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At this point the word has just become a generic meaningless insult to demonise the person and discount their opinion out of hand.
/r/MensRights16/07/26 01:57 AM
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There is a double standard in society. Essentially it boils down to this logic flow: If she 'cheats' --> What did he do to make her cheat? Maybe she didn't really cheat? It was just a 'peck'! If he 'cheats' --> Cheating is always wrong! There's never any excuse to cheat! If she gets angry and yells --> Was she standing up for herself? Was he being aggressive with her? Is she a 'battered wife'? Has he been aggressive with her in the past? If he gets angry and yells --> It's 99% game over. Social …
/r/MensRights06/07/25 12:59 AM
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They'll say: 'It was just a joke, jeez, stop being so overly sensitive. Fragile males can't take a joke' without even the slightest hint of irony. Don't engage. Just walk away. If any brands jump onboard, close your wallet.
/r/MensRights04/05/24 11:31 PM
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Keep the texts that you have. You may need them in your defence. Do not text the person any further. Do not engage with them beyond a simple 'hello' in public (and only if absolutely necessary). Keep it strictly professional in all regards. Don't allow yourself to be alone with the person at any time. If you need to work together, inform HR you would like to be moved onto another assignment "to make sure there can be no misunderstandings". If HR asks you anything, you say "I have not done anythi…
/r/MensRights27/03/24 07:30 AM
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Conscription is by definition not voluntary. If you were conscripted and you refused, you are guilty of Desertion which in times of war can be a Capital Offence.
/r/MensRights26/03/24 12:04 AM
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Whichever way you slice it, it doesn't make sense. If women want to make the first move, there is nothing stopping them doing that on Tinder. They don't need Bumble to force any woman to make the first move. It doesn't stop harassment. If harassment is going to occur it just goes. Hey.. hey.. first and then the harassment. Basically, we just all need to be nicer to each other. Have you met humans? Generally speaking, they're shortsighted, reactive, selfish jerks.
/r/MensRights23/03/24 01:47 AM
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Jana lives nearby to me, I've seen her Bumble profile a few times.. She plays it ditsy.. She's perpetually single and coincidentally has a new boyfriend to blog about each week just in time for print.. Blogging about your dates is very crass.. I've often wondered, does she ask her dates if they consent to being the subject of her blogs?
/r/MensRights21/08/23 12:34 AM
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There are some people in society who are attempting to twist everything into abuse.. For example, one partner quits working, refuses to work, stays at home and bludges doing nothing all day, the other partner works themselves to the bone, comes home incredibly frustrated one day and lashes out.. A claim for 'emotional abuse' and 'financial abuse' is made by the 'bludger' because the working partner is not 'providing them with financial support'.. This is not a joke, there is no joke here..
/r/MensRights09/07/23 01:24 AM
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The reason that people feel that their problems are so much worse than other people's problems is simply because their problems are happening to them.. When they extrapolate that to an entire identity group, that's when you get this but it's so much worse for us nonsense.. It's really just a logical fallacy based around lack of empathy for those others over there.. Essentially, humans suck at seeing the big picture from other people's perspectives.. It doesn't help that society pits us against e…
/r/MensRights24/06/23 10:47 PM
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Even this disadvantage has been solved using technology.. The 'Shewee' was developed to bridge the Gender Urination Gap long ago..
/r/MensRights29/05/23 10:56 PM
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Go and watch 'The Promotion' (2008) with Sean William Scott and John C Reilly.. Funniest movie and also a warning about workplaces at the same time..
/r/MensRights26/04/23 09:22 PM
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Whenever you hear something like 'be a man' or 'man up' or 'a real man would' or any such variation just know that whatever sentence follows will be a manipulation tactic.. You should immediately apply evidence based critical thinking to whatever is being said.. Does the argument being made hold water? Who is being served? Are you being shamed into doing something to serve someone else?
/r/MensRights17/12/22 11:18 PM
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Jamais vu.. And the Duluth Model..
/r/MensRights05/12/22 11:42 AM
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I had an epiphany recently.. The reason a person's problems seem to be so much worse than other people's problems is because it is happening to them.. People experience their problems subjectively not objectively.. As a society we tend to value womens' perspectives as somehow more emotionally valid than mens' perspectives.. Women (apparently) experience a 'richer and more varied set of emotions' than men do (or something like that) is the widely understood 'truth'.. Therefore, womens' experience…
/r/MensRights13/09/22 11:07 AM
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Zooey Deschanel will play the woman in the movie.. Mark my words..
/r/MensRights10/09/22 04:01 AM
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Ken oath
/r/MensRights16/05/22 09:20 PM
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My female friends were all initially supportive, but their patience eventually ran thin and they drifted away or outright cut me off.. They would say 'when are you going to stop talking about this?'.. There was a huge 'toxic positivity' reaction.. My male friends were supportive, but I was still expected to basically get over it by myself.. My male friends weren't as involved with the ensuing 'legal battle' and none of them cut me off completely.. My work friends were just upset that it affected…
/r/MensRights26/04/22 12:22 AM
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Men tend to love far more idealistically than women.. Just remember that your ex wife has now shown her true colours.. You can never go back.. I've been through this and it took 5+ years in Family Court to win custody of my kids and separate her finally.. What you need to do now is go full 'Grey Rock' on her (no contact, bare minimum contact, all business, give her nothing to use against you).. If she ever invites you over 'to talk' or 'help her move' or anything like that, remember it is a trap…
/r/MensRights28/03/22 09:54 PM
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It's just their way of dehumanising you because they can't discredit your actual argument.. Don't stress it usually means you are on the right track..
/r/MensRights25/03/22 11:25 AM
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Just think about how logical it is, the relationship ends: Option A: 'it didn't work out' (she loses face) Option B: 'he abused me' (she is showered with sympathy, society punishes him on her behalf, most probably gets a favourable custody and property settlement) Who wouldn't take that offer? This is why as soon as you tell your wife you want a divorce roughly 25% of the time, she will retaliate with abuse allegations.. I'm 42 years old and I've seen it happen through multiple divorces through …
/r/MensRights24/03/22 12:32 AM
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Okay first thing is to write her an email setting out the current agreed co-parenting agreement. Then in that email you set out the examples where she has started to no longer abide by your agreement. You then invite her to Family Law Mediation. Book an appointment with a Family Law Mediator for yourself and take the co-parenting agreement. Ask for a certificate from the Mediator to say you have attempted mediation with her. Then you file in Court seeking judicial intervention, you set out the c…
/r/MensRights09/03/22 02:39 AM
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I don't know if I'm honest I think this is just an example of two people who got offended at each other over text.. Human beings suck at reading texts.. Bring back the phone call!
/r/MensRights24/02/22 05:09 AM
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No that's not a fair assessment of what the commenter was saying.. The children of these high conflict divorces get very confused and screwed up and act out in all sorts of different ways.. High conflict divorces usually contain a lot of manipulation, undermining, badmouthing.. The children act out, align with the 'weaker' parent, or disown (sometimes both) their parents entirely.. Sitting in a Family Court room, you can feel the misery just seeping out of the mahogany..
/r/MensRights21/02/22 10:58 PM
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As others have said, this requires immediate legal advice.. Don't sign anything and don't apply for a restraining order yet.. Just continue to document.. Talk to your solicitor.. All correspondence with her be in writing, don't speak to her without a neutral witness present.. Make sure all changeovers (when the child is born) occur in public.. If you go for a restraining order, and you want to be in the child's life, I've seen plenty of examples in case law where the Family Court decided that be…
/r/MensRights04/02/22 03:21 AM
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The Elizabeth Holmes saga is fascinating, she has the weird stare, absolutely zero remorse, the deep fake voice and the fact that she conned millions of dollars off the wealthy elite.. It's fascinating because she is a young attractive white functioning psychopath/sociopath.. Only her Professor at Uni immediately saw through the facade..
/r/MensRights06/01/22 12:35 AM
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I've been wondering who the actors are too.. Imagine being cast as 'you are going to be this horrible monster hiding in plain sight.. The narrative is going to constantly be reminding the audience that you are at worst a bad guy and at best a person who is conflicted and takes that conflict out on your family in horrible ways..' Great way for the audience to unwind after work!
/r/MensRights17/11/21 01:37 AM
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Are you having a stroke? Do you smell burnt toast? You are getting downvoted because you sound 13 and like this is a joke account.. Buy a $3000 - $5000 watch? Hang out in lounges? Buy a $1000 suit from suitsupply.com? This is all really trivial, and has nothing to do with men self-actualising.. The fact you have gazumped your own thread with 30+ replies.. Dood, chill out man..
/r/MensRights30/10/21 09:33 PM
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Thanks mate, I'm sure it must have been very stressful! What were the two questions they asked that stand out the most in your mind? Which party requested that the single expert be appointed or was this on the court's own motion? Good luck mate, we are here for you..
/r/MensRights30/10/21 07:44 PM
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Wow what a coincidence! How come as soon as there is some dispute suddenly 'he was violent'.. Standard trump card.. Poland needs to adhere to the Hague Convention as this behaviour by the wife is exactly the kind of behaviour it was designed to stop..
/r/MensRights26/10/21 10:44 PM
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From what I can see there are two main reasons why women initiate divorce more frequently than men.. 1) The main breadwinner is usually the man and the main breadwinner stands to lose assets and time with the kids 2) Men in general are more socialised to work at a failing relationship.. Men are told that if their wife is unhappy he needs to step-up and be a man to fix it.. Women on the other hand are socialised to believe that if a relationship doesn't feel right then there is something wrong an…
/r/MensRights26/10/21 12:14 AM
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When I ended the relationship my ex she retaliated in the same way she accused me of 'psychological abuse, emotional abuse, financial abuse and child abuse'. It took 4.5 years to fight in Family Court but in the end I ended up with sole parental responsibility and primary custody. She was ordered to pay my costs on an indemnity basis. We had a female judge too.. Believe me, the Courts see this stuff all the time.. If she doesn't have evidence this can backfire on her enormously.. Just keep doing…
/r/MensRights23/10/21 04:36 AM
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This is how far we've sunk.. Just listen to her, without the slightest bit of irony, rattling off the entitlement after entitlement after entitlement.. It's all just about her, her and finally, her.. Yuck..
/r/MensRights02/10/21 09:43 AM
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I find the whole saga to be fascinating.. She is a total compulsive liar.. The voice thing, the 'dead eyes' the intent stare.. And in the medical field too, which is so heavily peer reviewed and regulated..
/r/MensRights25/09/21 09:59 PM
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Oh my how suspicious of the world have we become? Your dad grew up before the Internet took away all the innocence in the world and made us all terrified of each other..
/r/MensRights18/09/21 10:34 PM
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All ideas matter.. Ideas are the universe trying to understand itself..
/r/MensRights09/07/21 05:25 AM
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Some say the end is near.. Some say we'll see Armageddon soon.. I certainly hope we will..
/r/MensRights08/06/21 04:35 AM
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My ex tried this too. I received an email the day after a mediation (where of course this wasn't mentioned). She tried to unilaterally keep our two children.. Excuse: Covid-19.. She lost, I now have 10 nights a fortnight with the kids.. The courts are looking very poorly on this behaviour..
/r/MensRights08/06/21 04:29 AM
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This was very well written, you've captured how many people must feel..
/r/MensRights24/04/21 10:20 AM
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Good.. Good luck mate.. I believe you will win it..
/r/MensRights10/02/21 07:51 PM
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Go directly to a lawyer right now.. Or self-represent.. Make an application in Court for an urgent interim custody order while your ex works out her problems.. Assuming you are in good standing yourself (you aren't violent or anything) you would most likely win custody on an interim basis.. The child is nearly always better off in the care of a competent parent, than CPS.. Update: Sorry I read this again.. If there is no Court order I believe you are well within your rights to pick up your daugh…
/r/MensRights09/02/21 11:14 PM
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This sounds like appalling conduct from the Court.. In Australia, firing your attorney on the day of the hearing will not get you an adjournment.. The hearing will proceed.. I feel for you mate.. Where are you? This sounds like an absolute travesty!
/r/MensRights23/01/21 07:01 PM
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If you have a Court order and she isn't following that then you need to go to Court and file a contravention.. You don't need a lawyer you can do this yourself.. Then when you get the hearing you give the Judge the evidence of the contravention.. If the contravention is made out then the Court will enforce the order.. If she continues, she can be fined with Contempt of Court and imprisoned.. (Australia)
/r/MensRights23/01/21 09:52 AM
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Completed.
/r/MensRights24/11/20 07:44 AM
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He deserves massive respect for telling his story.. These laws are insane and a relic of an old era.. They should be struck off the books..
/r/MensRights22/11/20 12:21 AM
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That a man in an emotional state is somehow 'dangerous' and needs to be 'handled'.. That we won't feel the loss of our children 'as much'..
/r/MensRights08/10/20 10:34 AM
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You shouldn't ride rollercoasters, go rockclimbing, play competitive sports or watch horror movies, dramas or rom-coms.. These things all cause your body to release hormones which change the way you think and feel..
/r/MensRights13/09/20 01:03 AM
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After I left my ex I met a lovely woman on Tinder who was going through her own divorce.. She was 41 and they had no kids (she wanted kids).. They had been together for 4 years and only married for about 1.5 years.. She was clearly the 'saver' in the relationship and had paid off a 2br apartment in a building on Sydney Harbour (so very well situated but on the street side and only water glimpses).. Anyway, his lawyers were asking for a split of the marital pool and spousal support.. She was an a…
/r/MensRights11/09/20 11:03 PM
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Don't argue with these people on the internet OP.. The more rational and logical you are the more it fuels their warped view.. They've been given a 'licence' that you are 'wrong'.. Just walk away.. Your energy is better spent on the things that you can do..
/r/MensRights16/08/20 12:38 AM
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In a completely twisted sense this is sort of true.. Essentially what the person is saying is that pregnancy carries risk for the woman (and that is true).. However it is completely disingenuous to say that this is the fault of the male gender.. This is biology which is a law of nature.. The person who wrote this has a deep hatred for their own biology.. I feel very sorry for whoever wrote this..
/r/MensRights10/08/20 12:27 AM
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