This is a common lie told to make up excuses for women. Women know EXACTLY what they want. They pretend not to, so they can avoid taking accountability for their actions since they want to be treated like children.
They are called creepy because those women do not find those men attractive. They pick and choose who to call creepy. Her A is only A if you're not attractive. When you are attractive, all her policies, rules and prestige goes right out the window.