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| 21 | [FR] First attempt really talking to a girl. "Girls aren't dragons". | Field Report | RaptahJezus | /r/seduction | 05/08/13 02:04 AM |
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| 2 | One of the best short guides out there. Getting Laid in NYC by Paul Janka.tl;dr: Take a girl out for drinks. Make sure shes actually drinking, while you drink straight seltzer water. My creep senses are tingling. | /r/seduction | 26/08/13 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Going to my second year of university, didn't socialize in the firstAlright, I was in the exact same situation as you last year (going into Junior year here), but worse. I started a 2 year relationship with a girl the summer between high school and college. That relationship lasted through my freshman year, and 3/4 of the way through my sophomore year until I broke up with her in April. This was a serious mistake. Throughout that time, she was very controlling. Didn't want me to go out and party, and I wasted so much time and effort on her, looking back on it (I… | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 03:19 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Tried the claw - rejected. Tried same girl with calling her out opener, # closeBe careful with this. It's way too easy to get creepy following advice like this. In this video at around the 55:10 mark, Nick Sparks defines "creepy" as "if a girl shows you in any way shape or form, that she's uncomfortable with something, and you continue doing it." Guess what, if she doesn't respond to your advances, she's uncomfortable for some reason. So cut your loses, and move on to the next one. Always commit to a girl - she's been chosen by you and her disinterest is not going to stop … | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 10:16 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Tried the claw - rejected. Tried same girl with calling her out opener, # closehttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QuKWH8x7_oM | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Any Sedditors from Philly?Not in Philly, but go to school about 25 minutes from you. Unfortunately, bars are off the table for the time being till I turn 21 in a few months. Best of luck! | /r/seduction | 17/08/13 04:26 AM |
| 2 | How to entertain women in your house?I usually offer drinks, play some girl-friendly video games (mario party, mario Kart etc.), or smoke some hookah. Hookah's pretty big where I'm at, and girls really jump at the opportunity to light up a bowl. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Arm/hand posture while having a conversation standing upI've acted for years, and I can tell you, when you're on stage, your hands become big awkward blocks that you have no idea what to do with. I usually am talking with my hands. In between gestures and kino, you can hook your thumbs in your pockets, with your fingers pointing towards your package. Also, don't underestimate just letting them hang at your side. On stage, this can feel awkward, but it looks completely natural. The same can be said for conversations. It's not awkward unless you make i… | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 09:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you introduce someone to seduction and self-improvement?I had a friend who consistently pulled women at all the parties we went to. I had no idea how he did it. I asked him where it came from, and he referred me to seddit. Since then I've improved massively. Unfortunately, I discovered seddit with just a few days left in the semester. This summer has been pretty quiet, as there's not a whole lot of places for me to open women. However, in the few parties friends threw, I opened several women, and #-closed a few of them, and f-closed one of them. It w… | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 08:07 PM |
| 4 | For the Next 3-4 months, I am fully devoted to studying 6-7 days a week. What can I do to improve my game while not going out?Are you in college? Living on campus or commuting? How many credits/classes are you taking? Are you working at all? I'm currently a junior electrical engineer. Last year I joined a fraternity, and partied 3-4 times a week. Since I'm one of the guys in charge of maintaining safety at the parties, I'm consistently one of the last ones to leave. Getting home at 3 AM is considered early for me. On top of the parties, I took 16 credits of engineering classes, and worked 20 hours a week.. That will co… | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Need help with party game"Hi, my name is Crazydugs55" should help a lot | /r/seduction | 05/08/13 10:01 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First night out since joining seddit, disappointed in myself but promising nonethelessI always prefer reading these FRs. I find them to be way more interesting than the FRs written by people who have been doing PUA for months, and score 4 girls in a night. Keep up the great work man, and nice job calling her bluff on the boyfriend. Was there any reason you couldn't #-close HB8? Once you've k-closed, a #-close shouldn't be any more difficult. | /r/seduction | 23/07/13 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Your recommendations of books that will help one become a master of seduction, influence, and being alpha?It's been said before, but reading will do you absolutely no good if you don't actually do. You learn best by doing. Learn from your successes, but more importantly, learn from your mistakes. Even a rejection is a "success", because it provides you with an opportunity to improve. I had a friend who read everything there was on PUA. He spent weeks poring over all the literature he could get his hands on. Guess what, he never got a single #-close. Why? Because he never approached a single girl. He… | /r/seduction | 28/06/13 03:54 AM |
| 5 | Best way to respond to an AMOG trying to put you down in front of girls?There's 2 solutions to this. 1: Befriend him before he starts with the AMOG act. Seriously, this can help a lot. You're the alpha male of your group, and he's the alpha male of his group. It's a sign of respect, kind of like saying "your house, your rules" (I read that on seddit somewhere, but I forget exactly where). If you approach the obvious AMOG of the group before you approach your target, it accomplishes two things. It gives you a leverage point, and it disarms your target. Your target is… | /r/seduction | 28/06/13 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Interning at a large companyMy biggest piece of advice: Be careful. You don't want to be known as that guy who goes and tries to pick up ALL the girls at your company, particularly if you're stuck with them for 8 weeks. Just dont do anything that could jeopardize your future career. | /r/seduction | 27/06/13 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Haven't closed in months, but I'm feeling confident and getting comfortable with opening. What's next?As Marsupian said, gaming over text doesn't work. Are you really going to rely on 160 characters on a tiny screen to accurately represent yourself? I sure wouldn't. Texting and calling should only be used to work out the logistics of an in-person meetup. You're doing good man, keep it up. Keep pushing your comfort zones, nobody ever gained anything from sitting still. | /r/seduction | 27/06/13 12:36 PM |
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