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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 30 | Sis, you can’t make this up.It’s like so empowering to not be ashamed of your body, men can jack off to her photo all they want and not even call! It’s cool, she’s open like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 06:39 PM |
| 80 | Sis, you can’t make this up.Interesting I wonder why this 39 year old is only interested in a 21 year old’s nudes, but doesn’t want to call her often or reveal anything about his marriage and kids? Wow that’s so weird usually 39 year olds are into 21 year old women for their mind and personality, and want a long-term very serious relationship with them that is completely respectful! I wonder what’s up with him. I mean, right?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 06:13 PM |
| 159 | Girl dating scrote 12 years her senior has him begging to fuck other girls while telling her he wants a monogamous relationship. She feels guilty for feeling uncomfortable 🙄Spoiler alert, he did not cut off contact with his FWB. He’s sleeping with all of them and lying to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 06:10 PM |
| 12 | Thought we could all use some more discussion of green flags.Same my ex did all these and he was a serial cheater and never bought decent birthday or Christmas presents Let me list the presents here: Vibrator for Valentine’s Day Sims 3 (I already had it) A sex collar A cricket holder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 01:52 AM |
| 12 | Don’t be a forever girlfriendI’d consider the financial and legal benefits of a marriage, especially if you get a prenup! You don’t even need a wedding | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 01:10 AM |
| 25 | Don’t be a forever girlfriendWell my ex lied to me! 5 years went by and he was like “yeah let’s get married once I join the military, then you can use the benefits for free college, and we can adopt a kid together and save for a house.” (I wanted adoption). Nope! Cheated, said he needs to be single lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Tall attractive guy in good career shows he‘s just trying to get laid and I’m way too quick to prove myself by putting more effort into the convo, more at 8Yeah some tall hot dudes are like, “I don’t have to try, why should I, I’ll find another girl who’s down to have a one night stand” etc I’m talking to a tall more average looking guy and he’s being way more engaging, sending 3-5 messages at a time (but not constantly texting either). Totally worth it for me if he seems like a good long-term partner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 10:18 PM |
| 3 | This seems far better than all the "bad guy" trope being pushed as an excuse for trashy behaviour and unwanted aggression.Dang he really didn’t get past food and surface-level stuff? Yes you definitely deserve someone you can vent to, especially if you have a sick parent. I hope you’re doing alright today! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 09:48 AM |
| 2 | This seems far better than all the "bad guy" trope being pushed as an excuse for trashy behaviour and unwanted aggression.I don’t mind that! I really figured out myself with the help of my ex, and we did LSD a few times so I’ve had enough deep conversations for a decade lol! I like the spiritual term karmic soulmate, a karmic soulmate doesn’t mean they’re meant to stay in your life, just means they awaken you to who you really are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 09:33 AM |
| 26 | This seems far better than all the "bad guy" trope being pushed as an excuse for trashy behaviour and unwanted aggression.I’m talking to someone who seems really sweet, hasn’t brought up sex or asked for my snap, he just talks about how he really likes breakfast foods. It’s a green flag for me. Could definitely change though (I’ve had guys talk to me for a couple weeks before showing red flags). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 01:40 AM |
| 48 | Tall attractive guy in good career shows he‘s just trying to get laid and I’m way too quick to prove myself by putting more effort into the convo, more at 8Here’s the general debate on Audrey Hepburn’s cgi chocolate commercial controversy: https://imgur.com/4GPifUS Her sons gave her music and all the rights to her image away for free (edit: this guy misread, *for a fee) because they said she liked chocolate and probably would’ve wanted this https://imgur.com/bpa600C With some more digging we find fun facts about how this dude’s dad was a serial cheater (on AUDREY HEPBURN) and she only stayed for the kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 11:40 PM |
| 99 | Tall attractive guy in good career shows he‘s just trying to get laid and I’m way too quick to prove myself by putting more effort into the convo, more at 8I’ve personally never had a guy ask truth or dare and not turn it towards a boundary crossing sex convo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 10:57 PM |
| 44 | Scrote doesn’t think he has to tell his girlfriend of 11 months that he never plans on marrying herYeah and his argument is “Well she never said whether she wanted to get married or not. And I brought up kids.” So doesn’t it make sense to assume that if a guy wants kids with you he wants to marry you, especially if he didn’t say otherwise? And he’s like, no, I won’t even check and confirm with her that she doesn’t want to get married, because I don’t have to, and it’s her fault if she never brought it up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 03:53 AM |
| 71 | Scrote doesn’t think he has to tell his girlfriend of 11 months that he never plans on marrying herHe reported me for harassing him on another account with the username whited out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 03:02 AM |
| 65 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in commentsLiterally my ex “I don’t want to hurt you!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 01:53 AM |
| 30 | Men get so madI’m 5’10, why do I have to date the 5’7 men? Even 6’ is only 2 inches taller than me. I want to feel short compared to my man too 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 07:08 AM |
| 64 | Men get so madnah it’s just some guy who was telling me a 6’3 man would never want me because I’m shallow and have a shit personality, even though I was currently talking to 2 men who are at least 6’3 while he was commenting that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 06:11 AM |
| 11 | What type of BS is this?!?I’m in my mid-20s and white and economically sound with no kids and never been married so off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 03:02 AM |
| 10 | Saw this on IG today 😒It’s a shame because their ability to sort by people’s height and education makes it better than tinder! But both bumble and tinder are bad for finding relationships | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 01:49 AM |
| 9 | Saw this on IG today 😒Bumble makes women message first and I dislike it tbh. I don’t think men react as well to being approached first. It takes the chase and mystery away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 01:36 AM |
| 12 | Can we compile a list of actions or behaviors that absolutely constitute dumping him?Doesn't enforce boundaries with family/friends (could take a while to see this as a pattern) Indifferent or doesn't take time to get to know your family and friends. Prioritizes his family and friends and expects you to as well, but never shows up for your family and friends functions. Addictive behavior with drugs/alcohol, video games, gambling my ex - Hung out with his best friend almost everyday of the week and he would sleepover often - "Your family makes me uncomfortable because I feel pres… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 10:50 PM |
| 53 | “Just because he non-consensually took the condom off doesn’t mean it was non-consensual sex! That is NOT rape” -menYou should see all the debates men are having about the specifics of what constitutes rape, completely ignoring the “lack of consent” aspect lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 09:32 PM |
| 12 | Hometown menMy ex had the same pair. You get them at the hospital I think | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 06:29 AM |
| 0 | I’m so sick of Reddit’s constant misogyny. Considering deleting.The criteria is “have played games,” I’ve played videogames but I don’t play them daily, weekly, or monthly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:25 PM |
| 1 | I’m so sick of Reddit’s constant misogyny. Considering deleting.But only 9% identify as gamers https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women_and_video_games#Self-identification_as_gamers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 06:12 PM |
| -2 | I’m so sick of Reddit’s constant misogyny. Considering deleting.The baseline message being, “I’m better than you at this so I’ll use my skills to help you enjoy the game because you clearly can’t do it on your own. And then I’ll make a meme about how I helped you and make it about all gamer girlfriends.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 08:35 AM |
| -7 | I’m so sick of Reddit’s constant misogyny. Considering deleting.Yes, I don’t see anything wrong with helping your partner learn a new skill. My issue is with making a meme about how he carried her in the game, and it says “your girlfriend” which is generalizing it to all girlfriends. I see him doing his best to make sure everyone knows he’s helping his girlfriend in a game he’s way better at and has mastered. And as a litmus test I ask myself if I would make a similar meme about my partner. The answer is no. This is disrespectful and condescending. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:57 AM |
| -9 | I’m so sick of Reddit’s constant misogyny. Considering deleting.Yes, through the lens of two genderless players I’d have a different take. This meme just happens to fall into the stereotype that women are bad at video games. I’d feel the same about a man teaching a woman how to drive correctly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:41 AM |
| 1 | I’m so sick of Reddit’s constant misogyny. Considering deleting.And then he says “you’re doing great” but as you said, she’s either new or not good. So he is lying to her to spare feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:33 AM |
| 1 | I’m so sick of Reddit’s constant misogyny. Considering deleting.“You, tanking everything” “You’re doing great” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:31 AM |
| 1 | I’m so sick of Reddit’s constant misogyny. Considering deleting.Well are they supposed to harass women and treat them badly like in the video? Or hold them to the stereotype, “video games are for men” like the meme implies? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:28 AM |
| 2 | I’m so sick of Reddit’s constant misogyny. Considering deleting.The joke is that he’s lying to her and feels he’s way better than her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:25 AM |
| 2 | I’m so sick of Reddit’s constant misogyny. Considering deleting.It sounds like you are letting men silence you from conversation because you feel it is attention-seeking behavior to speak. Like your existence is attention-seeking because men in gaming communities will constantly seek your attention and harassment. And that’s not a problem? Naahhh screw that community | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:23 AM |
| 2 | I’m so sick of Reddit’s constant misogyny. Considering deleting.Imagine a guy making a post about how he’s great at skateboarding but his girlfriend sucks at it and he’s lying to spare her feelings (but he’ll tell the internet). Same situation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:20 AM |
| 2 | I’m so sick of Reddit’s constant misogyny. Considering deleting.Yes and men in the gaming community definitely encourage each other to exclude women through verbal harassment. I appreciate you considering that piece of evidence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:18 AM |
| 2 | I’m so sick of Reddit’s constant misogyny. Considering deleting.I definitely care if they make a disrespectful post about it where they emphasize they’re better at a skill and are just pretending I’m good at it to spare my feelings, but it’s just “so cute” that I’m trying. Imagine a guy making a post joking about how his girlfriend is terrible at earning money and he earns it all. So gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:16 AM |
| -2 | I’m so sick of Reddit’s constant misogyny. Considering deleting.https://youtu.be/jL0aVqVslSE He’s acting nice but the message is “I’m better at gaming.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:08 AM |
| 2 | I’m so sick of Reddit’s constant misogyny. Considering deleting.It’s fine that you enjoy video games and your man enjoys video games. I’m not impressed by it at all and I think this meme was condescending about his girlfriend’s inability to play. Video games are, as I’m sure you know, male-dominated and women experience a lot of harassment while gaming. Someone I know did like a 20 page research paper on it and I encourage you to look up similar papers about how gaming often excludes women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 06:59 AM |
| 4 | I’m so sick of Reddit’s constant misogyny. Considering deleting.Then those women should learn that they’ll fail sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 06:53 AM |
| 10 | I’m so sick of Reddit’s constant misogyny. Considering deleting.That gray area part is also condescending for me. I wouldn’t accept that attitude of “oh she sucks at this but I’ll let her pretend she won.” That’s for children. Teaching is different. That’s what partners do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 06:50 AM |
| 1 | I’m so sick of Reddit’s constant misogyny. Considering deleting.It’s through the context of what is a male-dominated hobby. The equivalent would be, “me making cupcakes like an absolute pro, making sure my boyfriend (who sucks at cupcakes) is having fun licking the spoon :)” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 06:48 AM |
| 15 | I’m so sick of Reddit’s constant misogyny. Considering deleting.I thought it was condescending, and I’m not impressed by a guy’s gaming skills ever. I’m also not impressed when they read a book or go for a walk. And if a guy plays a lot of videogames he’s out of the competition with me lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 06:37 AM |
| 34 | Broke Dusty gifts a woman a basic drawing of her ass as an anniversary gift. HVW exposes the low effort. Pick me’s and LVM try (but fail) to defend mediocrity. Another day in hell.“One of the sweetest things you can do for someone” “(An @) I’m not hinting but I’m hinting” “I wish my man could draw me like that” “I draw nudes professionally here’s my work” Oh my goddd when are they going to shut up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 05:31 AM |
| 5 | Don’t stay with a guy like this even if he apologises. This is really sad, and this girl is deluding herself.Heck yeah tall guys always do! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 01:38 AM |
| 10 | Don’t stay with a guy like this even if he apologises. This is really sad, and this girl is deluding herself.Ugh I know girl, I don’t date guys with bad social skills anymore. That’s gross those guys probably wanted a Lolita type! I’m 5’9 hourglass too and I don’t think anyone has to tell us that our body type is sexy af to tall guys. My ex was 5’7 and he’s said to me “I do wish I was taller than you.” So often it’ll totally matter to them if they’re shorter than you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 01:27 AM |
| 28 | Don’t stay with a guy like this even if he apologises. This is really sad, and this girl is deluding herself.You know who’s at least 5’9? Victoria Secret models. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 01:12 AM |
| 21 | More Sex Work Propaganda from Refinery29: “Sex Work is one of the few ways women have access to upward mobility and that’s why it’s so threatening to the patriarchy”. 🙄 The Patriarchy is not threatened by you sucking their dicks sis, they’re intentionally encouraging it.I'm white and I completely agree. There's a difference between camgirling in your apartment and having prostitution be the only option for you, with all of its pregnancy risks, STD risks, rape risks, and murder risks. Saying "sex work is empowering" and controlling the narrative as a woman in the first position, is exclusionary and harmful to women in the second position. And both create a potentially life-long stigma that could bar you from jobs, friendships, and relationships. Not to mention t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 08:26 PM |
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