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lol, classic dehumanization tool. You’re just a lump of flesh, too. I’m not sure how you think that makes the situation any better, either? u/unwantedfreakshow is saying the baby is damaged and broken apart during suction and scraping during early abortions that aren’t the pills, and that is exactly what happens. If it’s not 14-24 weeks, it doesn’t have a calcified cranium yet, but it has a head that is damaged during abortion. This is indisputable; we literally have photos of fetuses at 10 week…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:40 PM
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Evade more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:41 AM
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Hmmm, fair enough, I see what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:57 AM
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I agree, a conscious evaluation of outcome (“I want to have a kid”) is more meta than instinct, but I think that’s semantical, because I don’t actually think that in my head. I typed it that way for better clarity, but in action it’s a primal sensation of nurturing first: I see children or other helpless creatures and have an overwhelming desire to take care of them. After the fact, I intellectualize the situation and extrapolate my ability to produce my own helpless creatures, and seek to apply…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:26 AM
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I understand what you’re getting at, but maternal instincts and lust are still different. I feel a stronger maternal instinct now than I used to, where I see babies and feel a desire to have one, regardless of sexual fulfillment. My libido has increased too, of course, but there’s a distinction between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:55 AM
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Your breeding fetish was never subtle at any point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:48 AM
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I don’t even know why it’s debatable in the first place. “Let’s DELIBERATELY obstruct a fundamental biological process fine-tuned over millennia. What could go wrong?” LOL Also, it’s not an either-or thing. You can still choose to have no children, just through other contraceptive measures that are not hazardous to health. Anti-BC =/= pro broodmare female subjugation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:30 AM
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Absolutely not. I’ve never used hormonal birth control; it’s extremely mentally and physically detrimental to the body. The reason I never used to crave babies is because I was unhealthy and malnourished by mainstream health advice, notably “high grain, low fat” dogma. After ditching that idea completely and eating rich, fatty cuts of meat, my hormones skyrocketed and I actually started feeling something besides monastic asexual nothingness. Maternal instincts came with that. Who knew machines c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:19 AM
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I want tons of children for the same reason we breathe, eat, or sleep. It’s an instinctual drive that has no logical origin; either you feel it or you don’t. I didn’t used to feel it, but now I do after changing my diet to high fat. Lipid-based steroid sex hormones go AWOEUIQKKDHSHAOJSGDH
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:52 AM
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I haven’t lost it because I haven’t met someone I want to spend the rest of my life and start a family with. The thought of sex with anyone less than this is viscerally repulsive. I am not religious, either; these objections stem from practical disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:03 AM
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Coming from someone who had an irrational fear of driving as a kid, the whole thing is overblown. Seriously. Don’t pay attention to that percentage. Memorize what you need to memorize and practice driving until it’s second nature. You can fail multiple times, too, so just keep failing if you have to. I was fortunate to pass everything first try, but I was prepared to keep at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:12 PM
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:D
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:51 PM
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The lord must survey his feudal tenants here and there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:01 AM
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hot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:01 AM
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My skin crawls at the thought of people on this sub existing out in the real world. People I could potentially run into. lol jk. None of you ever go out, that's clear as day. Not that you'd know what that looks like, either. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:55 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:08 AM
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LOL god no. Instant disqualification. Tattoos signify retardation. I don’t even consciously think about it; it’s primal revulsion. Tattooed people: 1. Don’t care about their health. 2. Prioritize outward appearance/validation too much. Of course, among people who also don’t care about their health and rely on validation, I’m sure it’s super hawt. Just depends on which crowd you want to attract. I certainly don’t want that crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:34 AM
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I almost died from choking of laughter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 08:49 AM
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Tone deafness. I’m very musical and die inside when a person can’t pick out a tune.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 08:41 AM
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The ideal male height is 6 inches more than the female’s IMO. I’m 5’5 so that’s 5’11. Obviously 6-6’5 is still acceptable, but it starts becoming impractical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:07 PM
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Now you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:17 PM
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By definition of being the guy she ends up with long term, youre not the best she had had. This rests on the massive, unfounded assumption that the best she encounters leaves her. What if you are him choosing to stay with her? For some reason there's this idea that monogamy inidicates poor options and hence low value; indeed, a "truly" high value male would never settle down because he has OPTIONS. Well, prepare to have your worldview shaken: there's a difference between having options and pursu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:26 PM
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That we are simple programs to decode. X chromosome has 150+ million base-pairs. Y chromosome has 50+ million base-pairs, one-third the amount. Your diploid source code has fewer lines. Who's the simpler program now? harharharhuegtfeudipguui REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE jk jk (males actually contain novel data females don't have) Anyway, the biggest thing is conflating "womanhood" with general human behavioral issues, like narcissism and psychopathy, i.e, false correlation. How many times have I heard an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 07:07 AM
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I don’t kiss people on dates for purely sanitary reasons, no matter how sexually attracted I am to them. That’s basic self-preservation I’m disturbed you advocate against. Most people end up dating around before finding an LTR; if you kissed every single person, congrats: you now have herpes, strep throat, AIDS, and worse, are going to spread it to your SO. I don’t smooch people I’ve been on a couple dates with not only for myself, but for my future LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:49 AM
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lol, thank you. It was pretty nerve wracking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:19 PM
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Update: I gave him my number and we’re now texting. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:15 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 04:22 PM
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Meh, I agree. That’s why I haven’t said anything. I don’t want to make him uncomfortable when he’s forced to be there (he’s a guy and I’m a woman), and it’s hard to distinguish between professionalism and genuine interest, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 04:21 PM
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Nah, I don’t have kids, but I want them. lol, all of your dreams starring children are shrouded in terror. You must hold that sentiment in wakefulness a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:57 AM
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Diet and environmental factors play a massive role in reproductive health. It’s not who is “blessed” as much as it who is healthy. A lot of women (and men; everyone in general) eat the Standard American Diet, which is godawful for the endocrine system. This artificially bad environment creates artificially bad symptoms in women, resulting in artificially bad treatments (IUD’s and hormone disrupters). It’s a self-reinforcing cycle. This is not something that’s going to go away until everyone retu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:47 AM
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I’ve been crushing on a Chipotle worker for weeks. I should say something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:23 AM
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I experienced the opposite. I had a dream I had an adorable little daughter that I loved so much, and when I woke up it felt like I’d lost a family member.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:14 AM
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TIL women are asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 01:05 AM
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Wholesome comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:15 AM
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Self-destructive truth, albeit valid, does not practically matter. That’s what I learned after years of cynicism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:06 PM
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Husbands: protection and provision. Wives: creation and cultivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:04 PM
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Intellectually dishonest, delusional people of both sexes do this. “Ugh, you get to do X, but anytime I do it…” No, Becky. No, Jimmy. There is no unfair agenda against your sex, just a false reality constructed by your own pathetic self-victimization. Stop being a little bitch and own your shortcomings rather than blaming others’ “too high standards.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:48 PM
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Cynicism is sepsis in your veins.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:22 PM
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I love everything from your username to your unabashed honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:01 AM
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Oh, don’t worry, I have no problems with self-control, virgin and all, unlike some men who require vasectomies because they can’t exercise basic abstinence. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 12:10 AM
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I’m looking for a husband to have 20 children with, so sux 4 me I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:52 PM
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I am convinced everyone here suffers from mental illness. Excluding me of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:39 PM
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Patience. My dad is incredibly patient and slow to anger. Not impulsive at all. As a child I never feared him, or felt like I had to walk on eggshells. Consistency. My dad's worked hard his entire life to support us. Every day he gets up in his routine and does what needs to be done. This cultivates stability and assurance of the future. Stability. My dad doesn't smoke, drink, or have any vices. He's mellow and well-regulated. Hands-off. My dad was not overbearing, or micromanaging. He always up…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:55 PM
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I will pick up the slack by having dozens of children, fret not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:19 AM
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parents will spend over $500,000 per child And nothing is more fulfilling an object to spend money on. People focus on logistical loss without accounting for gain: one of the most purposeful aspects of life. Free time and money is vain outside meaningful application. Not to come off too strong, but material priorities sicken me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:18 AM
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Yeah, this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:47 AM
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People tend to hold similar values, just different methods of achieving them. It usually isn’t a matter of “You’re against humanitarianism altogether, you evil, malicious human being,” but more of “You care about humanitarianism just as much as I do, but see X as a clearer path to it than Y.” When you understand most people are empathetic and well-intentioned, political differences become more tolerable, because now it’s not a discrepancy in fundamental values, but how best to achieve them, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:43 AM
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Men have lower standards than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:50 PM
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LOL fuck if that’s a slippery slope more slippery than a freshly caught rainbow trout on a Tuesday morning at 7:19AM by a lake after sobbing all night over the auctioning off of your pet donkey Herbert.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:36 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:16 AM
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One, I disagree the cost of a beautiful woman is necessarily so, and two, I think the margin of beauty expensive measures afford isn’t substantial enough to men to be justified in the first place, but if it were, things have trespassed into fake-identity territory and the whole relationship’s a lie anyway. Upkeep of health and hygiene is what primarily matters when it comes to beauty. Want shiny, glistening hair? Don’t spray hair products; be healthy. Want acne-free, supple skin? Don’t wear foun…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:02 AM
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Yeah, I think it’s true based on the intersexual dynamic of men pursuing and women selecting. The selector’s concessions carry more weight and are therefore more likely to be misconstrued.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:11 PM
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Nobody consciously thinks “REPRODUCTION” when they see certain attractive features, you’re right. x) Just like nobody consciously thinks “SURVIVAL” when they smell delicious food. The creature simply feels good and bad, but feelings are founded on concrete matters, so although you will be able to enjoy sex and food just fine without ever intellectually contemplating their role in reproduction and survival respectively, that is where their “positive” identities originate from.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:18 AM
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I believe people enjoy looking “hot” and “sexy” (opposed to aesthetically beautiful) in the first place only because it confirms reproductive viability, if only subconsciously. When you look sexy in the mirror, it makes you feel good not because of the characteristics themselves (who the fuck cares about skin, tissue, and bone, anyway?), but what they indicate to you for others: reproductive acceptance -> secured survival. There is no such thing as feeling “sexy for yourself.” What are you, self…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:00 AM
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I love you for this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:22 AM
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There is a hilarious disconnect between instinct and outcome going on. Women’s sexy, tight, hourglass body is drool-worthy exactly because it signifies fertility. It’s like that for babies, to get pregnant. EVERYTHING ABOUT SEXINESS IS FOR REPRODUCTION. Only in the modern age have we successfully divorced sexual attraction and reproduction from each other, but they are not separate in actuality. Any man who prefers indicators of fertility over actual offspring and the consequences that come with…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:14 AM
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LOL average males have access to Stacy’s eggs by either going to an egg bank or raping her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:54 PM
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Nobody knows what they want. Humans are all idiots bumbling through life hoping to avoid a fatal pitfall.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:09 PM
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Dear golly-gosh, I sure hope I’m an animal product opposed to a sickly VeggieTale. I already martyr myself to educate the benighted masses who hiss and shriek at blinding truth. What’s a little more by allowing you all to feast upon my nutrient-rich, decadent haunches. A sacrifice I’m willing to make if it means a cure. I’m a philanthropist, really. You’re welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:31 PM
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LOL. Are they overpriced, overhyped, and fundamentally a waste of time, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:23 AM
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lolno Women want to rewrite your SD card entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:11 AM
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you can’t throw that out there like it’s the ultimate solution. I just did and will continue doing so until every single autistic soul is cured, including you. it’s pretty elementary stuff! Isn’t it so convenient that axioms are self-evident. :O How horrific would it be if people started believing the Earth was a sphere rather than a flat plane. Luckily, we’ll never have to worry about that, because who needs studies when things are elementary? I know you don’t, you critically thinking ol’ chap,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:49 AM
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Height for men is just a sexually dimorphic trait. People like sexually dimorphic traits of the opposite sex. It doesn’t need to be any objective height; so long as there’s a relative difference between male and female it’s fine. People who lessen their dating pool by drawing arbitrary immutable lines of “excellency” are either going to improve their gene pool or go extinct. It’s a precarious line to walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:08 AM
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Not everyone can be right on everything. :P It’s okay, don’t feel bad. Now you know more truth. It’s interesting. I’ve cited endless peer reviewed studies, and you’ve cited… none? Wait, everyone’s cited none. It’s almost like every rebuttal is founded on nothing but emotion. It’s almost like everyone’s prioritizing paradigm over reality. It’s almost like… it’s almost like everyone isn’t very good debaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:15 PM
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Genetics predispose you to physical characteristics that favor certain chemical balances. Some people have a resilient intestinal lining with good bacterial composition naturally. These people don’t suffer from weight problems as a child, allergies, or mental issues. Some people, like me and my family, have a dysfunctional intestinal lining - fragile and sensitive. These people suffer from weight problems, allergies, and mental issues. Why? Because the gut barrier affects EVERYTHING. It is the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:00 PM
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If the physical ailment creating the mental health disorder has resulted in formative stunting, or permanent scarring/damage, I concede complete reversal is not possible. But there are many instances this is not the case, and even in such cases of incomplete reversal, it is still better than no reversal at all. There’s a difference between neuro-anatomical abnormalities and neurochemical ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:43 AM
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My claims are supported by those studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:35 AM
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I'm sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:08 AM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3384703/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4325021/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24393738/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25599185/ https://www.nature.com/articles/s41398-020-01058-z https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6673757/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6471505/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6597259/ https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-019-50250-9 Which one of these is false information?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:05 AM
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How the fuck is saying there is hope and a solution insulting? I am not discounting or mitigating their experience; mental health disorders are serious. So serious that a solution is vitally important. What are you even arguing for? That mental health disorders have no cure so stfu and accept misery? lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:01 AM
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Your username. xD Animal products and fruit, of course. I get the bulk of my energy from saturated fat: butter, cream, and animal fat, with some fruit on the side. This makes up 70% of my daily calories. The last 30% is meat (sometimes organs) and eggs. This breakdown is not consciously chosen; my body naturally falls into it. It satisfies all the fat-soluble vitamins (A, D, E, K), B-vitamins (B12, B6, B1), minerals (zinc, iron, magnesium, calcium), omega-6s and 3s - EVERYTHING. The cholesterol …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:35 PM
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As a child I ate whatever garbage the Standard American Diet is - cereal, breads, etc.. I got sick often. At 11, I had a continuous nasal drip for months before my mom intervened. During adolescence (14, when I ate oatmeal and green tea for breakfast) I felt cold and would get dizzy upon standing = slight anemia. I had acne, too. I was so socially anxious I couldn’t even order a burrito alone. I did not experience autoimmune symptoms until 16. During this time my eyelashes started feeling itchy.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:15 PM
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I have a huge appetit As do I. I used to restrict like everybody else because I believed my body couldn't regulate itself. That's the biggest lie you can ever buy into, and I regret buying into myself because it caused a lot of unnecessary issues. Properly calibrated on a healthy diet, your intuition is not wrong. It is never wrong. The human body is a beautifully complex machine evolved over thousands of years and knows exactly what it needs. You think you know better than it? You only need to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:50 PM
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Very.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:27 PM
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Drug addicts like their pills, can't deny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:25 PM
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My brother is on the spectrum. My family has a long history of mental health disorders. Why do you think I'm so invested in this topic in the first place? healthy diet What does that consist of?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:16 PM
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My own personal anecdote: I felt depressed and nihilistic early 2018. No motivation, no will to do anything. From crying maybe twice a year, I went to crying three times in the span of 2 weeks. Anhedonia hit hard; I no longer enjoyed hobbies. My mind was on a loop questioning the purpose of life, why anything mattered, endlessly. This was not normal. This was not "oh, some people are just genetically doomed to depression." It was entirely curable. So, how did it go away? I didn't know what was w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:03 PM
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it’s much easier to blame genetics and give up. That's what it looks like. I don't know if I even blame that response, though, because poor mental health exerts a crabs-in-a-bucket effect. Once you're in a dark place, it's hard to even will yourself to get better. My own personal anecdote: I felt depressed and nihilistic early 2018. No motivation, no will to do anything. From crying maybe twice a year, I went to crying three times in the span of 2 weeks. Anhedonia hit hard; I no longer enjoyed h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:59 PM
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Meds are a bandaid, not a cure. Address the root problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:34 PM
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Define "clean." But to think ADHD and autism can be cured off diet you are an asshole for thinking thats possible. You're complacent for thinking it's not. I have no idea why you're so resistent to the notion when there are studies upon studies on epigenetic factors. Gut flora https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6673757/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6471505/ Methylation https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6597259/ https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-019-50250…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:32 PM
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All we are is matter. There is nothing mystical about mental health. Pyschology is supported by neurology is supported by chemistry is supported by physics. Not sure why people are so resistant to the notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:07 PM
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Sugar extensively damages tissue via glycation, which oxidizes arterial walls. It causes hyperinsulinemia, diabetes, heart disease, and obesity. It feeds cancer, and it completely destroys the immune system by competing with vitamin C. Did you even read what I said before strawmanning? I said sugar causes obesity, not salads. For salads: Salads are comprised of green vegetables. Green vegetables are high in oxalates, tannins, and antinutrients - compounds that chelate to minerals like calcium, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:04 PM
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I will be having 20 thriving children, thank you for the well-wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:53 PM
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Gluten is a dietary protein that resists digestion for everybody, not only celiac patients. It increases intestinal permeability via zonulin, which precedes autoimmune disease: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3384703/ Grain, specifically whole grains, contains high levels of phytic acid in its bran, which reduces nutrient absorption, causing malnutrition: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4325021/ Salads are comprised of green vegetables. Green vegetables are high in oxal…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:20 PM
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I was being hyperbolic. My point is salads, legumes, and whole grains are not healthy, and as much as health aggravates ADHD, it is worsened in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:02 PM
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Today, a lot of men realize that there’s an increasingly growing number of average women think they’re entitled to a man who is higher value than them. You need to be very careful with this type of thinking, that you are not prophesying obstacles that don't exist to justify not trying at all. I grant there are people who cannot be pleased, but that is by no means the majority you are dealing with. Most people operate by "enough" in life, not "best." If you support a liveable wage, that is suffic…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:59 PM
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ADHD can be eliminated through a healthy lifestyle? 100%. Don't believe the fatalistic lie that every problem in your life is unfixable. Humans are a combination of genetics and epigenetics. I will personally coach you back to health if you want. This is like saying eating more salad will reduce your autism And this is the crux of the misinformation. When I say healthy, I am not referring to salads, legumes, and whole grains. All of those GIVE you autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:47 PM
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Never leaving the house because of video games, porn, and low ambition. OLD and LDRs on Discord worsen this. Not presenting the best version of themselves when they do leave the house through being overweight, having poor hygiene, or poor fashion sense. Bad social skills because of mental health issues like anxiety brought on by their unhealthy lifestyle. ADHD, sleep disturbances, and neurosis are not normal and can be eliminated through a healthy diet. Living with parents. Less opportunity to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:25 PM
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but it comes loaded with a lot of assumptions that usually only a scientist with glasses and a larger student debt than the cost of a home would really remember. HAHA Masculinity is obvious. It's the power of coercion, either by fist or by social standing. This is called hard power. Femininity is what would throw an armchair philosopher off his course. I believe femininity is the expression of soft power, which is the power to attract (sexually or socially) and earn love. This is very close to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:09 AM
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Seems biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:47 AM
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My bad. I'll try better next time. I'll practice right now. "aLL dA -" Fuck, let me try again. "All women... womenses... wImminNz -" Goddamnit. "All women are decent human beings with complex personalties and idosyncratic nuance..." I did it! I did it! Are you proud? Wait, oh my god, what's happening "...under the fantastical premise they are not the way they are, but since women are in fact women, aLL dA wImmiNz sPeAk wItH uH fOrKeD tOnGuE." I tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:40 AM
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Passive aggression is just another form of plausible deniability. I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:27 AM
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And what is an objective criticism of women called?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:20 AM
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Oh, damn. It's uncomfortable to commit to a sentiment explicitly, because it becomes irrefutable for later evaluation, and that interferes with preserving cognitive dissonance around mistakes and failures in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:16 AM
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Exactly. Somehow they still manage to dodge accountability despite blatant recorded concessions, though, usually by rewriting their mental state "I didn't know what I wanted at the time," "I was in a dark place," "He pressured me into it," etc.. No. You wanted it at the time, so OWN YOUR COMMITMENTS LIKE AN ADULT. No backtracking to salvage images.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:09 AM
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Humans have many negative features. Are we not allowed to criticize those shortcomings without misanthropic labels?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:02 AM
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The scenario is to highlight women's knack for ambiguity. Avoiding fornication won't avoid women hiding behind plausible deniability. It'll just shift to your wife speaking in tesseracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:51 AM
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Insightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:45 AM
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Valid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:44 AM
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This. I see UBI and my soul dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:45 AM
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The Duality of Man. You want snuggle-wuggles with a porcupine but can't tolerate the stabbing quills from it. You want an LTR with fast-fucking while holding the belief fast-fucking is not an LTR trait. Have your pick. If virginity/low n-count and maternal instinct are attributes men enshrine above all else for LTRs, every one of you in search of LTRs have disqualified "deranged whoring" from your pleasure. If you want "deranged whoring," you've disqulified LTRs from your pleasure. Or, you can h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:56 PM
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no self respecting man is going to pay new luxury car price for the human equivalent of a taxi that spent most its career giving out free rides. Implying penis insertion results in diminished value, implying men are rust to quality material. I always knew everything men touched withered and died. /s People like /u/RandomUsernameSkrrrt are pathological liars Ad hominem. Pathos rhetoric is always the most persuasive route, though, so good on you. because the alternative is taking responsibility fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:20 PM
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:D
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:42 PM
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The people who get upset about flings aren't usually the people who are seeking out flings. They're the people under the misapprehension of something more. There are many commenters here who relay their ONS ending in a mutual split, neither parties pining after the other. The act of sex itself can release momentary hormones that simulate attachment, even if there was no attachment at the beginning. Of course, of course there are instances when a woman is interested in getting to know a man and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:33 PM
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I'm very happy it worked out for you guys. Long-term, intimate relationships can develop from shallow encounters, I don't dispute this. I dispute if shallow encounters undermine the validity of deep sentiment, i.e., "She fucked Joe on the first date and made me wait 3 months therefore Joe is superior in her eyes than me." Everyone seems to think that women who fuck men quickly is an indication of higher interest, but there is an alternative explanation on the opposite end of the spectrum. Do peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:09 PM
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A woman who doesn’t fuck a man as quickly as others is less physically attracted to him so she drags things out to see what she can get out of him as far as money, status, etc. This is one scenario that occurs, I won't dispute its existence. I'm bringing to light other possibilities that exist too (arguably in higher frequency) that everyone conveniently ignores, which is "A woman who doesn't fuck a man as quickly as others is equally attracted to him as others, but cares about him in a broader …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:50 PM
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Infatuation and lust develops quickly. Substantive care does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:38 PM
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Supplying alternative explanations is not equivalent to gaslighting. Besides, you don't have to worry about any lights if you're sticking your head in the sand like this. My point is, fucking guys quickly, just like sharing secrets with randos on the internet quickly, is an indication of apathy more than anything else, so you shouldn't feel threatened by it if you value intimacy. If a woman fucked a random dude quickly and never talked to him after, it's less likely he was THE BEST SHE EVER HAD …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:31 PM
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Sure, it comes down to priorities. If the man's objective is only sexual catharsis as well, everyone's happy. I'm more addressing the men who want LTRs, but avoid/drop out of LTRs with women once they find out they had sex quicker with someone else before them, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:08 PM
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Women treat the men they want to spend their lifetime with better than the men that they are seeing casually. Casual flings don’t receive love, solicitude, sacrifice, or family. They get selfishly used as a dildo and are abandoned in the morning. If you think being treated as a sex object alone is wholesomely better than anything else, that’s your ideal, but most humans want to be valued more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:50 PM
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I know what timid means. You want to be condescending? I’ll say it one more time, since someone is the real ESL who needs repeating: you find it unattractive. Stop projecting it on everybody else. I’ve had several male classmates who did not have the COURAGE or CONFIDENCE to do certain things, and it’s highly endearing. It signifies social sensitivity and empathic emotion. You know who is bold and unapologetic? Autists. I know three off the top of my head who have no problem asserting their opin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:25 PM
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Because nobody interacts with only one person at a given time. If you have a job, you’re interacting with multiple coworkers and customers. If you’re at school, you’re interacting with multiple classmates. You’re getting to know tons of people at once, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Platonic acquaintances and friendships aren’t what’s supposed to be limited; who you pursue romance with is. I don’t think you should be sleeping with multiple people at once, but you can be friends with multip…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:32 AM
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There's a difference between getting to know multiple people at once (no sex involved) and being in a relationship with multiple people at once. Not sure why some men on this sub are conflating the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:52 AM
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you find it unattractive, I get it. I'll gladly take them all for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:17 AM
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correlated
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:43 PM
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LOL jolly elves are hot tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:23 PM
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This is why women typically lack agency or responsibility for their actions...if they were self-sufficient this would disrupt the natural sexual dimorphism (men are meant to be the problem-solvers, women are meant to bear and raise children.) I cringe at this every time. Infants, the most helpless, demanding creatures on the planet, would never survive if women were not responsible. The very nature of motherhood necessitates the highest level of self-denial and responsibility out there. I'll nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:10 PM
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CUTE I frikin love that. Every single dude I've ever been attracted to was the quiet, reserved type.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:41 PM
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u can play games and shit to get the girl but once u do u cant keep playing games eventually the real u will come out and heartbreak will happen This is the crux of it. Thanks for this post.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 09:23 PM
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I am not religious. It does feel like I’ll need to cross into that territory to find what I want, though. For some reason secular people don’t exercise cost-benefit analysis in their lives very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:20 PM
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I personally operate by: Get to know many people at once, but keep it strictly platonic. No intimacy whatsoever. Once a platonic friend demonstrates compatibility, escalate to an exclusive romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:04 AM
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This so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:58 AM
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Some women do. Some women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 12:28 AM
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I once heard them say loving your children is a feminine quality like dude what??? lmao I'm dead Some things are just humans being human, not everything is about something being feminine or masculine. This is exactly it. They arbitrarily isolate human foibles to the female sex.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/21 10:01 PM
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Exactly. If you go to the safari, you’re going to see a lot of giraffes. Or, more relevant to your username, if you go to South America, you’ll see a lot of sloths. Are they representative of all animals? No. They just seem that way if it’s the only location you visit. OLD and sexually aggressive people are notorious for promiscuity, so don’t be surprised when they’re disloyal. Most of the time you can’t have your cake (fast sex) and eat it too (loyalty). Yes, I don’t use OLD, and I definitely r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:09 PM
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Prudence and good qualities are rarer in the population. I can’t tell if you’re using that as justification to not search for it…? In terms of myself, I’ve never had sex because I haven’t found a loving, committed relationship yet. Casual sex is not even an option that crosses my mind because it is revolting in every conceivable way - physically (STDs, pregnancy), mentally (intimacy with strangers feels blasphemous), socially (“whore” and “slut”). And I look for men who feel the same way, who on…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:15 PM
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you know what’s more prudent than one FWB? none at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:56 PM
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casual sex will never be prudent. Its definition precludes it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:52 PM
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just depends on the type of girl. 100% of hedonistic girls fuck other people; 100% of prudent girls do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:49 PM
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or fucking no one at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:34 PM
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so you end up eating McDonald’s every day and get a heart attack down the road. Pick your poison.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:28 PM
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All relationships are transactional in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 11:38 PM
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Good description.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:13 AM
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Why are you focusing on “more successful” friends? Who cares what other people’s starting points are in life? There are people who start at the front of the race and people who start at the back, but that does not define the order in which they finish because 99% of those “innate” disadvantages can be overcome by sufficient dedication. Your “innate” disadvantages are not the primary cause of your lack of success; your dedication is. 10 years of tennis and 8 years of league is impressive. Was tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 06:42 PM
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I’m not assuming anything. You said it yourself. You tried. Emphasis on past tense to justify no further future tense. It’s not enough to try something once, or twice, or thrice, or even 100 times and give up. You need to persist - persist and persist and persist until you get what you want, and work SMART, not only HARD when you do it. What does it take to build a skill, or achieve any goal? Consistent dedication. You’re like a person who takes up a guitar, plays it for a few days, then drops i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:58 PM
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Some women don’t, and same applies to them. No one should be having sex with multiple people at once unless they’re upfront and transparent about it beforehand, ethically-speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:40 PM
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Get to know multiple people at once, but do sexual things with one person at a time. Nobody wants STDs or jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:03 PM
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My point wasn’t to date coworkers. My point is we do things every day, like go to work, to achieve a goal one step at a time, because success doesn’t happen all at once. Just because you haven’t found someone yet doesn’t mean anything; good things take awhile to find sometimes, so keep trying. For your last sentence, my eyes rolled so hard I almost saw stars. Are you complaining that good things in life require patience and effort, and then using that as justification to not try? No, don’t “wait…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:17 PM
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100% this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:23 AM
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Just like you went to work today? Continue doing it until you reach the goal you want. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:52 AM
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Intuitive things are hard to intellectualize. There's nothing instrinsically remarkable about body parts, but they elicit a response nonetheless. I can't explain why masculine characteristics look so attractive; they just do. While breasts and hourglass curves catch your eye, broud shoulders and a tapered body catch my eye. The increased muscle-mass and height; the defined features and deeper voice... it's like crack. You're a man, so masculine things probably mean nothing to you, just like femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:21 AM
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lol, I suspected that's what you meant, but I wasn't going to assume. This is a question you could answer yourself, in fact. If unicorns value chastity, health, patience, and kindness, they wouldn't be anywhere that conflicts with those things, so where are those places? Workplace, school, hikes, church (if you're religious), family friends, social activities... the list goes on. I attend 5-20 people gatherings sometimes through a friend that exclusively consist of well-rounded, mature people. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:51 PM
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Non-unicorn crowds are crowds of people who don't express unicorn qualities, which RP refers to as Virgin/low n-count Loyal and prudent Patient and kind or any other stereotypically "good" qualities. These non-unicorn crowds are the bar, club, rave, and hookup dating app scene - anywhere it's the easiest to fuck. People who fuck easily are by nature more promiscuous and self-destructive. What usually happens is men are horny and want sex as fast as possible, so they go to these places, which is …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:24 PM
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Nope. Knowledge doesn’t make you rich. It gives you a mindset to become rich, which is the trajectory I’m on. I’m a college student right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:38 PM
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The best thing everyone on this sub can learn is self-responsibility, and that lesson can be taught in any book, scam or not, and still be true. Merit is separate from proponent. It’s ironic reading some of these comments, because they don’t even know they’re confirming the very thing they’re arguing against. Tell someone who’s poor from a poor-mindset that it’s their mindset, and they’ll say: “It’s my circumstances that are the problem. I don’t have what I need to become rich, and you’ll never …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:18 PM
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Mutual attraction is a major limiting factor. Yep, fully empathize with that. The question is: how can you make it mutual on the other end? Is your deficiency truly immutable? It’s not just men “not pursuing what they want.” Sometimes less advantaged people have to pursue a little less of what they ideally want. I take issue with these two sentences, because the latter presupposes axiomatic inability as justification for low aspirations, when it's the low aspirations that create the inability in…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:32 AM
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It's not up to you to decide what someone else thinks is too high of a standard. Agreed. Your original argument was if someone wanted to find a partner all they needed to do was put in more effort. I stand by this. You later had to add a qualifier by saying as long as their standards aren’t too high. Ah, I understand where you're coming from. Let me restate what I wrote to someone else: People can want a trillion dollars and celebrity catches. It's highly unlikely they'll get it, but it's an opt…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:53 AM
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I'm not making any value judgements on relationships themselves. If you don't care about relationships, that is neither here or there. But if you make relationships prefereable in your mind, and you make good relationships preferable to that... ...and then sacrifice nothing (recall u/manfrom-nantucket: "The remaining ones are like searching for the perfect grain of sand at the beach. Not really an effort worth getting into") to make it happen, complain about the subsequent poor outcome ("All the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:23 PM
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You destroyed your own argument. Your definition of "healthy and stable" is not universal. If I did I'll gladly wrap it up. Could you explain further how I did so?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:55 PM
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And you'll meet even less women the higher quality you demand. That's the point. Quality is hard to obtain. The question is, what are you going to do about it? Are you going to lower your standards in the face of hardship to accomodate what can be more easily obtained (the mindset of unsuccessful hedonists), or are you going increase your effort in self-improvement and searching to preserve the standards that'll make life easier for you in the long-term? You'll say "It doesn't matter how much ef…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:51 PM
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If men will pursue what they want instead of what they can get they will end up getting nothing at all. Men define what they can get by the choices they make every day to obtain what they want. Obviously, men wanting a hot babe to descend into their lap from a pegasus chariot will end up empty-handed (or empty-lapped), but a man wanting a healthy, stable, reasonably attractive woman? 100% attainable. Majority of bad people pretend to be good people and some of them really good at that. Thus, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:26 PM
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People can want a trillion dollars and celebrity catches. It's highly unlikely they'll get it, but it's an option they can pursue anyway. The greater the quality of outcome, the more effort required in attainment. This is a general fact of life. I'm not talking about unrealistic desires, though, when I say "Men's dating problems are from not pursuing what they want." Of course, there is a percentage of the population that is so deformed that a healthy, stable, reasonably attractive partner is "u…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:56 PM
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The whole point is men don't meet unicorns because they don't have the patience and effort to, defaulting to imperfect women, then complain about it and use "AWALT" to further justify their lack of patience and effort. The very act of fucking imperfect women instantly disqualifies you from the unicorn by Displaying non-unicorn characteristics yourself to her, making her pass you up. Spending most of your time around a non-unicorn crowd, reducing the chances of meeting a unicorn, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:34 PM
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Sounds like you need to read Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki. It is mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:24 PM
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"There are only 10% fatally poisonous peanuts in this bag and if you eat a healthy one it may statistically develop into being a poisonous one post-consumption, with government's support and society's suggestion to do so. Here, have a few... (offers)" Emphasis on "may," which is where your discernment comes in. If you are unwilling to put in the effort to separate good from bad in your life, that's fine; just don't be shocked when all you end up with is bad. Any guy doing any kind of vetting is …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:19 PM
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Dying from starvation, or dying from food-poisoning is a false dichotomy that only exists to people unwilling to put in the effort to find healthy food.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:41 PM
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Oh muh gawd, this comment has motivated me to finally make a post I’ve been meaning to for awhile. I can’t take it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:09 PM
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There are plenty women out there who don’t live self-destructively; you just have to to look for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:36 PM
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Leadership is a duality of diplomacy (tact and empathy) and firmness. Bad boys have firmness, nothing else. That’s the fraction of attractiveness they retain, but it’s not the full-scope, and their deficiency in the other facet is enough to override its appeal in stable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:31 AM
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Promiscuous STD-infected hedonism isn’t sexy, either. The most attractive dude is assertive AND nice (not mutually exclusive concepts), interesting, clean (chlamydia and emotional baggage free from previous partners, i.e., low N-count), and prudent. If women are indeed attracted to leaders, good leaders practice future planning - that means not behaving like a reckless freak getting lit 8 days a week and fucking anything in sight. A guy without any forethought is the biggest turn off. Fun? Perha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:22 AM
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Boring and afraid of shadows is the only alternative to bad boy? :O How about nice, interesting, and confident? All the attractive qualities without the anger issues, meth addiction, and ugly tattoos? The world’s not so black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:27 AM
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I feel like I won the lottery being born in the USA at this time in history - national debt, central bank, and pseudo-totalitarianism aside. Are you not happy? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:45 PM
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Happy Independence Day. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:11 PM
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Hmm, if I recall correctly, deductive reasoning is general to specific, while inductive reasoning is specific to general. Deductive: all men are cute [general statement] -> you are a man -> therefore, you are cute [specific instance]. It was deduced you are cute from a general theory. Inductive: you are cute [specific instance] -> you are a man -> therefore, all men are cute [general statement]. It was induced all men are cute from a specific instance. But I’m not a logician, sadly, just someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:31 AM
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This is such a shoddily camouflaged, humblebrag-troll post I’m surprised anyone’s dignifying it with real responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:17 AM
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Logic is the ability to make valid inferences from premises, but those premises might not be correct. All women are evil. Jane is a woman. Therefore, [insert valid inference] If you inferred Jane is evil, congratulations: you’re logical. If you agreed with the premise, congratulations: you’re inductively illogical. Emotion drives people to accept false premises; it does not deprive people of the ability to make valid inferences. Both sexes experience the same magnitude of emotion, just different…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 07:36 PM
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Again, what are you basing this on? Could you please supply the data so I can understand? Studies online say men cheat more than women, so I’m confused. Imagine if I wrote u/_Neon_Shadow_’s comment as: Men don’t operate that way. I can’t think of a term for it, but basically, investing in a man doesn’t have any effect on him leaving you. Once a better opportunity arises, he will monkey branch, regardless of how much love, money, attention, care or anything else you’ve invested in him/the relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:24 PM
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I embarked on a journey unlike any before, Through Boolean logic and if-then galore. I wondered about this, I wondered about that; I wondered if ur mom is a dog or a cat. The premise demands a singular outcome, One I must settle upon now or later; But I confess I contest the latent axiom, That hides behind the non-sequitur. Women = bad, so ur mom is dog; A shuddering truth, at last? So how very glad, that it’s actually ur dad, That’s ur mom that’s a dog that’s a cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 07:22 AM
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HAHAHA, credit be where credit is due
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:43 AM
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ur mom
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 05:09 AM
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Ugly men exist today because their ugly fathers didn’t ACCEPT extinction. They scoffed at it with their magnificently hideous faces and reproduced ANYWAY. TAKE UP ARMS BRETHREN AND ESTABLISH YOUR PLACE IN THIS WORLD, OR CONCEDE TO EVOLUTIONARY EXTINCTION. Your legacy is what you insist upon. Overcome obstacles or be overcome by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 05:06 AM
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The “bond” (more like momentary sex high) created by great sex from a former hookup, FBW, or male stripper is no competition for the powerful bond of a loving, meaningful, intimate (compatible personalities), still sexually satisfying but relatively lesser because of worse technique relationship. Cheating occurs because the couple doesn’t have that strong bond, not because they have it and it’s not enough. Again, a relationship based on sex alone can be threatened by sex alone, but a relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:28 AM
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It would be a sex offer from someone outside the solid bond shared between the couple. It is not a threat unless that bond between the couple isn’t so solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:13 AM
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What are you basing this on? What has led you to this generalization that women (but not men) are incapable of satisfaction the moment something “better” comes along? Shallow people of both sexes, for sure, but “the female mind” specifically? Why? Everyone finds novelty enticing. Everyone finds a trillion dollars and 10/10 partners enticing. Does everyone cheat, though? No. Is everyone not satisfied with their average house and average partner? No. Why do people think that just because someone k…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:11 AM
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Yeah, cheating happens in both sexes for various reasons (contempt, boredom), winding back to the unique emotional connection between the two people being eroded. Nothing binds them to each other anymore. A solid relationship is not threatened by random sex offers, but random sex offers are entertained by already weakened relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:53 AM
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Then we’re in agreement, I think. The more a relationship hinges on sexual gratification alone, the more at risk it is to sexual competition. A woman with a man only for good dick will leave as soon as better dick comes along. A woman with a man because she loves him as a whole will not. The idea of leaving the man I love for someone who’s simply better at sex is utterly revolting. That would never happen. I want to hug and snuggle-wuggle and smooch and caress ONLY my adorable, squishy [theoreti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:23 AM
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The post isn’t necessarily speaking in the context of leaving a relationship partner for some rando or old flame. OP: A lot of men seem to think that it’s a problem if they get into an LTR/marriage with a woman, and she’s had better sexual experiences before, it’s something they need to worry about. Is it because her dissatisfaction increases her propensity to cheat or monkey branch? Am I interpreting this incorrectly?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:03 AM
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We’re talking about women’s point of view here, not mens. And I’m a woman. Women experience post-nut clarity, too. Look it up if you don’t believe it. The moment sex hormones dissipate, the sexual “emotional bond” does, too. If you don’t give her the tingles, shes not going to like you as much as the next dude that gives her ting-avalanche. Sexual satisfaction matters in a relationship, this isn’t disputed. The question is whether superior sexual satisfaction (i.e., better orgasms) in the past i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:47 AM
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Women have mind-blowing orgasms from inanimate vibrators. They don’t need an emotional bond to get off. Sexual satisfaction can be achieved without emotional connection. Or do you not masturbate on your own all the time? Friction is friction. This is really basic stuff if you’ve ever had relationships with women. It’s even more basic when you are a woman, which I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:32 AM
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The “emotional bond” created by momentary sexual pleasure is similarly momentary in duration. Post-nut clarity marks the end of it. It is absolutely not significant compared to the life-long emotional bond of interpersonal compatibility. Many people marry based off that fleeting, sexual “emotional bond” you’re talking about, and guess what happens? DiVoRcE.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:33 AM
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OP’s distinguishing sexual experiences if she’s had better sexual experiences before Good sex is good sex, nothing more, nothing less. It is not equal to fulfilling relationships, or a holistic “best.” You’re committing a false equivalency by assuming strong emotional bonds = good sex, therefore good sex implies strong emotional bonds. All strong emotional bonds enhance sex, but not all good sex requires strong emotional bonds. Someone can simply have good technique. Dick size is brought up in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:23 AM
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It doesn’t invalidate either way. Principles not founded on opportunity cannot be undermined by opportunity. Remember: happiness in life is not about having the best; it’s about having enough. The margin between “best” and “enough” isn’t sufficiently compelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:47 AM
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This ignores the biggest adhesive of relationships: emotional bonds. People do not up and leave thriving emotional bonds for “superior” SMV like fickle, sex-crazed goats. People leave relationships that are already emotionally long-deteriorated. I would not leave my husband for a celebrity. You should be more concerned about preserving the integrity of your mutual emotional bond than a dude having a 0.39816cm longer shlong than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:13 AM
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Gluten is a dietary protein that resists digestion for everybody, not only celiac patients. It increases intestinal permeability via zonulin, which precedes autoimmune disease: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3384703/ Grain, specifically whole grains, also contains high levels of phytic acid in its bran, which reduces nutrient absorption, causing malnutrition: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4325021/ Salads are comprised of green vegetables. Green vegetables are high in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:38 PM
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Gluten is a dietary protein that resists digestion for everybody, not only celiac patients. It increases intestinal permeability via zonulin, which precedes autoimmune disease: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3384703/ Grain, specifically whole grains, also contains high levels of phytic acid in its bran, which reduces nutrient absorption, causing malnutrition: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4325021/ Salads are comprised of green vegetables. Green vegetables are high in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:38 PM
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HAHA I almost died from laughter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:26 AM
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Instill family-oriented values in childhood through healthy parental/community examples. Revise the economy to accommodate sole breadwinners and SAHMs/SAHDs. Change mainstream health advice of 70% carbs/20% fat/10% protein to 70% fat/20% protein/10% carbs to improve endocrine function of the masses. Remove “overpopulation” and planetary death fear-mongering in public school curriculum. Actually, remove A LOT of current public school propaganda. Remove public schooling altogether, in fact. Create…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:19 AM
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PLEASE MARRY ME ALREADY
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:25 AM
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At home. Throw a pebble at my window and I might come out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:54 PM
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I treat sex with the seriousness biology carried before contraceptives. I only have sex with a man I’m going to start a family with. This generally takes 6 months - 2 years to know. This is a hard line I don’t compromise on for anyone, not even the chadliest of chads. He can fuck off with his slimy, promiscuous, STD riddled dick. My children will have a stable family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:25 PM
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Witty banter and rapport, i.e. social intelligence. When they can deliver incisive remarks/jokes/one-ups. There have been several instances when men concocted exquisite responses, and I instantly fell mute from my IQ plummeting to oblivion (redirected blood flow, if you know what I’m saying ;) ). Solid eye-contact. It’s universal: eye-contact = intimacy. This occurs with anyone, physically attractive or not. One time I was talking to a friend’s acquaintance at a table, of whom I wasn’t immediate…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:33 AM
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Fair enough. I don't regret technological advancement in quality of life, however. Humanity wouldn't have reached this point without the drive for more than sticks and stones. All about balance in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:31 AM
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Happiness is relative, so I won't argue degrees. Clean water to third world countries may be as exciting as Lambourghinis to first world countries. You can either lower your expectations to be happy, or increase your ability to accomplish higher quality of life. You chose the former, and I won't judge you for that if it genuinely does it for you. More often than not, though, settling for less doesn't do it for the person (in spite of all their mental gymnastics), and they secretly resent the sit…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:39 PM
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LOL
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 11:03 PM
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I am a lawyer. I am trained to lie every day in every way You can lie to others. You can't lie to yourself. The point is about SELF-esteem. Your SELF-perception influences what you aspire for yourself, and you've made it very clear you aspire for very little (at least in terms of partners). I am a lawyer. I can make decisions based on any value system as long as I think the value system in question will provide results. I make decisions based on the value system displayed by people who are succe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:29 PM
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I am willing to put a mask on and do things I hate. People do respect people that wear a mask that says "I respect myself" The practical outcome is what ultimately matters to people, correct, factual or fake in mechanism. Problems you'll continually encounter are: Authentic self-respect is difficult to simulate, if not momentarily, over a long period of time. Every decision of yours is first endorsed by a value-system, and a corrupted value-system will inevitably show through actions, like toler…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:27 PM
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It’s hard to maintain self-respect when other people are not willing to treat you kindly. Self-respect is exactly seeing your value when no one else does. Imagine if Elon Musk gave up the moment people expressed doubt. Imagine if authors gave up the moment publishers denied them. Imagine if u/Estimator1313 gave up the moment others treated him/her unkindly. Your value isn't arbitrarly assigned by external origin; the actions you choose right now carve out your capability. The world is comprised …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:46 PM
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This was depressing to read, holy fuck. These are serious self-esteem problems, and I say that from a place of empathy, not derision. It doesn’t matter how much wealth a person has if their mindset is poor. People don’t respect those who don’t respect themselves. Both sexes will abandon and treat you like shit so long as you believe in the core of your being that’s all you can get. It’s a self-fulfilling cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:44 PM
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Thank you for this post, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:10 AM
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I’d love to answer that myself (1000/10), but I don’t know how a self-analysis could possibly be accurate. I’ve been approached by several people who said I was “cute,” so I assume at least average.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:23 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 11:01 PM
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I personally like the faded jeans, battered shoes, unwashed hoodie, disheveled hair, stale morning breath, puffy eyes, antisocial-hunched-posture combo myself. When a dude stumbles into class like that I know he's the one. You think I'm being sarcastic. You're mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:01 PM
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wipes tear from eye
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:03 PM
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I giggled ridiculously hard at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:57 AM
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I mean, I don't stay in any relationship I'm not getting the level of investment and commitment I want out of. You can only be a forever girlfriend if you put up with less than you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:17 AM
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I thought forever girlfriends are made when women put out everything (wife-duties, sex, etc.) before marriage, though? I find the tradition of marriage obsolete and irrelevant besides its economic uses, though (on my own, not as a cope), so it's not cause for alarm, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:32 AM
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You're gonna get a lot of guys who are thrilled about the opportunity to pump and dump you. I understand the justifications for thinking that, but I actually won't, because I'm still vetting. Just because I'm the first to approach doesn't mean I'm unable to fold my cards at the first sight of red flags. Additionally, I only overtly express interest (beyond physcial attraction) in people when I'm, well, interested in them, and I'm only interested in them once I know their character and values to …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:50 PM
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And I'm saying they didn't evolve that way because there is no evolutionary benefit for them to do so. It would increase the risk that they'll be impregnated by the lesser man. You're saying it increases a woman's risk of being impregnated by lesser men if she experiences attraction on a spectrum? No, because sexual selection isn't based on any attraction at all, but the highest that is accessible. A woman can find 5 men 67%, 72%, 97%, 98%, and 99% attractive, choose the 99% attractive dude, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:20 PM
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Those are great points! I take the initiative a lot more in dating matters now. PPD opened my eyes to the immense pressure men experience making the first move, inferring reciprocal attraction, and risking rejection. I wasn't completely oblivious to it in the past, but a combination of my own anxiety and laziness kept me complacent. Now, after improving my diet and maturing, as well as reading men's experiences on this sub, I have more confidence to make the first move, give out compliments, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:07 PM
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not being his 2am secret dismissed cum hole who can’t even get cuddles and flowers and companionship. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:13 PM
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Who people end up choosing requires a quantized 'yes or no' answer. Who people find attractive and desirable is a spectrum of thousands. In fact, it's exactly because women can only choose one man to reproduce with at a time that's it important they can appreciate a wide range of admirable qualities. Imagine you're a kid with a dollar to spend at a candy shop. The candy shop has hundreds of options you find delicious to varying extents. At the end of your deliberation, a chocolate bar wins out, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:01 PM
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For men women evaluating women men, a 7 standing next to a 10 is just two attractive women men. Ones hotter than the other, and given the choice without knowing either of them he'd she'd choose the 10, but he she could still marry the 7 and want to bone her him for the rest of his her life. What prevents the converse case from being equally true besides emotionally-driven bias? Statistics? Anecdotes? Exaggerated media? Please supply them if they exist. PPD is full of "he-said-she-said" baseless …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:32 PM
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The male and female contributions to the reproductive process are not equal. Exactly. This is something I’ve mulled over too. The reproductive role of mammalian females centers around potential energy (pregnancy, breastfeeding, nurturing). This energy contribution is largely internal. The reproductive role of mammalian males centers around kinetic energy (muscle mass, fighting, protecting). This energy contribution is largely external. As with all specialization and division of labor in society,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:43 PM
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Business reasons. Vertical length showcases clothing items better. Remember: models are live mannequins. The emphasis is on the clothes more than them, but you don’t want an ugly face detracting from glittering Armani masterpieces, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:43 PM
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Excellent response.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:27 AM
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Misdirect your unhappiness in life somewhere else. This reads as one massive word vomit of irrelevant bitterness and contempt. I apologize on his behalf, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:32 PM
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It’s almost like we’re not from the same species. It’s almost like we’re not human.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:11 PM
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Women are unevolved animals who don’t have a prefrontal cortex, that’s right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:57 PM
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That’s considerate of you, although I’ll say it’s not realistic, or even necessarily morally superior. There’s nothing wrong with men finding women attractive and appreciating it visually. Hopefully that’s not what I’m conveying. Attraction is the most base instinct, and it goes both ways: women admire men too. It’s absolute retardation to try to shame and stop men (or women) from rightfully keeping tabs on viable mates in their vicinity. How else would the world turn otherwise? lmao. Some femin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:31 AM
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Ah, I see. In your case you were proactive in the search, so that’s fair. It’s definitely a chicken-or-the-egg dilemma. I don’t consider porn powerful enough to completely eliminate a man’s drive to pursue real women and better himself, hence why I don’t think it’s wholly responsible for sexlessness. There are more consequential variables influencing the matter that should be discussed. This is, if anything, a marginal contributing factor. No control groups, dear god. A testament to how ubiquito…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:31 AM
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You were interested in sex at 6? lmao. I crushed on soccer boys at 6, but never pondered anything sexual with them until after puberty. I was still having co-ed baths with my siblings at that age, for goodness sake. Nudity wasn’t on anyone’s radar. Anyway, besides that, I think there’s a slight nuance that’s being missed. Possible scenarios: Men use porn because they can’t get sex. Men can’t get sex because they use porn. Most children find porn UNWILLINGLY. Mistakenly. They stumble across it. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:50 AM
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The point is porn use occurs before the desire for relationships/sex. Toddlers, prepubescent, and post-puberty boys can all have masturbatory impulses, but that is not the same as seeking out women and failing to get them. For porn to be a symptom of sexlessness, it needs to come after boys become interested in meeting women to have sex with, but fail for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 12:38 AM
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Yeah, I won’t dispute that. Males in many species carry the burden of pursuing, which is slightly more effort, and if that additional effort is dissuading enough to not try, so be it. Self-extinction it is. For me personally, sheer sexual gratification doesn’t satisfy the desire for intimacy, so porn isn’t a 1-to-1 substitute. I really want to cultivate a relationship and family with a man, and that’ll never be fulfilled by porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:57 PM
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I feel like that would be more believable if porn was taken up later in life in response to poor options, but kids get into it before/during puberty, long before dating, and have watched it as a habit for years before their first relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:58 PM
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There is a distinction that’s overlooked time and time again: love for others (attraction) and love for oneself (ego) are not the same, although they often look similar. Push-pull preys on the latter, ego, which is not genuine attraction. PUAs and RP operate exclusively on this, hence why their relationships are always short-lived. You can get someone hooked by playing scarcity games, but that “interest” in you is not actually about you; it’s about themselves and validating their own self-worth …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:36 AM
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What tasteful self-deprecating modesty. xD I would be more inclined to believe that if you weren’t so eloquent and cogent in articulation. IQ manifests in various ways. Hmm, I don’t think the preference was imprinted. I was around no such environment growing up - nothing to influence me in the way you described. It isn’t specifically college-educated people, either. It is anyone who demonstrates mental qualities that I subjectively find admirable and respectable, as well as personality. That’s p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:41 AM
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Intellect and personality are crucial components of arousal for me, and they’re only discovered through getting to know someone. I am highly sapiosexual; it is arguably more powerful than physical allure. Specific psychological traits (sarcasm, wit, objective analysis, logic) are primary lust-factors. My genes prioritize IQ above all else. Every man I’ve crushed on at college was some variation of tutor or STEM student. When someone resonates on an intellectual level, the horn instantly flares u…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:31 AM
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For external triggers: if I see an attractive man (face in particular), my heart leaps and I get butterflies in my chest. It’s a form of intense excitement, but I wouldn’t label it as horniness. Less an impulse to fuck and more an impulse to hug and hold hands. Now, it would probably eventually progress into something more strictly sexual, but it’s not that way initially. So basically: I do not get aroused at naked male bodies with zero context. It’s like looking at a tree, or other naked animal…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 01:03 AM
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This is most important to keep in mind. Everything is relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:19 AM
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I was scrunching my face up more and more as I read…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:54 AM
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snickers violently
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:25 PM
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I was going to supply a rebuttal to the chain, but you already managed it quite nicely. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:21 PM
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I love this. x)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 01:23 AM
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All bad-boys express attractive masculine secondary sex characteristics, but not all attractive masculine secondary sex characteristics manifest bad-boys. Manliness is not mutually inclusive with “bad-boy,” as “bad-boy” connotes additional layers of behavioral issues. Heterosexual women want masculinity, not dysfunctional immorality. Do bad-boys retain elements of masculinity? Yes. Is all masculinity confined to bad-boys? No. It’s like ordering a kale salad for the few slices of meat on top. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:07 PM
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Pretty much this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:17 PM
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I never leave the house. Introverted self-extinction. I occasionally gaze out the window and think “Huh, maybe I should meet people,” then a second passes and I’m back on the computer because #pathofleastresistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:03 PM
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awww this is wholesome and sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:37 PM
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Amazing response.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:50 PM
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Indulgence in immediate gratification, be it through gluttony, substance abuse, poor life planning, or sexual exploits, is generally seen as reprehensible by everybody. Men’s high N-count is no exception. Huge turn-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:28 PM
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I almost puked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:21 PM
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haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:54 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:24 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:11 AM
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Here’s a different take: egomongering. They are not selecting for fulfilling relationships, or even better lays; they are selecting for maximum validation. The younger the girl, the greater the age gap, the “better” it reflects on his supposed prowess and attractiveness [in the manosphere, or general social hierarchy]. These RP men are starved for validation (just look at all the self-bolstering field reports). They are not viewing a young woman; they are viewing a means to an end to feel better…
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 05:33 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:14 PM
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lmaooo roasttttt
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:32 PM
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yup yup. People seem to forget that hot, strong genetics only exist today because of a long line of rigorous sexual selection. You wouldn’t be able to appreciate sexy celebrities without it. Their ancestors didn’t settle for garbage (hence why they’re the high quality they are today), and they’re not about to, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:01 PM
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YES, thank you for this post. PPD and other communities are skewed so far from reality at this point it’s comical. You get a few seriously messed up men lumping all average men into their socially stunted experience. I’ve looked at numerous user post histories on this sub and several match that list. Also, tons are self-proclaimed autists. I was shocked to see just how many. Most people with debilitating social skills are on the spectrum, though, so it’s not really unexpected. Point being: the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:44 PM
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The next time a young teenage girl looks at me with those "fuck me" eyes and says "hiiiii mister" HAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:23 AM
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dear god
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 06:48 PM
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I’m so curious for this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 06:29 PM
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People generally want to be recognized by their abstract entity of self ('personality,' or 'intellect'), not any isolated feature about them, like race or sex. When I speak to you, I'm not talking to your leg, or Y chromosome, or testosterone specifically; I'm talking to you, the cumulative average of all things combined. Emotional states vary throughout the day, but instrinsic identity does not, because it isn't grounded in mood or sex hormones. Sadness isn't a personality trait, nor is sexual …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:58 AM
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The male biological imperative is to father as many children as possible. vs. The female biological imperative is to get the highest quality genetic material for the few offspring she can have and to see them through to maturity. Hmm, I thought this too at one point. My question is: why are females portayed as the only sex who care about offspring survival after birth? If the goal of reproduction is continuing one's genetic line for both sexes, involvement does not stop at impregnation for males…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:07 AM
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However, in the context of looking for a long term relationship, that doesn’t seem right. That's because it isn't. Your intuition is correct. If a man you were talking to as a potential partner took his time to get to know you before trying to be intimate right out of the gate, what kind of conclusions would you draw about the man in question? Marriage material. This is exactly what I'm looking for in a long-term partner, someone who prioritizes substantive compatibility over instant gratificati…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:17 AM
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Me too, me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:06 AM
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LMAO mmmfpsjgahab yes talk dirty to me bb rawr ex dee uwu deus vult
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:38 PM
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Sometimes. You can never trust my female nature that is inherently devoid of morality, unlike men. At any moment my solipsism and hypergamy can flare-up and negate your value to the status of filthy maggots, like a T-Rex cocking its head analytically at its prey. Cold, calculated. You are nothing. You don’t exist. Empathy is not programmed in my 10 lines of source code. I am one single while-loop of manipulation - over and over, always exploiting for maximum selfish gain. I cannot love. I cannot…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:19 PM
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yup, I don’t doubt some women think this way. Immature, silly, and damaging (and still the minority), but a phenomenon, I’m sure. You have to be seriously narcissistic to offload all accountability like that and destroy someone else’s life, assuming it had actually been consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:49 PM
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goochie goo who’s a sleepy boy? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:12 AM
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I’ll oblige if you can rise to the occasion of giving me 20 babies. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:58 AM
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This is a capitalism problem. Adam Smith would like a word with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:39 AM
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hawt
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:36 AM
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Can some of you live without a man/family? Can I? Yes. Do I want to? No. I unironically want a man to snuggle-wuggle and have 20 children with. What age are you now? 20. Do you think that its plausible as soon as that fertility of yours starts to decrease that family might be something late to consider? Yes, depending on how many children you want, I suppose. The impulse to create a family is already debilitating now; I shudder to imagine how intense it would be in a decade. Maybe that's only be…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:29 AM
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ahaha, you would think so. My dad was engineering and my mom was nursing, literally. That’s generally true, though. The major you go into dictates the gender you’re surrounded by mostly, and that influences your friends. I’m in STEM and it’s primarily men, so I make a lot of male acquaintances.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:58 PM
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My dad said he mainly had female friends in college and my mom said she mainly had male friends. I think people gravitate toward opposite sex friends because it’s more interesting with the potential for more even if you never act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:39 PM
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My point exactly. >:) Shield your retinas from the blinding abominations around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:44 PM
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You look in the mirror. If it cracks, you’re an ugly human being. If it remains in tact, congratulations: you’re an ugly human being subject to normal physical laws. Either way, everyone is ugly, inside and out. No use worrying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:17 PM
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preach
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 04:12 PM
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Aw, I wish I could take credit, but the truth is I was inspired by someone - a special someone that’s the sweetest of all: u/AceOfBlacks. If you see them, please tell them I say thank you for their kind words. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:10 AM
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yum yum :3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:47 AM
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Yes, sexual desire is an essential relationship component that shouldn’t be removed. It also shouldn’t be allowed to obstruct analysis of other essential relationship components in the beginning, as well, however. This is achieved not by removing it completely, but managing the magnitude of its influence. Attraction and lust will always be there to some extent, just like hunger will gazing at food; it’s the magnitude that matters, because magnitude is what results in poor judgement/choice. Impul…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:45 AM
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lmao uwotm8 I want a virgin man as much as a man wants a virgin woman. Virginity means no STDs, less emotional baggage - just mine mine miiiiiiiiiiiiine mmmmfgauagidkqvgv SCRUMPTIOUS MORSEL. I sound like a creep, and that’s okay because I am one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:12 AM
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impulsive monkey-brain retardation ekkekekekk that morning the man woke up with angry red welts on his ballsack and a drained bank account, all because he mistook hormonal delirium for real compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:05 AM
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I guess for me it’s the difference between canned jokes and spontaneous humor. Anyone can memorize comedic lines, but not everyone can be spontaneously funny. It’s spontaneous flirting that hits the best, not scripts or heuristics. For sure, a broad-stroke analysis of patterns is a useful starting point, but the meat of it is going to be your ability to come up with things on the fly, and that can only be partially trained.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:28 PM
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Every woman’s boundary is different. You cannot learn a general rule for flirting; it’s an individual-basis thing that’s fluid and adaptive. We’re essentially talking social awareness here, and you either have it or you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:33 PM
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Oh no, there are tiers of flirting. Smiling and touching are contributing factors (on both sides), but banter and innuendo is the #1 mating dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:25 PM
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I do not flirt with people I’m not interested in. I tease everyone constantly, irrespective of gender, however, which can simulate it to some extent. As for flirting, I’ve never understood the “learning how to flirt” notion. Unless you’re autistic (which a lot of people are here, unironically), flirting isn’t a learned behavior anymore than smiling or laughing is. I never “learned” how to flirt. It’s completely intuitive and based on individual circumstance. I knew how to do it at six years old,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:20 PM
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Excellent response.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:11 PM
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Really well-said, especially the last paragraph.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 07:14 PM
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Pornography is allowed however the dresses must remain on and you must not be allowed to distinguish the gender. I laughed so hard at this. I'm crying. I'm going to need awhile to move past this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:17 AM
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I maintain that a man is allowed to define a relationship on his terms, and that if a man wants to define feeling loved as having a wife cooking, cleaning, and fucking for him, he is allowed to do so. This is a no-brainer. Not trying to condescend you, OP - seriously; I'm just shocked at how some CMVs are considered debate-worthy when they're already so seemingly... self-evident? Okay, okay; I sound like a pompous snob. Let me give my reasoning by addressing each point "It's rapey." Love is expr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:01 PM
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rofl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 04:40 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:29 AM
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Trump 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:23 AM
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Aw. I’m a libertarian orphan wandering these cobblestone streets, looking for a home...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:12 AM
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;)
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 10:09 PM
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lmao
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 07:06 PM
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I’d rather argue for what ought.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:16 AM
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That’s an arbitrary moral judgement. Arbitrary moral judgements are on the same level as each other. My arbitrary moral judgement is equally valid as yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:11 AM
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Are you implying evolution is morally-driven?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:06 AM
3

And it ought not be that way because? Welcome to the field of ethics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:02 AM
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People can acknowledge what is and still argue for what ought.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:39 AM
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Hmm, I won’t dispute that. I almost put it as personality = face > healthy weight, because face is as important as personality in a relationship. Personality is fundamentally critical to the longevity of a relationship, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:02 PM
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lmao wtf Introversion is one of the hottest qualities, god almighty GIVE ME BABIES WITH IT sfjgjhajakqudggev yeah I just came
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:25 AM
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Relationship factors by importance: Personality > face > healthy weight (not necessarily muscular). Aesthetic sculpting past that point is a minor bonus, not a necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 09:06 PM
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I'm on a subreddit specifically designed for contention. I prove solution manuals wrong and 'ackchyually' the 'ackchyually' person. I argue with GPS and disagree to agree to disagree with my cognitively dissonant beliefs. I stare down everyone I cross in hopes they make eye contact just so I can dominate them when they inevitably look away in fear. I only play StepMania on 'Challenge' and aspire toward driving a Dodge Challenger. I need someone to challenge my views. If they don't, I will eat th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 04:50 AM
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can I marry you plz. I can't go on like this anymore. My high STEM GPA and excellent prospects are depressing me. Save me from successual harrasment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:31 AM
1

whaddup normiez
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:18 AM
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No I don't. It's quite warm and comfortable here beside the cognitive dissonance fireplace. I'll stay right where I'm at, but thank you for the kind offer. Edit: okay, to be honest this was just an attempt to avoid AutoMod while still agreeing with the post. I'll slither on over to where I belong...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:04 AM
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Overcommunication, as in gratuitous exposition of engrammatic mobilization, as in unsolicited discharge of felicitous neuroelectric impulse, kills osculatory-copulatory driven eukaryotic diploid homo sapien affinity? Wrong. I just made you fall in love with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 01:52 AM
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I develop a career to oppress men with workplace competition and less SAHM options. God, I love being a woman. My uterus shudders in malevolent glee.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 01:39 AM
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Ah yes, the classic "people can't regulate themselves and need a benevolent dictator of superior judgement to look out for them." The benevolent dictator is just a person, too. Censorers are not exempt from the dogma they censor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:07 AM
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lawlzno censorship of any kind is big gay. PC culture is cancer. Let people pontificate on whatever they want. Competition [of ideas] breeds balance, and balance breeds health. We see this in every ecosystem, including our gut microbiota. Artificial repression (antibiotics) causes overgrowth, which is analogous for echo-chambers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 11:46 PM
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Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 10:57 PM
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hello grandpa. lmao jk jk again, it’s just relative. I’m 20. That’s a decade gap, and it definitely shows in physicality. If I were 25-30 it would be less prominent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 04:06 PM
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lmao he reminds me of that one student who really internalized pathos rhetoric and evoking the senses from their critical-thinking writing class. 1% content and 99% persuasive drivel.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 02:49 PM
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I don’t disagree with this. Abstaining from marriage because of immaturity and not knowing what you want in life is perfectly reasonable. Abstaining from marriage because you don’t have money, look gawky, or have a corny personality is not. I’m addressing OP’s points specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:08 AM
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I can’t reasonably speak for most people based on my anecdotal experience, or the lives of the limited sample size around me, unfortunately. Nor can anyone else on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:59 AM
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Human pair-bonding is pseudoscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:16 AM
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Disagree. Marriageability is about having a growth mindset and willingness to adapt, not all your ducks in a row at once. Circumstances change; people lose their job, people get sick. To base marriage on prosperity is to lose it to adversity, which defeats the entire purpose. One of the most fulfilling aspects of marriage is having another person to persevere through life’s tribulations with and share in its joy. As a young college student, I absolutely would marry a man not yet established, bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:19 AM
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For those claiming it’s not feminine looks and mannerisms that matter, but wealth, status, and masculine qualities associated: No. No. And no. Wealth, status, and success make anybody more attractive in spite of looks and behavior, but OP is specifically talking about because of looks and behavior. Those other points are irrelevant. Heterosexual women don’t desire literal women; that’s too much femininity. They also don’t desire primitive Dawn of the Planet of the Ape, square-jaw, roided-out, “c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:28 PM
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What we're observing is a general self-esteem crisis in both sexes: women seeking validation from men because of low opinion of self, and men settling for garbage because of low opinion of self. Self-respect generates standards, and standards eradicate [most of] these intersexual issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:26 AM
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with ten year of experience Duration of experience translates to higher pay in all fields, generally. It's rare and sad that women don't follow this route but I think it's because women are not as interested in money as men Hmm, maybe. Overly-simplistic explanation, I think. STEM is not boring YOU find it boring Apologies; I wasn't clear in my wording. I don't personally find STEM boring; I was echoing the popular sentiment of the masses: "ew math and science." I've heard it from both men and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:42 AM
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most engineering majors aren’t women Wait, you mean to say it's wrong to make generalizations upon outlier cases? Like in the case of Getting a degree in lesbian dance therapy too? Question mark? My point exactly. :) (I'm aware your comment was intentionally hyperbolic for comedy's sake, and your point was received that more women supposedly graduate with useless, easy degrees, but statistically speaking, the top degrees for women are nursing, psychology, business, and teaching, which aren't as …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 05:53 PM
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My sister has a master’s degree in electrical engineering (4.0 GPA) and is making six figures, twice the amount an electrician makes. My other sister is graduating with a high paying nursing degree. I’m soon to transfer for nuclear engineering, myself. Was it the extensive math, engineering, and physics that was easier, or rigorous medical knowledge? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 04:31 PM
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Most people don’t want health problems... until they meet junk-food tasty enough to change their mind. The war between immediate and long-term gratification rages on forever. Lack of impulse control toward base desires does not negate valuing prudence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 05:40 PM
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Lack of introspection. Entitlement. Delusional inflated self-worth. And then, there are cases where people are aware they don’t technically “deserve” it (total package), but know they can still get it anyway because those who do deserve it don’t think they do (from low self-esteem or a scarcity mindset). Have standards and problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 10:55 PM
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I could tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:50 PM
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I certainly do, but maybe I’m just desperate. So like... are you hot, or? :P
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:34 PM
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then how am I the alphaest of the alphas
/r/ExRedPill16/03/21 06:06 PM
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I remind them of someone else, and I’m the off-brand clearance version they could actually get.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:21 AM
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it's just that I couldn't find someone who had the same ideas of partnership as I did. Yeah, hedonism is the path of least resistance, so there's always going to be more people than not who aren't compatible with you. Quantity and quality are usually inversely proportional in life. The more options available to you, the less quality of those options. This extra hardship in finding a quality person is well-rewarded, though, hence why I'm willing to hold out. You still need some kind of spark and …
/r/ExRedPill15/03/21 09:32 PM
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Agree, but I HAVE been social. That's good. In what ways, would you say? someone who doesn't want pure hedonism, someone who actually wants an equal partner and has no interest nor has ever had (CONSISTENCY!) one night stands and casual sex. Do you think you'll meet this type of person in a club? A brothel? A crackhouse? If none of those, where then? Probably ordinary places (i.e., what I listed). Obviously not on every street corner like a good-girl vending machine, but prevalent enough you can…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/21 06:01 PM
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There’s a difference between having opportunity and taking it. Dunno your behavior during those times, but it’s not enough to just exist among opportunity. You have to proactively seize it. People can be surrounded by decent people, but if they keep to themselves 90% of the time, they’re never going to meet or get to know them. Just out of curiosity, though. I listed some of the most average, common places everyone goes to, young and old, and you disregarded all of them. Are you implying the per…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/21 04:52 PM
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Displaying interest in the opposite sex outside long-standing social circles at a party is not by default slimy pick-up artistry. xD I listed places where “good women” are likely to be. We all know clubs, brothels, and crackhouses are not on that list. School, workplace, and church aren’t even cold approach interactions, either. My bro consistently talked to women he found attractive anywhere (there isn’t a designated mating grounds in life; people cross your path at unexpected moments and you h…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/21 04:34 PM
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Grocery store. Park. School. Gym. Restaurant. Concert. Church. Work. Cornfield. Dark alley. Anywhere outside your room.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/21 09:08 AM
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yepdeedoodle Life-long success is a constant struggle against self-destructive hedonism. We resist drugs, gluttony, laziness, and promiscuity on the daily in light of a better future, but some people give in to it more often, and for it suffer in direct proportion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 09:15 PM
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I realise it's a difficult topic with lots of emotions attached, but seriously, calm down. We're just trying to have a conversation. Most of my debates. x) A lot of people argue by connotation, not reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:34 PM
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Dating is like diet. It’s comprised of healthy and unhealthy things. Immediate gratification involves eating donuts and long-term gratification involves eating whole foods. Some people binge on donuts for years, then try to get back on track later. It’s too late for them, though, and they get diabetes and die. Similarly, some people binge on casual sex with donut Chad for years, then try to get back on track later with vegetable Billy. It’s too late for them, though, and they die from STDs, preg…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 09:26 AM
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I burst out laughing at your username mid-bite of food. I hope it’s a joke, otherwise I’m a terrible person (jk, who am I kidding; I don’t need confirmation to already know I’m a terrible person). Both types of women select for the same basic positive male attributes. Where they differ is in male behavior. #1 are fine sleeping with a hot, rich, popular dude even if his mind has the vacuity of Chernobyl and he’s riddled with mommy-issues. #2 are not, because although hotness, riches, and populari…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 11:08 PM
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Sure, that's always a fantasy. But I dont care for it. I just want a woman to love me and invest in me. My point exactly. :) Same here (except dude instead, obvs).
/r/ExRedPill13/03/21 07:59 PM
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ur mom, son
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 07:44 PM
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I believe that women ultimately want a man that is rich, popular (or has some sort of clout), a solid social circle (w/adequate social skills), and in excellent shape (not fat or skinny fat). Women want this like you want a smoking hot 10/10 babe who irons your laundry seductively and makes a blood-sacrifice at your shrine every day. People want ideals; they don't expect them (unless, you know, narcissism). I want a trillion dollars. I want my pet chicken to stop pecking me. I want my professor …
/r/ExRedPill13/03/21 07:40 PM
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lol I'm #2
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:54 PM
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The two pools of women on the relationship market are: Women who prioritize immediate gratification. Women who prioritize long-term gratification. Your claim holds true for #1, where the objection to casual sex is not meeting a necessary level excitement. It does not hold true for #2, where the objection to casual sex is STDS, pregnancy, and emotional baggage. Just like no amount of tasty junk-food will sway a dieter who prioritizes health, no amount of Chadliness will sway a woman who prioritiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:25 PM
1

The criminal justice system is broken. Imprisonment is an unnecessary tax drain with limited space.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:48 PM
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“He.” This is a question for women. xD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:00 PM
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This is too wholesome for my heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 09:43 AM
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Free-market capitalism. Commodity standard currency. Meritocracy (i.e., no affirmative action). Decentralized education. Corporal punishment. Everything works itself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 09:31 AM
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Have you tried turning it on and off?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 06:42 PM
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Not often, but I have before, and there are no downsides to the physical characteristics I like. >:) All my 20 children will be magnificent Stacys and Chads who go on to populate Earth with more Stacys and Chads exponentially until every incel and femcel is single-handedly replaced through natural selection, leaving only a distilled concentrate of Stacys and Chads behind on the planet. Boom, all gender-issues are solved thanks to my humanitarian feats of unbridled proliferation. You're welcome e…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:48 AM
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lmaooo xD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:27 AM
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Ignore him completely, and if I'm especially smooth that night, make him think I hate him by scowling and fidgeting uncomfortably. This is why I'm still single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 03:39 AM
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Been lookin' all day e'ry day since forever. I've never been interested in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 03:26 AM
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Yes. Arguments against high N-count women concerning commitment, impulse control, and STDs apply to men, as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:39 PM
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For both my son and daughter: Meta 1. High self-esteem and empowered mindset. They are confident in their abilities, talents, and potential for success. They know exactly what they have to offer and don’t compromise on their standards or ambitions. 2. Autonomy and emotional self-regulation. They are not codependent, validation-seeking, or overly swayed by peer-pressure. They understand the importance of self-sufficiency and for this are reasonably introspective. 3. Independent-thinking and quest…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:53 AM
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Romantic attraction is the flour of a cake and sexual attraction is the sugar. Without sugar the cake is bland, and without flour the cake is insubstantial.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 04:02 AM
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Idk, I think the LSD just hit really hard in that moment. The single autumn leaf on the ground in front of me represented humanity’s change through the seasons of millennia, its brittleness as a random passer-by crushed it underfoot the fragility of life. I peered up into the sun and saw myself in the white splotches appearing in my vision, because vision is but an illusion of reality, the representation of the represented. Who am I, but an am of an I? I’m totally BSing. xD I wouldn’t say it was…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 10:16 PM
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omg I have a condition, okay? It’s called Female-Chad Syndrome. I didn’t choose the alpha life; the alpha life chose me. Every Beta and Stacy on the block be throwing shade. Jk. x) Last time I checked I am a woman, but you know how these gender fluid things work, so I have to check again. Usually every 15 minutes throughout the day, in fact, to avoid an identity crisis. Yeah, I’m a woman. I believe what you’re seeing is the shadow of my emoji’s hoodie, but maybe that is a beard. Either way, I’m …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:51 PM
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:D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:15 PM
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Sitting on a bench at campus watching people walk by realizing many men are treated like NPCs in the dating world (as well as world in general). They’re invisible to most and dignified with no salvaging intrinsic value that women might otherwise have. Because of this, there’s much more pressure to overachieve on them. Men taking difficult STEM classes are just expected to. Women taking difficult STEM classes are commended. Having one’s accomplishments and being mitigated off the basis of immutab…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 07:31 PM
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Anarcho-Capitalism, is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 10:38 AM
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Yeah the entirety of your argument is a non-starter if this is your understanding of being pro-choice. This is not my whole understanding of being pro-choice. I deliberately specified "due to bodily autonomy" in my title to narrow the discussion down to one thing alone so as to not have to address the two points you list on top of everything else, but since you're keen: Point 1 of being pro-choice is that a fetus is not yet a "person," and that abortion should only be admissible in later stages …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 10:24 AM
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Weak argument, but I think you know that already. Best to recalibrate to something more defensible before investing too much into a dead-end.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:47 AM
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Women don’t have to sacrifice anything for their kids if they don’t have kids (abortion). lol, of course you don't have to sacrifice anything for something that doesn't exist, but abortion isn't equivalent to "not having kids"; abortion exists in the first place because people do have kids that they want to get rid of. You don't have a kid only after it's born. You have a kid the moment a zygote of distinct DNA forms, and mothers who are desperately attempting in vitro vehemently attest to this.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:43 AM
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Nope. Creation of life is not complicit with deliberate destruction of life. Parents of murder victims are not also charged with murder for creating the opportunity for their children to be murdered in the first place by having them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:21 AM
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Especially since you compared them to criminals The point of analogy was solely "empathy for all over one specific group." Criminals were chosen as an example because they're the easiest group for people to concede collective empathy outweighs self-interest of one. and called them murderers The ones who abort are. :) A person separated from the outside world by an inch of flesh doesn't suddenly make their death not murder. Closing your eyes and pretending it does to make yourself feel better doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:57 AM
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I bet you argue criminals should be forced to go to prison and have their lives destroyed because you value collective safety. Point being, you're willing to sacrifice self-interest of any single group for maximum justice for all. In order to be empathetic to the whole, you can only be partially empathetic to each constituent. I'm empathetic to women, but I'm also empathetic to the 50+ million people who have been murdered by abortion so far. Women aren't the only group on the planet who deserve…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:22 AM
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Breathing involves your lungs. Digestion involves your stomach. Thinking involves your brain. Walking involves your legs. Lifting involves your arms. Organs are required to live, and their wear is surely a degree of "sacrificing" them, but that's not the "sacrifice" I thought we were talking about. I thought we were talking about donating organs - i.e., ripping them from your body and giving them away - not merely using them to support other people through either working to make money to pay tax…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:04 AM
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Good, then I guess you've admitted forced pregnancy is too much. If you interpret those as synonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 07:48 AM
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Then forcing people to pay rent, mortgage, utilities, taxes, or any other expenditure is a violation of bodily autonomy. Totally absurd reasoning. Almost everyone has a job so if you think that being forced to be a laborer is a violation of bodily autonomy, then I guess everyone is being exploited. I just responded to someone else about this, so I'll copy-paste that response here: "Mmhm, and this is because the argument "no one is obligated to sacrifice biological resources for another person" i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 07:42 AM
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Oh, right, sorry. To finish: There is a right to decide who uses your bodily organs. This is why the government isn't ripping your kidney out of you, even though it could save a sick 13yo girl's life. This is why you must consent to be an organ donor even upon your death. You're suggesting women should have less rights than corpses. Now that we've established a certain amount of biological sacrifice unto others is warranted in a society, all that's left is for society to agree upon what amount t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 07:34 AM
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I care about women. I don’t give a fuck about men’s issues. Big yikes. This flagrant sexism and lack of empathy sums up the utter disconnect between the sexes. I recommend taking a more neutral stance if you want women to be "properly valued," because until then you're going to get the exact "treatment you deserve": fellow disdain and disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 07:27 AM
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There is no right to "not working". No adult in this country, man or woman, is entitled to government support because they don't feel like working. Mmhm, and this is because the argument "no one is obligated to sacrifice biological resources for another person" is inherently faulty in a society governed by socialistic themes (like taxes), so you're arriving at the conclusion I was hoping. The truth is, people are obligated to sacrifice biological resources for other people in a society that prio…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 07:13 AM
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You haven’t proven child support is a breach of those principles, you just want it to be. Money is obtained through labor. Labor involves energy expenditure, pain, and threat to safety depending on the job description. Mandating one's forfeiting of money is mandating one's energy expenditure, pain, and threat to safety, which is by definition a violation of bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 06:38 AM
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Thank you for your input. The key word is bodily autonomy, this is true for both men and women, but your argument is equating women's bodily autonomy to men's financial autonomy. That's apples vs oranges Hmm, I suppose I don't see how it's apples and oranges? If people have autonomy over their bodies, and money is a representation of their bodies, they should have autonomy over their money, as well. To take one's money is to take one's toils in obtaining that money, which involved energy expendi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 06:25 AM
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Sounds like you're simply arguing degrees of severity, which is shaky, in my opinion. There are many instances I can think of where the man's biological sacrifice to obtain those few hundred dollars a month is comparable to pregnancy, like (as I mentioned to another commenter) working in the coal mines, or any other stereotypical "male" job around dangerous machinery that involves lots of intense labor and injury, and sometimes death. But again, it's less about the severity of the sacrifice as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 06:05 AM
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Thank you for sharing your perspective. If men could get pregnant there would be no pro choice vs pro life arguments bc the pro choice narrative would be the only acceptable one. This is an arbitrary assumption of outcome that's not necessarily true. Men are not exempt from the same logic and cognitive dissonance associated with it in my post. This doesn't directly address my claim. Nature has placed the burden of life bearing on women, there is no equivalence to men. "Life bearing" is a degree …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:46 AM
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I appreciate the statistics. Thank you, I wasn't aware of those figures. :) With all due respect, though, I don't see how this challenges my claim. It's the equivalent of telling women who want an abortion "Come on, it's just 9 months. Get over it." It doesn't address the point that they shouldn't have to sacrifice anything if they don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:04 AM
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Thank you for the response. :) The adoption process takes several months, during which parents lose biological resources in the meantime. Since they are not obligated to sacrifice any resources to any degree for any duration of time, they are permitted to withdraw them at any moment, even if it ends up killing the child. If mothers were just willing to wait 9 months to birth their children and give them away, there'd be no need for abortion, but the point is no one's obligated to sacrifice their…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 04:54 AM
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Yup. And showing you care about the other person by checking in with them doesn’t “kill the mood,” either. Some men are just selfishly gluttonous about their sexual gratification that they’d rather risk traumatizing another person over missing out on a quick nut. #pRiOriTiEs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 01:52 AM
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Agreed. That territory is precarious enough that inferring positive intent is not worth the risk of being wrong. Push/pull and playing hard-to-get are integral components of the mating dance leading up to sex, but rarely during or right before. Maybe to a niche type of woman, but not to the majority at all. In the majority of cases, resistance is genuine refusal (half-hearted due to agreeableness, not coyness), and it’s not worth playing with fire like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 01:26 AM
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100% platonic opposite-sex friendships exist only between family members. Everything else is some mixture of sexual interest, be it large or small, due to sheer heterosexuality alone. Women use "just friends" as a shield of plausible deniability to obtain validation from men. Men use "just friends" as a shield of plausible deniability to someday convince women to be more than that. In either case, both are not "just friends," even if they're willing to pretend. Opposite-sex friendships must rema…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 11:51 PM
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From abstract to less abstract: Intelligence is being able to understand the nature of existential objects and their relationship to each other for it. Intelligence is having the discernment skills to correctly gauge something’s behavior (be it an object, situation, or concept) and its effect on other things (so as to be able to project useful outcomes). Intelligence is the ability to understand what something is and its cause-and-effect. This encompasses many abilities. It does not necessarily …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 08:46 AM
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I don’t get why people are dissing your writing, OP. I enjoyed the additional context and examples. Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 11:06 PM
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Equal treatment, I get it. The distinction between obligatory financial support versus biological is precisely what I’m disputing, though. A distinction shouldn’t exist in the first place. Why is it morally acceptable to not sacrifice biological resources for a dependent, but morally reprehensible to not sacrifice finances (for both sexes, even, as you claim)? No one should have to sacrifice resources for a dependent, biological or financial. I argue both men and women aren’t obligated to biolog…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:22 AM
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Why are all my professors and classmates on Adderall, goddamn. Talk about skewed playing fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 09:22 PM
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Hmmm, I was under the conception it’s the opposite because necessity of intelligence and charisma befalls those who do not have height or beauty to carry them through life. You can be dumb as a rock, but if you’re a sexy rock, there’s a high chance someone will still get their rocks off with you. If you’re hideous, you’re going to need extra leverage to sell yourself (and in some cases fight off downright ostracizaton). Just anecdotal, but most of the “intelligent” STEM tutors at my school are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 08:34 PM
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The main difference between any racial cleansing and abortions is that abortions are about personal choice. The component in the Nazi analogy I'm highlighting is the reduction of human value in favor of X group's interests (usually deemed 'society' or 'the greater good,' even though in actuality it's never so humanitarian). There is no distinction between a pregnancy and a child. A pregnancy is a child, so you can rephrase Yes, and from a society point's of view it's better to terminate unwanted…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 10:31 AM
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If women are not biologically obligated to support their children, men are not financially obligated to support them, either. ;) Why should women be able to eliminate children from their lives, but men not? She aborts the child from her womb, he aborts the child from his wallet. She doesn't need his consent to do so because it's her body, and he doesn't need her consent to do so because it's his money. Is the man not entitled to his own autonomy and resources the same way a woman is hers? Oh, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 08:18 AM
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What you're saying: I'm saying that it's mostly practicality. Morals aren't always really practical. What I said: The most fundamental type of morality is innate empathy and herd instinct. It exists as a form of social security for the in-group and prioritizes the collective over the individual. In strictly practical terms, it is a good tool for social cohesion for survival's sake. Morality developed in pack creatures for practicality's sake due to its survivalistic advantage. You seem to be arg…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 07:36 AM
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I'm sorry I insulted you. :( You have a lot of emotional distress already, and my coarse assessment is obviously more exacerbating than consoling, as u/Half-Ice-Half-Fire predicted. What works for me obviously isn't guaranteed to work for others, and that's alright. Although, just for understanding's sake: I have a Christian family, and I disagree on many things (I'm not a Christian), but one thing they say that I agree with in "concept" is all humans have a fallen sin nature, and our flesh apar…
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 06:02 AM
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Illegal things are deemed illegal not just because of morals, but mostly for everyone's safety and society stability. There is not conflict here. We're saying the same thing. Valuing safety and societal stability is a matter of morality - i.e., illegal things are deemed illegal because they are not safe for the collective, and collective safety is important becaaause? Morality. Abortions also provide safety and stability The whole concept of morality is maximizing collective welfare, which doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:46 AM
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Is that fact proven or is it your perspective? As much as I adore ontological discussion concerning perception versus reality, I'm purposefully keeping it surface level for efficiency's sake. :P feel like that isn’t the best thing to tell someone who is mentally depressed or upset. I understand completely where you're coming from. I'm not offering morale-boosting, encouraging words, and perhaps those would be more effective short-term palliatives to OP's problems. But that's precisely why I'm no…
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 02:43 AM
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lmao, sorry. then of course it would lead them down into a very depressing path. Hmm, I wouldn't say necessarily. I hold these views, and I'm a very happy person. :) Facts are separate from subjective reaction to them. It's a fact gravity exists. I can get severely depressed and upset over not being able to fly because of it, or rejoice in its grounding effects. All perspective.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 01:38 AM
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This is my take. Disclaimer: I am not an RP sympathizer. Cynicism toward human nature is not unfounded. TRP is correct in its analysis that selfishness governs women's actions, their love is conditional ("she's not yours, it's just your turn"), and they manipulate everyone around them to get what they want. What it fails to acknowledge is this isn't a female trait; this is a human trait, and men, including you, possess all of them, too. You are selfish, your love is conditional, and you manipula…
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 12:54 AM
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Nope. Taking life is warranted under many circumstances. :) I petition only for consistency in its application. If society agrees that X thing deserves Y consequence, that's jolly good. I just expect to see it extended across the board, then. If you suffer a devastating car crash and lose sensory detection of pain along with other mental capabilities, your life is disposable now. Prepare to be promptly euthanized like a hapless dog at the pound. :) If I'm a landlord and you're my tenant, and you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 11:29 PM
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I posted this elsewhere a bit ago, but the original post was removed, so this seems like an apt place for it. Other than moral objections, there is no way to justify being pro-life. Since morality is only for regressed, troglodyte Bible-thumpers (obviously), we can move on with our lives and legalize abortion for our progressive, advanced society, right? Well... Other than moral objections, there is also no way to justify being anti-thievery/anti-murder/anti-rape/anti-slavery/anti-exploitation, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 11:03 PM
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Oh, I actually just meant they’re so hot, and I hate it. How dare they be sexually attractive to my heterosexual self. Jokes aside, on a more serious note, I agree. :) Happy New Year to you, too!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 05:45 AM
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Men are so manly, it pisses me off. Why are they so masculine? They’re such non-women. Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 05:07 AM
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xD
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 04:42 AM
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herp de derp beep boop reeeeeeeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 04:13 AM
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xD Let not our Revolutionarys’ sacrifices be in vain! Put down the donut and wipe the crumbs off your triple chin, brethren; it’s time to defend the American Republic! William Wallace: “FREEEEEDOOOOM!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 04:11 AM
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ackchyually, in my personal opinion, let me tell you about how yours is irrelevant because mine is all that matters, in my personal opinion, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 03:50 AM
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Civil war, I hope. >:) Americans need to demand voter integrity and establish a precedent to ward off future corruption.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 03:45 AM
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Definitely fraudulent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 03:40 AM
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lmao fair ‘nuf puffs out chest DO YOU EVEN LIFT, BRO?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 03:33 AM
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Good girls are just bad girls who haven’t been caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:37 AM
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That they’re not women. Yes, I am still kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:31 AM
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Thank you for sharing, OP. No sarcasm. I appreciate the perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:15 AM
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I see. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 01:38 AM
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I don’t doubt age elevates risk for mental health problems and conditions like ADHD, etc., but I don’t think it’s the primary cause. ADHD occurs in children from young parents frequently, as well, hence “genetic disorder.” If anything, my oldest brother, who was born when my parents were early twenties, self-identifies with ADD (no proper diagnosis, though). I think it comes down to environmental factors, diet, and heritable genetics for the most part. I really feel like there are a lot more ret…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 01:32 AM
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That they’re not men. I’m kidding, I’m kidding—god, chill out. x)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 01:09 AM
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You just raped my mind by inserting non-consensual ideas into it. #MeToo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 01:05 AM
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I was born from 41 year old parents, and my brother was born after, when they were 43. We’re both completely healthy and not retarded (at least I think so xD). Our family is friends with a family who had two children at 47, both healthy. Don’t worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 01:01 AM
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Wow, that was so offensive. You’re like, literally Stalin with how many people you’re about to make go commit suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 11:33 PM
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I sure hope you won’t mind me leeching off your resources then. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 11:21 PM
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Damn my tiny brain. Like, actually; what the fuck? Why was I born with a defective microprocessor equipped for exactly 3.567 bits of RAM? I can't compute anything. I really don't understand why I'm here, or what my purpose is on this plane—Error 404: Not Found. Shit, I forgot; philosophical questions are beyond my 5 lines of source code. I mean, even sucking dick is too complex for my circuit sometimes, and I blow a fuse. It's like I'm completely useless. I guess I'll just have to live out the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:27 PM
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You're wise EXACLTY enough already. Always have been, always will be, and, tbh, I never needed, not wanted you to be anything nor anyone else but how and who you've been all along anyway. You are perfect the way you are. Thank you. I didn't even know it, but this validation is what was missing from my life the entire time. I tried drugs, religion, and electroshock therapy, but nothing could fill the void within, until now - until a random Reddit stranger by the username u/801735 told me I am eno…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 07:58 PM
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The day I am able to decrypt the esoteric hieroglyphs you speak in will be the day true wisdom finds me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 07:32 PM
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If you were a woman or man capable of acquiring food and eating it, you wouldn't watch lions and hyenas on Nat Geo Wild duel it out over a piece of meat. Because humans are linear creatures driven by necessity alone. Because humans are unintelligent apes. Because humans are unevolved prokaryotic cells. Because humans don't exist. #logik
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 07:25 PM
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With how much detail you know about these things, it makes one wonder if you've been having secret little rendezvous's with the moon yourself. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 07:11 PM
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I agree with this, but I’ve seen an interesting distinction, as well. I attend a school that’s full of minorities, and they are by far more aggressive than white men in approaching. Not sure if it’s a culture thing, or just because I’m white and seen as “exotic.” One of them ambushed me on my way out of the library, saying “daaaayum, you have those beautiful blue eyes. You’re like, one of the hottest white chicks on campus” (verbatim; he laid it on thick out of no where, lmao). I thanked him, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 12:21 AM
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Not for me, because I don’t only want sex and dates. I want a committed relationship, and that requires just one person. I’m also far too greedy to share. I want my SO all for myself. >:)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 11:24 PM
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ty, mwuahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:45 PM
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lolwut, are they only full of decrepit old people or something? Or do you live in Zimbabwe? I mean, if your pool of people really is so constricted, you're gonna have to explore new, exquisite realms, like Wholefoods instead of Safeway, or Target instead of Walmart. No matter how daunting the trek through urban wilderness may be - through the cutlery aisle, past the storage department - you must brave the unknown and pioneer new paths, for your princess awaits you at the end of the cereal shelf.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:34 PM
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rises from chair, puts on sunglasses, and boots up triangulation device
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:01 PM
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while I don't think "the average girl" is quite the caricature you've described, she likely has some elements of that Fair 'nuf. so your observations don't match the common type of girl that guys have to deal with on online dating apps, who often do seem to want a fantasy type of man (and one can see such men around, so they are not as fantastical as they seem). Therein lies your issue. If I tried to cultivate a substantial relationship with the "common type of guy" I've seen on Tinder (with my …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 07:53 PM
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slow clap
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 06:55 PM
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...never mind the experience of pretty much any dude that has tried the strategy you are describing. What strategy? Existing with higher EQ than a reptile like a normal evolved Homo Sapien? The niceness wasn't the problem; it was everything else that lacked, which was misattributed to "being nice," because let's be honest... that's far easier than introspecting on one's deepest character flaws and sobbing at the monstrous reflection in the mirror. Do you really think a girl comes home from a lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 06:50 PM
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They like the utility such men provide, but they're certainly not sexually attracted to them. I'm sure some villainous, Machiavellian masterminds definitely do only like the utility of dutiful male puppets in their manipulative, world domination schemes, but the majority of people are not focused on the outcome of kindness, rather the sentiment itself. The seven virtues of humility, kindness, temperance, chastity, patience, charity, and diligence denote a well-rounded person with high stability,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 06:09 PM
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As absolutely enticing as that sounds (/s), I'm afraid not. There are other variables to consider beyond niceness alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 05:51 PM
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Oh my god, why do people keep saying this. facepalm I understand their point by honing in on the sexual attraction aspect of it, but you are aware there a more variables to consider before fucking someone than niceness alone, right? Or not; I know PPD is particularly filled with desperate people. Niceness definitely contributes to sexual attraction, just like physical appearance does, but it's not everything, just like physical appearance isn't, and I never claimed it was. If that's what people …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 05:38 PM
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Good. >:) I hope it explodes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 10:15 AM
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This circulating stereotype is going to create a generation of psychopaths, my god. Erase it from your brain. Click on ‘Recycle Bin’ and drag it in. This misconception belongs in the depths of Mordor. Normal, healthy-minded women do like nice guys, respectful men, chivalrous knights - however you want to phrase it. There was an incredibly kind and respectful tutor at school, and I have to say, listening to him patiently help others was a guilty pleasure of mine. I definitely was not secretly gla…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 09:35 AM
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yus, exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:55 AM
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Au contraire, mon ami, I know not of these women you speak of. :) 'Tis a precarious stretch indeed to conclude "most girls" fall for PUA tactics, or Chad's uncaring attitude, and lack the basic discernment skills to identify BS. There's a select breed of imagined women men on PPD constantly juxtapose to, a particular strain unlike any I've met personally, or empirically observed outside of Instagram and Cherdley's videos. It is a breed riddled with the terminal disease of 'daddy issues," diverte…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:15 AM
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Yes, I guess I should have put in my response, "I am going to judge the hell out of people I deem psychologically wonky and not enter relationships with them, and that should be totally chill for everyone" and "It is a lot easier to make yourself psychologically wonky by being a slut than it is by playing DnD and home decor." lol, fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 12:42 AM
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Men? They’re scrumptious indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 12:11 AM
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I was waiting for someone to comment this. If I understand correctly, the post is about "fuck-zoning" someone based off their track record of promiscuity and ...only looking at them in sexual terms that they retain ...no other value (based on OP's response to a different comment, which has since been removed) and ...therefore hurting them when it comes to potential friendships with males. This is not a question of n-count implications for healthy psychology or LTRs (which has been beaten to deat…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 11:58 PM
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If all I hear about a person is how much they like playing Dungeons and Dragons, my perception of them is that they’re probably quite geeky. I wouldn’t isolate my interactions with them to only playing D&D, though; they’re still a complex person outside of their game interests. If all I hear about someone is that they like collecting rugs from HomeGoods and decorating their house, my perception of them is that they’re probably quite keen on design. I wouldn’t isolate my interactions with them to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 10:57 PM
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That got really sensual really fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 10:09 PM
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That’s what I like to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 10:06 PM
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I sure try to be. You must be a real chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:50 PM
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I remember having a conversation with my brother about this. Physiological responses are so counterproductive when it comes to mating strategy, it’s hilarious. xD The people you like the most render you a bumbling fool, supposedly lowering your value in their eyes, and the people you care least about make you a suave gangster, increasing your value in their eyes. This phenomenon applies to both sexes, and I always keep it mind when I’m interacting with others. For this reason I actually find it …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 08:16 PM
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If he stops having any sort of ambition. I’m not talking failing Elon Musk status; I’m talking “unemployed-and-can’t-stop-playing-videogames-24/7.” If he becomes an alcoholic/pothead/drug addict/glutton, or has some other vice that interferes with normal functioning. This sort of relates to the previous one. If his core beliefs radically change to something incompatible with mine to the point we can’t relate on anything. Maybe he believes the Earth’s flat, or it’s time for the new communist worl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 06:55 PM
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ok i never take bc b4 but i try that now . the graham crackers never wroked
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 07:48 AM
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ho w to not be honrey al the timz?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 06:01 AM
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it's like, thinking n shiet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:29 AM
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super meta bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:27 AM
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This is a very important detail a lot of people overlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 11:16 PM
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Oh my god. I love this so much. If I could upvote it multiple times I would.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 09:32 PM
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No sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 02:28 AM
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fite me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 10:40 PM
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That's an interesting perspective. Thank you for sharing. I've observed anecdotally and empirically the masculine tendency to want to venture out/take risks/construct things, all of which fuel that "civilization building" narrative you speak of. That is something I admire about testosterone, in fact; it significantly mitigates perception of threat and simultaneously increases physical capability, paving a clear path to brunt nature's forces (through exploration of new lands and carving out citie…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 09:25 PM
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omg xD I suppose you are right; I mustn’t let them down. Thank you for the kind words. I appreciate them a lot. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 09:14 AM
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aw shucks, don’t make me blush
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 08:34 AM
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I like her posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 06:32 AM
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Lucky you your comment was the one I got to think about as I vigorously scrubbed pans in the sink (the time where all great revelations are made). >:) Its the sexism mostly Anyone can make a claim; you're going to need to supply substance and citations to support it. Point out what concept/assertion/implication exactly that is sexist. Throwing around 'racist' and 'sexist' to discount only works in political rhetoric, not debate. Keep in mind that I'm a woman myself, so I have no incentive to bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 06:29 AM
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Your assertion is that sexual dimorphism is meant to maximize human survival overall That is not the assertion of this post. I really feel like we've been missing each other this entire time, and not in the "longing" type of way. I disagree, because I think you are erroneously equating sexual dimorphism with gender roles. Sexual dimorphism, irrelevant of what it's "intended for," or what caused it, be it maximizing human survival (which is not what I'm claiming), or Willy Wonka's chocolate facto…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 02:45 AM
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I don't know whether to be offended or flattered you just compared me to being on the spectrum. x) I've given off "man vibes" through the way I articulate my entire internet career, as well. Everyone just assumes my sex as male; it's really interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 02:01 AM
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lolwut. xD I am a woman, and I only speak for myself. Is being a woman and holding these views so mutually exclusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 01:41 AM
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I absolutely love this write up. Thank you for the response. I posit that all humans are designed to invest their resources into their tribe to allow them all to brunt the force of nature as effectively as possible That is the implication. Both sexes are contributing to the tribe, just in ways that are more congruent with their strengths, and so brunt the force of nature in those respective ways. Or not; there is plenty overlap, as you illustrate in: There's no biological cutoff that states a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 01:32 AM
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The biggest physical threat to men and women are other men Men are bigger and stronger so they can fight each other, individually or in groups, not lions and tigers and bears, oh my. Survival is not just about beating out other species but also competing within your own I don't see how this contradicts anything I've said. I agree with this; men are part of the "nature's oppressive forces" I mention in my assertion. Yes, men can fulfill a protective role, but that’s not why they are bigger and st…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 12:16 AM
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So in a world where pure physical strength is key, men have the clear advantage. When that advantage is reduced or erased, sexual dimorphism matters much less. I 100% agree. In terms of modern-day practicality and the direction humanity is trending, physical sexual dimorphism is obsolete. However, I'd argue there are still psychological vestiges of it in sexual selection, which contributes to relationship satisfaction. A lot of men wish they could just find a submissive woman, and a lot of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 11:53 PM
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My apologies; I wasn't trying to be disrespectful. I just felt like speaking French all of the sudden (don't ask why). I genuinely didn't understand your point, though, so thank you for editing. Allow me to repeat back to you your argument so I can avoid mistakenly strawmanning you: You're arguing sexual dimorphism exists not as an indication of survival, but as an indication of same-gender mating competition. By this, I'm assuming you mean men are not stronger than women to help the species to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 11:23 PM
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So painfully true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 10:19 PM
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But the problem with this thinking that this is their design, their proper function, is that it can easily drift into a naturalist fallacy ethic or notions of natural law. I agree, that is a common fallacy to slip into. but if you come to the conclusion that it has a teleological function that one has to deny to do otherwise, in its implications it raises questions about the validity of doing otherwise Amazingly well-said and important point to keep in mind when making value-judgements unto matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 10:02 PM
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Exactly. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 09:46 PM
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I'm not sure I completely understand all of what you said, but I think we're in agreement to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 09:32 PM
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'Design' often carries heavy connotations of "intended purpose," so I understand why you came to that conclusion, but that's not what I meant at all. By 'design,' I meant 'evolutionarily refined according to random environmental pressures to a similarly random specification of qualities.' Those qualities are not one's obligate purpose, they just exist. Look, you have legs; would it be accurate to say you're designed to walk, then? Now, technically evolution is an unintelligent process without in…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 09:21 PM
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Yup, it's a different ball-game for the modern world. I might still argue that psychological vestiges unto gender roles remain, however (preparing for the onslaught of social contempt for thinking this). The modern age frees people from a realistic need to abide by gender roles through eliminating the parameters that forced their evolution in the first place, but it doesn't free people from the sexual engineering that took place. Even though women no longer need a strong, tall man to protect the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 09:07 PM
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My point was that sexually dimorphic differences in strength between sexes is great. 'Great' is relativistic and can apply to a 50%, 75%, or 100% strength difference. Whether or not I'm only 20 lb of strength below my brother because I work out, or 45 lb from not working out, the point is still the same: a great difference in strength exists between the sexes. But I do understand your point; by removing other variables and possible sources of outside error a more compelling conclusion can be dra…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 08:24 PM
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In a modern society these roles have somewhat disappeared. Guns have leveled the playing field for the vast strength difference between men and women. Indeed, as I replied to someone else, by no means are gender roles a death sentence, or something people have to abide by in a modern society. My argument is not that they cannot or shouldn't be overcome, only that they do exist based off design.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:59 PM
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Sure, technological advancement has allowed us to move beyond gender roles and supplement for deficiencies that exist, in health and elsewhere. We are no longer confined to the limitations of our genome; people with poor eye-sight can buy glasses, and men with poor physical characteristics can buy sex-dolls. By no means are gender roles a death sentence, or something you must abide by. My argument is not that they cannot or shouldn't be overcome, but that they do exist based off design.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:55 PM
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Depends on the person and their priorities. If they want to maximize commitment and emotional intimacy (like me), virgin man is better. If they want to maximize physical satisfaction, non-virgin man is better (but only in the short-term, because the virgin man will presumably get up to speed really quickly after a few sessions and communication, matching the experience of the non-virgin man eventually). I’m a virgin too, and for me I’m already capable of satisfying my physical needs on my own ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:53 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 04:24 AM
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Number one mating grounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 11:59 PM
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Eyeball. Not eyes, just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 11:38 PM
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ikr, it’s a revisit of old ideas to build upon the more specific concept of linear transformations between vector spaces. I wanted him to explain the deeper implications of them regarding eigenvectors and whatnot, but further enlightenment was not whence found.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 09:02 AM
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I'll add what I think the true cause for the ability to abstract is (and there is a difference between 'abstract' and 'to abstract' for anyone who's not aware): baseline human intelligence. It is not a sex issue, but an IQ issue, unless you consider both to be mutually inclusive, in which case enjoy the prejudice. I know I've intentionally generalized men in my response, but it was only to achieve congruence with the precedent of the CMV claim. I personally do not think men as a whole are any le…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 07:30 AM
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Let me switch those for you real quick. Women live in a world of abstractions: Because women lack volatile testosterone coursing through their veins 24/7 that constantly sabotages prefrontal cortex ("higher self") function in favor of impulsive limbic ("animal self") function, they are less "grounded" to immediately corporeal triggers. Their spatial-oriented minds dispose them toward literature, art, philosophy, fashion, and music, all of which take place in the abstract. With all of their physi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 05:30 AM
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That's adorable. Agreed, though; more discreet, wholesome approaches are preferable in many cases. In this instance, I intentionally used the opportunity to be as blunt and forward as I could possibly muster to practice overcoming that exact social anxiety that reduces people to surreptitious glancing. The whole 'coy and bashful glances' was all I KNEW for the majority of my life, and I didn't like feeling so impotent and pathetic. I remember how utterly embarrassed and flustered I got when a gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 03:23 AM
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It's all the LSD.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 02:37 AM
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Thank you. May I feast with the gods in the afterlife.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 02:36 AM
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xDDD you should've been the one to approach him. That was obviously my explicit goal, as well: I only visit Costco to browse their selection of men. I need the industrial-size, if you know what I'm saying. wink wink
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 02:16 AM
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I have. :) I've complimented a variety of people (within and out of my league) in my life and experienced both acceptance and rejection. Believe it or not, I used to be a very shy, reserved person with high social anxiety. I always played alone as a child because I couldn't muster the courage to ask to play with others; the possibility of rejection was too debilitating. I've come a long way by meeting it head on. I have a rule with myself now that if something positive ever crosses my mind enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 02:06 AM
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lmao I amuse myself so much
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 01:39 AM
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So I hear all the time men complaining about women never approaching or complimenting them. Well, allow me to share with you my own story of complimenting a man at Costco today. He was an employee stocking a shelf, and I remember absentmindedly thinking "Hmm, he's attractive" as I walked by. I proceeded to walk farther away, and then I abruptly screeched to a halt, clenching my fists as I stared resolutely at the floor. No, the voice said, the voice of my Viking ancestors. Startled, I blinked ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 11:03 PM
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rofl everywhere I go “do you even lift” and “come at me bro” is plastered on my forehead. I should probably lay off the testosterone replacement therapy shots.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 05:02 PM
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creepy ? wdym i NiCe gRilL tho . i send flowwr nd show up 2 work place cuz i nice. my stareing is compliment no ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 08:37 AM
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Yes, and when I’m not actively staring at other people I face two mirrors toward each other to create a tunnel of reflection and stare at the endless void of myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 07:20 AM
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It’s not a death sentence. The majority of people these days grow up missing a parent; my mother did, as well. I’m referencing what’s ideal for optimal childhood development. Success is not only measured in monetary value; it manifests through emotional stability, impulse control, prudence, etc.. This is why celebrities can be millionaires and then OD on drugs one day. They were successful in only some ways. No, I’m not claiming you lack other forms of success; if the shoe doesn’t fit, I’m genui…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 07:07 AM
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Hell yeah, that's what I'm talkin' 'bout.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 06:14 AM
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One of my first shit-tests is holding intense, unwavering eye-contact with a dude. They usually never last 3 seconds. In the grocery aisle. On the sidewalk passing by. Across library desks. I nailed a guy cruising on his skateboard with laser eye-contact and he fell off. I deadpan stared at a guy during a long line and he ended up touching his hair and adjusting his shirt 100 times by the end of it. I gazed silently at a guy walking past my table in a restaurant and he literally laughed nervousl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 05:28 AM
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In terms of long-term survival, producing offspring isn't sufficient alone; raising them to be successful is equally as important. A successful childhood involves a father. No matter how chadly of the chadest chads the child's father is in the second scenario, the child's potential is wasted if it is not manifested, and it won't manifest outside of a conducive environment. The most conducive environment is one with both a mother and father figure. #1 is the best option for this reason and what I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 04:13 AM
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How do you know the specific genetic ancestry of the people you find attractive? I've encountered enough social derision and shaming unto my preferences and justification of them in real life and on the internet to have been compelled to gather empirical data. Being called a "white supremacist eugenicist Nazi" starts getting old after a bit. Yes, I literally browsed through tons of 23andMe accounts with pictures, took note of which I found attractive without bias, and looked at their genetic com…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:19 PM
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I think sex and gender are different, so I wouldn't call anyone a genderist for preferring the opposite sex, since those are different things, but I get your point. Agreed, initially I was going to say sexist, but it carries such a heavy connotations these days I just opted for something else. Thing is, I think sexual preferences are probably some combination of nature and nurture, like most things are. I also agree with this; I'm sure there are certainly elements of nurture in it. However, this…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:57 PM
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Not when it comes to sexual preference. Do you call a homosexual a genderist for not sexually preferring the opposite sex? Do you call a person an ageist for not sexually preferring certain ages? Do you call someone a racist for not sexually preferring certain races? My preference is to no detriment of other races’ merit. If I was a different race I’d find a different race attractive. It’s natural to prefer one’s own; this globalistic, homogenization of humankind narrative is out of touch with r…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:50 PM
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Hell yeah. No shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:31 PM
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Race > face > height > body for me. Face is so much more important than anything else, short of deviating from my own race.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:26 PM
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I find a majority of men unattractive because I’m separated from the homeland. I must return to my people. Deus vult. x)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 04:36 AM
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I think you need a long, long hug.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 03:08 AM
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I'm 20. I do think that, and it's self-explanatory in action. Anyone (women included) who participates in casual sex views sex in a casual way. There's nothing wrong with this, as "wrong" connotes moral objection, and moral objection is an intrinsically subjective matter. Instead, things are variably wrong and right depending on what value-system they're measured against. In the case of casual sex: Measured against the value of immediate gratification (which implies low commitment) it is "right.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 09:39 PM
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loool to be fair the question’s a non-question. It construes a hypothetical that disqualifies every viable option beyond paid-sex, so a better post would’ve just been a CMV. “wat do when the sex is wanted but no can get relationship or casual stuff and masturbation is non-answer ???” Well shit bro, I don’t know, a reality check maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 07:19 PM
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No, I’m the town whore with n-count >50 and just want an innocent guy to corrupt. Kidding. I’m not religious, but I am a virgin. I want someone who relates sex with intimacy and family building just as much as I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 06:57 PM
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Marry me. Jk. He should masturbate, and while he does that (not necessarily simultaneously, unless he wants to) he should work on himself until he can find a suitable LTR to have 50 children with and build his empire.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 06:22 PM
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It matters to me. I prefer if he’s a virgin, but an n-count of 1-3 is still acceptable. Any higher and his attractiveness to me starts decreasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 06:06 PM
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If you come home and discover her sleeping with an unknown man in your bed, she may or may not be a slut. If you find licentious text exchanges between unknown men and her on her phone, she may or may not be a slut. If she sits you down and tells you seriously “I am a slut,” she may or may not be a slut. Talk with your doctor to find out what’s right for you. Okay, I admit that was facetious, but it’s all I got right now. x)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:24 AM
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Depends entirely on life goals. When I was younger, I prioritized passion exclusively: "We can live in a cupboard so long as we have each other." The whole 'Disney fairy-tale soulmate' nine yards. This was before I wanted kids. Then I came to want 20 children and realized the financial reality of it. Now income matters alongside passion. Both are important, and I wouldn't wish to settle for a relationship without passion, but if we're talking strictly practicality, income matters more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 07:36 PM
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It is a human desire to not acknowledge (or discover) cognitive dissonance because cognitive dissonance is uncomfortable. This incentivizes self-deception and lack of introspection. If I had to give an answer, I'd say a whole lot. It is the condition of ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 07:20 PM
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Indeed. The conflict of interest men face results in a balance somewhere in between more usually. It is unfortunate. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 06:51 PM
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That was the point. I intentionally followed his precedent of arbitrary, subjective value-comparison to cast light upon its uselessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 06:26 PM
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You just replied with mostly strawman characteristics because there are men that enjoy the traits you've listed like tall women, short haired women and athletic women. That was the point. I intentionally followed your precedent of arbitrary, subjective value-comparison to cast light upon its uselessness. Some women like short guys. Some women like chubby guys. Some women like bald guys. What was the point of bringing the converse cases of them up when they're just as quickly nullified? The rest …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 06:22 PM
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A man without respect from his peers is by definition lowest in the social hierachy, which is a very bad place to be. I completely understand the incentive to not show weakness, especially for men. Status is more consequential to them than it is to women, so they suffer more for its loss and thus try harder to preserve it (manifesting through not asking for help). This isn't to say showing weakness for anyone in general is still not a loss, however, because it is. At the end of the day, weakness…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 05:56 PM
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Women get on SSRIs and benzos to try to cure their illness because people try to help them. Men just shoot themselves dead. I think there's a sort of false cause here. Women get on meds because people try to help them, as opposed to men? Are you implying pharmaceutical companies don't want to sell just as many meds to men as women? Are you implying therapists don't want to therapize just as many men as women? The difference between suicide rates isn't other people's unwillingness to help, but me…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 10:04 AM
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I was browsing through the comments not intending to contribute anything, but kept seeing a conflation of two things, so goddammit I have to say something. Two primary arguments are used to explain this double standard of promiscuity. The first: It is harder for men to get sex, so high sexual success for them implies desirable qualities of character. Conversely, it is easier for women to get sex, so high sexual success for them does not necessarily imply desirable qualities of character. This is…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 09:01 AM
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When alone Women: old maid/spinster/crazy cat lady Men: eligible bachelor When tall Women: emasculating/intimidating Men: attractive When athletic Women: manly/butch/roided-out Men: attractive When arguing/fighting Women: nagging/bossy/bitchy/emotional/neurotic "making a big deal out of nothing" Men: logical/rational "raising only practical objections" When short hair Women: unattractive/lesbian Men: attractive When depressed Women: bipolar/dramatic/PMSing/attention whore "low pain tolerance" Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 08:18 AM
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This is me right now. I'm not impressed with the options around me, but my libido is off the charts. I think women (and men) should do Option A and D. Those two options ensure the least amount of potential negative ramifications down the road while still supplying value in the present. Option B could result in STDs, pregnancy, and emotional baggage (no matter how improbable). Option C is needlessly torturous, and Option E is just... no: no because it's unfair to the other person in the relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 12:18 AM
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I support private companies' choice, but I do not support censorship as a principle. Censorship is the first symptom of intellectual complacency, after which follows stagnation and regression of thought.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/20 07:17 AM
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Nope. There's nothing outlandish about wanting to be doted on, and it's a perfectly feasible goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 07:03 AM
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Ooh, yay, I like this topic. By Bible, I'm assuming you're referring to a code of moral conduct in general, so, rephrasing your claim, if I may be so bold (pun intended): other than moral objections, there is no way to justify being anti-choice/pro-life. Yup. Well, besides fear of extinction, perhaps, but even that's a moral judgement, whether or not humanity should or should not continue existing. So you're entirely correct. However... Other than moral objections, there is also no way to justif…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 04:09 AM
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I should also add my own statistic as a PPD woman just to demonstrate how unreliable it is to speculate behind anonymous profiles. At peril of coming off as bragging: I am very healthy and suffer from no disabilities, mental or physical. I've gotten A's in most of my STEM classes and pursue a variety of creative outlets. In fact, it's likely I'll be famous in the future, so enjoy this time with me now (jk xD). I have low-levels of anxiety in general (part of being healthy), I am not depressed, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 11:40 PM
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Exactly; women respond to relative difference. This can be achieved either by a positive increase (the man enhances his qualities to be higher-status than the woman), or negative decrease (the man tears down the woman to simulate higher-status in himself). The former scenario is by far healthier than the latter, but that perception of higher or equal status is essential. No one wants to intentionally downgrade for nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 07:01 PM
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...so why shouldn't they then aim to just hookup and never commit to anyone? It's really not a question of 'should' or 'shouldn't.' People can do whatever they want. :) If men prefer hookups and never committing to anyone, good for them; it's not anyone else's place to make value-judgements upon that. Same goes for women. Do whatever you want (not that I need to endorse it; everyone ends up doing what they want anyway).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 06:24 PM
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This is something you should always watch out for in any survey/poll/forum. It's called sampling bias, and it will always exist so long as the sample represents a constituent of the whole. That said, I agree: women on this sub don't accurately represent the women in the real world in an absolute fashion. They do represent a subset of the women in the real world (possibly one you'll meet, as well), since they do currently exist in the real world, too, but they are not all-encompassing. Similar lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 05:55 PM
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I was very seriously reading your comment, hand stroking chin contemplatively, then burst out laughing at "my little good obedient bitch." facepalm You might as well have said "goo-goo gaga beep boop." It's performative to a cringey extent. But alas, that is just my irrelevant subjective opinion. Obviously there's a whole community into it, so I'm not about to debate tastes (that's not what this is conversation is about anyway). To each their own. However, I am still skeptical of the BDSM relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 08:07 AM
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I've known women who love 'bad boys,' BDSM, and general mistreatment, and I think I've identified why. A critical, almost desperate, need for validation. Everyone knows a victory hard-won is so much more satisfying, approval from critical people more meaningful, commodities of scarcity more valuable... A 'bad boy' is simply a person with more barriers, and these barriers exist as an exciting obstacle to overcome for a woman's own ego. That's the whole fantasy behind "taming the beast." It's rewa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:11 AM
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I'd expect him to give no more than what he perceived fit for my value to him, and if that didn't match what I value for myself, I'd move on. This is a simple assessment everyone should make in any relationship: regardless of who they used to be, or who they intend to be, are they fulfilling the subjective standards of treatment you want for yourself right now? This could be as little as them not telling you "shut the fuck up, cunt" when they're playing video games, or as much as them taking you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 12:37 AM
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Exactly. It's a cycle of self-prophesying/fulfilling failure.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/20 12:14 AM
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Thank you. :]
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 12:07 AM
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For sex, until marriage. For everything short of sex, until the time feels right; no specific duration.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 09:37 PM
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Sometimes rebuttals are supplied so quickly that genuine understanding can appear neglected. It's important to acknowledge and empathize with the opposing side first, then supply a reasonable rebuttal (if one exists) in that order so as to not come off as blindly retaliatory. That being said, I completely understand where men are coming from. A commodity (sex) given freely in some instances and withheld in others reeks of favoritism and unfairness. How can a man not feel punished by such an imba…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 08:56 PM
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It’s difficult to give a straight, black-or-white answer to this because a duality exists around any particular quality. Body hair. I’m heterosexual and find male secondary characteristics, like body hair, attractive. However, it’s a turn off if there’s too much. What determines the ‘right amount’ versus ‘too much’ is my own genetics. I am naturally predisposed to whatever level of hair my own race/individual genetics has. Muscles. I appreciate muscles in a man because it’s indicative of testost…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 05:03 PM
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Amazingly well-spoken.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/20 07:55 PM
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I have never classified men as alphas/betas. Do I gauge (as everyone does) compatibility on an individual basis? Yes. The problem with quantized characterizations such as 'alpha' or 'beta' is it neglects the spectrum nature of personality. It is better to deal with behaviors themselves than categories encompassing them, because people often retain elements from each.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/20 07:46 PM
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This has always been confusing to me. They want a young (ideally early 20's), submissive woman who doesn't take part in any "strong independent career-woman" BS, but they don't want an entitled leech that could take 50/50 of their assets. By selecting a candidate young (early 20's), the woman is unlikely to have cultivated a solid financial blanket for herself by then, thus making her dependent. By selecting a candidate so submissive, the woman is unlikely to have the cultivated a healthy autono…
/r/ExRedPill05/12/20 07:20 PM
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From a reproductive standpoint, both sexes seek to be desirable to one another. Nature accomplishes this through sexually dimorphic characteristics, such as muscles in men and curves in women. It follows that a woman with healthy libido would be interested in attracting a mate, and thus go about it by presenting what is deemed attractive to them. This process of presenting, or posturing (as described in the animal kingdom), a sex’s secondary characteristics is often referred to as “sexualizing” …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 07:24 AM
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As with the period of a pendulum or oscillating frequency, counter-forces (in this case, misogyny versus misandry) generate peaks and valleys. I wager currently there is a trough for masculinity, of which will last for a time until the interminable struggle for balance ripples it back to a crest, and vice-versa ad infinitum.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 06:27 AM
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