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This - "Also, there are often some physical tells: even though she is often beautiful, something may be a bit repulsive about her that you can't pinpoint: there's something 'uncanny valley' about her, something asymmetrical." The hottest women I have ever been with - movie star gorgeous, poised, smart, witty, and 10.0 richter scale in bed. She was literally asymmetrical- her smile was lopsided. It was offputting, though I didn't show it. And her scent was just - wrong - somehow. And she was a ha…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 01:17 AM
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OK, by your definition of unfair, it's unfair. At the same time, by your definition, women find it unfair that top 20% men are scarce and refuse to commit. So the unfair distribution is fairly distributed. You have won the point, and found fairness in a single post. There is no further need to improve yourself.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 04:50 AM
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The mental gymnastics I'm doing are called "math". Let me help you understand. Heterosexual dating is a pairwise matching function. For every woman who goes on a date, a man goes on a date. QED, the sexes have equal success in dating. And in sex, and weddings, and pairs figure skating, and in everything else that pairwise matches men and women. Women judge men much more strictly than men judge women. This causes their sexual attention to cluster on the top men, to the benefit of the top men, and…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 04:03 AM
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The article did not say women were rating men unfairly. The article states that men and women rate the opposite sex very differently. ​ This mismatch leads to: Lots of sexually unhappy women who have to settle a man they feel is unworthy them Lots more sexually unhappy women who can't get a man they find worthy to settle for them. Lots more sexually unhappy guys who have to settle for a woman who dislikes them, and who they also may not find that attractive. Lots more sexually unhappy guys who c…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 12:53 PM
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It is certainly child abuse, and should certainly be addressed. However it should be called out in a way that isn't going to get the child further abused. What I've found works really well, on the two occasions I've had to use it, is to wait until the immediate incident is over, and then, very calmly say... "Excuse me ma'am..." ​ Wait for her full attention. ​ "My mother treated me like that. Now she'll never see her grandchildren." ​ This doesn't attack her ego or her power, it just shows her t…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 08:38 PM
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On an subjective level, it takes one to know one. On an objective level, I'm a 3.5 on the primary sociopathy scale and a 2 on secondary sociopathy ("normal" being in the area of 1 and 1, max 5 and 5). I'm a 6 on the adverse childhood experiences scale (normal <1, max 10, ), and about 2/3 the way up on the psychopathy scale (forget the numbers, but this is up there) Secondary sociopathy 2 and under is high-functioning(ish). These scores have been stable over many years. What makes my life worse -…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 05:02 PM
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100% My mother was(is) BPD. Among other dysfunctions, she has an existential fear of men, which manifests as an existential hatred of men. Which made my life pretty damn difficult when I stopped being her son and started being a man. She absolutely destroyed my father, who was a pretty happening guy. Not that he is blameless in the drama, as he not only failed to protect his children from the witch-queen of Narnia, he got sucked into performing her abuse for her. Suffice to say, we no longer tal…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 01:20 AM
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Baby was planned. Just not by dad.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 12:43 AM
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You won't find a priest who'll do that ceremony without a government-issued marriage license, certainly not a Roman Catholic one. ​ You will find lots of women quite happy to cohabit with no further commitment. ​ You will also find that in most jurisdictions in the western world, a certain amount of cohabitation amounts to legal marriage, regardless of whether there was a license, a contract, a ceremony, God's Magical Blessing, or any intent at all on either of your parts. ​ Best to learn the la…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 07:40 PM
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At the risk of stepping in the toxic waste dump of American politics, Trump does not belong in the same breath as Putin or Xi. He's a grandmaster at messaging, spin, and character assassination, all powerful tools of frame, but that's where his game runs out. His staff actively disobey him, his military just ignores him, his wife can't stand to touch him, and he's a fatty besides. Traditionally the US president is the most powerful man in the world because he can destroy it, but if Trump ever as…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/19 01:31 AM
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His point is incorrect. We are talking about legal proof of consent, not existential proof of consent. Even a simple, happy text the next morning is evidence supporting continuing consent. It's then on the prosecution to show how it was really withdrawn. Of course evidence may be deemed inadmissible, but for this to happen it has to exist in the first place. And if it is - well, the court of public opinion is not without power. Or - you could just tell her no yourself and avoid the risk. Althoug…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 02:25 PM
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You mean your girls aren't screaming "Yes, yes! YES!" throughout? You should up your game. More seriously, it is true that consent can be removed at any time. And if consent is ever removed, you need to stop immediately. And this fact makes it even more important that you have evidence that you had consent beforehand, and that you stopped immediately when it was withdrawn. Bottom line, if someone is going to falsify allegations against you, they are going to make up a story. It can be your story…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 11:26 PM
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Consent can be proved in all kinds of ways. Video is best, audio next best. Know the law where you are. Also know that, regardless of the law, the more evidence you have on your side, the less likely you're going to be successfully victimized. ​ Edited to say - successfully victimized.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 10:23 PM
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Rape is a heinous crime. It's often difficult for victims to come forward, and they need the full support of the police and the justice system. False accusation is a heinous crime. It is extremely easy to come forward, and perpetrators get the full support of the police and the justice system. These are typically very difficult cases. Sexual contact isn't hard to prove. Sexual consent is much more difficult. Police, prosecuters, and judges can't read minds. It is unfortunately inevitable that so…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 02:33 PM
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Rape is about power and control and not sex in the same way mugging is about power and control and not money. Which is to say, power and control are necessary to make it happen, and may even be motivating factors in why it happens, but sex/money are also motivating, and not irrelevant to the act.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 05:40 PM
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I challenge the idea that the country with the largest (heh) obesity problem on the planet is inherently more masculine. I also challenge the idea that you can characterize a nation of 320,000,000 people with a broad stroke term like "more masculine" and derive much actionable intelligence from it. In my experience, the US is more conservative (as a broad stroke characterization) than the rest of the western world. However this conservatism is not uniform, the country is violently polarized. Thi…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/19 05:15 PM
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Napoleon married Josephine, a widow six years his senior, who cheated with most of Paris while he was away at war, repeatedly, and over many years. His letters to her are well worth reading - by turns jealous, pleading, besotted, and by no means show he understood his value with respect to hers. In his military campaigns he was certainly an audacious, if not always judicious, commander. He certainly understood the dictates of political power, but this just goes to show that there is no substitut…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 03:04 PM
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Absolutely true. All I would add is - there is no mastery, only effort.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/18 10:59 AM
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As someone comfortably over 6', I can say that height only matters if you make it matter. This is both in using the height you have, or in overcoming the height you don't. My father was 5"4, but he exuded confidence. In his class photo around age 18 he's the smallest guy there, but he stands out with the aura of Jesus in a renaissance painting. My mom was 5'8", and quite the stunner in her day. In their wedding photos she is this shy, blushing bride, being swept away by a man who looks like he o…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 02:37 PM
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I went to a private school - not better.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 10:33 AM
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Absolutely this. Women in general are different from men. They are not better, they are not worse. Women in specific are different from each other. Some are rewarding to be with, some are not. Focus on making yourself rewarding to be with, and you'll enjoy all the rewards that life can offer, including women.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 02:03 PM
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First, kudos to those recognizing the need for change and making it. Second, the reality is not that not only is this woman not being fat-shamed by the HP ride, she is being tremendously accommodated. Amusement parks don't make money turning people away - no business does. Accordingly the Harry Potter ride - and everything else in our world, is designed to fit the widest possible segment of the population. As the population grows steadily heavier, this means everything shifts to fit larger sizes…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 01:53 PM
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If the Americans lost Vietnam because they suck without air superiority and Russian technology took it away from them, the secondary importance of physical size and strength in winning wars is confirmed. However they actually had total air superiority in Vietnam, and dropped more explosive tonnage on that small nation than the total used in all wars in all of history prior, including both atomic weapons. You're now using a complete misunderstanding of historical fact to make arguments that under…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 11:38 PM
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You are correct, the average man has an advantage over the average woman in hand-to-hand combat. On every other point, you are wrong. First, the Soviets selected their tank crews for small stature. If you'd ever been inside a Soviet AFV you would understand why. The Russians still do this today. I've heard different numbers quoted for the height limit, but 6'2" is way too tall to button up in a T-72, let alone a T-34. Even the troop compartment of a BMP, theoretically sized for the infantry aver…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 05:13 PM
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"Would almost certainly show" Actually the historical record shows the exact opposite.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 03:28 AM
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When snipers get far from the front line, it is because they are in front of it. If the military doesn't exist for extreme scenarios, what is it for?
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 03:26 AM
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Strong and smart are independent variables, so by definition are not mutually exclusive. It mathematically follows that the strongest half and the smartest half of a population are mutually exclusive, since they are uncorrelated. If you those in both the strongest half AND the smartest half you are not choosing half the population, but one quarter. Before scoring 309 kills at Sevastopol, Pavlichenko made it through the Red Army sniper school, and later became it's commander. Do you really think …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 03:23 AM
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Who found her attractive is irrelevant to her combat effectiveness OP's point was that women are a liability in combat. Pavlichenko was certainly exceptional among women - out of the tens of millions of (mostly) men who fought on all fronts in WWII, a literal handful were this combat effective. OP would argue she shouldn't have been allowed to serve as women are strict liabilities in combat due to lack of strength. I argue he's wrong, based on the Pavlichenko's specific case, and the more genera…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 03:23 AM
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I take it you weren't infantry. How would you describe the Canadian Forces today?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 06:54 PM
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When you have 309 kills like Lyudmilla Pavlichenko, in a combat environment as brutal as Sevastopol, you can talk about what it takes to be a sniper. Are you in the combat arms?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 06:52 PM
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Lt Lilya Litviak. 12 kill ace over Stalingrad. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lydia_Litvyak Physical strength, not a factor. Major Lyudmilla Pavlichenko - 309 kill sniper at the battle of Sevastopol. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lyudmila_Pavlichenko. Physical strength, not a factor. These are two of the two million women in Red Army that ground the (all male) Wehrmecht into the dirt in WWII. Physical strength has not been the prime requirement of a soldier since the invention of the musket. Put …
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 06:13 PM
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Respectfully, I don't think this is an asktrp question - he's not asking for help, explanation, or advice. He's putting this out there to raise reflection on the vital and, for many here, unguided, process on transitioning from boy to man. This is very valuable. Upvote.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 12:38 PM
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I can't help but notice that Cathy's message is accessed through an http link. I can only infer (s)he's a man...
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 08:34 PM
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Google "CFB Borden machine gun shoot". You'll see lots of Canadian civilians with belt fed weapons.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 11:12 PM
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School shootings are not a Western problem, they are an American problem. Canada is the nation most culturally similar to the US, but the US lost more kids to school shootings in the first six weeks of 2018 than Canada has in the last hundred years. Australia, another English-heritage wild-frontier nation, has lost 3 children to school shootings, ever, since HMS Supply sailed into Botany bay. Let that sink in. This is not because either has restrictive gun policies. I know a Canadian with baseme…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 09:18 PM
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Heartiste is amusingly caustic, but also very limited and way too wrapped up in his politics. You can get better information elsewhere. 21 Convention is good for young men, just off the top of my head. As for the The Red Pill, it is understanding: 1) The sociobiological reality of human nature, and how it underpins society. In two words - "power talks" 2) How power acts to influence behavior to its own advantage. In five words "when power talks, it deceives" When you understand this, you underst…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 04:55 PM
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politician ideology nation sportsball Noam Chomsky wrote a whole book on the media process of replacing thought with emotion, and how this serves vested interests quite well. Manufacturing Consent. Arguably he needs to read it since his own political thinking is somewhat muddy. However he's right in the essentials on this point. You're better off seeking insight from those you don't agree with than leadership from those you do.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 07:40 PM
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Nagging is weakness, and borderline abusive.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 01:40 PM
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What is the Red Pill? Most fundamentally, it is understanding the dynamics that underly the social matrix. Dr. Peterson has spent his career studying these dynamics. He understands them very deeply, on the biological, psychological, social, cultural, economic, political, legal, historical, and mythological levels. How he applies this knowledge, how he chooses to live his life, whether the tools he offers are useful to you or not, whether his goals are yours or not, is entirely beside the point. …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 02:07 PM
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Actually Ghengis Khan did both. Both men and women have dualistic motives in the reproductive game. Both men and women can, and do, use both.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 07:41 PM
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Jordan's lifework has been the study of human nature, and the use of this knowledge to help people. As such, he calls bullshit on both the personal and collective dysfunction that springs from the tangled web social illusion and self deception that we label the Blue Pill. This is a good thing. He does not, at least publicly, drill down to the inconvenient reality that the sexes are at cross-purposes on the issues of quality vs quantity, and resources versus genetics, and that both have dualistic…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:55 PM
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Jordan Peterson (of course) has some great words on parenting, starting with telling babies "no". Google will guide you. My own rules for my sons... 1) If he gets hurt, be impressed with the size of the bump. If he's hurt enough to cry anyway, comfort him, otherwise - play on! 2) Almost everything is a race. If he puts in effort he usually wins - but not always. This is a great way to turn dawdling into prompt action without nagging or coercion. 3) Rough and tumble is fun and frequent. Aggressiv…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 07:13 PM
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Son's car stress under normally = 24km Son's car stress under mom's plan = 60km Son's car stress under dad's counteroffer = 60km Son's car stress under final arrangement = 16km Mom's drive to get to C normally = 30km (but she can't leave till 1:30) Mom's drive to get to C under mom's plan = 30km Mom's drive to get to C under dad's counteroffer = 60km before 1:30 and 30km after 1:30 Mom's drive to get to C under final arrangement = 38km So the key question is - did she set up the point M drop-off…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 06:01 PM
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Harald Eia got the Nordic Gender Studies Institute (NIKK) shut down across all five Nordic countries, just by pointing out how ridiculously unscientific they are. It's in the sidebar (Gender Studies is nonsense) Jordan Peterson is currently riding a wave that may well reverse the tide in Canada.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 02:08 PM
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Clever, but risky. At a minimum you need some very solid evidence that it didn't happen. Definitely get a lawyer involved.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 01:58 PM
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Worth pointing out populist/nativist/alt-right movements are no different. What happens in every case is that there is a legitimate social problem. A movement offers a villain, and promises to end the problem by stopping the villain, if only the public (or enough of it) will follow the movement's leaders. They become extreme because without an enemy the leaders lose power, so they have to keep ramping up the intensity, especially if the problem goes away, or the chosen villain really has nothing…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 01:56 PM
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You are correct - let me expand on the nuance. The Nazis themselves ran under the socialist banner - Nazi = Nationalsozialismus = National Socialism. Hitler himself declared the Nazis to be socialist - "The enemies of today's capitalist system of exploitation." This rhetoric is rooted in progressive socialism, which in theory aims at no more than the laudable goal of universal human rights, operating in a framework which offers opportunity, rewards effort, and cushions misfortune. The socialists…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 06:17 PM
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To quote the anti-Nazi pastor Martin Neimoller.. "First they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out— Because I was not a socialist..." Kind of ironic that now it's the socialists coming for people, but the meaning of the word has changed. Bottom line I think you played this brilliantly. Speaking up takes courage. Good on you.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 01:55 PM
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Different things at different times. Once slept (or tried to) in the toilet stall in a swanky hotel. Sometimes on a couch at the university student lounge (the buildings are open 24-7 - you just have to set the couch up so you can't be seen by the security as they go by). Slept in my car when I had one. Got myself locked in at the public library, then slept on the couch there. Stayed up all night in another swanky hotel lobby - if I'd tried to sleep they would have thrown me out, but at least I …
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 09:41 PM
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I can't go into detail without giving away too much information. Suffice to say I found a role with an organization that was stable, flexible, and gave me considerable autonomy. It is not (usually) a full time thing, so with the extra time I have done a bunch of other things with much higher risk-reward ratios. Some of these succeeded, some did not. I'm doing quite well today, but in the beginning I had some very lean times. The first time I had no money, no food, no place to stay, it was very s…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 10:19 PM
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The last conventional 9-5 job I had was in the 90s. And indeed, it made me want to shoot myself every day. Walked away from that, and a lot more. It was a much harder road I chose, involved a lot of trade-offs, and not every experience has been wonderful. However in the long run, it's my road, and I've worked on my goals, not someone else's.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 05:00 PM
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In this particular case, I asked for her advice on a problem. It was both trivial and already handled, but when she gave her input I said, "yeah but..." and gave her a scenario where what she suggested wouldn't work out. A couple of back-and-forth vacillations and I could hear the frost forming in her voice, though her words remained completely supportive. The next day - bang - "the talk." Caveat, this will only work with particularly shallow women. A genuinely supportive woman will genuinely su…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 02:28 PM
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The eye has evolved not once but many times, and there are libraries full of research on this. If you want to get your mind around evolution, I would suggest starting with almost anything by Richard Dawkins, particularly The Selfish Gene, The Extended Phenotype, The Ancestor's Tale. Dawkins of late has become very adversarial in regards atheism, which I don't find helpful. However SG and EP contain pioneering , not to say brilliant, advances in understanding how evolution works. Bluntly, evoluti…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 02:15 PM
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That's not who he is, and that's not what he's doing. He's identified his issue, made changes and is making progress on it.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 03:45 PM
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It is astounding how fast a woman will drop you if you start showing weakness and uncertainty. I did this with one casual GF who was getting very clingy, and 24 hours later she gave me the talk. She'd met someone she could be serious with, we both knew this was a temporary thing, etc. I just said "Sure, it's been fun, good luck." and you could hear the surprise in her voice. She'd been expecting me to plead or argue. It was a major mental record-scratch when I didn't, and as I hung up I could te…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 02:58 PM
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Actually, believing we were created does conflict with immediately observable human biology. Your eyes have blind spots because your optic nerve is wired in backwards - an unfortunate accident of evolution handed down from the pre-Cambrian. No optical engineer on the planet would make such an inefficient design - and yet the supposedly omniscient creator did? Don't take my word for it, read up on evolution, understand it and judge for yourself. Read up on geology, and the physics and chemistry t…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 06:32 PM
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Marriage - indeed relationships - indeed women at all - are an extreme sport. Like any extreme sport, they can be tremendously rewarding and can bring incredible value to your life - if you know what you're doing. If you don't know what you're doing, you're going to wind up broken, paralyzed, or dead.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 06:08 PM
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The military is an excellent choice - with a couple of caveats... 1) It won't make you an alpha-male on its own. It gives you an environment, but you have to develop the skills and leadership yourself. 2) It won't make you redpill on its own. The military is full of guys who are pure blue. And full of guys who are warriors and leaders by day and absolutely controlled by their wives/gfs at night. 3) There are only four warrior trades - infantry, armour, fighters, and gunships. These pull triggers…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 02:17 PM
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I find there are nuggets of wisdom here, interesting takes and information, and occasionally I can offer some experience or support to someone. But the he-man-woman-haters club does get tiresome. Not to mention the racism and pseudo-science.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 12:43 AM
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Posting about how feminized society isn't faaiir is not in the same league as Stalingrad and Bastogne.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 09:46 PM
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This. My mother didn't like violence. Her answer was to teach me to ignore bullies and not fight back. Only thing that could have been worse would have been putting a target on my back. Oh wait - when I was eight she sent me to school with a "Kick me" sign on my back, so I guess she got that one too. April Fools!
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 02:11 AM
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Are you kidding me? They used to publish books on "Man management." Literal handbooks on manipulation. "The Rules" is the faintest of echos on this. If you think it was better 50 or 100 years ago, think again. It was different, not better.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 07:29 PM
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Once upon a time a woman I knew applied for a job as a part-time cleaner at a university. It was literally the lowest, least important position they had. This otherwise highly qualified woman was on a seeking-zen journey which involved taking scut work positions (and this was hardly the lowest she went). If you knew her, you'd know she needed zen. She was wound very tight indeed, took offense easily, and got defensive easily. Nevertheless, she was a pretty smart cookie and I liked her alot - tho…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 06:54 PM
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Very good point - I'll have to take a look at that. My general impression is that borderline personality disorder is an exaggeration of normal female characteristics, while narcissism/sociopathy are an exaggeration of normal male characteristics. Most BPD are female, most NPD are male. Just thinking out loud, if you (over)simplify "female" down to "getting your way through manipulation" and "male" to "getting your way through aggression". I think the key element in these disorders is that "getti…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 02:18 PM
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This is true for borderline personality disorder and other Cluster B women. However it is also true that one of the most powerful indicators of adult mental health is an actively involved grandmother in youth. Maternal grandmothers count more than paternal grandmothers too. This makes sense evolutionary terms it seems likely because they are 100% sure of maternity. There is evidence that menopause exists because the most evolutionary advantageous investment an older woman can make is in her gran…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 04:22 PM
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No, it's an introductory test of will. You just have to develop a modicum of self awareness and nourish mindfully rather than munch reflexively. Even a regular gym routine is harder, because it takes time and requires effort.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 02:42 PM
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Generally good advice, but hardly the ultimate test of will.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 04:40 AM
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It becomes a problem when parents turn it into a complaint.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 02:14 PM
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I had once a girlfriend. She was very attractive, wrapped men around her little finger, and made no bones about her manipulation. She ultimately dropped out of my life because I didn't show commitment. A year later she dropped back in. And left. Two years later she dropped back in. And left. Ten years later she dropped back in. At which point I said "Your problem is - you can't respect a man you can manipulate, and you can't trust a man you can't." She said "Wow! You just saved me five years of …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 02:03 PM
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Sic transit gloria mundi - this too shall pass. That said, under the radar is the way to fly. My whole career I have kept a strict line between church and state, work and play. I have not lacked opportunity, and some of those have been awfully tempting, but it simply isn't worth it.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 01:55 PM
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Schoolyard spat - a girl of 7 teases a boy of 7 until he hits her. This happens 3 times until girl actually gets a bruise. Girl's mommy descends on school like an avenging angel (Innocent sweet daughter had a bruise). Boy gets expelled. Not suspended, expelled. From grade 2. The principle understood perfectly what was going on, but her hands were tied by policy. Fortunately the downstream result is the girl and her 2 sisters are not invited to return the next year, the boy comes back and there i…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 01:57 PM
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The top psychologist at Johns Hopkins has diagnosed him. Specifically as a malignant narcissist. That's a professional. http://bipartisanreport.com/2017/01/27/johns-hopkins-top-psychotherapist-releases-terrifying-diagnosis-of-president-trump/ Not that it matters what other people are doing. You're telling me I can't possibly understand French because I was never taught French. I grew up with French, I don't need a course. I also grew up dealing with cluster B. I lived this shit every day for my …
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 12:59 AM
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Anyone can diagnose a cold, anyone can diagnose a broken ankle, anyone can diagnosis drunkenness, and anyone with a little experience can tell it from stoned on weed or several other common drugs. Anyone with basic first aid can diagnose a heart attack, and take effective action about it too. I lived cluster B, survived it, and I can read it as easily as you can see someone's hair color. Go read "raised by narcissists" if you want to understand. So far as Trump goes, he's so far off the deep end…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 08:40 PM
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There are two sides, left and right. There are two side, powerful and not. Which of these is the better frame for understanding the influence of wealth on politics and society? I think the answer is "power", but I'm open to evidence.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 03:09 PM
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The first person I diagnosed was my mom (borderline personality disorder), the second person was myself (sociopathic, fortunately not to a crippling degree). My understanding of cluster B disorders is deep and intimate, and I can pick it up in five minutes conversation, sometimes even from a photograph. Without outing myself too much, I can say these judgements have been repeatedly validated by professionals. And I do look at Donald Trump as human - I feel very sorry for him in fact. Living with…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 02:50 PM
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Perhaps the real point is that extremist authoritarians are the problem, regardless of political stripe. Anyone with a vision of a better world and a list of people who need to be purged from the nation to make it happen - needs to be purged from the nation so we can have a better world.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 03:27 AM
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I note you also managed to work your political affiliation into the post. Along with the implication that the subreddit as a whole is with you.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 03:23 AM
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Trump is a narcissist. He lacks a secure sense of self, and so everything he does is driven by a never-satisfied need for external validation. There are a few telling lines in his books that suggest he's eternally trying to prove himself to his father. Narcissism comes from an abusive or neglectful upbringing, and if you read about his family you'll see there's lots evidence for that. For my money, the US would be better served if his big sister were president - she's a well respected federal co…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 08:00 PM
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Well, that and the admission rules stacked in favor of legacies and prep schools and heavily weighted against everyone else. Read "The Price of Admission."
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 07:47 PM
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Better than under-thinking it, which is pretty much my point.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 06:04 PM
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I dunno, Hilary came in for lots of ridicule. So did Obama.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 06:01 PM
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If you have no research then your assertion can have no weight. The fact that this is reddit is irrelevant. When you say "I don't care enough," what you don't care enough about is the fundamental reality underlying your viewpoint. That suggests you're choosing facts to support your pre-existing worldview, rather than sculpting your worldview by testing hypothesis with fact - which is the default human mode, to be fair. This leaves you vulnerable to exploitation by those who would exploit your bi…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 03:43 PM
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You most certainly didn't alpha-widow her without dating. At most you accidentally held frame. Fair enough, and at least you didn't get sucked in and chewed up. Alpha-widows experience you as a mind-blowing sexual experience, fall lustfully in love, eventually leave because you won't commit, and then drop back into your life years later because they've been unable to find better (or at least, better that will also commit).
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 07:56 PM
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OK, you have assertions, and arguably some are valid. What you need are statistics. And then you need to develop a null hypothesis that links the statistics through cause and effect, find countexamples and test them. Null hypothesis. There is a clear agenda to feminize western men, and it is working. Let us assume that the agenda-holders in question here are radical feminists, who make no bones about their aggressive agenda to eliminate male (or "patriarchal") power. This isn't quite the same as…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 07:48 PM
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Uhm - no. His little bedtime story revolves around a plan driven by men at the top of the dominance heirarchy. There was no plan. This evolved over roughly a thousand years. The driving force was men at the bottom of the dominance heirarchy. Specifically the second and subsequent sons who were excluded from inheritance and the attendent de-facto harems that came with it by the rules of primogeniture. They often went into the church, which progressively asserted ever-more restrictive social contr…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 10:24 PM
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How do you define "masculine"? How do you define "western"? Given those two definitions, what statistics can you cite to support your statement? It is wired in to humans to dislike and fear out-groups, and part of this is exaggerating their threat. In fact genetic studies have repeatedly shown that European men have impregnated far more non-European women, globally and historically, than the other way around. I'd argue this is more due to technology than masculinity, but either way, I need to se…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 01:38 PM
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I hate these "just so" stories. This is wrong. Just. Fucking. Wrong. Who benefits through socially enforced monogamy? Men on the bottom of the heirarchy. Who loses? Men on the top. Why would men on the top accept any reduction whatsoever in their power and sexual access? Why would they not simply kill their rivals? It is well documented that men have been doing this for thousands of years. Read the history of western civilization through Greece, Rome and the Middle ages, particularly concerning …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 12:20 PM
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I read an account by a guy, a very successful leader of a previous generation. He talked of his youth, the public dances, and how electrified he was by the sight of a feminine ankle in stockings, should one happen to slip from beneath a dress. In his earlier version of western culture, women dressed much less revealingly, and ankles were about all you were going to see. When I was young, girls were spraying on their jeans, and I remember well being electrified by the sight of an inviting set of …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 11:37 AM
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The irony of the wall project is that illegal immigrants provide a large fraction of the construction labor in the border states. Plus three of the biggest cement companies operating in the southern US are CEMEX, Grupo Cementos de Chihuahua, and Impulsora Tlaxcalteca, all Mexican. Dunno if Mexico can be made to pay for the wall, but Mexicans sure will be paid to build it.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 02:15 AM
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I had a GF who put me through the emotional mixmaster. One minute screaming at me over god knows what stupid thing, and the next - with nothing whatsoever said or done by me - breaking down sobbing and begging me not to leave. I once watched her make herself late, blame me for it, and, when I refused to engage her on the issue, have both sides of the argument until she was angry enough to just unload it all on me anyway. Crazy. I do not subscribe to All Women Are Like That. However, many are.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 01:45 AM
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Can relate. My great-uncle was a bona-fide war hero and tremendously successful businessman. When he finally slid into dementia my great-aunt called him "old hole-in-the-head" and could hardly wait for him to die. A decade later she was starting to decline, living in an assisted living facility all by herself in a distant city. My mom, who was always close to her, asked me to go collect her so she could look after her. I drove twelve hours to do so, and was deeply saddened to see that she was al…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 04:11 PM
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@36Drareg - as @animalsasgoobers points out, a truly winning hand comes in not having an abusive upbringing that destroys your self-esteem. @cashmoney_x - not much of a story. I went to a party, started making out with one girl, another joined in, then another, and suddenly it was a pile-on. Social proof snowball, with literally no effort on my part beyond being dressed for the venue. I hasten to point out, I've got a long list of stories of fuckup, failure, and just Not Getting It when women ha…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 12:50 PM
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I am that guy - over 6', fit, good looking, and smarter than the average bear. Fastest from "Hi" to sex has been under 2 minutes. I once made out with five women simultaneously (not as much fun as it sounds, BTW, you can't properly enjoy them). I could go on, but you get the point. Not bragging, I was dealt a winning hand. But here's the thing. It took me a long time to understand and put to use the advantages I have. I'm not a natural. My upbringing was horrible, I had zero self confidence. Whe…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 07:07 PM
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Twenty years ago I walked away from a decent career in IT, a house on a nice half-acre, with a pool and all the middle-class trimmings, friends, family, security everything, and joined the 1% - the bottom 1%. I left with what fit in my car, drove about ten thousand miles, and by the time I was done I was putting gas in the tank a litre at a time. I had no money, no food, no where to stay, and no idea where any of those things might next come from. In a place where unemployment was 25%, I could a…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 08:59 PM
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Upvote every single one of these points. I do have a caveat to alone-ness though. Don't get me wrong, I thoroughly believe we are ultimately alone. However - no man is an island. I had a similar near-fatal accident, including the fractured vertebrae. My ex-GF flew two hours to come look after me, and she and my at-the-time current GF took it in shifts to get me out of hospital earlier and back to healing at home. Ex-GF stayed for two weeks, at the risk of failing out of medical school. To fully …
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 09:52 AM
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You still owned the situation and got what you wanted, which is quite incredible at age 18. Men go their entire lives without such frame. In general most people think of the law in defensive terms. "I got a right..." Way more effective is to think offensively "What policy might my opponent be violating?" Knowing a bunch of low level law, and showing it gets them thinking defensively. Nobody knows the entirety of the law, let alone the volumes of policy. If you switch the person from their object…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 12:19 PM
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I have, in my entire life, seen exactly 4 10.0 women. Two were in real life, and both had such transcendent beauty that it was literally hard to look away. They did something to my brain. One I saw in passing on a train, another was involved in a project I was working on, but left after the second session to go be involved in a movie (and possibly the producer of the movie). The other two are Kiera Knightly in Bend it Like Beckham, and Sara Michelle Gellar in Cruel Intentions. I have been with o…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 06:32 PM
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Stepmom: "well I know she was the one contacting you but if you knew she was getting beat why would u stay?" Me: "she's getting beat just because she's with me....?" Stepmom: "well...yeah. well....her father is just having a hard time because he doesn't believe she's should have a bf but she can have a friend." Me: "That's criminal assault. I'm going to have to report this." My gf dad: "No no, I just slapped her. She's my child." Me: "Criminal assault and child abuse. C'mon honey, let's get you …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 06:04 PM
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First yes. A friend of mine in Texas yanked his 8th grade daughter out of school when he realized she was not yet functionally literate. They home schooled her, now she's in Purdue engineering. They're a double-degree household in an upper-income slice of Houston. Children are natural sponges, you couldn't stop them learning if you tried. Modern schools sure do try hard though. Second - what students need to learn first is HOW TO LEARN. How to study, how to dissect knowledge to understand and no…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 06:56 PM
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My point exactly. The larger point is - women are now gloves-off on their side of the SMP, competing explicitly and directly for the attention of the top men. Scarlet O'Hara can drop her handkerchief all she wants. Her competition are posting bikini selfies and making their preferences very clear. Most will fail in achieving them, but there's no more fan fluttering at the very ideah that they're that kind of girl They are. They share. Be there or be left behind.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 06:07 PM
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How does dropping out of the competition make MGTOW more desirable?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 02:15 PM
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Sooo... If I understand it right, you'd lose your shit and the guy who makes you a cuckold? And then what? Bury the body in the woods? Tell the cops it wasn't you? The clearance rate on this kind of murder approaches 100%. Unless this is just anonymous internet posturing, in which case - what are you proving, and who are you proving it to? How about document the infidelity, eject her from your life, and move on with abundance. Your advice is good, but the only man who can make you a cuckold is y…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 12:13 AM
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Early to mid 50s Successful with a track record Social Iron frame Good shape Well groomed and dressed Life lived in purpose and passion Solid game You are you're only real limitation. Whatever is holding you back is entirely in your mind. Decide what you want, learn the building blocks and build that thing. Everything else follows.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 10:50 AM
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You didn't have a religious experience, you had a church experience. Delete the Bible references, and the important part of the message is unchanged. Not all churches are like that. Religions are power structures. You can get benefit from participating in a power structure, even a church. Just make sure you're getting value for your investment. However I think you'd get more out of toastmasters, improv classes, the gym, or whatever. Taking about self improvement is great, but why not just go out…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 01:07 AM
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Very, very solid advice. Two thumbs up. I have to say though, I have two sons. Nothing, and I mean >nothing< on this planet makes me as happy as they do. Their firsts will make you prouder than your own. There's no better moment than reading your budding author's story and realizing he writes better than you do, or giving your little pilot the stick for the first time. It isn't easy, but few things worth doing are easy. The key, for me, is to recognize that I'm the dad. It's my job to protect th…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 02:50 PM
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This "book" of 55 pages is a cheap take on a narrow aspect of what Isaac Asimov definitively covered in his Robots series sixty years ago. AI raises far deeper and more interesting questions than this, but just to address OPs bottom line - it is entirely possible for a robot with a conscience to have sex with someone he finds unattractive. People with consciences do this every day, why would a robot be different? And if robots were different, the bottom 80% of men (including I suspect the author…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 02:22 PM
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Neil deGrasse Tyson Colin Powell Oprah Winfrey Condaleeza Rice Tiger Woods Barrack Obama Rosa Parks George Washington Carver Racism is a thing, and a wrong thing. It should not be condoned or accepted. However it is also just one of many obstacles life may present you with. Being held back by family and culture is also a thing, surrendering to victimization is a thing, and these are far more dangerous than the irrational fear and hatred of strangers. Keep going OP.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 11:08 AM
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I've witnessed an interaction where a seven year old girl persisted in teasing a seven year old boy until he hit her. She "liked" him, and he had no interest her. This happened three times over several months, each time it was her initiating the interaction. The third time he left a bruise, her mother complained, he got suspended. These are the rules. However, the principle fully understood what was going on. Come September the boy was back in school, the girl (and her two sisters) were not invi…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 05:15 PM
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That video is titled "UFO Politics". You expect anyone to take that seriously?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 12:10 PM
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There are many ways to succeed, many ways to be a leader. Donald Trump works very hard on these things, and has gotten very good at many aspects of them. Is he doing it because he has a vision bigger than himself? Or is he doing it because those things garner approval? If you wanted to get something out of him, could you game him? If you had more power than him, could you tool him? If he offered you a deal, would you trust him? Forget the bank account and the bench stats and the notch count. Ans…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 06:18 PM
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"That which does not destroy me makes me stronger." That said, as with exercise, it pays to be sensible, push your limits, but don't get injured. Sometimes you need a break, and this applies to mind as well as body. C
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 05:55 PM
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Trolleyscan in South Africa have been working on this since the late 90s. It's coming.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 05:48 PM
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With respect to an endorsed contributor, this is nonsensical. Electric and magnetic fields are indeed inter-related, and as your brain circuits are electrochemical it contains electrical and magnetic fields, which can be detected and even influenced by external systems. This doesn't mean your consciousness is composed of electricity any more than the fact that your car runs on internal combustion means your road trip is made of gasoline. True the gas is integral to the trip. True the atoms that …
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 02:43 PM
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This can be summed up as - actions not words. Do not brag, let your actions speak for themselves Do not gripe, fix the problem Listen whenever possible Speak only when necessary In the immortal words of John Boyd, observe, orient, decide, act.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 03:30 PM
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Hardware in this context is a state-switchable feedback system. Software is the physical configuration of a state-switchable feedback system. It can be represented (stored) separate from the machine, but it cannot run without the machine. In this context data and software are the same thing. Electricity, or more generally energy, is required to change states, and in some machines it is required to maintain states. The actual processing, whatever that is, is the state-flow of the machine. It is n…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 12:51 PM
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I didn't want to get into the religion side, but here it is. Faith itself has various kinds of value, community and identity being big ones. However religions are power structures. Power structures serve those at the bottom only so far as this sustains the power of those at the top. Trading a narrative that eases the painful truth of death for real-world power is probably the global gold-star example of this.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 11:29 PM
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The electricity that powers your computer doesn't die but, when you power down, the information held in RAM vanishes. You can reboot if you want, but anything not saved somewhere is gone. Unfortunately, brains don't have offline storage...
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 11:21 PM
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You're right, this post is not about the rules of the game. It is not about how best to play the game. It is about building the mindset that wins the game. Specifically, being alive doesn't offer the drive to succeed, nor does embracing death eliminate fear. What it does is remove the paralyzing effect of fear. You learn to say "fuck it" and go for it, whatever it is. So many men march to their graves already dead, choosing always safety, taking shit instead of risks. To be clear, I'm not saying…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 11:14 PM
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Yes. My own approach is that it's engineering, and specifically engineering on a Roman level. They had the well refined practical knowledge to build cities, bridges, dams, waterwheels, aquaducts, ships, and war machines. They could work with iron, bronze, wood and stone. This was all developed empirically. They had no understanding of the fundamental material and force sciences that underpinned their works. They lacked the math for more than the most basic accounting. This is where we're at. Sci…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 04:33 AM
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You are correct. Having said that, there is a strong correlation between abuse and sociopathy. I'm not a mental health professional, but for various reasons have had to go in-depth with a decent number of such personalities. I can sometimes pick it up in a photograph. One possible key is simply the cuddling (or lack of it) babies receive. A former girlfriend had the total Single White Female experience with a room-mate - turned out the poor girl had had some trauma as a baby that put her in a bo…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 03:05 AM
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Pleased to help. I find my stability in science, but if faith works for you, it works. You can't undo what was done to you. You can do better for your children.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 01:38 AM
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To quote Frank Underwood quoting Oscar Wilde - "Everything is about sex except sex. Sex is about power." In sex both male and female realize their particular forms of power to achieve their genetic drive to reproduce. Because we are a complex species this is a complex exchange, but at bottom line it is about power. Above the bottom line, there are a host of other human needs that sex provides the foundation for - intimacy, companionship, social regard, to name a few. Masturbation gives the physi…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 12:15 PM
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Very well said. The matrix is a social matrix, the sum total of the social expectation our world places upon us. The stronger our frame, the less we are influenced. The stronger our game, the more we can influence. Your frame can be stronger than your game, but your game can never be stronger than your frame. Aim to game from frame. C
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 11:58 PM
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CrimsonKodiak said it first, but I will say it again because it is one of the most pernicious myths on this site. It is mathematically impossible for women in total to have more sexual partners, or more sexual experiences, than men in total. This is because these functions are paired. Every sexual encounter increments the partner count for both sexes equally. Gene Simmons claims a partner count of 4800. That means 4800 groupies added one to their partner count. An MFF threesome adds two to the p…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 11:05 PM
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I've trained myself to self-discipline through self-hypnosis, and I have a key set up to get me through whatever challenge or temptation I face. Initially sugar was the issue that prompted the use of that key the most. Sweetness gives your brain a solid dopamine hit, not as hard as sex, but essentially effortless. Quitting it is hard. Nevertheless I persisted. I now have no problem giving it a pass 99% of the time, and notice that the less I have, the less my body will tolerate. Simultaneously, …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 09:22 PM
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This is NOT a bad thing. Imagine your mom making you wear girl clothes because she wanted a girl. Imagine the humiliation and embarrassment, the damage to your identity and developing sexuality. Now realize that this happens. Yeah. This is child abuse. Along with a host of less blatant behaviours that some mothers inflict upon their son's sexuality for all kinds of fucked up reasons. In fact MOST child abuse is inflicted by mothers. This legislation is not about empowering women, it is about pro…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 10:54 PM
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This is powerful. A couple of points, which you may already have considered... The algorithm should use all available photos. There is likely benefit in first pass classification to weed out non-standard photos vs face vs figure photos to reduce noise. There is likely also benefit in classifying face and figure separately. I appreciate your generosity in open sourcing this, but too wide distribution will just trigger an arms with Tinder Last, my background is in computer vision and machine learn…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 03:14 PM
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Sun Tzu would certainly support the warrior mindset, but that's not actually what this quote means. This quote means that you should have your complete mechanism of victory in place before you pull the trigger. You should have contingency and branch plans prepared for each of your opponents possible counters. As Liddel-Hart wrote, you should be constantly placing your opponent on the horns of a dilemma, and then exploiting the decisions they don't make. This of course does not guarantee success,…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 11:35 AM
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Yeah, you've made a few mistakes here, but you already know that. You now have three options. Divorce and suffer .
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 09:59 PM
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Red Pill in haiku Challenge and improve yourself Girls love will follow
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 12:46 AM
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I'm polyamorous. There is my lovely wife, and a succession of eager twenty-somethings who are severely missing positive male energy from the millennial males who make up their peer group. The smarter and more ambitious they are the easier it is. They swoon for the older, accomplished man, and don't mind sharing at all. In fact, they prefer it, since I put no expectation on them.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 12:20 AM
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No gold necessary. If I've made a difference, that's all that counts.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 03:22 PM
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The male unicorn is muscled, devastatingly handsome, stylish, fantastically wealthy, expert-level talented in multiple fields, universally respected, sexually dangerous, and very well hung. He is socially polished, but scratch that veneer and he can be brutal, even cruel. Get deeper inside and you will find he has a fatal vulnerability that only the innocent love of a particular woman can heal. Their natural habitat is romance novels, but they can also be found in the daydreams of schoolgirls an…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 12:06 PM
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This. So much this. Being angry is understandable. You have been lied to, by the media, by the government, by men, by women in general, and by specific women. You have been lied to by your church if you have one, by society at large, by your friends and your own parents. You have suffered as you struggled to succeed under a set of implicit rules which are explicitly, and deliberately, wrong. You have watched others with less to offer enjoy more success with less effort, and you haven't understoo…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 12:42 AM
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I will at some point, but I'm a brand-new contributor and so need to gain enough karma before I can do more than comment. Thanks for the upvote though, it brings it closer.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 11:30 AM
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Men prefer loyal, feminine women, but loyal, feminine behavior is something that a man must inspire in a woman, not something a woman can offer to an uninspiring man, not for long, not for real. Same thing, sluttiness may not be empowerment, but I make it clear that if there's no sex on the first date, there won't be a second - nor will I date anyone without a professional qualification or in school for one. Double points for STEM. What's a girl to do but work her ass off for her career, and fuc…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 10:20 PM
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Thanks Jenna. It's not original to me, but sums it up well.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 07:42 PM
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First, If your LTR is toxic, one of the best self-improvement things you can do is end it. That said, get your ducks in order first. Sounds like you're on this. Second, AWALT applies only in the way that All Guns Are Loaded applies. We know that in reality most guns are usually unloaded, but we treat them as always loaded because the consequences for being wrong can be lethal. Once a particular gun has been proven unloaded, you can take it apart, clean it, point it at someone in a training exerc…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 06:49 PM
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The tools of power, as I see them. Vision: First we must see the world as it is, not as it is presented to us. We must see the real nature of social and power structures, and the threads of which they are woven. We must see past the myriad messages of influence to the intentions behind them. We must see what is valuable, and what only seems valuable, what is power, and what only seems powerful. Above all, we must abandon comforting fictions for hard truths, and look in the mirror in the uncompro…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 05:12 PM
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