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| 251 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men) | CMV | RandomKeyForgePlayer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 12:08 PM |
| 31 | "The Wall" did exist for previous generations' women,but it's much less hard for modern ones | CMV | RandomKeyForgePlayer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men) | Discussion | RandomKeyForgePlayer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 09:05 PM |
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| 1 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)i understood something better about FDS, so some of my points aren't so valid, but the rest is totally valid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Is there something wrong with fat girls?I think fat guys don't get shamed on the internet as much as fat women because men have already other traits they're made fun of: height and dick size(permanent traits). The physical traits you can make jokes about on a woman is basically her weight. Height and boobs size aren't a discriminant,while weight makes them unattractive to many men. I also think that men don't get offended much by fat jokes because you can lose fat, it's not a forever condition. There was a period in my life where i pu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 08:48 PM |
| 8 | To address the Gender Inequality on this Subreddit, all Misogyny is now BannedNice April fool's ahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 02:57 PM |
| 10 | For a legit HVM, what does he get out of dating an FDS woman? What's in it for him?r/FemaleDatingStrategy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 05:59 PM |
| 0 | Do you think societies with flipped leadership roles can function?and what you do when a male is born? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 04:05 PM |
| 0 | Do you think societies with flipped leadership roles can function?what do you mean with separatism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Career women are not miserable.Women attempt suicide more than men,but their success rate is lower and one of the hypothesis is that they intentionally choose less lethal methods,because their act is a scream for help,so it's normal that they seek more help for suicide. Even if the previous point wasn't true, men don't seek help for suicide for other reasons,especially because the reason for men's suicide are different from women. There are also other studies about women feeling more society pressure,you can easily find them.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Career women are not miserable.That's not what I'm saying. Bruh I'm not a soyboy, I've been in Redpill sites since i was 15 years old,but being Redpill doesn't mean you have confirm only the things that align with the Redpill agenda and dismiss those who don't. It's an established fact that girls feel social pressure more. This is one study but there's plenty of them. https://capmh.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/1753-2000-7-16#:~:text=Girls%20in%20general%20are%20not,regarding%20peer%20pressure%20are%20noteworthy.&text=Ol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Career women are not miserable.I mean there's a lot of propaganda to boost women in top roles, in STEM etc. so many women feel like they need to satisfy that expectations. It's like a chain reaction: women do care more about society's approval and women are competitive with women,so if one woman see women in their social circle going to university, they will also feel the need because they don't want to be less. Of course this is a generalization but this kind of effect exists. Women are more affected by social pressure than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 09:28 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Do you think there are some people who would be better off just giving up?1)Yes 2)Yes 3) Yeah, I'd tell the 30 yo to give up but won't tell that to a 15 yo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Career women are not miserable.The support for SAHD is less but not just for societal reasons,but also for "biological reasons" and it's related to sexual power. The societal reason play a role in seeing a man as a stay at home parent,but it doesn't play a big role in what comes after marriage in case of divorce. A divorced woman with low-income in her 40s has more sexual power than a divorced man with low-income in his 40s. The woman won't live a dream life,but I'm sure she'll have better than his male peers. Loneliness woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Career women are not miserable.No,depression rates have been increasing (for both genders). It's not just that people are more open about it. Society back was much more different than before. Aside from the fact that the job market was better before, There were less expectations on women and for men having a partner and reaching financial independence was easier. The expectations for women were just that of being a mother. Now women in addition to that expectation,they also have the expectation to have a career,to be successf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 09:15 PM |
| 6 | Career women are not miserable.Men will always have one route: earn money or GTFO. Even if you're incredible good looking it's not easy to find a woman who will accept a less ambitious/low-earner partner. Also there was a study that found that divorced-stay-at-home-husbands have shittier lives compared to divorced-SAHM because of a variety of reasons. Especially from a dating point of view:no one wants a man who in his late 30s/40s doesn't have a decent income/unemployed. Of course also divorced mothers don't have an easy lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | "The Wall" did exist for previous generations' women,but it's much less hard for modern onesmy assumption is that women before needed to get married to have a stable financial life,but now since their socio-economic status is improving.they can choose also not to marry,so they don't need to hurry and they won't lower their expectations on their partner as much as they did before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)?Yeah,having lots of poor,uneducated and unemployed men is surely good for society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)?Only if they have degrees and skills,otherwise they'll suck even more as they age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Do you regret "settling" for a man you never truly loved?Really a nice post. Please,women,never settle. Settling is bad both for you and for the guy because it won't be an happy relationship on the long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 02:46 PM |
| 0 | Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)?The point is that many women are considered attractive by men,while the reverse isn't true. So very few women aren't considered attractive by the average man. I'm in the fat admirers community and there are way more men who are attracted to fat women than the contrary. Also many bi fat admirers women in the community have "double standards":they're attracted to fat female bodies,but not to fat male bodies (the man must be skinny/average/toned). Also having a job isn't a guarantee anymore because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who is taller than you?Yes,no problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?I find it hard to believe honestly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 10:33 PM |
| 0 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?I honestly think they just used the word attractive as interchangeable with ugly. You don't fuck a girl you don't find attractive,also because the risk your penis will flop would be much higher and no guy wants that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?He found her attractive when she had sex with them. What do you think is causing the erection? We can't make our penis hard just because we want it. Our penis gets hard even against our will. We don't control it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?There can be periods of time when a man can be attracted to someone who he considers ugly. Trust me,it happens for us men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?I know those kind of men. When they say such things they mean they're attracted to the girl but they consider her ugly. And they even feel disgusted at the thought that they had sex with her sometimes. Despite all,when they fucked her,they were attracted to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?There are periods when one man is so horny that he finds attractive women he usually doesn't find attractive,but if we have sex with them,it means we're attracted to them. Otherwise our dick wouldn't even get the weakest of the erections. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?That we pursue women we aren't attracted romantically to is true. But we don't pursue women we're not physically attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?What do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 09:26 PM |
| 6 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?Yes, it usually doesn't work,unless you're both adolescents. To be honest I actually learnt on FDS that there are women who dated ugly guys because they thought they would be better and i was quite surprised because that's a sadist behaviour. If you're not phisically attracted the relationship will be shit,also because the other lover will feel that you're not so into them and so they will try to change their behaviour/over think etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 09:22 PM |
| 21 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?Because many ugly men became bitter due to all the shit they had to take in life. Usually this kind of men aren't shitty people with women,but also with other people in general. Also since they have less relationships on average,they're less experienced and many times the insecurity about being left because of ugliness emerges and mess up things. They overthink the way they should act to keep their girlfriend and they'll do stupid things, thinking it will be good. I'm not excusing this kind of b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 09:08 PM |
| 4 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)2) Keeping a man who does not want to be kept is a fruitless endeavor. Men have no inherent value to women, therefore We don't "keep" men, men "keep" us. Which is they remain in our life insofar as we deem they have value. Women tend to come with inherent benefits already - obviously sex, children, housekeeping, social circle, emotional labor, etc. The vast majority of men are a liability with NO tangible benefits. They literally just exist and demand sex. I disagree because since HVM have many … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)Yeah and if men get more interested in their academic success other problems like the incel one will become less threatening. I don't mean that ugly men will start attracting women just because they study,but if they have other purposes in life (aside from being a pro gamer),their lack of sexual life won't be so heavy on their mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)I admit that i was partially wrong because I didn't consider that women dating strategy is more passive and consist in filtering out men through red flags. But still it won't increase the chance of finding a HVM and remaining single isn't an actual dating strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)PISA results are taken on 15 years old students: at that age you don't check out. Boys who don't go to university have already chosen it before choosing to check out from adult life. The reason why men check out occurs before they enter adult life or even see themselves as adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)Yeah but the point is that years after years less boys are going to university and from PISA results boys performance saw a constant decline over the years. Of course there will be boys who no matter what won't be interested in higher education,but the problem is that boys are doing worse every year and there's no sign of wanting to deal with this problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 07:04 PM |
| 3 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)I see. But the problem with boys in education is that year after year they're less likely to be interested in higher education and doing good at school. So shop classes won't solve that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)Ah yeah those things are also in Italy,but there are dedicated high schools for these kind of things. They can be good,but they don't help at an academic level and don't encourage boys to study and get higher education. In fact in Italy students who go to this kind of school are usually the ones who don't study much and have the anti-school attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)I don't want what are you talking about to be honest 😅 I'm italian so i don't know what you mean with "shop classes" BTW i read a lot of studies and statistics about education and i already know that a big part of the problem is toxic masculinity (boys have bad role models,studying and hard work are seen as feminine etc.) What baffles me about feminists is that they focus on irrelevant things related to toxic masculinity,but don't want to deal with the toxic masculinity that really harms boys an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)i thought you meant that DV happens at the same rate in both socio-economic levels. I'm happy that you agree on the necessity to help boys. To Be Honest i actually thought you were the one who rewarded the comment "Reparations" with Reddit Gold | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)In fact I didn't say that domestic violence doesn't happen in rich families. I said that if the number of poor and uneducated men increases there will be more domestic violence + a lot of other bad consequences both for society and women. So is there any good reason not to help boys doing better at school? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 04:50 PM |
| 4 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)Even if that was true (which is not,domestic violence is more common in low-income families),poor men means more crime and violence. Poor and uneducated men are more problematic than women in the same conditions and that's not just because of toxic masculinity. I don't see why you're against tackling the problem of under-performing boys in education,since solving it will also benefit women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 04:34 PM |
| 5 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)Yeah now i see. I didn't consider that dating strategy could also be passive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 03:49 PM |
| 6 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)society and particularly women won't benefit from having masses of men with higher unemployment rate,also because violence rate is higher for uneducated and unemployed men. Furthermore the pool of HVM will reduce even more,so more women will be unsatisfied with the fact they can find only LVM and HVM are as rare as diamonds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 03:10 PM |
| 6 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)https://www.telegraph.co.uk/education/2018/11/16/boys-left-fail-school-attempts-help-earn-wrath-feminists-says/ This is an example of misandry that has a big impact on society Boys' performance at school is decreasing and the university gender gap in favor of girls is becoming too skewed, so there's need to help them perform better,but many feminists are against the idea of actually helping boys. If this isn't misandry, i don't know what is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)Maybe it's not insitutionalised and it doesnt shape our culture and the expectations we have for people,but on an individual level misandry exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 02:16 PM |
| 12 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)I see but do you agree that staying single isn't an actual dating strategy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 12:59 PM |
| 28 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)The part of becoming an HVWoman so that magically HVM men will come to you seems having a lot of flaws. Because HVM men are few so no matter what,not every HVWoman will get a HVM,especially because those men can find themselves attracted also to LVWomen. The first part of the strategy is good and mostly common sense (focusing on yourself etc.),but it's the latter part that's actually inconsistent and makes me raise an eyebrow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 12:55 PM |
| 0 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)Yeah but at this point, the word "Strategy" in the name of the sub isn't needed because they don't offer any actual strategy. Of course also RedPill posts are mostly rants and similar but still there are more Strategy posts despite not having "Strategy" in their name. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 12:47 PM |
| 8 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)The problem,like i said in the post,is that the sub doesn't offer any actual Strategy and that's also because the problem is that women are attracted to few men and they can't change that. Also because it means that since there are few men considered HMV,there will be a lot of women that will be unable to land a HVM. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone considered that women are just more physically attractive than men objectively, and that’s why there appears to be an imbalance in how many can get dates?Yeah it's true that women on average are more aestethically pleasing. Being aestethically pleasing doesn't always imply having an equal sexual dimorphism. Women are more aestethically pleasing on average because they're more neothenic: their faces are less shaped by testosterone and they're more similar to children faces. In fact it's not rare that for men the stage in which they reached they highest peak in terms of attractiveness is childhood. To those who are reading and may misinterpret my c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Men's obsession with sex has always ruined everything and still is, despite social progressWhat do you mean by Tyra Banks in basic lingerie? To be honest I think that also an ads with a woman in bikini is used to attract men's attention. So i can't think how basic lingerie doesn't sexualize women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Men's obsession with sex has always ruined everything and still is, despite social progressit's true,but take in account also that if you demolish the use of sex in advertisement,entertaintment the first one to be hit will be women who work in those industries. It's a complicated situation because if you out-law sex in ads, society wins from a certain point of view,but then it will lose in another way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Men's obsession with sex has always ruined everything and still is, despite social progressAh,so you meant that nuns and children clothing are used in porns and sexualized then... sorry but i didn't get it,that's why i found you odd thinking of nuns' clothing being sexualized. To be honest i don't feel offended about it because it's the way our brain works. I'd like for sex in ads to be diminished but just because i think that too many sexual stimuli are detrimental to boys' development, because it distracts them from more important things and can lead to bad habits like excessive mas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Men's obsession with sex has always ruined everything and still is, despite social progressi think you're right on most points, but for things like eating a banana,that affects men too and also girls do jokes on men doing that being gays, but they're just jokes. That could be attributed to "patriarcal culture" but still... I don't agree much also on the clothing because it isn't necessary a sexualization, just to differentiate the dress code of men and women. Also what's sexualized in a nun dress code? Sex is everywhere because it boost sales. If men lose economic ground and then bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Men's obsession with sex has always ruined everything and still is, despite social progressYeah,now i went on laptop and i saw it says it been removed by moderators. I'd like to know what you wrote though 😔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Men's obsession with sex has always ruined everything and still is, despite social progressI can't see it. It says [removed] May be a bug then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Men's obsession with sex has always ruined everything and still is, despite social progressDid you remove your writing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 10:56 PM |
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