Ranocore Archive

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1	Plate of 7 months says she felt “used” both. "alpha widow" is an unintended result which may---most likely but not always---occur when a high SMV man (alpha) dumps a woman. alpha widows are, by definition, miserable.	/r/askTRP	27/04/21 03:29 PM
3	Plate of 7 months says she felt “used” Leave them better than you found them. that's wishful thinking. what she'll become is not under your direct control. have you heard of alpha widows?	/r/askTRP	27/04/21 02:30 PM
7	Women can’t expect loyalty from a man they refuse to have sex with "I'm not going to force you into something you aren't feeling so here's what we are going to do. I'll take sex off the table. We can remain platonic friends. You wont need to worry about sex. There are plenty of guys out there that will half-ass like you and be happy with sex once a month. You can have that and I'll find a different source of physical intimacy. Win win" Too wordy. You're negotiating desire with her. It could be misconstrued as being "reactive" or passive-aggressive which is a lo…	/r/askTRP	22/04/21 10:20 AM
10	How to toughen up? your choice, man. do as you see fit.	/r/askTRP	08/10/19 04:41 AM
37	How to toughen up? Engage in competitive sports. Be it MMA, boxing, basketball, or football where you’ll be forced to tough it out with other players/athletes. Address your insecurities. If you are bullied because of being fat, you better start purposefully lifting weights in the gym and consistently sticking to a diet plan, e.g. intermittent fasting or keto diet. Always track your bodyweight and lift heavy, or else you’ll suffer from Fuckarounditis. Let your results do the talking. Some guys overcompensate their …	/r/askTRP	08/10/19 03:12 AM
2	How to make ltr initiate sex Patience, bruh. Good things come to those who wait. You can ease her into the initiator role by doing role-playing. For example, you pretend to be asleep and she wakes you up by giving you head. Eventually, she’ll get the hang of it.	/r/askTRP	07/10/19 04:40 PM
30	How to make sure your LTR doesn't get bored of you? Live in separate houses. Cohabitation easily expedites the expiry of the relationship. Zero drama tolerance. Any form of harsh action directed towards you is drama and must be nipped in the bud through Soft Next. Minimal to zero concessions. Lead the relationship by being the undisputed decision-maker and by refusing to comply to her demands or requests in non-abrasive ways. She will be frustrated with you but, at the same time, her attraction for you is maintained, if not shot up to the stratos…	/r/askTRP	07/10/19 04:25 PM
6	Plate disrespected me, attraction faded but she still continues to initiate. It’s only a matter of time when she would slowly fade away from your life and monkey branch onto the next new guy. It’s inevitable and you must’ve known that by now. Women always have men lined up, waiting for their turn. Before your time is up and you already sense the end of the relationship creeping in, be the first to walk away.	/r/askTRP	07/10/19 03:45 PM
1	Im screwed and in desperate need of advice. You can’t control your environment but you can calibrate your approach to your problem. In my view, you have two concerns: internal and external. Let’s focus first on your internal concern—-anxiety. Anxiety and depression are closely related; they can stack on top of each other. If your anxiety is making you depressed, it might be best for you to seek professional help, i.e. cognitive behavioral therapy. If you opt to help yourself first, look up Mindfulness and/or Meditation online for some sel…	/r/askTRP	07/10/19 03:28 PM
1	Lost frame I see. Well, you can use an approach that fits your personality. Think quick if it’ll be safe to say it depending on the circumstance; situational discernment is key.	/r/askTRP	07/10/19 03:06 PM
2	Lost frame Get into the habit of saying “No” in playful yet respectful way(s) not only towards women but to everyone you know. For example, in this case, you could have told her: “if you can guess the color of my boxers, i may switch places with you ;)” If she complies and gives you a guess, then she’s going through your “hoop.” It may be uncomfortable at first, but you have to keep doing something repeatedly until it becomes a habit which is essential to your overall frame.	/r/askTRP	07/10/19 02:53 PM
1	Dropped by a FWB and It has confused me.... Temporary beta bucks / relationship with a beta provider. Let her walk while you go radio silent on her indefinitely. If you have a firm high-value frame, she’ll boomerang back to you regardless of you wanting her back or not.	/r/askTRP	07/10/19 02:28 PM