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That's pretty gay bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:26 PM
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You've become the bread winner and provider. A position coveted by men. I guess that'll make him the home maker and you can take care of him. Or, you can maybe find another high earner such as yourself, but you'll both be working so much and under enough work stress to where it'll hardly be a relationship anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:57 PM
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Yeah good luck with that. You basically basically took on the man's role in a relationship. Now that you took his role what's left for him to do? Become the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:25 PM
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It's like constantly trying to quit an addiction, that you never actually quit. So shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:06 PM
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Of course their personality gets in the way. Sex for women is so easy it shouldn't even be mentioned. As a woman sex will get your foot in the door, but being a good girl who doesn't challenge their man constantly, has a superiority complex, is an emotional overloading burden, and tries their hardest to BECOME THE MAN IN THE RELATIONSHIP will never be the one to stick around. And of course they'll blame men, because no one in their lives ever told them how to become loveable. That's men's fault …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:16 AM
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Been awhile hasn't it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 08:16 PM
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Why? All women are capable of sex and to whatever extent, need money. Supply and demand does not support your feelings on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:34 PM
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Let's split these hairs a little thinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:46 PM
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Prostitution is the world's oldest commodity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:44 PM
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I didn't realize the hero's journey was fake. Thank you for informing me. Instead of believing in stories to widen our horizons and propel us forward with purpose let's just sit on the couch. Or do you mean that the dancing and singing cartoon fish in the Little Mermaid weren't supposed to be taken seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:44 PM
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My frame is that once basic needs are met and debt is $0, money is worthless. Double your salary after that and nothing changes. Just more expensive versions of the same thing to satisfy an Ego. Human connection is paramount along with freedom. Money is a constant that holds most back from real growth and adventure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:50 PM
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Both have been downgraded to a commodity just like everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:02 PM
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I guess we were all raised wrong then. Remember all those Disney movies promoting love and such. Yeah forget that. It doesn't apply to future generations, forget it. Instead focus on earning money and being in debt everyone. No more love, no more rough housing, no more fun. Money money money money money money money. That's all you can hope to get anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:53 PM
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Not sarcasm. What's your view on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:25 PM
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I've never been to either one, but I imagine that without internal sexual frustration men would be able to chill out enough to come down to earth a bit and act more casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:23 PM
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So we make prostitution and brothers completely legal. Imagine being able to be taken care of sexually outside of random women. It'll dramatically level the playing field. I imagine men would approach women as normal human beings and not as a buyer of goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:49 PM
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"mammalian" I see you 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:31 PM
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It's starting to seem that way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:49 PM
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Masculine traits such as aggression equal success. That's red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:38 PM
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Heck ask away! I'm proud of my accomplishments and abilities. I'm more than happy to list my qualities if someone with similar interest is sizing me up. I'm not ashamed of my role, responsibilities, or qualities. I understand the game and I'm not offended by it. That's why it's laughable to see women and weaker men get upset when this question is brought up. They're ashamed and consider themselves lesser! So be it then!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:30 PM
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I don't do that, but that's what's happening
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:22 PM
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Spotted a real one in the wild. Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:25 PM
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Inflate Ego
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:09 PM
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That's exactly it. Mutual benefits. When one person stops having those benefits that the other person is looking for, that transaction becomes one sided and the relationship is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:07 PM
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Even if you think they aren't transactional that doesn't change the fact that they are. All relationships of every kind are transactional. From romantic to platonic to business to acquaintances. Convincing yourself otherwise is to bury your head in the sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:08 PM
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Lmao can you imagine that you're interviewing possible teammates for a pickup basketball game and when you ask what they bring to the table, they just get offended that you would even ask. LMAO. Relationships are a team sport. How is it crazy to ask how we can elevate one another??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:06 PM
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Yeah I'd be offended by that question too if I had nothing to show for myself. It'd make me feel insecure and defensive. Assuming that you do have something to show for yourself, and you get offended by this question, then I'd assume that you're allergic to accountability and responsibility. Classic negative traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:03 PM
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As a man with a wonderful woman and a son together, who isn't married, I don't see how getting the government involved in our relationship benefits any of us in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:03 AM
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True it's not a one size fit all model. That doesn't exist. You exist as you want you, which is correct. Some are passengers others are not. Both are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:16 PM
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True it's not a one size fit all model. That doesn't exist. You exist as you want you, which is correct. Some are passengers others are not. Both are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:16 PM
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Imagine you were a king that time traveled to current day, only to become a normal person. You'd still have the mentality that you're a king despite not being one. Your mindset would be that you're deserving of royalty, praise, and riches. You acting congruency to that mindset, doing what needs done to achieve the reality of being a king. In regards to women. The ones chosen become passengers on your quest, not the quest itself. They're being taken for a ride to your final destination. That's wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:08 PM
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A worldview worthy of envy that has room for her, but is in no way about her. Then acting accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:51 PM
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Breaks frame. Ruins the fantasy. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:50 PM
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That's actually not far from the Truth. See you in the future!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:48 PM
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Legal prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:46 PM
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Men on average have 10x the amount of testosterone as women. Testosterone makes humans want to fuck. Your most horny moments would most likely be an normal man's average Tuesday.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:27 PM
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Thank you for writing this. I'm not the man you describe, but I can see how one can let go and become this person without realizing. I'll be reflecting on this from time to time to make sure I'm not slipping.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:05 AM
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Although true, motherhood isn't the aspiration it once was. It has become a less ambitious goal and is less valuable in today's world. The pet industry is booming however. Millennials are using pets as a stand-in for babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:18 PM
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Idk who these chick have sex with, though the men most likely have the qualities of maturity, status, importance, and authority. That'll be the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:02 PM
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Women don't NEED men. They have their needs MET. They have security, money, friends and/or pets, degrees, homes, careers, attention, validation, etc. When women couldn't achieve these things, they sought out men that had them. But now that men and women are equal as fuck, the need for each other is dwindling. Men still need women for sex, but women never really cared for sex as strongly and can use the Internet or friends for emotional intimacy. It used to be that society took things away from w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:58 PM
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Absolutely not. But like anything else, the more the value, the more they'll be willing to put up with
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:49 AM
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Boyfriends are kinda like bosses. When a man (boss) provides you with what you're looking for in excess (Money), you'd be willing to put up with the fact that he's a dick. Not because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:21 PM
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Women use emotional manipulation most often. It can be extremely difficult to know if you're being emotionally abused. When it's brought up it's always framed that it's all your fault that you're getting emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:42 PM
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Here is the definitive, reality-breaking difference between the sexes. To men, lust IS love. To men, lust MEANS love. And all the women (except the ones in happy relationships) fight and deny this extremely basic human drive. Insisting that men forgo and forget lust, so then love can have the front seat. Lust is absolutely love, at least in a monogamous relationship. I'm sorry you don't understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 01:50 PM
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I'm going to echo what that other guy said. Emotional intimacy is such an arbitrary concept. It feels like something made up to keep us guys guessing and in the wrong. I've been in many relationships and this concept of emotional intimacy has been brought up in every single one. No one can describe what it is or how it looks. It's always described in the most vague way possible. Most men have no idea what this concept is. Most women have zero idea how to describe it. I'm near convinced emotional…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:19 PM
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Confidence is a byproduct of authority. Authority over ones self and the BELIEF that you have authority over your surroundings. Not in a Police officer type of way, but in the same way you might be a "pack leader" to your pets or children. Charisma is a byproduct of enjoyment. Enjoyable people will naturally drip charisma because they exert pleasure and a joy of life into conversations. Now you know the secrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:25 PM
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This is a basic list of qualities to maybe get someone started dating. It's like chapter one of the entire book of dating and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:44 PM
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What women want... In an EMPLOYEE??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:46 PM
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Are you under the impression that I've been referencing myself the entire time? I'm talking in broad terms. Me, the person, doesn't deal with this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:38 PM
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Although pathetic, other people still possess things that we want or need. Thus we form relationships with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:02 PM
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Yup. That's the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:23 PM
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There are a million and a half reasons people stay in unhappy relationships. Let's not kid ourselves. Changing the dynamics of a relationship for both people while remaining in the more comfortable position is cruel. Responding to cruelty with cruelty results in neutrality. "Evening the score" let's say. Also, in this dynamic, the responding cruelty is seen as justified to the individual, given the cruelty that was placed before them without their consent. A vicious cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:10 PM
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Any woman who values monogamy wouldn't be in this situation because they'd be having regular sex with their partner. The advice in this post is directed towards people who BEGAN a monogamous relationship and then SWITCHED to an involuntarily celibate relationship when they slow the sex down to a crawl. The reward to those people who changed the dynamics of the relationship without consent is they get to play these ridiculous games that OP is mentioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:41 PM
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A lot about the Red Pill is about taking ownership of your own life and holding yourself and your partner to acceptable standards. Holding women accountable the same way men are is what really rubs people wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:57 AM
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Are we all forgetting that sex, attraction, and lust are all perfectly natural? All these conversations about sex... It's this or that, good or bad. Sex is an activity just like anything else. Playing video games with a partner or enjoying sex with a partner. What's the difference? Both are activities that can be fun and pressure-less for both. I'm not naive, I understand that sex can be about power and vulnerability. But Jesus Christ does everyone get bent outta shape about something so simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:32 PM
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If one person decides for both people that they'll no longer be having sex, then the two of you are no longer in a sexually monogamous relationship. Thus the rules of being in a monogamous relationship no longer apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:31 AM
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Red-pill optimist is the way to go. Assuming you've been keeping up with your side as a man and having a healthy working libido, then the woman has her breached her half of the terms you both agreed on in the beginning. AKA, in the beginning you agreed that you'd provide for her, she agreed to provide for you. Since she is no longer upholding her end, then it is her who has to win back your favor. The ball is now in her court to do the work and make the relationship work. Otherwise she can downg…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:12 PM
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Wrong. The real issue is the bait and switch. Women looking to start a relationship with someone usually use sex as a tool to secure commitment. Lots and lots of affection and sex until that commitment is all hers. Then, now getting what she wanted, she pulls back the sex. The man committed thinking that the vast quantities of great sex is what is in store for him for the remainder of the relationship, not knowing it was only a tool to get what she wanted. She doesn't understand or care that sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:59 PM
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I'm curious about what you have to say about what I posted, given your original thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:09 PM
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Me, and others who feel a strong sense of duty and responsibility. If I were to receive a report like this from my wife it would mean that she is deeply upset about something. As a husband I feel it is my duty to make her life more pleasurable than the opposite, and as a smart person I understand that to make our relationship work and to remain happy I should put effort into making sure that I increase her happiness as much as I'm able and to decrease things that cause her unhappiness. With a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:18 PM
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What if this is put into a different light? Like a financial expense sheet, claiming that you're spending too much money? There is nothing wrong with collecting data. There is nothing wrong with using this data as evidence to support a claim. If viewed as a financial expense report it would be obvious that things are not going as planned and that things need to change. Otherwise the ship will sink. The thing is that it depends on the maturity level of the individual who is getting this report se…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:31 PM
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Correct. That's where other masculine qualities come into play. We are not judged like women, it's not all about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:09 PM
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As a man, I've never gotten free cocaine at parties because I was hot. That's a great start.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:57 PM
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I'm not saying that looks don't matter, but you're putting way too much emphasis on it. You're looking at the situation from a man's point of view, not a woman's. Putting so much pressure on looks alone. Status and power play a greater role than looks do. If you don't believe me then look at all these butt ugly CEOs and celebrities who have hot women. But if you want to focus on dolling yourself up like a girl you have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:43 PM
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Looks are such a small component for men. Dressing like you give a damn easy makes up for bad looks for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:47 PM
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Duh, they're abundant in those categories. You do hear about a lack of commitment however.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:49 PM
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So the fear is actually being pregnant itself and not becoming a mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:01 PM
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A+ deflection. Really making a point with that vague answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:29 PM
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Jesus why are women so terrified to become mothers? Men aren't that scared to become fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:27 PM
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The behavior might be the same. But the expectations are vastly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:08 PM
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Because being an asshole typically works and getting called out sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:20 PM
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If you're looking for the internet to be kind and courteous you're going to have a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:06 PM
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How's your mom doing Patrick Bateman?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:04 PM
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Resources and reproduction are the basis of biology itself. So yes, these are the two things that are the most important aspects of a living creature's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:37 PM
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No shade. It's for the same reason men can't get it through how women act. Men and women are living in two completely different realities. It's one thing to see something from a different perspective, but to see a different base of reality itself? I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:10 PM
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$100 for a date and a "maybe" Or $100 for what you actually want. Why bother to play the games if you have the choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:06 PM
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<image> You're a douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:05 PM
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I flaunt it. Nothing bad happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:31 AM
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As a bisexual man I'll put it this way: I am basically spoiled for choice. Dating men has made me infinitely better with women. It's so natural at this point it's insulting. At the end of the night a woman can always be on the fence for how the night is going to pan out. Men are always a slam dunk if things go south with the lady. It's the best of both worlds and I would never have it any other way. If men were to learn how to open up a little bit and explore themselves more SO much of this woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:10 AM
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Really? All men suck? Every single one? How about your father?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:02 AM
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Your thinking about the rules of the game too much
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:21 AM
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Hey I know this kid, he was me! I followed my mom and sister's advice and became all the girls best friends back in high school. Confused on why none of these girls wanted to kiss me was confusing. I was lost about what was wrong. I went to the bookstore to find something on how to get girls. After a few I came across Neil Strauss's The Game. A book about a derpy journalist who got swept up in the life up pickup artistry. I had never read a book so fast, let alone multiple times. Opening convers…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:46 PM
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It's difficult to sympathize with someone who has an abundance of opportunity, and just has a problem shifting through them all. Versus the opposite of having little/no opportunity at all Ladies have the better problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:31 AM
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Or the guy could be just plain attractive and the rest of all that junk won't matter at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:28 AM
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" Read social cues" The game shall forever continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:22 AM
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Real recognizes real brother. I see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:19 AM
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Truthfully I was having a pretty rough day at work which fueled the tone. Feeling better now. Wearing the mask needed for society to tolerate you is living un-authentically. The mask is a lie, where if worn for too long without interruption, will eventually take over your soul. Turning your soul it's self into a lie. This will either come slowly as you turn more insane day by day. Or all at once, prompting some kind of crisis of self. An authentic life is a life worth pursuing. The path to happi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:39 AM
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In the pursuit of survival in today's age we all must adopt a mask to put so that we may be perceived as "normal". Thus we can sell products or provide services to the general population. The mask is not your true self but instead your real life avatar that others see you as. Over time you wear this mask long enough that you forget who your real self is, causing an internal crisis that you have no words for. Knowing that you live wearing a mask and have abandoned your true self completely. Churc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:48 PM
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Followed by strong adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:08 PM
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We're creating man made solutions for man made problems. Yes I'm aware that cancer is not man made. Man's interference has accelerated cancer rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:05 PM
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Correct and correct. He represents human beings in general and advocates for mental wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:56 PM
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We need to have a collapse because clearly what we're doing now is not benefiting the individual human being or their psyche. As we continue we'll only get deeper and deeper into this atrocity that we've created for ourselves. Human beings were not built for dopamine on demand. Followed by sedating ourselves so that we can remain "normal" (antidepressants) Spiritually devoid. Mentally starved. Physical self-destruction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:44 PM
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Let's ask the Unabomber. If you take away all struggles and only have pleasure, your mind will turn into mashed potatoes and you'll become suicidally depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:35 PM
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A good man with a strong mindset and self worth is a rare find. A "good man" is good because he was raised in a pleasant controlled environment (suburbia). Tolerable. A "bad boy" was raised more like a wild animal and was forced to become strong through willpower and some form of survival. Antagonistic. The chances of a person combining both of these characteristics would be rare, seeing how they come from much different scenarios. A "bad boy" can also be a good person. Think of the dough bag ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:05 PM
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The biggest difference I would face in this situation in the past is that now that there are other people involved in this "date" it means I now have to impress an audience instead of just one person. The upside being that if you manage to impress that whole audience it makes you far far better in not just your dates eyes, but every girl's eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:55 PM
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"Bad men" have strong masculine qualities. It doesn't mean they've gone to jail or have malicious intent. A person who is a "bad boy" is someone who will stand up for themselves and those they care about. Attractive stuff. Generally women would want a bad boy who is good to only them. Men would want a good woman who is bad with only them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:41 PM
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I read my response out to my wife and she agrees. For what it's worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:05 PM
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If you look at many of these subs there are a lot of women that despise their femininity as well. The issue is not testosterone or femininity. It's about having a sense of self-worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:23 PM
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This isn't good thinking friend. It sounds like you've been knocked off your path and have become lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:07 PM
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Women have exactly zero desire in weak men. They have many different ways of weeding out weak men so they don't even attempt to make a move at them because it would be annoying and pointless. This is just the very first shit test to see if you have what it takes. "Ew sex is gross" "It sure is, wanna grab a coffee tomorrow anyways?" Congrats, you passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:54 AM
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I've never understood this. People get home exhausted from work and still maintain their home (dishes, etc) What's the issue in maintaining the relationship with the person you love? Hell, it takes longer to do dishes or vacuum than it does to be intimate with someone you love, and want to show you still care for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:35 PM
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