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| 1 | Kino questionAlready done those, she was receptive and initiated most of the highfives herself. All the other signs (the way she talks, texts and carries herself around me) indicate interest, but her actions (in being receptive to more "intimate" kino), don't, which is the most important part. And I was never faced with such situation, which kind of confused me. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 10:57 AM |
| 16 | Given she's disgusted and angry with your mentality and personality, how to tame?I like how you try to disguise your autism outbreak as "an experiment". There's absolutely no positive outcome for you to talk about TRP truths to your partner, you either show that you're a high value man that is being eyefucked by other women when you're holding hands with your LTR or you shut the fuck about the theory. Now you shot yourself in the foot and made yourself look like an incel. Good job, my dude | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Do you treat 10's the same way you treat 6-7's?This is very accurate, whenever I approach a 10, by my standards, either IRL or online I feel like I need to tone it down and be more passive, verbally show more interest instead of escalating and so on. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 02:03 PM |
| 44 | When did you first realize you had become Chad?When I got 12 upvotes on the main sub | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 06:19 PM |
| 197 | How common is it for women to directly lie to you to get validation out of you, by going on about missing you, needing you, etc?They don't lie. Since women are controlled by emotions, whatever they feel at the time is the universal truth. They might actually miss you, but once you give them attention they might not anymore- their emotional state changes, so does their perception of reality. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday i met this girl at a party that said to me whispering my ear, she had a weed pipe on her hand and said, “i would do anything if you gave me meth, like anything” and then winkedSign her up for rehab | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 06:20 PM |
| 6 | Why do women love being objectified?R E A D T H E S I D E B A R | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 06:20 PM |
| 5 | LTR telling me about co-worker hitting on her.One of my ex'es would bring up every attempt of other dudes hitting on her and I would A&A through all of them like it's nobody's business. At first, I thought that in her head, by saying these things, she thinks she's being a good partner "Oh I got hit on, but I shut down the escalation". After one attempt she actually broke down "Wow, you actually don't even care, you don't even get jealous, it's like you don't even think that another man can desire me". So, it turns out it wasn't just a shitt… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 07:28 AM |
| 1 | How to talk less and say more? Escape meaningless bullshit?Oh yes, because that's how you solve real life problems that deeply affect even the most basic concepts of social interactions- by removing the burden of responsibility from yourself and waiting for an answer to an inadequate question on Reddit. Keep it up my dude | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 10:20 PM |
| 0 | How to talk less and say more? Escape meaningless bullshit?So in simpler terms- you have autism and expect us to provide you with more depth than your therapist? Yeah, that makes sense. Why don't you switch doctors, because hypersensitivity can be linked to a lot of things including depression, stress, exhaustion (which basically creates a never ending loop) and/or hormonal imbalances, saying many people have it is a reach. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 09:17 PM |
| 0 | How to talk less and say more? Escape meaningless bullshit?Do you expect a handful of men and a bunch of highschoolers to actually help you? Seek therapy because you're way above internet consultations. If you're incapable to function as a normal human being in a basic work environment there's no magic phrase we can say to you. Choose a good therapist and start there, because judging just from your post there's quite a few things wrong with you and you're not doing anything about it. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 08:54 PM |
| 6 | How to talk less and say more? Escape meaningless bullshit?I fucking love it how you come up with such title and then continue to write meaningless bullshit in the post. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 08:37 PM |
| 4 | Do you improve your game with girl "friends"?Why don't you fuck her first and then start figuring out how/if to plate her. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 05:22 PM |
| 10 | So getting married is stupid since women will fuck the hottest dude they can find?Actually read the sidebar, not just the titles | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | The best way to be good at sex if it’s a ONS or a tinder hook up?Sex god method, read it, it's a must. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 02:19 PM |
| 1 | My actions don't align with my "interests"It's the latter. The grind isn't much fun at all. Studying was a chore but I enjoy working in the field, working out was a chore back when I was out of shape, but now, when my physique is way above average- I love it, grinding for my business was a chore but now I can enjoy the passive income it brings. Focus on the goal and it will help you get through the process, but there's no excuse for not trying to reach it. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Plate wanted me to use a condom?Wrap it up you fucking egg | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Fourth first date ever as an adult - fclose. Feedback?Well, you really could use some improvement on humblebragging more humbly. All that aside, good job my dude, keep doing you! | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 04:15 PM |
| 8 | Good openers for a house party?Opening the door is a pretty good one | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | idk what to title this (19m)Being dumped is a good kick in the butt to take action, but it should not be the main source of motivation years later, anger slowly eats you up and that's what is happening to you. But you're still young, so that's good, you'll get a grip sooner or later. Now, to answer your projections about self improvement- yes, I'd still be busting my ass off to increase my value if "sex didn't exist" because really, what else is there to do in life? Enjoy fictional pleasures that don't cost anything? No th… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 03:01 PM |
| 4 | What's the RP view on sluts?Low value as a LTR partner- yes, Low value as a plate-, not really | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 12:49 PM |
| 9 | What's the RP view on sluts?You shouldn't care about what other men think on this subject. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Should i next? (Says she needs time before we talk)All plates want commitment when they perceive you as high value, and since she's post wall, her need to hold a guy down increases greatly. And, yes, you can establish an open relationship, but you need to be capable of doing that and she needs to be down for it. Whatever the outcome might be, enjoy it while you can and let her go once she drops, she's just a plate after all, right? | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Should i next? (Says she needs time before we talk)It seems that the plate has spun it's course. The "talk" will happen and she will throw an ultimatum towards you. It's up to you how you handle it. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 08:48 AM |
| 6 | Called to thank herThat's why you're a retard, retard. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Called to thank herWhy did you call her? | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 07:12 AM |
| 20 | What is the healthiest way to masturbate (no fantasizing?)No wonder we got quarantined | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Plate messaging me thinking I'm her exNo, you did not. She's a plate, it literally does not matter what she does. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 07:28 PM |
| 2 | So there's this one girl....To be fair, messaging her in this situation seems fine, because the current state of your hamster is more desperate than anything. Shoot a message, invite her out for a drink, if she declines, well, there's your answer. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Do members of the community believe gender is a social construct or otherwise?Nice bait, Buzzfeed | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 01:01 PM |
| 7 | Experienced Redpillers: Would you let your LTR meet up with an Ex?This, this is the only answer to all the "My LTR wants to/did/is planning to hang out with her ex" threads. If you have set up boundaries (which you should have) you don't have to say no to anything, your partner will know if a certain action is crossing the boundary or not. And if she still goes with it, well, then you need to go with your end of the bargain, which is either dread or a demotion. This is where most guys fail, they don't follow up on their words and then feel anger/ dissatisfacti… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you all usually sleep with Tinder sluts on the first date?That's the goal, but it doesn't always work out like that. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Why isn’t No Contact working?Guys that don't block their exes and then spazz out when they reach out are the same guys that ate glue in 3rd grade. NC is for you, not for her. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 06:45 AM |
| 13 | LTR adviceThe leash is in your hand. It's her choice not to have sex with you just like it is your choice to stay in a sexless relationship with her. No need to be bitter or feel angry, just leave her and find someone that will fuck you. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Buying gifts.If it's a LTR why not, rewarding good behavior is key. Now, talking about plates- nah. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 05:39 PM |
| 26 | am I mansplaining?Stop surrounding yourself with retards | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 01:40 PM |
| 9 | Ltr called me a bad boyfriend because I didn't do her a favorYou tried to argue with a woman using logic and that was your first flop. Then, you tried to "train her" by stating you'd do X if she does Y, she did Y you said there's no point to do X (It doesn't matter how illogical the request may be, YOU were the one that suggested the trade in the first place). The mistakes are on your part, not hers, it's nothing you won't be able to bounce back from though. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 11:35 AM |
| 2 | How long will women put up with being a booty call?I can't maintain plates to save my life, so it's usually 1-2 months tops before I get hit with an ultimatum. Some of them reach out later on, some don't, but it doesn't matter | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 07:54 AM |
| 1 | OP's Virgin Princess of 4 years Gives Virginity to Chad Thundercock in 3 DaysI believe this post perfectly displays the true nature of both a man and a women. She instinctively didn't want to fuck a guy that wasn't assertive, dominant and confident, she had no experience beforehand so this didn't happen from "learning from past experiences". He, on the other hand, showed that all men have natural alpha tendencies that are suffocated by blue ways of thinking. He knew that not getting sex from your partner in a relationship wasn't right, but he rationalized it, he knew tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/19 04:54 AM |
| 2 | How to handle Ex LTR reaching outIt's pretty textbook, she went for the other guy, realized he's not as good as you, got shaken by the fact that you're actually capable of going NC and decided that she wants you and/or just your attention back FOR THE MOMENT. I'm not sure where your head is at but you gotta take a step back and come to a conclusion if you two can actually have any sort of future anymore or is it all over and you're just emotionally bound by memories. If it's the latter, it's better to move on and it means actua… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | I don’t understand the difference between MGTOW and TRPFair point | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 05:51 PM |
| 2 | I don’t understand the difference between MGTOW and TRPI don't hate on the core idea of MGTOW, if you really think that women don't align with your goals- more power to you. I don't agree with going MGTOW because you're a failure. It's like going to the gym for a year, but actually slacking off and not following both dietary and workout routines thus not getting anywhere and then stating "fuck lifting, only narcissistic fucks lift weights and chase their gym related goals". | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 05:07 PM |
| 11 | I don’t understand the difference between MGTOW and TRPThe movement was started by chads that had triple digits under their belts and came to the conclusion that women are just not worth their time (they could have them if they wanted to) now it's a bunch of neckbeards that can't get laid and instead pretend that they're removing women out of their life by choice. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 01:08 PM |
| 5 | “I’m Upset”Just quote her Drake lyrics | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Plate has to meet my parentsNo, unless they'll watch you fuck her. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Finding purpose in lifeNihilism is a very slippery slope, I encourage to study it in order to understand what failure looks like but to be very careful and not get overwhelmed by it. Because at the end of the day Nihilistic beliefs are the very core of failure. Improving yourself is hard work that requires tackling the unknown in various parts of your life, the unknown is scary, spooky and frightening, but facing it rewards you greater than anything else. On the other hand, we have the comfort of giving up, which is n… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 11:59 AM |
| 1 | What is the emotionally healthy equivalent of insecurity?It's a combination of traits- low neuroticism, high-ish conscientiousness. In other words- rational thinking. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 11:26 AM |
| 1 | How to battle depressionSeek a different therapist, actually read reviews, find the school of thought that you find the most attractive and seek out a specialist in that area. It's a quick search. I mean when you have a skin condition you'll go to a dermatologist, not a gynecologist. If you actually believe you have depression and not just going through a rough patch, or simply melancholic- seek help, this isn't something you should fuck with. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 08:40 AM |
| 2 | How to battle depressionSeek professional help, jesus fucking Christ. Take care of your mental health the same way you are taking care of your physical health. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 08:30 AM |
| 6 | Is it ever ok to open up to Women?This, there's been a great post I've read some time ago, can't really be bothered to look for it now. It basically states that men are doomed to keep their emotions in because it IS expected from us and that's our cross we have to carry. And all those idiots that try to hate us for being so "stone cold" would hate us even more if we were to actually let our emotions go. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 05:30 PM |
| 6 | Is it ever ok to open up to Women?Retards like you should be instantly banned from askTRP because you can't be giving out advice while still lurking in the anger phase. No woman or a man that is't autistic is this existential."Oh your dog died? Stop being a pussy we all die and life is meaningless". | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Was I a bit too harsh with leaving the party?This. If you felt you would have more fun at a different venue- leaving is fine but you handled it wrong. Should've straight up told the girl "Hey, this isn't my spot, I'm going to X, we should meet up afterwards" and then left instead of sperging out | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Girl comes to the first date without makeup.Go to asktrp, disregard half of the comments, make assumptions without knowing the full context which is literally two posts beneath you, wonder why no one is taking your advice seriously. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Girl comes to the first date without makeup.No thanks, I'd rather always assume attraction instead of wondering | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 02:49 PM |
| 0 | British accent in AmericaIs this you, 21? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 02:31 PM |
| 9 | How do i free myself from this mental block and stop being celibate?Your whole perception is wrong, you're still holding on to the fantasy. Women fuck, women branchswing women like their ass eaten out. That's the fucking truth and the sooner you'll accept it the sooner you'll be able to stop mentally cockblocking yourself. You can't enjoy their company because you're expecting the impossible. Raise your value, raise your confidence increase your abundance. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 08:58 AM |
| 3 | Girl comes to the first date without makeup.Don't be ridiculous, why the fuck would I do that? If anything- she's going to be a plate at best. If she flakes it wont phase me. "Demonstrating" abundance would do me no good because we haven't even banged yet, and me going NC for 10 days would make her lose interest and project it on to one of her other picks. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 01:55 PM |
| 52 | Whats the point of womenThe anger phase will pass my dude, don't worry. Women are beautiful, love (the realistic love) is beautiful. Pursuing women isn't a waste of time, it's a process of achieving a social goal. Yeah, you can skip all the magic and the chase and pay for sex, but only will satisfy your need. It's like reading a review of a movie instead of actually watching it yourself and enjoying the process. If at your current point in life you're overwhelmed by all this, well then it's because you think too much. … | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Hard next after revelation from LTR/u/BadDeath keep us updated my dude. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Girl comes to the first date without makeup.I guess it's the first case then, since she's coming over tomorrow for a "massage" which is almost a guaranteed lay unless she flakes. Still, I've never encountered such behavior because I always took first dates as the most important part of the whole "dance" and for someone to put in so little effort threw me off. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 09:10 AM |
| 10 | Hard next after revelation from LTRI find it very easy to convey boundaries talking indirectly. "Oh, my friend dumped his ex for going out clubbing behind his back". She'll follow up with whatever stupid questions and you simply state your OPINION that you agree with your friend. She'll get the hint. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Girl comes to the first date without makeup.The date itself went fine, I didn't express my displeasure but did throw a few sly nags here and there. She reached out to me few hours after the date and this morning, so everything's fine on that front. I'm just more interested in the motivation behind the behavior | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 07:06 AM |
| 5 | Girl comes to the first date without makeup.Because I'm one of those good looking matches she should at least try to impress | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Still struggling after a break up.Cool beans, don't forget to tell all the people in AA to suck it up because alcohol addiction is nothing compared to heroin. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Broke up with a LTR, need advice on how to stay strong and not fall backI can't say it's oneitis I'm going through, it's more of a withdrawal, and I'm confused if I should embrace all the "grief" and negative emotions or should I push them back and think about the whole situation as little as possible | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Broke up with a LTR, need advice on how to stay strong and not fall backIm kind of torn on this one, I invited a girl I've met during a conference to meet up, and everything was going fine untill we started kissing and immediate thoughts of my ex started rushing me and how everything is different it kinda shook me, how unexpected that was | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Broke up with a LTR, need advice on how to stay strong and not fall backI'm still doing it, but it doesn't occupy me anymore, because it's something I've been doing for a long time, I don't feel the "boost" from these activities | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 02:41 PM |
| 1 | LTR is making me feel uncomfortableI don't see how can a short-to-the-point question can be qualified as low effort. I kept it simple, kept it clean, and most importantly- stated the problem as it is with true feelings that it comes with, without trying to mask them in order to look "alpha" (Hey guys, I've read the sidebar twice, started lifting and seeing beginner gains. But there's a provlem with my LTR, she's acting disrespectful, should I next this fucking bitch) , you get the idea. While you didn't buzz it up like the fellow… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 03:38 PM |
| 1 | LTR is making me feel uncomfortableStop spewing buzzwords you read on this forum masking as advice and actually take notes from people /u/CainPrice on how to actually analyze the post and give proper feedback. "ABUNDANCE AND DGAF" isn't the answer to everything. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 02:35 PM |
| 1 | LTR is making me feel uncomfortableFor me, personally, it is a flop in a sense of wasted time, gott own up to it. Because it went way past the time mark of it being simply sexual fun, for me such flings don't last more than two months. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 02:27 PM |
| 1 | LTR is making me feel uncomfortableThank you. This is exactly what I was feeling but my head wasn't able to put it in to words. I don't feel any negative emotions towards her, it's more towards the whole realization that the relationship is actually a flop, because she's not behaving like a partner I want to be with and there's nothing I can do about it. Thank you for your reply, it was great. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 02:11 PM |
| 1 | LTR is making me feel uncomfortableI'm feeling insecure because I'm in a LTR with her. If I wasn't I wouldn't give a fuck what was happening. That's why I'm asking if this is a redflag or s boundary I should at least try to reinstate. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 01:50 PM |
| 1 | LTR told me that her ex called her today.It kind of stuck with me, because it was an unnatural conversation/topic, it just felt off. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | No nudes for me, shitton of nudes for her ex'esThank you for your reply. It's not just value, it's control too. Does she feel you might leave? Are you committed too much? Is she scared of losing you? Or not I believe so, the boundaries were set very early on, even tho she still sometimes tries to bend them every once in a while, she knows not to push it too far because I'm willing to walk. But I'll agree that if this wasn't a LTR I would've walked out already, so in a sense- yes, I'm more committed than to a plate, but I've still got my foot… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 10:18 AM |
| 1 | No nudes for me, shitton of nudes for her ex'esShe transfers all the photos from her phone onto the laptop, every once in a while, since 2012. Nudes included. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 09:38 AM |
| 1 | LTR problemsI believe you nailed it with the last part. It looks like she tried to pkay the jealousy card and thus implement dread of her own, but when it didn't work, she's going to flip the script and try to make it look as if I was the one that decided to go out without her and don't even feel bad for her not being with me. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 02:13 PM |
| 1 | LTR goes out of lineThank you for your reply. Actually, going out to the clubs without each other is one of the boundaries in our relationship, so if she goes there it's the end. Also, when I think about it, I dont want to be committed to a woman that is not feeling good enough to go play board games, but is feeling good enough to go out someplace just to get at me. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 06:03 PM |
| 1 | LTR throws an unexpected tantrum.I was at her place, so I decided to leave because I didn't want to deal with the drama and all the unnecessary negativity | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 05:54 PM |
| 1 | LTR throws an unexpected tantrum.Thanks for the response. I don't I'll be able to plate a LTR, and the sex, in my eyes, wouldn't be worth the possible drama. I'll ghost her for now and after two days start acting as if I'm single. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 04:38 PM |
| 1 | LTR throwing jabs at me for not having a job.Thank you. I'd really like to have such a mindset and not only pretend I do. I guess I need to work with myself more on this topic. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/18 11:43 AM |
| 1 | LTR throwing jabs at me for not having a job.It's not an expectation. I never asked her to do it, she sometimes does it on her own, which I appreciate. Talking about this specific situation she asked me at what time I'll be waking up this morning and if she should make me oats to which I responded positively. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/18 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Did I handle this right.She was brought back to reality after I told her I don't want to be a part of her game. Hence the last part, where she apologises and rationalises her actions. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 07:16 AM |
| 0 | Did I handle this right.At first I thought we were just having a light meaningless conversation while she's getting ready, but when I realised that it actually wasn't I tried to ignore it by removing myself from it. Dread has already started naturally. Such bullshit makes me not want to stick around or show any kind of attention. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Did I handle this right.I'd say that for the moment the relationship is worth it. But such hiccups just pull it closer to it's inevitable end. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 06:34 AM |
| 1 | How should I proceed?I completely understand that and as I've mentioned in the comments- I was planning on doing that once I got over my flue. But her blatantly asking for it is what puts me off. If I'll do it now, she'll think I did it because she asked to and should continue to do so in the future. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 12:52 PM |
| 1 | How should I proceed?To be fair I find such behaviour to be expected when you're in an exclusive relationship with someone. And to be fair I was planning on rewarding her good behaviour with something small but out of the ordinary, because I do believe that the basics of behaviourism are very effective. But when she blatantly tells me what she wants in return it really kills my wish to reward her with anything. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 09:43 AM |
| 2 | How should I proceed?Making grocery runs, cooking only for me, instead for both of us, shitload of tea. Nothing too special. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 08:31 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Remaining calm and collected in an argument leads to a sincere apologyThank you for your response, when I think it over I believe I did talk too much and thus give her too much comfort. If she was a plate I wouldn't have bothered to explain what was wrong, but since I'm in a relationship with this woman I don't want to act as drastically or have her misunderstand the reasons behind my displeasure (trying to devalue me, not her talking about her past adventures). But this is where I might be wrong, but I believe there has to be a slight difference in behaviour betw… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | I need some answers on how to deal with nonexclusivityFemales will always try to lock a potentially good parter FOR THAT MOMENT. And since beautiful women are used to blue orbiters offering their commitment before they even ask- they become spoiled. When a chad says no, their hamster doesn't know what to do but to run faster. If you're not thinking about ltr'ing her, it shouldn't phase you, you can't be angry at her, because she wants commitment, just as you shouldn't in no way shape or form feel bad for not giving it to her. If it ever boils down … | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 03:33 PM |
| 6 | Does this deserve a soft next?If you're in a LTR you need to have a lot more frame than that. She acted like a harpy bitch. Big deal. Hit the sidebar. While getting angry does show a lack of frame, if OP acted the way he told, he didn't break frame infront of her. And if a woman acts like a harpy bitch you shouldn't reinforce, but punish it instead by applying dread, not sure about a soft next in such situation. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/17 07:18 PM |
| 4 | How to set boundaries in a male dominated setting?Social interactions/domination between males is pretty much the same between adults as it was back in highschool. Power (physical strength, money, connections, or basically any position where you could bring some financial or any other kind of harm to another person if he crosses you) > everything. (Not being dominated =/= respect, if you're a jacked idiot, who fucks people up for fun, no one worthy will actually respect you, but no one will try to cross you either) Now, if you want to earn resp… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/17 10:38 AM |
| 10 | Is eating pussy a "Beta Tell" ?Real alphas eat ass | /r/askTRP | 01/12/17 08:34 AM |
| 3 | Is the world that black and white?TRP is actually about making the gray area broader. Where you develop a real, solid, outcome independence and no longer are emotionally affected by the actions of others. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Bunch of questions regarding first date escalationSo why don't you use the correct term and say your fake confidence is high as fuck and so is your frame. No need to lie to us, and most importantly, no need to lie to yourself. Now, moving back to your checklist, kino should come naturally, it's not something you can follow using a text book, because it is very situational and it all depends on how you act. Just follow your gut, if you feel like it's a good moment to escalate do it in confidence, if yoi have any doubts don't, because you'll just… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/17 09:59 PM |
| 18 | Why do 5s and 6s reject me and are nasty bitches in general but I can close 7s and 8s and they're fun?The whole idea of economics, game theory and all other branches of statistical analysis is to determine a certain event/behaviour using mediums. Of course the outcome will be different if we look at the extremums. If you blindly follow smv as an indicator of numeric value and believe that a person with lower smv will want to fuck the one with the higher, then you will be surprised by such behaviour when a 5 rejects you. In reality, the lower the smv of a female, the lower her self respect is, wh… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/17 06:02 AM |
| 18 | Commanding Respect in an LTRThe easiest way to lay these fundamental ground rules is at the beginning of the relationship, when you're getting to know each other (talking about your past experiences, expectations, etc. "Oh yeah, I ended my last relationship because my ex thought it was okay to disrespect me by getting wasted at a club") Or, talking about it indirectly "My friend just dumped this girl because, she was texting some other guy "friend" behind his back" and then just go about how you support him and would do th… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/17 03:46 PM |
| 6 | Where is the equilibrium of showing interest to a girl?Orbiting isn't about just the attention, it's a mixture of all kinds of blue traits and behaviors that turn orbiters in to orbiters. Since you had no problems getting this far I don't understand what kind of imaginary wall you've hit. If you want to fuck her, just invite her over. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/17 02:30 PM |
| 12 | Where is the equilibrium of showing interest to a girl?How do you expect to fuck her, or anyone else, if you don't show any attention? It's not about the quantity of it, it's about the quality. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/17 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Did my LTR cheat?Going through her texts now will show insecurity, she will be able to tie these two events together unless you, going through her phone, is a regular thing, which would be dumb. This is one of those situations where details matter a lot, and since only you personally know the girl, only you can make the call and it seems pretty clear, from you trying to justify her actions, you don't think, or at least hamstered yourself in to thinking, she hasn't done anything inappropriate. While that might've… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/17 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Physical abundance, is it as useful as people say?The best advice in theory would be to rise your SMV to such heights that you no longer feel anything negative when parting ways with a person, because you know you're completely capable of handling your own shit without them and if anything, the loss is insignificant because it can be replaced by someone else at the snap of your fingers. That's the end goal though, while you're on your way there you can do whatever works for you. I usually keep tabs on things I greatly dislike and don't let them… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Physical abundance, is it as useful as people say?Abundance is not about NOT catching feelings for a girl, it's about being able to walk away at any given moment even when there are feelings involved. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Privacy in a relationshipCome on now, you know perfectly well that strip clubs are somewhat of a taboo and frowned upon. I, personally, have nothing against them, but we can't ignore the social stigma they have. There's nothing you can do to change her or her parents views on this subject, all you can do is maintain your frame and act like it's no big deal. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Texting with girl she blocks me and on the other day she unblocks me, she have a bf BTW.I'm saying that he was the one that offered to celebrate together, and she laughed it off. She wasn't the one initiating it, like you've said. she says that I should celebrate and I tell her that WE WILL, she just laugh it off... | /r/askTRP | 25/11/17 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Texting with girl she blocks me and on the other day she unblocks me, she have a bf BTW.She said that you two should celebrate, which is code word for let's get together only me and you No, he did that, and she laughed it off as a response. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/17 10:54 PM |
| 6 | Texting with girl she blocks me and on the other day she unblocks me, she have a bf BTW.You're not her dirty little secret, you're her obvious one-of-the many orbiters. If she really gets that much attention and praise you've mentioned before, she knows she's desirable, and you're just one of the guys that validates it. If you really want to continue this making a move is the only option and then ghosting her if she doesn't respond well. Don't forget she's getting dicked down by the cop, and you're only giving her validation at this point, nothing more. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/17 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Girl showing indifferenceSo your whole trip will be pointless if she wont show up? If so, then her pussy is definitely not worth the hassle. If you have business there regardless if she shows up or not and you believe there's a possibility she will flake on you, don't rely on her to help you. You could text here once you're already there telling her to join you in some activity if she wishes. "Hey, I've landed in X last night. Just finished with the meeting, gonna stop by Y to get a coffe in an hour. Come see me." Or an… | /r/askTRP | 24/11/17 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Ltr did me dirtyYou did well. Stay strong! | /r/askTRP | 23/11/17 04:36 PM |
| 1 | What's the most humble way to run money game?I never devalued the concept of money, it IS very important. OP asked about flexing in moderation and that's what I referred to. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/17 10:05 AM |
| 3 | What's the most humble way to run money game?I was talking about inadequately flexing your money. Same goes for walking with imaginary lat syndrome, if we're talking about the gym | /r/askTRP | 23/11/17 09:57 AM |
| 6 | What's the most humble way to run money game?The best way to show off your riches by not looking like a pathetic human being that has nothing else to offer is dressing good. You don't need to roll in a full designer outfit, but every man should invest in his shoes, belt(s) and watch(es). Other than that being financially wealthy should boost your confidence on it's own, knowing that you're stable, reached the stability through hard work and dedication is enough to skyrocket your confidence and increase your SMV, no need to flex it. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/17 09:47 AM |
| 5 | [Questions] Using dread on my girlfriendDread is very subtle and varies accordingly to the situation. You don't need to completely ignore her for three days straight, because that might be too much if it's an unusual behaviour. If she drops a text at night and you're out, reply to her in the morning, then disappear for another extended period of time. Basically show her you're busy doing your own thing and you've got better things to do than talking to her via text. Rules of dread are just guidlines that you need to apply to your spec… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/17 09:38 AM |
| 5 | [Questions] Using dread on my girlfriendYou don't need to make a plan, just spend more time doing your thing which will automatically lead to less contact with her. Going away and sitting in your car for three days without any communication isn't dread. Going to the gym and then hitting your local bar to chat with other females while your phone is on silent is dread. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/17 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Girl showing indifferenceI might've worded it wrong. Once you're back in (her) city | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 11:43 AM |
| 4 | Girl showing indifferenceYou should definitely wait, wait untill she messages you, wait until she asks you out, wait until she grabs your dick and wait until she impregnates you. Don't ask. Tell her when and where you're going to be once you come back and that she should join you if she wishes. It seems that she's already losing interest in you, and since she's not even a plate, there's not much else you can do. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 11:06 AM |
| 3 | Friend is basically Chad and it pisses me offThat's because his SMV is higher than yours, whether you accept it or not. Instead of trying to devaluate him in your head, you should work on yourself, to the point where you are unphased by how he acts, because you're confident in your own shoes. You DON'T have to be like him, but you shouldn't hate on him, or anyone else. If you're really annoyed by how someone acts just cut them off, unless they're essential for your own good (work environment etc.) | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Possibly autistic way to increase social media SMV?How adding fake friends will increase your SMV? If we're desperate enough to look at a social media page as an outlet for your value, then if anything it's the content you post that mattets. No one gives a fuck about the number of your friends, if you feel insecure about that just set it to private, so no one will ever know your low ass value with only 250 friends. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Not understanding this girl or her intentionsIt's been a month and you only kissed her a few times. You had your chance, but didn't take it, now shes making you her plan B while being on the lookout for a man that won't hesitate to make moves. Dread the fuck out of her/next, or willingly become an orbiter. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/17 10:50 PM |
| 17 | Why did this girl lie to her orbiter?This is one of those situations where no= yes. If she had no intentions to get with you she wouldn't have aired them. She would've acted in such way that you wouldn't even have known you had a chance. Now, you do not know what she actually said to the orbiter, he might've tried to cuck you, but if we follow your story, the conversation between them most likely went like this. HER: hey, what do you think of X? HIM: Dunno, he seems kind of weird...d-do you like him? HER: Oh, absolutely not, ha ha.… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/17 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Women will leave you when you show sign of weakness ... Where is the line ?That's a little bit different, a health issue that is crippling his ability to fully function makes him literally a physically weaker person than you are, same goes for any physical disability, a healthy person will always have an advantage over him. Now, if we move back to portraying crying (an emotional outlet), over the death of a close one, as a weakness that decreases your SMV in the eyes of your ltr (since plates can not apply to this situation) do you really want to commit to such a perso… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 11:44 AM |
| 11 | Women will leave you when you show sign of weakness ... Where is the line ?You're misinterpreting weakness. A man crying over his dead family member/friend isn't a sign of weakness, falling in to depression due to it, then losing your job, falling off your diet, constantly whining and not being able to cope is a sign of weakness. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 07:46 AM |
| 2 | How Often Do You All Talk To Your LTRTexting all day every day not only kills attraction and interest, but also shows that you're not really doing anything important. I don't think there needs to be a specific pattern, but you need to actually be bussy (not just pretending to be) for at least some part of the day, reaching your goals. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 07:40 AM |
| 3 | Help beating performance anxiety?It's all in your head. You're overpressuring yourself to stay hard to the point where you don't anymore because of stress. You gotta cut yourself some slack, don't turn sex in to something complex and unpleasant for yourself, just relax, take it slow. For extra help you can switch up your diet a bit to help your body naturally increase your libido. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 12:12 PM |
| 3 | Free timeAs long as you work hard throughout the week, there is no wrong way to relax and rest on your days off. If you feel like spending the night playing video games will satisfy you and thus help you be more productive the next day- go ahead. Time off, you enjoy spending, is not wasted. As long as it doesn't interfere with your work (self improvement) hours. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 12:12 AM |
| 12 | How the hell do you stay present?Stop glorifying women. If you feel anxious around them it means you believe they're better than you. Work on yourself, mostly on LOVING yourself, when that is done, you will realize your value and you'll have no problem talking not only to females but people in general, because you won't seek validation and approval from others, as redhawkes said. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 02:33 PM |
| 7 | "Your" woman likely has strange cock in her.That's because TRP at it's very core isn't about hating women and trying to hurt them, or giving them the taste of their medice. It's about being so confident and invested in yourself where you no longer feel anything if a girl cheats on you. If she does, you're actually thankful, because she showed she's not the one for you and you just cross her out of your list and move on. It's hard to justify cheating when you're in a ltr, even if you'll choose the evolutionary approach it's flawed, because… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/17 01:46 PM |
| 3 | We went deepJealousy negatively correlates with self confidence. Expressing it show weakness and insecurity. (And I mean ACTUALLY showing it, for example there's nothing insecure about telling your ltr that you won't tolerate some of her behaviors you find disrespectful, because you actually DO find them disrespectful and not because you feel insecure.). Someone being jealous of you is a sign of your dominance and a confirmation that your value is higher than theirs. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/17 10:55 AM |
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