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However, a 2013 studyTrusted Source involving almost 2,500 autistic children suggests that it often goes undiagnosed in girls. This could explain why autism appears to be more common in boys. --heathline
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:42 PM
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I would be interested in reading the study about infants and monkeys if you have a link.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:27 PM
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Seriously. Foraging back then was not easy. You had to have the knowledge of the subtle differences between a lethal plant and the edible plants. You had to know how how to neutralize the toxins in plants since a lot of plants can be processed to be edible but start out toxic. Also foraging involved skilled processing of fiber plants and other useful plants to make tools, cloth, and yarn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:21 PM
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Hey you can apply the same logic for the things guys do for women. That's why you shouldn't settle regardless of sex or gender. Get someone you enjoy their personality and wit. Else why sacrifice your time?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:49 AM
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So do you think cishet are the only type of women? Because the poster asked women about their sexual attraction experience with men. Then you came and started calling those that don't fit your experience as liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:26 PM
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By your own admittance I'm not normal. I don't experience sexual attraction like normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:22 PM
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But anyways women include more than just cishet women. Op was asking women not just cishet women. Plenty of men and women require an emotional attachment to feel sexual attraction to a person. I require an emotional attachment and I have to think the person is intelligent or like their personality. Seeing a random guy of the street doesn't do anything for me even if they are aesthetically pleasing. I can admire the form of a person without thinking of sex. My best female friend is the exact oppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:21 PM
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Yeah you don't know anything about me to judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:10 PM
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I still disagree with you but seeing as I'm not cis het and I know I'm pretty abnormal and have a strange friend group we might be outsiders on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:07 PM
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Also plenty of men in the same age group have different porn preferences even though the same porn is accessible to them. And Lol no I'm not a Bible thumper. I'm an agnostic nihilist. I'm confused on how you think you know how everyone functions and thinks based on evolutionary drives and on the other hand you agree we don't just follow evolutionary drives. Sure snowflakes are "unique" but you still can recognize the basic patterns formed by the crystalization. So, yeah we are all snowflakes in …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:57 PM
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There is evolutionary drives but humans are more than just instinct. If we weren't then people wouldn't choose to not have kids because the evolutionary drive to pass genes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:30 PM
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I hear that often. It's rarely true but regardless they are always so confident in themselves. Do you think all men experience sexual attraction just like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:24 PM
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So, you fucked some ladies and now you think you know all women? Thanks for the laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:12 PM
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Women are different and can experience different things from each other. We don't all experience sexual attraction the same way. I'm not sure why that is so hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:08 PM
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Life is easier if you don't care about other people. Shame I can't do it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:52 PM
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Yeah but you have to treat us like people and who wants to do that? /S
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:13 PM
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I understand what those words mean and I disagree with you. That doesn't make me either of what you said. I think if you have to limit who your partner interacts with to feel secure in the relationship them then yes you are controlling their behavior by the very definition of "controlling". I don't think that just because someone is controlling in some aspects that that means they are abusive in all aspects. I think controlling behavior is caused by insecurities and I would never stand someone t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:30 PM
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(limit the level, intensity, or numbers of. "he had to control his temper"). That is one of the bullet points in the entry for "control" on the online dictionary. Also we aren't just talking about "please don't talk to your ex", we are also talking about "delete your socials to prove you won't cheat" there is a big difference there. The fact that it's an equal exchange between you and them makes it better but surely you can see how people might be concerned if they didn't know y'all's relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:05 PM
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Limiting how and who a person interacts is controlling. Limit and control are often used as similes. If you feel uncomfortable with the word you can process that internally but most people would agree that trying to limit the people your partner interacts with in a casual manner and limiting the ways they can reach out is controlling behavior. Trust building behaviors are them doing what they say, being where they say they will be. Trust building behaviors aren't trying to limit the chances they…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:16 PM
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You can have trust building behaviors without being controlling about it and limiting social outlets. Most people are unwilling to delete all their socials. It doesn't mean most people are cheating. It just means that someone will jump through a hoop for you. At least that is my thoughts about it. Ultimately it sounds like you found someone who was fine with it and shared the same ideas so that is great for both of you. Wish you both success and happiness in this crazy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:38 PM
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We have different ideas of showing respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:25 PM
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This is an excellent point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:02 PM
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If you can't trust your partner to not cheat then you can't trust them to be honest about not talking with their ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:01 PM
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I see not being able to talk to exes as a sign of immaturity and insecurities from my experience. Like maybe if y'all ended on super bad terms it makes sense but plenty of people just decide it doesn't work out between them as a relationship but stay friends because they liked being friends more. But the only times I ever knew a girl who had a guy insist she not have any male friends he was the one that couldn't be trusted having acquaintances of the opposite sex. So my views on it might be shad…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:56 PM
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Most guys like a wide range of female body types. Each guy has his own preference and some exclude skinny women and others exclude bigger woman. I'm a big big gal but I have had guys give me money because they liked my teasing photos I posted for free. This is online where a guy can literally get whatever body type he wants to look at. I think a lot more guys like what you'd probably consider overweight. I also think that if you love someone you start to find that whatever shape they are is your…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:18 PM
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No, you can assure me that you would rather. That is all you can do. With how diverse people's taste is you can only talk about what your preferences are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:52 PM
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You would honestly be surprised the amount of guys that like them bigger than just thick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:40 PM
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No. But I would notice. I like ass and thighs on men and women. So I can visually appreciate but not want to do something physically with someone. I don't really imagine how other people's bodies feel unless I have an emotional attachment to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:12 PM
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I'd love to bite and smack my hubby's ass but he isn't into that. I also like to rub his muscles in his thighs and calfs. They are very nice texturally under my hands and I like how sturdy they make him feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:33 PM
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I find it so funny how they post pics of average looking guys and think they are Adonis compared to their average looking girlfriends. Like maybe you are more attracted to guys built a certain way then you are to girls built a certain way. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:18 PM
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Oh guys have different look values. You would honestly be surprised about the number of guys that go after me. All 400 pounds of me. Those girls aren't even sort of that fat. Maybe 20-30 pounds over and lots and lots of guys dig a bit of softness and belly on girls. If you don't them you don't. But it doesn't mean there is anything wrong with the guys that do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:16 PM
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The guys making your pp hard? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:12 PM
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Looks like some cute chicks and guys. Problem is you think every guy has the same look standards as you. Plenty of guys like a thicker girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:10 PM
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It can deter the non skeezy men who are also just looking for a ONS because that is where they are in life and what they want and save everyone's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:30 PM
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No. I never said anything about you never having slept with people but if you are feeling guilty or insecure that is your problem. Porn is a massive industry these porn genres didn't come from nowhere. I just said if you don't have a kink you might be in the minority. You were speaking as having a kink disqualifies you from this discussion. People have kinks you don't understand, they are not as rare as you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:23 PM
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Tons of people have kinks you might be the minority if you don't have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:21 PM
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You aren't wrong. But every girl is different
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:15 PM
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Don't get into a relationship with someone who has kids if you are going to resent the kid.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 03:45 AM
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I mean why would they take a pay cut? I'm sure Brad Pit or John Mayer wouldn't trade places either as it's a hard dirty job that not many people want to do.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 02:16 AM
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Honestly if people are worried about dropping birth rates. This would be one way of combating it. Address the drop in income that occurs when 1 parent becomes the full time parent and you will address one major deterrent that people have to parenthood.
/r/MensRights15/08/22 07:37 PM
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This so much. Abusive assholes isn't a male or woman problem. It's a human problem. Lots of humans are assholes. Biggest difference is that women have more resources and aren't judged as strongly for being in an abusive relationship.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 07:18 PM
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I don't understand the way you view friendships. They seem entirely transactional to you. If you have a friend you like enough to try to make them more, they say no, so they lose all the traits that made them attractive to be friends with?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:27 AM
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A friendship isn't a deadend because you didn't get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:20 AM
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Lol abusive insecure and controlling? If that's an alpha I will pass as they sound awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:07 AM
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No. Both sex abuse and abuse equally. Though the methods of abuse might be different. One sex just had a massive movement about not hitting them and the other is divided on if complaining about being hit will make them less then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:42 AM
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I like porn but I prefer hentai or erotica since I like questionable genres but don't want people to actually be hurt. So I watch porn when I crave lighter stuff and erotica or hentai when I crave something darker.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:10 PM
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I would consider maturity different. I don't think one side matures faster than the other by default. I think most people aren't mature and still act as kids. I think maturity are traits we build in ourselves and our kids. The ability to fail and learn and grow from it. The ability to communicate effectively without taking critiques personally. The ability to understand when we are wrong and own it. Then I think it comes around also as we learn our own weakness and strengths as we age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:32 PM
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Yeah I missed your comment about how I was lame. But I really could care less what some random on the internet thinks of me. So it just as well. You can be in denial for how language is created. It is no skin off my teeth. I thought I was going in for a fun conversation about language because you started off seeming like some who could have a discussion. However it seemed I either came off wrong or you took it personally about not having influence enough to start a word trend. It wasn't meant as…
/r/MensRights20/07/22 04:16 AM
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Thanks for the knowledge. That was interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:29 AM
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A. I figured you were the average reddit person. Most reddit users don't have the influence to get enough people to start using a word to make it a common enough to where it can be considered a word. B. You have no idea where I fall on the political spectrum. While I happen to be of the opinion to just let people be themselves. I am here in this conversation because language is a passion of mine. I got into constructed languages for a comic and it led me into learning about how natural languages…
/r/MensRights20/07/22 03:20 AM
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Nah. You don't have the influence to make it popular enough for it to be established in the lexicon. See all words are made up but you have to have significant influence like Shakespeare for others to adopt your words. It isn't much of a word if others don't know what you are saying. You might not like the word cis. But you know what it means if someone calls you it. Also fdbfdsfrs is unpronounceable so would be unlikely to take off as a word at least for everyday. Long difficult words like that…
/r/MensRights20/07/22 01:36 AM
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All words are made up lol.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 01:24 AM
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Yeah it does that by destroying the natural mucus membranes that are present underneath the foreskin. These mucus membranes serve a medical purpose but also can be used by viruses as a way to pass from people to people. All mucus membranes have that weakness. We don't remove them all nor should we. https://blogs.bmj.com/medical-ethics/2017/08/15/does-female-genital-mutilation-have-health-benefits-the-problem-with-medicalizing-morality/ There is no medical reason for doing at birth that couldn't …
/r/MensRights15/07/22 12:19 PM
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It's not medically necessary at birth. It steals sensitivity from men. All because religious Kellogg wanted to stop boys from masturbating. Would you remove the breast tissue from a baby girl to prevent them from ever having issues with breast cancer? Breast cancer is bad. Removal of tissue has been used by some to reduce risk. I would hope you wouldn't as the risk doesn't match the harm being done. Vaccines are different. There is an actual medical benefit of developing immunity. I'm sure some …
/r/MensRights15/07/22 11:09 AM
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If your partner points an actual gun at you you should leave. No matter your sex or gender or age.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 09:57 PM
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How are you planning on taking care of them? A lot of times poor people aren't active in their kids life because they are working to make ends meet so they can afford the basics like food and house. Enough money has to be made for things like water, food, and shelter. If you don't hit those requirements the state will take away the kids and rightly so as lack of running water and food can turn deadly for kids quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:41 AM
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I feel like it could be. I always seen mansplaining as an attempt to educate on something they know nothing about. Prime example being pregnancy, or menstrual health. I feel like a women would be womansplaining if they tried to educate a man on things that are uniquely a male experience. Example ball pain, prostrate health, fears of being drafted, ect. I feel like the original term which had a small niche use is being used for anytime a man has a different opinion then the women and that isn't r…
/r/MensRights11/07/22 11:24 PM
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Yes and the wife needs to do a better job of explaining her expectations and/or wants also. It can be hard as no one wants to be a nag. But I know personally I wasn't taught by example on how to communicate without it being a fight or nag. My parents relationship was not a good lesson in communication. Hubby had a bit better to emulate in that department and he is teaching me. I teach him in other areas. Sometimes we are to much a like but we are trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:54 PM
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I think there are some benefits concerning tax benefits and it makes it easier to visit each other in the hospital. Also concerns benefits that jobs give out.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 11:40 PM
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This is a breathe of fresh air.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:00 PM
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Yeah there are mysogynistic women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:33 AM
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This leftist believes the draft should be done away with. If you can't rally your people to fight for their country without threatening to prison them then you don't need to be a country or it's not a war that needs to be fought. It's natural for people to want to defend their home from threats and a country that is in the interest of the citizens and is operating as such is an extension of the home worth protecting.
/r/MensRights05/07/22 10:04 PM
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Can't forget we also generally shower more!
/r/MensRights05/07/22 09:12 PM
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Great analogy
/r/MensRights05/07/22 08:57 PM
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Thanks for this.
/r/MensRights03/07/22 12:39 PM
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Deep south and it's not unheard of here either. I feel people here get obsessed with "normal" when we are talking about huge groups of people. 1% of a million is still a large group of people who you can and will interact with on a daily basis. Often without knowing what their living situation is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:31 AM
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Honestly this. They deserve nothing but pain and sadness for what they did. Routine persistent abuse to that poor baby. If they didn't want him let him go to his dad's. Makes me sick.
/r/MensRights30/06/22 03:38 AM
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No they want a candidate that will fight for both because they are the same
/r/MensRights26/06/22 04:02 PM
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This is the way to be.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 10:24 PM
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Good luck dude. There are a lot of crazies out there. I hope things work out.
/r/MensRights22/06/22 01:14 AM
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It might be yours it might not be. Due dates and conception is hard to calculate. Don't admit paternity until you get a DNA test though as once it is on paper it gets a lot harder
/r/MensRights22/06/22 01:09 AM
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Also the planet is kind of a shit hole right now. Also not sure my crazy genetics is really worth passing on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:05 AM
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The thing is unless you have talked about it with your significant other you have no way of knowing how they will take the event. Does it make it worse if it is a stranger or someone you know? That might be depending on the person and what traumas they might have in their past or just how they view the situation. Unwanted sexual actions is unwanted sexual actions. Why would you risk traumatizing someone you love when you can wait until the morning and have a conversation with them about it. Then…
/r/MensRights13/06/22 09:25 PM
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Honestly this so much. Guys don't generally even have friends as an avenue for touch. Humans need other human's touch. Sex is a avenue for that but it isn't the only way. Girls generally touch each other casually nonsexually more often and will hug way more than guys on average also. Even then a lot of girls are still touch starved even with this advantage. I have often wondered if part of the obsession with sex that some guys have is made worse by being touch starved and having sex being the on…
/r/MensRights13/06/22 06:26 PM
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Hopefully they appreciate your thoughtfulness. If not then they should.
/r/MensRights10/06/22 11:31 AM
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Remember you can't feel bad because other's have difficulties also or have it worse then you. /s. Sorry you have those sort of people in your life. It isn't a who has it worse contest. You should be allowed to feel your feelings.
/r/MensRights10/06/22 12:13 AM
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Late at night? Yes. Normally? No.
/r/MensRights09/06/22 11:57 PM
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I get the convenience factor of peeing while standing but damn it scatters so much.
/r/MensRights09/06/22 11:56 PM
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I'm sorry but having lust for someone's physical appearance and basing your choices on trying to get everything else to work, just because someone has a banging body and smells good is dumb to me. I would literally prefer to be alone as opposed to changing everything for a pretty person. I care way more about who a person is as opposed to what they look like. I looked for a partner. Somebody that excites my mind and makes me laugh. Im incredibly lucky that I found someone as amazing as he is. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:57 PM
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No. It's shallow because some guys only care about skin deep features. It's shallow also when girls care more about height then who the guy is. Hobbies, careers, intelligence, this is more then skin deep and concerns what people do and why they do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:53 AM
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This. I think cheating is a shitty thing to do to someone but it doesn't warrant death. Leave them and go live your life without them. Not run them over after stalking them.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 01:16 AM
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Damn I would love to have 20k in the bank and would feel pretty rocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 03:09 AM
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How old are you btw? Usually it takes people time to get to a point they can accumulate wealth to that point. Also barring any emergencies that drain savings like accidents, sickness or jobloss. Congrats for having that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 01:26 AM
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No. After about 3 years of trying hard I have about 2k in savings. We have had to touch it more than we like but it has saved us from going in more debt. We are doing a lot better than most people in the USA. You can search the percentage of people with savings on Google.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 01:19 AM
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Yeah a very large savings to cover about a third of the house. Not many people have 60k laying about in savings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 12:15 AM
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No bank is going to give you a mortgage for a 150k house on a 40k income.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:49 PM
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Yeah but just because it is a daily thing for some doesn't mean it should be normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:02 AM
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Nah you are good. Some women love a secret teddy bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:49 AM
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If you are just venting about being lonely that is understandable. I only have a problem when people try to project bad things on the other gender because they are lonely. The "I can't get a date because men/women are pigs/whores" mentality doesn't get sympathy from me. Not saying you do that. It is just something I see a lot from both sides. People are generally uncomfortable with other people's strong emotions and tend blame the thing that makes them uncomfortable rather than examine the why. …
/r/MensRights03/06/22 02:30 AM
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Barista is a real job. I have no clue what it pays but a coffee shop could not make money for their owner without a barista to help run it. It they are full time they absolutely should be able to afford a apartment provided they are compensated fairly and have no other major expenses. Every job that needs doing deserves to be fairly compensated. People's time is their most precious asset after all.
/r/MensRights02/06/22 02:16 AM
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Most people suck at introspection. That is not a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:34 AM
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Just don't grab people's bodies without permission and you won't have a problem.
/r/MensRights23/05/22 09:12 PM
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Awesome. Keep at it!. Advantages are nice to have but it doesn't mean you didn't work or deserve what you got. Just that other people might have a harder time to get what you got. I recognize I have some privilege as a women. I'm allowed more emotional expression. I'm more likely to get help if my car breaks down by a random passer-by. Tipped positions have a higher pay out. Custody bias. One thing I noticed as a hiring manager at least in the line of business I was in. Males didn't apply to the…
/r/MensRights20/05/22 01:21 AM
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I responded before you edited your response. Yes being properly dressed is so important! When I lead interviews it always left an impression when people ask me good questions about the position or company. Shows interest besides just wanting the raise.
/r/MensRights20/05/22 01:00 AM
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Hey that is still admirable. A lot of people can't imagine themselves to have privilege and don't have the hindsight!
/r/MensRights20/05/22 12:40 AM
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Yeah I've worked with both men and women and they are equally gossipy and dramatic. Almost like other than a bit of different hormones and variation on our dangly bits we are the same species and do the same shit. My papa goes every day to go gossip with the other old men at the coffee shop. Just like his father before him lol. He just calls it "going to the coffee shop" instead of gossiping but same thing really.
/r/MensRights20/05/22 12:23 AM
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Pretty people have privileges. I'm glad you can recognize it.
/r/MensRights20/05/22 12:13 AM
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Yeah the conclusion wouldn't surprise me though I think the job sector probably influences the bias. As for names making a difference I would be really surprised if it didn't.
/r/MensRights20/05/22 12:11 AM
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So while I could see this happening for multiple reasons. Remember this isn't a scientific study and we are just trusting that the op did what they said. Please someone take this ideal and do a larger study on it with more oversight to make sure the reporting is accurate.
/r/MensRights20/05/22 12:03 AM
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Idk why you got downvoted. That was a good one.
/r/MensRights15/05/22 08:53 PM
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It is important to focus on your own happiness instead of falling to their level in bitterness. I'm glad you are taking the high road.
/r/MensRights13/05/22 03:05 AM
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You want me to give names? LoL. It is something I have heard from a few of my friends in college who were gay. I could only agree as people are gross and that includes women also.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 09:12 PM
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I'm sorry you have had such experience with people. They can be awful.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 08:32 PM
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Yes some gay men do.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 08:27 PM
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21 is so young. You have plenty of time. Don't put so much energy in finding the one. Instead find yourself. Learn things, get experiences and make friends. Then if you get lucky and find someone you click with, you will be a more rounded individual who has enjoyed life. So many people I know who got into long term relationships that young regret the energy they spent on the relationship that could of been spent on themselves because they settled because they didn't want to be lonely.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 03:44 AM
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I thought it was super hot when my hubby let me paint his fingernails and toenails with my bestie. And I've always had a thing for guy liner. So I think I'd be okay if my hubby decided he wanted to go for a make up face. He'd look real cute with some blushy blush. I don't really wear makeup except for occasional whims.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:20 PM
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You are projecting. Just because you personally would ditch your wife for a younger woman doesn't mean all men or even most men would. You wanna think it is normal so you can feel better about your own choices. You aren't required to stay with someone if you aren't into them. It does say something about you if your attraction is in only skin deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:25 PM
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I don't think most preachers or priests really have the skills to be an effective trauma therapist. Most likely they will reflect the same thing your parents told you. This isn't malicious and is most likely because that is how they process their own traumas. Now there might be a debate on how healthy that is but all I know is it doesn't work for everyone and there can be a lot of guilt for those who can't just pray through it as if they don't believe enough. That is bull. Trauma and depression …
/r/MensRights21/04/22 11:49 PM
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Yeah I always read these type of blanket statements as projection of insecurities. "I'm this way so everyone else must be also," Sort of mentality. And sure to a degree yes some people are lazy but your drive in life shouldn't be to just get married then not care anymore. I think if something like that happens there was problems from the get go. Maybe mental health issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:39 PM
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They/them/their is also proper to use when gender is unknown. So it is great to use in situations where there might be uncertainty in gender or mixed company for inclusiveness. This isn't a new usage of the word and even if it was language evolves as our society evolves.
/r/MensRights20/04/22 05:38 PM
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Eh with all the edits it seems like he was just sad he didn't wake up to enjoy the fun time. Prior consent in CNC/edge play like this is important, as is remembering and honoring safe words. My bestie loves to be woken up with sex. She would be pretty sad( and surprised) if she didn't wake up to enjoy it. Just a reminder that if you engage in sleep play with someone to talk about what to do if you/they aren't waking up easily. He shouldn't have assumed that everyone could guess the context of wh…
/r/MensRights18/04/22 04:40 AM
5

Yeah drinking became a lot less fun once I turned 21. Lol
/r/MensRights15/04/22 10:02 PM
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Believe it or not, not every guy is desperate for sex where they will fuck anyone with a pulse. Plenty of guys have standards on the type of person they will sleep with, not just what they look like. MIT nerds, no because if they are anything like my college friends (not MIT but Honors so a nerdy bunch) they are too busy being awkward with each other and focusing on school, not 1 night stands that might ruin their future. And this goes for both sexes. My awkward ass missed a lot of opportunities…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:06 AM
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Condoms aren't perfect and I would be doubtful that someone who is cheating because their hand doesn't feel as good will use a condom effectively and often since it won't feel as good. But I'm done with this conversation. You believe that cheating can be excused and is fine for a monogamous relationship. I believe that if you want to cheat you should not be in a monogamous relationship. My thoughts on this ignores sex and gender and any excuses for infidelity while you try to create scenarios wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:53 PM
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How are you going to know how long she made other's wait? Interrogating her? I have a low n count but if someone is so concerned with those details we aren't going to get along. And if a guy has a problem with a girls n count they shouldn't be with the girl or they need to get over it. Same thing reversed btw. People can do whatever they want however if he steps out of an agreed monogamous relationship he is being a cheater and most people are not going to have any sympathy for him because he wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:25 PM
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So you are fine with a girl secretly cheating on their boyfriend who wants to wait because she is horny. But you are not fine with someone who has fucked before not putting out quick enough? Or did I misunderstand? Not respecting boundaries with people is a good way to get cut out of people's lives. People's prior sexual history does not make them required to screw you during a certain time frame. I don't think I could ever trust someone who lied to me enough to keep an affair. My hubby could ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:15 AM
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No I read but none of those scenarios change what I said. You really want to make excuses where cheating is okay but it isn't the case. I don't think cheating in a relationship is ever justified. You can make excuses for yourself but if you valued your relationship and your partner it won't be worth sacrificing that for a quick nut with someone. Switch the sexes and you would realize the absurdness of your question. What if the guy was wanting to wait but the girl is horny? Should she secretly f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:44 AM
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LoL in the post you linked the girl is a virgin. And yeah everyone is entitled to set their own rules on what happens to their body. Don't want to play by a person's rules find another person but don't try to force the other person to change their rules in order to be more pleasing to you. Nobody is entitled to sex. If you want to get off there is a world of resources available that don't involve trying to beg someone to sleep with you who is waiting for whatever reason and don't involve breakin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:19 AM
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I think cheating on a person is pretty shameless. How a person prefers to get off, thrusting versus their hand doesn't excuse cheating. They can thrust against a pillow. Going to someone without their significant other's approval says they have no respect for their partner and they have no self control. If you are too shy to buy a sex toy to satisfy your cravings then you are to shy to be sneaking around and cheating. Or really even having sex to begin with since you have to be able to communica…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:58 AM
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If he wants to satisfy his urges he has his hand or a Fleshlight. To involve another person without his significant other's permission is cheating and immoral no matter what excuses you try to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:49 PM
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You never watched a friend simp for a girl whose only redeeming factor was she is hot? Then there is also the number of guys on here that just want a hot low n number girl. They are really loud about how attractiveness and n count is all guys care about. I don't buy that is what all guys care about but sure there are those that project their own shallowness on the lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:56 PM
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Why do people like going on roller coasters or watching scary movies? Endorphins and fantasy is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:48 PM
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Shocking! Beauty and attractiveness lowers people's guard and let's them get away with more? Next you will tell me a uniform will do the same! Male or female, pretty people get away with more. Humans have a glitch to where we think ugly is evil and pretty is good. If only life was as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:48 PM
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I'm pretty sure a lot of people go by this already. Putting it in law from would at least make it transparent. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:22 AM
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Same. I used to hate it as a teenager but once I hit college I loved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:15 AM
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Most girls aren't going to cum from your dick regardless if it is 4 inches or 9 inches. The secret to good sex is foreplay. If you are having fun with sex and so is your partner then it doesn't matter. And if someone isn't having fun then it isn't your dick size stopping you from it. Does your girlfriend even want 9 inches? Sure some women like girth and length but others don't as it might be painful for them. And if she does want something longer you can incorporate toys to get the feeling she …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:30 AM
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A "nice guy" is a guy that thinks kindness and basic decency are coins they can put into their objects of sexual interest for sex or relationships. Then when that doesn't work they bemoan how they are such a nice guy and people are just attracted to jerks. Sometimes followed by insulting the person they were trying to attracts attractiveness or intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:05 AM
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Also taste in dudes change. As a teenager I hated beards thought they were Gross. Now I love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:04 PM
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These guys just can't buy that other people would have different taste then themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:41 PM
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I'll give you a reason for soft bodies. They are soft and warm and comfy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:39 PM
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I feel the fear of cheating in a relationship is a fear of not being good enough and not be chosen again. Then compound it with the dishonesty and games that often make the person cheated on feel like a fool. I don't care if my hubby screws another male or female. I would prefer to watch because that is hot but as long as I know about it and he is being safe and honest I don't care, as long as he comes back home to me. He feels the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:11 AM
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No. Men and women are perfectly capable of living full lives with out each other. That being said if you find a person that you mesh well with then it can make life easier and harder in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:17 PM
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Thanks for posting this. Didn't know that men had to deal with this bullshit also. Not really a double standard though because they treat women the same way. My friend had to go through several doctors before they would touch her because of her age and they always liked to quote that her future husband might want kids so no tubal for her. Luckily she finally found a doctor that would and 12 years later after making up her mind she finally got the tubal of her dreams. Nobody should have to ask fo…
/r/MensRights10/02/22 10:55 PM
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Yep. Most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:59 AM
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Long hair and beards that are well maintained. I'm not straight through but I do like men and I am a woman so I'll jump in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:59 PM
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Maybe just don't do shit tests?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:48 PM
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I'd rather be alone then with someone I thought didnt have a personality. But I'm also an introvert and a big believer of bad company is worse than no company. I get that others might be different. It is also possible that we define having personality differently
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:31 AM
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Lol I know a guy who looks like an older version of this. He has had some hot and cute girlfriend's. He is funny so that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:19 AM
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Why would you be friends with someone who has no personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:12 AM
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What happens when they get out of that age range? I've seen guys that have an age range. Girl gets to old time to exchange models for a younger one. That behavior is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:35 AM
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This is a much better analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:59 AM
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Yep. I lived with 6 different girls in college. We had a blast and will always wish them the best in life. I have had two other female roommates since out of college. I have also had two male roommates. Not much difference in roommate experience from either gender and any conflict was the normal roommate conflicts of who does what chore. Being roommates is tough. I know just as many horror stories of male roommate as female roommates from friends. It's almost like people in general stink and hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:48 AM
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It isn't a good argument though. Why are women responsible for keeping men from committing crimes? Why do you think guys will turn to a lifestyle of crime because they don't have a girl? It doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:25 AM
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I think it is fine but care needs to be taken to make sure they are not used in business or government since they would limit career advancement for the opposite sex. It's hard to be part of the conversation if it's be held at a spot that you can't attend because of your sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:05 AM
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Guess it depends on what you find interesting, are they boring or do you just not care about the same things? Both could be possible and the result is about the same. I find even if I don't enjoy what someone likes. I can get excited about their passion for it. At least for most things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:02 AM
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Girls that look like Velma are the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:57 AM
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If you are being used and abused by a woman. It isn't because you aren't attractive enough or don't have enough money. They are just an abusive bitch and they would do the same regardless of how "high level" you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:50 AM
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I can think a guy is hot but not want to fuck him. In fact thinking someone is physically attractive is pretty separate from me really desiring to get close to them physically. What gets me going is personality and intelligence. Physical looks might have me wanting to paint someone. But their personality is what makes we want to "know" them. I've dated people that weren't lookers but I liked who they were so that made them attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:24 AM
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I am sorry that you are surrounded by such people but that doesn't make it true for all people. Plenty of men have healthy relationships with people that love and respect them and have sympathy and empathy for their troubles. Hopefully you will find someone that will.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 02:28 AM
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Correlation doesn't equal cause Women also are more likely to get their children over men even when the guy is more stable than the female. The guys with their children probably had to fight long and hard for them. As most custody automatically goes to the mother or split custody unless there is evidence ( a lot of it) that demonstrates she is unfit. Where as the female section will be filled with those that didn't want the kid, did want the kid but is struggling financially, want the kid but as…
/r/MensRights06/01/22 08:20 PM
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Yeah. He is exactly the type of guy that reinforces the negative stereotypes of this sub. The women are all alike and are the enemy type. If we keep letting them be the voice of the sub we will never get movement because like it or not movement sympathy has a big factor on if we see changes.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 07:59 PM
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Glad you at least have good taste in movies even if you can't hold an intelligent conversation as you posted a few secs from my initial comment so I doubt you had time to read it. Lurker usually means doesn't participate and isn't a member correct? I both participate and i am a member of this subreddit. I want men to have better rights. I'm not sure what else you want unless you are just looking to troll.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 07:54 PM
1

Who is Peter? Female rights, male rights, I am for them all.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 07:43 PM
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Flip the genders and I think you will realize how difficult this question is. Men who are dangerous to women are not going to seem dangerous to other men. Women who are dangerous to men won't seem dangerous to other women. We just aren't going to see them at their worst because we aren't the target. That being said it's usually a good idea to see how people treat those under them or without power. Are they polite to those with power but nasty to those without? How is someone who is walking by th…
/r/MensRights06/01/22 07:39 PM
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Both sides of the same coin.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 06:05 PM
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Thanks for the knowledge. I looked up the Overton window. Very interesting. I agree with you on the time wasted complaining about what the radicals say. It is a trap that both this sub reddit and also feminist subreddit get into and can fill up a subreddit quickly As there is never going to be a shortage of people saying stupid things. I get the draw of it. We like to share our experiences and it's nice to have a place that you know will be equally outraged with you. How do we move the Overton w…
/r/MensRights26/12/21 10:00 PM
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There are absolutely uses for sociology but it should not be applied in broad strokes to the population especially in policy as you can only get data and see correlation but that doesn't mean causation. I don't understand why misandry isn't recognized. It's only common sense that if there is one then there is the other. If someone can hate women then someone can hate men. Who cares if they have an "excuse". It doesn't excuse anything. If a few black person treated me bad it doesn't give me an ex…
/r/MensRights26/12/21 03:38 PM
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It hopefully will also allow the person the ability to smell their own bullshit or when they have outgrown their own views. It's rare to find a person that will admit they were wrong.
/r/MensRights26/12/21 03:24 PM
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And I'm saying plenty of straight men would have a blast with a male version of a chain male bikini. Just like plenty of females enjoy a chain mail bikini. Just because you wouldn't enjoy something doesn't mean it doesn't have value to others. From this talk it sounds like you think there is a right way to be a male or female. Strict gender roles hurts both genders. It's the poison that tells guys that they have to show no emotion lest they be considered girly. It causes guys to not seek help fo…
/r/MensRights25/12/21 03:50 AM
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Awesome. Glad to hear it.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 06:57 PM
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You talk of females like they are a collective entity but if I was to do that about men here people want lose their shit. Men are unique across the board and I would never assume I know what one likes and dislikes because of their manhood. Women are also unique across the board. Not everyone wants kids. Not everyone wants bio kids. This includes men or women. Saying all women love twilight is like saying all men like sports. There might be a large amount that do but you would be a fool to buy a …
/r/MensRights24/12/21 06:50 PM
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No I'm not lying. I also don't watch a ton of movies so there might be something there. I just haven't noticed that trend in movies. I noticed it in commercials more because I watch a lot of YouTube so therefore get a lot of crappy commercials Why are you so mad at chain mail bikinis for guys but not also girls? Having options in a video game is not a bad thing as long both options are equitable. It's not even something that would only benefit girls as I know plenty of guys that would have fun w…
/r/MensRights24/12/21 06:35 PM
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I am a fan of equal opportunity eye candy. So keep the chain bikinis but give me a chain bikini the guys can wear also, in addition to us both having realistic armor as options. I haven't really seen that trend in movies though the Buffoon man in commercials is a pretty common trope that has been popular for a bit. I'm a sucker for marvel but they have some problems. I don't want female I just want good stories with my faves. Some of who are female. Some characters should be sexualized and other…
/r/MensRights24/12/21 06:24 AM
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Also machine guns would probably improve both of those movies.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 06:01 AM
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Yeah I don't give a shit about twilight or 50 shades and you show your sexism for just assuming that female equals liking twilight. I guarantee a female trained in martial arts could at least kick your ass. I don't care what we are built for. We might be animals but we aren't caged by natural instincts. Humans in general are built to have kids but that doesn't mean everyone should have kids or that every one can even have kids. You are the very type of person that gives this sub a bad name and m…
/r/MensRights24/12/21 06:01 AM
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Nope. Women have been enjoying that stuff since forever. My granny spent a lot of money on arcades when she was younger and later spent a lot of money on consoles. She is the one who introduced me into video games and scifi and computers. My papa doesn't even know how to turn on a computer. Women or men don't own genres. Nobody owns a genre of anything.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 01:29 AM
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But you will watch scrawny guys pretend to beat up groups of men? It's fantasy not to be taken seriously. And plenty of women devour all those things you listed as being male franchises. You don't own them.
/r/MensRights23/12/21 06:10 PM
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I feel like the new new ghost busters avoided this. It was so good, respectful of the source material, characters were nuanced and fleshed out. So good. Sounds like this reboot of the Matrix made a lot of the same mistakes that ghost busters the reboot made. Disrespecting of the source material being the main one.
/r/MensRights23/12/21 06:01 PM
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Don't know why you got downvoted for being right.
/r/MensRights09/12/21 08:20 PM
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Gender is social. We as a society decide what and how many genders there are. It is literally just social norms that we tied to sexes because we could. It's not even true that there are only two sexes because intersex people exist. And cultures have had more then one gender before so it's not like that is new.
/r/MensRights09/12/21 08:19 PM
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Do you even know what gender is?
/r/MensRights09/12/21 08:15 PM
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If you are going to do something like that you should be up front about it before the date. And why the fuck would you expect the dude to still pay if it's not a date? It was a date and she didn't like you and came up with that to try not to hurt your feelings? She is fishing. She is ready to date but is wanting to be friends with them first and wants a wide pool before she selects. It's true and she just expects all her friends to buy her food? I can not wrap my mind over wanting to make a good…
/r/MensRights22/11/21 07:31 AM
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That is a great way to do it. Sets expectations so nobody is expecting anything different so they can't get their feelings hurt. I always had the money to pay but the area (and era lol as I've been out of the dating pool for while lol) is really traditional. So I always hated the guessing game of is it dutch? Should I offer to pay for my half or is that going to be seen as rude? This is probably partially caused by anxiety which loves to over think stupid things but would also be avoided complet…
/r/MensRights22/11/21 06:59 AM
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It really is the best way. No pressure on the girl to put out "because I paid your dinner" and no pressure on the guy on if the girl is just wanting free food. Both people investing time and a bit of money for their own enjoyment and maybe build something more with each other.
/r/MensRights22/11/21 02:45 AM
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They sound awful. IDK what I'd do if someone was intentional mean to my pets. I had awesome female roommates in college. They were great and I do wish them them the best even though we aren't in the same friend group. Bad roommates exist of both genders and it's totally possible for females to live together and enjoy each other's company. Heck my male friend has had a doozy of a time getting competent roommates and they were all dudes so it isn't just dependent to females. I am still tramuatized…
/r/MensRights22/11/21 01:29 AM
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Finally a comment I can get behind. Stop all this "women are shit" and "men are shit". People in general are shit. There is a whole lot of bad and some good and most people are mixed bags of nuts of both.
/r/MensRights22/11/21 01:13 AM
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This! Keep finances separate. It makes sure no one can be an idiot and accidentally spend all the money and it keeps financial abuse from happening a lot.
/r/MensRights22/11/21 12:05 AM
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Growing up in the deep South us I didn't see guys touch with out saying "no homo" and being really awkward about a half hug until I got to college.
/r/MensRights21/11/21 05:32 AM
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Good bot. I learned something new.
/r/MensRights21/11/21 03:46 AM
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That is why I am a big believer of platonic touching. Friends should be able to hug, and cuddle, and ect without it being sexual regardless if coed or not. Touch is not just sexual and I think that is something that our culture has lost.
/r/MensRights21/11/21 03:43 AM
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Idk why you got downvoted. Having troubles shouldn't be a competition for us to make changes to improve people's lives.
/r/MensRights21/11/21 02:01 AM
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Egalitarian maybe that would be a better word for "feminist" that are fighting to bring both sexes forward on equal ground.
/r/MensRights21/11/21 01:54 AM
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Yeah. I have always considered myself a feminist and have always been against circumcisions, and for men's rights for parental rights, and access to protection from domestic abuse. People are people and they should be treated equally and with the same respect. Regardless of their dangling bits. I know broad speech is a problem in both camps of thinking. However it doesn't do us any good in making movements forward. There has to be a way to merge the moderates from both groups to help bring these…
/r/MensRights21/11/21 01:49 AM
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Stupid nanny state forbidding dragons.
/r/MensRights20/11/21 11:43 PM
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Do it! Cats are great. They will make you laugh daily. They do care. They just show love in a different manner then dogs.
/r/MensRights20/11/21 10:01 PM
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This so much. There is no reason for it. Especially in the us where it's not even required by the majority religion but by purity culture. The thought was it would led to less masturbating. Not only did that fail. It was a stupid excuse to begin with because masturbating is natural and normal.
/r/MensRights20/11/21 08:10 PM
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Yeah anger can be scary for a lot of people since they might have bad experiences with people who process it in a destructive way. Angry parents make angry kids.
/r/MensRights20/11/21 07:45 PM
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I always thought that anger was one of the few emotions men were allowed without being shamed for it. Grief reactions such as crying is shamed as being girly or whimpy. "Man up" being a common reaction to them so everything get channeled unhealthily to other extreme emotions. Add to it men are generally touch starved as the only affection from anyone allowed that isn't "gay" is female and usually sexual in nature. Breakups are hard because they lose that outlet for touch since we are social crea…
/r/MensRights20/11/21 07:15 PM
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Lol antidepressants useage couldn't because we have had great strides in mental health research and lost a lot of stigma to their useage. Nah it must be feminism's fault. How do you know how happy their grandmother's were? Not everyone wants kids and you can still have a happy marriage without them.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 01:53 AM
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Lol I shouldn't have assumed you had friends, sorry.
/r/MensRights08/11/21 06:57 PM
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They arent becoming monsters because they had a surgery or because they take hormones. They are not monsters at all though I am sure having such a kind supportive friend like you totally helps them not feel like a monster because they are different. /s Like Fuck I feel bad for your friends that transitioned because if you talked to them in the same way its no wonder that they felt like shit. You obviously don't respect them. Intersex people are not disabled they are not misformed. They just don'…
/r/MensRights08/11/21 05:17 PM
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How is it criminal? What harm is being done to society by a person feeling more comfortable in their own skin by changing parts of themselves that they don't like? There are multiple studies that show that sex is more complicated then just men and female. Intersex people exist and its not that much of a stretch to realize that we might not understand all the reasons why someone might be intersex or not agree with their dangly bits and be transgender or not feel like either.
/r/MensRights08/11/21 04:29 PM
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Its okay. Just admit you are to stupid to understand the difference and move on.
/r/MensRights08/11/21 03:59 PM
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It doesnt mean that there is a right way to be a women or a man, just that the person saying that believes so. Often because they have been treated the same until they conformed.
/r/MensRights24/10/21 06:14 PM
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Yeah. That certainly happens. Just like dads will tell their sons to "act like a Man!"
/r/MensRights24/10/21 06:12 PM
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Yeah transphobes are gross. And No but that situation is awful. Different cultures have different expectations for each gender which is what I was referring to.
/r/MensRights24/10/21 06:05 PM
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Lol no the government is usually on the wrong side of protests and its only until there is wide support usually years later do we see the government making changes. The us government was very much against Martin Luther king jr. But I think most people would say he was fairly successful.
/r/MensRights22/10/21 01:30 AM
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No. I want equality. I want babies to stop having parts cut off for no reason other then Kellogg and his purity culture. I want people to be judged by personality and their actions instead of what they look like. I want courts to be fair and the best parent for the child's welfare to get the child. Ive met shit men and shit females and shit people in between. Ive also met amazing people in each groups. People in general can be both and there arent more assholes in one group then the other. FYI m…
/r/MensRights21/10/21 07:10 PM
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Yeah they have you take the test, not tell you what your personality is based on if you are male or female. You are also ignoring the role that cultural plays on gender expectations and behavior.
/r/MensRights20/10/21 07:04 PM
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Lol but they don't want someone that isnt a model.
/r/MensRights20/10/21 06:10 PM
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Male or female no one owes you sex or intimacy.
/r/MensRights20/10/21 06:09 PM
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Your observation is an opinion based on anecdotal experience. It does not make it true. Majority of women including myself that I know are not that way. I find it concerning you consider other women as the competition. Women like men are not unified by certain characteristics. Maybe you are surrounded by women like you?
/r/MensRights20/10/21 05:59 PM
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Get rid of the draft. A country shouldn't have to force its citizens to protect its and their interests.
/r/MensRights05/10/21 05:11 PM
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