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If you're broke you shouldn't be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:21 PM
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Men always invite women. It's a gender role thing. If a woman expects to be asked out and men paying for her, she is into gender roles or a huge hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:19 PM
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If we assume somebody genuinely has insane standards, then all it takes is reducing the absolute havoc social media wreaks on your brain and going outside. Sure, it's going to hurt that 6-6-6 guys aren't in abundance, but you will get used to it, it will be okay. No need for therapy, just unplug yourself for a little while.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:59 AM
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Yes, simps are a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:09 AM
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Not gonna happen. Most women consider approaching to be beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:36 PM
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It builds up your ego, establishes pre-selection (albeit low quality pre-selection, but still), teaches you communication (can't even get uggos if you're a total jagoff) and makes you better at sex. Also helps you learn your SMV based on how easily you succeeded, if at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:33 PM
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Yeah, no, dating isn't just a fun friendly conversation. For a man it's basically a job audition where you are under constant scrutiny by an obsessive HR that has 100 other applicants waiting by the door. And then you gotta pay for it. It's the opposite of fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:09 PM
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I don't agree with the conclusions. Yes, men place women on the pedestal, but only in so far as sexual/dating/pairing matters are concerned. Because women ARE more valuable than men in this regard. That's just how the world works. But it doesn't mean they think a woman is not human and must be infallible in all aspects of life. Sure, full on delusional idolization happens, but it's a fringe situation. As for your actual points: This is a thing? I dunno, just silly behavior by people who can't co…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:51 PM
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That's right. Can't help being an absolute efficient machine. In the ancient times I'd be king because I could father an army in the matter of days. All I'd need is a few cartons of cigarettes and a tourniquet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:02 AM
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Is it not? Attractiveness is a talent. The attractive people succeed, uggos get weeded out. Nobody gets hand outs, there are no quotas or participation trophies. It's just you versus the market. Perfect meritocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:47 AM
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Fat shaming DOES work, but only to an extent. Getting comfortable kills motivation, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:42 AM
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Yeah, I don't know whether or not getting out there and socializing will help you, but the constant self-righteous pity party is pathetic, there is no denying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:27 PM
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How? Again, we are talking purely dating market here. Although my belief is that men are inherently born with negative value, it's beside the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:20 PM
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I think you're coming from a genuine place, but... Look, it's easy to feel good about yourself when people treat you well because you have pretty privilege. Everybody knows what hot people look like, everybody knows what ugly people look like. Pretending otherwise doesn't do anybody any favors. All this "energy" and "confidence in yourself" bullshit is for attractive people. It matters on the margins. If you are ugly, it's all meaningless. You are trash tier, nobody cares about your energy, nobo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:46 PM
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Men crave purpose, not conflict. The meek shall inherit the Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:33 PM
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Everybody craves intimacy from time to time. The reason why women don't feel like it's a big deal is because they can get into a situationship at the drop of a hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:26 PM
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Same as always. Women can find a man in seconds, if they don't have one, it's because they chose not to. Men can't find women easily. If they don't have one, it's because they can't find one, they're deficient in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:20 PM
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What is the setup here? The girl knows one guy is a serial killer? Well, if she knows he won't kill her and won't get caught, I'm sure the vast majority would go for the serial killer instead of the pathetic chump.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:30 PM
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80% of this sub is a pathetic pity party.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:14 AM
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That's not up to men. Men have to be whatever women want them to be or be incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:41 AM
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I don't think they want them to listen to what they have to say either. At most they want them to vote the way they want, but they don't want to achieve that via talking or listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:06 PM
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And I'm not interested in you ignoring my point and substituting your own, so I guess that's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:02 PM
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I sort of agree. It's all about the vibes. But I also think that vibes are, largely, a product of hard stats. Looks, wealth, education, charisma, experiences... all of that shapes you as a person. And whether the person is just right for you and gives you those magical gut butterflies can be translated to whether they have the necessary stats that you care about. Understanding and formulating what stats you want might just be the key to finding good relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:00 PM
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So... What do women bring? That's the question. Besides themselves. Unless you think it's enough. Clearly men just being men is not enough. It's not a difficult question to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:07 AM
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Lilith, stop LARPing as a normal sane human, you're not fooling anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:31 AM
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Blue pill doesn't care if it looks good or bad to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:26 AM
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Oh, you think just being alive is bringing something to the table as a woman? I get it. It's the same thing that I meant, pretty much. Though I suppose it's in women's nature to be insulted by the very thought a man would ask if she would bring anything else, which is also interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:22 AM
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That's... exactly what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:49 AM
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What people value doesn't change what you are. Thats the idea behind the question: to list what you think is valuable around you and see if others agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:52 AM
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This question is very standard for men when looking for a partner. I mean, we all KNOW women dont have to bring anything to the table, because they are the table/employer/purchaser, but it's an interesting thought experiment. I didn't expect women to be so defensive about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:21 PM
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Men only scholarships in 2026? How well would that go? Come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:18 PM
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You can be mad, but that's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:26 PM
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Maybe... It wasn't my experience. Women at my job are relatively nice to me. I actually think work is the great equalizer. Even if women see you as a pathetic wimp, they would still rather have you around rather than having to constantly redo the work for an incompetent hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:19 PM
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Yes they are. Men are absolutely a product competing for attention when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:42 PM
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Only true for men. Women have intrinsic value.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:37 PM
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You couldn't get away with it, you weren't actually powerful. Attractive evil is not rudeness, although it can be a part of it. It's about brutalizing others, using them for your own benefit and sharing those benefits with your woman. That's hot. Being evil and getting punished is a chump move. Of course she dumped you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:30 PM
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Most women like the idea of the man opening up, they are not ready for what that actually means.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:22 PM
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Good or bad doesn't matter so long as they guy isn't immediately violent towards the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:19 PM
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True. Lonely men are subhuman. Pre-selection is a thing for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:47 PM
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Some can, but the number is decreasing. Women would rather be in situationships with hot guys and then just remain alone once they hit the wall. They don't even need or want to settle anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:43 PM
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For women being single is a choice she can always change. For men being single means he is a failure in life. Internalizing and being ok with it is not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:35 AM
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We are not intimidated, we just don't want to be seen as failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:27 AM
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It's more like violent, assertive, dangerous men are attractive, while shy weaklings aren't seen as men at all. Women don't dislike them, they just don't exist for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:24 AM
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I'm sure there are literal tens of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:52 PM
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Um, no. It's fun to LARP that men are so beneath you you don't even want their attention, but everybody knows it's just a little ego trip and you know you want it and you like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:43 PM
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Casual misandry is good, thanks for this post. More men should be seeing stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:33 PM
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Nobody is exploiting women. They go for hot guys because they want to. They laugh at low value men because they're funny and it feels good to belittle them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:31 PM
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Yep. Especially since eating treats every now and again is not a big deal. Nobody has to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:31 PM
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By default you deserve to be giving nothing. You are born a net negative, you OWE things to other people because you're a drain on resources by the nature of your very existence. Unless you're generating adequate resources you don't even deserve to live, much else privileges like love from other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:35 PM
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Huh? Lots of people don't deserve love they way they are. You can be objectively a trash human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:33 PM
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Protecting requires strength, standing up for yourself also takes strength. Helping others? Depends on the help. Some help others because they are weak and agreeable. That's not attractive and doesn't require a backbone, it's just sniveling behavior. Bullying is just another pay of projecting strength. There are other ways. But a successful man takes from other weak man, gives what he has taken to his own tribe and protects it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:13 PM
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Most women would never accept a dynamic like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:09 PM
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It is. It's not that he is dangerous or crazy, those are positives. He's just weak and pathetic. That's "bad personality" too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:08 PM
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No it's not. Stealing and mugging causes retaliation. It's risky, difficult and dangerous. Only strong and brave can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:18 PM
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Yeah, sure. One doesn't invalidate the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:26 AM
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Yes, obviously wielding power over other men is more attractive than... I dunno, donating to charity? Helping old ladies pet puppies? What is "being a good person"? You do have to have a backbone to be a bully, it takes strength and courage to brutalize other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:18 AM
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Look... being single is not an alternative. It's the only option incels possess. It's a good advice. Stop the cope and, more importantly, stop whining. It's obnoxious. Learn your place in the world and accept it. That's what this advice is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:13 PM
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Alright, I believe you and stand corrected. Still, a lonely guy that gets no action is simply viewed as a loser these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:37 PM
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If she is going on a date with me she isn't doing me a favor, we are on an equal footing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:14 AM
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Not really. Women want men. Men having to initiate is also entitlement and two wrongs don't make a right. I do think we will be slowly moving towards equality in these aspects of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:22 AM
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Come on, man. Do you honestly expect people on the internet to truly care about your personal issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:58 AM
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Nope, we dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:02 PM
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Not really. Modern men and women are basically the same. They want to be single, to never marry and never have children and just live in comfort. The only difference is that women can get sex whenever they want. That's all. Maybe not exactly the kind of sex they want, but they can sate their biological desires. That's a good thing for them. You didn't understand what I said and chose to just get mad instead. It's the men who are broken, they have lost the gender war because of their biological d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:29 PM
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Why are you framing it this way? I'd imagine casual sex is enjoyable for both parties. You both get you want and part ways. Women aren't lonely, they are thriving single, which is great. Occasionally they might want to have sex, which is a few clicks away for them, and then it's back to happy man-free life. Men fume they can't have that and have to be incels, but that's just nature. All then can do is stay mad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:46 PM
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Cuts both ways. One of the top reasons for falling out love for women is the "lack of ambition" in her man. If he doesn't advance his career over time he's deemed worthless and is discarded. Same thing. Men are valued for their resources and monetizable skills, women are valued for their looks. Both depreciate over time, men just have the capacity to increase their wealth but have to constantly keep advancing at ever increasing speed, while women can at best stall the loss of theirs but it's ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:36 PM
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Being single for most women is a choice. Of course it's easier to live with your own choices, rather than facing your own inadequacy, like what men have to do. Yes, you don't complain about men not liking you, because it's not true, you complain how half of the world is shit and is beneath your attention. A man that remains single for a long time is labeled as an incel, I wouldn't say it's better than what single women have to go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:07 PM
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I thought that was common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:51 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:05 AM
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Based, honestly. I hate the constant pity party on this sub. Low value people should just shut up, nobody cares what they have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:07 AM
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If men want to have sex with you it means you're physically attractive. No more, no less. I think it should make you happy... what's there to lament?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:23 PM
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Pretty sure only men complain about it, no? Women don't care, they can get sex whenever and they don't want a family anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:30 AM
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Yes, trad gender roles. Women consider many things to be beneath them in dating, such as approaching, paying on dates, escalating... I think it will go away in time, equality cuts both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:04 PM
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Nice to know you hate your grandpa, but it has nothing to do with my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:36 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:12 PM
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A barrista isn't necessarily brainless. She's probably not a secret genius, but she can be a perfectly alright human being. She's just not successful. Which doesn't matter for a woman on a dating market, but it's paramount for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:34 PM
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Men don't really need or care about comfort, they need purpose to get up and go to work every day. If you have no purpose then life doesn't matter. Most things are distractions to numb yourself when going gets tough. But this topic doesn't belong in this sub. But yeah, men want to love and be loved, same as women. Unlike women they can't get it easily, but telling them to go play badminton or take up potting instead is not going to be seen as a good alternative lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:53 PM
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Women have a rising sexlessness rate? Where are you getting this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:54 AM
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Not really. The mythical cute barrista is often brought up as an ideal partner. A male barrista is pathetic and a butt end of a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:52 AM
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It's like a millionaire saying money don't bring happiness. You're a woman, your perspective is very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:51 AM
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"belief in and advocacy of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes expressed especially through organized activity on behalf of women's rights and interests." As a basis of its existence it assumes inequality as the status quo and pushes for increase of women's rights. This is what it is in practice, which is more important. It only cares about increasing female rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:24 PM
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Feminism assumes everything is biased towards men and works to change society to be biased towards women. It's a female rights movement, not an equality movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:37 AM
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I don't know about children, but yes... it's not hard to maintain a flat in an urban environment. Buying groceries too. Come on, what are we talking about here? The second part is true, of course. A man has to earn a decent wage to support a woman who can't work if they want to start a family. But lots of women don't want that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:31 PM
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That's what migrants are for. Traditional Ahmed will be the plumber and the bricky, while Billy Beta is jerking it and sobbing to himself in his little studio apartment. It will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:55 PM
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Why discuss it? It's pointless. It's like discussing the sun rising. Yes, it does. Cool. So? Do you just want to vent?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:11 PM
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Men need to stop pretending any 20 year old guy will happily date a 50 year old fat woman with Tourettes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:06 PM
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True. But for the market to be balanced men need to start demanding the same things from women. I wonder if that is theoretically possible? Maybe with the advent of realistic sex robots, when men can get good enough sex easily, they will only start getting with women if they find them interesting as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:01 PM
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A man's success is determined by how much money he's got and how many women he has fucked. A guy with a good job but no sexual value will end up betabuxxing, so unsuccessful. Having said that, it's probably possible to have both and not be a bad person. Just gotta be both rich and hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:57 PM
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There is still the factor of luck. An unattractive guy might use TRP to snatch a girl with low self-esteem. The chances are low, but there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:18 PM
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Better opt out of relationships at that point. What a nightmare. We have to be better than this, otherwise it's all over.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:58 PM
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Introverted women are cute. It's excusable for women to be that way. Men need to be assertive, get out there, be in the thick of things, be active. Introverted and shy men are not real men, those are weak traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:51 AM
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Yes, introversion and shyness should be categorized as mental disorders in men and treated accordingly. Maybe someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:22 AM
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Below 80k USD yearly income, weak physique (can't deadlift/squat/bench 4/3/2 plates), low body count.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/26 04:57 PM
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Because they don't care that much about the guy. Maybe they're using him as an emotional tampon for the time being until they're ready to find someone they actually want, maybe they don't want to give up free dinners, maybe they're not used to being single and view it as embarassing, maybe they wanted to get back at the ex and jumped at the first possible opportunity to make them jealous, maybe they thought they needed someone other than the "bad boy" type they usually go for etc. etc. To make i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:40 PM
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I don't want to keep repeating myself. They do that to please the high value man, to keep him happy, to keep him locked in. If the man is low value, they think it's not worth it. In fact, they may be repulsed by a low value man, to the point they might withhold sex totally. Many such cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:17 PM
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I never said they enjoyed any sex acts. They were willing to perform them for a higher value ex regardless, but would refuse to do that for a lower value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:50 PM
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Ehh, don't know about simps if you're a land whale. She can easily find a guy who will go spelunking with her, but give her resources? Not sure about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:32 PM
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Sure, but they can no longer get the guys they want. That's the tragedy of the wall. The chads are all on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:21 PM
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The argument is that women don't enjoy sex that much in the first place. They put out to please their man. And if they don't put out, it's because they don't care to please the man. The obvious continuation of the pattern, is that if she used to do certain things with guy A, but refuses to with guy B, it's because she cared about guy A and doesn't about guy B.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:02 AM
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Holy moly, real corner chair enjoyer over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:52 AM
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Bro, young pretty chicks turn into absolute 300 pound Walmart Karens in the span of 5 years. Not all of them, obviously, that shit hits an average woman like a truck full of manure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:44 AM
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A very attractive young woman is living life on easy mode. The vast majority of women wake up, go to work to earn their median salary, come back, go to sleep and repeat, just like men. By the way, the surest path to empathy with any group is working with them. Like, in a workplace, job-related. Racism, sexism, homophobia etc. all go away if you have people routinely working with each other in the same building every day. Dating is a special thing, it's very far from a normal occasion and if all …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:04 AM
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When people think "traditional" around these parts they imagine 18-19 century British gentry or some shit. No, most traditional families throughout history were farmers or fishers, and everybody would work because they had to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:18 AM
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Normal marriage after having settled. Imagine being lukewarm about a guy initially and then 5 years in he loses hair and gets fatter. You will start outright hating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:48 AM
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Cope. Sex and romance are not a small part of life. Arguably, love is the most important part of it. Women can find it with a snap of their finger. They are the only ones free to choose. Men have lost this battle, trying to reframe won't help here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:19 AM
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Yes. Don't be a simp for random women. Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:05 AM
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Prostitutes are the goods, not the buyers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:41 PM
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You are an anomaly. Most women wouldn't even think about approaching men. Being approached is always the only strategy. And it it fails, they don't consider approaching themselves, they just assume men must have been malfunctioning that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:33 AM
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A woman will often mention that as a shit-test or to open the Overton window a little wider for your abuse. If she can get you to accept you're inferior to her ex, then she gets more power over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:28 AM
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Women only come up to the absolute 0.1% of men. Not even 1%, but beyond that. Obviously a lot get rejected. It's the same as a man coming on to a woman at that point. No woman would initiate with a regular guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:19 AM
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It's futile to criticize that. Women aren't participants in the dating market, they ARE the dating market. It's men who try to outbid each other, so naturally the discourse is about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:15 AM
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Immigrants are unqualified labor and usually lead to overall decrease in quality of life in the country. Besides, immigrants will stop coming of the economic situation worsens. They come to share in the success built by the natives after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:52 AM
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Receiving compliments about your personality probably means there is nothing else to compliment you for. But sure, he can be both, theoretically. It's not as good as being just good looking, though. Being safe and useful means you are not exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:48 AM
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Basically, it means you're not attractive. You are useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:39 PM
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China had a huge overpopulation problem and have overcorrected so now it's biting them in the ass. Other nations are in a worse state. Many countries are importing migrants en-masse, you think it's just to buy votes? No, there's a shortage of working hands. Poland, for example, will lose 20% of it's population by 2060. Japan will lost 30%. It's a catastrophe, not a small dip. Everybody has a choice to reproduce or not. People in Congo just don't give a damn and/or have children to use them as un…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:55 PM
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It is hard to believe. Why would she be dating someone she was afraid of to such an extend she would let him violate her? Let alone on multiple occasions. Sounds like a terrible, but fringe case to me. The vast majority of relationships aren't like that. Curiosity? I mean, maybe? Granted, it depends. If it's one weird thing she tried, like a threesome, and she hated it, then sure. If she was doing something on the regular and then magically stopped liking it, then I find it hard to believe, obvi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:42 PM
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Okay. So are you arguing that men aren't good lovers in general? Sounds like a specific problem between two specific people to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:34 PM
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What points? You said women don't like sex much, but men do, so men should bring greater value.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:26 PM
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Why do think men are capable of bringing more value?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:07 PM
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I heard that argument before but I just find it hard to believe that. It sounds like an exception to the rule. Very few women would allow themselves to be forced to do something that didn't want to. So she probably wanted to do all those things. Yet she doesn't want now. The only thing that has changed is her partner. It's not that she doesn't want to do all those things. She just doesn't want to do all those things with ME. I mean it's pretty understandable, no? Obviously if the sex with me is …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:46 PM
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Very gracious of you to assume it isn't inherent. Why do you think it isn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:36 PM
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Disagree. It's about being loved and wanted. If she's colder with me than she was with her ex, then she's clearly not that much into me. Then comes the question of why is she with me at all? Probably as a confidence boost or some material gain. That's what I don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:29 PM
3

If you don't value being with the opposite sex, then how is "just don't date" invalid?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:22 PM
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How's the latter not true? People don't want to date, they just want their physiological needs fulfilled, which is where women are magnitudes ahead, since they can snap their fingers and have hundreds of men at their beck and call.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:13 PM
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Actually true. All people want is to fuck and and have fun and only women are capable of getting sex at any moment. So women are winning here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:09 PM
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I'd leave her immediately, no options, no forgiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:00 AM
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People from poorer areas keep reproducing like rabbits. All the birth decline in developed countries will lead to is those countries crumbling down. And all those nice technologies you mentioned will stop being developed. Aint nobody in Congo is splitting the atom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:57 AM
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So younger guys date older women because... it's more difficult? That doesn't track. Young guys probably can't get girls their own age, so they make do with whoever they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:52 AM
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The most normal thing in the world. You can't expect people to compliment you out of the blue as a man.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/26 12:19 PM
0

Pretty sure he had and still has many business advisors.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:05 AM
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So you're saying it's natural for attractive people to be horrible and you should be prepared to suck it up if you want to be around said attractive people? Pretty hot take.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:56 AM
0

Well then you hit the gym and hope for the best lol The odds are against you but are never zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:45 PM
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I think the majority are this way. It depends on the type of a relationship. If you're actually living together, then no amount of "convenience of access" will make up for living under the same roof with a person you don't like. If you're meeting a few times a week to bang and are essentially just fuck buddies... then, sure, I can see myself getting into a relationship like that. But I don't think that's what we're discussing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 01:38 PM
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Okay, fair enough. Would I want a poor job? No. Would I work one if I was starving and had no other choice? Absolutely. The point of a job is to get paid so you don't die, and even a poor job fulfills it. Do I want an unattractive girlfriend? No. Would I date one if I had no other choice and was an incel? No. The point of having a girlfriend is to have an outlet for your sexual desires. Not just sex itself, but desire for companionship as a whole. Having a relationship with a woman I don't like …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 01:18 PM
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You have to file a resume to apply for a job. No such things when dating. You only get surface level of information, especially if we're talking before going on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 01:09 PM
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All analogies are false by default. What is your point? I don't think it has much to do with the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:59 PM
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Depends on how desperate you are. You can guess that being an airport security comes with stinking hours and having to do an occasional cavity search. You never know with how bad it will get with a person. You go on a date because you think the girl is pretty and doesn't seem insane. Whether or not you are compatible on a deeper level requires time and probably actually being in a relationship. But to get there a man needs to put on a performance. I have nothing against courting, I think it can …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:53 PM
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Realistically that only works for poorly paid entry level jobs. I guess the analogy would be desperate women who have agreed to lower their standards because they're so unattractive? Sounds like a race to the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:42 PM
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I dunno. I might fake it if the pay was good and I thought I could get away with it. I'm not sure what you're getting at, though? If I am not up to women's standards I shouldn't try to get a girlfriend or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:40 PM
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How would you know whether you're compatible or not before dating? You get to discover these things while going on dates. Compatibility is for keeping a relationships, not getting one. Going on dates for a man is like a job application for a position that has hundreds of applicants (or thousands if the woman is attractive), so obviously you need to stand out massively to have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:37 AM
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Yes. We need fewer simps, which might lead to fewer Karens. Wouldn't that be a thing to behold.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:43 AM
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That's the point of the advice. To keep undesirable men away, not letting them infiltrate the dating pool, lest the woman might accidentally stumble upon him and date down. That would be manipulative, from their point of view. They would rather the dregs stay in their lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:13 PM
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It's all self-evident. Nobody is dying alone and destitute out of the goodness of their heart. Not if they can help it. If you can fuck others over to get ahead then you will. It's human nature. If you don't do that you either have no guts or don't need or want your goals hard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:33 PM
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I don't have the skills to manipulate anyone, so I've never given it much thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:51 PM
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I don't really subscribe to that ideology, but that's not how the argument goes. Its said that when women say "personality matters" they're just thoughtlessly parroting common points because they sound nice or maliciously virtue signaling to appear as good people and keep the simps in their pens while actively believing the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:59 PM
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Yeah, you're asking for people to be content with dying alone so that you feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:57 PM
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If your win condition is being virtuous no matter the cost, then yeah. But it's not. Being virtuous is not what anybody wants. People want to fuck, spend and take with wild abandon and suffer no consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:12 PM
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It's not about deserving, but yes. If you can steal and not get punished you're a winner. Probably means you're a high level politician, gangster or somebody else on top of the food chain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:09 PM
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Being a moral martyr earns you nothing but a complimentary insult to your injury. It all comes down to whether you want to be a loser or a winner. You either get what you want or you dont, everything else is cope or psyop run by your competitors in the race called life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:55 PM
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You shouldn't. They complain to other women that their steak is too buttery, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:40 AM
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If being yourself gets you no success you have two options: stay alone forever or lie. So obviously you should lie. Fake it till you make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:33 AM
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It's the same as wearing a suit during a business meeting or shaving your armpits as a woman. None of these shows you in any particular light, but not doing them would show you actively going against societal norms and get you judged accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:35 AM
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The red pill believes those kinds of relationships don't exist in the first place and it's all blue pill cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:11 AM
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If you feel lonely, then you can fix it by finding friends and a partner. The healing isn't instantaneous, but over time the mental issues will subside because the reality has changed and you will eventually accept and be better for it. So yes, sex aka finding a significant other, will definitely help.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:09 AM
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It's enough to want one, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:32 AM
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Sure there is. Call it what you want. One day you wake up and think about how cute it would be to braid your daughter's hair and you realize you want a child. That's the alarm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:41 AM
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When you have countless options you aren't concerned. When the well starts to dry up you get spooked. She still would like to sleep around, that hasn't changed, but she can't get attractive young guys anymore. A mid guy isn't what she wants, it's the only thing she can get at this point, now that she's mid herself. And she has to lock him down, because even a mid guy isn't guaranteed anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:15 AM
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She doesn't want to sleep with them. They're mid. She wants a mid man for the stability he can provide and not much else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:10 AM
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Because she can't get attractive guys anymore or her biological alarm got too loud to ignore. The music has stopped and she has to pick the chair in front of her or not get one at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:01 AM
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If she wasn't a committing type before then it's not about you, it's about her. She has changed and decided it's time to zip up and find something stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:58 AM
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It's like that for men as well. It's just that being single is viewed as pathetic for a man from both male and female perspective, while a woman is only judged by other women for being single. So there is a bit of extra pressure on men to find a relationship, but not that much. Everybody prefers to stay single these days. Which isn't good, by the way, I don't know why some people in this thread are celebrating the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:26 AM
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Pretty good ragebait. But no, if we have to go there, women are the boring gender but that's because they can get away with being boring. E.g. most women have no sense of humor because they never had to develop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:26 AM
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0 required skills doesn't equal 0 required effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:16 AM
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If we're talking sexual attraction, mid 20s is peak for all people. It's all downhill physically when you hit 30.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 06:06 AM
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I would only spend big on my girlfriend, not some random I just met.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:12 AM
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But it's true that people have different value in life and dating in particular. Some people are hot and desirable, some are ugly and nobody wants them. It's just how things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:06 AM
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Nobody cares about what men want. Dating is a job interview for men with 100 others eager to fill the position.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:20 PM
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Of course. You just described a simp, one of the most universally shamed creatures out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 04:37 AM
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She can do whatever she wants, just don't play the victim when bad men act bad in a relationship while you are specifically attracted to bad men. She chose to dive into the pool with a shark in it, so don't blame the shark for not turning into a goldfish just because you showed attention to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 04:12 AM
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Not blame men. That's all I can really ask of her. As for your second question, it depends on her actual relationships. I mean, there are extreme cases like women writing love letters to literal felons in prison and then trying to wife them up. No unluck involved here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:20 PM
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Taking accountability for her own actions. She is attracted to trash men and she is attracted to them precisely because they're trash. Bad boys be bad. Her views and desires are the source of her bad relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:27 PM
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No, it's not about putting women down. It's just that redpillers don't see women as human, but as some other species you need to "handle" in special ways. They specifically train to not relate to women, because they see it as something that leads to false understanding of them. Plus redpill contains a lot of upsetting concepts like hypergamy (she is always trying to abandon you because she is looking for a better option, so you have to be prepared for that) or that women are attracted to dark tr…
/r/ExRedPill25/02/26 07:09 PM
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That's just how the world works. Women are the lock, men are the key. Women give, men take. An attractive woman has 100 men vying for her attention at any time, she chooses which ones to give attention to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:55 AM
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TF is "selling your soul"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:19 PM
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No, I don't think so. Women are gatekeepers of sex. Men have to earn sex, women have to be willing to give it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:00 PM
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Being undateable is pretty objective. The OP provided certain criteria that make men so. For example, if you make little money, ugly, live with parents then you're undateable. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:05 AM
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Personality matters and there's a lot more to personality than assets and career.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:23 AM
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So if two mid-20s people live together and the girl is a stay at home housewife, it's unreasonable to expect her to cook her husband a dinner so he can eat when he gets home from work?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:38 PM
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Isn't that what love is?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:31 PM
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Being pleasant, peaceful and friendly is important. We don't need you for your resources, that's a woman thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:36 PM
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Of course it's gendered. Most men really don't care whether a girl makes minimum wage or CEO money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:02 AM
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It means a lot. Women are just so used to it that it means nothing to them. Us guys will remember a compliment made about our looks for years lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:36 AM
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Whenever a man says something similar it means he's either a closeted homosexual or terminally online.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:10 AM
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What does "entitled" mean? Everybody is entitled to their own opinion, it goes without saying. It can still be a stupid opinion, though. If a woman wants a 6'5 millionaire and is wondering why oh why can't she find someone like that to be with... well, she's being silly, and I can point and laugh at her. As people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:02 AM
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You wouldn't look ridiculous at all, you'd look great. Please trust me, I'm an expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 07:55 AM
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That's an edge case. Almost everyone yearns for romantic relationships but women have a much easier time of getting into one. So it stand to reason that a 45 year old single women is single by choice having done everything she wanted, while a single 45 year old man is more likely to be a life-long incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 07:52 AM
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I aint reading all that. Just ignore my reply then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:15 PM
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What doesn't exist? Virginity? Men are supposed to pursue women and procreate, it's hard-wired into our very existence. If you're a virgin it means you've utterly failed in your basic biological function.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:43 AM
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A man's worth is determined by two factors: how much power he's got (read money) and how many women he bangs. So being a virgin makes you half-worthless as a man, it means you're broken and you will remain broken until you fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:29 AM
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When men say they don't care about a woman's career it just means they don't factor it in their decision process when it comes to whether they want to date a women or not. It's not like we think she's wasted her time or has no achievements in life if she's got a good career. Good for her. We just don't think it makes her any more desirable as a dating partner, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:20 AM
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If you don't have your own house/flat you're undatable wdym "is this the 2000s"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:48 AM
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A 300 pound girl knows nobody is genuinely attracted to her. It's bottom feeder trash getting with another bottom feeder trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:39 AM
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Well that's vile, but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:22 AM
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I can't imagine this being true. You make good money doing a fine job. What else could possibly matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:10 AM
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But most guys will be second at something for a girl. Or third, or fifth. It's just inevitable, there is always a bigger fish. "At least she's with me right now and not those other guys" is only way to cope with things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:17 AM
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Can't have winners without losers. You provide a good dim backdrop for the shining happy people of the world. You role is very important. Find solace in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:11 AM
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We're not going to have many next generations. Given the choice, 9/10 people will choose comfort over fulfillment. Why have a family and kids when it's so difficult and stressful if you can do without and there's no societal pressure to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:09 AM
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The worth of a man is determined by the money he has made and the women he has fucked. If you are a virgin you have failed as a man. If you are also poor, you literally have no value.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:56 AM
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Regarding your second point: they tried "being genuine" aka being themselves and failed. So now they're faking it, which is the only recourse. They're just bad at faking it, but they might get there with practice. Personally, I'm abrasive and uncaring and it's impossible for me to change. So I try to act like I'm pleasant and caring. Yes, the mask falls off sometimes, but it's the best I can do, and it may be the case for those people as well. They ask how they should act to be successful with w…
/r/ExRedPill05/11/25 08:48 AM
1

More broadly, people need to accept that life is mostly a slog where you struggle to survive and eventually die. It's not meant to be a constant happy fun time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:32 PM
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You're not discovering America here... obviously. How much money you make, how much power you have, how many women you get - the three metrics to determine a man's worth. Have been since time immemorial.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:31 PM
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This is a very well known thing. What's there to discuss?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:52 PM
1

Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:36 AM
12

Just extraodrinary greed elevated to a lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:53 AM
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Of course they don't. Of course they do. People that are good in any skill are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:01 PM
2

What a silly analogy and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:28 AM
2

You don't understand why being viewed as a human ATM is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:35 PM
2

Cheaters are liars. Untrustworthy and unrealiable. Cheating has no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:32 PM
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It does have bearing. You're clearly not as attractive to your partner as you'd like to be. It helps explain certain behavior. What you do with it it's up to you. Leave your partnet, have them explain themselves, just take it and live with it... whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:58 PM
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It's not about the other guy, it's about how your woman sees and treats you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:56 PM
1

Just because you're attracted to someone doesn't mean you have the ability to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:23 PM
1

Black pill says there is no solution. Red pill says the solution is leveling up to get into the top 20%. The truth is that you keep trying and eventually you'll succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:14 AM
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Even a mildly attractive young woman can stuff herself into a cocktail dress, simply exist near men and get someone to approach her. The Wall is when this no longer works.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:36 PM
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I don't think anyone should want to lower their standards if they can afford to have them high, but anyway... You wonder what can you get out of a person you're with? It's a mentality of a leech. For men, companionship is its own reward. I suppose some women struggle to understand such a concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:13 PM
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There are extremes out there, sure. But the bottom line is that the "crazy" girl is hot and isn't boring. A guy that used to be a player won't settle for a frumpy girl that resembles a paralyzed starfish in the sheets just because she's "stable", which is what women do. The guy will still find the "stable" girl attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:31 PM
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Pretty sure I essentially summarized your entire post. "Fucking the hot guy was cool, but now I gotta settle for the chump with the money, oh well." The problem with "settling" is that you valued the hot guy for who and what he was, but you don't value the beta, you value his money and what he can do for you. And you lament having to settle, it's clear from your analogy. Don't tell me you don't want to live in a mansion. It's just that you can't afford it. So here you are, sitting in your shabby…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:23 PM
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They increased their standards. They still find the "stable" girl hot, she just offers more than the crazy girl on top of being attractive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:14 PM
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Well, yeah. Marriage is an economic union first and foremost. A rich person also will rare date broke people because they're from different social circles, they don't have much in common, plus the rich people often find poor people disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:39 PM
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Those guys value the "stable" girl for all the same qualities as those "crazy" girls. Women don't value betas, they value their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:36 PM
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Yeah, you get older and understand that money is important, so you settle for a guy you don't like, but who is financially secure. Basically, he has to compensate for his lack of charisma and looks by providing you with resources. Would you rather be with a good looking guy? Yes. But now you're forced to settle for a lesser man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:34 PM
1

Because for women it's a choice. There are very few femcels out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:27 PM
1

Money, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:27 PM
3

No. Another Red Pill belief is AWALT, but it's bullshit. There are decent women around. Never tolerate someone who won't respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:13 AM
2

One and two aren't exactly bad now, are they? It's the "Fine, I'll take the beta cuz I'm not getting any younger" attitude that is quite loathsome, but in the end it's those guys taking them. Have some dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:40 AM
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It's just that men are raised to be "tougher", that's what is expected of them and most try to act like that. But of course very few men can perfectly control themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:33 AM
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Not overweight is probably the most important thing. Then there's a myriad of things such as long and straight legs, good skin, good teeth, large eyes, large and perky breasts, firm and round butt, wide hips. But, again, those matter far less. Just be slim or close to slim and look healthy, that's all that truly matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:02 PM
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Boyfriend =/= husband Hookup material means good looking. Boyfriend material means good looking, decent enough dude that she likes to spend time with. At least that's what I think most women think when they say "boyfriend material". Now, "husband material" is different imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:03 PM
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Undesirable people are undesirable for each other as well, you can't help who you're attracted to. Fat chicks won't date manlets, obese dudes won't date cripples etc. At least when they're sub 30 years old. Eventually people understand that status and money is what truly matters and start looking for an economic partnership, not a loving relationship, and consequentially stop caring about physical attraction as much. I agree that social skills are more important for your success than looks if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:17 AM
2

It's even harder for a man to have a long lasting relationship than sex, since you can't really have one without the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:59 AM
0

The Wall just means you no longer can easily attract the men you actually want to attract, hence being forced to settle for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:15 AM
2

Most of these dudes never held anything heavier than their dicks in their hands, I don't think they'll be too dangerous with a pitchfork. I wouldn't worry too much about the great incel uprising. They will just go and be wageslaves until they get a heart attack from junk food or finally climb into a noose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:33 AM
1

Bad looks/bad status or both. What else?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:26 AM
2

Men's standarts are much lower, so the number of truly undersirable women is low. But those that exist are just invisible, same as undesirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:25 AM
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Hate is harsh. When it comes to dating, women are akin to employers, men are akin to employees. One is in an inherently advantageous position and is going to leverage it for selfish gains. Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:34 PM
2

Wait, players are vilified? Since when?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:41 PM
1

A year? Nah. At least two. Also that dude is extremely lean. Like... 10% body fat. This is not easy to maintain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:32 AM
1

Most women think "muscular" and imagine a roided up bodybuilder and also think "kinda athletic" and imagine Chris Evans as Captain America, even though it takes a decade of grinding in the gym to get a physique like that naturally. Women do prefer muscular men, just not meat mountains that have trenbolone instead of blood coursing through their veins.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:23 AM
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Isn't it obvious? A man is supposed to be a provider, a protector, an instigator, a leader etc. Someone who takes an active, domineering role. A man who doubts himself will have trouble acting like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:12 AM
1

You seem pretty nasty. I don't buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:01 PM
1

Are you approaching and "being nice" to fat men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:17 PM
2

Femininity is something you can lose by actively working towards it. Masculinity is something you lose by not working hard enough. Losing femininity is pretty hard and can only be accomplished if you really want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:10 AM
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Nobody wants to be just another notch on the belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:55 PM
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He said "losing weight doesn't do anything", which is a harmful message to spread around. He hasn't lost weight. He needs to lose another 40 pounds before he can claim he has, and we're just pointing that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:44 PM
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You might have some, but if you're young it's not going to be awful. Better to have a bit of loose skin than 40-50 pounds of extra fat, especially if we disregard bitches for a second and take health into consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:57 PM
1

Healthy weight if you don't have much muscle mass is more like 170-175 lbs at 6'.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:54 PM
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Correct, fat just means unfuckable, being fit is just being at the starting point. However, you're still fat, so I don't think your experience can be used as evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:51 PM
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Most women lose attraction to a man if he's not making more money than her. You yourself voiced contempt for low-earning men multiple times in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:08 AM
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So what you're saying is working/middle class men aren't worth dating if you're an upper class woman. Yeah... that's how it works already, it's common knowledge. Women only love what a man can do for them, not the man himself. So date a rich guy if you're rich yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:04 AM
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Men get all that from women and more by just being around them. Women want material things. The man has to be a provider first and everything else a distant second, the woman just has to be herself and not a total nutcase.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:52 PM
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Of course it is. You need to be loyal, you need to be helpful, you need to give gifts, you need to sacrifice your time for them, you need to compromise on certain habits etc. etc. Maintaining a relationship is a full time job with no weekends or vacation days.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:35 PM
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Men love women, women love what men can give them. You seem to gravitate towards the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:28 PM
1

The western world as a whole is schizo when it comes to ideologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:25 PM
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No, money is the most important thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:41 PM
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That's me. I'm at ~1800 right now. I started at 1200 calories per day, now that was a mistake. You know you're going off the deep end when you have dreams doing unspeakable things to an apple pie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:47 AM
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Doesn't mean that a guy earing 40k is a 5/10. He's 2/10. Those other people aren't even on the scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:06 AM
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Well that's certainly a take. Mature people understand that the only thing that actually matters is money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:59 AM
1

Google pandas, merino sheep, cuckoo, grizzly bears, lions. Even primates have been observed killing their own offsprings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:46 AM
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Thanks man. The grind goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:30 PM
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Tons of animals abandon their offsprings or even outright kill them themselves for various reasons. At any rate, humans aren't deer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:29 PM
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Being a leader means you get to tell others what to do so you're free to do whatever you want. Fucking around being one of those things. One of the betas can take care of the burden of raising children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:21 PM
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I'm still fat but I dropped 30+ kgs and honestly, I agree. It was only difficult the first couple of weeks even at an 800-900 calorie deficit. I think most people don't even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:49 PM
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I'm 6'0, was fat my whole life, 275 pounds at my heaviest. Dropped to 200 pounds, so obviously still have a bit to go. No difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:45 PM
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Time kills attraction. Familiarity comes with time, but so does boredom. People easily get used to good things such as comfort and start taking them for granted, but always notice and remember the bad things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:06 AM
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Favors are a common thing, but if he doesn't know you that well and is still offerring to go way out of his way to help then he's probably simping. Just use common sense. What would you do for a stranger just out of the goodness of your heart? Something that requires little to no effort, right? Any other case would mean you wish to get something in return. But yeah, "why did you think I offered" isn't so much about all men expecting to get fucked for showing basic kindness. He thought he was sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:02 AM
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Yeah, I didn't. I understand, I get like that myself all the time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:23 PM
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We're talking exercise here, not features you're born with. And the last part is just... wow. If you actually think that then let me tell you. No. Doesn't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:14 PM
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So you don't know how to vet, that's your issue? Few people do, it requires general smarts and experience. Just go on a date. If a guy isn't a total piece of shit, go further with him. Gotta take your chances, no other way around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:08 PM
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I'm in my 30s now. My life is already basically over, I'm just waiting until it's made official. I've missed my best years and it's only downhill from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:52 PM
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You think some aggressive lowlife that's twice your size that is determined to do your hard will be easily intimidated?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:40 AM
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A bit envious, but regretful? Nah. It couldn't have been any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:17 PM
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Are you putting yourself out there? Or are you expecting to be hit on in daily life? If it's the latter then it's not going to happen. Get into a cocktail dress, draw some eyebrows and go to a club.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:01 AM
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Since when are oats, eggs and chicken became the food of the elite? Losing weight is incredibly easy and doesn't cost you a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:28 PM
0

0 - A horrific eldritch abomination and an affront to God's green Earth. Doesn't actually exist. 1 - Extremely malformed people. 2 - Mildly malformed or morbidly obese. 3 - Regularly obese or extremely unattractive face. 4 - Chubby but with a normal face, normal body but somewhat unattractive. https://i.pinimg.com/originals/7f/78/93/7f7893c916103c13fceac26b0fad1dbd.jpg 5 - Normal body, normal face or slightly overweight but pretty. https://media.istockphoto.com/photos/young-blond-woman-in-plain-…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:36 PM
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Poor people with shitty jobs can have other qualities beyond being a fine slampiece. But yeah, classism is a thing, but mostly with people who were born into wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:32 PM
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Dude here. Go to a gym and get an ass so phat it almost acquires its own gravitational pull. I guarantee it will be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:03 PM
1

You realize you just described the perfect woman, right? Pick 2 out of all of those qualities if you want to be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:48 PM
1

Now that's where you're wrong. There's no excuse for giving up your dignity, unless you're doing it for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:08 PM
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No. Just find it entertaining here in a morbid sort of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:33 PM
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Are you kidding? A lonely nerd without a girlfriend is the archetypical image of a failed human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:44 PM
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It's the wall. They hit their late 30s and know they can't get away with it anymore and have to stick to whatever they've got. Before that loyalty doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 09:20 AM
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