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:35 AM
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Happened to me once, i remember thinking that when women are touchy touchy and hugs it meant they liked you, so back in HS i had this girl hug me every time she saw me and tight too, touched my arm when we talked at lunch etc, asked her out and she straight up said something like “nooo i really like you as a friend” lol killed my theory. At the same time i had another girl do the same thing but i didnt make a move because of the girl above, she ended up telling me months later she was into me an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:34 AM
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Hmm i dont know, i personally still wouldnt be sure, like i would suspect it but, if we were friends before id be more worried because if i misread the situation id end up losing the friendship, you should of made it clear to him honestly… like “hey so you do know this is a date right?” Something along those lines, i would hate to lose a friend tbh would hold me back
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:29 AM
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I explained it to someone else but what i meant is talking to them like a friend while making it clear you are looking for relationship, i worded it wrong. And good on you for following that path, learning to love yourself is so much better then just thinking you cant be happy without an SO
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:34 PM
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I mean nah i dont think it does man, women aint property, and thats just breaking the bro code, talking shit or disrespecting a man infront of his girl is so fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:32 PM
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Others have said it, men want different things. I dont care so much about looks, it helps but its not what made me stay, its the personality no meme it is, having a partner that cooperates with you as a team, lets you take the lead if you are the head of the house, and having a pleasant feminine attitude are key here, its always the abrasive women who seem to end up divorced imo. I expect my wife to do all the cooking, cleaning, child care, and everything house related (bills, doctor apps etc) a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:21 PM
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When i said that my dear Watson i meant that most relationships start off as friendships (unless both parties are on tinder looking for sex) so talking to them like one of the boys is a good way to set a solid foundation. You can care more of course if you want to date them, but if you start acting like that chances are your game will seem off and youll scare them away (not always, but generally) Now i agree with you its scummy to hide your intentions, but you can mention you are interested in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:07 PM
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Agreed, most guys wont make a move unless the girl gives a vibe, its like they say, a man will only go as far as the woman allows him to (when it comes to dating and sex) I dont think ive ever seen a dude literally try and take a girl cold turkey, most girls would not even find that attractive let alone the risk they run of getting knocked the fuck out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:01 PM
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You saying that shit is ok if the man is weak? XD??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:56 PM
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I figured this was a universal thing? Ive had more woman approach me when i got married, but i also know for a fact guys try to get girls in LTRs like all the time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:55 PM
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Just do yourself a favor at at least read the rest, stop chasing the stacies man, thats a good way to end up alone, idk how to quote on my phone but….its better to be with a 5 you click with then a 10 that has a shit personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:52 PM
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Fair enough, but i feel like you are the type of dude im describing, good luck to you man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:49 PM
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Then why are you here? Its a debate sub not an echo chamber bud
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:46 PM
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My advice to this is pretty late for most people here but i know its true. You need to talk to girls like if they were what the actually are……people, by putting them in this pedastal where you have the need to think or double think how to talk to them youre already losing, i am not attractive, not rich, but i still talk to girls like anyone else and had a ton of success back in the day (married now) thats literally all you need. Now if its not what you need, then you are chasing the wrong girl, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:44 PM
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I mean you see people hating on single moms more because a lot of them feel the need to publicly post their life story on facebook, then complain about the bad man they chose, and then go on to seek validation for their situation. Have you ever seen a pedophile do this? Go online and say “im into kids, validate me pls” ofc not, he/she would get the cops called on them faster than facebook takes it down, i feel like a lot of people need to stop giving a damn what other people think, its your life…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:33 PM
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If you honestly think single mothers get more hate than child rapists you are insane as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:17 PM
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This is really stupid lol Edit - Yes i do agree single moms get shit on for no reason, i mean i always say theres tons of good women out there who were lied to and ended up single moms, but saying they get as much heat as pedophiles and rapists is fucking dumb lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:06 PM
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Very interesting nice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:53 AM
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See this doesnt work, i also consider myself a traditional man (married, work, wife stays at home etc) and im red pilled as fk broski, all this sexual liberation and whoring it up like you say came from blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:51 AM
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Dating is a losers game for both genders until we stop hating one another tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:11 PM
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Dude who gives a fuck holy hell lmao, like bro stop doing this to yourself man, focus on the good things from the red pill, thinking about this shit will only depress you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:02 AM
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She wont risk something special for something she doesnt even know, my wife has a ton of friends on facebook who are finding a hard time finding someone, she knows where that road can lead
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:59 AM
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Hasnt been my experience and we have been married for 10 years now (met her at 17) i mean the whole cheating thing is always a possibility, regardless of who you marry. It happens to men just like women ive noticed, my sister in law also married a virgin dude and they were both virgins, he ended up leaving her for this reason and it broke her. It all depends on the relationship, i like that im the only man my wife has slept with, makes it special i guess? But that doesnt blind me to the possibil…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:57 AM
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Uhhh i come from a broken home, my dad left my mom after he became addicted to drugs, stole my kidney surgery money and dissapeared, id never do that to my son, if anything knowing that was my father it makes me want to be a better dad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:39 AM
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Then you shouldnt date that person, the problem here is that you want to lie to get someone, you dont want to own up to your choices, you dont see that as a bad thing? He has the right to ask that question if dating you is on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:04 PM
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Its not anyones business, but your significant other asks and you lie to him, then you are just trashy at that point, because you know he wouldnt want that, and instead of owning up to your choices you try and play it off like you were this nice girl, which is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:00 PM
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90% of marriages fat? Lol i mean yeah i gained some weight since i married thanks for putting me down bruh 😂 Happened to me because i had to work more so less time to work out etc, its worth it if you have a good woman/man with you, not worth if you are with some jerk. The sex thing its totally on the couple, cant vouch for anyone but us, but im still happy in that department, but i do know married couples that just stop trying i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:52 PM
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I mean i agree basically, my wife was a virgin and we started dating when she was 18, married her at 22, and ive been the provider since then, she stays home with the kids. I think if a man can do that he should be able to expect certain things, its really dumb if i wanted her to cook clean and all that and still make her work
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:45 PM
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It does matter because they feel like lying about it, but yeah women do lie, its up to them if they want to be liars
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:07 AM
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Yeah its not often that it happens and thats good for them, im just saying when it does men shouldnt be shamed for not taking that kind of women is all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:17 PM
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The fuck said about training them? I said since they know nothing you teach them what you like in bed? How is that bad? The fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:16 PM
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As a married man i can tell you no its not worth. Ive said this before but i think dating atm is a losers game for both genders, times have changed, and people dont seem to want or even be capable of settling down, and i blame dating apps as much as the economy. Dating apps have made it so easy for women to get that dopamine rush of having tons of guys ready and willing to give them attention, sex, hell even money, its hard to move past that if they were doing it for a while, any problem they mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:14 PM
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I think guys shouldnt shame women for having tons of sex because most men would do the same thing if given the opportunity, shaming someone is wrong. However its also true that women should not get upset if a man wont settle down with you because of your sexual past, thats not shaming thats just a preference, decisions have consequences and thats one of them for both men and women, need to learn to accept that and move on. I’ll never understand how women (and some men) get mad if they get reject…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:05 PM
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As long as its not a problem later go for it bro, its not that important trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:01 PM
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Thats the thing tho, you basically have her like what you like
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:01 PM
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Uh idk about calling someone a pedo just for wanting someone that hasnt had sex before, idk why we have to shame people for preferences. Is it weird to want virgins as an experienced man? Sure i guess, but comparing it to a pedo is not ok bro
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:00 PM
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I mean comparing in your head i guess sure its inevitable, but going out of your way to tell your partner someone else is better is not normal. However do you have a serious partner atm? Because i found out doing it with someone you actually care about makes it instantly better imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:58 PM
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Its not okay to tell that shit to your partner, not sure why she would do thag to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:57 PM
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I didnt care, nor did i ever care, however my wife was and i can say its something i like about her because i pretty much had her learn what i liked at first, but again i wouldnt have cared if she hadnt been one as long as it wasnt a crazy number you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:56 PM
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Remember being the typical dude who only cared about butt and boobs, dated a girl with green eyes, ever since then they are a turn on for me so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:56 AM
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Does it really matter what you look like to a pos? I mean do you brother but i feel for you, no one should go through that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:39 PM
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Then why are you still there? Like bro why? It makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:34 PM
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No dude, you were afraid of going out there again, you thought you wouldnt find anyone else, dude you shouldnt have stayed, its never too late to go out there, you have one life and youre throwing it away with a despicable human, im so sad for you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:32 PM
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Honestly this was all your fault bro, a dead bedroom before getting married? Seperate beds on honeymoon? You should of known then it was over man, why did you stay? Religion? Love? It must of been something strong to blind you so fucking bad bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:30 PM
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Ehh idk, i didnt care about my wife having a job because i wanted her home, but i did care about her finishing her education just incase it didnt work out, i dont want her to feel obligated to stay, i think if we split shed have a better shot with a degree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:26 PM
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Im a guy and im red pill, i believe in most of the things the red pill talks about and based my marriage on it, gender roles and all. However i dont think the wall is a real thing, both men and women can age bad if they dont take care of themselves, remember the RP says you need to work out to be good in the 30s, its not something that just happens, it also assumes women wont take care of themselves. I think its just a revenge fantasy honestly, my wife is just as sexy to me as a 29 year old than…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:15 PM
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Yeah definetly, its all about faking it till you make it, which is what ill be teaching my son, i honestly believe this is the problem with most guys, they dont learn or get taught the art of simply talking to a girl like shes just another guy. I was very lucky as i had neighbor girls who i talked to all the time when i was a kid, so i never had that fear or nervousness of speaking to girls, i think if most guys had that they would have more sucess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:05 PM
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Which is why i say its odd as i only knew a handful of guys who where doing the same thing in my school. Honestly tho im pretty sure if you couldnt do it with game alone in highschool then idk how you expect a big shift in your 30s, i guess it depends on the quality of women youll be getting Edit - i wasnt an athlete and certainly not a genetic lottery, im like 5’8 and i worked out, that was it, it was all about attitude back then, most girls didnt know if you faked it lol, i saw guys way more h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:59 PM
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Its odd i experienced my hoe phase in high school when most girls didnt care about money, jobs or anything like that, just had to act “cool” Didnt have a car or anything back then and i had tons of fun, no idea how it gets in the 30s tho as im married now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:55 PM
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I dont shame anyone, do i think they are trashy when they do some crazy shit? Yeah sure, but i dont go out of my way to let them know, they can live their life how they want
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:52 PM
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Calling me mysoginist is an insult dude
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:54 PM
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Lol okay dude, i mean i kept trying to leave but you keep insulting me so w.e, honestly good luck :D
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:47 PM
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Woah, she better be in jail, i cant imagine how shitty that was for the victims
/r/PussyPassDenied30/08/22 06:31 PM
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Nope because i dont excuse my behaviour, okay youre also here so same shit, dont use the women victim mentality, its a turn off. Anyway again im done, just please promise me when youre 27 and a single mother youll remember me, maybe shoot me a message, id like to know how your modern take will end! Toodles :D
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:29 PM
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You said i have a shit shop so how would you know? Im doing what youre doing. And from strangers sure, partners? No you hide it because you know it looks bad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:24 PM
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Pretty sure i make more than you broski, But you do hide it so?? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:17 PM
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Uhh go read my other posts, i said its fine to have sex. Okay sure bud? Keep doing what you do but hiding it from potential partners, the minute you admitted to doing that you pretty much gave me the argument. Anyway im done, im home from work, lunch is ready, ill go back to my unhealthy relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:13 PM
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No i see it for what it is, shes getting as much out of it as i am, dude ive said that wtf you on about, ive said that yes women can and should have sex for fun. Im just saying that i wanted from them was sex, and i got it, idc what they thought or wanted beyond that, so to me its a win, modern women as a whole are good for most men, not needing to commit to get what most men want
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:09 PM
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Lmao imagine not wanting me but giving it up to me, yeah ill take that L every day of the week honey. So you have no experience how can you say if its healthy or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:03 PM
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Its not the only reason but its a big one, i mean ive been married for 10 years now, what about you? Ohh right. And they probably did if they allowed me to do that, but again what do you want me to say? We had sex? I mean ok sure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:58 PM
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It happens, i never had a thing with a modern women as it was pump and dump. And no ofc not, if she asked for a slut phase id dump her ass, just like she would leave me if one day i said i was gonna stop providing for the house, or start sleeping with random girls, cant just change that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:52 PM
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Then you dated the wrong men, i see my wife as an equal and respect her a ton, especially when i see how hard it is for some people to find someone special. I wasnt looking for wifey when i was in slut mode, i was just with those modern women who think sex is for fun, so i had fun, it was entirely up to them, the minute i found someone who was different i stayed there. If you associate bad relationships like that to viewpoints you will see them everywhere. Anyway agree to disagree as i have gott…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:44 PM
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Okay perfect you like modern men, good for you, im not about to shame yo for not wanting a traditional man like me, see? Thats how that works I dont like modern women, they dont match well with me, so i dont date modern women, you dont like trad men, so dont date trad men, no need to shame anyone. As to if majority of men care or not? Who knows? But its clearly a good portion since we see it all the time, but finally you understand my point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:33 PM
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You are going into a whole other topic i wont even comment on as i have no experience or knowledge on it. But hiding from a partner you trust is not the same as hiding from regular people, when you hide it from someone youve been dating you do it because deep down you know it matters, you just admited it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:25 PM
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Lol i think men like me are also sluts, did i ever say i wasnt? Ofc i was, i was a man slut, i dont hide it like plenty of women do, which is why i told my wife when we started dating, so no try again
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:13 PM
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Yeah but im not the one who decided i was a good pick, my wife did, so if anything that decision is on her. No im not a mysogonist, i dont have to want to date women like you to prove a point, just like i wouldnt date a man to prove im not gay, im simply not. No whats ironic is that women (and men too but very few) try to force people to accept what they do, thats all good and well, but acceting and dating are different. If i dont date a black woman am i racist? If i only date girls with black h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:08 PM
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I said passed around to you as we are debating, id never say that to any girl to her face like that. I agree with you that its a double standard, we are in agreement, im not debating with you if what im doing is wrong, its not wrong, im telling you that i shouldnt be shamed into having my preferences. My wife was in her right to deny me after i told her my n count, i wouldnt have called her a slut shamer like youre calling me, i would of moved on, just like women like you should. My problem with…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:54 PM
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Ive never slut shamed a woman, ove never said that to any girl in my life, i said thats not the kind of girl i want, but i never go out of my way to say that to them. No its not different, its okay to want sex, its okay to have fun, I . Just . Dont . Want . You, and that is okay, i dont have to date woman like that, i prefer trad women which is why i married my girl
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:41 PM
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?? How am i a mysogonist? Im saying its okay for woman to behave that way?? Dude if you want to do that go ahead i believe in freedom… i just wont date you. So is not dating women like you mysogonist? Lmao get real
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:37 PM
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Its not weird at all, i would simply not be with you, why is that so hard to understand? I have my preferences and she has hers, she chose to stay, thats her decision, just like it would be mine if i stayed. I never had a problem with high n count women to have fun with, but to settle down with? Nah i dont want a girl who has been passed around, i understand that makes me a hypocrite, but again you have to respect peoples preferences, just like id respect yours
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:00 PM
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I like how you followed all my posts to hate but ill bite. Its a given that i will support any path she chooses, hell in a perfect world i wouldnt have to worry about her dating at all. The sad reality is that it is very common for peoples lives to be destroyed over choosing the wrong partner, single parents, abandonment, money problems, all these things can happen to both my son or daughter if i dont teach them to be careful on who they pick as a partner in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:55 AM
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Again you are misunderstanding my point, when i told her my n count, had she broken up with me over it i would have RESPECTED her decision, i wouldnt have argued, or gotten offended by it, she has the RIGHT to be disgusted by it, she CHOSE to stay. This is what im saying, had she told me she had a high n count i would of left yes, idc if that makes me a hypocrite, i have as much of a right to have my preferences as women do, and thats my whole point. Edit - if she had chosen to dump me over it, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:50 AM
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Who said carer? I said care for us, as in our well being, you can have that great job if you want, i was just saying the kind of women most men like
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:46 AM
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Nah how they are raised matters, my wifes sisters first boyfriend is a guy who loves the hell out of her, and he has a disability, they been married for years. Im sure it matters
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 09:33 PM
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You hit the nail in the head 100%
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 05:13 PM
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What if the bad boy lies to her and makes her believe hes a good dude? Im just saying that also happens
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:04 PM
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I hope youre right, but whenever i see those incel posts, or those old FDS posts it reminds me how bad it can get when the genders just hate eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:20 AM
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You think these simps with their twisted mentality make good partners? Not me anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:19 AM
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World has always been fucked, and it will continue to do so long after we are gone, might as well make the most of it bro
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:50 AM
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We date to find a real partner, meaningless sex can leave you just as messed up and no relationships. I have a son and a daughter in the way so i guess thats why i think that now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:43 AM
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I think its worrysome tho wouldnt you agree? This whole sub, the us vs them mentality comes from not being able to find decent partners, i think its something we should worry about as parents
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:51 AM
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If you raise her right she wont go for the assholes….i hope lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:49 AM
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Im red pilled, but women have just as much risk as men, imagine having a daughter and being worried if she will find a responsible partner, getting dates sure easy, but a real partner? Not as easy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:48 AM
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Im sorry to hear that brother, i hope you have better luck in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:38 AM
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Edit - oh i had to assume they would do bad? Sorry i guess i misread question, id just support them any way i could, stop bringing it up for sure, maybe giving them more money to be able to afford going out with friends more often, that would help i bet. I have a son and a daughter and i feel like they will have different dating experiences, dating is so much different now, who knows how different it will be when they are in high school, it will hurt for sure if i cant help them. I could tell th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:34 AM
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TLDR - This generation has made both men and women worse in the dating game, its a losers game for both parties. Honestly as a married man who met his wife in late teens, before hook up culture and apps, i really think the dating game is a losers game for BOTH parties. As a woman you run a huge risk by giving your heart out to someone, you can easily go from having a great career, being in your sexual prime (20-30s) having tons of freedom and options only to have it ruined by a man, regardless i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:18 AM
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I said id agree to disagree, if you want to not listen to the people who actually have done something thats on you, no need to gatekeep
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:38 PM
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Oh well guess we agree to disagree, i mean ive had my views change a bit with this sub, which is why i like it to much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:55 PM
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I guess i agree with that, met my wife around 10 years ago and i dont think dating apps where a thing just yet. However i still think you should hear everyone out, you never know, could hear something that changes your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:42 PM
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Ok so i met my wife when she was 16, i somehow have been making it work 10 years later, i could give tips, so could women who managed the same thing, whats the problem brother?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:35 PM
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I would argue that debating with the people that managed to get what most people here seem to want would be helpful, wouldnt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:31 PM
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If you want everyone debating to be basically in the same category then you dont want debate, you want an echo chamber
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:08 PM
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Im a married man and im here as well, 10 years, i come because i like debating, far as i know this is not a singles only sub
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:31 AM
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I dont care what you do on your free time as long as it doesnt hurt others, you would always be welcome to have a beer with me friend
/r/AntiFeminists24/08/22 07:39 PM
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Women you consider unattractive are probably good looking, you just sound like you want the 1% and im willing to bet you are nowhere close that level of attractive yourself. Its funny because those men that do get the trophy wife end up divorced and losing all their money, its really sad thats what youre looking for instead of a good hearted woman, im blessed to have one and id never trade her for any hot chick, its not about the looks bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:09 AM
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Ill happily take the compliment, say im straight but thank them for making my day, and go on my merry way. As for moment? Idk is there ever a moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:12 PM
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Of course its worst because it happens to the kid, but anything that can happen to me is better than him not being mine. Well not me, if he was switched at birth id feel the same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:26 AM
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Thats the thing, if i CHOSE to adopt a kid it wouldnt hurt the dynamic, i know hes not mine, and you can love an adopted kid as much as your own. As for finding out, of course i wouldnt love him instantly, but eventually yes i would, hes my son/daughter, it would happen naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:33 PM
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I do want your input, which is why im here, doesnt mean i cant call you out on it. This is a man issue, im just saying that since it is literally impossible for you to suffer something this traumatic, its easy to say “oh just keep loving him easy”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:28 PM
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You have kids? Im guessing no, but if i had to choose whats the worst thing, id definetly say that, i rather get murdered, robbed, anything besides that. You said if id rather have him kidnapped or killed which is unfair since it also has to do with my love for him, anything, and i mean ANYTHING that can possibly happen to ME is better than knowing he was never mine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:26 PM
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It would hurt our conection and it would never be the same no. Its really easy to see it that way when a woman always knows for sure the baby came from her, you have no idea how bad it can be to a man. You telling me you love your friends kids as much as your own blood? Thats a lie. Because sadly, thats all he would be to me now, an exs kid, not mine, it changes the dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:23 PM
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But it is the worst thing that could happen to a man, you have no idea how that would feel, just because to YOU something can be worse does not mean its still one of the most fucked up things that can happen to a man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:22 PM
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Easy to talk when it can never happen to you girl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:20 PM
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Of course id still have love for him because of our time spent together, but it would not even come close to the love i have for him now. I love how women talk all this crap because they never have to go through something like this, you could never understand because you always know its your kid, easy to talk when its like that huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:20 PM
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So i shouldnt be worried about rape because murder is worse? Thats literally what youre saying, you realize how insane that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:55 PM
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?? But it can tho, i would never see my son the same if he wasnt mine, and dont give me the “never loved him” bullcrap. Knowing hes mine makes a big portion of the love i have for him, it MATTERS, just because you knew a guy that got cheated on who didnt care doesnt make it ok, hes not in the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:53 PM
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Are you insane? It is literally the worst thing that could happen to a man. If tomorrow i found out my son is not mine, after 3 years of loving him to death, sacrificing for him and all that, it would almost literally kill me. I would much rather find out shes cheating on me than find out my son is not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:50 PM
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While i can respect men that stay, i can also say they are idiotic for being with a cheating *****. You are ruining your life over a kid that doesnt have anything to do with you, as long as the man doesnt do it over social pressure fine, but i feel like a ton of men might stay due to stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:44 PM
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Id agree with this, however it does become a problem when even after the kid is proven not to be the mans, hes still screwed and will likely have to keep supporting them. How is that fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:34 PM
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Im pretty sure i wouldnt act as husband material for a woman who didnt deserve it, i think thats what youre missing in your argument, hook up material goes for hook up as well
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:44 PM
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For physical id have to say their eyes, thats just something i always noticed before. As for behaviour, definetly an old school woman, i dated masculine women before i even knew what that was, and it was a turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:50 PM
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Exactly, i can respect your take 100% if you dont lie about it, theres a woman/man out there for everybody, its just about finding someone who thinks like you, rather than lying to someone to make them like you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:42 PM
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So shes my second mommy because i didnt have shit going for me when we met? Nah she just wasnt a materialistic, greedy, excuse of a woman like a ton of these girls are these days. Thats why it surprises me when women claim they cant find a good man, you did find him, you just didnt care if he was good or not, just how much money he had
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:39 PM
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Read the comment i said in your other thread, we are talking in 2 different threads lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:17 PM
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Like many others have said, not all men or women care about these things, but a big portion of them do. When i met my then girlfriend she had asked me how many girls i had been with, and while she said she didnt like it, it wasnt enough to leave, but i knew it bothered her. You know how some people behave a certain way with people they like? For example, i hate parties and being around crowds, but every time my girl asked me to go to her house for a party with her parents id smile like an ass an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:13 PM
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We talk about these things all the time thats one, im guessing youve never had an SO? Also youve never had a friend behave a certain way with a person they like? Guess you dont have many friends either. Youre acting like all this is out of this world or something, youre intentionally being dense or you literally have no experience at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:26 PM
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Just because you somehow have never seen it does not mean it doesnt happen. No in the 50s people would judged the hell out of them, only problem i see with it now is if they lie about it, which DOES happen for both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:58 PM
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Youre looking in the wrong places, lots of men just want someone to care for them, i met my wife when she was 16, and i married her soon as i was financially able to. I didnt meet her in a bar, a club, tinder, ir any of that crap, met her on the bus, back when i didnt have a car, a job, had nothing going for me, and she didnt care, thats the kind of women men want to marry in their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:10 PM
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What? Lol dude ive seen it as well, it’s like when people try to behave their best to make a good impression, they wont just show this side of them off the bat. I personally have seen friends of both genders lie to their partners about their likes and dislikes, which is dumb all things considered. Hell, ive had friends tell me not to mention anything about their adventures to someone they are trying to be with. Idk why youre pretending it never happens
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:07 PM
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The problem comes when lying about it, i hate liars, if she had her fun and owned up to it it wouldnt be so bad (granted i still wouldnt settle down with her, but id respect her a lot more) But having fun and then lying about it? Thats what makes me mad, own up to your choices
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:02 PM
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I thought red pill also adviced men not to sleep around?? The only RP guy i listen to on youtube is poor man podcast, and he is all about not having sex with strangers and waiting for the one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:56 PM
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While i know theres nothing wrong with a high n count, especially the way you provided it, I wouldnt want to date that person especially if i know any of the guys shes been with
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:53 PM
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I have a high n count, well high for guys id imagine, wife didnt care, and i can promise you i dont ever think about cheating on her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:50 PM
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Regardless if its lower, theres nothing wrong with protecting yourself from such a shit outcome, you shouldnt try to poke at the men who choose to cover their ass
/r/AntiFeminists11/08/22 12:07 PM
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Do you carry anything for self defense when you walk out the street? Its not blowing out of proportion, you hear stories like this all the time now, if anything the fact women dont get punished at all means we SHOULD wear cams on us
/r/AntiFeminists11/08/22 12:00 PM
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For seeing such a sad story, and your first fucking thought is “its not so bad, stop over reacting” who thinks this way? No empathy whatsoever. If you got raped and people said “stop blowing it out of proportion” you would not like it either you twisted hag
/r/AntiFeminists11/08/22 11:56 AM
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You disgust me
/r/AntiFeminists11/08/22 11:53 AM
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Ok but who cares what she or any other women do? If its not you then fuck it, if it happened to you then forget her immediatly, why would you care what dick shes riding after leaving you? Why care if you get revenge or not, the greatest revenge you could ever do to someone is forget about them, and im saying this as a RP man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:14 PM
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This is pretty dumb im sorry lol, im redpilled but you are making a scenario that is not realistic, you telling me a marketing director with money wont hook up during a break? The girl suddenly goes from long term to hook ups? Look at the end of they day all that matters is what YOU do, why would you care what an ex does after a break up? (Imo a break is breaking up idc what she says) she could marry lebron for all i care, shes no longer mine. Its toxic as hell to think about what shes doing aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:11 PM
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Nah man, theres tons of good ones, but since usually they arent the good looking ones, most dont even notice them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:08 AM
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I think it depends on the person, my wife told me she loved me like 2 months in (which i thought was insanely fast) it took me a year to say it back Again personal, however i do know some people find it a turn off/red flag if someone says i love you so soon, makes them think they dont mean it. Id say 6 months to a year, usually when the honeymoon phase is over. Thats a tricky question, i met my wife when we were like 16, we didnt date till like 18 tho, she said she wanted to get married as soon …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 12:23 AM
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Yeah its like they say, the man goes as far as the woman allows it to go, oh well we all get caught slipping i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:48 PM
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Man thats kind of insane, did you feel bad for the guy? I mean one thing is having her cheat on an unknown face, but seeing him.. must of been odd no?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:28 PM
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Can you elaborate on how that conversation went down? It sounds really awkward and funny lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:17 PM
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Lol god damn, she should be an erotic author or something
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:13 AM
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It has its ups and downs, sometimes the financial load is a lot for just myself, especially with trying to get a house and kids, i do sometimes think maybe having her work would help, but id hate for her to miss out on being a mom, so not sure. Props to the ladies that manage to be moms and working at the same time, i know it must be super hard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:00 PM
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Im already married but this brings out a question ive always wanted to ask in feminist forums and stuff. Ive seen feminists claim that they would submit like a traditional wife if the man acted like a traditional man, which is to take care of absolutely all the bills and stuff, for the ladies here, is this true? I have a traditional marriage with my wife, she stays home with the kids, and ever since we were dating ive paid for everything, from bills to dates (reasonable dates, nothing fancy) is …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:43 PM
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I never thought marrying a woman who also focused on her profession as a negative, i thought that was only saved for single moms who picked the assholes young, are you saying you view educated women who put their work over messing around in the same light as them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:32 PM
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Thats really sweet, i had never thought of arranged marriage that way, but a woman that would be devoted is something to take care of these days, i wish you all the luck :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:43 PM
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I agree, i dont know, maybe the way i was raised, i trust my wife 100% but you never really know, which is why we got a prenup, helps feel at ease incase the worst happens you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:14 PM
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Good take, you are 100% correct, however i still think as a man especially, you should take steps to protect youself, if the courts were not so keen on siding with the wife, it wouldnt be needed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:22 AM
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Very interesting response, how would you feel if the husband that was picked for you was someone you didnt find attractive/interesting at all? Do you think you could build upon that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:12 AM
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Are you retarded? Are you really going to compare a woman who has sex with the same man who she is MARRIED to btw, to a girl thats sleeping with tinder dates on the regular? You better get your brain checked, thats beyond stupid. And yes, since we are discussing this here, i would call her a hoe, would i do it to her face? No, will i go out of my way to find her and call her one? No, im not shaming her, im stating a fact, thats what she is, just like a man who does the same thing is a man whore …
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/22 01:29 AM
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100% couldnt have said it better, these people want you to act like if thats fine, i mean sure in the modern dating era it might be, but marriege is on the decline for a reason, and every other day my wife will show me videos of women crying or complaining of men not settling down, when they are giving it up for free basically, like what do you expect?
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 05:09 PM
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Thats not up to you tho, i dont have to be a christian man to want a christian woman, thats fucking stupid, and men are not shaming women for doing this, they just dont marry them, how is that shaming?? If you want to hoe around more power to you, but dont try to shame me into marrying you, find a man who is not disgusted by that, why be with a man who doesnt share your views on sex? The problem is as simple as this, she screwed herself out of a category of men who dont want a woman with that ma…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 05:02 PM
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My values are my own, i dont need my values challenged because they have worked for me, have yours worked for you?? Yes? Then why would you care about mine? Earlier you said i was married so i shouldnt chime in, its funny because if you want something, and know someone who has that, aint that the person you should ask?
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 04:08 AM
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No thats not what my response to it was, as always youre ignoring my main argument, i shouldnt have to justify my preference to you, nor should women to men that ask why they dont want them, if i dont like you having multiple partners, thats my choice, move on, if a girl does not want me for x reason, move on, thats my argument
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 04:06 AM
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How is it a fallacy if its true? Lol okay man sure
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 04:01 AM
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Sure buddy attack me for stating everyone has the right to choose what they want, what a weird world we live in, also those broke ass dudes landing hot chicks?? Guess what? The girls chose them so its okay, they know they broke and they CHOSE them, i can get behind that, you clearly dont. Honestly take your woke crap and shove it up your woke ass, i will always back up people having the freedom to voice their preferences and not getting shamed for it, both women and men, we all have that right. …
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 04:00 AM
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In not shifting shit, i just stated my opinion and you responded, i dont care if people think im outdated thats the way i am, and its worked You saying i cant chime in if im married? If anything i should be able to since ive been married for 10 years and ive been able to learn alot from having a traditional relationship in a modern dating era, i can tell you the differences, how sad it is when these women realize that yes, there are consequences to the path they chose.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 03:52 AM
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Lol except we all know the consequences of our actions do we not?? Like it or not we are judged over things we do control. Men are judged on they job they land, the income they have, their money, does money make a man good? No but sadly thats what men are judged on most of the time Women know they are judged on their sexual history, which is why most are told to lie, they chose to go that route knowing what the endgame could be. If I as a man chose to fuck around and not get my shit together for…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 03:49 AM
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Wtf? Who the fuck is telling you to accept my values? I told you to leave people who dont want a hoe the fuck alone, just like i tell men who harrass women who want a 6 ft, 6 figure man to leave the fuck alone, im telling you to stop shaming people for preferences, or asking for justification, leave. People. The. Fuck. Alone when it comes to preferences that come in the dating game
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 03:42 AM
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Youre missing the point, first of all dont even bring lgbt into this, theres a difference between not wanting to date someone over something they CHOSE to do, over something you are born with. Now as to why youre missing my point, i dont have to justify my preference to you, her anyone else, nor should you, its MY preference, MY right not to want to touch a woman like that. She has to ACCEPT it and move on, there has to be no reason behind it, just like theres no reason to want a 6 ft man when y…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 03:39 AM
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I actually agree with you, ofc id have sex with anybody that wanted to, wana know why? Because thats what i fucking did, and you know what else? I didnt hide it, i said the truth every time. If a girl rejected me over it, id ACCEPT IT and move on, my wife knows my sexual past and accepted it, she could have declined, she didnt, thats what women like this need to do, accept when people dont want them for things they CHOSE to do. As for stopping this sexual liberation…. Lol i could care less, ill …
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 03:36 AM
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The only peoples advice you should care about are your family, will i tell my son not to marry a hoe? Absolutely, will i tell strangers on the internet not to do? No, because its their life and their choices, thats why it irks me when people shame men when they voice their preferences, but when women do it its perfectly ok, and thats why the dating world now is toxic as fuck Im just glad to be married and done with it
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 03:32 AM
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My values are my business and yours are that as well, we dont have to change them for shit, all im saying is to accept when people find part of you disgusting or unacceptable and move on
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 03:28 AM
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Does there have to be one? Cant we just accept that people have preferences and respect it? You think its ok to judge a man based on his car? His job? His income? If a girl rejected me over not making 6 figures is it ok? Not being 6 ft tall? Small pp? Yes to the above, i accept that im not her type of man and move on, so should girls that hoe around and then want the category of men that want a trad wife and complain about it
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 03:25 AM
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So is judging a man based on his job, car, income, aint it supposed to be about love? What people dont understand is that its your right to have a preference, i dont want a woman thats been passed around, thats ok. If a woman rejected me because i dont make 6 figures thats ok too. Respect other peoples preferences
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 03:19 AM
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And thats fine, let her go for men like you, whats not fine is shaming the men that dont want that kind of woman as a partner, i sure as hell dont, and thats my preference, she is trying to get sympathy for not being desirable by that category of men, when she should seek out men like you
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 03:17 AM
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What does it matter who cares? If they dont want her, they dont want her that simple
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 03:14 AM
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People have their preferences and we need to respect that, so should she, i wont ever be with someone with that many bodies more than 1 night, thats my right, she screwed herself out of that category of men that want a trad women, she shouldnt complain, just seek out men that dont care like you
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 03:13 AM
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Im pretty sure you wouldnt want to date a guy willing to marry a pornstar, not to mention those that do get married a lot of the times end up divorced (look up mia khalifa) Honestly its not and shouldnt be a problem, theres a man for every woman out there, the problem is when they lie about it, we all have the right to our own preferences, and getting lied to and saying shes been with few men when she hasnt is cheating in life, take responsibility for your actions.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 03:11 AM
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The issue would come if she starts lying to people, people are free to have their preferences, and no one should be lied to like that imo
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 03:07 AM
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Why are people saying she should lie? Thats fucked up, she had her fun now she has to find someone thats ok with that, not lie to someone to be accepted by them, thats really horrible disgusting advice
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 03:04 AM
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I meant debating here is fine, lol i meant ofc in real life, we come here to discuss, but i wouldnt like someone doing this to me or you irl, but thats it for me, i need to get ready for work, good luck with it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:01 PM
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Well i dont know what to tell you, ive been with my wife 10 years now, would you call that emotionally stable? Your reasons are your own, and no one should pressure you or me to explain or justify them, thats why they are yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:54 PM
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But why does it have to be some deep level of reason? Its just how i feel, i dont think we would make a good fit, thats reason enough a lot of people wont date someone. Ok granted, it seems to you that id never be with a bi person just for being bi, but i dont see it as something bad, i didnt for one second believe it was bad, i just thought it wouldnt work, why would i go into a relationship if i dont think it will work? Would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:43 PM
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He would agree with me that everyone has a right to be with who they want, we believe in freedom, we believe that everyone should live the way they want as long as it hurts no one, we do NOT support labeling anyone for their preferences, he would agree as he does, that recently the LGBT movement is setting some incredibly rude double standards, labeling heterosexual men/women as phobic for having a preference which they also do not control, you either believe in freedom or you dont, if you want …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:38 PM
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I have control over my own preferences? Thats a dangerous thing to say, because i could easily say the same to you, i like gay people, i like bi people, i like trans people, would i date them? No its that simple, how about i tell you to stop dating your preferences? What i labeled you for not doing it? See thats how that works
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:29 PM
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And let me clarify something and tell you why i take it as a huge insult to be called phobic. Believe it or not, my older brother is gay, ive been backing gay rights for as long as i could, i saw first hand how not being accepted affected him, it would make me so mad how people could hate him for his preferences, just last year i made my wife change church because the priest didnt want to let my brother and his life partner be godfathers to my first born. I . Am. NOT. Any kind of homophobe or bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:52 PM
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Lol i do it to make it short since its not just LGBT anymore, thats one, and no i dont expect you to coddle me, i thought youd see how insane it is to want me, a hetero, not to call you a slur, but at the same time labeling me with one for not agreeing with everything you do, and its not just me. 5 years ago the majority of the internet was behind you, but now more and more people are starting to take you as a joke, because youre being just as toxic as some of the real homophobes out there, no o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:41 PM
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And this is why every day the LGB keeps losing support, if you cant show sympathy for others how the hell you expect it back? A perfect example of why i stopped supporting it years ago, you call me biased, but cant even see past your own assumptions of me, but sure, keep labeling hetero people, keep up the double standards and watch how it will keep losing more and more support
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:25 PM
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I just said my reason, it was nothing bad, she liked girls as much as guys, and i personally felt we would not be compatible because theres things i wouldnt be able to do being a man, and i wasnt going to risk a friendship i had most of my life by then, she understood, didnt need to call me phobic, why is it that its wrong for heteros to call LGB people slurs but yall feel the need to label us as phobic if we dont agree with you at everything? It doesnt seem fair
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:14 PM
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Ok so i guess from know on whatever you dont date your phobic? Guess if im not into men im homophobic? If i dont date women with low n count im tradphobic? High n count slutshamer? Where do we draw the line??? If i dont date a pedophile im pedophobic? In murderer a killerphobic? Do you not realize how fucking stupid that sounds my god Edit- i didnt think she wouldnt be satiafied with 1 person, i said there was things i wouldnt be able to do since im not a women, we would not be sexually compatib…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:43 PM
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Its not because she was bi, its because i felt that there are things she liked (from women) id never be able to do, so why bother if i likely wasnt going to do it for her, thats not a damn phobia
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:34 PM
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Thats not even remotely close to how i said it, but yes, i thought she was a great woman, a good friend, but just because i didnt date her it doesnt make me phobic, being a homophobe literally means you dont talk to them, avoid them are are rude to them, we are all entitled to our preferences just as much as the LGB comunity is, i dont call them names for liking what they like, id appreciate if they didnt call me phobic for liking what i like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:28 PM
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So what im lying? Regardless if you believe me or not, how am i phobic if i chose not to date my friend but still treated her with respect, it doesnt make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:13 PM
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I dont have any phobia, i had a friend from elementary all the way to college who was bi, she was my best friend and always hung out with her, when she tried dating me in high school i said no, am i suddenly biophobic? Thats a really stupid take, people who say that just cant accept that not EVERYONE has to date you, regardless of their reason, if i treat you with respect, care, and honesty how the hell am i biophobic?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:07 PM
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I dont think its homophobic at all, we need to stop throwing that fucking word around man, and no id never date a bi woman, my reasons have nothing to do with phobia, i would not do it because i feel like there would be things that she likes (from women) which i could never do, so why try? I had a bi friend who wanted to date me and i declined, she didnt call me homophobic, she understood and dropped it, wish more people could be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:59 PM
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I hate that we now live in a world where we have to explain why we dont want to date certain people, because i fucking dont thats why, i dont have to justify myself to any woman/man that wants to date, if i dont want you, i dont want you… like god get over it snowflake
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:50 PM
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I was into casual sex before my wife, although i met her when we were 18, by then i was already feeling numb from casual sex, not to mention it was making me super disgusted with the idea of marriege (i slept with a few young married women) so it really just sucked, maybe it was because i was in mexico and the culture there was fucked before it started happening in the us with dating apps. I realized sex is basically the same thing with any girl regardless of how hot she is, its all in your head…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:48 PM
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Before i got married i used to have an easy time finding hook ups, i met my wife when i was 18 just leaving high school, and honestly as cringe as it may sound, sex has always felt so much better with her than with the randos i used to do it with, i assume its because of the connection we have, but 10 years later and i still love having sex with her, hasnt died down at all. However, while i dont think its stupid, theres some truth to it, long story if you care enough but ill try and make short. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:57 PM
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I have a family, its my priority, but not every single human on earth is the same, some people dont give a fuck about having they bloodline continue, ive met many women who did not have children are happy as can be, like bro im red pilled asf, but even i know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:29 AM
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This is a stupid take, red pilled as i am, youre delusional if you think a woman has nothing outside of bearing children
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:03 AM
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I agree with communication, wife and i have a very solid relationship just because we have the trust to talk about anything we need to, many of my friends will lie or even hide things to avoid communicating with their partners, its odd
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:02 PM
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My wife and i are on the same page on this, she also hates what feminism has become, not equality but mysandry, im sorry to hear you went through all that, but as a father i want to do my best to make sure my little girl doesnt have to. Edit- Thanks for sharing, and i hope you keep doing so, it gives people like me hope :)
/r/AntiFeminists02/06/22 01:39 AM
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He said hed never return to disney after being dropped like that, he will not be returning for sparrow sadly, i believe he will keep his promisep
/r/MensRights02/06/22 12:02 AM
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No, she has actor friends and the feminist movement behind her, she will be fine, this wasnt about the money for depp either, this was about restoring his reputation, which he did, i can bet he doesnt care for the money
/r/MensRights02/06/22 12:01 AM
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Women like you give me hope for my daughter, im so afraid of her ending up believing all this nonsense, i hope to god she doesnt
/r/AntiFeminists01/06/22 11:47 PM
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Im pretty sure its on the decline, with all the attention they have gotten not all of it good, many women are now seeing how bad it is
/r/AntiFeminists01/06/22 11:38 PM
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Youll find a guy that wants what you offer eventually, its just going to be harder since most men want a submissive woman, its kinda like mens “he has to be 6 ft” kinda thing that women want. Good luck to you
/r/AntiFeminists01/06/22 07:12 PM
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My wife is a stay at home mom and i always say thats the harder job, yeah i might have to work tons of hours to support her and our son, soon it will be another baby, but i get to clock out, and once im home i just relax, her work is never done in my opinion, respect to you and any woman/man that chooses the homemaker path, its not easy
/r/AntiFeminists01/06/22 11:22 AM
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Then just walk away, we all have 1 life on earth, dont waste it with someone who doesnt fit your criteria, if my wife stopped doing the things that made me fall for her, thats her problem not mine, same goes for me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:36 PM
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Thats what prenups are for, but your problem at this point is more with women than marriege i think, i cant really say anything about that, although we seem to be less than 10 years apart in age we definetly got different dating experiences, when i see what people do now its shocking as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:13 PM
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Youre missing the point of my original argument tho, i knew these things when i made the deal, we both know what we expected, so i shouldnt complain about it, thats the beauty of it, she cant complain when i come home, straight to my pc to wait for dinner, eat, she cleans the dishes then if i ask for sex i get it. Just like i cant complain if she has more free time then i do, if i have to carry the financial responsibility, if i had to give her kids when i didnt want any, on a typical relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:07 PM
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She has the harder job i think, all household chores, all baby related things (havent touched diapers at all) anything and everything that is not work she does, grocerie shopping, laundry, making sure all bills and commitments are met, not to mention meeting our needs whenever needed, i clock out, she doesnt. First time i heard my side is harder
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:21 PM
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I honestly think it comes down to 1 thing, honesty, like no joke it does, if more couples where 100% honest on what the want and expect out of marriege there wouldnt be as much divorce. Idk if ill get hate for this but ill give a small example, b4 marriege i told my wife i expected not to ever do household duties again, i havent. She told me she expected kids, she has em. I told her i still wanted time to do my hobbies (gaming) and i still do it. She expected me to be sole provider and i am. Its…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:05 PM
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Lol i didnt know late 20s was boomer, but yes i suppose if i had to choose between the boomer relationships vs whatever this is ill stick to boomer, i do drink white monster after all lol. Agree to disagree then bud, ive been married for 10 years and have been happier than i ever was when i was dating, in all honesty i feel relieved i barely escaped the tinder age, i would of been decimated!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:58 PM
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But it does change the respect to your relationship/union, i agree with the wife/gf thing, but i still wouldnt like it, how old are you if i may ask? Id love to know when this change happened where some people find it okay to have the SO parade their bodies for a few dollars. Not trying to be aggresive or anything btw
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:34 PM
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So a wife its wrong a girlfriend is right? When did that change? And even then, i mean to each his own, but if you can imagine your girl doing that to please others and it doesnt bother you, then you never shared that connection to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:29 PM
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Idk about no2 man, aint onlyfans basically porn? Ive never used it so not sure, but i can tell you right now, if my wife had that even if its just for money my love for her would be gone in an instant. Being with someone, the only one who gets to see your SO in that way, the connection, the trust, all of that would be lost for a couple of dollars? Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:18 PM
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I just wanted to say one thing, dont you find it funny that out of everything you said (most of it serious mind you) people had a problem with the least serious/silly one? The dating? Lol really makes us seem dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:08 PM
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Lol yeah no but the joke at the end made me chuckle
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/22 11:51 PM
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If you wait for women to notice you, no wonder you think that way, you have to shoot your shot dude, youll get rejected a ton, but you never know. My wife never noticed me until i approached her in high school, before that we hadnt spoken at all because she was shy, she had a reputation of rejecting guys because she wanted to focus on school, i was told by friends who tried shed reject me too, i went for it anyway because so what if she rejects? Ill feel like shit for a day and move on. Celebrat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:16 PM
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Idk about that one chief, took me 2 months to have sex with my wife but she was a virgin before raised in a religious household, however i didnt have to work for first kiss or hand holding, that was first date stuff. Also super important fellas, never get married b4 having sex, idc if shes religious or not
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 01:58 PM
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Too bad shes a single mom, im sure if she wasnt she would get the deal shes looking for
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 02:29 PM
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I enjoyed the story, but the names would get me mixed up haha, but i liked it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 03:45 PM
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This is fucking insane, i wonder how i never heard of this before
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/21 01:23 PM
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Gotta love equality
/r/AntiFeminists14/10/21 04:37 AM
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In the full video she said she was joking and laughed at the insults she was getting, i think it was a joke, her nails tho damn idk why they have to be so long
/r/AntiFeminists12/10/21 12:30 PM
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