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RaptorButts/r/seduction03/06/11 04:40 PM
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Yeah I'm not a huge fan of his method, which is 1min interactions and closing with "we should get coffee around here sometime." I can see how you'd say it's "good-looking guy" game, since he has little to no inner game, and just recommends you look good and have scruff. -Then again I'm an RSD guy so my standards are high on dem 'gurus'.
/r/seduction16/05/12 06:52 PM
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Wow hoppin back to that David D...
/r/seduction16/05/12 06:31 PM
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Too busy living
/r/seduction12/10/11 08:23 PM
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Too busy living
/r/seduction12/10/11 08:23 PM
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Damn excellence.
/r/seduction28/07/11 08:17 PM
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Instead, tell her "I'm so happy we're just friends". Watch what happens if you hold that content frame. But honestly, 90% of these questions are coming from newbies and the cold reality at that stage is that she's just not gonna sleep with you. You can't learn seduction to get one girl, you can only learn how to get better with all women.
/r/seduction28/07/11 08:13 PM
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NO.
/r/seduction28/07/11 08:09 PM
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Eggzellent. What's the difference, to you, between getting a ton of upvotes on a post and getting appreciation for a great post in your subreddit community?
/r/seduction28/07/11 08:06 PM
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Quit watching movies that glorify chodey behavior.
/r/seduction15/07/11 05:22 AM
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Who the hell is Ramona?
/r/seduction14/07/11 06:45 PM
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Two years later he'll do his first cold approach
/r/seduction03/07/11 08:29 PM
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Call it "Good Relationship Advice" or... Relationship advice from the male perspective. Call it Seddit.
/r/seduction02/07/11 11:18 PM
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Also, watch/listen to "The Blueprint Decoded" as soon as possible. Seriously, I've probably reviewed it 5 times since I first listened to it, and every time I get to take something new and profound out of it. !!!!!!!! After Blueprint, "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle. Basically, your inner game will then be* tight.* After that, the rest of the seduction community can contribute a lot of extra flares, bells, and whistles to your game that can only add to your success. Good fucking luck man. Ge…
/r/seduction10/06/11 07:34 AM
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If you're coming from a superficial standpoint, yes. If you value physical attractiveness above all else, you would desire the most physically attractive girl, regardess if there is a girl that is on your level, compatible, and with a sense of life that is close to your own. It is only when you realize that the girls you see are going to be physically attractive, and you are screening for depth that success actually comes. In your mindset, any girl will do as long as she's hot. In mine, hotness …
/r/seduction08/06/11 12:40 AM
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When you say you can appreciate someone more than someone else, how is that not putting a value on someone You shouldn't be making value judgements on anyone. There's literally no way you really know them, unless you've known them for a very long time. Judging people, as in, this person is of more value than this person, comes from a different place then where you are trying to be. Gravitating towards the value is inherently value taking, while being a giver of value and not being judgmental wil…
/r/seduction08/06/11 12:07 AM
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Seems like a lot of bullshit and namecalling to me. See "The Game". Style trashed Tyler in that book, hard. Style used that book to trash his competitors, and reign in a shitload of a cash for him and his friends.
/r/seduction07/06/11 11:57 PM
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Bhagavad Gita - check it outtt
/r/seduction07/06/11 11:51 PM
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I don't disagree with that at all. Everyone is equal. You can appreciate someone more than someone else, but their value and worth are not related to your subjective evaluation of their character and appearance.
/r/seduction07/06/11 11:06 PM
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You think she won't like you for you. You think that you need to have a tool or tactic in order to get her to like you. You don't like yourself, and its clear from the emotional effect of a girl chasing you as the prize - The idea of a girl liking you for you makes you bored, you find it "dull". When in actually, it's yourself you find dull, and any girl who WOULD be into you would have to be more dull than your negative self image. Smiles, sunshine!
/r/seduction07/06/11 11:04 PM
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Call her if it fits in with your own personal ethical code. Honestly I think that's a shit thing to do to any guy. There's way too many girls around to have to steal one who's too cowardly to break up with a guy she doesn't even like.
/r/seduction07/06/11 11:01 PM
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If I'm really "on," I tend to lead them on, so I'll end up dancing with a girl or making out with her, when I don't want to at all. Sometimes it'll even lead to sex, just because I pass the point of no return and would feel bad just rejecting them. Jeez, I know what you mean. AFC version of me got manipulated into relationships a few times after the sex in these scenarios.
/r/seduction07/06/11 10:57 PM
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Try and focus on the positive. Instead of getting discouraged, think about what you did right in every situation. Consciously shift your focus, and your results (and motivation) will skyrocket.
/r/seduction07/06/11 10:55 PM
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OP is a needy chode. -destiny fulfilled
/r/seduction07/06/11 10:54 PM
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No. Everyone is inherently of equal value. When you meet a woman, you are screening her for depth - for traits and qualities you can admire. You're looking at her true character. Stop with all this pedestal bullshit and prize mentality. Come back to the Frame at a later stage in your inner game work. Your focus is severely misplaced.
/r/seduction07/06/11 10:51 PM
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You are failing to look at the depth of a woman. You think that the fear you feel is her being interesting, and you're completely wrong. The superficial fright and all this "the prize" worrying is just a way for you to justify a scarcity/lower value mindset. You work on yourself first. You become completely fulfilled. Then, when you don't need a woman to be happy - interesting, deep, beautiful women who are compatible with you and full of qualities you admire will come into your life - and want …
/r/seduction07/06/11 10:47 PM
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Cough it was crap too cough
/r/seduction07/06/11 10:41 PM
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Woot, logic!
/r/seduction07/06/11 10:26 PM
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Make today count!
/r/seduction07/06/11 10:25 PM
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Seddit - a huge over-analysis of dating from the male perspective. Get used to it.
/r/seduction07/06/11 10:25 PM
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I agree that affirmations are not an end all to self development. Also, in a mind that's not fit to use them, they would have any effect. However, in a forum for self-development, I find it hard to believe that someone here doesn't recognize the inherent value in a set on consciously defined principles. An affirmation is a principle to live by. The principles in this thread are the foundations of authentic self-esteem. Any individual who does not have deep rooted issues would certainly benefit f…
/r/seduction06/06/11 07:02 AM
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I would really like to cite where you got the idea that affirmations have a negative effect.
/r/seduction06/06/11 06:50 AM
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I actually disagree. Instead of telling yourself "You don't need external validation", stating it as your own belief. It bypasses the statement of it being your belief, and instead defines it as your own thought. "I do this (internal affirmation)" instead of "You do this (statement of affirmation)". That's the way I see it at least. Same deal on the affirmation research.
/r/seduction06/06/11 06:47 AM
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Yes you're correct, they are paradoxical. Being the "coolest motherfucker on earth" might just make you the biggest jerk on earth You're the coolest motherfucker as far as your concerned. Why does coolness (a subjective value judgement of yourself) make you a jerk?
/r/seduction05/06/11 09:56 PM
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Hahaha you and I were both writing the same thing at the same time. Oh internet.
/r/seduction05/06/11 09:10 PM
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Aww shnookums iz okai u get hugz lata
/r/seduction05/06/11 09:08 PM
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I'm curious as to what you're considering unhealthy habits. To me, a far healthier approach is to look around at what others do, Why is that your first priority? What about mental independence? What about your thoughts before all others? but also see if there's any step further you can take. Of course, because actually doing something you want to do and not something that was socially programmed into you is your last priority. If you stop giving a fuck, you're on a path to stagnation. Depends on…
/r/seduction05/06/11 09:05 PM
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How are you feeling about it? You can be honest, I'm really trying to halp.
/r/seduction05/06/11 08:53 PM
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Wow, you're a butthurt little chump aren't you? ** That shit you pulled is so pathetic. You reacted like a **bitch to him making a playful quip on a forum where YOU were wrong. You beta'd yourself out by trying WAY too hard to hurt ManicMonty's feelings. In doing so, you brought out 3 of his old comments in a frantic dig to find dirt to throw on his name 1. The first shows that Monty has a great deal of relationship intelligence, sexual intelligence, and knows what he values in a girl. Honestly,…
/r/seduction05/06/11 08:48 PM
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Self-Esteem comes from knowing that your able and worthy of living. If you got to this forum, you're already someone who is looking for more knowledge and to better yourself (self-actualize). No stubborn person stuck in a vicious cycle would be in a self-improvement forum in the first place. Say they were here, anyway - no stubborn person would want to change in the first place. It's a contradiction, twice now. Now, you would rather give a fuck...why? You would rather look to others to give you …
/r/seduction05/06/11 08:30 PM
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Let's rephrase it then because Maxd is right in most respects. External Influences have no effect on your identity and self esteem. External factors obviously effect your life. You* do* exist.
/r/seduction05/06/11 08:21 PM
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The point of not giving a fuck is not to attain the Hipster Version of not giving a fuck. Learning the principle is not about shallow vaguaries and protecting an ego identity. This is about letting go of all that. These are principles that go to the core. Self-Esteem is not about "not giving a fuck". It's about knowing you don't need anyone else for you to feel happy and validated. Your ego might make you want to "not give a fuck", but only to reinforce its own identity (you think people will li…
/r/seduction05/06/11 08:19 PM
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Yeah I'd say so. Don't beat yourself up over it at all. What did you learn from all of it? Pull every positive meaning that you can. And remember, there's billions more.
/r/seduction05/06/11 08:13 PM
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Yer Welcome. FTFY
/r/seduction05/06/11 07:49 PM
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What about the Lover/Provider distinction?
/r/seduction05/06/11 07:48 PM
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Will do
/r/seduction05/06/11 07:47 PM
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Hahaha you prick
/r/seduction05/06/11 07:46 PM
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It was relevant. I liked everything but the tag line.
/r/seduction05/06/11 07:34 PM
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It only hurts your ego. Yeppers. I really understand why a great deal of the community hates the term "PUA". If you're taking in all this info and building this skillset, a lot of guys get that "Pickup Persona" that ends up dictating their ego. They'll start judging people from this holier than thou place, and keep feeding it. I really love that affirmation because its a great reminder that this is really just a skillset, and a small part of the larger whole that is yourself.
/r/seduction05/06/11 07:00 PM
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Woof, haven't gotten to that part yet It's a guide on what it means to be a man in life and dating - basically a summation on the work I've been doing since I joined this community. It's deep solid inner game with seduction theory to techniques -> very in process but I'm working on this part of it right now and this thread will be awesome perspective.
/r/seduction05/06/11 06:56 PM
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Affirmations to: Not Give A Fuck I don't want or need any validation. I don't compare myself to other people. I only control my actions, the rest don't matter. I don't give a fuck what anyone thinks of me. I am internally validated, and my self esteem is impregnable - since it does not rely on external factors that can change. I am a man of authentic self-esteem. I am no better than anyone else. I know that others thoughts only affect themselves. I do not care what anyone thinks of me - it truly…
/r/seduction05/06/11 06:40 PM
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Oh the Fury of the Chode.
/r/seduction05/06/11 06:35 PM
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Beh Nietzsche. Like half of it as usual.
/r/seduction05/06/11 06:19 PM
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It honestly doesn't matter. You can open with a push, and it'd sure as hell spark a lot of attraction - but you can also open with anything. You could open with "Yo sweet pants I heard you like hugs", and still generate a shit ton of attraction. Should you I would say no, because that sounds like a rule. Could you Hell yeah
/r/seduction05/06/11 08:13 AM
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Men - Action Woman - Reaction This is the way it is, and you can't change the territory.
/r/seduction05/06/11 05:36 AM
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Hahaha every "natural"
/r/seduction05/06/11 05:34 AM
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RSD are my personal favorites, and you'll probably get the bang for your buck. I haven't heard of Alex, but if he's working for RSD he's well trained and a good teacher.
/r/seduction05/06/11 05:34 AM
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Point being: Don't worry about the shit you can't control, accept it and just focus on what you can control. Lulz to be had: I have an honest hypothesis that it's completely possible to compete with Brad Pitt and win. If you're ever in the same venue as a super-high status male, my first thought would be to befriend him. If you're completely unaffected by his status and authentically communicating, someone of celebrity status would find this extremely refreshing. (compared to the constant kissin…
/r/seduction04/06/11 09:28 PM
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My other post works for you then. Keep it light, playful, and don't respond to EVERY text, especially at night. One of the biggest actions that causes tension for young girls would be waiting for a text back all night from a guy they're interested in. If they fall asleep waiting on a text back, and then they wake up without a reply -> it'll stir up some crazy fun emotional excitement. Obviously resolve that tension with a playful text early afternoon, never leave a tension loop open too long. Bu…
/r/seduction04/06/11 08:29 PM
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You're in a forum that advises men on the finer points of female seduction. I'm guessing you came here to reinforce your prejudice against males and sex, and to strengthen your own belief that sex and men are dangerous hazards to your survival. You didn't come here to learn anything (perhaps perspective but I doubt it with your contrapositive view of sex) Also, you're not trusting anyone. You're trusting yourself, and your own judgment. The major element of trust in the other individual is that …
/r/seduction04/06/11 08:25 PM
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it was about generalizing women, saying "women do this and that", which is what a lot of people in this subreddit seem to do. This is a broad learning forum about a subject that is very theoretical. If I were to be on a forum about Biology and said "Life needs oxygen to breathe" - this would be an incorrect gross generalization. However, this is a forum discussing seduction and human interaction. While human beings are all vastly different and varying in attributes, essentially we have way more …
/r/seduction04/06/11 08:18 PM
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However, if, like in this case, the girl seems to not be the sexual type, then I'm not going to lie to her about who or what I am to get her to like a person I'm not, just to satisfy my urge of fucking her. I don't condone lying whatsoever. You should know that if you're judging how the interaction is going by the way she's responding to you, you're not going to get any better at this. Girls will intentionally not give you IOI's and not flirt to see if you're the kind of guy that will take what …
/r/seduction04/06/11 08:09 PM
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Money does influence whether you can go out to meet people to have fun. Walking down the street (being a fun person), smiling and starting conversations and meeting people is entirely free. Most bars will not charge you for walking into them. Public places are free. Streets are free. You do not need money to have fun. Ever. It can help, and set up a lot of situations where you can have fun, but if you're relying on it like you are - you will never experience genuine fun/happiness. I'm simply not…
/r/seduction04/06/11 07:55 PM
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Seduction - The reddit self-improvement and seduction community. All I had to do was look to the right and you were refuted.
/r/seduction04/06/11 07:46 PM
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Understandable totally. I think that a huge discrepency between the your views and my own is our background. You're a girl, and you have this image in your head of what you respond to, and what you want. However, I'm a man. I know that fuzzy image you have in your mind of a perfect guy, and I know that imitating that guy in reality would be a deadly error (not to mention straight up manipulative). The whole purpose of this forum is for guys to really understand what forces TRULY cause attraction…
/r/seduction04/06/11 07:20 PM
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Honestly no, not since I moved to D/FW. The STD rates are incredibly fucking high here and I'm simply not risking a lifetime with one for one night of unpredictable sex. I dunno what D/FW stand for. Have you had STD education before? You can prevent transmitable diseases by use of this contraption called condoms. They're pretty crazy cool, and they work well at not making a baby (product of their magical orientation) and I'd recommend them for all of your sexual encounters that aren't an LTR whe…
/r/seduction04/06/11 07:16 PM
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You know RedErin, you couldn't spot a troll if you were under the bridge making out with him after you met him at a bar.
/r/seduction04/06/11 07:07 PM
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Elaborate. Cockiness is confidence with humor in action. I wouldn't say our end goal with cockiness is to be an arrogant prick - but rather to be playful, self assured, and completely without intimidation of the girl.
/r/seduction04/06/11 07:06 PM
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Got some peppered in around the thread, be sure to add examples to my next post. I've done a lot from the open, so lets try something "in set". (Kino - grab her hand, holding it, inspecting) (Pull) You - Jesus christ you've got tiny hands. Like the guy in Scary movie - these are "your strong hands!" (Push) (her - giggle) You - Seriously through, you could make a lot of money with hands like these. There are plenty of people who would love nothing more that to take a few pictures of you holding r…
/r/seduction04/06/11 07:04 PM
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in many ways, objectifying the woman and showing no respect. The phrase itself implies that you have no class or standards of your own. Wrong. The entire interaction is predicated on your screening her and seeing if she IS worth you fucking her. Honestly, the idea implied by "I'd rather be the one fucking her" is basically saying, "She's out to have sex just like any other human. Her and I both know that I'm the best fucking choice for her, and me choosing and fucking her would be a celebration …
/r/seduction04/06/11 06:50 PM
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That's actually pretty sexist. Someone doesn't understand that women love sex just as much as men do. There is nothing sexist about wanting to fuck a woman. It implies that you are a male and she is a female, and you are attracted to that female. What the fuck is sexist about that? Man's role is do what he wants, when he wants. This includes picking the woman he wants to sleep with and taking her. (In a broad sense, no hitting her with a club and dragging her off - this ain't gunwitch) On the co…
/r/seduction04/06/11 06:44 PM
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If she could answer that, she wouldn't be a lonely 27 year old who's not getting laid or having any fun.
/r/seduction04/06/11 06:40 PM
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I'm a rather lonely 27 year old woman in the prime of life and peak of health. I don't get out much. Why do you choose to miss out on excitement and adventure? You don't seem like you're having a very fun time being this way. I'm not going to sacrifice all the gains I've made in building myself up so just anyone can get their dick wet. Loosely translated, I'd loose respect for myself if I had a one night stand that didn't turn into a relationship. You don't enjoy sex for the pleasure of the mome…
/r/seduction04/06/11 06:36 PM
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Right! Being better than others is ego-driven, while bettering yourself is an internal accomplishment.
/r/seduction04/06/11 06:26 PM
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I'll post this without your age in mind, but I would be able to give you more accurate advice with it. 1. Don't text back immediately. (Force this behavior for a bit until it clicks with you, and it will take some force - When she texts you, wait longer than it took for her to respond before you text her back) This sounds forced at first because it is for the average guy. You'll start to realize in time that you're a fun, busy dude who can't jump at the drop of a hat to type some letters to a gi…
/r/seduction04/06/11 06:25 PM
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First of all, before any more action. Recognize in your own mind that it's not a big deal and simply one encounter. Now, you may have blown the date up a bit, but it's really not that big of a deal. She's a big girl and can handle a minor inconvenience. Apologize, but know that your apology is because you want to apologize, not because you need to. Second, give her a call. "Sorry about that, (charming brief explanation). I want to see you <> for <>. " Push through it, your blunder really doesn't…
/r/seduction04/06/11 06:09 PM
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I understand the drive to learn the tools and the theory without the principles (belief structures) of the guys teaching them. However, you're going to find out real quickly that no amount of techniques and tactics make up for flaws in your inner game. So I would really start with resources dedicated to that instead. Check out Tyler Durden (Real Social Dynamics) Blueprint Decoded. Multiple layers of deep identity level change -> I've listened/watched it 5 times now and gotten deeper and deeper c…
/r/seduction04/06/11 06:04 PM
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I really admire your view of our community, and it's definitely a sense of life we share.
/r/seduction04/06/11 05:55 PM
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(Girl alone at bar) "Hey lonely girl, let's talk." (Opening is playful, pushing and pulling) (her response) "I'm gonna be polite and let you buy me a drink before I take off back with my friends." (Push, but its still playful and humorous) (she laughs/responds) "Hm, you know if we were to hang out, you'd have to be a lot more friendly and social. I wouldn't want you to weird out my friends every time I brought you around" (Pull, insinuating you're gonna hang out, but then reigniting the tension …
/r/seduction04/06/11 05:50 PM
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It's a natural part of interactions, so yes this kind of playful banter is still one of your main goodies. This is the perfect tool for maintaining excitement, adventure, and attraction in an LTR. (I feel like there should be more material on Seddit LTR's, but I understand that the community is generally more focused on the open to close, and dating. I'll make a Seddit LTR post soon, but essentially most concepts you find here are(and should be) applicable to any LTR. The game doesn't stop just …
/r/seduction04/06/11 05:41 PM
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Why would you ever do that? Confidence is an admirable trait, of being certain in your own capacity to face the world and succeed. To "hate" that is against the good of mankind. (lulz) And I bet you that cockiness rocks your socks harder than you think.
/r/seduction04/06/11 06:13 AM
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Antisocial nerd and as for regrets? Letting the people I grew up with place any weight on my identity.
/r/seduction04/06/11 06:08 AM
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If I get a strong IOI (not a smooth curve of IOIs) I simply feel unconfortable, as "this is going too fast" Maybe you need to redefine your intent. How often do you want to have sex in your life? How many times a week? How many women do you want in your life? What are you looking for in a woman? What's stopping you from taking the interaction to where your core wants it to go?(these are just hypothetical) I just wonder why you wouldn't read a huge IOI as an "Awwww yeahhhhhhh!" instead of "Okay..…
/r/seduction04/06/11 05:42 AM
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How old are you? (your answer really effects the advice because texting means different things to different age groups)
/r/seduction04/06/11 05:33 AM
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not worth it. caveman
/r/seduction04/06/11 05:28 AM
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I don't like when guys purposely act disinterested. I want a guy who's interested in me, not enveloped in his surroundings or himself. Of course you would want this. Not to say that acting disinterested all the time is a good idea or anything like what we do, but the fact that the members of community shouldn't act the way you want. You'd notice a comparable difference in the attraction you'll have for a guy who's really into you and validating you on a couple different levels, and a guy who's p…
/r/seduction04/06/11 05:19 AM
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Success.
/r/seduction04/06/11 12:50 AM
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I'm really glad to hear it helps. This is great stuff too, your adventures are going to be a lot more flirtatiously charged and playful. I wrote this primarily to solidify the information in my own head, and the style of my post is generally how I learn concepts best. Did this style of analysis help you learn the concept easily? Is there anything that you would change?
/r/seduction04/06/11 12:43 AM
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Awesome post. I would hope that honesty and integrity are two fundamental aspects of every guy's identity. Unfortunately, that's not the case in every situation.
/r/seduction04/06/11 12:03 AM
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I don't really make a conscious decision to "push" a girl away, and then bring her back. Make one, your results will be unbelievable.
/r/seduction03/06/11 11:32 PM
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How do you do it when you clearly have intentions for the woman? Intent is a necessity, but with an abundance mentality, you're not attached to the outcome. Not pushing shows you're afraid of losing her, or having the interaction go wrong. All pull with no push comes off as a scarcity mindset, and shows an inability to flirt. It puts you in the beta role too - you're not comfortable enough around her to play with her. You're afraid that if you upset her, you'll lose her - and in that case, you'v…
/r/seduction03/06/11 11:24 PM
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That's fine, and I'd love some elaboration if you wouldn't mind.
/r/seduction03/06/11 04:59 PM
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This is the best comment I've ever read on seddit.
/r/seduction31/05/11 02:44 AM
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(stealth bi) All I'm sayin is, if a dude hit on me with the skillset we have... Your job must be easy.
/r/seduction31/05/11 02:32 AM
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Admiration & Pride = Love - Self Esteem is necessary in both :)
/r/seduction28/05/11 10:31 PM
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Learn to control your emotions and keep your damn composure. 10 years of seduction study and your inner game is still shit? You sound like the kind of guy that gets frustrated and gives up. The extremely low number of approaches is a dead giveaway. That's about 10 a year. Most of us do around 15-25 on a night out.
/r/seduction28/05/11 10:11 PM
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"Moderate Seddit they said..."
/r/seduction27/05/11 06:36 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction27/05/11 06:34 PM
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one of the proud white guys who loves thick thighs
/r/seduction27/05/11 06:28 PM
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"Basic Principles of Objectivism" or "Objectivist Psychology" also have great Self-Esteem / Pride knowledge. You runnin' like a volitional champion?
/r/seduction27/05/11 06:12 PM
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You keep preaching about virtues and admiration - theres nothing admirable about humility. Pride and Self Esteem are admirable traits that effect the thoughts and perceptions of others around you. If an individual has a high self worth, certainty, and confidence in his actions, he gives a massive amount of value with every word and action. While there are a lot of jocky dickweeds with high self worth and cockiness, they're nothing to an amazing man with the skillsets and knowledge we have availa…
/r/seduction27/05/11 06:10 PM
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Intelligence is not directly related to success/survival Disagree. We're beings of volitional consciousness, and our success and survival depend on the rational intelligent usage of our minds. Hell, if you weren't intelligent, you wouldn't have even recognized a want to get better with women. Intelligence is damn sexy, but not as a leading characteristic. I agree that traits such as resourcefulness, confidence, and motivation (or, just core male values) are more directly correlated with attracti…
/r/seduction16/05/11 07:11 PM
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Nothing is a deal breaker unless you think it's a deal breaker. A huge sticking point with most guys is self fulfilling prophecies. Say you isolate some hunny outside and light up a smoke. She says, "Ugh, that's gross" or something. You flinch? You react, and put it out? You retreat into your head for a second and change your behavior to suit her whims of the moment and you're blown out. You'll have lost that masculine polarity. If a girl girls me shit about smoking a cigarette, either it doesn'…
/r/seduction16/05/11 07:00 PM
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I guess it comes down to what you want out of all of this. You're a member of the community, so I know you know how it's split. There's the PUA's (Mystery, Style, Lovedrop), and then theres the Naturals (Jeffy, Tim, Tyler). The main difference is in the core, and it's authenticity. The responsibility of any student of social jediism is to choose between these two approaches. You can either be an amazing manipulator, or an amazing man. Techniques are a bandaid to a greater problem. You'll still g…
/r/seduction16/05/11 06:41 PM
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Stop Thinking like a Chump, and Start Thinking like a Champ. Here's a couple affirmations you can has, pound these bitches into your grey matter. These are conclusions that have been made by some of the best minds in the community (minor me tweakin), and it's up to you as an individual to incorporate them into your thinking, and accept them as fact. In order to be successful, you need to know that you have what it takes. Yet in this field, to know is to be. Accept these as facts of your reality.…
/r/seduction16/05/11 07:31 AM
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Your assumption that you're giving them what they want. Sorry bub, but that piece of inner game is more powerful than your essay.
/r/seduction16/05/11 07:21 AM
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Dude, I've love reading your posts for nearly a year now. However- I'm too busy studying material from real PUAs. I know you love Mystery, and he's an inauthentic baby.
/r/seduction16/05/11 07:16 AM
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"You're my library date, what are you teaching me?"
/r/seduction16/05/11 07:03 AM
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Drop that fucker as a buddy. First rule of going out with your friends - No contradictions Friends tooling each other out? No one wants to be a part of that. He's just trying to pump his state by lowering yours. Blow him out and delete him from your phone book.
/r/seduction16/05/11 07:00 AM
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Derisive laughter + Dismissal Then cut him out of your reality, blow him out / out of your awareness. Don't flinch, be unreactive. If you're laughing at it and you don't let it affect you emotionally/keep your state, he'll assume the "I'm just joking" frame. Then you cut them out of your reality and keep the converstaion going in the direction you want it. If you're not letting him come into your awareness after that point, AMOG is cooked. If you let it wreck you, he's going to claim the dominan…
/r/seduction16/05/11 06:58 AM
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<3 RSD I gotta tell you actually, I learned of the "Blueprint Decoded" through you and all of those products revolutionized my life.
/r/seduction16/05/11 06:50 AM
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I think the idea of it frightens you.
/r/seduction12/05/11 04:53 PM
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Prompted me to throw my jacket in the wash Tyvm
/r/seduction11/05/11 03:46 AM
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Naturalizing" this knowledge does not make false time constraints any more real. False time constraints are not real, but made to appear as though the guy is busy/very social. I think you'll be hard pressed to find naturals running game without material and using false time constraints. The subtext of a false time constraint is expressed through the other microbehaviors of the individual. The behaviors in question were: eject on your own terms. Always. Don't be a lingering chode. You be the one …
/r/seduction22/03/11 12:13 AM
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It would be contrived until you're naturalized, and then it's simply truth.
/r/seduction21/03/11 05:59 PM
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Spam.
/r/seduction05/12/10 06:22 AM
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Practice practice practice.
/r/seduction02/12/10 03:12 PM
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He watched Season 1 of Mad Men and now thinks he's a boss.
/r/seduction30/08/10 08:54 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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