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Red Pill ExampleRawgerOThornhill/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 01:04 PM
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RawgerOThornhill/r/askMRP06/11/17 01:31 PM
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The beatings will continue until your MRP post quality improves.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/18 03:06 PM
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I agree, women add tremendous value to my life. I love my daughter and current LTR. Nonetheless, without the Red Pill perspective and default assumption that a women is the oldest teenager in the room who craves alpha male leadership, I would still be letting them fuck up my life instead of adding value to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/17 11:19 AM
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"women are human beings with great wisdom and true empathy and make the world a more, sometimes outright frightingly beautiful place. i love women, women are awesome, women are inheritely honest, you just gotta learn to speak their language a bit." Inherently honest LOL? Most woman (and lots of men) are incredibly cunning and exceptionally good liars when it comes to leveraging men for resource provisioning, sex, feelz or whatever else they need at the moment. Women's "awesomeness" is BP pedesta…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/17 11:02 AM
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Say it brother. Rousseau said that a women who naturally desires her man will exhaust him with her sexual demands. After absorbing only a tiny bit of the Red Pill, that is my "problem" today, and I thank God for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/17 10:47 PM
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Dude, you are as delusional as it gets. I'm a Christian too. I did the exact beta commitment thing you claim women want twice with two cluster B personality disordered "Christian" women who swore before God and their families all the vows that Blue Pill feminized bullshit Churchianity never holds them to. I got royally fucked. My kids in the first marriage got royally fucked and suffered terribly, as did my stepkids in my second marriage. After finally absorbing a little bit of the Red Pill, let…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/17 10:43 PM
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Exactly. I learn from them both. And u/GayLubeOil is hands down the funniest Red Pill writer out there.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/17 04:29 PM
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That's the right question. Answer: apparently me.
/r/askMRP07/11/17 02:01 PM
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I never said she complained about it. I asked her. As I suspected, the woman in her circle strongly pushed back against what I was proposing, as one would expect. Red Pill theory is that women don't have a true frame in the same sense as men, and almost never stand up against the crowd as you describe. That is a feminist fantasy. That's why women generally need and crave male leadership. Men like us, that want quality LTR's without legal marriage (which weaponizes the woman's side of the relatio…
/r/askMRP07/11/17 01:13 AM
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"As the man, it's your job to give her an identity. When she lives in your frame, she's adopting your identity." Another awesome quote with great guidance.
/r/askMRP06/11/17 05:19 PM
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then you talk about what she wants, how she feels and help her to have her own mind. You make that bond a sort of "secret" dynamic "...that only you two have and you attempt to lead her to more confidently express her own desires without capitulating to the group dynamic." This is very good. I'll start working this strategy and let you all know how it goes. IMO this is the real reason she is so wrapped up in "legal" marriage. The crab bucket brigade is trying to police its frame: single girlfrie…
/r/askMRP06/11/17 03:55 PM
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Some people never learn :-(
/r/askMRP06/11/17 03:45 PM
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Good points bro. Keep up the awesome posts, I'm still learning.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/17 01:05 PM
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Yes this guy is lost in the blue pill woods and needs to help from an absolute basic level. However, u/Triadis3's splash of cold water in his face is an awesome review of the basics that should be helpful to those who have overdosed on blue pills. If I had read this when I first separated from my wife, it might have forced me to get real about the situation. So I respectfully request you consider leaving the his post up so the comments have context.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/17 12:34 PM
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Ten brutal but correct observations. Had the same silly ideas when I separated from my wife, that somehow she wouldn't fuck other men. Still didn't get it when she didn't want me to come by the house... because her new boyfriend would then find me there. So really serious blue pill issues on my part. Fast forward several years later, after taking the Red Pill, I figured this out. Here's how you will know that you've fixed yourself: you're not your ex-wife's boyfriend, but are instead the guy who…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/17 12:59 PM
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Amazing. I bet Tolstoy just assumed everyone knew that.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/17 02:13 PM
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In the midst of this RP imbroglio between u/GayLubeOil and u/TheFamilyAlpha, let me throw in one data point to shed light on the issues. Quickie FR: after two failed blue pill marriages I found the Red Pill at age 53. Standard journey through the shock and awe of dealing with reality in RP technicolor for the first time, understanding all the darkness, and fighting towards the light. I was at a crossroads: my bitterness and rage at the blue pill lies I was fed by parts of my Church, family, and …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/17 01:43 PM
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So... Winston Churchill, by your standards, is a RP beta because he was fat/bald/short and didn't lift? OK. I guess saving Western Civilization, bravery in battle, and winning the Nobel Prize in Literature doesn't count; but notch count, steroid use, and lots of hair/height do? What happened to defining your own frame and letting others do the same? I value your work GLO but you're off the rails here.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 01:15 PM
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Great piece. Family Alpha, you keep hitting it out of the park brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/17 06:06 PM
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I like that video for several reaons: (1) Lots of good game technique on display; (2) Unintentionally hilarious when listened to with Red Pill ears; (3) Sadly, makes it easier for those who know game to succeed as other men are being misled about the true nature of women (in aggregate, this is bad).
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 01:28 PM
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It's already happening: http://www.familylawweek.co.uk/site.aspx?i=ed146537 "Whereas the vast majority (84 per cent) of middle earning families ('representing the fifth and sixth decile by household income') with young children were still marrying in 1994, only 59 per cent were married in 2012, a drop of 25 per cent over 18 years."
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 01:11 PM
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True. From this article: http://www.breakingthescience.org/SimplifiedDataFromDHHS.php "The DHHS data shows that of children abused by one parent between 2001 and 2006, 70.6% were abused by their mothers, whereas only 29.4% were abused by their fathers. And of children who died at the hands of one parent between 2001 and 2006, 70.8% were killed by their mothers, whereas only 29.2% were killed by their fathers."
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 12:16 PM
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Can confirm, have a Ph.D. in Engineering and taught at university plus started software companies. It's all about feelz and Greene's Laws and No More Mr. Nice Guy, etc., not logic. But once you figure that out, you can apply your brain to this new "logic" and my God it's off to the races with sex, power, etc. Just use your new powers wisely and for the good of mankind :-)
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/17 12:22 AM
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"Do not give what is holy to dogs, or throw your pearls before swine, lest they trample them underfoot, and turn and tear you to pieces."
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/17 12:59 PM
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Very accurate, especially (7). I've been happily single for five years, made the mistake of marrying twice. Never again. Living my own life, for me, to the fullest extent possible: travel, women if/when I want, money to spend on what I am passionate about. My married friends are quite jealous.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/17 09:53 PM
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Easy divorce and abortion were early legal "reforms" of the Bolsheviks in Russia right after their revolution. The goal was to destroy the family as an intermediary between the person and the state. Fast forward to today, we have both easy divorce and abortion, plus income transfers from men to women directly (e.g., alimony and child support, all expressly managed by the state) and indirectly (high taxes on male high-income earners that fund wealth transfers to sluttly single moms and their bast…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 12:52 AM
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I used to watch crime documentaries on cable TV, one covered fugitives, the other one, crimes associated with the wealthy. In EVERY case except one out of 50 or so I watched with a female involved with a male fugitive, the girlfriend or female acquaintance turned in her fugitive/criminal boyfriend. Every case, and usually with no pressure from the cops, they just contacted the police. The one exception: yes you guessed it, the Madam at a Houston whorehouse who refused to give up the rich oil bar…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 09:36 PM
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From Merriam-Webster: [a] cuckold [is] a man whose wife has sex with someone else : a man's whose wife commits adultery. /u/Willow-girl is right: a man who helps raise a boy to be a man is an alpha bad-ass of the first order, no matter who is the child's father. Even better if that man makes sure the boy takes the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 01:21 PM
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Well you weren't the father lol. And biological kids do this to their "real" father all the time too, especially women these days, who have little or no appreciation for their parents. I raised three stepkids, two sons and a daughter. The daughter had BPD so she hates everyone. I am very close to my two stepsons and consider them sons in nearly the same way as my biological son, even though I am divorced from their mother. For her, karma is a bitch. Her sons love me and are close to me (she hate…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 01:02 PM
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/u/vengefully_yours do you mind if I ask the question: is she a plate or an LTR, or something in between given your frame?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 12:51 PM
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Borderline trumps everything else: she could have been childless and I guarantee she would still have made your life unbearable. As you said, it's the children that get hurt in these situations.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 12:40 PM
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"The sand in the depths of hell is magical sand. Touching it will reverse fate and one's own fortune, like both sides of the same coin. " /u/BallisticTherapy : you're a poet. This is spot on. It's how bad-ass alphas are made. Suffering and pushing oneself to the limit, taking chances is key, failing then succeeding. I took the red pill a couple months ago. It awakened an internal dominance that I didn't know I had, that was there because of overcoming obstacles, suffering, and never giving up.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 12:20 PM
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/u/MrSundance57 Literally insane. You couldn't design a better system to destroy families, fathers, and children, could you?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:21 PM
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There are a few good family lawyers out there. Your best option is mediation before you get the lawyers heavily involved. I would consider giving up a little more than you would otherwise during mediation, because the likelihood you'll have to spend a fortune goes up dramatically once you have two lawyers (yours and hers) fighting it out. Also, try to get the mediator to complete a "binding agreement" with the general outline of the final settlement done quickly if you can (without giving up the…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:16 PM
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"A woman's instinct to gatekeep and view herself as the sole legitimate parent of any child she gives birth to is boundless." So incredibly true. Exact behavior of my horrific first wife. I have two friends that recently had children with their girlfriends, and both were thrown out of the house (almost immediately after the birth of the child) and the lives of their children by their bitch girlfriends. One of these women was very clearly a mental case. She wouldn't allow my friend's parents (the…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:09 PM
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"I'm at a loss right now as to what i should do, I dont want to be married. I don't particularly want to raise a kid in a broken house though. And i certainly dont want to give away half my shit that I've busted my ass for." So your plan, brother, is too stay married to a woman who makes you miserable just to hang onto the first 7 years of assets you've acquired, when you probably have another 30+ years to work? And do you really want to raise your child with this woman? And please note the long…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 11:52 AM
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Good move, BPDs are almost literally impossible to be around.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 05:31 PM
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"I was mesmerized by the good sex and facade of happiness, in 20/20 hindsight it was pretty fucking stupid." Don't be too hard on yourself. Took me 7 years to break away, they are that mesmerizing, and without the Red Pill they will own you. Good for you in breaking away. The best resource I found to process it was the following book, you can get it on Amazon: Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder The book describes high-…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 05:29 PM
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Literally insane, isn't it. Fuck that shit is right.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 01:31 AM
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Confidence beats bald appearance issue every time at any age :-) Actually some chicks dig bald guys. Think Yul Brynner or Lex Luthor from Superman ;-)
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 03:42 PM
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Agree, but it's about balancing instant next against overly pursuing in a needy way. OP went too far in the latter direction. The most interesting part of this post was the escalation. Lately, I've hesitated to escalate when the women seems neutral, i.e., I'm touching her but she is not reacting positively or touching back, but also, she is not taken aback or unhappy or pulling back. If she's positive I keep escalating. Any thoughts or advice on this?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 11:56 AM
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I'm bald, but I like being bald and I'm confident about it: if a women doesn't like bald men that's cool and that's her choice, there are many women that do. So confidence overcomes baldness IMO.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 11:34 AM
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I know a few career women who have to pay alimony, but its very few. And to your point it's still wrong. My ex-wife is an example of what you are talking about; she lived off the alimony and settlement, and with other men, and never worked. She has 6 years to go to social security. What a sad way to live your life.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 11:19 AM
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I agree, but sometimes life's complicated.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 11:04 AM
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This post makes a lot of sense to me. I'm 5'10", average looking, bald, fit and trim but not heavily muscled (by choice, I prefer being lean and lighter weight based on my favored activities, including sailing, hiking, etc.). WRT clubs, I can't compete on looks and my approach game is still a work-in-progress. But I am extremely wide-band with people (i.e. can deal with many types of people, from CEOs to pipefitters, young women to grandmas), friendly, and highly skilled socially. If I'm going t…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 08:45 PM
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Agreed. When it's a complex issue or an employee just needs to be heard and understand, then a conversation is warranted.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 04:22 PM
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In my experience, if you hire the right people and tell/sell them the mission/vision, you barely have to talk to them at all. I usually go 4-5 weeks without even talking to my boss. In "Ray Donovan", Ray's associates are very, very good at what they do. WRT blue-pill versus red-pill in drama: IMO caricaturing red-pill helps people understand and internalize the truth, caricaturing blue-pill deceives men and women.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 01:56 PM
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Good points, thanks. To be honest, I had a great time with this Hungarian girl. Maybe it's because I was in a high-end tourist bubble (stayed at the most expensive hotel in town, work for a big global company, etc.) but most Hungarians I met spoke English well. This girl lived in the UK for 2+ years. At my age (54), just being able to game 32-year-olds and see what happens is an adventure. DGAF. This girl was highly intelligent and her figure was amazing. Sure you're probably right about intenti…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 01:34 PM
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Because the sex is incredible.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 02:11 PM
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Agreed. Keep in mind these were long-term marriages, approaching 20 years or more. For short marriages, long-term alimony like this would be extremely unusual. If you are already married, but for less than 5 or 10 years, I cannot emphasize enough that you need to get your wife working. DO NOT tolerate her sitting at home just "taking care of the kids". Give me a break. Given that school-age children are mostly in school, and modern conveniences like washing machines, dishwashers, and vacuum clea…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 12:18 PM
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Think of them as separate pools. The inherited assets should be carved out (again, if they have not been commingled, e.g., the monies should be kept in a separate bank account that only you control, and the wife's name should not be put on the asset) from the shared assets that are split. Actually, the treatment of inherited assets in divorce is one of the relatively consistent legal rules that is usually (to my knowledge) followed in a divorce. In my experience with the divorce industrial compl…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 11:58 AM
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I was married to a borderline and her daughter was diagnosed as borderline. Lived with them both for 7 years. This is a good post, but here is a Cliff notes version you can use to figure out if your girl has BPD: (1) Her perception of you alternates between saint and satan. At any point in time you are either all good or all bad to her, which of course makes for a very unstable relationship. Unless her BPD is treated, there is absolutely no way your relationship will ever be stable. (2) Medical …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 08:35 AM
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Very good points. Inherited assets are not split only if they are not commingled, and income from these assets might have to be offset in a settlement. A good divorce lawyer would definitely leverage this fact to get a bigger settlement for his client.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 06:06 AM
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As in most long-term marriages, we split the assets 50-50 in the marriage, including the stock I received in the acquiring company. After the divorce, my first wife refused to work and lived off the alimony I paid her for 10 years, so she never acquired proper job skills and therefore today, would at best make minimum wage; she has mostly spent the money she got in the divorce settlement, so she is dependent on whatever men she can get her claws into (fewer and fewer at her age). This will sound…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 06:03 AM
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In general, inheritances are not split in a divorce, so this gold digger is likely chasing a shadow. My first wife (from my painfully blue pill marriage) announced she wanted a "separation" the day after we sold my first company, and conveniently had a boyfriend all lined up within the next few days. Hmmm... Fast forward more than a decade later, and after building and selling another company, I am now a successful vice president at a global computer company. My 56-year-old ex-wife (looks 60+) i…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 10:09 PM
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I was married to a BPD, her daughter was also BPD. Lived with them both for nearly 7 years, it was very intense. Key things to look for when determining if your current partner is BPD include: (1) Self-harm. Cutting, suicide attempts, etc. My ex take on this was to dig into her fingers with her fingernails. (2) Splitting: your partner will alternate between idealizing you and denigrating you, as BPD's are all-or-nothing. You (and they) are either all good or all bad, there is no in-between. (3) …
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 09:02 PM
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