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3	Do you think most men would forgive a cheating girlfriend if she was a good girlfriend ? The way you try to find reasons for your boyfriend to forgive you and stay with you are pathetic. You try to make it look like even though you cheated, you'd be doing him a favor by being his girlfriend because it's hard for men to find a girlfriend. It's an argument that would only work for a weak man and I guess if one thing is not taboo anymore about female sexual attraction it's that weakness in a man kills any sexual attraction a woman had for this man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 03:14 PM
14	Is there anything a woman could do to get you to say with her after she cheated on you ? With how hard dating is and how valuable of a commodity female attention is. Not valuable at all if it's fake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 08:25 AM
2	Why do some women behave to attract sexual attention from men and lie about it? Taking a bad girl and forcing her to be a good girl is what men desire. It's not about control and forcing to change to a good girl. It's just that those women are openly sexual, matching the sexual energy of a man, and if they show attraction to a man, he reads it as "a relationship (or any other type of a relation) with her will be sexually exciting and satisfying". It's also not about what she does for men in general for them to notice her and give her attention (unless a man is only interest…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 02:54 PM
5	Would you still be interested in a woman that sleeps with you on the first date? "I care about you so much that I don't want to spoil you like I did with other women in the past, I don't want to risk it."	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 02:43 PM
1	Do you feel like women can kind of have it all in a way men just can't ? How save you are depends on the people you surround yourself with, this is both true for men and women. That's a very good point, I agree with this, but it doesn't nullify the advantage you have as a man. You always have a better chance of getting out of a dangerous situation if you're stronger. A group of men will have more power than a group of women. Physical strength combined with mental strength is often enough to make another guy back off, sometimes it's not even about physical strength bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/24 08:33 AM
5	Do you feel like women can kind of have it all in a way men just can't ? I know where you're coming from but I'm with False-Purple3882 here. I wasn't really aware how much physical strength disadvantage affects women until my late 20's. They seem to constantly have it in the back of their heads that an average man is stronger than most women, and you can often see the intimidation in their eyes even when they know you in particular are no threat to them and you would protect them if need be, but possibly have seen you or other men in a situation when you became aggre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 07:51 AM
3	Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men? That's a weird analogy and if it works for a woman in a relationship, then it means there's a serious mismatch not only in libido, but attitude towards sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 10:06 AM
2	Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's life Oh, yes, we are. That doesn't mean the very first woman who wants to have a family with a man but has no initiative, waits for him to make every move, cannot relax, is not genuinely interested in a man as a person, doesn't ask questions, can't flirt, and does nothing to seduce a man, is a good wife material. Same with women who think sex is all men think about and want from women, and believe that when they offer it, a man will have sex with them, and their job is done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 06:32 PM
–	CMV : Men shouldn't be expected to pay for kids who are not his. If kids ars not his, why should he be their daddy? So basically the author thinks that because there are men who were in a relationship with women and didn't give them children that they wanted (and perhaps went to get another woman pregnant), the paternity fraud is somehow warranted, i.e. as a woman you can lie to a man about paternity because there are men who string along women without giving them children. It's two different topics and one has nothing to do with the other. An analogy of a complaint from men could be to outlaw women getting p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 08:04 AM
2	Attractiveness matters to men so there’s no reason for them to be upset when attractiveness matters to women. I downvoted you because I don't agree with you. I don't want or need sex because other men get it. I don't care if they get it or not. I'm self-aware enough to know that it's my own desire to be intimate with a woman, and if I approach a woman, it's because I find her attractive and I want to see where it goes, not because other men approach her or other women. Also, sex wasn't taught to me. Around the age of 12-13 I just noticed I got aroused being around or thinking about a girl I liked. It's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 09:24 AM
-1	If you could pick your child’s gender, given what you know of the world, which would you go for? I think that testosterone makes men pretty volatile. I disagree, your testosterone is your best friend, you just have to learn to control your urges and impulses, or know when to just act on them, and basically realize no woman is worth it to cry over. Women are just as volatile as men if they don't have high self-esteem, it has nothing to do with hormones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 03:20 PM
3	Question For Men, Which Of These Women Would You Rather Get Into A Relationship With? Bad mood 25% of the time is a rare find, what are you talking about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 04:43 AM
1	Sex is really only a physical need... What I mean is that it's not just oxytocin that is important. You obviously make new connections in the brain by falling in love, having sex with a person you love, and simply by being with them. You can't replace that with a set of activities that give you small boosts in oxytocin. MDMA does the same, opioids do the same as well. Like there's no better painkiller for unrequited love than morphine, yet it doesn't replace the feeling of being loved and sexual intimacy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 04:27 PM
2	Sex is really only a physical need... I have three cats. They love cuddling. I also went dancing last week, it was amazing. I danced with a few women. Somehow I got aroused only by dancing with one woman in particular, the one I fell in love with. So I'm not really buying your theory that you can replace sex with all those activities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 04:20 PM
5	It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookup These men are touch deprived so it's going to seem like they just want to fuck, but they probably want an LTR more than anything else. You nailed it. I'm not into casual sex but a few times I was on the verge of going for it because of being touch starved. It's as simple as that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 05:41 AM
2	95% women will not do anything for you, and why austistic men fail. Redpill and Bluepill are wrong And there are various accounts of happy women in brothels and harems, as many accounts of happy women in commitment relationships, basically none. That's in a completely different society though. Harems are a thing in cultures where gender roles are very strict and women are not allowed the freedoms that men have, and not all men have the same freedoms in such cultures as well. As for brothels, again, women who are happy in brothels likely don't have much freedom to choose a different lifestyle.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 11:55 AM
7	95% women will not do anything for you, and why austistic men fail. Redpill and Bluepill are wrong I would summarize it like this: most women cannot, don't want to, and don't even care about fulfilling your needs as a man because they don't have to to get what they need. Embrace it and take what you get or stay single. I disagree since the ratio of men and women is around 1 in the reproductive window, for each man walking away from pursuing relationships, there's one woman who will either stay single as well or date a man who won't commit to her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 04:32 PM
4	How are "good" women supposed to prevent cheating, post-wall? I never felt a desire to cheat and based on my experience I wouldn't consider myself to have low smv. There's a lot of men in relationships who are tempted by women to have sex with them and they decline. I could take your statement, turn it around and say that most women want to cheat based on my experience. Get all these terms like chad, smv etc. out of your head and just start looking at men as individuals with different personalities and different values. It's one thing to be aware of certai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/24 09:24 AM
3	If you bring nothing worth sleeping with, you should not be surprised when you don't get laid. This is not woman's fault I agree that prejudice towards women can often play a role, I've seen it myself but that's an obstacle you have to overcome if you want to get to a certain position, and the mere fact that you are a man doesn't mean you have an easier time getting a job or a promotion. I've seen how women get benefits at work for being women too. If you live in a country that is part of the western culture, right now as a woman you have the same opportunities as men to pursue any career that you want, it doesn't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/24 03:41 PM
3	If you bring nothing worth sleeping with, you should not be surprised when you don't get laid. This is not woman's fault I mean that equality of outcome is ridiculous in all contexts, including how much sex you get. I have nothing against women competing with men for executive positions, but in an ideal equal world of opportunity that's what you have to do to get there, compete with other people, same as men competing with other men and since men are on average more competitive than women, that's how you end up in a world where more men are in executive positions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/24 11:00 AM
9	If you bring nothing worth sleeping with, you should not be surprised when you don't get laid. This is not woman's fault You could take the same approach to any biological difference that benefits men, e.g in salary, and say that it's not men's fault so we shouldn't artificially push equality of outcome. It's not men's fault women are weaker physically and can't get into certain high paying jobs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/24 06:32 AM
8	Q4M: if you have resigned to the idea that you will never get a woman to love you, then why not choose to be happy either way? This is the same kind of argument like "if asexual people are happy in a relationship without sex, why heterosexual men need sex in a relationship?". You have the answer in your question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/24 08:14 PM
–	Why do men insist women are too picky? Unless you specifically mean casual sex only, isn't vulnerability the point of sex? Trust, intimacy, vulnerability, feeling intense emotions together, this is what leads to bonding and satisfaction. Correct me if I'm wrong but I've been under the assumption that most women want precisely that - having a man she can trust to let go and let him penetrate her, and most women are and want to be more submissive in bed and expect men to be confident and dominating which reflects the desire of a woman …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 05:58 PM
2	Are men upset that mothers will prioritize their children over their lover? Exactly. I don't have a family and I'm sure that with the right woman I would bond stronger with her through conception, pregnancy, birth, and raising a child together. And that child would be top priority for both of us. That's non-existent when she had a child of another man that she also likely bonded with over pregnancy. I was in a relationship with a woman who had two children at a young age. I broke up with her because she disrespected me, so it had nothing to do with her being a single mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 05:06 PM
1	Do women think hypergamy doesn’t exist? Yes, I mean useless due to low demand. You can be the most idealistic about your profession but idealism doesn't pay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/24 07:21 PM
0	Do women think hypergamy doesn’t exist? Same here in Europe, blue collar jobs often give you more money than a Ph.D. degree in STEM because there's actually high demand for the former and not so high demand for the latter. I see plenty of people with M.Sc. doing very basic physical labor. The idea that higher education is necessary to get a good job basically made crowds of people go to universities to get useless degrees, and unless they got both the degree and practice at the same time, they're like 5 years behind those who went str…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/24 12:16 PM
3	Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait I don't share OP views, some of his comments are crazy. It's ridiculous to perceive yourself as the prize and expect to find a committed relationship whether you're a woman or a man. If a relationship works, both parties get the benefits they desire for an effort they perceive as worth it. As for a woman having sex fast with a guy who she doesn't want anything serious with and making a guy who she sees as a boyfriend material wait, I think the argument that she doesn't care about the first guy's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 06:47 PM
3	Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait Relationships are a MUTUAL thing but if anything more beneficial to men. This reads like you think if anyone is the prize, it is the woman. I'm not sure how relationships would be generally more beneficial to men. They would actually be automatically less beneficial to men if women thought they were the prize, because it implies more effort is required from men. Honestly, aside from benefits that both men and women get from being in a relationship like love and companionship, men and women get d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 06:06 PM
–	Why do men push for 50/50 relationship when women find most men unattractive? Do men really expect free sex? I've always wanted sex only if a woman was attracted to me, if she isn't, I see no point. So I would turn the question around and ask why would women expect men to enter a relationship with them if they're not attracted to them? It's not just sex that men want as in going through motions. They want to feel desired.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/24 08:11 AM
3	If women hit the wall, according to men, would it be in a young woman's best interest to NOT date older men? I personally don't, I'd rather be called out on any bs and I would call out a woman on her bs so that we can work together on making our relationship better. I wrote that the two things, being agreeable and tolerating more bs, often go hand in hand, but it's not more tolerance for bullshit that I see in younger women but being more approachable, more expressive with their interest, being more motivated, willingness to look past unintended mistakes, willingness to form mutual habits etc. But it's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 01:51 PM
1	If women hit the wall, according to men, would it be in a young woman's best interest to NOT date older men? Just take the very first definition from a search engine: Agreeableness is a personality trait that can be described as cooperative, polite, kind, and friendly. People high in agreeableness are more trusting, affectionate, altruistic, and generally displaying more prosocial behaviors than others. Younger women, provided that they haven't already been hurt, tend to have these traits more often than women past 30 who have been through failed relationships and hurt by other men. It doesn't necessar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 06:59 AM
2	One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women. As we are all and just as women are dependent on men. One way or another, without this co-dependency our world would end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 02:06 PM
2	What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill? That's not what I wrote though, perhaps it wasn't clear. I wish things were different. I don't think women being attracted to men who disrespect them is a good thing, it just is a thing. Also, when it comes to respect a lot of men actually take it to an extreme and they never learn to be confident around women and go for it. It's not necessarily that women love assholes, it's just that attractive assholes have traits women are attracted to. On the other hand women being more attracted to men wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 07:47 PM
3	What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill? Which part of it exactly though?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 07:19 PM
1	What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill? Disrespecting women doesn't exactly grant you success in life I've seen otherwise, unfortunately. I see it every day. It's almost as if most women see a man being respectful as weakness, they desire men who are go-getters and go-getters first and foremost look after their own interest. It doesn't explicitly negate respect to others but it does limit the extent to which you care about other people's well-being and comfort. Women desire men who will take charge both in every day life and sexually.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 06:40 PM
1	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? Yeah, I couldn't care less about a 2-minute blow job out of obligation to get me off. I would lose any desire for anything sexual right away. It's not just about releasing the tension, it's about intimacy, being close, feeling loved and desired.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 06:21 PM
–	A man requires variety, there are simply healthy and unhealthy ways of dealing with that fact. If you meant variety as in exploring sex and intimacy with your girlfriend, sure, anything can get boring if done over and over again. Although there's a part of sex that keeps me interested even if we do the same few positions regularly, and that's mutual passion, desire, and enthusiasm. If I can feel we keep deepening our bond through sex, I'm 100% focused on my woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/24 07:45 AM
1	How Seriously Do Men Take Age For Women? First of all you need to be approachable and have a sex appeal, both more likely for a younger woman before she becomes bitter from past relationships and starts expecting men to impress her and prove that they're not like the men she met in the past. It's my experience at least that women in their mid 20's are more approachable and have more energy than women in their 30's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/24 01:08 PM
–	Despite to contrary belief is a man being non needy and confident not that great for dating success? In my experience it's more about making a woman feel special through the right amount of compliments and energy spent towards her but at the same time not being too eager because it makes her feel like you're not special for her. If you're super confident but you don't know how to boost her ego, it's going nowhere. A needy guy perhaps sometimes has an easier time, because he makes her feel special through his neediness. No idea honestly though, I've never seen a needy guy being successful with w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/24 11:58 AM
2	Can the “Men peak at 35” delusion finally end Because it's not just about money, money is only one of the factors. The other factors are a man's looks, personality, confidence, position in social hierarchy, and his career. And obviously her sexual attraction to a man which comes from a combination of the aforementioned. Obviously different women will find different personality traits attractive and will have different preference for appearance (though there are common traits women look at like height, face shape, agility, strength, and agai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 07:08 AM
3	Can you empathize with the other side? Male gender role overall is still more restrictive than female one. Men experience more pressure to approach, initiate and entertain (at least to a degree). Men are expected not just to make money, but also do a whole other bunch of stuff that they're still not used to and it stresses everyone out. I can see how they might feel frustrated about modern expectations compared to what they might have seen in their parents or grandparents marriages. This is more and more visible IME. At work I can se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 02:02 PM
2	Nice guys verse healthy withdrawal of relationships Basically men are publicly saying that if they are not getting sex from women, they refuse to do anything kind for them. Why do you make it specifically about sex? A guy who caught feelings wants a romantic relationship that includes sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/24 08:10 AM
3	These women who cry on social media about being single and childless at 30 would not make good mothers anyways, and we shouldn't care I know a couple of marriages who married in their mid to late 20's but had been in a relationship since early 20's. But I don't mean to marry as fast as possible. It's just that when you meet the right person in your early to mid 20's, you have a lot of time to spend in a relationship and get to know each other without rushing to marry and have children. You don't have that much time if you're 30 something because you have it in the back of your head that you're running out of time regardless of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 06:28 PM
3	These women who cry on social media about being single and childless at 30 would not make good mothers anyways, and we shouldn't care Men have a part to play in this as we face a dating market full of men over 30 still just looking for "fun" despite us being ready to settle down since 18-22. I get not wanting to be "tied down" in high school or college, but your wild oats should be sown by now. Grow TF up! It's sad we didn't meet at 18-22. I wish I had met a woman of my life at 18, but I didn't. And I've wanted children too but not like within 6 months of knowing each other only because we're out of time past 30. Above all els…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 05:31 PM
–	Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard. Which is why I'd rather not have sex ever again than end up with a proud woman who left that phase behind her and decided that she would finally honor me and marry me. And the threads with women getting mad "who asks about your sexual past?"... You don't have to ask, you find out sooner or later one way or another.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 02:52 PM
–	"More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like Tinder I agree with everything you said regarding men being sexually driven and taking more risks. But it changes with age, the number of failures, and becoming disillusioned with women. A lot of young men live in a fairy tale land thinking that women are generally better people, more empathetic, more caring and so on. But once they actually meet women, spend time with them, and get into a bad relationship, they learn that good women are just as rare as good men, they are just as likely to cheat and mu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 05:14 PM
–	"More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like Tinder I agree with everything you said regarding men being sexually driven and taking more risks. But it changes with age, the number of failures, and becoming disillusioned with women. A lot of young men live in a fairy tale land thinking that women are generally better people, more empathetic, more caring and so on. But once they actually meet women, spend time with them, and get into a bad relationship, they learn that good women are just as rare as good men, they are just as likely to cheat and mu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 05:13 PM
–	"More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like Tinder Isn't it the same for men though? Men don't pursue women to make the quality of their life worse. The reason why more and more men check out of dating is also partially because they can't get a woman who would add to his life or rather they get burned too many times and decide it's not worth it anymore. It's just that it's men who do the pursuing, so you'll always see men being more active in trying to find a partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 04:03 PM
2	Many individuals engage in simultaneous dating/flirtings. Does it not make dating even harder? Same for me. And it was weird when I realized some women apparently take my heavy flirting with them as a sign I'm a player or a womanizer. I'm not, I just like YOU a lot and I'm trying to proceed further to see if we can have a serious relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 06:13 AM
1	Do men derive their self-esteem and emotional state from women I think women do more comparisons against other women and competing against otherbwomen to feel attractive. And less from male attention. That doesn't make sense though, does it? Why do women compare themselves to other women and who actually decides what makes a woman attractive? Men do. So at the end of the day women compete for men's attention. It's just that women get much more attention from men by default. Also, about that study, it's not black and white. If it's 61% happy single women vs.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 07:36 PM
9	Do men derive their self-esteem and emotional state from women I've been thinking about all of this for a long time being single for many years now. I've had career success as much as I could given my circumstances, I've dug myself of a deep shithole many stay in forever, I've been pushing and challenging myself more and more. And at the end of the day it all feels pointless and worthless if I have nobody to share this with. A man's desire to protect and to provide a woman who loves him is not made up, it's planted into a man's mind. The way culture and soc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 05:57 PM
1	Why do men catch feelings for their female friends than vice versa? That's a great generalization. Not all women have so many options they can jump from one boyfriend to another, some keep guys that are into them around, and may actually start dating them some time after they break up. They may even marry a guy like that and then have a terrible marriage. I'm not saying it's always selfish or malicious, some guys just keep hanging around without ever confessing their feelings and honestly it's not a woman's responsibility to tell them that nothing's going to hap…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 03:28 PM
1	Why do men catch feelings for their female friends than vice versa? Hence "just in case".	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 03:11 PM
1	Why do men catch feelings for their female friends than vice versa? Hanging around while trying to impose his romantic or sexual interest onto her is manipulative. Hold on, I thought we were talking about a man walking away after rejection, not staying around. Women don't enjoy unwanted romantic or sexual attention. It's a nuisance at best. Some do, some don't. Also, depends on the man expressing interest. Some women love knowing they have a backup option just in case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 02:35 PM
1	Why do men catch feelings for their female friends than vice versa? How is distancing oneself manipulative? No matter how you phrase it, it sounds like you're just angry that a man who caught feelings for you can't magically get rid of them and remain friends with you. You don't care at all how hard it may be for him to be around you or you just enjoy his attention and don't want to lose it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 02:06 PM