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Awesome, glad to hear that you've studied Hofstede. I'm curious to know if you picked up on where you fall into the scale when you first learned about it- or if you just assumed you were fully American. Here's where I personally fall on the scale (if there's a good way to do a self-survey, let me know- I'm curious to know where I measurably fall) PDI: I definitely grew up deferring to authority, and this was my default mode. Since then, I've moved much closer to power equality. The biggest battl…
/r/seduction10/11/12 12:07 AM
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You're welcome- I'm glad you're taking this all to heart. Through this I'm actually learning how to put these gut feelings into words, in the hopes that I can communicate them to my fellow AA friends. I've spent the past few months planning a collaborative art piece to represent the Asian-American experience, and these issues have come up repeatedly. I've found that not many AA's have thought about what it all means, and I need a way to effectively describe it. Turns out there's a better way to …
/r/seduction09/11/12 01:50 AM
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Having everything be your fault: Fuzzy things like best intentions don't matter- only objective results. The text your mom sent: That assumption works well if your friend subscribes to the same Asian beliefs- the bit about self-criticism first. Big if, really. Culture gap. Not speaking Chinese / embracing the culture: Don't worry about it. The Asians who insist on speaking Chinese….are the ones who will likely conflict with you the hardest. Quantifying social actions. Yep, stop measuring. It's r…
/r/seduction08/11/12 06:35 PM
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I'm glad to see you were able to write all this- I'm guessing this is all just the tip of the iceberg, and even this tiny bit was painful to get out. So good job, and it definitely sounds like therapy is helping- you're able to describe your history very well, in a way much better than most people can. I'll do my best to respond- a billion things crossed my mind while reading your post, and I'll probably forget to mention a few, so do ask questions/reply to what I'm writing here. I'll start off …
/r/seduction08/11/12 01:17 PM
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This is great...I probably won't be able to reply to this until tomorrow, but I'll fire off one quick question I didn't catch on. Of your various friends / crushes / girlfriends and all, what are they culturally? Are you in an area where Asians are 1%, or where they are 30%+? And for friends, do you have separate friends, or are you more part of a clique?
/r/seduction08/11/12 04:38 AM
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As Mark said, get into therapy first things first. It's by and far the most effective means for approaching this, especially since you've got deeper issues to work on first. Attack the root of your anxiety, not the symptoms. That said, the real reason I'm responding to you is based off this statement you made: "As an Asian-American, I come from a conserved upbringing, and so this plays into it, but at a certain point I can't blame my background anymore and have to man up, facing what I am." Stop…
/r/seduction08/11/12 03:31 AM
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