| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Always Remember That Women Treat Men Differently Based On Their Level Of Attraction…..Do you feel good enough? | /r/seduction | 10/04/26 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Always Remember That Women Treat Men Differently Based On Their Level Of Attraction…..It doesn’t work because you’ve never done anything to overcome it | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 07:08 PM |
| 1 | ¿How can I get my girl back from this famous asshole?Being jacked is feminine | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?Do you consider being honest and upfront dumping your emotions all over the girl? | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 01:25 AM |
| 1 | I miss being “girl crazy” and being very horny. My libido and interest in women is almost non existent at 22.Check your test levels. | /r/seduction | 07/11/25 09:27 AM |
| 1 | What were the dumbest "hints" you got from a woman?Do you think most people have the IT factor? | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 05:10 AM |
| 1 | What were the dumbest "hints" you got from a woman?If you think it doesn’t matter then you really have no idea | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 05:07 AM |
| 8 | What were the dumbest "hints" you got from a woman?Your attitude is repulsive | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 05:03 AM |
| 2 | This is all you need - Old 4chan gemLow self esteem. You can work at it | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 06:08 AM |
| 1 | "Never Chase Women" doesn’t mean "ignore them and hope they notice you"Dude it’s not complicated at all. Like at all. It’s complicated because you’re in your own head trying to rationalise, control every millisecond of the interaction. | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 03:13 AM |
| 2 | I feel insecure about not being able to have sex every dayHis own mind | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Why just why are we so scared?You are scared to approach. Some people are not (hint means you can change it). Because you don’t feel good enough (subconsciously) and perceive them as better than you and as a result you are fearful and get anxiety | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Share a story of the best seducer you’ve come across IRL, I’ll go first.It’s all about energy. | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 07:03 AM |
| 2 | I don't know how to woo womenAll comes down to self esteem and how you feel about yourself and whether you (subconsciously) think you deserve her attention | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 06:58 AM |
| 1 | How do I ask a girl out when she is in a group of friends ?Even if he wasn’t your usual physical type? | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 06:49 AM |
| 1 | CONFUSEDAppreciate the vulnerability. What makes you feel those things? | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 09:17 PM |
| 1 | On Neediness: Trick yourself to like her lessYou are enough as you are :) | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 07:28 AM |
| 1 | CONFUSEDWhat are you hiding from? | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 05:41 AM |
| 3 | How not to cold approach from a woman’s perspectiveThe energy of the surrounding environment (it being night) also plays into the equation. Not just his | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 05:34 AM |
| 2 | On Neediness: Trick yourself to like her lessI could be wrong but you look for flaws in others because you’re insecure yourself and have low self esteem? | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 05:32 AM |
| 2 | On Neediness: Trick yourself to like her lessIt shows you have confidence and there is nothing much attractive to girls | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 05:31 AM |
| 9 | Thoughts on "The Gaze"?You’re dead right about this. Communication is mostly non-verbal (tone of voice, eye contact, relaxed body position due to being comfortable). If you can master eye contact and other non verbals then you can increase attraction far more than words ever will. | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Girl's interested but doesn't want to leave her friend alone.This is a human thing not a girls thing. | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 05:08 AM |
| 1 | What’s your biggest delusion or cope when it comes to game?Therapy | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Alpha Male BullshitI disagree with it’s in your nature or it’s not. It’s in EVERYONE’S NATURE but our conditioning has lead us away from this fact. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Wondered about openers and how can i be more playful during the convoThis right here. If you’re drowning in anxiety, your mind is in self preservation mode and won’t think of playful or flirty things to say. Work on your inner game and everything else will naturally flow | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Is attraction either there or not?Self fulfilling prophecy. | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 08:00 AM |
| 2 | Would copying their avoidant attachment style work? When im the complete oppositeYou can play along but the mask and facade will fall away soon enough and you’ll be seen for how you really are. | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Attraction KillersThis right here. Once the negative emotions dissipate (again depending on how severe) then the underlying attraction comes back especially if you’ve improved yourself | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Why do women have high physical standards when looking for a hookup but not so much when looking for a relationship?Extreme example but the first guy actually is a guy worth fucking while the second is not. | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do women have high physical standards when looking for a hookup but not so much when looking for a relationship?Confirmation bias is a heavy drug. | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 04:27 AM |
| 1 | How are you navigating the insanely flaky nature of the dating scene right now?What do you consider normal? | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 04:25 AM |
| 13 | How are you navigating the insanely flaky nature of the dating scene right now?Yes true, but you have to provide an emotional connection for them to want to pursue meaning you have to be invested to some degree. | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 04:24 AM |
| 4 | Any guys here on the more average side have a good amount of success?Yep. Make her feel desired (not needed) and her attraction for you will grow | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 04:22 AM |
| 11 | Any guys here on the more average side have a good amount of success?Exactly. Make the most with the cards you were dealt. | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 04:19 AM |
| 6 | Best Ways To Get A Kiss After A Date?Not if you have social intelligence and only do it on a girl who wants you to kiss her | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 05:16 AM |
| 0 | How can i be less needyImprove your self esteem | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 07:36 AM |
| 0 | Woman who act entitled and stuck upDismissive avoidant do NOT have high self esteem. It looks like that from the outside but deep down they have low self esteem and fear of getting hurt which js why they act dismissive as a defence mechanism | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 12:47 AM |
| 9 | How did you get her to chase you?YOU have to ask when out. The overwhelming majority of girls in the initial stages will not ask you out. She will be much more attracted to a guy who goes after what he wants instead of waiting for her to ask. If she rejects you (assuming you’re socially calibrated) then she isn’t interested and nothing you can do matters. | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 05:11 AM |
| 7 | How did you get her to chase you?Why do you want girls to chase you? Very few girls chase and it’s usually for the wrong reasons. | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself.No one is saying to be an emotionless rock but if you have the emotional stability of a 15 year old then it’s extremely unattractive. | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Underrated problem for babyfaced guysYes I’m the incel | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Underrated problem for babyfaced guysExactly, so you have to lie in order to get what you want. Manipulative at best and predatory at worst. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 02:25 AM |
| 16 | Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked?Born to simp = low self esteem | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Does showing too much interest kill your game long termI would say being needy given you’re questioning it on a daily basis. If you’re in a strong, confident state of mind then you aren’t second guessing everything and you go after what you want. | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 08:06 AM |
| 1 | I don't care what stage you are in life: There's Hope!You’ve been on a lot of dates man to get that feedback from every girl! | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 04:11 AM |
| 8 | How to respond when a girl suggests dinnerShe’s not that interested dude. If a girl wants to see YOU, she doesn’t care what you do. | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Best Ways to get out there moreI’m 5’8 with acne scarring and a barely functional dick and fucked 3 attractive girls in the last 2 weeks. Get the fuck out of your own head and off the internet. The overwhelming majority of girls do not give a fuck ESPECIALLY if you are taller than them which you would be at 5’8. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Mentally stuck on ever girl I go on a date withThat’s not true, you can love multiple times in your life. You just have an unhealthy obsession. | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 03:02 PM |
| 2 | 28 year old good looking,never been on a ''date''I promise you man, you don’t have to do anything extravagant. Just act like a normal dude, show you are attracted to her and escalate when appropriate You got this | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 11:42 PM |
| 2 | 28 year old good looking,never been on a ''date''You can’t let fear control your life. It’ll never be easier and you’ll never feel “ready”. You have to just do it. Experience is the greatest teacher. If a girl is attracted to you, you don’t have to do anything crazy, just lead the interaction and escalate. Remember she is waiting for you to make the move. The only way out is through. You got this. | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 05:12 AM |
| 12 | How to deal with dryness from women?Your tinder message is fucking boring, she has 50 messages from guys saying “hey, how are you?” Pick something out in her profile to message about and go from there. | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Recently out of a breakup (3 months), missing the signs woman leave that they want to hook up, how do I sharpen up my game and close?Would you agree the best response if you do get rejected is something along the lines of “I’m attracted to you, I wanted to kiss you” or “I’m sorry I misread the room? | /r/seduction | 21/04/24 04:35 PM |
| 2 | why does it seem like the less energy a man puts into women, the better his life gets? such an enigmaYeah potentially, could be text frequency, changes in the way you word things, body language etc all indicative of how we feel inside The hardest thing in the world is objectively analysing our own behaviour because our ego will always try to shield us | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 02:36 AM |
| 2 | why does it seem like the less energy a man puts into women, the better his life gets? such an enigmaNot caring = not being needy and not showering her with constant attention It doesn’t mean not existing | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 09:43 PM |
| 6 | why does it seem like the less energy a man puts into women, the better his life gets? such an enigmaIs it because once you’re certain that she would be a good partner then your behaviour changes to become more needy? You just can’t see the change in behaviour yourself? | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Break down of my one-itisShe’s not as interested as you are dude. She hooked up with a guy she found attractive in the club that’s it. You pushed too much already with the needy behaviour of trying to force a date, messaging on multiple different platforms without a response and trying to force a phone call with her. You’re experience such strong emotions of anger and sadness while she isn’t even thinking about you. Move on and maintain your dignity. P.S she knows you aren’t a drug dealer she just used that as an excuse | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 04:43 AM |
| 5 | How do I make a girl feel comfortable during the date?Girls are very adept at picking up your inner state through body language. If you feel nervous/shy then you will act nervous/shy and she will respond accordingly. If you are confident and easy going then she will feel more relaxed | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Body countIt’s a stupid question which is why no one can be fucked answering | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Can I ever not be so afraid of women?Women are dying for men to actually approach them because no one has the balls anymore (done with tact and social awareness) But anyway it’s your life, if you want to resign yourself to a life of misery through your limiting beliefs then be my guest. | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Can I ever not be so afraid of women?Take better photos to make your profile stand out. If your photos are dogshit, don’t expect matches. Online dating is not the only way to meet people either, meet them in person and allow yourself to stand out that way. | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Can I ever not be so afraid of women?Your mindset is the thing holding you back the most. It’s so obvious but you can’t see it. Your conscious beliefs are dictating your reality. Do psychedelics or some shit because nothing will change for you until you see the real problem (hint it’s not your looks) | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 07:17 PM |
| 1 | I want to ask this girl out as we do have good repport when we talk, only issue is I KNOW she works a ton, and does school when she's not. What would he the best approach?You won’t know unless you ask | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 02:25 AM |
| 1 | How to work on your 'vibe' and make it better?The only way out is through. You saying that there’s too much trauma to get through means it’s the thing you need to work the most on. As difficult as it is. Your unconscious beliefs drive your behaviours. | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Good response to "you’re so dreamy"?This is the way | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Is pursuing okayI mean, this is the safe option but a lot of people find flings/long term relationships with people they work with given the nature of spending so much time together | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 11:16 PM |
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