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| 2 | I guess going back to an Ex could work?? But I’ll pass!I think it depends alot on WHY he was an ex, as well. If there was an issue that caused you to need to take a step back and he was a big enough man to acknowledge that your concerns were valid and actually truly work on his shit with honesty and humility and gain some introspection, that speaks alot to his character. I wouldn't include cheating or abuse in this at all. Those are a totally different level of toxic. But I do think that people are capable of acknowledging their personal weaknesses … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 03:23 AM |
| 9 | Reminder before you send!Fun fact. There is an app that bypasses snapchat's screenshot notification. So yes, he could be saving them with you having no idea. My ex husband out of the blue became OBSESSED with wanting me to send him photos. Like, flat out harassing about it several times each week. It was during a period when I was desperately trying to save our marriage (a one sided effort), mostly for the sake of our young kids. So I finally relented and did it off and on for a couple of years. Fast forward a bit. I fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 03:03 PM |
| 20 | It is okay to be uncomfortable with pornMy ex was a porn addict. He had a thing for non-con porn and it eventually broke through the reality barrier and he started being sexually abusive towards me to fulfill that fantasy. Fast forward and I started dating someone new, and fairly early into the relationship I asked him if he watched porn and explained that I was asking because my ex had a problem with porn and so now it was an issue for me. In order for me to feel at peace that he was telling me the truth that he doesn't, he gave me t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 02:09 PM |
| 11 | LVM DATING 101 🤡Have you been in a controlling relationship before? If so, anytime a partner (or potential partner) speaks to you in a way that sounds like an order or appears to strip you of input or control in a situation, it can feel triggering. My therapist always reminds me that "your brain will demand reassurance of safety before feeling comfortable for connection." So, if there is a history of living with control (or maybe having seen it in your parents' dynamic), your mind will interpret a well-meaning … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 02:11 PM |
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