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Hey, don’t get defensive. If you’ve got a broader strategy to deal with your repression, go ahead and work it. I’m saying, repression is a thing. You are admirable in that you’re open about naming your identity but the fact that you have so many insecurities and tropes around it would make me nervous about commitment with someone like you. As soon as you’re unhappy with yourself, it’ll reflect in the relationship. Honestly, as an out/proud queer, this makes me sad. You visualize yourself as pure…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:15 AM
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You wouldn’t cheat because you are bisexual. You would be in a demographic seen as “high risk” for cheating because you’re in the closet. People who cheat often do because they’re hiding or trying to repress a facet of themselves. You sound like you’re not on good terms with being bisexual (conflating it with masculinity), so what happens when you need to express those feelings with experience? How will you cope? Are you a good communicator? Or, are you prone to hiding things (for the excitement…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:19 PM
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She obviously changed her mind about it. As a woman, it sounds like an exhausting way to spend a day off with a guy I’m considering giving my time to. After giving it some thought, I can see why she bailed. She wasn’t nearly as into it as you thought and you didn’t investigate her interest. As soon as she started using a work excuse, you should’ve dropped it and diverted to her interests to find another activity she’d rather make time for. Women will bail if they don’t want to spend their time i…
/r/seduction08/08/21 07:18 PM

The point is, it was a bad date idea and she obviously backed out for a reason. She had no desire to do archery. You didn’t bother to see if there was anything else she might be more into. She bailed. Most women aren’t into doing something arduous on a date. That sounds like a strenuous activity. You should’ve gauged her interests more. Take your ego out of it and show more interest in your dates, as people.
/r/seduction08/08/21 06:16 PM

No chick wants to do archery on a rainy day, in wet grass. Your approach was creepy and the date was too much work. She bailed.
/r/seduction08/08/21 04:13 PM
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I wouldn’t be asking a forum of grown men how to seduce a 15-yr old girl if I were you.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 05:25 PM
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Your sibling might be trans. Doing anything outside of being generally supportive will result in permanently damaging your relationship with them. Being LGBT isn’t a matter of being subject to propaganda. It’s a discovery of one’s self that comes with development and personal experience. Please let go of the idea that your sibling was somehow “brainwashed”. That’s not how it works. It’s also insulting to their intelligence. They can decide for themselves what their experience is and you can eith…
/r/MGTOW208/05/21 12:48 AM
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Exactly. All the studies saying women’s sexual prowess increases with age (women hit their sexual peak in their early/mid-thirties) must mean nothing. Youth need to understand, there is no sexual marketplace. That doesn’t exist. No one is basing valuation on age or anything else. This whole premise is a fraud for predators to frame those they want to groom into meeting their sexual standards for compliance. Let everyone bang their head against the same wall, tho. That’s on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 09:57 PM
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Think about your relationship to women more with regards to your communications. Don’t fixate on sex or biology. It’s simply less relevant. Women are people you can talk to. Learn how biology works, too. Women don’t hold on to sperm. That’s not a thing. Learn how children are conceived. Learn how human bonds are built. Let your curiosity bring you to that which better helps you understand different people. You can be empowered without becoming hyper-vigilant.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 05:08 PM
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You need to let go of some of it. It’s not real. Most of this philosophy is based on false science & unfounded pseudo-psych leads. It’s anxiety-inducing. Back off of it.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 05:00 PM
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Ha! I’m just watching you guys spin your wheels, today. Honestly, you need input from people like me. You’re in an echo-chamber. This post is non-sensical. It’s just words in an incoherent narrative. If this is how you’re conditioning yourself to take in this messaging, you’re selling yourself short. You should demand more quality propaganda.
/r/MGTOW210/03/21 06:56 PM
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I have no idea what this post is trying to communicate & there is no way I’m clicking that YouTube link to find out.
/r/MGTOW210/03/21 05:39 PM
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Gross.
/r/seduction06/03/21 06:55 PM
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I’m confident their participation is stunted on a lot of levels. Their primary impediment definitely is relying on misogyny as a coping mechanism for their own alienation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 02:05 AM

Just ignore it. If you don’t know what it is, don’t learn. Just be yourself. You’ll be better off for it.
/r/seduction05/03/21 10:06 PM
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No but again, if that’s what you want to debate, start another thread for it. That’s not what I’m discussing. I’ll disengage from this bad-faith dialogue, now. Thanks for ruining it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 09:53 PM
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Conflating feminists with “man hating”/misandry shows a sheer misunderstanding of what feminist theory intends to accomplish (the further empowerment of women and men from the social/emotional/political burdens of patriarchy/misogyny). But that’s a different topic. Thanks for trying to derail this one. Incels don’t care about other men, generally. They care only about themselves, as individuals, and their own sense of personal neglect. This is directed at the women they pine for but haven’t the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 09:41 PM
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Right. They fundamentally hate women AND they hate that they’re socially maladjusted enough from that anger that they can’t play the “game” to their benefit. Definitely Column A/Column B, here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 09:26 PM
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Having any kind of “target” is the primary qualifier, here. The output of incels’ rage is rooted in misogyny. That’s a hatred of women. You can’t project rage like that onto anything you profess to love, no matter how lonely or depressed or self-loathing you might be. It’s irrational & dangerous to the target. Regardless, all incels should get the help they deserve & try to reverse that self-loathing. If someone is at that stage, they have no business dating or pursuing romance, anyway. They don…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 09:24 PM
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Incels don’t frequent sex workers because they fundamentally hate women. They don’t want to enter into any kind of rational, equal, negotiation with a woman over sex or literally anything else. They literally hate women & despise women for the sheer ability to choose not to have sex with them, regardless of a transaction. This is why it should never be suggested that incels seek out sex workers for “relief”. Sex must always be negotiated on equal terms & incels operate out of a sense of rage & u…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 09:14 PM
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I only fuck ppl who can cooperate to have mutual orgasms. If you can’t figure out how to put your own insecurities aside & focus on that mutual goal, that’s on you. No one is responsible for your self-esteem, in your sex life. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 07:51 PM
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That sounds like a you problem, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 07:41 PM
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Again, good luck. I’m sure you’ll figure it out when your time comes.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 02:21 PM
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Go for it, then. Whatever the consequences are for you, you will certainly not be the first to find out. Have fun.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 06:51 AM
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If you don’t have a signed 2257 & accompanying photo ID on file, this is all a federal offense. Do not try to coerce your gf to shoot porn with you. You will eventually go to prison when you’re caught.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:46 PM
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Don’t.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 02:07 PM

This is how dudes talk themselves into incel circles. If someone doesn’t want to see you again, take it for what it is & move on. That’s it.
/r/seduction23/02/21 08:48 AM

She’s not a “girl”, she’s a 32-yr old woman & she’s obviously not into you. Drop it and move on. Go make out with someone else. Also, never think forcing yourself on anyone is the answer. Just take it for what it is. She said she’s not into dating you. Don’t read into it. Find someone else.
/r/seduction23/02/21 08:18 AM
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I’d give constructive, educational input but this is just too good. I’m gonna let it play out.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 08:10 AM
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This person is literally trained in fitness, tho. If I got a BS at that age, I’d have an entire lifestyle around the study. He’s only 25. How did his lifestyle fall off so fast? I get depression but he went through a whole degree program to understand the mechanics of the concepts. What does someone like that really want out of it? Is kinesiology the new underwater-basket-weaving? What was the point of learning all that?
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:58 AM
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You’re only 25 yrs old. What’s wrong with taking months to lose the weight? You obviously know how. Just start at the beginning. Work a crappy job until you lose weight & get a better job in your field. There are people who have literally no degree & are figuring it out. You sound depressed but not in any way unable to simply do what you were trained to do. What’s your real problem?
/r/askTRP23/02/21 02:34 AM
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Watching a group of dudes speculate on the masturbation habits of women is literally the best entertainment on the whole internet. 🤣😂
/r/askTRP23/02/21 01:23 AM
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Yeah, these are all TradFems that the OP is referring to. It’s a man’s own fault if he gets pulled into that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 07:31 AM
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Why don’t you just tell women not to speak to you? Don’t engage them. Tell them not to pursue you. Tell women that you don’t appreciate their company and you’d rather be left alone. Women have to do this all the time. Women will understand if you calmly tell them that you aren’t interested even in friendship and they’ll leave you fully alone if you tell them to. Women understand the concept of rejection and can take it much better than you think. You don’t have to escalate or be impolite. Whatev…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 09:25 AM
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The answer to your question is: leave young people alone and find your own identity. What do you want people to tell you?
/r/MGTOW204/02/21 10:50 PM
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Please, for the love of gawd, leave young women alone.
/r/MGTOW204/02/21 03:17 AM

Figures. Waste of a sub called “Seduction” when we’re stuck explaining the upsides to confirming the first thru third dates. 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/seduction28/12/20 12:00 AM

This is very true. I sometimes forget that younger people (late teens thru very early 30’s) can allow for more room for flaking. The one time I got stood up, I was maybe 31 & it was a barcade, so of course I just hung out, anyway. All I had was the hurt feelings from being ghosted but I soothed that by having fun with others. Today, I’m writing business proposals & taking meetings on days off. My time is worth a lot more, literally. I’d be livid if I blocked out that kind of time to be stood up,…
/r/seduction27/12/20 08:32 PM
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The last two sentences are exactly why you send the confirmation text. Yes, many women are looking for a way out of a date. Good! Find those women & weed them out, first. You only want to date women who are going into the moment ready to be excited & positive to meet you. Any others are a waste of your time. Confirming a date is the first step to mitigating the risk of dating a flaky time-waster. The point you’re making is the wrong point. You’re more concerned about being perceived as needy, wh…
/r/seduction27/12/20 08:06 PM

So, you just negated everything you said. Remember, the point of dating is to be successful at it. Good luck.
/r/seduction27/12/20 05:31 PM

If you’re already considering how you’ll spend your time alone/approaching other women, you’re not very focused on building a positive mindset about the person you’re about to meet. You might want to investigate that part. That sounds discouraging. I only don’t confirm with ppl I don’t care about or expect to flake. I’m in a city where that’s definitely a thing, so I already know not to personalize it when whatever we plan never happens. I wouldn’t pursue a date that I didn’t think would show up…
/r/seduction27/12/20 04:47 AM
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