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FIELD REPORTRape_And_Honey/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 10:36 PM
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FIELD REPORTRape_And_Honey/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 04:50 PM
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LTR/MARRIAGERape_And_Honey/r/RedPillWomen22/03/17 02:18 AM
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I dumped my low value boyfriend of just over a year a few weekends ago. I'm buying myself flowers for Valentine's Day because I'm worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:26 AM
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Have any examples of things that you could make comments about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 08:42 PM
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What sorts of things are you vetting for now? What were you earlier in the relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 06:48 PM
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At least they have leg hair to keep their bare legs warm if they wear skirts in the winter. :D
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 12:45 AM
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I had a great suggestion before on how to start dressing more feminine. I bought some clothes that were very different than what I usually wore and I didn't end up feeling comfortable in them, so I didn't often choose to wear them. What I did instead was go by the mantra that any outfit I wore should, if worn by a man, make him look like a cross dresser. Whether this was nice jeans and a feminine shirt or a long jacket over a t-shirt, I wore the clothes that I already had in more feminine ways. …
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/19 08:05 AM
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I wanna say thank you for all the work you've been putting into moderating, you and the other mods! It really makes a big difference for the community.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/18 11:54 PM
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I agree, and I appreciate you hearing me out. It's not so much that I don't know what I want, but that I was having a hard time screening out people I didn't want before a first date. I did go on a first date with several people who had behaved similarly but never more than one as I could tell we weren't a good fit during it. Now I can use what I've learned from those dates and the messaging beforehand to spot people I won't be a good fit with before we go on a date, saving us both time and effo…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 10:32 PM
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Yes, exactly! There's also a much higher chance for them to be gatekeepers. They can also feel insecure because you know as much as them about their hobby.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 10:17 PM
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Me too! I play DnD almost every week during fall/winter/spring but my summers are full of fishing and enjoying the outdoors! I like having a variety of hobbies because they each bring something different to the table.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 10:13 PM
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Yes, I agree! My last partner and I shared many of the same interests on the more nerdy side, and we were together for four years. We played magic the gathering on our second date and were both big video game players. However, it was our different goals and values that split us apart. He decided he never wanted children or a family, and that was a deal breaker. We split amicably after that. I'm currently primarily looking for people who I share goals and values with, and who would make good capt…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 10:10 PM
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I mean, I haven't gone on more than one date with these people. I've always let them down as soon as I've realised I wasn't interested in them. This post was about screening so you can predict you'll not be interested before you go on a date. Also a bit on how to attract people you're more likely to be interested in by changing what you prioritise in your profile. I haven't removed my interests, I still have them in my profile. Just not on the main summary visible when swiping.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 09:58 PM
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I guess my main point is: if a guy you are messaging is complimenting you just for sharing an interest with them, or otherwise putting down others for not sharing that interest, they may not be someone worth having a first date with. Regardless of what the hobby is. Even if it's them saying something like "wow, you're so cool for liking rock climbing!", or "thanks for liking bear wrestling, so many women think it's lame". It's that they're implying you're somehow better than other people or putt…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 09:49 PM
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Do you have some examples of how to phrase stuff to put yourself in that kind of perspective you mention?
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 07:38 PM
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Could you give some examples of how to adjust phrasing? I'm still working on how I present myself on my profile.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 07:37 PM
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It's also that not all of my interests are nerdy. I also fish, I like exploring the outdoors and going camping, I do leatherworking, I like to cook, I bake things like cookies and homemade bread, and I really seeing live music and live comedy. I began looking for people who shared other interests with me rather than making the nerdy interests the focus of my profile.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 07:31 PM
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Yup, that's exactly the thing I found. Sell yourself to your target audience instead of trying to make yourself appealing to as many people as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 07:25 PM
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Yeah! Canola was what the Canadian rapeseed farmers got together to give it a friendlier name. The Can is for Canada and the Ola is because it sounds like oil!
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 03:57 AM
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Their profile doesn't always give away what kind of person they are, and I'm not perfect so don't always pick up on it from the profile alone. This has been a learning experience for me, and I'm getting much better at not matching with them in the first place! Edit: Ah, you mean why play with them at all. It's because I enjoy playing. If there was a group of primarily women, I would join that instead most likely.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 03:35 AM
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It's the slogan of a town in Saskatchewan, Canada! https://i.cbc.ca/1.3042314.1429634219!/fileImage/httpImage/image.jpg_gen/derivatives/16x9_780/tisdale-sask-land-of-rape-and-honey-sign.jpg They mean canola, which is also called rapeseed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 03:26 AM
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Thank you, I appreciate the support!
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 03:23 AM
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Can you elaborate?
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 02:46 AM
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I agree the interests by themselves aren't a yellow flag. However, there's a difference between having them as a hobby and making them your primary identity. Similar to how someone who is a self identified gamer vs someone who plays video games. There's a culture behind the identity that I feel isn't often productive, such as putting women on pedestals.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 02:09 AM
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Exactly my point. I thought initially that I wanted a man who shared these nerdy hobbies of mine. However, after looking through the dating pool and the types of guys I was attracting, I changed my profile. I've decided that I don't want a nerd for the reasons you've mentioned. I also didn't state that I was looking for a perfect man, my standards aren't nearly that high. I believe I have reasonable expectations, and was attempting to share my experiences with the community. Had I seen a post si…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 01:52 AM
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I got into it all 4-5 years ago now. I've never played DnD or MTG with anyone I'd consider dating.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 12:13 AM
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Yeah! I ended up moving my nerdy hobbies to a section lower down on my profile and emphasising different things in my summary, like that I enjoy fishing and baking bread and such. I thought initially I wanted someone who shared my more nerdy interests, but putting it front and center is just begging for orbiters.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 10:49 PM
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I'm not looking for someone whose interests align there, no. It's more that there can be a negative connotation for them and I'd like any man who isn't accepting of those aspects of me to not instigate contact. Perhaps I could move them more to the bottom of my profile so fewer people just looking at my pictures will see it. I don't really care about their specific hobbies and interests as long as they have some stuff they're passionate about and can talk about them. Having things that aren't th…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/18 05:08 AM
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Yeah! My last LTR (5 years) was met through online dating, but I didn't know about RP at that time! I got lucky I'd say at that point. A lot changed since then and we broke up a couple of months ago, and I'm feeling ready to start looking again! One of my current problems is that my interests align in a way that does attract a lot of beta orbiters, specifically D&D and computer science. I have it on now and I'm getting a lot of messages like "Wow, a girl who plays D&D!". Though that also could b…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/18 04:33 AM
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What sorts of things do you look for when on dating sites like that? Many of them have quizzes you can go through, what aspects should be pursued or avoided?
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/18 10:30 PM
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What if they are both working and earning about the same and move in together as equals?
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/18 09:33 PM
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I mean yeah I personally feel it depends a lot on the jokes themselves. Some are fine and others aren't. Making a pun that's an innuendo or other sexually themed jokes aren't at all sexist, just sexual. But if it's like "why do you work here get back in the kitchen and let the men do the thinking" themed stuff that's pretty exclusionary. Especially if done with that intent.
/r/MensRights12/06/18 07:46 PM
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You didn't answer my question, could you please before I work on my reply?
/r/MensRights12/06/18 12:54 PM
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Would you argue that having jokes made targeting a specific group is or is not discrimination?
/r/MensRights12/06/18 12:25 PM
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So you feel not being discriminated against in a workplace environment is special accommodation?
/r/MensRights12/06/18 11:45 AM
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So what if a woman joined and was with you guys all the time? Would you stop the sexist jokes altogether?
/r/MensRights11/06/18 09:50 PM
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This could be an ok analogy for the "are we dating" talk, but not for marriage if that was your intention.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 12:53 PM
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I mean, that was kind of the whole point of the post. Communication is key.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/18 11:56 PM
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Exactly! I would have been happy with any of those things. As long as it was something I was happy, because it was the time together that was the most important bit for me.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 11:18 PM
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Try looking at some of the guides like this one https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/2nof4q/female_domination_top_ten_things_to_do
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 05:44 PM
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That was my feeling too. Dominant can be actually dominating and it can also be a way of showing intense desire, meaning a more active partner. I'd give the latter a try first.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 05:25 PM
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One thing you could do is go over and do some baking rather than cooking. Cooking meals is a bit above where you're at currently, and cooking them for all the people in the house isn't showing your guy he's special. I'd ask him what some of his favourite treats are. Brownies, some type of cookie, cupcakes, etc. and come over to bake them with him. Make it an activity you do together, even if he just hangs out in the kitchen with you and keeps you company. This demonstrates good qualities from yo…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 04:08 PM
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Part of being dominant in bed as a woman is showing how much you desire your partner. Initiate the sexual encounter and show just how much he drives you wild. Don't wait for him to do things, you tell him what you want. Use the things you know he loves to do and make him do them. He likes to eat you out? Put your knees on his shoulders and sit on his face. Once you get him into it you can start to tease him a bit etc.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 04:02 PM
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Thank you for helping this community!
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 03:51 PM
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I meant which man.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/18 07:20 PM
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You talk about "insentivising shitty behaviour" here, but which of the two would you be more attracted to and why?
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/18 07:09 PM
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That's an awesome thing to emphasise! He has some projects he's been putting off he's hoping to get some time to do, maybe I can work on one of my projects while he's working! It'll probably help if we're both working on something together.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/17 03:06 AM
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I like the idea of going out on a walk together, that's a great plan. Even if it's a little chilly holding hands will help. Maybe we could get some fresh bread some cold cuts and cut up veggies and go on a walk while having lunch. I'm having trouble finding somewhere to get lingerie locally (I don't have anything proper, just lacy bras and panties) since I don't know what sizes to order from an online retailer​.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 05:47 PM
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One exception to this in my opinion is if you have a good parenting support network through your family. My mum loves kids and babies and since we're likely going to live in the same city when I settle down with my man she's offered to help watch her future grandkids. Looking back on how she raised me, I'm very pleased. She was always talking about how it was important to excel on my own (I'm finishing a STEM degree) but also emphasised that certain traits and skills like cooking, sewing, and cl…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 05:41 PM
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That's a really good point. I think working in advance to try to make it a low stress environment is a great idea. Keeping things cheerful and light hearted helps as it means he always looks forwards to coming to see me or for when I visit him. Coming from that mindset, he plays a lot of video games (and I do too, we often play co-op games like farm simulator together) and I know there are some he plays that aren't on my PC which I'm lending him while he is here. I think I'll make a list of some…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 01:51 AM
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