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| 6 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you? | Question For Women | Rasputin_the_Saint | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 03:28 AM |
| 5 | What actually constitutes an "interesting" life to people; looking for something that appeals on both romantic and platonic levels. | Comprehensive | Rasputin_the_Saint | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 03:19 PM |
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| 1 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?Why men that you’ve dated wanted to date you, specifically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 06:55 AM |
| 1 | How MAGA Hijacked The Manosphere!I hear through the grapevine that Vance is going to run on a platform of turning communists into couches. If you know, you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?Yeah, that'd be the point - you'd be invisible 😂 Honestly if you feel like doing something outlandish to see how dudes react it'd be worth it for the entertainment value alone. You could monetize that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?It's an outside perspective that I consider valuable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?Yeah definitely; my suggestion would be cutting it short-short. We're talking between Beetles length and buzz cut. Are you into Aviator sunglasses and baggy clothes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 05:35 AM |
| 0 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?Yah. And sex is too obvious. I had to rule it out. Literally everyone would've knee-jerk answered with "sex" instead of simply not understanding the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 05:29 AM |
| -4 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?No, I'm not. And no, I was pretty sure it was inferred because it's experiences you've had that you're drawing off of. A couple others drew on that experience to answer the question, which is inductive reasoning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 05:17 AM |
| -6 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?Would I be right in assuming you don't know why any of your ex-boyfriends initiated contact with you in the first place, right? Anyway, the question I have for men is why did their girl decide to accept them into their life as somebody worth being with. That's a much harder question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?You can literally determine the content of character by seeing how an individual acts toward other people. You can also know who they are through friends, family, etc. even if you never met them yourself or just have an adjacent relationship. Etcetera, etcetera. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 04:15 AM |
| -1 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?So you have a clue as to why 10% of the men who hit on you do it, but prefer to call into question the structure of the question instead of answering it. Got it. Edit: And some women are answering the question - so obviously, it's not a universal "problem" like you're making it out to be. Your follow-up comment to this shows you're just being hostile at this point. We are finished with our exchange and I will not be interacting with you in the future. You have the last word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?You can tell a lot about a person by how they interact with other people, how they carry themselves, what they do idle, etc. IMV It's not just "oh she has a nice ass," it's "oh she's really sweet to those old people" or "she held the door for me." I assumed people here would have the emotional depth in a relationship that explains why partners in the past or present even bothered to approach them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 04:03 AM |
| 0 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?Pedigree. Beliefs. Competence... I mean, the list goes on. It's a question about experiences women have had - tbh I'm finding it weird that the answers are sheer bewilderment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 03:55 AM |
| 0 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?If you've had a relationship with a man in the past, then surely you've gotten some indication as to why he engaged with you in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 03:51 AM |
| -1 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?So let me get this straight - whatever guy you're with, you haven't ever gotten a straight answer out of him as to why he's with you? You haven't even deduced the reasoning, let alone tried? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 03:46 AM |
| 0 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?I tell my wife all the time what draws me to her. I'm unabashedly honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 03:32 AM |
| 1 | You're ReplaceableYeah not all men are replaceable bud. You just have to show that you can either leave at a moment's notice or make her leave in the same timespan. Men who aren't social cowards have a lot more credit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 03:07 AM |
| – | Socializing as an autistic kidYou might have some traits of anti-social personality disorder, psychopathy or simple narcissism. There are a lot of autistic narcissists. I blame the far-right for helping perpetuate the myth of "weaponized autism." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them.I don't think a "deep and meaningful" relationship is the ideal that people actually settle into, and this is factoring in numerous people I know who are in long term marriages or relationships otherwise. I think women are more into having relationships that aren't an embarrassment to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 02:56 AM |
| 6 | Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them.Objectively, what denotes a “bad” man. Nobody ever defines it. Someone spoiled with sleeping around with no commitment, someone with a rap sheet, someone with psychological problems that will endanger the health/wellness of their partner - this shit is mandatory “bad taste” IMO. Other people might add men that hunt or collect firearms, men who are risk seeking and ride motorcycles, men who need a maid to clean up after them, men who watch anime and game constantly, etc. Calling a relationship wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 04:52 PM |
| 3 | It is entirely possible that humanity NEEDS "losers".I mean civilization is what I think of if we’re talking infrastructure. I just lop society and culture together because our institutions have more influence over our culture than traditions and history do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 02:29 PM |
| 6 | It is entirely possible that humanity NEEDS "losers".A lot of winners feel they don’t owe society shit either, and will rub it in your face when they’re right about how cultural shifts pull up the ladder of success so certain people no longer have a chance to be ultra-successful. If I wanted to build roads, it would be astronomically expensive to start today. I would have to buy an existing business. Everything is so expensive you literally have to find a dying boomer to get an affordable deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Women should stop acting like a personality detectors and being morally superiorThat’s because the modern shit kids do to bully each other is psychological demolition. You’re not getting wedgies for being a nerd anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendYou are twisting what I said and not addressing my point at all. That’s is intellectually dishonest. Don’t put words in my mouth you fucker. You are supporting your own argument with something I never said. Do this shit again and I’m blocking your ass. As far as the rest of it; There are women who put up wiith extreme evil but they're the exceeption not the rule. yeah I said nothing about extreme evil either. Women are fine with /AKA/ will put up with and tolerate “evil” men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 12:52 PM |
| 1 | How much have your romantic/physical relationship experiences contributed to your overall happiness?Being that I'm married, it's pretty good. Being that I'm married, it kinda sucks I don't get to apply years of social development, wealth and networking to the dating arena. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 03:40 AM |
| – | Do you actually feel comforted by the "you dodged a bullet" mentality?I mean if a woman rejected you for having a small dick, then lopped off the dick of Hugh Mongus, stuffed it and mounted it on the wall - that would be a hall of fame bullet dodge that'll earn you the nickname Neo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 03:21 AM |
| – | Do you actually feel comforted by the "you dodged a bullet" mentality?You have to experience rejection before you can experience ejection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Women should stop acting like a personality detectors and being morally superiorYeah no I think it's the lack of bullying that's the problem tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendWhen I reference poor trash I'm talking about ex-methheads and others that are just outside of the whole "active criminal" scope. I differentiate between poor people and poor trash because I might be interested in a professional relationship with one and not the other. As far as projecting resentment - not sure I get where you're coming from there. Most redpillers should think it's pretty based that a dude takes the time to work on himself to the point that he can pull well, even if he doesn't h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendWtf do ppl have shit against mercenaries now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendYou're looney. He's clearly a 5.5 and Zuckerberg is a 6. I will concur with the rating on Greta though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 12:56 AM |
| 0 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendEvolution didn't do that, bud. Mass media marketing and the normalization of psychopathic traits did that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendAnyone can be broken, regardless of what kind of past they have. Just because someone is not mentally ill doesn't mean they can't fall victim to an abusive asshole they thought was sexy enough to let in their pants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendI've known poor trash individuals who get laid plenty. Women are loyal to that trash that beats them when they're not fucking them. They are not harsh judges of morality, lol, they just have limits - even then nothing is set in stone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 12:48 AM |
| 7 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendWomen are fine with evil. Paul Bernardo for instance had a complicit wife that outright helped him rape girls. Look at the countless abusive relationships and their victims - they're all over the fucking place. Women will put up with a lot before they hit that breaking point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 12:46 AM |
| 0 | Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them.What exactly is this "bad taste in men" supposed to mean though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Women should stop acting like a personality detectors and being morally superiorWere you bullied much as a kid? I'm just curious if there's a connection between that and developing the "weirdness" you're talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Women should stop acting like a personality detectors and being morally superiorIt's not a small percentage of men, there's a good number of worthless men. There are also a good number of worthless women. The worst thing is that they successfully manage to breed and create worthless little shits that will do the same things their parents did. The reality is we have to move past outdated concepts like "misandry" and "misogyny" and admit our society has a "people problem" regardless of sex. It's just not sustainable to have an entire generation of lazy little assholes taking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 11:02 PM |
| 6 | Who really are the worst men?Look - if I were to bet money on dudes in dating, right? A loser, or a guy that robbed the convenience store, right? I'd bet $1,000 on the guy that robbed a convenience store to be getting laid. I'd bet $5 on the loser to be getting laid. There are exceptions - as always - but shit becomes common knowledge for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Who really are the worst men?Thank you for reminding me why I find anyone that calls themselves "proud slut" unworthy of respect or time. Sorry I bothered with being polite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Who really are the worst men?That's an entirely different trend where men in relationships have this weird habit of screwing ugly chicks when they decide to cheat. I find it weird, personally. I would never downgrade anything in my life for any reason. Either way, you're not following my logic at all. You're disputing it with an entirely different, well-known trend. I'm saying "girls like bad boys more than losers," in referencing hybristophilia. You're saying "so? Guys cheat on pretty girls with ugly bitches!" Yes. Both ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 02:48 PM |
| 11 | Who really are the worst men?Yeah it's called Hybristophilia, and it is why Ted Bundy, Tex Watson etc. ended up getting married in prison. Losers are not comparable to mass murderers - they actually have even less sex appeal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 11:17 PM |
| 1 | The reason men place so much value on sex is because women are very selective with who they have sex withI knew people that weren't in either, too. The majority of men I've known have fucked more than one chick. The majority of women I've known have also been fucked by more than one guy. IDK how you can think the majority of men don't get to fuck unless shit has really gone that far downhill since I got married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 07:28 PM |
| 1 | The reason men place so much value on sex is because women are very selective with who they have sex withI generally ran with better looking people in college & high school. A good number of friends were in athletics & I was also in a frat. I made out with one chick that ended up screwing three other guys in the house while I cozied up with her less attractive friend because she came from money. Anybody can fuck, not anybody can have money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 07:08 PM |
| 2 | The reason men place so much value on sex is because women are very selective with who they have sex withI've met women who let themselves be passed around like joints between groups of guys. Whatever they find "sexy" they just go with - it genuinely doesn't take that much, you just need some musculature, if you don't have that you're fuct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 06:44 PM |
| 1 | The reason men place so much value on sex is because women are very selective with who they have sex withWomen view sex as their ultimate form of investment in a man. Women obviously won’t just sleep with anybody, it is only with highly attractive men when boundaries and expectations go out the window. You must not get out much if you think this snippet is based in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 06:36 PM |
| – | Men Who Part With Their Money Easily Are Always Mentally ill.“Apart from going to war, no job is risking your safety,” Well I beg to fucking differ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 01:03 PM |
| 10 | How attractive are the men who cold approach you?So cold approaches are terrible in general or only when the guy is an ugly old hobo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 01:43 AM |
| 1 | There is no guarantee that the ugly autistic man would be a good husband/fatherA lot of people are shitty fathers. Sad part is they’re doing the best they can to live up to society’s expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:53 AM |
| 1 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightAre you genuinely suggesting someone could not pass the fuck out an hour after being blitzed enough to try to shit on their own couch? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightEver since people realized it could be used as a weapon against other people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:55 PM |
| 2 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightShe's also a Tiktoker, so the whole thing reeks of bullshit at this point. OP conveniently left that fact out to make their weird ass argument. Those people would get themselves hit by cars for views, no doubt they'd try door handles to see if they're locked when the customer doesn't answer the knocks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:49 PM |
| 1 | [conservatives] Would y'all be okay if women could get an education, but just didn't get paid for working ?At least nobody is talking about aborting puppies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:47 PM |
| 0 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightThe nonce would suggest yes, your 9/10 Ukrainian neighbor is clearly an exhibitionist inviting viewing and you are entitled to unlimited sharing images of her with him and his wookie friends to persecute and scrutinize vigorously. I would say no, put the camera down you filthy degenerate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 08:51 PM |
| 1 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightYou can go around saying everything that contradicts your narrative is AI generated, or you can go around saying everything that contradicts your narrative is photoshopped. You want to stick with the photoshop narrative - that makes you an idiot that can be promptly ignored. See? I contributed twice as much as you. That means I'm smarter, btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 08:41 PM |
| 1 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightI didn't make a claim, I gave you advice on refuting the other individual's claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 08:37 PM |
| 8 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightany asshole can slap together a nonsense screenshot Lmao. Why don't you just call it AI generated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 08:32 PM |
| 1 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightNah. Now that I hear she's a tiktok influencer as well as a DoorDasher (Truth https://www.tiktok.com/@irlmonsterhighdoll?lang=en ), I'd bet money that door was shut and she opened it when nobody answered. She should be fucking sued for everything she's profited since then. It's clear cut she illegally entered to make a fake scandal video for views. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 08:27 PM |
| 4 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightDoorDash is heading a conspiracy against some ex-employee that trespassed a property? LOL! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 07:42 PM |
| 4 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightI’m glad the company banned him and fired her. The job isn’t to walk into someone’s fucking house and look around, the job is to put shit next to the door and leave. As far as I’m concerned, both are perpetrators. I wouldn’t tolerate some dipshit delivery or otherwise walking into my house just because the door is ajar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 07:30 PM |
| 0 | Characterizing the male (testosterone-dominant) libido as an unstoppable, irresistible force is a massive cop-outJust because you were on testosterone for 6 years doesn’t mean your brain was permeated with the shit while you were growing up, instilling in you an instinctual desire to drive your balls up to someone’s pelvis (front or back it doesn’t matter). You see the same thing in castrated animals. The ones that got neutered young phase out the humping and tryna screw earlier. The ones you wait till later develop a more masculine physique and if poorly trained, still try to hump & screw. It’s not an iss… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 06:53 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand how unattractive people can stand to have sex with each other.The same way two pigs can wallow in excrement only to copulate afterward. Sex happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 06:48 PM |
| 0 | I feel like I'll never get better at this...I'd want a Landcruiser, but would settle for an F-250. | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Can approaching girls in the street lead to a relationship?“What? I can’t hear you, wanna dance?” | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Women Can Tell — Or Can They, Really?Men can also sense insecurity and non-confident men. The difference between creepy and non-creepy is whether caveman “want but not have” is a man’s thought process or if he’s carefree enough to just strike up a friendly conversation. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Women Can Tell — Or Can They, Really?I knew a man who looked like a literal goblin that pulled dimes. He had self respect, confidence and a sense of humor. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 06:24 AM |
| 3 | Women Can Tell — Or Can They, Really?Healthy women can’t tell shit either. I know a few colossal fuck-ups that came from very good and healthy families - they met and married their psycho and it was all downhill from there - there is no clairvoyance in dating. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Fear of rejectionWhen I was in jr high, there was this shy, awkward girl that liked me. I was nice to her. One day, she asked me to the prom. I politely declined, said I didn’t want to go. Ended up going with some other girl, she’s there and sees me - cries. I didn’t hold it against her that she asked me to the dance. She was just not attractive enough to me and my friends thought she was weird. Seven years later, she’s diagnosed with schizophrenia and it turns out I dodged a major bullet there. She had some ver… | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 05:38 AM |
| 1 | How to know which girls are easyCar shows? I thought those were full of gear head men. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭Never heard a doctor say that one, it’s usually vasectomies or abortion they talk up. Did hear a disabled veteran say he can afford child support though, but he had a sick sense of humor. | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭I’m someone who’s going to be well off in ten years You don’t know that. You could be paying child support. | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Is Models by Mark Manson basically saying you should act like you have Asperger’s?"Talk about things you love nonstop" Let me tell you how I skinned the deer I took at 312 yards with nothing but a utility knife and an ATV. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 04:15 AM |
| 5 | What’s your biggest “I screwed up”?I married the first person I seduced. | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 04:26 AM |
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