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It’s a standards thing. Men have way lower standards for casual sex. So women have sexual access to men that they are not in the same league with. Usually men have access across and down looks wise. Women have access to most men sexually so it’s easier to find a willing partner. If an average woman wants to have sex with a more attractive man she can easily. So the average man is left out. Unless the man wants to try to find below average women to have sex with but it’s just a tough pill to swal…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:34 PM
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Ya this is a good point. There’s also a good amount of guys who are not ready to settle down until they reach a certain age so it doesn’t really matter what the woman does it’s going to be a short term situation. What I’ve seen in dating is it’s awkward to ask what the other person is looking for so the woman doesn’t ask but is hoping for a relationship while the man is just looking for a hookup but doesn’t say it. It’s pretty easy as a guy to do that. Not saying it’s right but it’s common. Also…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:42 AM
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Maybe that point is moot for you personally but my overall point still has validity. There’s a bunch of stats that you can pull on divorce that point to ways to decrease risk that nobody follows. If you live in a state that votes republican you have a 27% greater chance of being divorced. Does that make you want to move?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:03 PM
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It’s interesting to me that there’s so much attention paid to this study that has a correlation with n count and divorce. Did you know that people who are actively religious report being 11% happier than non religious people? Does that make you want to be an actively religious person? 26% of evangelical couples still get divorced and you have to assume they have low n count. Basically I’m just saying that you can find stats to back up anything. Doesn’t mean you should blindly disregard quality i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 02:21 AM
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I’ve been that guy and I only hooked up with 7s if I was super wasted. Plenty of 8s and 9s willing to have casual sex trying to build a relationship. Most women start off with undeclared intentions so there not thinking it’s casual sex necessarily they think it’s the start of a potential relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 05:09 PM
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That’s not true from my experience. Most really attractive men have standards for casual sex. It plays into the status thing of “I can have casual sex with the girls you can’t”. I guy who is just constantly hooking up with 6s and 7s doesn’t really get respect from his friends. A guy who can pull 8s and 9s and only settles down when he’s ready is seen as a boss
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:04 PM
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K. Your analogy doesn’t really jive tho. Scientific fact and interpretation of a definition are very different
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:53 AM
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“demonstrating or implying an undiscriminating or unselective approach; indiscriminate or casual.” This is also a definition of promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:45 AM
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That’s true but in my opinion a woman who participated in a gang bang with 5 guys one night is more promiscuous than a women who sleeps with 15-30 throughout her 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:43 AM
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Ya I suppose so. If by true colors you mean humans who like sex with hot people then yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:06 AM
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This is how most women are now in my experience. Very high standards but if you meet those standards then it’s super easy to hookup because they want to do it as much as you do. Makes sense that if you take the stigma away women are going to sleep with the men they truly want to sleep with In my opinion sleeping with people you find super attractive and meet your standards isn’t that promiscuous. Sleeping with people just to do it without a standards is. The women your talking about are just nor…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:59 AM
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I was meaning that if it starts with casual sex and then develops into a relationship you know that she’s not settling because she would have been happy just having a sexual relationship with you. To me the beta bucks nightmare is a woman who had her fun with hot guys and then makes you wait until you commit and uses your money and resources while not wanting to actually have any sex. Starting casual guarantees that she’s sexually attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:35 AM
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That’s kind of what I was saying. It’s a good indicator that she’s not settling. I think a lot of guys fear the whole beta bucks bullshit but if she wants to have sex without any mention of a relationship then it’s pretty clear that she’s attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 12:04 AM
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It’s a tough pill to swallow trust me on that but if you can get to a point where you don’t care as much about the number and try to vet more for how well a woman fits your program your going to be a lot happier. Unfortunately the ship has sailed in the US and pretty much every attractive women past the age of 20 is racking up some substantial numbers. I personally don’t have time to sift through all the riff riff to find a “unicorn” so if a hot woman makes it clear that she wants to support my …
/r/askTRP07/03/21 03:52 PM
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Honestly man if the relationship starts out as casual sex then you know for sure she’s not settling for you. Worrying about n count in this era is just going to cause you more trouble than it’s worth. You can tell if a woman has bad intentions and if by some chance she tricks you or whatever then you learned a valuable lesson. Can’t let paranoia run your life cause the truth is you will never know the full extent of someone’s past and it might not even be relevant to who they are now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 02:55 AM
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Makes sense. Wife and I are both in the 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 06:01 PM
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I agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:16 AM
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I don’t know man. I can pull a different hot woman every month without trying super hard when single but when I click with someone I stop and prefer relationships. I think attachment style plays a big part
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:15 AM
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Don’t get down on yourself for being human. It’s ok to have made mistakes and as long as your learning from them try not to punish yourself too much. There are guys who won’t be with you because of your past but do you really want a partner who’s number one requirement is low n count? The reality is most men are grossed out by women having multiple partners but it’s a reality that we just deal with for the most part and is more of a remnant of the past that still haunts men from time to time. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:45 PM
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Great response. Ya my point was basically that a number can’t really tell you how promiscuous a woman is unless it’s insanely high. It’s much more complex than that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 08:13 PM
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I think it’s more about first time sexual encounters being not that great for both parties in comparison to when you actually feel comfortable with one another. Women also have to deal with the random guy who watches a lot of porn and is going straight into choking/anal/ degrading attempts so I assume that’s not very pleasant if that’s not what your into.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 01:39 PM
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I can actually agree with that. Everything comes from within
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:47 PM
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Idk man love has a lot of benefits but may be painful. Putting your hand on hot stove is just not a good thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:43 PM
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Ya Ramsey was worth it. Having a blue chip on your line and in your secondary pretty much guarantees a raw ass defense. They make a splash every offseason. Looks like it might pay off. The stafford price was probably super steep cause they also passed off goffs albatross contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:57 PM
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Ya extending Leonard and Nelson should be top priority. His mechanics went down with his confidence. Ya reich was oc when he had his mvp type year right? I’d be pumped if I were you man. The stafford price was fucking steep. Rams do crazy shit every offseason lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:50 PM
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He’s got a lot left in the tank. His confidence got crushed cause he didn’t have anyone to throw to and the line was hurt and jalen was breathing down his neck. The line in Indy could be the best in football and Jonathan Taylor is fantastic so he’ll do well. I could see the colts going deep in the playoffs. Complete team on both sides of the ball
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:42 PM
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Lol yup. He kept getting back up tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:32 PM
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Don’t create problems for yourself. If it’s a good relationship just enjoy it. That being said I know it’s hard to not be insecure so just think about how hot she is and realize that she’s young and hot so why would she settle? She obviously has options and chose you so just feel good that you have some qualities the others don’t. Very few people settle in their early twenties man. The settling happens sometimes later in life when your struggling to find a partner that meets your standards. Even…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:16 PM
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Wanting love is intrinsically human IMO but I’m also in the camp of do whatever floats your boat as long as your not hurting anybody. Also love is the best man. Nothing greater than having a woman love you. It might end in divorce but that’s not the end of the world. Most relationships fail but you learn a lot about yourself and usually come out of it a better person. Even if someone really fucks you up there is still lessons to be found in the pain. Builds character. Avoiding pain is weakness i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:11 PM
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I’m telling you man once you actually do it for a year it doesn’t feel that good anymore and you want someone to actually love you. You can accomplish what you need to sleeping around between relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:36 AM
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Once you get that you realize how worthless it is. The family and support is all that matters in the end. A bunch of empty interactions might boost your ego temporarily but you’ll end up being really sad and lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:19 AM
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I think timing plays a huge part too. In my early twenties I would not have married any women no matter how great they were cause I didn’t want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 08:11 PM
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Really great post
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 02:55 PM
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Once you’ve had enough experience the novelty of variety wears off and you realize that It’s kinda the same with everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 02:39 PM
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It means having many partners but in today’s age I think “many” can mean different things to different people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:53 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:24 AM
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I think women want to have sex with guys they are dating but not solely be seen as a sexual object
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:20 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:13 AM
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It’s hard to be vulnerable in the early stages tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:26 AM
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Ya I think good communication could easily resolve it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:25 AM
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Ya I agree with that. The vibe I’ve encountered tho is if your getting to know someone and dating and don’t have sex within 1-3 dates they assume your not attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:08 AM
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I think this sub isn’t always an accurate reflection of the dating scene
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:47 AM
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I agree but the dating scene is crazy right now. If you don’t have sex people move on quick. Even as a man. Women want to get physical within the first 3 dates every time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:45 AM
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They also do it cause it feels good to be physically intimate w another person. Even if it’s not as good as relationship sex it’s still mostly fun. Sometimes it’s awful but not always
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:40 AM
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I don’t know if that’s true for all women. Sex is better in relationships but if you get there by having early dating sex most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:26 AM
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Women enjoy sex too though and want to have it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:49 PM
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I think it’s healthy for everyone to question their preferences especially if they are societal norms. That being said women in their early twenties are super attractive but being a man on the edge of 30 I would not want to seriously date one because they haven’t really experienced life yet and I don’t just mean sexually. Emotionally they are pretty shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:05 PM
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I don’t think you can compare fighting to romantic relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 04:36 AM
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Ya I guess I was just saying that what others might consider high might not be so high anymore and might just be the new normal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:33 PM
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This is a fantastic post
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 02:15 AM
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I think it just signifies a deeper commitment and I also got my wife pregnant lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 11:00 PM
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Ya there seems to be some cognitive dissonance regarding attractive women and the reality of the dating market right now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 10:23 PM
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Ya that was exactly my point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 09:26 PM
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Also like 50 years ago 10 partners seemed insane and now it seems really conservative. I think we are in the midst of another shift where around 20 is becoming the new middle tier and high is becoming the 50+. Makes sense considering the accessibility to casual sex at an all time high and the societal stigma of sleeping around being pretty much taken away
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 08:31 PM
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https://www.insider.com/number-of-people-americns-say-theyve-had-sex-with-2018-8 Highish n is becoming the new norm so it’s not a great indicator of how “slutty” women are
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 08:26 PM
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Interesting points. I don’t think every woman who has a higher count fits the narrative of “can’t attract anyone good looking to fuck anymore so I’m settling for a long term relationship with this beta” is all I’m trying to point out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 08:17 PM
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Promiscuity is an opinion so that’s what I was eluding to. Modern dating has changed the game up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 07:53 PM
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I think as I’ve gotten older relationships are kinda like co running a business. If my partner contributes around the house, is beautiful and we have great times and great sex together then n count becomes almost meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:49 PM
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Being gay is their orientation. A preference would be if they only wanted to LTR guys who had slept with less than 10 men. I would tell them they should at least question why they feel that way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 02:40 PM
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That’s fair. I’m a great partner today tho and learned from my experiences. I think humans like attention
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 01:16 AM
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Ya I agree with that. Attitude plays a factor
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 12:07 AM
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What if you had access to the top 20%? Just compassion for a woman with high counts not being ruled out solely because of it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 12:00 AM
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It happens lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 11:07 PM
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What about at 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 11:05 PM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 11:02 PM
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That’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 10:55 PM
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What if the quality of partners is incredibly high?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 10:44 PM
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That’s cool man. I know how shitty it is so that’s awesome. From my experience with attractive young women the count doesn’t make a huge difference as long as it’s not insane. I cheated in every relationship before I met my wife tho so I see it through a different lens I guess. Most of the time the cheating happened before we became official tho but I still count it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 08:25 PM
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Ya it happens for sure. It also happens with women who have n counts below 5. Trust me on that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 08:19 PM
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Different strokes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 08:17 PM
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Whatever works for you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 08:16 PM
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High n to me is like 40-50
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 08:13 PM
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I don’t think it’s binary like that. Sex is and isn’t a big deal. Lot of grey in life. Not black and white. And you can like multiple people in a year. Everyone I’ve had sex with I liked. The times that I loved them were much better tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 08:00 PM
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Not at all. I’m just saying a lot of people start having sex at 15/16 and have a couple new partners a year and as you get older the number gets higher but your not trying to bang anything that moves
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:49 PM
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lol everyone has shit man
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 07:41 PM
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I totally agreed and it’s been the best thing that ever happened to me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:41 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:38 PM
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It was not planned
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:36 PM
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Nobody but most people do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:36 PM
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California college towns are not really like that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:35 PM
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I guess it depends on where your at
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:34 PM
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If your single for 9 years throughout your life and date a new person every six months that n of 18
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:33 PM
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That’s true sorry if I put words in your mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:32 PM
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We weren’t married but we were together for 5 years. I don’t pay child support and we do 50/50 time share and it totally works
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:31 PM
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That may be true. I just know how painful it was to harbor those negative thoughts and am hoping to help others just be free from them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:29 PM
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That’s true. I think you can be looking and having sex but that’s me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:27 PM
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She was raised Mormon. Idk I feel like you can kinda tell
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:27 PM
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If the alternative is to just be alone I’d choose the risk every time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:25 PM
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No shame just trying to point out that 20 can happen without them being maneaters
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:24 PM
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I have 2 children with two different very attractive women and we all make it work and live happily. I’m married to the second one. We all have n counts in the 20s and it’s all good. Women are not these “she devils” that you paint them as
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:23 PM
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Mine was highish (20s) when I cared. It was just getting older and being honest with myself about the state of dating right now. Also I don’t want to date a really young woman because the maturity is just not there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:19 PM
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Ya my low n count partner who I was with for 5 years left because she felt I had robbed her of her sleeping around years in her early twenties. She was 19 when we met and super hot. A lot of women feel the need to do it. Sometimes having experience can be good
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:18 PM
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My life experience would beg to differ. A lot of the top tier men can bang a different hot girl every month and they don’t stop till their ready to. Hot girls have counts in the 20s. Unattractive “slutty” girls are in the 100s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:15 PM
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Fair enough I guess but are women objects? I don’t think so
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:13 PM
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I’m married now but it took awhile lol. Lot of long term stuff mixed with short term stuff in between
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:13 PM
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Depends on how good they are with sausage lol. To me romantic relationships can’t be compared to job experience. Far too complex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:11 PM
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Everyone is entitled to their preferences but I think it’s healthy to question them from time to time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:09 PM
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Mostly I was just trying to get some of the men on here who have a visceral hatred toward high n women to maybe look at in it a different way. I was one of those men at one time and it was not fun
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:06 PM
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Ya I totally understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:04 PM
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From my experience you have fun until you meet someone who makes you want to stop looking and build something with them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:03 PM
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But some would say an n count of 5 is promiscuous and some would say 50. It’s a matter of opinion where you want to draw the line. How “many” is many?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 06:59 PM
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That is definitely another way that it can happen. Just trying to point out that women can get high n without it being “slutty” at all and considering what you said especially should be given more slack instead of less on partner counts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 06:57 PM
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I’m basically saying that what could appear promiscuous just by a number isn’t actually that crazy. These aren’t ravenous women just trying to bang as many dudes as possible. They are just dating around and choosing a couple men a year to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 06:53 PM
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Good for you man!!
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 04:21 PM
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Yes. Maybe this isn’t the right place for trying to get people to see things in a way that conflicts with their view of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 04:06 PM
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I feel like your jumping to a lot of conclusions. If someone had sex before you it doesn’t mean they are necessarily settling for you or using sex as a “weapon”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 03:50 PM
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Fair enough I guess. There’s a lot of women who aren’t really trying to be someone’s wife until they meet the perfect partner and aren’t trying to be celibate either so they just date around. Those girls are probably hot af with out make up too tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 10:43 PM
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You should look into the “call her daddy” podcast. Those girls are super hot and have high n counts. Lot of women do these days
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 10:37 PM
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Casual sex is usually not that great because you don’t know what the other person is into yet and if you don’t have an emotional connection it doesn’t feel as intense. It’s still much better than masturbating tho and it’s exciting. Also boosts your confidence because you feel attractive. Too much casual sex can make you feel empty after. A lot of the casual sex I’ve had tho was just dating sex that ended up not turning into a relationship. Relationships lead to more blowjobs and less condoms in …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:34 PM
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Ya I think it highlights how the “average” is really dependent on where your at so you can’t generalize too much
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:55 PM
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Ya but it is just the reality right now. A lot of things in the world are not ideal. Just gotta keep living
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 02:18 PM
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https://www.insider.com/number-of-people-americns-say-theyve-had-sex-with-2018-8
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 01:47 PM
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You are exactly right. I had a long term partner with a really low count who basically left to go sleep around cause she felt as though she missed out on it in her early twenties. It is irrelevant unless it’s in the 100s to me just because that means you have prioritized sleeping with new people over a bunch of stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 05:12 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=V67eThktnMw This is kinda long but it sums up the vibe that a lot of women have right now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 05:05 PM
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You should look up the “call her daddy” girls. They are super hot and pretty much perpetually single. They are a lot of women like that nowadays trust me on that. But there’s also a lot of women like you described as well. It just depends on where your at and who you cross paths with. A lot of attractive women are also open to sex with hot guys but actually vet more when it comes to being in a relationship so they end up next guys who turn out to be dousches and the count goes up. The media has …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 04:21 PM
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Everyone is going to feel differently about it and that’s totally cool and every opinion is valid. In my dating experience it has been really common. Every relationship I’ve had has started as casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 04:37 AM
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https://theblog.okcupid.com/why-more-people-are-having-sex-on-the-first-date-7330ddbea30f This one says about 50% of people are open to sex on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:38 AM
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That’s just not true at all in my experience. Every women I’ve dated was down within the first three dates and none of them are promiscuous. Religious girls maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:36 AM
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A lot of women are doing the whole not settling for less than perfect but dating guys to see if they meet their standards for a relationship and that’s how the number can go up quite a bit. Also a lot of top tier men in their early twenties are not looking for a serious relationship so attractive women just kinda play along
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:33 AM
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Ya dating now is very sex first so if you like somebody your going to have sex within the first month of talking. I’ve had women get really pissed that we didn’t have sex on the first date. They take it as a sign that you don’t like them. There is a “we’re adults” attitude around sex. I get it but I like to be a little bit selective
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:29 AM
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Ya for sure it does
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:27 AM
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I totally agree. In this era less than your age shows at least some standards. I think your age minus the age you lost your virginity x2 is perfectly reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:03 AM
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Ya I think it’s going to be different in different circles but the women that I’ve met have been attractive women in the party/college scene so promiscuous is like 50+ and nobody really gets a reputation cause everyone is kind of participating. If a girl hooks up with an entire friend group in a short amount of time or like multiple guys at the same party then it gets around for sure. Low in my friend group is 10-15 at my age (29). Even my friends who haven’t had any gfs have around 20 or so hoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:58 AM
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I would say that the average is in the mid twenties by the time your 30. That’s been my experience in the world. Maybe slightly higher for women because they are getting propositioned all the time. Tinder has really streamlined the dating process for a lot of people. By the time you go on the first date you almost feel like you’ve done some vetting and sex usually just happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 01:34 AM
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Straight up facts. It seems like I’m either in a weird bubble or people on this sub don’t come in contact with attractive women too often because a count in the 20’s is considered mild in my area. Granted I live in a college town in California but still lol. I honestly wish the dating scene was more conservative but the reality that I’ve experienced is if you click on date 1 you sleep together. I’ve had sex within the first 3 dates every single time and the women were very nice/beautiful and not…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 11:26 PM
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I agree 100%. This is the reality for the women of come in contact with. And if you think about it it’s only like 2 or so new partners per year if they lose their virginity at 15/16 to be in that mid range. For the amount of attention an attractive women gets over the course of a year that is not promiscuous at all in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 11:15 PM
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Can’t generalize all women into one category. They’re are women out there who behave like TRP warns. A lot of women lol. But still not even half are like that. It’s just a human thing. Some people are just not healthy. Just wanted to say that there are healthy ways to bring up insecurities with your partners and also it’s ok to have boundaries. When I first started dating my wife I calmly laid out my boundaries within a relationship and she had the choice to honor them or move on. Mine are basic…
/r/ExRedPill31/01/21 04:24 PM
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Ya man I feel you. It’s a tough pill to swallow knowing the woman you love has been with other men. In a perfect world my wife would have never been with another man but that’s not the reality I live in. She’s perfect for me right now and that’s all I can say. We might break up eventually but that’s life. I struggle with retro active jealousy so it’s made every relationship really hard but through introspection I’ve realized it’s something within me and has nothing to do with my significant othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 04:26 PM
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Low would be 5-10. Mid 10-30. High 30-50. Too high for me would be 50+. I recognize that in today’s dating market sex is very very expected and easy to come by. As a man who has had long relationships but still easily had around 20 partners I feel like it is a reasonable amount. Honestly attractive women have a harder time because a lot of the men they want to have relationships aren’t looking for that in their early twenties so they can either be celibate and wait or settle for less or just eng…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 03:45 PM
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Low 5-15 Mid 15-30 High 30-50 Too high 50+ For women in their late twenties IMO always exceptions but for the most part this is accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 01:35 PM
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Totally agree
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