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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| – | Help me understand the "not girlfriend material" phenomenonHow do you know the men in the past didn’t live up to her standards? Maybe she broke up with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 12:20 AM |
| – | Help me understand the "not girlfriend material" phenomenonMost women don’t bring up past partners because it’s bad manners. I understand what you’re alluding to but a women having high standards is a good thing. There’s a certain maturity that comes from “past experiences”. Sure she may expect more, but she also more be better at conflict resolution, better at deescalating, better at dealing with her anxieties, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 08:06 PM |
| – | Help me understand the "not girlfriend material" phenomenonIt is different if you’re the one they choose to be in a long term relationship and make a life with. That’s the ultimate compliment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 06:04 PM |
| – | Help me understand the "not girlfriend material" phenomenonWouldn’t that logic make it more special? A girl that has no experience, any guy she will view as “great”. But a woman who has experience, she’s been with different men, cultivated her taste and now is choosing to be with you after all her experience. That would be a compliment, no? Like for me, I would rather a man “pick” me from his options rather than feel like he chose me because I was the only option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 06:00 PM |
| – | Help me understand the "not girlfriend material" phenomenonThank you this. This is a mature take. Dealt with too many men in the past that had a severe Madonna/whore complex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 05:58 PM |
| 4 | Women don’t peak at 18I’m happy seeing lots of mature takes on this. Sure, attraction is subjective and some might disagree but I also agree that 18-21 year olds look like teens. Especially their faces lol. I’m a woman so whenever I voice this, I get labelled as a “bitter old lady”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 10:07 PM |
| 5 | Men have been gaslit into believing all jealousy is toxic, and women are reaping the rewardsSame here. I’m not a jealous person. If someone wants to be with me, they will be. If they are at their core a dishonest person, I’ll figure it out & drop them. No female friends or ex partners would make me feel threatened/jealous. I’m also attracted to men who don’t feel intimidated or jealous. I try to trust my judgement and date those who are integrate people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Most women aren’t good enough for relationships for most menThis is a crazy take because most of the time the woman does most of the domestic duties like laundry, cooking, etc. look at most relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sexThe word situationship is when there is proper planned out dates (ex. Musuem, concert, dinner, etc.). It’s not just drinks usually. That’s for FWB. The whole idea of a “situationship” is when it feels like almost like relationship, but it is not. Sure, some people misuse the word but it’s quite different than FWB | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sexI think there’s a difference between just straight out casual sex and going on proper dates (ex. Museums, dinner, concerts, etc). Whereas FWB means just sex or maybe an easy “drinks date” at a bar as a formality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 03:44 AM |
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