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| 2 | 5 Key Steps To Approaching Every Woman, EverywhereI've been uncharacteristically shy lately. Backed off on two approaches that I wanted to make just today. I needed this. | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Post-festival depression.Making out | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 01:39 PM |
| 19 | How to not appear or come across as intimidating, stoic, scary, or creepy. (AKA: How to look relaxed and approachable)A few tips: Learn about soft eye contact and practice it. Over-simplified, it's basically not squinting when you look people in the eyes. Keeping your eyelids relaxed is more inviting. Also, if you're big like me, try not to lean in or get too touchy with girls you just met, as it can be intimidating. Keno is good, but use it sparingly until she seems comfortable around you. Most importantly, smile! Even if it's just a little bit. A smirk, whatever. Make smirking your default, like you love life… | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Pro Tip for getting girls to come back to your placeShit, I forgot to buy tortillas | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Pro Tip for getting girls to come back to your placeMy college roommate had one, and it worked like a charm. Not saying we always got laid from it, but it was a very nonthreatening way to get girls back to the suite. I recently got a pool table and that's worked for me a few times too. | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Is the amount of girls who "check you out" on the street an accurate measure of your attractiveness?Dude, chill. You are being crazy insecure about one aspect of yourself and not focusing on the positives, which probably projects itself in everything you do. Looks are somewhat important, but worry more about the things you actually can improve: physical fitness, outgoingness, flirting, becoming more intelligent, etc. Life isn't like tinder. If you want people to notice you, you have to make your presence known. Put yourself out there, let your personality shine through, and see how things star… | /r/seduction | 29/08/14 07:13 AM |
| 0 | Practicing social dominance - Game which can improve confidenceI understand everyone's fear of douchery here, but it really does work as a confidence booster. You don't have to make hard eye contact or appear threatening. Just stare as though you're genuinely curious. This whole eye contact staring thing comes from the Book Demian, which is a must read foranyone who struggles with insecurity. | /r/seduction | 13/05/14 05:15 PM |
| -3 | How to obtain a feeling of value.Everything is am IOI. Every girl is attracted to you, whether she knows it yet or not. | /r/seduction | 25/02/14 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Fear of Rejection isn't the only fear in Approach AnxietyIf you're going with this you have to be prepared to be completely unapologetic. | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 07:08 AM |
| 6 | Fear of Rejection isn't the only fear in Approach AnxietyThere are two ways I deal with this, and it often depends on my mood which one I use. Ideally, I am in a state where I can laugh things off and not take myself too seriously. If I get rejected, I can catch eye contact with the guy next to me, laugh and shrug it off. The second method is when I'm feeling shy, tired, or otherwise hesitant to be social, but still want to approach. I decide beforehand that I don't like the people around me, that they aren't worth my attention, and that they should a… | /r/seduction | 09/12/13 07:38 PM |
| 11 | How to game in College/High School?This is a pretty vague question but the simple answer is just go for it. I passed up dozens of opportunities in hs and early college that I now realize would have been fairly easy to capitalize on. Just talk. Don't worry about what people around you think. Who gives a shit if the guy behind you doesn't think your flirtation is funny or if someone sees you get rejected. Rejection is funny. Laugh it up bitch. Most importantly, if you think it's a hint, it's a hint. If it turns out it wasn't, oh we… | /r/seduction | 04/12/13 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Hey, it's Rich "Gambler" La Ruina, ask me (pretty much) anything :)You're waiting too long to make a move because you're afraid of being rejected. You don't need to becompletely sure they like you to go for it | /r/seduction | 20/11/13 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Prague is introducing "singles only" dating cars in the middle compartment of every subway train. How would you approach a girl here?One of two ways. You're either the funny guy who i just in there for a laugh and doesn't give a fuck, or the guy reading who's too cool for that shit but occasionally can't help but laugh at some pathetic eager bastard. That said, what girl would want to be in one of these? | /r/seduction | 31/10/13 05:47 PM |
| 1 | How can I stop being Jerry?My friends are kind of like this (maybe not as bad), but when I'm the only with the guts to talk to the hot girl at the bar and I don't show that their stupid jokes are phasing me, I'm unfucking touchable. If I do say something stupid to a chick, and they call me out, I tell them let's see you do better. They usually rebut obnoxiously but can't back up shit. Then I laugh to myself and turn my back. They bust my balls because they want to see me lower myself to their level, so I just have to stay… | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, what does it mean?I would probably wisper in her ear "let's fuck," and then not kiss her, not escalate touching, and just wait for a response. If it's a no or there is none after a while I'd tell her get the fuck out. Or if it's her place leave and tell her whatever I'll get it somewhere else. If I were you now I'd stop trying to escalate anything and go for other girls, especially when you're in front of her. Spark some jealousy and be prepared to lose her. If you can't risk losing her you have no shot. | /r/seduction | 12/09/13 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Should I tell a girl when I'm done with her?I've told two girls this summer, both of whom were responsive in text conversations, to go fuck themselves; one because she, after a week of avidly texting me, refused to meet me (we had previosuly hooked up) and the other because she blew me off when i was running late (but on my way) to meet her. Both texted me back weeks later, the first to meet, the second to apologize. This wasn't the intended result. i just wanted them to know i was pissed off because they wasted my time and didn't really … | /r/seduction | 07/09/13 05:55 PM |
| 0 | What Cold Showers & Approaching Have In CommonAs a guy with long hair, doing this is going to be brutal | /r/seduction | 07/09/13 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Bar approach advice please!Agreed on the cute line. You have to be either radiating confidence or in a day-game scenario for that to work. | /r/seduction | 05/09/13 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Bar approach advice please!My best advice is to stop being so fucking desperate to pull girls. You seem way too eager (as I was and still sometimes still am) to get with someone and it likely shows in all of your social interactions. There's nothing wrong with being down to have a good time or trying to get laid, but in the mean time you just need to chill out, stop placing your value at the feet of others and go out to have some fucking fun. Go to the bars and be the fun guy who is there to have a good time and doesn't c… | /r/seduction | 05/09/13 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Getting Laid While Living At Home?where you described sounds a lot like my hometown | /r/seduction | 04/09/13 05:20 AM |
| 1 | We need to retire the HB system.you could say she's deep in the 516 | /r/seduction | 04/09/13 03:18 AM |
| 2 | How to get the motivation?Clicked just to say this. Do it once or twice a week, tops. | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 04:20 PM |
| 0 | We need to retire the HB system.area code system: Three digits, first is face, second is would or would not bang (1 yes 0 no), third is body. Ex. Eh, she's a 516. Broken down, 5: average face, 1: would fuck, 6: slightly above average body. 919 is as high as it goes, 101 is crazy fucking low | /r/seduction | 28/08/13 06:08 AM |
| 9 | This Craigslist Missed Connection really captures the feeling of not being able to approach.I wasn't expecting that post to be beautiful | /r/seduction | 08/08/13 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Tinder the phone appHaven't gotten a single match in a month, which is surprising enough to me since I consider myself pretty damn handsome. I think my mistake might have been actually rating girls instead of letting them come to me. | /r/seduction | 31/07/13 05:43 AM |
| 45 | Never Buy A Girl a Drink.I wouldn't go down on my bro... | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 04:23 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Got out of the friend zone last nightI was recently in a situation where a woman said this to me (two years, not three) and said she didn't want to be in a sexual relationship. Long story short, we're not currently in a sexual relationship. Are you saying that's a situation that should just be avoided entirely? | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 12:38 AM |
| 26 | Asking girl if she would like to go on a date, she replies "sure, if you play your cards right". Shit test? Hoop? What is this.i'm sorry, all i heard was "sure" | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 07:49 AM |
| 1 | 21-m-virgin; realized I'm actually attractive could get girls/sex,but I have and still pussy out every time. I don't know why. Please help me.try jerking off with a condom; it helps you get used to the whole condom anxiety thing. Also, dont try to push rope. let her tease you until you're hard as a rock then stick the power U | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 09:01 PM |
| 3 | you're too young for meI wish I thought of this. So many opportunities. | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 09:33 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys respond to "tell me about yourself"?Do you really drive a garbage truck or do you just say you drive a garbage truck? | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 05:34 AM |
| 9 | The 'Yawn' TrickI've never heard this, but I do it all the time | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 12:19 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)mine, too brotha. it's fun though | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 05:59 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Random idea: Pick up awesome hobbies you can do while driving, such as freestyling, playing harmonica, or drinking. | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 05:37 PM |
| 3 | I do pickup for the sake of doing thingsThe quantum part just totally changed my perspective on everything. I'm sick of doing shit just to please people. | /r/seduction | 14/03/13 05:25 AM |
| 3 | my first date (ever), what to do?honestly, man, just be yourself. I know that's cliche, but when people say that they pretty much mean be yourself in your best form; how you would be if you were feeling particularly fucking awesome that day. Do all the shit you would normally do if you didn't give a flying fuck what people thought. I'm not saying get stark naked and wave your dick at pedestrians in a circular motion, but say what's on your mind. Try not to think too hard about what's "the right thing to do." Do what you want, b… | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 07:16 AM |
| 2 | my first date (ever), what to do?this thread was bashed relentlessly by other sedditors | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Something I like to remember when I feel self-consciousbackground please? | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 07:02 AM |
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