Raurigh Archive

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1	Divorce imminent (10 year LTR w/ no kids). I am so sad. I think you got a BPD wife, man. It's tough. I didn't marry her, but I lived with a BPD girlfriend for two years. I was in a dark place before her, found her just as shit was starting to come together. Best shape of my life, more money than I ever had, great social life. Too bad I was still taking my blue pills. Over those two years, I fell off the radar with friends and family, fell into a deep depression, got terrible anxiety to the point that I could barely leave the house. I wanted to leave …	/r/askTRP	01/03/20 04:50 AM
6	LTR of 8 years 'Accidentally' kissed another dude Lmao, woosh.	/r/askTRP	01/03/20 03:41 AM
2	LTR of 8 years 'Accidentally' kissed another dude Exactly. So how did one of her boys end up in a position to be "accidentally" kissed?	/r/askTRP	01/03/20 03:37 AM
1	How do you keep a conversation alive over text? I mean, if you can have a conversation in person, just pretend it's in person and type what you would say. Only difference is that you have time to think about it. If it's really not a good response, the content of what you've been saying in person is also shit, but you're compensating with looks and delivery. If all else fails, just say, "I don't text more than I have to. Wanna talk over coffee?" You don't owe these people your time and energy if you hate doing it.	/r/askTRP	29/02/20 02:53 PM
109	LTR of 8 years 'Accidentally' kissed another dude Sorry to hear that, man. It's over. You ever accidentally kiss one of your bros? "Oh, my bad. No homo, dude." Also, as others have said, sounds like damage control. "I fucked this dude and it might get back to him, but if I get ahead of it by admitting something smaller that he'll forgive, when he hears I fucked another dude, I can claim it was a rumor and that I told him what actually happened. Plus, I'm not cheating because I told him I did something I shouldn't, even if it isn't the full stor…	/r/askTRP	29/02/20 02:37 PM
1	Conservative guys, are you having as much trouble dating as me? Lol, just game them if they're attractive to you and there are no other serious red flags. Say you end up deciding to pursue an LTR, which is the only situation politics would matter in, if you successfully generate enough genuine desire, she'll warm up to your politics as she enters your frame. If she doesn't, she doesn't respect you or your views enough to let you happily lead a household anyway, so you should drop her and spin plates.	/r/askTRP	29/02/20 06:01 AM
3	In so much pain I can barely speak due to nerve disorder in my tongue, can’t get myself to be motivated for anything due to the pain, in desperate need of advice Don't stop searching for an answer. Don't think that because doctors can't fix it, you can't. They're just people, like you and I, that made different choices about the direction their life would take. Often times, it's the fact that they're doctors that's the exact thing that prevents them from truly helping. Someone likely owns them and doesn't want them wasting time and money looking for causes when they can profitably treat symptoms. They can also lose credibility among their peers and fundi…	/r/askTRP	29/02/20 05:35 AM
1	Are hiring managers really as good at detecting liars as they think? They always brag about it online. People in management tend to score low in agreeableness, or high in disagreeableness, on the Big Five aspects scale. People who are disagreeable see the world as a place to compete and people don't like competition if they feel they're a bottom performer, so disagreeable people tend to have a higher opinion of themselves. It's much more likely that they're pretty average at detecting liars, unless they also have a high IQ, but they're exceptionally skilled at projecting confidence and self-aggra…	/r/askTRP	27/02/20 05:07 PM
1	Can I monkmode while in a ltr? Tell her that intimacy with her makes you feel like everything in life is better than it is, but you know that's not factually true, so you need to temporarily pull back until your motivation comes back enough to make the changes that need to be made. Easy, powerful fixes to our misery, such as porn and weed, numb us to the incremental improvements more meaningful fixes bring. Tell her you'll understand if that's unacceptable to her, but this is what needs to be done. Either she'll respect you a…	/r/askTRP	27/02/20 04:49 PM
1	Just broke up with my LTR of 3 years. Going insane No matter how bad you are, it will get better with time. My first LTR had me contemplating suicide. Now I laugh at the fact that I thought that was worth dying for. One thing to ask yourself is how that 2 months of barely speaking to her were. I'm sure you were at least a little irked by it, but were you unable to function like this? I'm betting the answer is no. You should keep that in mind. It's proof that the anguish you feel now is largely a mental thing because she was already out of your l…	/r/askTRP	27/02/20 04:30 PM
7	How do I find what motivates me? Motivation is a strange thing. The common school of thought is that motivation precedes action, but as most things society conditions us to believe, it's the other way around. Motivation comes as you begin to act. You've even noticed this yourself. Once you start something, you tend to finish it and finish it well. I know it's not the answer you were hoping for, but never forget that because that is the source of motivation. Just get started. Each time you overcome the flinch, the next flinch wi…	/r/askTRP	27/02/20 03:22 AM
2	Post-sex text Morning after is one of the best times to back off. If they don't message you, they have no problem hooking up and ghosting. If not hearing from you makes them uncomfortable enough to text first, they care about not being perceived as easy or promiscuous. If not in your eyes, at least their own, which is a start. Plus, communication resumes from your frame.	/r/askTRP	26/02/20 09:16 PM
1	My 9 person friend group is renting an 8 person boat and left me out. Now one of them has cancelled and they are inviting me tomorrow. I wanted to go before but now not sure. What should I do? Lol, it's unlikely, but if he's coming at it from a presumed position of, "They chose to leave me out.", and ends up finding out that he was initially left out due to chance or circumstance, not rejection, he'll feel better, which is nice, but ultimately meaningless external validation.	/r/askTRP	26/02/20 07:21 PM
1	why is everyone so defensive about deleting their social media? is the new generation really that attached? I wasn't referring to you specifically as not being able to compete. I meant "you" in general terms. I was demonstrating a hypothetical of how people might get defensive because people often pose the question of whether or not they should delete their social media in a loaded fashion. Take your original post for example. You're not just asking, "Why don't you delete your social media?", and waiting for an answer. In the same question, before anyone can respond, you're also asking: "Are you attac…	/r/askTRP	26/02/20 07:08 PM
2	I’ve been practicing red pill and seeing amazing results, I’m bad at sex however Think about how concerned you are at performing for her. Women feel that too. They can often crave the validation gained through pleasing their partner as much as, if not more than, the physical release of climax. Not saying she doesn't wanna get off too, she does, but it's not a zero-sum game if you get off and they don't. They'll still feel good about themselves and you'll get the experience you need. And if no one's in a rush to get outta there, round 2 in 10-20 minutes. As you get better, yo…	/r/askTRP	26/02/20 12:52 PM
3	Thoughts and advice on vasectomy? Seems like a major overreaction. Just wear a raincoat and know what you're doing, bro. It's like burning your taste buds off because you overeat. Imagine paying to have your sense of smell permanently removed because you refuse to flush the toilet after shitting. "I don't like the sound it makes."	/r/askTRP	26/02/20 12:37 PM
1	Girl bit me during sex, then afterwards completely denied it. She rationalized in her mind that it was another girl. What should I do? Lol, if she says it's from another girl, just say, "Yeah, you right." She's either joking and can appreciate your joke, plus you get some dread, or she's straight crazy and you don't need that shit anyway.	/r/askTRP	26/02/20 12:19 PM
1	Friends are cool to me one-on-one, but it seems like when the group is together I’m singled out and picked on more than the others. What’s the issue? As others have said, you're either the strongest in the group and the biggest intrasexual threat, or you're the runt. A little honest introspection and it should be easy to tell which one, though I will admit it's more common that you're picked on because they're weak, not because you are. If you're the strong one, amused mastery and pick back. Don't tolerate brazen disrespect. If you think you're weak, work on that. If they're your friends, they'll help you with that.	/r/askTRP	26/02/20 12:14 PM
3	My 9 person friend group is renting an 8 person boat and left me out. Now one of them has cancelled and they are inviting me tomorrow. I wanted to go before but now not sure. What should I do? Just go and demonstrate why leaving you out was a mistake they almost made. For all you know, they left leaving you out to a random number generator. Have a good time, bro. Edit: Oh, and don't bother asking why you weren't included in the first list. Answer will either stroke your ego or bruise it. Both outcomes are useless.	/r/askTRP	26/02/20 12:03 PM
1	why is everyone so defensive about deleting their social media? is the new generation really that attached? This whole thread pretty much sums up why people are so defensive about it. Almost no one who deletes social media can just delete it without boasting about how deleting puts them above everyone else who doesn't. The reason people get defensive is because the people deleting are offensive. Even the OP comes right out and says, "You have social media because you don't approach and have a scarcity mentality. Whoa, why so defensive, bro?" Here's another common one I saw just down below. You compare…	/r/askTRP	26/02/20 11:45 AM
1	why is everyone so defensive about deleting their social media? is the new generation really that attached? So you immediately stopped when you realized you couldn't compete?	/r/askTRP	26/02/20 11:33 AM