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Great analogy. That's exactly how it needs to be seen by young men too.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/23 03:22 AM
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Sentiments are similar to OP's. Awakening sounds about right.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/23 03:19 AM
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First off, I totally understand. That's a part I struggle with, but hoping for signs of regret or even genuine kindness is like hoping a storm that passed by will be kind enough to drift in and rain again. It's not in the storm's nature to look back and regret. It moves forward, unerring. One thing I'm trying to do with the New Year is reevaluate how I perceive things. What and who I let effect me, and to what extent. I've been waking up to the reality I spent a long time chasing an outlandish d…
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/23 04:01 AM
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Oh man, this brought up a memory. A few years ago my father passed away from a sudden heart attack while tending to my mom in the hospital. When my sister and I went back to the room to tell her he passed, her first words were "who's going to take care of me now?" Like damn, can we grieve a second?
/r/MensRights03/06/22 06:54 PM
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That's definitely a tricky subject. I also work from home and I basically just told the two people I talk with regularly that I was going through a divorce. No details, but I wanted them to have some awareness of why I may not seem at 100% for a while. I did get a warning from my female coworker to be careful being too altruistic as it ended up biting her in her own divorce years ago, but that was it. I also ended up telling my boss, just so she was aware I had some personal stuff I was dealing …
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/22 03:36 PM
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I consider myself lucky in that my wife did not morph into a hell beast after requesting divorce. So to your point, I do think there are plenty of women capable of acting like decent human beings in divorce situations. Still a lot of guys here are going through personal nightmares and I try to keep that in mind. With you on the marriage thing. This experience really made me step back and realize what an insane concept it is.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/22 09:10 PM
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No qualms here if you're just here to troll, but given the nature of this sub, there are a lot of wounded men here (myself included). As such, some may be using this as a space where they can have some freedom to vent their frustrations. I would encourage you to keep that in mind when evaluating statements here. That's not to say there aren't valid and legitimate complaints, but context is important.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/22 09:00 PM
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Weird tangeant incoming, but bear with me. A few years ago around Thanksgiving, we were all messing around with one of those camera filters that shows what you would look like as the opposite gender. When mine came up, it was funny because I looked pretty damn hot as a woman and a few people commented on it. Some of the women who are ordinarily pretty attractive, including my STBXW, were fairly humble looking dudes though. The weird side effect is it taught me to visualize what women would look …
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/22 08:48 PM
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He could remodel a bathroom with all the caulk he's packin'.
/r/seduction24/05/22 06:59 PM
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No idea on all the gay stuff, but a model friend of mine long ago was contacted by his people to have a "date" with him. I think ol' Leo likes to lay the groundwork for what he's after up front, which is probably why he didn't get swept up in the Me Too stuff. Hard to claim you didn't know physical relations would be involved when the dude literally has people reaching out to you to fly in and bone.
/r/seduction24/05/22 06:53 PM
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Have to reiterate for anyone reading this that early in the process, how you feel today can change tomorrow. The first couple months post separation I was all about moving forward and improving myself. Then I seemed to hit a "oh fuck everything" stage. So anyone going through the early stages, just be prepared for your mental and emotional states to shift suddenly and try to maintain momentun without beating yourself up if you hit periods of feeling down.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/22 04:11 PM
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Save it for the waifu pillow, bud. I really don't care what incelly shit you need to tell yourself to get by.
/r/seduction03/02/22 10:53 PM
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Amen, sister. You are just a few years younger than me so maybe there are more hangups younger people have, but I can't imagine things are that different when it comes to sexual dynamics between men and women. We're still just fancy animals.
/r/seduction03/02/22 07:58 PM
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Not sure what my deal is, but I've had dates/hooked up with multiple women taller than me off Tinder (I'm 5'10"). I think the height hangup is some weird, artificial shit younger people are into though and it probably doesn't mean much for people in my age bracket. Still, you're already past that potential hurdle which means she doesn't care and neither should you. Let me reiterate, you are already past the point of worrying about that, so cut the shit...like NOW. Be fun, be a good lover, and it…
/r/seduction03/02/22 07:51 PM
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That's definitely it, but it holds about as much water as me whining that my boss doesn't just throw out an "attaboy" and offer me a raise just because I show up to work on time. That's bare minimum shit that anyone can do. Much respect for your positive and determined attitude despite the challenges instead of blaming difficulties on anyone else. Keep it up my man!
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:16 PM
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Sounds like we are similar in some areas. The best way I can put it, is to be interesting while also keeping a firm subtext from the get go that you are talking to them ultimately because you want to ravish the fuck out of them. That is why you are gifting them with your attention and conversational skills. Be flirty, respectful but bold. Compliment something unique about them that they wouldn't expect from a "friend". Look for casual opportunities to inject some sexual tension. If she's feeling…
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:08 PM
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No. You are probably still hanging onto the idea that women are majestic creatures who should be handled with kid gloves. Modern women are strong AF. Most of them who have been on the planet a while have seen and been through some shit. They like sex as much as men. They masturbate to porn that might shock others. They have their own share of shortcomings, just like men. They want a man they find desireable to take them to pound town just as much as you might sexually desire a woman you find att…
/r/seduction03/02/22 05:35 PM
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I have been browsing this sub like a week and have been somewhat shocked by the consistent incel tear energy. For specifics, lots of men who want to blame woman and the world for their difficulties instead of considering their outlook on life is likely repulsive to everyone around them, especially women. Stop playing the fucking victim role and take active control of improving yourself and your situation, people. No one told you life was fair. You make the best of what you've got.
/r/seduction03/02/22 05:13 PM
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I kind of take issue with the idea of "acting" like you have abundance. Why act? The fact is there's more women than men in the world. One passes on you? Cool, there are plenty of others where that came from. Maybe not one text away, but who cares? Add on the idea that women are just an enhancement to your life. You are doing them a favor by gifting them with your time because that's time you could be spending on other things you know interest you. You have an abundance of things to look forward…
/r/seduction31/01/22 08:12 PM
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It's all good man, just trying to help ensure you don't give people the wrong impression as far as what you're into.
/r/seduction31/01/22 08:01 PM
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That element unfortunately seems to creep into any male centric sub I've noticed. It certainly doesn't hurt to call it out when you see it.
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:58 PM
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Fair enough, I just wanted to give some perspective for why the post my have received a lukewarm reaction aside from any potential misogynistic reasons.
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:52 PM
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I got what you were implying, but the person having a train run on them usually means they're taking multiple cocks. Like you and your buddy could have run a train on one of the women. Or you could have had a train run on you by the gay dudes at the club. Honestly assumed it was gonna be the latter from the title. Two girls and one guy would not be a train, well unless one of them was wearing a strapon.
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:49 PM
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I don't know about all the drama stuff, but I think my only concern here is that women (and hell we can throw men in there too), may say they want one thing when it's really something entirely different that gets their engine revving. Yes, not being a slovenly sack of crap is definitely good entry level advice, but I would HOPE most of the men reviewing this sub have already internalized that. So essentially this post reads like if I went to a food sub and advised everyone not too dump too much …
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:32 PM
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Oh honey...
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:25 PM
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This may sound silly: but not with that attitude they aren't. When you EXPECT people to be checking you out because you know you're a high value MFer and accept and fulfill that role, they will. Women notice when a man is emitting an attractive and confident aura and respond accordingly. When you walk into a room, remind yourself you are a walking trophy everyone is going to be a little curious about. Whatever underlying reasons you feel are why women don't check you out, work on it until you st…
/r/seduction31/01/22 03:49 PM
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I honestly didn't until I was reading through that book as well. Probably because those tendencies didn't even emerge until later in life. Really should probably be a book every man should at least check out.
/r/seduction31/01/22 03:43 PM
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I have come to the conclusion marriage is just a terribly archaic concept. Did it make sense when people lived until 30 and lived in isolated little communities working on farms? Maybe, but now when we have access to all of humanity in the palms of our hands, not so much. I will say it at least taught me a lot about myself, but I'd be lying if I didn't look back with a giant WTF looming over the experience.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/22 06:28 PM
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I went with the third option but I could've also gone with keeping it separate. We'll be doing the joint Christmas morning thing with my STBX, but we don't fight/ argue (outside of the marriage ending stuff) and my kids are older. Given the antagonistic relationship with your ex and the fact your son is too young to remember this Christmas someday anyway, it's probably actually best to do it separately.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/21 07:10 PM
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I just finished a book called "Now What?" by Dad Starting Over (DSO). It was actually really good. He goes into where your marital problems probably started, ways you probably screwed up in your selection process, and ways to move forward in better shape than ever. It was a quick read and he references several other great works on the subject. He has a website with a ton of blog entries and such where you can see if it resonates with you and your situation.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/21 02:58 PM
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Good stuff. Not gonna lie, I wish I had a fast forward button through the crap part though.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/21 09:04 PM
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