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Usually when I see attractive women I'm out at an event or concert, we're typically "dressed" so I find something to compliment her about, we've already made eye contact, we're in each others orbit. There's some touching and body contact, dancing, listening to music, Sometimes, I or she will just say something like "you're sexy", when we get into each other's bubble. It gets the point across.
/r/seduction23/07/26 02:27 PM
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I've had a couple "revisits" and it's when they figure out the other dude or other dudes aren't working out and all of a sudden something good or something about you gets her attention. The thing about women is that, you really have to be there when they are "ready and ripe". That means all the right things are falling into place and you are the benefactor, if you can recognize it and keep the momentum going. I will add, you may find out that these relationships are typically temporary, especial…
/r/seduction18/07/26 06:43 PM
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I met a couple a few months back that are late 30's, their first date with a friend was a threesome. And she (38F, good looking) was the one who told me about it. It happens.
/r/seduction13/07/26 06:28 PM
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Sounds Iike you're trying to out compete other men who are all posturing for the attention of a few exceptionally attractive women? And this potentially turns into physical confrontations with other men? Yeah, I don't need to do any of that. Hard pass.
/r/seduction06/07/26 02:34 PM
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I don't "hit" on them, I put myself into their group at an event, concert, etc. I openly engage with everyone and at some point start conversing directly with all the females, flirting happens, they ask questions. Then I figure which ones are actually looking and interested. The idea of the lone 9-10 hanging out at the bar waiting for the right guy, with the right line, and the right swagger...isn't really a thing.
/r/seduction05/07/26 04:52 PM
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I flirt constantly and get hit on constantly, I enjoy women in my bubble. I went to go see my friend's band play and spent most the night hanging with the wives and gf's. Women are usually pretty physical with men they like.
/r/seduction04/07/26 07:57 AM
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"She was cute, but I had no time or interest in her." So, what's the problem? She's being a girl and acting as such. Why are you playing?
/r/seduction30/06/26 01:09 AM
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It's an art form to talk someone into thinking it was all their idea and I don't mean that in a negative maniputive way. Sometimes if you keep the vibe light hearted, playful, yet progress into increasingly physical advances. Most of the time girls ramp up the tempo as they start letting go and having fun.
/r/seduction29/06/26 02:49 AM
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Day after with sex, she's definitely thinking about what happened.
/r/seduction28/06/26 06:04 PM
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Yes. I also find most people in general do this, women, men, whoever. In fact, I think it's rare today that people aren't going to figure out if the person they plan on falling in love with and spending a significant part of their life with is sexually compatible. There's a reddit post of girl who fiancé insisted they wait, until marriage. Turns out the dude has a micro penis and this blew up here, enough to make Smosh. Sexual compatibility is a must for a healthy ltr.
/r/seduction23/06/26 06:52 PM
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I think that's kinda the modern preferable way now. You got the test drive, now are you going to make this a thing or move on? Taking it slow after she gave you all the goods, is her making sure you're worth while for a bf.
/r/seduction23/06/26 06:09 PM
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She's going to pick.
/r/seduction23/06/26 06:05 PM
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I go to concerts (edm, house, etc), clubs, events and the like. I dress simply, black, jeans, shirt, Chuck Taylor's. I don't over scent, I don't wear bling or jewelry. I meet at least 2-3 interested and interesting women everytime I go out. I grt approach by women regularly now, its becoming a thing with women now.
/r/seduction23/06/26 01:29 AM
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I approach every woman genuinely and directly. If I compliment her, its sincere and I let her know with my demeanor what my intent is leaning towards, without being overly eager, too intense or overbearing. If she is not what I am looking for I want to be able to disengage and move on as well.
/r/seduction23/06/26 01:26 AM
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I'm 49M, this is going to happen...a lot. The best thing I can tell you is, don't emotionally invest into random encounters while on transportation? You are going to meet people, "connect" and a lot of time it's just not going to work out. That's just life. Especially when it feels really genuine and it's frustrating...can be heartbreaking. Think of strip club, all the feelings and emotions all come out, you get all the smells, the warmth, almost...everything. But, 99% of the time you're going h…
/r/seduction22/06/26 04:15 AM
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Dude. How do you think real life works? That's called infatuation, lust. That interaction isn't a lie, it's your programming from 3M years ago. You met a single female one on one and she liked you enough to return the attention, 100%+. Under better circumstances you should of had a very brief, very intimate but fully entrapping sexual encounter that if nature had its way, she'd be pregnant. But, we dont live that way anymore. It's not a lie, that was nature's way of getting you two to breed with…
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:46 AM
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Women who have sex with a guy quickly, are in a state of excitement that is spontaneous, thrilling, lustful and empowering. When both partners are in this state...quickies happen, sex without condoms, it's primal and almost always temporary. Are those traits in your relationship with her presently? This is the frustrating duality of modern women. It has a biological survival function, which is to have sex quickly in the wild and getting away. Unconsciously she's selecting for all the "masculine"…
/r/seduction18/06/26 03:47 PM
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Terrible idea. Try: "I'm trying to make genuine connections with authentic people."
/r/seduction16/06/26 07:11 AM
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Yes. Women are the "Yin" to our "Yang" thinking they are anything different is not understanding a basic foundational principle in the equation. They are a force of nature, respect that.
/r/seduction16/06/26 02:28 AM
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Buyer's remorse. If the tip was "about in", she wasn't fully on board, and she pulled back, she re-thought her almost willingness to let you go all the way, raw I assume? That's big leap for a girl to do with a 19 year old. In my experience girls at that age usually fall into two categories, condoms - to have a little fun with guys she doesn't give a shit about. Or raw - with the boy she wants to have young love with as her "real" boyfriend.
/r/seduction09/06/26 09:24 PM
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Be light hearted with zero expectations, other than you are going to a "singles" environment with the expectations of having fun for yourself and meeting people. You need to open and engaging with everyone, within reason (there are obviously people you reject out of hand and deal with cordially). But, your vibe needs to be this way constantly, to the point where you're not faking it, you're genuinely having a good time. Also when it comes to very attractive women, always make an attempt to break…
/r/seduction09/06/26 06:58 AM
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They're alert and outward looking, smiling, laughing and eyes wide looking for potential opportunities.
/r/seduction08/06/26 04:32 PM
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At some point when you're vibing well, you've already been in her bubble sharing body space. Let's assume you've read the body language, hair twirls or "flips", light touching, easy conversation, smiles, laughs maybe some teasing...has already happened. Make eye contact, look at her lips and Lean in 90%. She'll do the rest.
/r/seduction08/06/26 04:14 AM
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Usually around 3-5 hours of knowing her. I can tell right off the bat if a woman likes me or not. As the old adage goes, "A woman can tell within 30 seconds if she wants to sleep with a man." Most women will telegraph this with their eyes when you first meet them. The next couple hours is her and I getting into each others bubbles'. I read body language easily, I can tell quickly if she is open to touch or feeling my "air" within a few minutes. What I mean by this is, I'm going to get close, jus…
/r/seduction30/05/26 03:10 AM
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Yup, I've leaned out over the last couple months (-20lbs) bought new clothes, started going out about every other weekend. I've made friends in a very social community of like minded people in the music industry. I'm like a kid in a candy store.
/r/seduction29/05/26 02:49 AM
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Depends on how she looks at me. I'm tall, built, have a full head of hair, good looking, have good poise and posture and project ease. Also typically dress tastefully when I'm out, I'm not a slob. If I can see a level of interest, then I consider where I'm at and my current schedule. I know what I look like, I already know that almost any form of interest is...easy money so to speak.
/r/seduction29/05/26 02:45 AM
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I think he said a shot, its a viagra reverser.
/r/seduction29/05/26 12:58 AM
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If he wants it and it''s not coming from you, you will never be happy with it. Ask him if he's okay with mmf?
/r/seduction28/05/26 01:41 PM
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Yes, this is actually called the "friend" zone. It's the bane of most men's existence.
/r/seduction27/05/26 04:23 AM
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Sounds like you're talking and texting too much, 57 dates and 5 kisses, 1 lay? You need to be more physical, you need to read their body language better, and get into their bubble more, like every single time. I should be reading "57 dates, hundreds of kisses..." Five? You're not pushing their buttons enough, you don't need to be overly aggressive. But, you're holding back at the kiss initiation. I bumped into a girl at a EDM concert dancing, made eye contact and gave her a wry smile, to which s…
/r/seduction27/05/26 04:15 AM
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And you have a legit medical issue, he's hung up on his ex...it works fine when he thinks about her. Yeah, normally it's something that wanes over time. Pills should be a last resort or for someone with a medical issue. Taking pills when your system is supposed to be working as advertised other than..."feels", is going to mess things up. I've known a dude that took Viagra just to see, had an ultra boner...had to go to the doctor to get it "deflated" and his shit wouldn't get erect for weeks afte…
/r/seduction27/05/26 03:10 AM
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Sure, it happens to everyone right?
/r/seduction27/05/26 03:03 AM
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Most of my best relationships started off fast, real hot, passionate and we just kept it going until things didn't work out. My favorite relationships were the one's we threw in with each other real quick. That spark happened.
/r/seduction27/05/26 02:38 AM
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You can always blow it off to "feeling" it too much. New relationships and love are like that, it's like a drug, it makes people do and say crazy things. Just throttle back enough to control your...wordage? But, don't lose the energy! show her with your body language how you feel about her, not with just sex.
/r/seduction27/05/26 02:33 AM
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It's mental. If it's not a physical thing, like you can get fully hard and it happens easily for your ex... You're 28, so you shouldn't be taking any pills...zero! I'm 48 and I can get hard, easily. For you, it's mental.
/r/seduction26/05/26 10:34 PM
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BDE helps forsure. But, being able to sit back and handle any conversation and watch her body language react is a whole other skill entirely.
/r/seduction19/05/26 04:19 PM
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Experience
/r/seduction19/05/26 04:09 PM
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Walk away graciously and try to remember where the interaction my have went wrong. I've done this and immediately rolled right into someone attractive and had a way better outcome.
/r/seduction17/05/26 08:05 PM
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This is the single most important thing you can physically control besides your mental state and pick up game. I am active constantly, whether is calisthenics, weights, work, workouts, concerts, events dancing, sex. I'm 6'2", 205-ish, physically large but not fat, lean built and considered good looking. I take dancing lessons, so I can move very languidly, yet be absolutely purposeful. Coupled with dressing well and a ton of confidence, I am sure and graceful when I move, like a cat. And women n…
/r/seduction17/05/26 01:47 PM
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Genuinely giving attention, not over attention, there are subtle flirts, flirting, being friendly, then "aggressive". Desperation tends to be more with intent and eye contact. People's eyes betray all their interests, who/what catches their eye, how long they hold that object in their gaze and how often their eyes draw them back. So the big difference with showing interest that is authentic and not desperation, is how you're showing your intent. White knuckles holding onto a drink with 1000 yard…
/r/seduction16/05/26 03:40 PM
1

"Are you into auto-fellatio?" "What's that?" "Where you watch me suck my own dick."
/r/seduction12/05/26 04:54 PM
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I've been doing exactly what you are saying and it's working wonders. I go to lots of concerts and events for work and have befriended an awesome beautiful female friend who has been introducing me to her friends over the last few months.
/r/seduction07/05/26 11:30 PM
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Look up dancing lessons in your local area. Facebook "Events". Lots of bars will sponsor nights, I have about 4-5 in my local area with dancing lessons nights. Go to low intensity concerts like edm, dubstep, bass type music, go up front where the "pit" is...it's full of 25-50+ year old women swaying and getting ready for the bass drops. About 3-4 hours of it...they're looking for the next ecstasy hit...sex. It's dark nobody is really noticing, learning to feel the music and do the same thing but…
/r/seduction07/05/26 09:40 PM
2

Understanding what you really want. There are many parameters to it. You need to figure out, what applies to you, what is a strategy you can use in life in general to find an inner acceptance. Then you build off that. As the other posted commented. You feel lesser people are getting something you feel you deserve. Examine that, why? What did you do to win that woman? How did he win her? How would you interact with her in order to get her to like you? I see a lot of guys with women that seem unde…
/r/seduction07/05/26 01:41 PM
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Yeah, because dating requires a gym and supplements now... He eats a mostly vegetarian diet so he needs proteins, like simple chicken, fish, and eggs. I would suggest chicken and eggs is probably the cheapest. You don't need a gym, get some card board lay out a mat and do calisthenics, using your own body weight. Find old heavy cast iron to use as weights, like a kettle bell, get an old wood post or log and use it to lift and carry on your shoulder, do lifts and cleans with it. Eating right is g…
/r/seduction07/05/26 01:03 PM
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You don't need a gym membership or sups. Prison workout. You don't need nice clothes. Almost every woman says, "guy pulling off a white shirt and jeans, is basic sexy." You need to be comfortable with yourself first.
/r/seduction07/05/26 03:17 AM
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Important, but so is being a bit feminine, by showing grace and fluidity when you move, especially dancing and engage in casual banter. I have more luck dancing with women and getting close to them in casual conversation by meeting them on their playing field than I do acting tough and aloof. Women want to have a good time, laugh, dance and feel free uninhibited. Not feel intimidated into compliance. Elvis didn't win girls over by being a good guitarist, he did it by shaking his hips. Remember t…
/r/seduction07/05/26 02:14 AM
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A friend of mine said she decided in the first 30 seconds. It just took a few months for that to happen.
/r/seduction07/05/26 02:09 AM
3

Buyer's remorse.
/r/seduction07/05/26 02:08 AM
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Have zero expectations. Dress simple, shoes, pants, shirts, that fit look clean and skimp in the bling, it looks tacky. Be in shape. If you are at a venue with music, feel the music. Banter, banter, banter. Be light hearted, flirt and have a good time.
/r/seduction03/05/26 07:04 PM
1

Go out, move with the music, make friends. It works.
/r/seduction27/04/26 03:33 PM
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I go to concerts, I engage in a large social circle with events, concerts and festivals in different towns. That is all tied to the cannabis industry, culture and community, so lines tend to get blurred and in a lot of cases, age isn't an issue. What I am seeing is Gen X age people trying to enjoy themselves and a lot of younger people 21-30 that are more than accepting if you understand the modern social landscape. The age group I interact with most is 21-40, with a handful of 40-60 year olds t…
/r/seduction25/04/26 07:03 PM
3

I started college at 48 and I am walking the fine line of being just interested enough to engage in banter and conversation but not enough for anyone to put their finger on that I am crossing a line. Showing the wrong kind of interest with large age disparities is what everyone is trying to avoid. Most young adults have been really accepting of me going back to school, they are curious and welcoming. I myself, don't have an "agenda" to chase college aged young women. If I have an agenda it to me…
/r/seduction23/04/26 11:40 PM
1

I bought mine off the website. https://stevanterzic.com
/r/seduction23/04/26 10:14 PM
1

I'm 48, age doesn't mean anything. Read "Flip the Fucking Switch." By Steven Terzic. His advice is to learn to reframe your entire perspective from feeling not welcome, to always knowing you are as welcome as anyone else in these kinds of public spaces. You don't owe anyone an apology for wanting something more out of life. You have just as much of a right to be there as anyone else. They're doing it too. Be comfortable in your own body and enjoy yourself, first.
/r/seduction23/04/26 02:24 AM
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They do when you understand how they are selecting. I'm 6'2", 200 lbs, built, full head of hair, considered good looking, larger, smarter than most. Women have openly approached me randomly, throughout my life. I've had gf's call me back years later. I met a girl the other night at a concert, who approached me and told me I was sexy. They do.
/r/seduction21/04/26 11:53 PM
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I do a little of both, chasing puts me on their radar and into their circle of friends, who I make my allies. I attract them through proximity, engagement and dialog, then I put myself into their arena to get their attention. Finally, I kinda make myself the center of their immediate universe.
/r/seduction15/04/26 01:25 AM
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I had sex at 16 before I ever really masturbated, and had a solid gf for the next 6 years. I became a door to door salesman in LA, (yeah, it was as awful as it sounds) but fuck did I learn to talk to people. Porn is too easy of a release. It's too easy to "put off" doing the hard work and meeting real people. I'm in great shape and started college in my 40's, when you're turning girls heads in their 20's, and you can talk to them without being a creeper. You know you learned a valuable skill.
/r/seduction10/04/26 04:21 AM
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Hmm, because your rejection sounds like you asked a direct question? If a guy has played his cards right, she'll let you know if you're going the right direction, you shouldn't be really asking anything other than when she's ready to dip out and who's place you want to go to?
/r/seduction08/04/26 12:48 AM
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Over 100 I'm pretty sure, I'm 48, a few long term gf's, now I'm going into my 3rd phase of bird dogging...I started college.
/r/seduction02/04/26 03:20 AM
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Hmm, I'm a bigger dude and I found that it works for me because I use it to quietly make myself more physically intimidating, also having been in the military helps with maintaining a "ready" poise. I have always had a lifelong ability to speak well with almost anyone, I'm very engaging, public speaking doesn't bother me. I go out of my way to create opportunities to interact with attractive women and people in important positions. So I use a mix of personnas (know your audience), plus a genuine…
/r/seduction25/03/26 02:27 AM
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I'm 48 and my age range is 25-50, I talk to and flirt with women constantly. Its actually easier because I don't care if I score or not, I've been with a lot of women. So, I dont stress missing out on one every so often. I'm tall, well built and I have a full head of hair, I engage and shoot the shit random women all the time. Earth Girls are Easy.
/r/seduction22/03/26 03:13 AM
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It called a dog and pony show for reason. "Bikinis are for me, not for people to see me mostly nude". Right...piss off.
/r/seduction13/03/26 02:41 AM
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"And/or the pool". Reading is fundamental. Your stupidity it gross.
/r/seduction13/03/26 02:24 AM
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I find that seeing women I know at the gym, is kind of a non-starter. I've ran into 5-6 women from an industry we are all acquaintances or friends through. With 2 of them, we've expressed a level of mutual interest, nothing huge but valid interest. Every single time, "Yeah, I've got a routine/thing whatever, bye!" I think women mostly go to the gym and/or pool to get looked at, or do their workout to not be bothered and think some things out. Mind you I'm not a bad looking dude, my lady friend w…
/r/seduction13/03/26 01:45 AM
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This is pretty much my MO, I work in an industry that is 60% female and rising, the range in 21 to elderly, but the majority are 21 to 50. I make a point to be friendly, engaging, dress well, smell good and exude confidence. I am very careful at the moment not to sleep around but, I can tell it's starting to frustrate a few of the single women and a couple who have boy friends that are of low caliber. I notice more of them have began making a point to interact with me, I see the eyes, touching h…
/r/seduction27/09/25 05:14 PM
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This works with older women 30+ way easier than you think it should.
/r/seduction21/09/25 01:44 AM
1

Nope. It's obsessive and unhealthy, especially if she thinks of you seldom or not as much, because she has her own life to live. Think of the cafe diner scene in "Walk the Line" when Johnny Cash tells June, he used to stare at the teen magazines with her in them. And she reflexively says "Oh!?!" With a measure of surprised disgust.
/r/seduction15/09/25 04:45 AM
1

It's better that this happens as the night progresses, organically. As someone said too much too soon, or trying to maneuver too purposefully. Strategizing. Don't actively strategize. Let the circumstances flow and you adapt to them, but also don't be so passive the moments grow stale. That's why it's important to have a rough idea of a dynamic date, or meetup. An activity or event, a meal, snacks and refreshments, a chance to be in an intimate quiet place to talk, walk or wander, these types of…
/r/seduction15/09/25 03:05 AM
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Because, Western women typically convey intent with their eyes and on the street most Western men see that eye contact as an opening to initiate.
/r/seduction04/09/25 06:42 PM
4

The eyes are windows to the soul. Most women betray their intentions with their eyes.
/r/seduction30/08/25 06:19 AM
1

I no shit told her I thought she was hot and wanted her, she didn't want a serious long term thing but, she let me do everything I wanted with her and returned it with her own enthusiasm. One of the best girlfriends I've ever had, sex with her was amazing, we're still friends although we've moved on in life.
/r/seduction20/08/25 04:22 AM
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