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8	How do I make amazing friendships with new people? Another thing that helps is accepting different types of people. Your game improves immensely when you start seeing people who may not fit your idea of "compatible" as interesting because of their difference as opposed to people who should be avoided. Commonalities are nice but just because you have surface level differences with a girl, you can still explore her world for an evening and bond on the commonality we all share: humanity.	/r/seduction	24/02/14 09:51 PM
1	Everything "clicked" this previous Friday night. You're all right! Sure, if you get inviting eye contact then smile and look at them, nod and say hey and just initiate like it's an old friend "What'd ya get?". That's actually something I get a lot when I'm with my friends and I open strangers, they'll say "Wait did you know them?" just because of how casual my rapport is and the warmth of the strangers' response, to which I reply "I do now." People tend to mirror your tone when you approach them, if you approach and open casually then they will drop their guard…	/r/seduction	05/02/14 08:03 AM
1	"Stuck" with girls after K-close No, hell no. You can always eject for whatever reason and you should if the chick is giving you the wrong vibes. There's just two ways to go about it, I suppose. The numbers game and the target game. How many chicks can I hookup with tonight vs. I am going to take that 10 home and fuck her senseless. The first one can be a good confidence booster, and is what I believe OP is going for, but has the ramification that he actually ATTRACTED these women and thus they might maintain interest in him in…	/r/seduction	05/02/14 07:51 AM
1	Everything "clicked" this previous Friday night. You're all right! I mean, eye contact or not I always assume attraction, so like in the above example I would approach her and say smugly with a smile "How is that? Worth the buy?" She turns and looks at you and that may be the first eye contact the two of you had, but you look confident, smile and just talk to her. She will respond warmly if you keep the unassuming frame and you can let the conversation pick up steam from there. One thing to point out is to time your open so as not to be interrupted when you ope…	/r/seduction	03/02/14 07:30 PM
2	Why are there so few single women in college? Talk about relationships and casually ask if she's seeing anyone or single. "I'm single now but when I'm in a relationship I_____, what about you, you seeing anyone?" It's not too hard to do without seeming invested, just make it a casual question.	/r/seduction	03/02/14 07:23 PM
2	Everything "clicked" this previous Friday night. You're all right! Direct approaches are fine, you just have to make sure you don't startle them with hitting on or complimenting them immediately. It can be off-putting. If some random lady came up to you and started gushing about how attractive you are, you'd feel as though things were moving a little quickly as well. The seduction arena these days is littered with people teaching workshops and trying to make money off the discipline. A lot of it actually works, but that does not mean it's immune to the same pit…	/r/seduction	03/02/14 07:20 PM
6	"Stuck" with girls after K-close You're right, do you. I don't actually care. I just wanted to illustrate to OP that while it's called gaming, these are real people who make certain assumptions when you make a move on them. You live how you want, but if you're planning to run through the club you've got to be willing to shake some chicks and not worry about their feelings.	/r/seduction	03/02/14 07:10 PM
2	Everything "clicked" this previous Friday night. You're all right! Right, if she doesn't give you respect then trying to "win her over" will only make it worse, that's what many dudes try to do. The best response is to just remain unphased, essentially give her the "what's your problem?" treatment, and maintain that the way she's acting is unnecessary. You decide what's acceptable behavior, and if she doesn't comply then you don't waste time on her. Yeah, sweet women make the world go round and help me sleep at night. Bless 'em. Second question: In general, I n…	/r/seduction	03/02/14 06:52 PM
7	Everything "clicked" this previous Friday night. You're all right! Absolutely. If you see yourself as the prize, which you should, then you can decide that the way she acts is unacceptable behavior and at that point she has no chance with you. You and her are in different societal positions though in that she could possibly be solicited all the time which would cause her to put up her bitch shield. She has probably had nights where she humored a dude who had no chance, played along and he couldn't take the hint that she politely wasn't interested. A huge waste …	/r/seduction	03/02/14 06:44 PM
31	"Stuck" with girls after K-close Don't kiss anyone you wouldn't be down to take home. You're a PUA and not a man whore. Imagine if an attractive girl made out with you and then went and flirted with everyone else, kissed multiple other dudes in the bar. No one wants to ride the village bicycle, or rather, it can end up hurting your game.	/r/seduction	03/02/14 06:32 PM
3	Everything "clicked" this previous Friday night. You're all right! It's a shit test. If a woman is attractive, chances are she wants a man who she can't break easily. You played it solid though. Self fulfillment is exactly what works on those women and most others.	/r/seduction	03/02/14 06:29 PM
4	Story time! What are your (true or made-up) stories you tell to women? I don't can lines or stories, just go with the flow naturally and if you remember a story then tell it. That being said, I do have a funny story where I was smoking weed in my friend's attic in high school, slipped off the supports and plunged through the drywall through the roof of his poor old Grandmother's room causing her to scream as my legs dangled through her ceiling. True story and it's hilarious no matter how many times I tell it.	/r/seduction	03/02/14 06:28 PM
2	A little trick/technique that looks like it's gonna pay off I think what he's saying is that he was complimenting her but not saying the compliments directly, just telling her "There's this girl who I'm really into and she's pretty and fun etc". I tend not to compliment in the initial attraction phase just because it's a turn off for a lot of women. These backhanded compliments aren't bad, definitely better than direct compliments which can make things go south depending on the girl. Most girls will accept a compliment with a smile and say thank you, but…	/r/seduction	03/02/14 06:11 PM
12	What are the must watch online videos for seduction? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ghyUmNt5Yd0 Inner game: Ego VS Self Esteem	/r/seduction	03/02/14 08:23 AM
8	So how do you actually get a girlfriend? Inner game is what you need my friend. You've faked it, now you've got to make it. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ghyUmNt5Yd0 I recommend watching the whole Blueprint Decoded if you can find it, but the above was the most important part for me if you had to distill the whole thing into one youtube clip. Your outer game will no longer be a facade if you really believe in yourself and are as confident as you may be acting now. Your outer game will change when you get real inner strength, and for t…	/r/seduction	03/02/14 08:18 AM
1	So how do you actually get a girlfriend? Solid post man, hit the nail on the head.	/r/seduction	03/02/14 08:11 AM
1	So how do you actually get a girlfriend? In today's gender equality world, a lot of women do not like chivalry. I will add a caveat before I get flamed, that is not to say that women don't want to be treated with respect because obviously they do and you should always do so. It's just in my experience the idea of being chivalrous appeals more to males than it does females. The knight in shining armor who gladly throws his coat down to keep the woman from stepping foot in a puddle. It makes you feel as though you're holding a certain mo…	/r/seduction	03/02/14 08:06 AM
1	So how do you actually get a girlfriend? Literally, anywhere. The coffee shop, the library, the bus, the sidewalk, the post office. Hang out places you like to hang out, and if an attractive woman so happens to be there, talk to her. About whatever. Just strike up a conversation out of the blue, be bold, and be authentic with what you say. The hardest part of day-game and really all female or even just stranger interaction is not caving to the tension. When you randomly open a girl, she has no idea what the fuck you want and you're com…	/r/seduction	03/02/14 07:46 AM
1	So how do you actually get a girlfriend? Why aren't they interested? Are you not conveying yourself in an interesting way? Self improvement is about honestly assessing your own faults and fixing them. If you are shy, work on being more open and assertive, confident in yourself. If you're out of shape, recognize it and go to the gym.	/r/seduction	03/02/14 07:34 AM
5	So how do you actually get a girlfriend? I'd like to point out that this is actually not correct. I've been doing seduction for 3 years or so, pretty much calibrated it into who I am now and what I can say is this: be an interesting and attractive man, talk to the girl you like, taken or not, and don't expect anything of it. You can still foster those ties, "plant the seed" if you will, and you can be next on the list when her and her boyfriend break up. Or, and this has happened to me before, she finds you so attractive that she ends …	/r/seduction	03/02/14 07:28 AM