Randomguy34455 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Unconditional love doesn't exist If someone is able to make things last they can last through time. But the infatuation of the first days goes away obviously... It can return sometimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 08:35 PM
4	I used to follow the red pill for years until I realized there was a better way. Finding your self worth is a difficult journey, but this video really helped me understand that it's not about blaming women for your self-esteem, its about remembering your worth at all times True. I still have problems in finding my worth when I never had a girlfriend but that's the only way	/r/ExRedPill	23/03/22 09:52 PM
1	Sitting on the fence 49 yo male living in a very leftist city & state, starting to dislike wokeness & political correctness, tell me why the red pill is wrong & bad for me ?? Both sides of politics are corrupted somehow. And don’t trust the jerks who tell you that past was perfect, it wasn’t. Do you think that it’s a better world if people wait marriage for having sex ? If pornography is banned ? And all around people are just mindless bigots who speak about religions and gods who don’t exist ? That’s kinda worse than now	/r/ExRedPill	21/03/22 01:48 PM
1	Does evolution keep tabs on society? And if so is it an act of God simply adjusting and adapting us based on what he sees? Evolution wise, intelligence always wins against raw strength. Life is not fair, but there are no rules. It’s not an arena where opponents have the same weapons. In other words, if you’re very thin and weak, and your adversary is taller, very buffed etc, you can win by carrying a gun and shooting him. The world doesn’t make sense. And many things are just wrong and unacceptable. The biggest proof that god doesn’t exist are religions. Everyone thinks very different stuff, sometimes even the oppos…	/r/ExRedPill	21/03/22 04:34 AM
14	The social ineptitude of the advice given in The Red Pill Lol, meditating on their misogyny	/r/ExRedPill	18/03/22 03:13 AM
5	Question about being ex red pill Same here. Finally, it's over	/r/ExRedPill	17/03/22 09:45 PM
4	Question about being ex red pill It's not, because the redpill is just a rabbit hole of lies	/r/ExRedPill	17/03/22 09:40 PM
3	Does anyone else no longer want marriage/kids? Redpill is becoming more mainstream but it’s not so common as you think. Take it easy	/r/ExRedPill	15/03/22 04:07 AM
1	If someone made you an ex redpill program that was clinically backed by professionals. That would be wonderful. I think it should be divided into a more theorical part, in which is explained how the redpill ideas are completely wrong, and a practical part, in which there are steps to detox completely (for example step one : abbandon every redpill related community and so on. The final step is to actually get a girlfriend).	/r/ExRedPill	11/03/22 06:47 PM
2	I think the red pill applies to me in most ways It’s all bullshit, but you’re free to ruin your life with it	/r/ExRedPill	11/03/22 03:49 AM
1	Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships? Actually yes, there’s also something for me. I feel so lonely that even that little of time girls talk with me brings me a lot of happiness	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 01:35 PM
0	Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships? I think that all my female friends are platonic. I would love them even in other ways but unfortunately it’s not possibile. I worship women and I’m very happy to please them and to make myself useful (but I don’t give away any money)	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 01:12 PM
2	So what's the solution for men below the top 20% attractiveness who can't find a relationship? I don’t have a girlfriend and I’ve never had one. I just love girls but I’m not reciprocated. Other than keep looking, no solution	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 01:06 PM
-4	Why all men should be hitting the gym regardless of what some women “preferences” are Well, anyway an average guy shouldn’t go to the gym if he doesn’t like it. The benefits are kinda negligible…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 06:53 PM
-3	Why all men should be hitting the gym regardless of what some women “preferences” are Not at all. A very buffed guy is not attractive, it ends up looking unnatural and unhealthy. For most guys it’s fine to just get in shape. Eat less if you’re fat and eat more if you’re took skinny, it’s better if did with some exercise. That’s everything	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 06:44 PM
1	I’m envious of athletes. If you like sports, you can find some time to practice them, just for your fun. Even if it’s only two days a week. For the dating, we would all want to be liked by a lot of women but it doesn’t happen. The only “relief” is that athletes and famous people are not sincerely liked. I’ll make an example. Have you ever seen a girl who is just too beautiful ? Well in that case I would really like a relationship with her, bur most likely, she can very easily find somebody prettier and the relation woul…	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/22 06:12 PM
1	Disingenuous to say "Not all Women Are the Same" Well of course, there are some standars and models of beauty, but those model change over time. So even here we’re not talking about anything objective. Self improvement on looks is a good thing, but what you should understand is that you won’t go far if that is the only thing you improve. You should improve every aspect of yourself, and without forcing and pretending to be someone else	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/22 06:02 PM
2	I think the red pill applies to me in most ways How can you be an interesting person if you see sex as a way to earn status towards other males ? Redpill beliefs are self-destructive and self-sabotaging you really need to get that shit out of your mind. Then you’ll become a better person, a more interesting person, and maybe, if you have luck and right places, maybe you’ll met a girl. Redpill is the sure-fire way to remain alone and sad	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/22 05:52 PM
4	Randomly approached by a hot girl, and she gave me her number And once more, the redpill proves to be completely false. Keep being yourself, and good luck with that girl :)	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/22 09:54 AM
5	Men do it too It just depends, not only about gender. Some men have it easier others do no. For a good looking guy, is’s very easy to get a relationship, but it’s not only about looks. There’s also personality, luck, money and much more. The problems males and females face are indeed different, it’s hard to say what’s worse. It’s worse to have a lot of unwanted attention (even from creeps) or to have no attention at all and always having to do the first step ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 04:12 AM
9	Would it be more accurate to say women want men who talk about their emotions rather than express them? Yes, but not only women	/r/ExRedPill	07/03/22 03:20 AM
1	Should men start wearing makeup? Should women stop? Should men be free to use it ? Yes, absolutely. Is makeup useful for a man to be more attractive by our society’s standards ? I think it’s not. So it’s probably not convenient	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 08:41 PM
1	Romantic love isn't the same as filial love When you talk about feelings, usually things are not so easy and linear, sometimes they are, but it depends from the person	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 08:36 PM
1	What if I don’t want a “traditional woman”? You’re right. Redpill is just toxic and fake. I found a strong and indipendent woman very hot. The idea of the alpha male is a false mith. Incels will call you beta or cuck just for treating women with respect	/r/ExRedPill	06/03/22 08:05 PM
6	Questions for red pillers "What are you waiting for to stop this toxic and fake belief and go live and love ? "	/r/ExRedPill	05/03/22 08:28 PM
2	CRP - Coach red pill Never heard of him before, and honestly I don't care. We should stop caring about people who spread redpill lies in order to detox.	/r/ExRedPill	05/03/22 08:16 PM
2	Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective? And here lies the redpill narrative... Let me tell you something, giving love and care is not a bad thing, you can also have joy in doing something good for a girl. Obviously it shouldn't be one sided.	/r/ExRedPill	05/03/22 03:04 PM
4	Mark Manson's View on porn - thoughts? Just rhetoric. There are some people who really like to blame pornography for all the problems of their life (it could be true if you masturbate 7-10 times a day or more) but in almost all the cases it's just paranoia. Porn and masturbation is just a consequence of having nothing better to do, not the cause. If you are not able to have sex do you really think that staying in chastity is doing any benefit ? It could just bring more and more frustration... Not to mention self-hate, guilt, shame an…	/r/ExRedPill	04/03/22 11:30 PM
1	Exredpills , what are you now ? If I'm an outcast for the outcasts then I'm normal person again ? After some troubled experiences I realize that I've been deceived. Around me there were only negative persons, the community was very toxic. Then I decided to move on. There are for sure some shallow girls who only care about looks, but not every girl is so evil as the redpill says. It's really a shame to just think about skulls, height and stuff and forgetting of everything else... The correct answer is to stop thinking and start…	/r/ExRedPill	04/03/22 11:22 PM
0	Some of the attitudes shared in this sub are distasteful and borderline RedPill Men can indeed be very unpleasant, there are many toxic behaviors a man can have. And the redpill makes this behaviors worse. Women are far from perfect anyway.	/r/ExRedPill	03/03/22 02:37 PM
11	Ex-redpiller but still MGTOW? Maybe you could try therapy just to know yourself better. Sometimes things can go wrong, life is not fair...	/r/ExRedPill	03/03/22 02:33 AM
14	Ex-redpiller but still MGTOW? Getting away from them was the best decision you could take. Men and woman can be bad, you've happened to trust the wrong person. Good girls exist but it's not easy to find them, as well as it's not easy to find a decent guy anyway. How many men are jerks and assholes ? Plenty. And plenty of girls are just shallow and only want some casual hookup... Do you really don't want a girl or you're just afraid to suffer again ? I understand this fear, but giving up on girls fearing pain is like burying …	/r/ExRedPill	03/03/22 12:16 AM
3	Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective? Then, just think about it, why a girl should date a guy with no standards ? By having no standards, you're saying that every woman is ok for you. In other words, you're saying that you have no value. In order to get a girlfriend you have to be valuable and have some compatibility with the girl. Unfortunately we men have less options, but what I'm trying to say here, is that you should choose quality over quantity. It's not convenient for average or ugly guys to do the "numbers game". Since, as I…	/r/ExRedPill	02/03/22 11:55 PM
5	Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective? There is a difference between casual hookups and lifetime relationship. A relationship won't last if there is no compatibility. So yes, for a one night stand and to have some fun, women will prefer a good looking guy. If you look the other side of the coin almost all men want beautiful women and only care about their looks. The difference is that most men have no standards while women have dignity and self respect, and also a wide range of possibilities... If you keep going with those pills you'…	/r/ExRedPill	02/03/22 10:49 PM
4	What Viewing Porn Does to Your Brain \|\| Canopy Nofap is just a form of an anti-sex morality. There are no benefits in doing it, you'll only get more and more frustrated. You'll lose more energy in trying to not masturbate than doing it for just a few minutes when you feel like it. But of course, if someone does PMO 7-10 times a day, in that case there is an addiction, and the frequency should be decreased. And naturally some kinds of porn are not the best to watch, but it's just fiction. You don't become a jedi or a sith by watching star war…	/r/ExRedPill	01/03/22 11:27 PM
3	Does your dating options really decrease past your 30s male or female? I think it's not just about age. If you don't have friends and don't meet new people around the chances are zero at any age. Anyway past 30s many women are divorced or single moms, and many men have given up	/r/ExRedPill	01/03/22 11:13 PM
9	A couple words about looks Looks matters but on itself it's not enough	/r/ExRedPill	01/03/22 07:03 PM
1	I’m a young female in her early 20s who discovered the red pill You need to detox from and quit every redpill chat, forum or blog. That shit is not true and sees only the worst of human nature	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/22 10:48 PM