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1

it only has value until it is scarce. once they line up, it loses all value, and we treat them as disposable. which is why they say men are assholes. the truth is everyone seems like that if they are sought after. an 28 you have time to change stuff. i am 42 and i still pull 21-28 regularly.
/r/seduction14/08/26 04:48 PM
2

sorry about that, it was meant as a joke
/r/seduction01/06/26 05:40 PM
3

probably the fact that he didnt made posts like this on reddit sorry i had to do this. lol
/r/seduction01/06/26 11:49 AM
2

baby dont hurt me
/r/seduction30/05/26 03:22 PM
2

i did the dating for a while, gathered some 5-6 friends with benefits, who just meet up with me every now and then, regardless if they are in relationships or not, and otherwise they leave me alone to do my thing. i would never change this.
/r/seduction30/05/26 03:18 PM
1

why the down votes lol? this is the correct answer. dudes you gotta learn some game urgently.
/r/seduction29/05/26 11:06 PM
1

"i fight against ice giants. you are welcome" if you actually answer seriously, you already lost. no matter what job you have. you just addmitted you are boring.
/r/seduction29/05/26 11:05 PM
2

as someone who was a looks maxxer before it was cool, let me tell you that looks will make you not even need to talk to them. they will come to you and offer themselves on a silver plate. all i had to do in a club is go to a girl, reach out with my hand to come to dance, she looked at me, then instantly held my hand and started dancing, and we were making out 10 seconds later. with some of them we just went outside and do more spicy things. not anymore bc i gained weight since, and i have a ling…
/r/seduction30/04/26 02:20 PM
6

maybe also skip random young kids.
/r/seduction22/03/26 12:34 PM
5

i know this is the seduction subreddit, but let me give you an advice: dont be so obsessed with girls. it shows, and it looks like desperation even if you try to hide it. the secret is to genuinely not care, and then they will come. and if not, then fine bc you genuinely dont care. win/win. just live your life, improve yourself, be happy.
/r/seduction22/03/26 12:33 PM
2

chill daddy, no need to agitate yourself.
/r/seduction14/02/26 04:51 PM
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this is AI post by a bot.
/r/seduction13/02/26 11:19 PM
1

if a girl likes you, she finds ecxuses to be with you if a girl does NOT like you, she will find excuses not to be with you. as they say, there are guys who make girls break rules, and those who make girls MAKE rules. it is what it is.
/r/seduction10/02/26 08:32 PM
1

it means she doesnt like you. move on and forget her. girls play games only with guys they dont like. even if you succeed and she will settle, you will be the inferior one in this relationship.
/r/seduction10/02/26 07:54 AM
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this post was just a pretext so they can post the link, and hope nobody will mark it as bot spam.
/r/seduction11/01/26 01:09 AM
1

the genius even left the "—" signs in the chat. he prompted some crap into chat gpt, copy pasted the answer here to sell some worse crap to naive people.
/r/seduction11/01/26 01:07 AM
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thanks, CHATGPT
/r/seduction11/01/26 01:05 AM
2

depends: is she the type who fishes for attention by publicly shaming people attracted to her on social media? some women get their kick off posting screenshots of dm's or texts by people who try to get to know them. these must be avoided by EVERY man. if she doesnt do that? you can try.
/r/seduction07/01/26 07:21 PM
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if a girl likes you she will tolerate EVERYTHING. before i got steady, in my 20's i was very attractive and if a girl decided she likes me, she found some "context" for every crap i did, and found excuses. and i did a lot of crap. i was cold, needy, uninterested, rude, with various girls. nothing mattered. they threw tantrums, got hurt, etc, but when i called them for a booty call, they were there like clockwork all hopeful-like that maybe things will get better. if she "kinda" likes you then ye…
/r/seduction06/01/26 12:35 AM
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nice job, chatGPT
/r/seduction06/01/26 12:29 AM
1

you are wrong. they are remarkable you just cant see it. girls can. in my 20s i was an attractive guy. still am kind of, just dont care anymore. girls actively came to me initiating stuff. all i had to do is choose. even now, married women i know try to initiate stuff. they are just as into looks as men are. they are after status or money only if looks is not enough or if they look for planning a future. if you look good as a guy, you have it made. this also includes being tall. sadly this is so…
/r/seduction04/01/26 09:11 PM
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get a hobby
/r/seduction03/01/26 08:55 PM
0

not caring about it. when i realized that, i stopped being a simp, and girls started to be attracted. i was 22 at that time. i started being myself, unapologetic, improving myself for MYSELF, and not doing things i dont want just to be with a girl. and started saying NO.
/r/seduction03/01/26 06:54 PM
1

too much work just for sex.
/r/seduction03/01/26 06:04 PM
5

if a woman is not married until 40, major red flag. she is either never satisfied with anyone, too crazy for anyone to marry her, alpha widow, or antisocial. 20's much better, they are more open, less set in their ways etc.
/r/seduction17/12/25 07:49 AM
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act nice, but unfazed. he will look like a jerk in front of others. also, if he targets you it means he sees you as a valid competition and thinks the girls would choose you over him and he tries to make you look less. use this information as you wish.
/r/seduction06/12/25 05:17 PM
1

i sometimes actually do something liek this, and they love it. in the heat of the moment while she is in the mood, i just whisper something like "i am gonna F you now". it's a turn on when applied at the right time. it also gives them an opportunity to say "not yet" or something and then we can just do other stuff without being awkward or anyone feeling rejected.
/r/seduction03/12/25 08:37 AM
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yes. this guy gets it. neck, ears, some light biting and licking, they will beg you to go all the way. maybe OP is awkwardly asking them in the middle of it idk, but i think he takes them out of the mood at a certain point.
/r/seduction02/12/25 03:28 PM
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if you have foreplay but they dont wanna get to sex, you, my guy have a horrible foreplay game. girls work super easy. as long as you can get the hormones moving, they will never say no. not even the most religious pious prudes. out of curiosity, what do you consider foreplay?
/r/seduction02/12/25 03:25 PM
1

if i can have a different burger every day, why buy the cow?
/r/seduction25/11/25 06:42 PM
0

you cant tell me how i should live. you are not my father.
/r/seduction24/11/25 12:48 PM
1

this comment proves you are not the chad type :) thx for the clarification.
/r/seduction19/11/25 05:21 PM
1

"i can change him" mentality kicks in in them. the delusion is strong when they are attracted.
/r/seduction19/11/25 04:58 PM
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“Just be upfront about wanting something casual and you’ll find girls who want the same.” this the fastest way of losing the interest of every girl you meet, unless you are superchad and they are obsessed with you.
/r/seduction19/11/25 03:33 PM
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i wanna know more about your friend. he seems like a fine chap.
/r/seduction14/11/25 04:10 PM
3

avoid politics on dates. it will never turn out good.
/r/seduction12/11/25 12:21 PM
1

lose weight, dress well
/r/seduction15/10/25 08:22 AM
1

fat = playing the seduction game on impossible difficulty. worse than being short or ugly.
/r/seduction27/09/25 05:08 PM
1

tl;dr
/r/seduction27/09/25 09:21 AM
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Negging works. Being a toxic psycho works. Being a good person with a stable personality will get you labeled boring. Probably an evolution thing, and i dont even judge this, but i see many people coping and denying.
/r/seduction22/09/25 02:10 PM
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i most consistently get laid by having a long time relationship. gets me laid every day
/r/seduction22/09/25 02:03 PM
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oh sorry about that lol. i misread.
/r/seduction22/09/25 08:50 AM
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of course. but you have to read the room. dont just splurt it out randomly. with your girlfriend you can do it like at any time, its normal. with others... one example was in a group setting there was a new girl, we started talking, clicking, made my usual attraction checks, she passed, we started kissing a bit, and then i whispered it in her ear when i was sure she was a bit turned on. she didnt answer just kissed me back harder, so we told everyone we will go to my place to show her my aquariu…
/r/seduction22/09/25 07:50 AM
1

down to fk. like available for sex.
/r/seduction17/09/25 02:05 AM
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for this you HAVE to be very attractive. it will not work if you are not the kind of guy who gets approached by girls all the time. next step is easy. what i do to filter them out is i start with: sorry i am not looking for a relationship. if they talk to you afterwards, they are DTF.
/r/seduction13/09/25 08:11 PM
9

in a world where a look can get you an grape charge, you bet people will not approach.
/r/seduction11/09/25 05:45 AM
309

and then OP woke up. not because it is impossible, random hook ups ARE possible, but if you behave like this in real life the girls will think you are a creep, unless you are a movie star and she is some psycho.
/r/seduction08/09/25 05:55 AM
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do you think women in bars have queues of men like in the supermarket? also the most approached women are the 4-7 range. that is the reason why they are also more entitled than 8-10. most men see a 9-10, decide they will never score, and just try their luck with the 6, who rejects them because she is surrounded by similar thirsty guys. my best blind approach in night clubs or bars is to go to the 9 - 10, present myself, tell her i noticed she looks very different from all the other girls, nice t…
/r/seduction06/09/25 08:48 PM
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25-35
/r/seduction06/09/25 08:26 PM
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maybe she liked that. it's a numbers game. if you walk around with open eyes, you eventually find smone dtf.
/r/seduction27/08/25 06:06 PM
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you have to be attractive. if you have to ask here, you are not. sorry. so you either start practicing and fail your way to success, or stay in this place. i am kind of attractive and i am an empath so i had same day hookups many times. but in my friend circle, some guys never did, no matter how long they tried. because they were either ugly, selected the wrong kind of girl for this, or tried too hard. some tips maybe, if that helps: - look for signs of attraction: is the girl laughing at your l…
/r/seduction27/08/25 05:54 PM
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next time don't generate stories with chatgpt, and you won't get downvotes. and before you deny it, remember that no human ever uses the " — " character. it is not even on the keyboard, you need an alt code to write it. chatgpt however LOVES using this. and there are other signs this was AI generated. so yeah.
/r/seduction23/08/25 01:38 AM
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thanks, CHAT GPT
/r/seduction23/08/25 01:36 AM
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yes, sure. until a dark triad toxic guy turns up, and she will go with him and never look back. i know, i am that guy. what you describe is fine for being a nice human being, but those traits will NOT create attraction.
/r/seduction23/08/25 01:31 AM
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nothing wrong with porn. rub one out and continue improving yourself. women are drama, you don't need that.
/r/seduction20/08/25 07:43 AM
2

this only works if the guy is attractive
/r/seduction19/08/25 09:26 PM
1

women make rules for some and break rules for others. if for her it depends on mood and persuasion and "personality", you know which category you are.
/r/seduction19/08/25 01:39 PM
2

asking questions like these
/r/seduction13/08/25 02:36 PM
-1

lower your standards. you try to date outside your attraction level. same with women: all the guys you like want only to sleep with you? guess what.
/r/seduction12/08/25 07:50 PM
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in a relationship, all the time. outside of it, rarely. probably more often if you look very good.
/r/seduction12/08/25 07:55 AM
4

this guy gets it. women always say they want nice dependable predictible men, but they are not attracted to them. just as we men dgaf about if a girl is confident or not. its just not something we care about.
/r/seduction12/08/25 12:28 AM
1

you probably are not a native english speaker, so tell me please where did i say that the founder and the dev are women? if you do, i will send you a box of candy.
/r/seduction26/07/25 09:55 PM
1

well i hope you do talk to multiple girls and not just one. in which case you forget about her and write again when she is home. if she is down, you win, if not, next.
/r/seduction26/07/25 08:27 PM
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it's a stalking and revenge app for unattractive women. i am sure it will not fail soon. if not, we already started coding a similar app for men. if tea is not banned, it is open season for us too. except we are actual devs and we will make a secure one.
/r/seduction26/07/25 08:22 PM
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a 6 is the hardest to bag unless you are a 9+ averages and ugly girls are the most shallow and they have the highest standards because they are compensating. and now that every swamp hag gets their dm's filled with bob and vagene people complimenting them, even harder. for me, it is much much easier picking up 8-9 than the averages. the prettier the more down to earth and wholesome. (not talking about a 6 with a make up so they look like fake 9)
/r/seduction23/07/25 02:39 PM
1

you THINK you are more attractive. if you were, it would be easier.
/r/seduction23/07/25 02:35 PM
3

we both do nature photography and dancing as a hobby.
/r/seduction18/07/25 05:33 PM
6

i am 42 and my current girlfriend is 19. idk if it is inappropriate but we get along well.
/r/seduction18/07/25 02:24 PM
2

women think differently. what we think is arrogant and bitter, they percieve as confidence. wanna have success with women, do what the "boss babes" do. they think that is cool. same logic as with men who think they have to be "nice" to get girls, because they like "nice" girls. different genders want different things. know your target audience.
/r/seduction12/07/25 02:22 PM
2

i always put "no fatties, no single moms, if you are crazy you must be hot." i get a lot of starting convos from girls to define crazy. and then some turn into lays.
/r/seduction12/07/25 02:20 PM
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you are experiencing the 80:20 rule. blame social media. every uggo is now getting at least some desperate DM's from the bob and vagene types, so they think they are the hot shot, so they think they only "deserve" the top of the top guys. if they are above 5/10 they dont just get the "marry me" crap, they get offers to go to various places like idk, dubai, to be boned by some rich guy. ego inflation on steroids. now, here is you, average guy, they all think they can do better. it is how it is. y…
/r/seduction04/07/25 04:48 AM
4

this, but he can still be confident while working on his body.
/r/seduction27/06/25 02:26 PM
2

a rare seduction post i actually agree with. and this is why they do it too, because they think we value the same thing, and they get surprised when they find out that men hate this in a woman and we value modesty. some learn eventually.
/r/seduction27/06/25 02:25 PM
3

... that you know of. girls can keep secrets and they can lie without batting an eye. you must remember, for them, projecting a good image about themselves is way more important than reality.
/r/seduction27/06/25 01:55 PM
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you can't. all it means she is not into you and wants to hold on a bit until she will see how things work out with the guy she REALLY likes. best to move on.
/r/seduction27/06/25 01:39 PM
1

dude what country you live in? i dare any bartender or anyone do this in the balkans lol.
/r/seduction24/06/25 08:48 AM
1

you never ask for a kiss, dude. huge turn off. just let it get there naturally.
/r/seduction15/06/25 08:40 AM
12

red flag. if she did that for you, she will dump you for the next new thing.
/r/seduction08/06/25 03:07 AM
2

the real reason is actually that agreeableness is a sign you are not attractive and you compensate with it. super attractive people don't need to be nice because other people give them everything on a silver plate. like it or not, that is what it is. agreeableness is a sign of a subordinate. an employee, a servant, etc, aka, NOT a leader. most men think that if they value nice and well behaved women, it is the same the other way around. just like when women think if they value status and confide…
/r/seduction23/05/25 03:13 AM
2

nah. i never loved women nor men but i have lots of success getting laid. all you need is some looks and rizz. theorycrafting is nerdy which is NOT something girls looking for in a guy.
/r/seduction20/05/25 01:34 PM
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do what we all do. spin plates, have some girls in the friendzone for your attention needs. they do the same, we do the same, its how the game is played.
/r/seduction18/05/25 06:30 PM
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before 22 i was not fat, i had very good success with girls. usually THEY approached me. between 22-27 i was fat, i had almost zero success at 27 i lost weight, i got very good success again. draw your conclusions. i have good game, and girls love me mostly. but when i was fat, i still saw them wanting to be near me, but they couldnt overcome the weight problem. some even told me so. being fat is way worse than being ugly. this is the same for women too. this is the sad reality. we can of course…
/r/seduction16/04/25 07:12 AM
1

never pursue a serious relationship BEFORE the seggsy time. she has to commit first, else you will be the simp in the relationship. until she commits first, consider it non exclusive dating.
/r/seduction19/02/25 03:39 AM
1

a man with options doesn't write posts like that on reddit. if i am mistaken, i am still happy for him.
/r/seduction07/02/25 12:30 PM
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she will leave you for the same toxic guy. women see agreeableness as a beta feature, as a mating strategy for unattractive guys. you are on your way to the friendzone. girls dont go for toxic guys because they are naive, they do it because it excites them.
/r/seduction06/02/25 02:06 PM
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you can have any mindset, if you don't look good, you are deluding yourself. yes there are a small percentage of women who are about mindset, but looking good is 99%. you are ugly = you are screwed. you have no idea how women work, all that confidence talk is BS, if you look good they will be dtf even if you are a monkey IQ rtard. if you are average, confidence, money, etc helps. if you are ugly or even worse, fat, game over.
/r/seduction29/12/24 11:16 AM
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i rate people all the time. and i change my ratings frequently. some girls are like wow, 9/10 and then, they open their mouth ... -8 points right there. [EDIT] also, you don't rate yourself, that is pointless. all the mid and delusional people rate themselves 10/10. you rate others. and others rate you.
/r/seduction03/12/24 12:34 PM
0

at least you tried :)
/r/seduction26/10/24 03:03 AM
-8

why does it hurt you so much if people use certain words to describe certain things? we can't always give novel length descriptions to things so we invent words for them. for example we have a word for guys who write articles like these: omega males.
/r/seduction26/10/24 02:58 AM
2

what is the TL;DR version?
/r/seduction23/10/24 08:42 PM
11

my experience: - if you are good looking, girls react positively to everything you do unless super gross or rude - if you are NOT good looking, but also not BAD looking, good social skills can make a difference - if you are ugly/fat/short, whatever you do, you will have very rare positive results, and those will be girls who have genuinely low self esteem and think they dont deserve better (dont get me wrong these can be beautiful ones too, just SUPER rare), or the ones who are very pragmatic an…
/r/seduction23/10/24 08:39 PM
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do not think she is out of your league. if you do you already lost.
/r/seduction02/10/24 08:28 AM
1

i was also single at that age. and i know i am crazy. we have to be real. BUT: only bc i am crazy i still want a normal girl. unfair? maybe. but it is my choice. it's her fault if she can't see MY red flags :D EDIT: i am 40 now. still not married but i have a gf and a fwb.
/r/seduction12/09/24 08:30 PM
1

there is a reason she is single at 36. red flag.
/r/seduction11/09/24 01:18 PM
2

sure, if you wanna be a simp. but remember, they will NEVER consider you anything but a mark/client.
/r/seduction16/07/24 05:34 PM
1

only if you are average looking. i experienced both sides. before i put some weight on, everywhere i went, all i had to do is to talk to a girl, sometimes they came to talk to me, and we hooked up. idk about you all's experiences, but in eu, where i live, if you look really good and dress clean, most girls are dtf in a heartbeat. even those in relationships. and they ignore all kinds of lack of intelligence or personality flaws, if you are good looking. many of my girl friends told me, they had …
/r/seduction16/07/24 04:27 PM
2

anyone denying this is delusional
/r/seduction09/07/24 09:12 PM
7

average/ugly girls come with the highest standards because they want to compensate.
/r/seduction31/05/24 04:33 PM
2

in most families with high status rich husbands, the children are from good looking nobodies. more than you think. i know first hand.
/r/seduction30/05/24 08:36 PM
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looks is far more important. after that, personality (and not the good one either, just watch all those videos where girls break up with a guy bc he is too good). for money and power to have any effect, you have to be at least average looking, and not too nice. if you are fat or ugly but have money, you can still pull women but they will cheat behind your back with the attractive ones all the time. of course there are always exceptions or weird fetishes.
/r/seduction30/05/24 08:26 PM
2

41, and my current girlfriend is 20. so no :)
/r/seduction08/05/24 07:55 AM
2

they lie. they wanna seem innocent and serious. nobody registers on a dating app for a serious relationship. and if they do, it is 1% of those who say they do. just go ahead.
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:12 PM
1

forgive my necro, i just came here after watching a sitcom and this question popped into my head so i googled it and this is the first result. in sitcoms, it is not only accepted, but it is considered FUNNY for women to abuse men, not just by hitting them, sexual abuse is also totally fine. TBH i only saw this in american sitcoms so this must be an american thing. i think it is kind of unfair. you shouldn't have to "just shut up and take it" just because you were unlucky to be born with a wiener…
/r/MensRights18/02/24 10:50 PM
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op how old are you?
/r/seduction03/10/22 05:51 PM
1

wow and some of you guys wonder why you are alone. this is just like those toxic women who nobody likes and they are convinced that "men are afraid of smart women" and end up with 20 cats. yeah... smart... ok. have fun finding women who settle for "boring". i don't mean it sarcastically, i really wish you good luck mate. there are women like that, just very few.
/r/seduction15/09/22 12:00 PM
1

i think you misunderstand the guy. he is not saying to be sugar daddy or provider. women are interested mostly in one thing: having fun. if you can entertain them, you are golden. having money makes it easier, and you have more options. this is the same for all ages. the worst crime in a woman's eye is to be boring. the sooner you realize this the sooner you can be dik deep in poon.
/r/seduction14/09/22 09:33 PM
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i am 40 and i am dating 18-29 only. it is true that i look at least 10 years younger because i take care of myself and i am in good shape. so my truth is that for girls age doesn't matter if you are attractive. true, i bring them for bike rides and expensive hotels, but i never do anything "sugar daddy"-ish. some of the became FWB after we broke up, and last month a 23yo GF jokingly said i should ask her for marriage. as long as you can give girls the 2 things they actually care: status and fun …
/r/seduction14/09/22 09:25 PM
2

you will just get downvoted here if you write reason. this sub became an ego stroke orgy for losers. and cliche copy-paste advices from cosmopolitan. they don't want information. delusion all the way baby. "just be confident" and BS like that, and you get the votes. remember to write it all sensitive-like, like a good little metrosexual manlet. heavens forbid to hurt the fragile ego of the bunch reading this sub. i tried to write the truth about how to succeed and all i got was butthurt feedback…
/r/seduction25/03/19 03:57 PM
2

you stand out by looking good. if you are average, you have to be creative with your convo. create an interesting tinder profile where you look as handsome as you can, and you manage with "hello"-s. sometimes not even that is needed because they write first. what a LOT of people don't get is that girls have decided about you before your first hello. and not only on tinder, but real life too. yes, sometimes with a lot of hard work and trying your best to be "creative", you can make them like you,…
/r/seduction08/01/19 02:08 AM
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i don't like older women :D that said, when i finished high school i had a 3 years long relationship with my former psychology teacher who was 11 years older than me. it was ok, but she wanted to get married, her parents hated me because i was so young, so we broke up.
/r/seduction12/12/18 06:44 AM
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most of the times the "handsome" guys are occasionally ...umm having sex with that girl on a fwb basis. you know the friendzone right? when girls cling to handsome guys as a friend, it is the same, plus the occasional sex in the hopes that the guy will eventually fall in love with them. which never happens, but they keep hoping. so i advise you to at least try with other girls too. this way you can avoid the anxiety associated with persuing only one woman. and if you are looking for some exclusi…
/r/seduction06/12/18 02:36 AM
1

escalate
/r/seduction04/12/18 11:03 PM
1

true. i always test them with 3. and 4. for one because i am a very touchy-feely person, i always hug my friends when i meet them, and even new people i meet. some find it weird, but they all comply and they actually like it. i have to add that i do it very naturally, not in the awkward or creepy way. i am super friendly, and open always, even with my clients. so when i meet with a girl, i admire her earrings by touching it (and her ears), hold her hand to look at her ring, lead her from the low…
/r/seduction04/12/18 10:48 PM
1

take dance lessons :) it usually helps. even salsa will do. it will help your moves in general, and salsa courses are great for picking up chicks too.
/r/seduction21/11/18 10:28 AM
1

this :) but you now triggered the beta white knights, brace yourself for a mini shitstorm.
/r/seduction20/11/18 11:59 AM
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i am one by women's standards. they love it. the community here doesn't. i probably will get downvoted again by beta white knights, but whatever. "bad boy" is unrelated to what you wear or what you do as a job. constantly getting into fights is also lame, and more a neurotic thing than an a bad boy thing. i wear the most normal clothes like jeans, tshirt, leather jacket occasionally suits. being the "bad boy" that women love and other man hate is all about yourself, and your frame. you have to h…
/r/seduction20/11/18 11:55 AM
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6 - You’ll have more success with women if you appeal to their emotions rather than their logical minds 9 - Women lose respect for you if you obey them too much 12 - Most of them want to be dominated in the bedroom ​ and when i write tips that WORK based on these, i get downvoted to oblivion by white knights.
/r/seduction20/11/18 11:35 AM
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yes, i always have "plates". i don't even keep it a secret. she found out because i told her when the subject came up.
/r/seduction18/11/18 07:45 PM
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so what is the problem here? she was happier the whole time than with any other man. she told me so. when i left her, she called me for weeks trying to get back together. to each their own. if being the good guy works for you, more power to you friend. idk why this urge to white knight even when i explained, she was happy with me. she told me i was the first guy in her life who was exciting, and she felt safe with me. she told me i am wild, and how she loves it. that i have "many layers". in my …
/r/seduction18/11/18 07:43 PM
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sometimes. we broke up since then. more info here
/r/seduction18/11/18 07:39 PM
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oh they do that, they like to play with your feelings, i had one who told me her father was beating her, her mother also, everyone just wanted to take advantage of her, etc. wanted me to be the white knight. luckily i didn't give a crap about those stories (i pretended i did though), turned out she was bipolar, and crazy. after 3 months of dating and she constantly telling me she wants to marry me (i cringed inside, but played along), she ghosted, and i found out she got married to a schmuck who…
/r/seduction18/11/18 11:53 AM
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me being a dark triad manipulative arse, i usually keep up the attraction by giving them enough drama combined with very good time, to keep them hooked. it works. it shouldn't work, but somehow it does. i also frame the relationship as a hierarchy, by my actions, so that she knows i am first and she is second. i tell her the opposite though. it is not intentional though, just me being insane. but i saw that until i keep her hamster spinning, and her thighs wet, she is hooked. my last gf when she…
/r/seduction18/11/18 11:32 AM
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she decides to tell me about her eventful, sort of depressing life and there's a moment where she says she's shy and has always been single and no guys liked her and stuff and I ofc let her know I do RED FLAG. sort of depressing life and there's a moment where she says she's shy and has always been single = looking for attention, plus she has a boring personality, expecting others to entertain her, probably not too intelligent either. i met too many of this type. no guys liked her and stuff = sh…
/r/seduction18/11/18 11:21 AM
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i am from southern europe. hug and kiss is social norm there, but i have success with this all over europe. i meet a girl we hug, and i kiss both her cheeks. sometimes at the end of this, i slide my hands on her arms, and hold both her hands for 2-4 seconds, then suddenly i say "let's go", and we go get a table, or whatever we wanted to do. if the girl is not a purple haired feminist, or a psycho, she will at most be surprised, but pleasantly. this oils up the field, and makes the seduction proc…
/r/seduction31/10/18 12:52 PM
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she just wants attention. aka using you while you get nothing in return. ignore her completely. interested girls will never waste your time.
/r/seduction29/10/18 03:46 PM
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everyone can score. looking good is just the "easy mode". it just means girls will not approach you by themselves and instead YOU must approach them. not a tragedy. it is a numbers game. the guy probably gets rejected a lot, but who cares, next. if you approach a lot, you will get laid eventually. and your experience grows, and after a while your intuition will tell you how to score with certain girls.
/r/seduction24/10/18 08:30 PM
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but they know why I'm approaching them exactly :) this is the point. they SHOULD know why you approach. this is what i mean approaching as a man. to not hide your intentions, while still being casual and cool about it, like it is not a big deal. that said, i almost never approach strangers on the street or just randomly. i do it at certain social settings like dance courses (90% of people use dance courses as an analogue tinder, i suggest attending these if you wanna meet willing girls), parties…
/r/seduction24/10/18 08:24 PM
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noo, keep yourself in shape! :) it is worth it even without women. you don't need female validation to feel good mate. if you are in shape, you can still pull. i did it even when i was fat, so it is possible. there are lots of girls who are more into personality, and actually those are the more valuable ones. just be friendly, open, and go for the girl you want. it is a numbers game. you will get rejected and you will also have success. the numbers improve with practice. i had a basic rule that …
/r/seduction24/10/18 04:44 PM
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i am lucky to have a pretty face lol and i am also 186cm. lost weight from 135 to 85kg. dunno what else to say. it is just my experience. girls who previously ignored my advances, are now actively flirting and trying to get close. the only thing that changed is my weight.
/r/seduction24/10/18 04:19 PM
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same boat. was fat, had mediocre success. lost fat, now stranger girls message me on facebook to meet, at parties they come and flirt, freebies... dunno i got those before too, not as much as females though, but i never really cared about it. but yeah, once you reach the "handsome tall" level, getting laid is a matter of being in the mood to. i have 3 fwb who admitted they want to be my girlfriend, but they accept to meet sometimes for a lay too, if i don't want them as LTR. it is crazy, and i a…
/r/seduction24/10/18 01:29 PM
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girls also go for looks, especially if they want one night stands or fuck buddies. when it comes to long term, it is usually the average/uglies who search for a handsome guy. when i was fat, i got very rare successes with girl, but they were all very pretty. the other rejected me very often. now, the others offer themselves on platter, and the beautiful ones are suspicious, one said when she rejected me, that it is because i seem like a player, and she wants stability, and she could not trust me…
/r/seduction24/10/18 01:23 PM
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i never used pua products in my life :)))) i gathered some tips from youtube videos, or forums (i was an active member of sosuave.com for many years) when i was younger, but i stopped after a while, and just learned from my own mistakes. it is really easy once you defeat the fear of approach/rejection. after that it is a numbers game. the numbers improve over time, and experience.
/r/seduction25/09/18 03:11 PM
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it wasn't premeditated. i planned to answer but i just forgot. i think for me the "secret" is that i don't really care about one individual girl. they are all replaceable. they all have the same instruments, and for friendship i got my male friends.
/r/seduction25/09/18 10:00 AM
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i also received "the text" once. i didn't even ask her for a relationship she just wrote out of nowhere that it wouldn't work for us. i just didn't answer. a month later she called me to see what i was doing and we should go get a coffee. we fuked that day. after that i continued to ignore her forever. she left a couple of long text messages. i sent her back a smiley. good times. ​ i don't agree with everything, just one point: have plates man. monogamy is so yesterday. just keep it private. peo…
/r/seduction24/09/18 09:34 PM
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i boned a lot of service industry workers. they sure didn't mind me hitting on them.
/r/seduction22/09/18 04:31 PM
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this is true. i can't believe how delusional people are. i experienced it on myself. since i lost weight, casual sex comes effortlessly. sometimes girls i met in a bar are blowing me in the car 10 minutes after. this NEVER EVER happened when i was overweight. and believe me the "confidence" was the same. i still had a steady flow of girls being fat, just lower quality, and i always had to be funny and confident. i also have good looking friends, and girls are picking them up. while those with av…
/r/seduction18/09/18 02:32 PM
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kindergarten teacher XD (it's a joke don't get offended ples)
/r/seduction18/09/18 02:22 PM
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this may work if he is attractive. i am lucky to have a handsome face, and since i lost weight, i get away with even the stupidest pick up lines and even being an asshole. if i am nice, they even fall in love. the majority of young women are exactly as superficial as we are, and if you look good, they are DTF without hesitation. i know i know, confidence, and such, but just try it. create a fake tinder with an image of a handsome guy and act the same as you do usually. watch the difference. exac…
/r/seduction18/09/18 02:18 PM
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there are many girls who know beforehand they want nothing to do with the guy, but still flirt to get free meals by leading the poor sucker. i know girls like this, and they do it with exactly this purpose. this is well within the definition of "scam artists". and what about this new trend where girls walk out on guys, and they just have to say "they feel threatened" and the whole restaurant is in on it, and still make the guy pay. don't pretend this isn't a double standard game. even if the gir…
/r/seduction15/09/18 07:18 PM
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ignore the behavior. act as nothing happened. works for me 100% times. if she calls you out on it, shrug it off with a joke or pretend you have no idea why she is mad. if she continues, tell her something like "i see you are angry. we can talk later when you feel like it" and then ignore everything she says until she calms down. it's a dark triad type of response, and it seems like it angers women, and it does, but it just makes them attracted even more.
/r/seduction14/09/18 01:08 PM
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" He was in it for the free food. " prison for this? if true, i call for imprisonment for half of the women population.
/r/seduction14/09/18 01:02 PM
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i am also curious.
/r/seduction20/08/18 10:00 PM
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to an extent yes.
/r/seduction20/08/18 01:53 PM
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it should be traits of a normal man. thing is, majority of western men got so emasculated, former normal guys are considered "bad boys" but this OP is true regardless, so i agree.
/r/seduction19/08/18 06:10 PM
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could be, depends on culture. if in your country girls get mental from a touch, yes it is weird. the secret is to do it naturally. when i meet a girl i always start with a handshake, touch her back when we go inside somewhere, touch the neck when i make a remark about her earrings etc. maybe it's just me, but it works excellently. the girls always get in the mood. and when they don't, i see it the first time i hold her hands to see their ring, or something neutral, and so i don't have to put her…
/r/seduction16/08/18 06:13 PM
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don't confess. initiate physical contact. touch her hands, her arms, when you flirt with her, run your fingertips along her arms, watch her reactions. tell her she smells good, lean in smell her neck, maybe even kiss it. you don't say, you act. and at any point you can see how she reacts. accepting, getting horny, uncomfortable, rejection etc. she will know you like her. if you confess BEFORE you get physical, the chance for rejection and friendzone is way higher. be physical, escalate, and she …
/r/seduction16/08/18 11:59 AM
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you don't. she flakes, you next.
/r/seduction02/06/18 01:18 PM
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i have a cat. british shorthair. everyone loves it, especially because she is really friendly in a non-invasive way. it really helps with the mood. her cat-toilet is on the balcony, so in the house there is never any smell, and the kitty litter can be cleaned very easily (i also hate smells and picking up poo). i even walk the cat. girls pick me up instead of me picking them. and i am also a cat person.
/r/seduction16/05/18 06:08 PM
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i feel you. i am the same. i do some PUA and i socialize heavily to hone my skills and be a better partner (more fun and not boring) for when i find someone special, besides going to the gym and generally trying to be the best version of me. but me being sapiosexual, intelligence and correctness turn me on the most. luckily in my area girls who are intelligent, and can be best friends AND girlfriends, exist, though very rare. you will have to browse, and hope to get lucky. as a guy i can only ad…
/r/seduction16/05/18 05:27 PM
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what kind of guys do YOU like? maybe you don't like the guys who also want relationship. interesting, adventurous, very fit guys rarely want relationship, because why buy the cow when you can just have the milk. very sought after boys will never want relationship, or if they do they will cheat on you anyway because why not. but same with girls. what also sux for both men and women is this weird culture now where everyone is empowered or frustrated or both, so nobody trusts each other. good men t…
/r/seduction16/05/18 03:02 PM
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She is either: not into you stupid AF advice: escalate and go for sex. if she rejects you, case 1. if she goes with it, case 2. i have a girl i occasionally bone, who is case 2. she is so stupid it hurts. she cannot keep a conversation if her life depends on it. but she is pretty, and she comes over when i call her.
/r/seduction15/05/18 02:10 PM
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