RareSorbet Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past You mean porn genuinely isn’t real? Colour me shocked, surprised, bewildered. Next you’re going to tell me that RDJ isn’t a genius billionaire who enjoys building robots and the man was just acting a fantasy world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 06:01 PM
1	Women who have to rely on vibrators and other toys to get off during sex aren't worth men dating.(NSFW) As I said. this opinion only represents me But I do wish more women would stop being so PC when talking about dating, plenty of disabled men struggle to date. Aside from that one ex military dude turned model who lost a leg years ago, I’d be surprised if anyone rejected him 🥵🥵🥵	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 08:10 AM
4	The men who say 'Don't chase Women' are actually the ones chasing women. True or false. They’re trying to get rid of the competition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 09:23 PM
15	Women who have to rely on vibrators and other toys to get off during sex aren't worth men dating.(NSFW) Interesting comparison, I’d date someone who has to rely on crutches. Each to their own I guess. Would love to see more men use toys on themselves porn (this opinion only represents me). If you feel the need to reject a woman for whatever reason you’re free to do so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 09:22 PM
11	Men should be able to get someone at or near their level of attractiveness, and being told “it’s not a points/bartering system,” “you are what you can get” or that “no one is obligated to date you” are simply deflections and gaslighting nonsense. I knew someone would jump in with an anti-BMI essay. Super convenient and proves my point. Most men don’t walk enough, don’t exercise enough, only 25% meet exercise standards to be considered healthy, don’t eat enough vegetables and over-consume calories, oil and sugar. BMI isn’t the only measure of health. Y’all are fat and in denial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 09:12 PM
9	Men should be able to get someone at or near their level of attractiveness, and being told “it’s not a points/bartering system,” “you are what you can get” or that “no one is obligated to date you” are simply deflections and gaslighting nonsense. 70% of western men are obese or overweight. Some of you will see a fat man and claim his just “a bit big”, “strong,” or “awoke.” It takes a lot more weight for a man to be perceived as fat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 08:21 PM
43	Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men? Women are made fun of for getting surgery and male hair transplants are becoming more normalised. If you come out of it looking 10x hotter, no one will complain. Plastic surgeons post images and videos of their male and female clients all the time. Why aren’t more men going to get work done?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 06:43 PM
2	Is trying to get into a relationship with a woman really worth it? You shouldn't be seeking a relationship if you don't want a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 11:56 AM
9	Your S.O. sex drive is largely dependent on your physical attractiveness As soon as this person wrote vaginismus as an excuse I died lmao, trash post. I just can't get over the opening of the post How many times have we heard of women claiming to have vaginismus What reality do they live in?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 11:47 AM
4	Your S.O. sex drive is largely dependent on your physical attractiveness How many times have we heard of women claiming to have vaginismus I'd like an answer to this without the context of the rest of the post. How many times has the average person heard the word "vaginismus" in any context? I'd be pleasently surprised if its well know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 11:45 AM
1	Women not being attracted to their partners - Is it really true? Guys are ok dating, sleeping with and marrying women who don’t find them attractive/think they’re ugly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 09:05 PM
1	Women, would you rather date an attractive poor man or an unattractive rich man? Women find a range of men attractive (with some overlap). While most men find the same set of women attractive. That’s why he and other men think that because a man doesn’t tick x boxes, she isn’t attracted to him. It’s projection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 10:32 AM
2	Women, would you rather date an attractive poor man or an unattractive rich man? The average woman prefers men her own age (you can look it up). Just because your preferences don’t age doesn’t mean ours are the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 12:47 PM
3	Women, would you rather date an attractive poor man or an unattractive rich man? Women don’t feel the need to find the same men attractive like men do women. There’s no “debates” over a man’s ranking because unless he’s Chris Evans, it depends on the woman. Ive found plenty of unconventional looking dudes attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 12:46 PM
4	Do women actually marry the men they aren't really that sexually attracted to? Yes. Older men and women love to encourage women to ignore a man’s looks. A lot of young men have dedicated their energy to trying to convince hot women to “give them a chance.” What do they think happens when they’re given a chance? She might like the personality but she wasn’t attracted to you in the first place, that’s why you were initially rejected. It’s so normalised I’ve wondered whether the average man cares if his partner thinks he’s hot. A lot of discussions focus on women getting fat …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 12:29 PM
1	How do you know if a man who has sex with you is truly sexually attracted to you? Or just don’t comment if it doesn’t apply to you? Not every post will and that’s ok. Some men and women just want to sleep with someone they find very physically attractive but not date because they’re not connect to that personality socially or romantically. That’s who this question is for. Trying to create a secondary debate because you’re not that person is pointless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 01:04 PM
1	How do you know if a man who has sex with you is truly sexually attracted to you? Yet men have disagreed with you on how they experience attraction because you keep using this niche definition of attraction. Stay on the topic is sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 12:49 PM
1	How do you know if a man who has sex with you is truly sexually attracted to you? You’re right. It’s so brain dead, I see this happen all the time. Guy: “All men know that most of us do x y z” Guy: “All men know that most of us do x y z” Guy: “All men know that most of us do x y z” Guy: “All men know that most of us do x y z” One, possibly the only, random male “Wow, I am disgusted and offended that op holds this belief about men. I have no idea where you could possibly get that idea.” Is it that hard to just disagree with the men who are generalising? But also, I see women d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 11:59 AM
0	How do you know if a man who has sex with you is truly sexually attracted to you? OP isn’t trying to debate her or other womens interest in hookups, she wants to know about mens views of hookups and fwb. Don’t change the question just because you’ve never spoken to or listened to many women, it takes things off track and is unhelpful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 11:15 AM
1	How do you know if a man who has sex with you is truly sexually attracted to you? This entire thread is too, why do these men never “correct” other men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 07:30 AM
1	How do you know if a man who has sex with you is truly sexually attracted to you? We like having sex with dudes we’re sexually attracted to and where there’s mutual enjoyment, or else what’s the point? “It’s a sunny day where I am. Let me travel 2 hours to sit in the beach but I had the sand, the sea, the pier, the restaurants, and the people.” There’s a ton of toys nowadays if you just want to finish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 07:26 AM
1	How do you know if a man who has sex with you is truly sexually attracted to you? OP is talking about hookups and fwb you keep commenting about relationships 🤦🏾‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 07:16 AM
1	Women are more attracted to men when THEY do the chasing It’s not settling if they’re just as fat. 70% of American/British/Canadian/Mexican/German etc etc men are overweight or obese. It would be cooler to have a society that prioritised health and fitness, but for human advancement sake, idc about who you sleep with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 09:34 AM
11	Women are more attracted to men when THEY do the chasing “More responsive to guys with a lot of options” so he’s hot? He has a lot of options because he’s hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 09:06 AM
3	"Looks matter" needs to die on this sub. Hot women dont need to approach because hot men will go after them. In his own manifesto he stated that he expected hot women to just fall at his feet. In one paragraph he described sitting in his fancy sports car and getting angry because a pair of hot blondes where walking by, laughing with each other not acknowledging him. He was inside his car. He'd go to bookstores and shops in designer clothes and sunglasses and expect women to just come up to him. He also said that he refused to speak to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 05:01 PM
3	"Looks matter" needs to die on this sub. I don't think that guy even knows what a "myth" is. Who would lie about seeing a mass murder as hot lmao. I know its tempting for some women to say the guys ugly because he was such an awful person but he'd do just fine if he wasn't so hateful, actually spoke to girls and accepted all those party invites his friends where handing out to him. Incels are convinced that the only men women call creeps are ugly guys. So when we call a hot man a creep, they immediately see him as ugly. They literally …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 03:31 PM
0	Would you be bothered if you found out that your SO did not find you physically attractive at all, but just like you for your personality? Who cares. Stop whining and encouraging other men to whine about not being an Andonis. Not fat and "fit" isn't the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/20 05:41 AM
0	Would you be bothered if you found out that your SO did not find you physically attractive at all, but just like you for your personality? So do what you guys tell women and lose weight. A fit 5'5 guy can find a cute 5'3 girl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/20 05:25 AM
1	Would you be bothered if you found out that your SO did not find you physically attractive at all, but just like you for your personality? What's the point of trying to argue against what I said by raising a completely different point. Women want taller guys idc about women who want 6fters. I'm not going force someone to be attracted to you. You keep begging women to date guys they're not attracted to so it sounds like you dont care if theyre in to you physically. I didnt even talk about porn. That's someone else. I agree with your last point. As I said. I don't care if men are in to petite women or what they're preferences are. It…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/20 03:06 AM
1	Would you be bothered if you found out that your SO did not find you physically attractive at all, but just like you for your personality? Men are taller than women on average. Out of all the standards on the planet, this has to be one of the most boring ones. It's literally the average woman asking for the average male. And I know plenty of guys who fawn over petite women, who cares. Arguing over womens standards just brings me back to my original point. So guys are ok with women who only like their personality and ignore their looks, since you're fully aware you can't force physical attention. So why get mad at women who downplay…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/20 02:49 AM
3	Would you be bothered if you found out that your SO did not find you physically attractive at all, but just like you for your personality? You're confusing things. Many women can find men physically attractive after getting to know him personally. It literally changes the way we see a person physically. It's why you see hot girls hype their ugly friends, they're not lying their perception of her physical appearance has literally changed. What the OP is arguing is that there is no physical attraction, but that a man is sexually attracted to other things but not looks. But many women find men attractive at first look so it's not a ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/20 05:35 PM
4	Would you be bothered if you found out that your SO did not find you physically attractive at all, but just like you for your personality? Not interested. There are plenty of guys I've been physically attracted to that my hot/average friends found repulsive. If every single man on this planet can only be physically attracted to hot women then I'd rather stay single. r/DeadBedrooms is proof that a couple needs mutual physical attraction alongside attraction to personality. I don't buy the "but u get old," argument. Old people in old people homes fuck like rabbits. I can tell folks here are still in high school because otherwise you'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/20 05:22 PM
1	Would you be bothered if you found out that your SO did not find you physically attractive at all, but just like you for your personality? Old people are attracted to each other. The age category you're attracted to adjusts as you age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/20 05:16 PM
1	Would you be bothered if you found out that your SO did not find you physically attractive at all, but just like you for your personality? Men are the ones begging for hot women to just "give us a chance. I'm a nice guuuuy." Or "how dare she be attracted to guys taller than her, she should just date meee" It always confused me. Do these guys just have no interest in being physically desired? Im obviously not talking about the guys who improve their looks and I likewise dont think theres an overlap between women who want their partners to find them attractive and women who don't care about finding their partners attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/20 05:15 PM
24	Women don't NEED to be successful, funny or interesting to be a valuable partner. That's the difference. It's weird to me that op sees humour as some sort of competition. It's a shame hes never experienced a relaxing night with friends and acquaintances where everyone is laughing, and building off of each other. It's rare to be in a room with someone whose comedian number 1. Is this an older male thing? If you're funny, you're funny. One person saying something funny or interesting doesnt detract from another.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/20 10:24 AM
3	There has been/is and will always be people at the bottom of the dating hierarchy. The "problem" is these undesirables don't want to date each other Wanna be pump and dumper. If he manages to fuck and ugly girl it doesn't mean hes going to stick around. He'll leave after he cums and go home in regret. "Doesnt matter, got *laid" is uber popular in the manosphere. It's not "doesnt matter, found a woman to have and hold. We shall treat each other with love and with care." But also just ignore the entire context I placed it in, sure. I never spoke of a serial pump and dumper.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 06:49 AM
17	There has been/is and will always be people at the bottom of the dating hierarchy. The "problem" is these undesirables don't want to date each other undesirable women who dont want to be pump and dumps Ftfy. This sub insults tf out of ugly women while complaining about being betas and then tells them they should expect to be pump and dumps. I'm not saying this only goes one way, that would be stupid. Guys above and in other threads literally say they dont want to date equal uggos and are praised for it. I've flirted with many guys my hot and normal looking friends find repulsive but these guys want to push and push and push the idea that the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 05:31 AM
7	Why are women allowed "beautiful at any shape or size", but men aren't? So this thread is pointless, it starts with a fallacy. I didnt come across an East Asian people until I was about 15. It doesn't mean it makes sense for me to assume that they didn't exist. You dont care about listening to womens experiences or you blatantly ignore the bullying girls, particularly unattractive girls experience. Or you're in high school and simply aren't aware of our experiences because you're focused on your own bullying, that's understandable but its ridiculous to argue and den…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/20 05:06 AM
5	Having a beautiful wife = most important thing a man can secure It's not shocking. Maybe men just like to be more honest with me because I'm a 2 but I also see women put far more energy than men into insisting "not all men," when it comes to male preferences. Rich men chase after young "gold diggers" and women will insist that he's the victim as if this guy will come along and pick your ass. Believe people when they talk about their own preferences. If you dont see men come along to disagree with other men on this, then there you go. Women don't need to try …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 06:32 PM
6	What type of demographic is most over represented in these types of communities? I've seen plenty of male incels get angry because they were approached by women they found ugly. These dudes are the ones who invented the term "looksmatch." "Why cant I get my looksmatch or higher!!!" The incels who appear in incel documentaries tend to be average to attractive. There are guys who consider themselves incels because women don't approach them. Who told them that most women, especially hot women, approach men? Read some incel manifestos, they want hot women to automatically fall a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 08:12 PM
35	"But I can change him" /r/90DayFiance /r/LoveAfterLockup	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/20 08:53 PM
19	Male orbiters are the cringiest people and do more damage than the actual thots. I disagree with folks saying it's about "lonliness," it's about getting attention from a certain kind of women. Many rich men flaunt their money and buy attention of hot women and have done so for generations. E-thots are just making this sort of attention from a hot womantm accessible. They want attention from a hot fantasy and they're getting it. If they had more money they'd invest more money. I think we've all seen posts on Reddit from women whose partners have bought "bathwater" from ethots…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/19 11:20 AM
1	Lets have a discussion about something thats been bugging me: Unatractive Girls I don't get this. As you age, so does the age of people you find attractive, no? I know I wasnt into 30 year old men when I was 18 and younger but approaching 30, I definitely am. Even old people fuck each other.	/r/seduction	30/11/19 10:41 AM
7	Lets have a discussion about something thats been bugging me: Unatractive Girls I'm in her boat. It depends on age. Yeah to this day I might get turned on by the attention but it doesn't mean I'm going to chase after him. You watch people and learn what mutual attraction actually looks like and stick with being friends/acquaintances.	/r/seduction	30/11/19 10:38 AM
2	Femcels are not real Not even that. After starting college I found out that there were plenty of girls willing to pump and dump ugly guys. Just go to a club, get tipsy and approach as the club is closing. The time of the night when everyone is desperate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/19 01:03 PM
2	Can someone be hot but not be BF material? Im worried my lack of career is holding me back from finding somone. If you're red pill I don't see why you'd care. Red pill doesn't treat men and women the same so why do expect some random woman on the internet to do so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 04:03 PM