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DiscussionRareBasis9710/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:57 PM
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What did you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:14 PM
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I was reading a forum thread that was saying most things women do in relationships is trading sex for a benefit, and that's akin to prostitution. Like when we're dating and the man pays for everything, and we inch closer to intimacy until we get what we need and then do it. Or how the engagement ring and wedding ring and his future income are in exchange for a promise to be a fully willing sex partner. I just never saw any of this stuff as wrong. But this thread was making it sound like it's pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:13 PM
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Anyone else here ever do anything close to prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:01 PM
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Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:46 PM
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You're only going to be sleeping with a man you're attracted to anyway. I mean in terms of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:01 PM
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They are attractive, but I think women like different things at different times. So I think successful men learn to adapt. For example, when women ovulate they often like masculinity in the extremes. Some women are turned on by aggression in men and rougher sex when they're ovulating but then would be upset at other times if he acted that way. So being able to change as needed is good. A good amount of women do not ovulate because they're on birth control, so not sure how that figures into it. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:57 PM
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- NOT sexually attracted to kindness, attention or dedication. Not all sex is about F-ing. Kindness, attention and dedication is part of what makes for a solid relationship. When a man treats you well it inspires making love. Not all that angry stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:16 PM
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That's not fair
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 01:57 PM
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What are we like dear sir?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 01:51 PM
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I hope you are joking about proposing. Because once you propose you wouldn't ghost. You have to become more considerate my friend. You are going to leave dead bodies with these tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:03 PM
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Yes. Ghosting will lead someone more quickly into the arms of another person. Ignoring someone for weeks at a time sends also the message she can never rely on you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:54 AM
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You ghosted. She had to find a new man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:37 PM
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Going to be having ramped up weather tomorrow. Have my storm bang planned with hubby tomorrow morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:33 PM
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New thread. New dread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:31 PM
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Congrats on the new baby! Seeds make a great baby shower gift for mama bird. We have a suet feeder. We have about 4 pileated woodpeckers that come by at different times. They have a loud squawk they like to do when they arrive at the feeder. Just wish they would stop pecking at my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:27 PM
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Every PPD thread just becomes a dumpster fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 08:09 PM
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How many people in your trunk right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:28 PM
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I don't understand what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:21 PM
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This guy is not handsome to me. I also would not respect him. He probably has a bevvy of dudes that keep him paid as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:00 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:49 PM
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It's what we're naturally attracted to. A submissive man does not make a flower dewy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:48 PM
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I agree. It's normal as heteros want our opposites.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:41 PM
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It's sad that we are using the term "masculine" to define some women and women seem okay with seeing themselves that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:40 PM
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What's wrong with being submissive? To me that feels feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:36 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:50 AM
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No, I would say my husband healed me. Came and rescued me so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:47 AM
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Are you scared because the BMI guy will be attracted to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:09 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:59 AM
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No, but it's just funny that it's in so many of his comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:59 AM
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Where is BMI 19-21 fetish guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:24 AM
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Some men really know they want to marry you that fast. My best friend's other best friend was married two weeks after meeting her dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:21 AM
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The level of delusion in some PPD posts is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:18 AM
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Ahh. I hadn't thought of that. Feminists have messed up a lot of minds. And isn't sexual attraction of men toward women normal to be somewhat predatory? Isn't that part of biology? Going about catching the one you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:37 PM
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Do men ever grapple with sexual shame? Been married 12 years and only recently started asking him to act out grape fantasies I've had forever. I couldn't let it out before now. Now I'm still embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:24 PM
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Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:49 AM
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I call my husband "daddy." What do you call your S/O?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:45 AM
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I met my husband focusing on other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:29 PM
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When you are crazy enough about someone to want to marry them you will generally not care to contact anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:27 PM
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Sometimes yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:21 PM
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Every woman's nightmare
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:16 PM
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Things I did in the past when I saw a guy I was interested in: I would just drop something by him and he would pick it up for me. Or if I was feeling really friendly I would just say hello and ask for some quick help with something. Other things too, but those are some nice tricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:35 PM
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Men that use body language power moves early on to intimidate, like puffing their chest out while you're in a corner or by a wall. Someone who's grabby. Someone who talks too fast and doesn't wait for your responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:47 AM
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Yes, red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:44 AM
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I think I replied to the wrong comment. This was for OP who said he had bottom of the barrel standards, which I really doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:41 AM
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That's not bottom enough. How about some kids, baby daddy drama, a smoking or drinking habit, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:13 AM
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Describe bottom barrel standards please?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:11 AM
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I haven't worked in years. Best decision ever. I don't know why so many women are career crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:10 AM
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Red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:47 PM
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I'm in the midwest. Jocks aren't bigger here than anywhere else. I guess if you're a sporty girl you probably like sporty guys though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:46 PM
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Never liked jocks, and certainly not men that wear baseball caps backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:44 PM
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I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:33 PM
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I hated being single. Love being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:28 PM
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You mean models?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:17 PM
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This can be really wholesome OR ominous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:03 PM
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I'd be okay with it. My husband has a hobby or two that gets into a lot of our conversations and parts of our lives. I just acknowledge and let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:02 PM
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No. I was extremely close to my dad. And my mom wasn't very maternal. They are still married. My dad did a lot of that stuff with me. As long as you and your wife agree, it's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:00 PM
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<image> Can a man have a portrait of him and his homie on the wall and still be straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:57 PM
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lmao what is a sidequest
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:45 PM
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Total non starter in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:39 PM
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She just wants to get some healthy cues about him first before going out. Some men don't understand any kind of demureness though. They just want to shove ahead. At the end this guy showed signs he would always be the impatient kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:38 PM
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Where do you see that though?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:13 PM
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Me either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:12 PM
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Makes life feel especially cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:40 PM
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No wonder some people are single. https://preview.redd.it/0mu17g7uvj4f1.jpeg?width=603&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=183d84fd73f1864736c488b5367130535a6fb1a1
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:39 PM
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Yes, unless you have crash bars / grill guard. Usually you just see pickup trucks with those.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:34 PM
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It's definitely tough to see. We also see skunks and groundhogs dead on the roads or near them. Sometimes see the vultures nibbling at them too. It's terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:30 PM
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My husband was a stranger. I never met anyone romantically through my group because I was someone with a couple of friends scattered here and there. I also reinvented my life a few times over and never stayed around the same people very long. For me meeting someone through a friend group means everyone will know your business, you'll have to answer for everything they find out about you, if you make a mistake you'll always be remembered for it, and a general feeling about just being stuck. I'm g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:36 PM
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So she's weirded out because he has a cartoon character he enjoys. Sorry, but I'd be happy the bathroom is clean. That's the thing that really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:24 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:22 PM
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Me too. I'm like Chris Farley's character who was thrilled to get a D+. I don't even know what imposter syndrome means.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:19 PM
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From 4B Reddit: https://preview.redd.it/wdk3zkahgj4f1.jpeg?width=892&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5bab9f9a2e08cc3d90f7c61bebebfb4a745cb60a I could never be 4B, but is it mostly women who've suffered trauma? Reading some of these girls' past problems is heartbreaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:16 PM
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I hope this doesn't happen to you. You deserve a good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:20 PM
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I am an HFH. hoe for hubby. I think hoes generally but not always like men more!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:14 PM
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That men are generally privileged. Only the minority are in this position.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:36 AM
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Single people taking advice from people in love can either make you feel optimistic or annoyed. If you need the hope then the optimism is great. But if you're tired of everyone else being in love then it's just annoying. As a married woman I only take advice from other people who have been married a long time. I've had divorced women give me advice that would have me divorced in no time. But I've also had a married feminist type give me unsolicited advice that was downright opposed to my marriag…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:26 AM
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Is this gentleman the law?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:02 AM
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Yes, this is from Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:20 AM
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I know you're not supposed to, but when I see a homeless person with cats I give them some cash. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:19 AM
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Care to share? (If it's not too traumatic).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:03 AM
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Cutest thing I read today.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:55 AM
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What age are you talking about and what happened? I was a late bloomer. Did a lot of awkward things. Still doing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:54 AM
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I would hope not and I sympathize.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:51 AM
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You've got the right mindset IMO. I'm totally trad and married. I think men should generally be forward like that. If it's a red flag then the woman just wouldn't be the right one for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:50 AM
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No lol. I'm married. Just way too into online drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:46 AM
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He should have offered to pick her up first. But she pulled that snapping turtle move on him real quick! Definitely could have been more gracious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:45 AM
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A man that matched with a woman and he asked her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:18 AM
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That went south quickly. https://preview.redd.it/146yx0s0ye4f1.jpeg?width=526&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f38d66bfaaac0c9c5030e4a5586011fdbaf26d22
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:03 AM
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Did you get thumb replacement surgery recently?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:47 AM
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Green my favorite color. Ppl are sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:47 AM
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You mean like 14 vs 21?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:47 PM
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Sir you are speaking in riddles!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:47 PM
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My dad was and is a highly accountable man. I had to learn only men that like or love you are really accountable to you. I don't think most people are generally accountable unless there is a carrot/stick involved. Otherwise change/growth is usually not possible IMO unless it's something someone wants from inside of himself. I don't think mysogyny changes any of these factors. In most cases you can expect a grown man to always be who he already is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:44 PM
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You mean dudes being angry and rapey?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:29 PM
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Am I going to be radicalized by PPD? Am I safe in here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:23 PM
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I know
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:23 PM
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You go girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:52 PM
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It's the traditionalism associated with it for me rather than it being fashionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:51 PM
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I'm jealous of Mennonite, Amish, and FLDS women. I love their traditional dresses. I would be so out of place wearing that stuff. So I have to settle for my regular long skirts and dresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:35 PM
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That sounds low key and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:30 PM
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Ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:29 PM
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I was engaged to a different man once. He was so into the wedding planning I thought he was gay. He wanted a big wedding too. His parents were getting too involved as well. I am a shy woman and wanted to get married either by ourselves or just with parents. I don't like all that drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:26 PM
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lmao isn't that an overreaction buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:23 PM
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You can't win lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:10 PM
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You sound like a good guy she needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:00 PM
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Your dude r n :
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:58 PM
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I don't think men are really worried about the "simp" label. If that were true they'd never help us out. I've been helped by men so many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:53 PM
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Didn't find my husband for a while. I thought it meant that kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:46 PM
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Those would all be no. I just struggled to find my husband for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:43 PM
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I think I was once a femcel. How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:50 PM
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lol yes that's me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:49 PM
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This is giving me serial killer vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:30 PM
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How has he changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:51 PM
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Under normal circumstances, no. I think there are complex issues going on when women stay with an abuser. I don't like the term incel because I don't think being a bachelor should be demeaned. But there are incels that abuse or kill women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:29 PM
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I used to belong to a high-end gym. I was at that place at least 4 days a week. It felt luxurious just to be in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:49 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:39 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:23 PM
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I'm an antiquated traditionalist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:13 PM
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When I was in uni I was exposed for the first time to radical feminism. Could not believe how out of touch these women were. They held a campus rally for a student who put her newborn infant in a trash bag in a dorm bathroom. They would say things like men should only be utilized for reproduction and that's it. I don't see how women that young could already hate men so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:46 PM
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I don't know any woman who wants to be beaten violently. That's not being a Chad. That's being a psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:30 PM
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Ragebait
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:22 PM
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It sounds like he'd be on the defensive fast in a relationship. Some shorter dudes are scary intense. The leader of Scientology, David Miscavige is about 5'3. His wife said something about him he didn't like about 18 years ago. She's been locked away in some compound ever since then. No one ever sees her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:20 PM
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Oh I don't like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:12 PM
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No way man. Who would say that about Jesus? Babes all over the world pray to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 02:43 PM
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I started wearing strawberry scented perfume last week. Is that okay as an adult woman? Once I smelled my Strawberry Shortcake doll as a little girl I knew I wanted to smell like that when I grew up 🍓🍓🍓
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 02:37 PM
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Are you sure this isn't a woman? I saw the term "Hoe Math". I thought that was just tongue in cheek, a girl out there living it up or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 02:25 PM
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Me either. To me it's more stressful to go away. I'm a homebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 02:23 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 02:22 PM
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I didn't know that about the jawline. We all have our tricks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:36 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:02 PM
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I'm pale and have always had a thing for pale skin myself. Deep into white love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:02 PM
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I don't know. I'm feeling weird. Am I up to something today?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:56 PM
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I never really liked beards on men, with one or two exceptions. More than anything it looks aging. I've noticed it can make a 22 year old guy look 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:55 PM
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So wholesome. Love this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:52 PM
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He means chickens, at a farm. Lots of eggs coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:51 PM
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⬆️Someone with a Hello Kitty obsession is going to fall in love with this dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:44 PM
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Bossiness is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:42 PM
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I can tell this dude is really tall. Men with blockheads are always tall. He probably likes that overpowering feeling. Does not make him a pedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:42 PM
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I don't think so because they are in control of the asking and pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 02:14 AM
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Makes sense. I can respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:39 AM
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Thanks. I'm glad someone agrees!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:37 AM
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LMAO you're taking this stuff way too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:36 AM
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LOL. I think I'm joking. I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:08 AM
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As we all are ... I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:47 PM
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Can I buy people?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:46 PM
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I think a man that is stocky & muscular of average height is more attractive than tall and slim. But that's just me. 5'1 going for no less than 6'3 sounds like a fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:43 PM
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I don't know where this 90% is supposed to be coming from. What's a world without D? Straight women want D and can't imagine not wanting D.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:37 PM
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Yes. That's Christopher Walken.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:18 PM
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But I'm serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:36 PM
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First one sounds like a bum. The second one sounds good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:35 PM
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I don't know what people consider tall here, but basketball player height, for example, is gross. All these scary arm and leg appendages reaching out like insect antennae. The tallest man I ever dated was 5'11 and he was lanky too. I didn't like that combination. All I could see was gristle and God help me when he didn't trim his nails it like looked like chicken talons reaching across the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:33 PM
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I'm sure there is a lady out there needing saving!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:12 PM
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A woman might get a lot of first dates but many things can go bad, which means dating is not easy for women: He doesn't ask her out again. He is too handsy or talks about weird fetishes. He is cheap and doesn't expect to pay for dinner. He doesn't show up. He smells bad, etc. What is the use of all these dates if so many are fruitless?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:53 PM
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But aren't these very minute chances for you? You are not attracting rapey dudes on the regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:41 PM
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Watch out for all those ladies stud!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:01 PM
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I couldn't. I like human male too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:25 PM
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I don't know who this Norah lady was but I like a manly man. I don't mean all muscles, but manly looking and strong and confident but not cocky. Masculine. Not some fake dude. Gooddangit you all know what I mean!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:07 PM
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I applaud your ambition. For me, seeing guys do flexible stuff is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:59 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:54 PM
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50% career/money and 50% looks/chemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:46 PM
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Perhaps most of these men would change their mind if they found a girlfriend/wife? I think love takes care of a lot of these issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:33 PM
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Oh, I'm not laughing at you. You just made my Saturday more interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:27 PM
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Did someone say looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:21 PM
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What is a UMC kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:05 PM
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Oh we've got some good threads going today.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:04 PM
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<image> How can this even be true? I'm not sure I believe this. Who is supporting them? Wouldn't this just be part of the homeless population?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:56 PM
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I always assumed it was about the mob, so I didn't watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:53 PM
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How can a girl feel safe like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:48 PM
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Sorry friend
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:45 PM
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Is pretending to like a man's hobby coercion? I kept that one up for years. But seriously there are men that go to nightclubs with high end rental cars so women think they're rich. You know what happens after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:08 PM
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OMG serial killer vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:50 PM
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Both posts were deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:46 PM
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What kind? My husband likes to mix Crown Royal with Disaronno. I don't know anyone else that does this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:44 PM
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That is amazing! I'm scared you're going to say ice climbing too 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:42 PM
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I'd like to see how his life was in the Air Force. He was in his early 20s then and was probably really boyishly handsome. What about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:41 PM
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My sister and niece are both attractive women and really independent. Sister (quite a bit older than me) was widowed at a young age, and niece is highly educated. Niece has had 4 relationships that she thought would lead to marriage but for some reason didn't. They live together and don't appear to be pursuing relationships. I always wondered how 4 relationships in a row that seemed promising could fall apart. They are prettier than me, however, I've never been single very long. I am not indepen…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:39 PM
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Wow, that is a great idea. Takes up less space on a counter too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:20 PM
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This is why it's better to hang out by yourselves as a couple. My husband and I rarely bring anyone around that isn't a relative. It helps that we are loners. I didn't even let my single female cousin stay with us before I was married. She needed a place to stay while traveling through the area. I had never met her before either. I told her we were going to be out. Temptation is everywhere for both women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:01 PM
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We used to just call them bachelors. I think it gives some guys an unneeded complex about being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:54 AM
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I make decaf in a coffee maker. Having my morning cup now with whole milk I never tried steeped coffee. Do you make it on the stove?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:51 AM
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The food was immaculate or being with your date at the restaurant?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:53 AM
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You mean like the international teams?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:51 PM
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You can't just put anyone in front of a jet or vehicle and expect then to know how to repair it. Every trade requires a specific skill set.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:36 PM
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Can you tell me why you pick those and why you think the 3 I picked are cheaters?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:32 PM
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Brain absolutely necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:27 PM
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Girl, yes, give me some male aggression to complement my passiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:22 PM
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Yes, exactly, monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:19 PM
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Yes. All of the above occupations also happen to be dangerous if you don't heed a lot of safety regulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:15 PM
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Waitress, nurse, maid. I don't know lol ... I don't want to say skrippers, hookers, etc because that's too overt. What is your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:07 PM
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lmao that's terrible, assuming the worst 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:04 PM
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I'm not cheap. I just like men doing manual work that runs the world. My husband was a jet mechanic in the military, so I'm prejudiced.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:02 PM
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I'm a heterosexual woman though. I'm not sure I have the answer for that?!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:59 PM
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Yess!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:57 PM
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LOL why do you say? I don't even go to nail salons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:57 PM
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This is great for staying out of trouble, and I agree it's healthiest to let go of anger. But where is the passion? The red meat savagery? A man shouldn't pursue a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:54 PM
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We just want them to do the hard stuff. Once they do that they are rewarded by us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:45 PM
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Sexiest occupations for men = mechanic, electrician, road construction
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:42 PM
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Is this a pre-nup? Once someone upvotes it they're married to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:40 PM
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Academia is the worst for pushing feminism. Just when people are at their youngest, most fertile, and surrounded by the opposite sex, they end up surrounded by professors teaching radical ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:29 PM
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Being a feminist has to be the worst. You scare off all the D. Then when you want a man they are nowhere to be found. And I don't get the whole male feminist thing. I would be so turned off by a male feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:27 PM
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Congrats on the grades and apt cleaning. I love making a whole dish of food, like stuffed cabbage rolls or manicotti in the oven. Then I can just take portions as needed for whenever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:24 PM
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Okay my turn : Masculine, Rugged > Sexy, Handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:19 PM
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If you don't have a boyfriend you might meet a guy through one of your customers. My uncle ended up marrying a waitress at a local diner he frequented.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:59 PM
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Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:56 PM
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You mean like when cats sneeze?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:56 PM
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To me a good man has nothing to do with looks or wealth. A good man has a decent character, ethics, and is hard-working.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:47 PM
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There's no clue to knowing he was a bad dude. He was just a predator looking for a female to victimize.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:54 PM
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I wouldn't hold it against someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:43 PM
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It's okay if it didn't work out. You tried. I've made so many mistakes in the realm of work and also love, around people that I was friends/colleagues with. I felt embarrassed over things I did for years, But eventually people move on to new gossip in a couple of months. One day you won't even know these people anymore and you can start over.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:41 PM
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His big belt will look so nice with this ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:30 PM
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I upvoted you because you made my day. It's too funny. I'm like the opposite of her. Don't you think this supposed woman is the extreme example rather than the norm? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:28 PM
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lmao are you saying we are like this killer chick?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:21 PM
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I think this is cute for a couple really low on funds. Some couples have no rings. My parents have no rings. They've been married for over 50 years. My best friend and her hubby got married quickly at 21 without rings. Still married after over 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:19 PM
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This is cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:06 PM
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Why does so much on social media make women look crazy? This woman looks like she's about to be violent with him. If I'm angry I don't get close to my husband like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:04 PM
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Poor girl. Why do women have to die just in search of love? And what country are you in? Pls be careful!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:01 PM
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Oh man nooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:37 PM
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I was looking on YouTube but there are many videos of him. Do not have Twitter account. Maybe it will still pop up on YT.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:31 PM
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Typical corporation crap
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:28 PM
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Do you have a link?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:26 PM
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Just looked and yikes, not funny. I saw a bunch of women praising another woman on Reddit yesterday when she was proud that her BF punched a guy who said something racist. It's like, yeah, encouraging and praising dudes for assault gets them headed straight to jail. I thought that was irresponsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:22 PM
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SNAP apparently always equals steak and lob
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:03 PM
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The problem is that sometimes mental illness related to trauma causes people to put themselves in the same situation again. They aren't always in control.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:56 PM
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I think we're trying to console someone after they've been injured. But men are more concerned about preventing the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:45 PM
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Golden memories
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:22 PM
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That's a younger generation than me. But I know a lot of men actually hate Justin. I thought it was nice that Justin got married. I haven't thought much of them beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:21 PM
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Those guys were asking for too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:17 PM
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Hmm ... it can't only be me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:12 PM
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Do you mean like sewing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:57 PM
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Next time you see her look her in the face. See if her eyes travel to look at other parts of your face (like your eyebrows, nose mouth). Oftentimes when we find someone physically attractive we try to take in their features more. Men and women both do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:54 PM
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I think your sentence got cut off ...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:15 PM
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I know what you mean. One of my good friends was in the Army but she's feminine off the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:15 PM
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I think many women will relate to your statement. I am only tougher when it's required but I absolutely hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:14 PM
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Yes. I am married now but I think I was the first one to initiate talking with my husband online. He did the rest pretty much. He kept a cool, calm attitude, which I liked, but basically did the chasing. Do you have a girl that has expressed interest in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:11 PM
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This is a nice image though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:05 PM
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I didn't know being a degen was ever cool lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:04 PM
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Do any other women here feel really feminine? I feel really outdated sometimes. I don't like women's competitive sports, tough jobs, cursing, etc. I feel most women are much more aggressive than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:59 PM
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I only go to women doctors in general if I can help it. I like the empathy women doctors usually have. Male doctors seem to be cold. It's probably one of the only things I prefer women over men for. Men are great in most other fields IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:49 PM
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Definitely a buff man cat should be lifting that instead!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:38 PM
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I like it when guys just do an affirmative nod at each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:35 PM
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I'm so scared when I see other girls at the gym doing heavy lifting. Like why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:33 PM
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I think most of us want the guy to make the first move, the guy to do the chasing in general. But sometimes that chasing is just because they target you for a bop and that's all. But if a woman initiates subtle flirting and has the eyes on him first and he follows through it feels safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:29 PM
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I agree. There is a lot of wasted time in job hunting. When I got my first job after graduating uni I had to go through four interviews just to get hired.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:23 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:19 PM
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That is a really hard situation. You can probably even look back on your own life and think of how much today is better than a horrible time in your past. Ebbs and flows of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:14 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/sd31jk8nfx3f1.jpeg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d13cb8e4d3d53cc6fd1b4eff4aa2bcbbc37c66b3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:09 PM
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Also a man that has high standards for women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:24 AM
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Doing what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:19 AM
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We need morality and decency ... plus tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:13 AM
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I agree most probably like a traditionally attractive woman. The different kinds of women they talk about are probably more about fetishes, something they only think about in the heat of the moment and don't want to seriously date or marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:24 AM
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This man is confusing me. Why does he look feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:07 AM
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No one wants a job. That's what men are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:04 AM
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How do they know he's staring if they aren't also staring? Who's creeping who? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:01 AM
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Just want to feel nice though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:55 AM
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Apparently most of these hats cost $500 to $5000. I could buy so much stuff with that money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:47 AM
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Do you have an example friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:45 AM
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Why does everything have to be logical?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:42 AM
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lmao you sound like my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:42 AM
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She is someone's hot and broke lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:39 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:36 AM
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Aren't all exes mad at each other? You are normal. You can smile again 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:35 AM
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This makes me so happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:32 AM
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I saw on the news a 25 year old man was arrested for being in high school. I felt so bad for him. Thought he just wanted a place to belong. But the consensus is he could be a drug dealer or m*lester. Why did I think the most innocent reason instead of the worst?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:31 AM
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This looks like a bride in the clouds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:22 AM
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You should see some of the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:19 AM
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Are you having problems moving? Be careful friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:10 AM
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He's a tender little guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:46 AM
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Sir! I'm sure it's a job they hate if they aren't attracted to the customer or if he's too aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:40 AM
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You have to be attracted to the man. You can't just throw V around for nothing!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:44 AM
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Masculinity all the way!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:55 AM
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Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:53 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:46 AM
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Do all straight men consider themselves to be masculine? Do I as a woman have a much higher threshold for what I consider masculine to be in a man? Is that wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:16 AM
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Wait, is this a real question? Why would she be looking at his underwear unless she's washing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:59 PM
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I didn't think men had the bandwidth for all that drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:57 PM
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*Was scared for a min it was the end of this cat's relationship*
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:55 PM
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I'm a conservative woman and I think conservative men are just going for whose chemistry they mesh with, no matter what politics they might have. I don't think most men care about women's politics except if it becomes an argument starter and something a couple can't get past. I've always ended up with conservative guys myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:53 PM
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I was engaged to a virgin dude a couple of years before I met my husband. I was always weirded out that he never made moves on me beyond basic kissing. He lived with his parents but had a great job and good personality. But I didn't feel much physical attraction to him. I also felt like I was the dominant one in the relationship and I didn't like that feeling. We were around 30 years old at the time. I think there are a lot of women that are okay with a virgin man, especially if they are virgins…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:46 PM
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New Ford Escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:38 PM
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Yeah, I don't like the gristle look either. That's what the dry muscle thing reminds me of lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:34 PM
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I don't understand why the girls were so mean to these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:19 PM
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I really hate the way these girls acted. It seemed like the guys had a language barrier and were probably dumbfounded by the rudeness of the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:18 PM
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Artichokes are amazing. They are expensive around my area. But amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:13 PM
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Exactly same here!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:12 PM
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🤣 I'm crying. I had to look this guy up. Why do you assume I mean that? The best beef has some fat to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:09 PM
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Enjoy life in the sewer with your nasty masculine personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:21 PM
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No worries. It was just 10 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:10 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:09 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:07 PM
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LMAO yeah okay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:07 PM
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Any other ladies in here like guys a little chubby? I secretly packed a little weight onto my husband after I met him because I need a good pillow to lay on and like to feel surrounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:43 PM
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It's nice to see elegant thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:35 PM
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So many dudes ghost women after dates. I always assume they just don't like the girl for any number of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:34 PM
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We're homebodies, conveniently
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:24 PM
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These two look like they're made for each other, but she should be spared the emotional torture of this dude's way of acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:47 PM
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If the guy has the cat with him it will up his chances though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:45 PM
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I've been to all and I don't like any of them. (But I liked all the historical sightseeing in DC). I'm a country girl now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:44 PM
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We get the sirens for tornado warnings a few times a year but they are usually just quick small spin-ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:27 PM
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Is it the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:24 PM
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Do you have outdoor sirens in Cali? We have outdoor tornado sirens. They sound like really loud British police sirens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:15 PM
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Stay away from Florida sinkholes too. Be safe sis!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:14 PM
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No way, you're just talking about women that are 9's or 10's. Average girls don't have it like this. On cute days it can get good though!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:10 PM
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That is so sadddddddd
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:48 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:15 PM
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Wait, then you aren't trying to be the daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:15 PM
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Savage red pill guys every morning upon waking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:14 PM
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That's a Latina thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:13 PM
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Have to build that iron supply back up!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:09 PM
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Potential for 30 babies in 30 days = 30 paychecks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:08 PM
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They sound like they have V envy if they want to do all that!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:07 PM
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It's scary to think that straight men probably want this too 😯
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:02 PM
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I'm married. I keep my dude locked in the house or in the yard doing chores. No chance for other women to snatch him up lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:57 PM
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Kids should always have chores. You can only work in the USA at a job at 14 years of age, unless you're working for your parents. Then there is no age minimum. People were more responsible when they had jobs as kids. Most haven't done that since the 1930s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:51 PM
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I don't understand math even in word problems like this! You might as well be Tesla right now!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:47 PM
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Freaked out to know places like that exist. My goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:43 PM
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Is this how gay romance novels read?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:42 PM
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This excerpt made my day. Was not expecting the "collided" sentence and the one about being straight 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:42 PM
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He's just another deadbeat and not handsome at all IMO. What kind of women are salivating over this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:40 PM
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Now that's a man in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:33 PM
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Yes, that is normal for us too. Like you, I also don't do the power play thing on my husband if we are in a non male dominant position. It's just something for variety. I have to confess I don't like it as much though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:31 PM
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Thanks and I understand. I had some nasty and backstabby girlbosses too!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:09 PM
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This thread is a dumpster fire lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:39 AM
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Women are rewarded for sex, even in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:36 AM
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This man doesn't look loved up to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:22 AM
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When I was dating only once did a man accept my offer to pay half. He was super douchey though, and yes it was a turnoff. Other than that even when a guy didn't ask me out again they always paid. I don't think this point is related to my topic though because shaming of women over this goes to such a deep place of personal value. Even if a guy in the beginning acts like he accepts a number he can always hold it against her in the future by calling her cheap names in an argument. Having a low N co…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:09 AM
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Where did you see me say anything bad about fellow Americans? I lived two-thirds of my life in Philadelphia and am well aware of what the "big city" is like. I chose to move to a rural area for quality of life and to get away from the cesspool that is city life. You have obviously lived a very protected existence if you think there is no incest, tooth decay, drunkenness, and shooting in the inner city. In fact, it's in your face there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:38 AM
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I didn't think about it at the time but I would have wanted a guy at least as tall as me. I'm average height at 5'4.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:13 PM
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You did? How perfect 💞
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:11 PM
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LifeIncome2986 must also not have understood I was calling hardworking straight men red meat. Funny that he flipped out over soy. That has to be the most gay thing I've ever read lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:07 PM
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It's good to have that communication. And thank you. I'm married and he makes sure I'm ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:25 PM
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Why is M&M man sad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:20 PM
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LMAO @ you disqualifying yourself. NT = neat & tidy? neurally tolerable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:18 PM
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PPD is one of the most fun subs on Reddit. And there's lots of sexual tension here. There are a lot of obviously smart and funny participants Could be a lot of matches and marriages made here if people let down their guards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:59 PM
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Us tradcons are alive and well too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:54 PM
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I have to say I haven't heard of any of this. So I'm out of it. I have a traditional marriage. I'm a housewife. I live in the mid-west. Lots of us here have just husbands that bring home money. Aren't twinks and femboys gay? I'm sure straight women aren't seeking out men that aren't after V. When you live in a rural area like I do you have a lot of rugged men that do hard physical labor and are skillful in many necessary trades. I doubt anyone is replacing them. Soy can never really replace red …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:45 PM
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I thought he just wasn't interested in romance. That's the story I heard. He was a nice looking man and insanely smart. Did women not see this? How could my dude Nic T never find a lady love?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:47 PM
1

You're right though. Men have to shoot their shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:45 PM
1

"Chubby Northerner" is the best part
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:43 PM
1

What's wrong with stereotypical masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:42 PM
1

Who are these invisible men?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:25 PM
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I will never believe that based on my own experience before meeting my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:14 PM
1

He means 19-21 year old black models
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:12 PM
1

Are you seeking out supermodels or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:09 PM
1

But Cali bears are brown!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:07 PM
2

It's time to end the date if it's not going well. Girl does not want to freeze for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:07 PM
2

If she says she's cold and he doesn't offer the jacket then she 1) won't go on a second date with him and 2) he doesn't like her so he wouldn't ask her out again. If he's freezing in the wind then she surely would be. So if he asks for the jacket back in the freezing cold then again no second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:06 PM
1

Everyone loses their charms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:01 PM
1

Don't worry your two dudes will still be here for you ...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:59 PM
2

Your left or my left? Because my left is the dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:55 PM
3

Next move ...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:52 PM
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But it was an ex. Sounds like she rid him from her life for a reason. How can you judge a female based on her ex's behavior? What is this, sharia law?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:46 PM
1

Your flair is the best in all of PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:38 PM
1

That's my marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:35 PM
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I agree that a don't ask don't tell approach is a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:40 PM
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If some men want to weaponize it as a tool of social survival then it shouldn't count as a lie because it's an irrational expectation. I think as long as a person is disease-free then the other person isn't really "getting into" anything. I mean it's just ghosts of the past that don't matter anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:38 PM
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When men sit across from women and ask them their N count you can just see that hamster wheel turning in his head thinking up how he's going to judge the poor girl. In the end a high N count should never be reported to a man who thinks this is a really important factor for a long-term relationship. This is because it might be used to keep women from a mutually beneficial marriage and jeopardize her future. A woman's N count should not include partners with only with only the following activities…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:20 PM
1

Can I comment here without going to Discord? I don't use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:15 PM
2

Not objectification.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:58 AM
1

No but it's okay. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:55 AM
-1

Obvi your wife raping you when you're asleep. How do you deal? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:48 AM
2

Yes, if they weren't being inappropriate then speaking to me no matter how I looked was okay🌸
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:47 AM
8

Right. You want your spouse to be attracted to you like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:40 AM
3

If it's a dealbreaker then nothing will change that. And I don't blame anyone for not wanting it. I didn't want a man with children myself. One of my first serious relationships involved a young divorced man with kids, however. He was a great dad but the kids were not mine. And when it came to certain topics it was emphasized I was not a very important factor. I never meant to stay with him. I was at an age where you kind of move from relationship to relationship more quickly. It was probably wr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:38 AM
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I learned with just having long hair and wearing skirts or dresses that men behaved differently around me. The more feminine I looked (not in a revealing way) the more men become more aggressive. Some would make inappropriate comments. I would say right then and there they are being objectifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:24 AM
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Either remarried or in long term relationships, except for one. The one is with a foreign man who appears to still be too attached to his ex-wife. A woman that doesn't want to be alone just has to use honey to attract men. Honey meaning being friendly, open, and respectful to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:10 AM
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From a female RP perspective: To begin with the idea that what people have coined HVM is usually just a passing thought in women's heads. When a woman meets a guy she has chemistry with and has decent qualities, he becomes her HVM. I have never known any of my single mother friends to not have men in their lives. 30 is pretty young, unless you are a guy that's around 30 or younger, then that age is just the norm for you. I've seen a number of factors that lead men to single women with kids. Alth…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:30 AM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:46 PM
2

Your flair is intriguing as a traditional type myself. I never thought of consent as something happening between two women. But it makes sense because it still crosses personal boundaries and I think we are more verbal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:27 PM
2

You just need a trimmer head. Women use them all the time. You can just shorten your hair as needed without the irritation or frequency of shaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:18 PM
1

Sometimes you just need to advertise to more potentials. A number of guys would be out there following her into the woods. But then all kinds of trouble might happen. She has obvi never seen 48 Hours!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:15 PM
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No, it's just a natural break of eye contact so a woman is not doing a dominant prolonged stare. This repeated look and look away thing has been around since we were apes (or whatever we were).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:50 PM
1

I mean it wasn't about me personally lol, just his question / statement got me a bit worked up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:32 PM
2

Sounds very good. I add dill relish or chopped pickles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:02 PM
0

All these gorillas see is raw meat. If I put out raw meat I'm going to attract the beasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:00 PM
2

Yes, a solo trip into my closet and lock him in there ... tenderly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:56 PM
2

They're like
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:55 PM
1

I am a housewife
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:49 PM
1

lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:48 PM
1

Now hold on. We can't just throw V around to make some dudes happy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:47 PM
1

What happened to the body count question on the main subreddit? I had typed up a whole answer and the mods got rid of the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:46 PM
1

I think she likes a petting zoo with some of the more fierce creatures lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:35 PM
3

I know everyone has something different that excites them. I personally don't like the idea of dominating a man. I'm submissive to my husband that way. Being a woman I don't even like being around women with dominant personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:47 PM
1

You sound like a sweet couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:37 PM
0

Are you saying your second ex basically was pushy with all the physical contact?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:48 PM
1

You mean because in the end a man can always physically push a woman off without harm to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:42 PM
2

Was it her way of perhaps trying to apologize? I've done similar things with my husband when I want to make it up to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:16 PM
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Casual sex is where that danger is. At least with taking care of the hubby it helps in many aspects of the relationship and you can generally feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:15 PM
2

Yes, there's that fine line!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:12 PM
1

Being seduced into it by your guy is so sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:11 PM
3

Are you sure? Not in my experience!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:48 PM
1

It's a slippery slope for both perhaps. Sometimes a man can really get you upset but if she's with someone she's really attracted to he usually has enough intimidation factor so she backs down when he uses a loud deep voice, forceful verbal manipulation, or psychologically there is always potential fear of something physical from a man. When a man gets combatively aggressive it's scary. If she doesn't back down, however, she risks losing her guy because no man wants to come home to combat. If he…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:33 PM
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Making eye contact with a man and then looking down, and repeating that is a low risk way to make a first move with a man. In many people's eyes this isn't technically a first move because it's subtle, but it makes a man feel safe that he can approach if his interest is piqued. If he's not interested then he won't approach. It doesn't mean this will result in a relationship, but it sure usually gets him started. And many relationships have started this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:08 PM
3

You're right, basically everyone loses their charms in the end. A good basis of benefits for both is definitely ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:45 PM
2

It's just men rarely get a chance to display this nature because their options are few and far between. I don't think this part is true. Rejection levels can be high if you're an average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:14 PM
2

Men have always been a utility for me besides there being an emotional factor. I need him to provide, be a good sexual partner, be good at fixing things, and have a desire to protect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:04 PM
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I actually read this book years ago and still own it. I still follow some of the advice from it with my husband, such as letting a man go into his cave when he needs to and don't worry about it. And when he comes back to you he will be in a better mood and more attentive to you. Also, it generally helped me understand the traits of men better and be more appreciative of those differences. It did change my perspective on men back from the time I read it. I curtailed my behavior of trying to corre…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:55 PM
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I think I understand what you mean. You make the nest all pretty and perfect with your own touch, and you can look at it afterward and know you were the one that made it so nice. You're in service to your home when you do it. I think that's very feminine. But all the other things you're doing are also very feminine. Overall you're still topping the charts on the femininity scale 😊
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/25 06:46 AM
1

I agree with you OP.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/25 01:21 AM
3

I'm not sure. Probably sounds crazy. I'm married. I love it when my husband is excessively macho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:16 AM
1

This was well said. Unless after these 5 dates the male and female have declared a relationship status, like gf/bf, then I think she can just fall back into silence with him and find another date. We like men to want us and pursue us, and it seemed like a clear "I don't have plans to pursue you now."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:26 PM
3

I think so too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:13 PM
2

I understand
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:10 PM
6

I don't think your usage of vulva is gross. It's more respectful than anything. I've heard some men say some really crude terms in the past in place of vulva. The painting of DJT with the small stuff is definitely women trying to make him feel like a small man. I don't really understand the phrase "small D energy" because I don't think male aggression has anything to do with size.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:03 PM
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Are you talking about men helping men come into themselves as a unifying concept? I agree men are held to the standard of having to be strong because women are more attracted to strong men. I even need a little bit of toxic masculinity to get excited sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:43 PM
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