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DiscussionRareBasis9710/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:57 PM
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Congrats on the new baby! Seeds make a great baby shower gift for mama bird. We have a suet feeder. We have about 4 pileated woodpeckers that come by at different times. They have a loud squawk they like to do when they arrive at the feeder. Just wish they would stop pecking at my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:27 PM
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Every PPD thread just becomes a dumpster fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 08:09 PM
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What's wrong with being submissive? To me that feels feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:36 PM
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Where is BMI 19-21 fetish guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:24 AM
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Things I did in the past when I saw a guy I was interested in: I would just drop something by him and he would pick it up for me. Or if I was feeling really friendly I would just say hello and ask for some quick help with something. Other things too, but those are some nice tricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:35 PM
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I think I replied to the wrong comment. This was for OP who said he had bottom of the barrel standards, which I really doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:41 AM
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That's not bottom enough. How about some kids, baby daddy drama, a smoking or drinking habit, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:13 AM
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Describe bottom barrel standards please?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:11 AM
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I haven't worked in years. Best decision ever. I don't know why so many women are career crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:10 AM
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I'm in the midwest. Jocks aren't bigger here than anywhere else. I guess if you're a sporty girl you probably like sporty guys though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:46 PM
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<image> Can a man have a portrait of him and his homie on the wall and still be straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:57 PM
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My husband was a stranger. I never met anyone romantically through my group because I was someone with a couple of friends scattered here and there. I also reinvented my life a few times over and never stayed around the same people very long. For me meeting someone through a friend group means everyone will know your business, you'll have to answer for everything they find out about you, if you make a mistake you'll always be remembered for it, and a general feeling about just being stuck. I'm g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:36 PM
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That men are generally privileged. Only the minority are in this position.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:36 AM
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Single people taking advice from people in love can either make you feel optimistic or annoyed. If you need the hope then the optimism is great. But if you're tired of everyone else being in love then it's just annoying. As a married woman I only take advice from other people who have been married a long time. I've had divorced women give me advice that would have me divorced in no time. But I've also had a married feminist type give me unsolicited advice that was downright opposed to my marriag…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:26 AM
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I know you're not supposed to, but when I see a homeless person with cats I give them some cash. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:19 AM
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You mean dudes being angry and rapey?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:29 PM
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Am I going to be radicalized by PPD? Am I safe in here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:23 PM
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I'm jealous of Mennonite, Amish, and FLDS women. I love their traditional dresses. I would be so out of place wearing that stuff. So I have to settle for my regular long skirts and dresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:35 PM
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That sounds low key and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:30 PM
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I was engaged to a different man once. He was so into the wedding planning I thought he was gay. He wanted a big wedding too. His parents were getting too involved as well. I am a shy woman and wanted to get married either by ourselves or just with parents. I don't like all that drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:26 PM
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You can't win lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:10 PM
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You sound like a good guy she needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:00 PM
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Your dude r n :
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:58 PM
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I'm an antiquated traditionalist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:13 PM
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When I was in uni I was exposed for the first time to radical feminism. Could not believe how out of touch these women were. They held a campus rally for a student who put her newborn infant in a trash bag in a dorm bathroom. They would say things like men should only be utilized for reproduction and that's it. I don't see how women that young could already hate men so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:46 PM
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I started wearing strawberry scented perfume last week. Is that okay as an adult woman? Once I smelled my Strawberry Shortcake doll as a little girl I knew I wanted to smell like that when I grew up 🍓🍓🍓
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 02:37 PM
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I don't know what people consider tall here, but basketball player height, for example, is gross. All these scary arm and leg appendages reaching out like insect antennae. The tallest man I ever dated was 5'11 and he was lanky too. I didn't like that combination. All I could see was gristle and God help me when he didn't trim his nails it like looked like chicken talons reaching across the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:33 PM
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A woman might get a lot of first dates but many things can go bad, which means dating is not easy for women: He doesn't ask her out again. He is too handsy or talks about weird fetishes. He is cheap and doesn't expect to pay for dinner. He doesn't show up. He smells bad, etc. What is the use of all these dates if so many are fruitless?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:53 PM
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But aren't these very minute chances for you? You are not attracting rapey dudes on the regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:41 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:54 PM
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Did someone say looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:21 PM
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What is a UMC kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:05 PM
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Oh we've got some good threads going today.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:04 PM
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<image> How can this even be true? I'm not sure I believe this. Who is supporting them? Wouldn't this just be part of the homeless population?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:56 PM
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I always assumed it was about the mob, so I didn't watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:53 PM
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How can a girl feel safe like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:48 PM
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OMG serial killer vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:50 PM
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What kind? My husband likes to mix Crown Royal with Disaronno. I don't know anyone else that does this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:44 PM
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That is amazing! I'm scared you're going to say ice climbing too 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:42 PM
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I'd like to see how his life was in the Air Force. He was in his early 20s then and was probably really boyishly handsome. What about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:41 PM
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My sister and niece are both attractive women and really independent. Sister (quite a bit older than me) was widowed at a young age, and niece is highly educated. Niece has had 4 relationships that she thought would lead to marriage but for some reason didn't. They live together and don't appear to be pursuing relationships. I always wondered how 4 relationships in a row that seemed promising could fall apart. They are prettier than me, however, I've never been single very long. I am not indepen…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:39 PM
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I make decaf in a coffee maker. Having my morning cup now with whole milk I never tried steeped coffee. Do you make it on the stove?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:51 AM
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The food was immaculate or being with your date at the restaurant?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:53 AM
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It's okay if it didn't work out. You tried. I've made so many mistakes in the realm of work and also love, around people that I was friends/colleagues with. I felt embarrassed over things I did for years, But eventually people move on to new gossip in a couple of months. One day you won't even know these people anymore and you can start over.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:41 PM
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lmao are you saying we are like this killer chick?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:21 PM
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I think this is cute for a couple really low on funds. Some couples have no rings. My parents have no rings. They've been married for over 50 years. My best friend and her hubby got married quickly at 21 without rings. Still married after over 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:19 PM
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This is cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:06 PM
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Poor girl. Why do women have to die just in search of love? And what country are you in? Pls be careful!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:01 PM
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I think we're trying to console someone after they've been injured. But men are more concerned about preventing the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:45 PM
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Just want to feel nice though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:55 AM
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Why does everything have to be logical?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:42 AM
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lmao you sound like my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:42 AM
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Thanks and I understand. I had some nasty and backstabby girlbosses too!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:09 PM
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Where did you see me say anything bad about fellow Americans? I lived two-thirds of my life in Philadelphia and am well aware of what the "big city" is like. I chose to move to a rural area for quality of life and to get away from the cesspool that is city life. You have obviously lived a very protected existence if you think there is no incest, tooth decay, drunkenness, and shooting in the inner city. In fact, it's in your face there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:38 AM
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You did? How perfect 💞
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:11 PM
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LifeIncome2986 must also not have understood I was calling hardworking straight men red meat. Funny that he flipped out over soy. That has to be the most gay thing I've ever read lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:07 PM
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It's good to have that communication. And thank you. I'm married and he makes sure I'm ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:25 PM
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Why is M&M man sad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:20 PM
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LMAO @ you disqualifying yourself. NT = neat & tidy? neurally tolerable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:18 PM
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PPD is one of the most fun subs on Reddit. And there's lots of sexual tension here. There are a lot of obviously smart and funny participants Could be a lot of matches and marriages made here if people let down their guards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:59 PM
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I have to say I haven't heard of any of this. So I'm out of it. I have a traditional marriage. I'm a housewife. I live in the mid-west. Lots of us here have just husbands that bring home money. Aren't twinks and femboys gay? I'm sure straight women aren't seeking out men that aren't after V. When you live in a rural area like I do you have a lot of rugged men that do hard physical labor and are skillful in many necessary trades. I doubt anyone is replacing them. Soy can never really replace red …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:45 PM
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But it was an ex. Sounds like she rid him from her life for a reason. How can you judge a female based on her ex's behavior? What is this, sharia law?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:46 PM
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I agree that a don't ask don't tell approach is a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:40 PM
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If some men want to weaponize it as a tool of social survival then it shouldn't count as a lie because it's an irrational expectation. I think as long as a person is disease-free then the other person isn't really "getting into" anything. I mean it's just ghosts of the past that don't matter anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:38 PM
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When men sit across from women and ask them their N count you can just see that hamster wheel turning in his head thinking up how he's going to judge the poor girl. In the end a high N count should never be reported to a man who thinks this is a really important factor for a long-term relationship. This is because it might be used to keep women from a mutually beneficial marriage and jeopardize her future. A woman's N count should not include partners with only with only the following activities…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:20 PM
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Obvi your wife raping you when you're asleep. How do you deal? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:48 AM
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Yes, if they weren't being inappropriate then speaking to me no matter how I looked was okay🌸
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:47 AM
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Right. You want your spouse to be attracted to you like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:40 AM
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If it's a dealbreaker then nothing will change that. And I don't blame anyone for not wanting it. I didn't want a man with children myself. One of my first serious relationships involved a young divorced man with kids, however. He was a great dad but the kids were not mine. And when it came to certain topics it was emphasized I was not a very important factor. I never meant to stay with him. I was at an age where you kind of move from relationship to relationship more quickly. It was probably wr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:38 AM
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I learned with just having long hair and wearing skirts or dresses that men behaved differently around me. The more feminine I looked (not in a revealing way) the more men become more aggressive. Some would make inappropriate comments. I would say right then and there they are being objectifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:24 AM
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Either remarried or in long term relationships, except for one. The one is with a foreign man who appears to still be too attached to his ex-wife. A woman that doesn't want to be alone just has to use honey to attract men. Honey meaning being friendly, open, and respectful to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:10 AM
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From a female RP perspective: To begin with the idea that what people have coined HVM is usually just a passing thought in women's heads. When a woman meets a guy she has chemistry with and has decent qualities, he becomes her HVM. I have never known any of my single mother friends to not have men in their lives. 30 is pretty young, unless you are a guy that's around 30 or younger, then that age is just the norm for you. I've seen a number of factors that lead men to single women with kids. Alth…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:30 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:46 PM
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Your flair is intriguing as a traditional type myself. I never thought of consent as something happening between two women. But it makes sense because it still crosses personal boundaries and I think we are more verbal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:27 PM
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You just need a trimmer head. Women use them all the time. You can just shorten your hair as needed without the irritation or frequency of shaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:18 PM
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Sometimes you just need to advertise to more potentials. A number of guys would be out there following her into the woods. But then all kinds of trouble might happen. She has obvi never seen 48 Hours!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:15 PM
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No, it's just a natural break of eye contact so a woman is not doing a dominant prolonged stare. This repeated look and look away thing has been around since we were apes (or whatever we were).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:50 PM
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I mean it wasn't about me personally lol, just his question / statement got me a bit worked up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:32 PM
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Sounds very good. I add dill relish or chopped pickles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:02 PM
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All these gorillas see is raw meat. If I put out raw meat I'm going to attract the beasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:00 PM
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Yes, a solo trip into my closet and lock him in there ... tenderly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:56 PM
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They're like
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:55 PM
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I am a housewife
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:49 PM
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Now hold on. We can't just throw V around to make some dudes happy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:47 PM
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What happened to the body count question on the main subreddit? I had typed up a whole answer and the mods got rid of the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:46 PM
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I know everyone has something different that excites them. I personally don't like the idea of dominating a man. I'm submissive to my husband that way. Being a woman I don't even like being around women with dominant personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:47 PM
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You sound like a sweet couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:37 PM
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Are you saying your second ex basically was pushy with all the physical contact?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:48 PM
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You mean because in the end a man can always physically push a woman off without harm to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:42 PM
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Was it her way of perhaps trying to apologize? I've done similar things with my husband when I want to make it up to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:16 PM
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Casual sex is where that danger is. At least with taking care of the hubby it helps in many aspects of the relationship and you can generally feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:15 PM
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Yes, there's that fine line!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:12 PM
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Being seduced into it by your guy is so sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:11 PM
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Are you sure? Not in my experience!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:48 PM
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Making eye contact with a man and then looking down, and repeating that is a low risk way to make a first move with a man. In many people's eyes this isn't technically a first move because it's subtle, but it makes a man feel safe that he can approach if his interest is piqued. If he's not interested then he won't approach. It doesn't mean this will result in a relationship, but it sure usually gets him started. And many relationships have started this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:08 PM
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Men have always been a utility for me besides there being an emotional factor. I need him to provide, be a good sexual partner, be good at fixing things, and have a desire to protect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:04 PM
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I actually read this book years ago and still own it. I still follow some of the advice from it with my husband, such as letting a man go into his cave when he needs to and don't worry about it. And when he comes back to you he will be in a better mood and more attentive to you. Also, it generally helped me understand the traits of men better and be more appreciative of those differences. It did change my perspective on men back from the time I read it. I curtailed my behavior of trying to corre…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:55 PM
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I'm not sure. Probably sounds crazy. I'm married. I love it when my husband is excessively macho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:16 AM
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I think so too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:13 PM
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I don't think your usage of vulva is gross. It's more respectful than anything. I've heard some men say some really crude terms in the past in place of vulva. The painting of DJT with the small stuff is definitely women trying to make him feel like a small man. I don't really understand the phrase "small D energy" because I don't think male aggression has anything to do with size.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:03 PM
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Are you talking about men helping men come into themselves as a unifying concept? I agree men are held to the standard of having to be strong because women are more attracted to strong men. I even need a little bit of toxic masculinity to get excited sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:43 PM
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