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| 55 | This is what female-on-male abuse looks like - Mankind initiative | Social Issues | Readshirt | /r/MensRights | 07/03/23 04:34 PM |
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| 12 | Saving Men from Feminism in order to Save Feminism Is a Lousy IdeaIt depends whether you think feminism as a bulk movement was a genuine movement for equality that was then bastardised, or was it always a prejudiced and one sided campaign for unabashed favouring of women above men in as many areas as possible that is only now becoming undeniable because the only ground left to win involves overt and intentional discrimination rather than subtle institutional nudging and bias across so many wide portions of society. Many male specific issues and disadvantages h… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/07/26 01:49 PM |
| 26 | Some Feminist honestly believe misandry doesn’t existYes. I think for many individual feminists the specific reasons why are simpler than that too. They literally do not think in terms of logic and fairness. Their thinking is guided by their emotion. They feel unfairness, unsafety, unprivilege, etc. Then, regardless of whether that is factually true or entirely untrue, whether it is the whole picture or not etc, they use their feeling to guide something akin to "logical and reasoning skills" to advocate for their emotions. Everything that at face-… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/07/26 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Saw a comment claiming that rate of domestic violence in lesbian relationships is lower. How true is it?Ok. Either the people who you are repeating have simply misunderstood the data, or they're the ones trying to manipulate it to their own ends. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/26 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Saw a comment claiming that rate of domestic violence in lesbian relationships is lower. How true is it?Contact sexual violence includes things like being groped once. While that's not to be ignored, it's not to be conflated with domestic violence and intimate partner violence either. In those categories, lesbian women in relationships with women experience greater victimisation than straight women in relationships with men. Rape is commonly defined as only or nearly only being able to be perpetrated by men, and in any case the methods by which women commit sexual misconduct against their partners… | /r/MensRights | 17/07/26 12:44 PM |
| 17 | I hate the entire framing of the idea of a "gender war" that gets pushed constantly these daysWomen are actively legally and societally privileged in several areas of modern life, while men are systematically and institutionally disadvantaged, as well as having their rigid gender roles upheld while women have theirs dismantled. All people are asking for is fairness and balance. For equality. Then you call it an attack and a gender war. It's that simple. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/26 08:25 AM |
| 3 | “The woman cannot be named for legal reasons.”Have a look at the hard evidence that was presented. It is really quite obvious that she was lying. To put it another way, there is far more evidence that points to her lying than there was ever evidence that he had assaulted her, and that case was brought to trial. So she should absolutely be brought to trial and it then determined whether or not she is guilty. In the UK, they don't do this because it is deemed "not in the public interest" to bring trials for women who do this even where the ev… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/26 01:03 PM |
| 14 | The weather is sexist. BBC argues heatwaves hit women harder.Statistics in this area are frequently disingenuously used to move finite resources away from equal distributions towards women. The statistic "women spend a greater portion of their lives in ill health than men" is used to argue for greater resource allocation towards women of all ages, but this statistic only becomes "true" because men die 5 years earlier than women, and old people have ill health. If you discount the extra five years, men spend more of their lives -- the first 60-65 years of … | /r/MensRights | 10/07/26 01:54 AM |
| 23 | Do we live in a actual patriarchy?If it happens not only as a result of widespread personal bias but as a result of the system treating people differently on the basis of their gender -- which it does -- then yes, absolutely. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/26 02:08 AM |
| 12 | I really hate how the term ‘incel’ has been hijacked by feminists and extremistsThis is a motte and bailey tactic used all the time - lots of genuine injustice and bigotry propagated by self-identified feminists is dismissed because that's not what "real feminist scholars" say. Firstly, let's see those real feminist scholars go at the bigotry and misandry that is currently rampant - the hatred of all men, the undeniable inequality before the law and more. Until we see that we should assume they are not any different in terms of playing what they see as a zero-sum game. Inti… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/26 09:23 AM |
| 58 | I really hate how the term ‘incel’ has been hijacked by feminists and extremistsFeminism in it's current form has never been about making things fair, just, equal or uplifting the downtrodden and unfortunate. It has only ever been about power for those who espouse it. That's why they go straight to eugenics and biological essentialism with respect to incels while completely rejecting the same hypotheses elsewhere. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/26 05:44 PM |
| 3 | This cause is doomedThe blatant, open misandry only really kicked off full steam around 2014-15 or so. It's not unreasonable to think that in another 10-15 years the landscape will be very different. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/26 12:44 PM |
| 22 | UK: Farmer, 20, spent THREE years on bail falsely accused of rape over drunk sex video - before case was dropped when judge saw clip and said woman 'clearly consented'He was convicted for that and yes, rightly. I meant that in the court proceedings he, or his lawyer on his behalf, had to read out a statement saying how regretful he was and how sorry he was for making the recording. Not just distributing it. That recording virtually saved his life. And had he not made it there's every chance that very same judge in that same statement would be lambasting him about what a sick, twisted excuse for a pathetic man he is for raping a woman when he didn't do it. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/26 02:50 PM |
| 219 | UK: Farmer, 20, spent THREE years on bail falsely accused of rape over drunk sex video - before case was dropped when judge saw clip and said woman 'clearly consented'Perverse in a sense that he had to apologise for recording the sex. Sending it to others without consent he should apologise for. But as the judge vaguely acknowledged, had he not recorded it he would have been in a far, far worse situation. It is so wrong that (false) sexual assault prosecutions in the UK are often more likely to succeed the less evidence there is. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/26 01:15 PM |
| 4 | This is just downright evil and dementedIf she actually knew what it was like to be raped, she'd know that (a) if the topic comes up it would be impossible not to think about your own experience, making sharing the fact it happened in the right conversation pretty likely, but also (b) you learn pretty quickly to just deescalate and avoid when someone starts asking questions you have no interest in answering. Who the fuck enjoys being cross examined on the details of their own sexual assault? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 05/06/26 05:44 AM |
| 2 | The effects of false allegations; The behavior towards the acquitted in the 2018 Hockey Canada scandal.Absolutely horrifying. Thanks for the write up. There is this overarching pattern where when men genuinely lie, it becomes established that they lied and unless they are very powerful, consequences ensue. When it is established that women have genuinely lied, what occurs instead is a broad discussion about society, the legal system, complexities surrounding the case, timescales and disparate factors and a lot of "no one comes out of this looking particularly good, do they?". The proximate cause … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/06/26 06:53 PM |
| 43 | "One in five husbands leave their wives when they're diagnosed with a severe illness" - the redacted study and an odd case of denialismWhich comes from the 2009 study mentioned in the OP and is in disagreement with the larger, more modern 2015 study (which, after retraction, found no significant difference in divorce rate after illness) | /r/MensRights | 03/06/26 10:38 PM |
| 19 | Ever noticed how the patriarchy is the only system of oppression to backfire on the "oppressor"?Do you remember the "god of the gaps" from back in the day? Whenever you can't explain something, interpret it as evidence for god. "We don't know how lightning works, it's scientifically impossible" "That's because God did it." "Okay, we've actually figured out lightning, but the human eye seems miraculously well designed." "That's God buddy" "Ok this evolution thing and lots of creatures ancestral to us demonstrate the natural development of the eye pretty well now. How the brain works on the … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/26 01:16 PM |
| 18 | My boss [27F] is ruining everything for me.Leave or you will be falsely accused. They'll try misinterpreting innocuous things first, and if that doesn't work they'll eventually force a situation or make something up. Men have to keep themselves safe. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/26 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Sydney Sweeney fought for men in this episode of EuphoriaI think enough people see through that and are further awakened to the genuine injustice. People don't like being patronised, mocked, talked down to. Perhaps controversially, especially men. And a bit more solidarity from men on these issues (as is already happening in younger generations) is a good thing. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/26 10:17 AM |
| 9 | Sydney Sweeney fought for men in this episode of EuphoriaAgreed, but to be fair normalising this stuff on a big show even via "satire" and poorly made points is kinda useful. Shows it's relevant and that they are worried about it, trying to mock it. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/26 12:40 PM |
| 42 | Are women not worried about men giving up on them?Men contribute significantly more tax income across their lifetimes. If it were the opposite, feminists would define a "tax gap" and force men to pay more tax than them | /r/MensRights | 23/04/26 11:58 AM |
| 20 | UK: IT consultant husband accused of driving his wife to suicide through 'tsunami of abuse' is cleared. OP: It was a sham trial from the start.Thank god. I wish a peaceful onward life to Chris Trybus. When I first read about this case, I was really worried - exactly the sort of thing you can imagine going the other way based on emotion and ideology, especially given the jury was 7 women and 5 men. Grateful the jury made the right decision, whatever their reasoning. Horrified the CPS would bring the case and assign their top prosecutors. They will no doubt try again with another unsuspecting victim. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/26 03:26 PM |
| 24 | Malkinson's Wrongful Conviction - Rape Victim's Statement in fullI am very glad Andy Malkinson has his freedom and wish him many peaceful years. The lack of apology or recognition from anyone at all that lies were clearly told at the previous trial is morally outrageous, but sadly not shocking. I think the argument to be made, the message to spread and force into the public conversation around issues like this without fear or understatement, is that serious, sustained false accusations, or wrongful accusations (ie, not involving active lies but mistakes -- An… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/04/26 01:43 PM |
| 5 | Universal mandatory paternity testsUnfortunately this would result in the government having a database of everyone or at least all male DNA, which is disturbing for myriad reasons. There's no good reason for private, one-party DNA tests not to be legal though, and they should be everywhere. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/26 11:04 AM |
| 15 | How misoginy is measured in academic research: “Study on the relationship between male online groups and attitudes toward violence against women”I mean, it's undeniably your last point sadly. What kind of objective well meaning scientist who just wants an accurate a picture as possible poses the kind of questions in the OP, which are guaranteed to produce a range of answers depending on how respondents interpret the question and with no follow up questions or a free response box to understand the reasons why certain answers were given. They've been doing this kind of thing for at least two full decades at this point. We're far past the p… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/04/26 08:44 PM |
| 16 | Wondering if the Patriarchy was made for good reasons and adopted consensuallyActual men's rights includes male bodily autonomy (conscription, infant genital mutilation). They include recognising that the erroneously named "pay gap" is entirely explained by pregnancy and career choice, which are personal choices that women have autonomy over, and using that as an excuse to discriminate against and disadvantage men making different choices is a gendered choice that has nothing to do with equality. They include recognising that men make up nearly half of domestic violence v… | /r/MensRights | 13/04/26 02:33 PM |
| 9 | Discrimination “report card” gives higher scores to companies that discriminate against menLol. Table 1 of their own working paper shows that black women were contacted less than black men, but white women were contacted more than white men and the most overall. The gap in contact rate between black men and white men is nearly the size of the gap again to the contact rate for white women, which was the highest. And that's with their own data, whose collection I'd be fairly skeptical about given how they've chosen to report it. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/26 10:25 AM |
| 1 | I feel like an important thing is missed when we discuss sexual assault done on men.Yes I agree the psychological impact and fallout of false accusations can be as bad or worse than a lot of sexual assault and rape | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/26 06:08 PM |
| 4 | He Dodged a BulletGillette lost nearly half a billion dollars because of that ad. I think our man can hold his head high. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 31/03/26 01:33 AM |
| 9 | I feel like an important thing is missed when we discuss sexual assault done on men.It's more that there's rape and then there's rape, and there's trauma and then there's trauma. The truly visceral and life destroying ones are relatively rare, but they do happen to people. Supply doesn't meet demand, so we expanded the definitions to include things that, whatever they are, aren't those life-destroying all encompassing violations that occur more rarely. If we were being precise, we'd use different terminologies, but that doesn't suit the needs of the people who seek to weaponise… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/03/26 01:15 AM |
| 6 | How come whenever men mention being s*xually assaulted, people always have to bring up that women are "assaulted more often" and try to downplay mens assaults instead of just being supportive?If we accepted that it is not men or women but individual human beings that are both responsible for the evils of the world, and capable of being victim to that evil, then the entire feminist worldview collapses instantaneously. And with it, all that sweet sweet taxpayer funding for a myriad 'causes'. They need the oppressor-oppressed narrative because they rely on it to argue for virtually everything they do, so if demand significantly outstrips supply then the solution has been deemed not to l… | /r/MensRights | 27/03/26 05:00 AM |
| 20 | Just got warned for "hate" because I stated a simple factGood man . I think they're banning moderators from doing this now (via automatic methods anyway), so it should become significantly less prevalent. Well done for holding the line. I got banned from r/soccer for noting without opinion the published fact that Benjamin Mendy was acquitted of his charges in court. Sharing a published fact is hate speech to these people apparently - seems fairly illustrative of the general problem to me! | /r/MensRights | 19/03/26 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Why must men fight wars, but women aren’t forced to bear children?It's not irrelevant, given that the symmetry ends at whether that evil is recognised or not | /r/MensRights | 19/03/26 01:39 AM |
| 30 | Misandry is systemicYes. He doesn't say feminism isn't malicious though, just that it isn't required to be for misandry to be real, widespread, impactful and systemic. I absolutely agree that when one realises the scale of conscious erasure of statistics and realities, downplaying or dismissal, and arguments built to further a narrative whatever the cost rather than to improve society whatever the truth, it is absolutely terrifying. But it is powerful to recognise that you don't even have to accept or understand an… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/03/26 01:00 AM |
| 7 | Feminists claim that women's sport participation rates are lower when compared to men's, due to alleged "Sexism" and fears of personal safety.Importantly, law. Sex-biased law is destroying Western society from the inside out | /r/MensRights | 11/03/26 01:02 AM |
| 6 | Is higher suicide rate a sign of male privilege?You only need to come to men to understand about "personal experiences" that were not recognised as such by the systems meant to do so. If you are a woman, there are infinite resources available to you for support regarding these issues. I can direct you to some if you like. If you are a man, there are vastly, vastly fewer, but I can still let you know where to look. Just let me know. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/26 11:40 AM |
| 13 | Is higher suicide rate a sign of male privilege?For a genuine answer - it's the exact opposite. That's why no one wants to talk about it. Men are far, far more likely to be pushed by the unshielded realities of life, the lack of fairness, support, and care, into ending their own lives prematurely. There's no one to turn to, and if there was, turning to them frequently results in further ostracisation and loss of respect, not tangible and pragmatic help. It is perhaps the starkest result evidencing the reality we actually live in - the vast ma… | /r/MensRights | 26/02/26 10:25 AM |
| 18 | If "all men" deserve collective blame, then shouldn't "all men" deserve collective credit?The answer to the title is yes. The result from society is no. I'm coming around more and more to the "men need a voting bloc" way of seeing things | /r/MensRights | 17/02/26 11:43 PM |
| 1 | YouTuber Mrs. Sunshine: "I can't believe I have to explain this!"Agreed. The commenter I just replied to is the one who spoke about male Vs female teachers. That said, given that it isn't a gendered thing, it's a bit strange of her to gender it. Unless across the years she has been teaching she has absorbed nothing of the experience of her male colleagues at all. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/26 01:59 AM |
| 9 | Do men actually vote as a gender bloc? If not, is the men’s rights movement strategically doomed?Most MRAs are really egalitarians. We carry this label because no one else wants to talk about it (society is gynocentric and very few are true egalitarians), and because a few select issues eg mens reproductive and fatherhood rights, suicide, etc do deserve special focus. Keep just telling the truth and arguing for what's right. The other side can't really fight reality forever. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/26 04:04 PM |
| 7 | YouTuber Mrs. Sunshine: "I can't believe I have to explain this!"This absolutely happens to male teachers. It happened to me when I was teaching. "I'm sure the girls get distracted, do they talk to you like that". "You must get crushes, how do you deal with that". I don't think I'm even particularly attractive, it's enough to be a young male in view of adolescents. This isn't a gendered thing and as I say frequently a result of just what people say rather than something creepy or regarding any independent sexual interest in the member of staff. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/26 01:26 PM |
| 26 | YouTuber Mrs. Sunshine: "I can't believe I have to explain this!"She's not standing up for her boys, she's just calling fathers who compliment her without intent of anything sexual or romantic happening creepy for no reason. It wasn't about the boys at all, it was about her. Women always infer that male compliments mean interest. But many of us have just been taught and socialised that it is polite to say these things to young-ish women, regardless of sincerity really. Women do it too, and that's fine, but men are villainised without cause. If you want to cha… | /r/MensRights | 09/02/26 07:39 AM |
| 21 | Do men actually vote as a gender bloc? If not, is the men’s rights movement strategically doomed?Men don't want or need a gender voting bloc. Don't want because men only care about a society that is fair and incentivises contribution and improvement Don't need because men are already being polarised by virtue of this want to vote for certain issues. Remember Kamala was caught saying "we need to make ground with young men" and so she had a beer... Until they actually listen to men and thereby advocate for equality and fairness, theyre going to continue to be "in need of making ground with yo… | /r/MensRights | 09/02/26 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Why do women constantly speak negatively about men, treating them as if they were inferior beings to animals?I didn't say they don't have a choice of that they are genuinely unable to "help" it. They're still socialised as if that's the case though. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/26 07:35 PM |
| 12 | Why do women constantly speak negatively about men, treating them as if they were inferior beings to animals?For a real answer, I don't think many women are socialised as though they're agents of their own lives at all. It literally might not cross some women's minds that "they" as individuals are treating men poorly and that this constitutes their own internal view and reflects on them for other people. They do it because it is what's done, and they've learned to be "nice" which means not actually being nice but going with the crowd. Additionally, a lot of women (even the hyper-individualist, hyper-co… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/26 12:22 AM |
| 4 | Young women experimenting with power in their sexuality and the MRAI think most women are very well aware of the socially and institutionally backed power they have and will deploy it whenever suits without a second thought. In break ups, there are always half truths and disingenuous stories and "I didn't think anything of it then but did I really consent" or "he really was just a bit of a creep". And no one is allowed to challenge this or they too will be ostracized. When caught during a transgression such as cheating, no she was t"aken advantage of", but oh n… | /r/MensRights | 07/02/26 11:06 AM |
| 21 | Young women experimenting with power in their sexuality and the MRAWhat is undeniable is that female sexual predators (which includes false accusers) have (a) always existed in numbers that matter and (b) are currently massively empowered to the point of near omnipotence. Men really need to stay safe. Record everything, don't be alone, especially at night. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/26 10:46 AM |
| 14 | The 2023/2024 NISVS is out... And it still doesn't count male victims of rape by women as victims.There's a lot of scrambling to redo definitions and include new types of "violence" which they (a) believe women are outset for more often or (b) believe their survey methods will show women are outset for more often. For instance focusing on making receiving a dick pic a crime while men won't report unsolicited nudes despite the assault being the same, while ignoring/downplaying the prevalence of sextortion which overwhelmingly affects boys and young men and is a lot worse than receiving a dick… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/02/26 09:35 PM |
| 16 | Valerie Solanas' SCUM manifesto is crucial to understanding misandryI am always amused by people who take her writing seriously. She was literally a paranoid schizophrenic and attempted multiple murder. It's like taking value in the what the madman is scrawling on the wall in his own shit In her later life, she stalked and threatened to kill several others and developed a paranoia about "the Mob". She spent years doing nothing but literally howling like a chicken and scraping her own skin off with a fork. It is really quite fitting that so many feminists should … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/02/26 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Is femicide an unfair term?Yes. So let's highlight IPV driven suicides as a frontline issue. It won't happen, because it would highlight this as a male issue and that's not allowed. Many male suicides aren't even correctly linked to IPV at the moment because we don't identify male IPV victims anywhere near as readily. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/02/26 11:15 AM |
| 17 | Double Standards: Women-Are-Wonderful Effect at WorkNo. Participants and participation are different things. Number of participants Vs participation thereof. Incidence Vs intensity of incidence | /r/MensRights | 31/01/26 05:42 AM |
| 39 | Double Standards: Women-Are-Wonderful Effect at WorkIt's actually not accidents / total participants per sex. You need something like accidents / (participants per sex * participation per sex) Males cause more road traffic accidents even accounting for the fact there are more male drivers. However, those drivers also drive a lot more often. Per capita/per driving hour, women cause significantly more road traffic accidents. | /r/MensRights | 31/01/26 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Have newer generations of men, all become soft and victims of everything? Does anyone really support mens' rights any more? Or, is it just sharing posts?Cheers. Yeah, I'm talking about men being divorce raped, falsely accused or just plain sexually assaulted, for instance. Or assaulted in the course of attempting to intervene in an escalating situation, which is very common for men. Those men are victims, and it's not woke to recognise that. Indeed, as much as they might try to deny it, woke people actively downplay and dismiss life-destroying things like that when it comes to men. I agree that we don't want to go the direction of "parity" with … | /r/MensRights | 23/01/26 11:19 PM |
| 7 | Have newer generations of men, all become soft and victims of everything? Does anyone really support mens' rights any more? Or, is it just sharing posts?I don't think men at large ever claim they are victims of everything (or that many men ever claim to be victims of lower-impact things they actually are victims of); the point is they are capable of being victims of some things sometimes. And those victims -- as any true victims -- deserve recognition and support. That's absolutely a point men's rights activists should be making clear. It's also a point any principled or right-thinking individual should be making clear. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/26 01:47 AM |
| 59 | Is Feminists for Men Inc. a good organization?I'd say right now just driving more and more discussion of undeniable male issues is a good thing. Medium term, the attempts to couch systematic issues men face under a system that doesn't care about them at all as a problem of the "patriarchy" will have to be resisted. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/26 08:10 AM |
| 23 | Feminism Blinds Students to the Truth About MenYes, she made the mistake of reading prevailing feminist attitudes and discussion as principle rather than a hymn sheet. They don't care about contradictions in what they say, hippcrisy and not applying eg intersectionality universally because they aren't using them as principles in the first place. They're just a series of words they can say that help them get what they want and not sound entirely self interested and vacuous when they do it. That's not how all feminists are, and they'll retreat… | /r/MensRights | 22/01/26 06:05 AM |
| 13 | "New data finds that 94% of health professionals have no training on male suicide..." It is the biggest risk to life for men under 50 (@TheTinMenBlog Jan 17, 2026)Given the multivariate and unique causes of male suicide, eg many men who kill themselves probably don't have mental health problems so to speak at all, rather they are under immense pressure in their lives to provide or experiencing extremely unfair circumstances in eg family court with no recognition for, support of or recourse for this, specific training is absolutely necessary. Myths like "it's just that men pick more lethal methods, women attempt more often and intend to die as often" need … | /r/MensRights | 19/01/26 12:49 PM |
| 19 | Men are, for practical purposes, their own "out-group".Look, you clearly either aren't scientifically/sociologically literate or you are not engaging in good faith and either way there's no point trying. I'll close by just appealing to you from all of us that we aren't trying to win any gender war. That's you guys (I don't mean women, if you are one, I mean people with arguments like yours and disingenuous use of statistics and an inability to recognise the tiniest possible shift in worldview). We're just asking for parity. Just fairness. Just recog… | /r/MensRights | 15/01/26 06:51 AM |
| 22 | Men are, for practical purposes, their own "out-group".Lol, ok, you can make the unsubstantiated claim those organisations haven't done anything. They still exist, are funded and have stated aims to specifically help women. You can deny so much but you can't deny reality. And those are the specific ones. Go look at how many men work in standard women's rights organisations. I've already done your work for you, let's see if you can manage some yourself. What? Because slightly more men are in positions where they need to be rescued, the fact that 92% … | /r/MensRights | 15/01/26 06:34 AM |
| 23 | Men are, for practical purposes, their own "out-group".Women's campaigns run by men/men at core: White Ribbon, HeForShe, MenEngage alliance, MenCare, Champions of change coalition. Got any where it's women supporting men, who even you couldn't deny have genuine and specific issues? Yes, men perform 92% of bystander rescues (this paper calls them acts of heroism). Of these, women are more likely to rescue someone they know, and men are more likely to rescue complete strangers. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0162309596000593 Th… | /r/MensRights | 15/01/26 06:05 AM |
| 9 | false rape accusations that destroyed lifesYes. What disturbs me is that the only reason the case was as public as it was, and perhaps even the reason she was convicted at all, was because the case had already become public when the police thought she was telling the truth. At that point, they were locked in and couldn't be seen not to do the right thing on the back of overwhelming evidence. Would it have achieved public recognition, and would her victims have been properly exonerated, were this not the case? I genuinely doubt it. Most c… | /r/MensRights | 14/01/26 07:41 PM |
| 22 | A Man’s Right To Have A Say Without Moderation by FeministsDoes forcing a resentful father into destitution and provoking a context of stark relationship breakdown that will last for the next 18 years with the mother serve the needs of the child? It's about saving the state money, with the bonus effect of keeping men on a leash | /r/MensRights | 14/01/26 07:28 PM |
| 32 | false rape accusations that destroyed lifesYou should think of false accusations as just another form of sexual assault. They are about sex. They are about power. They involve lies, denial and avoiding accountability. What do they do to the victim? Frequently, a complete violation of the body and mind. Debilitating PTSD symptoms, panic attacks, insomnia, hypervigilance, nightmares, flashbacks, inability to trust others or authority, depression, inability to go outside. Fear of the opposite sex. A fundamental change in internal identity. … | /r/MensRights | 14/01/26 05:03 PM |
| 2 | It Takes a Village - False Rape AccusationsThe thing is, people -- men and women -- actually inherently know how dangerous these things are. They know how stacked in favour of the woman the game is. That's why so few will support the man. That's why so many will tokenistically support the woman. To do anything else is essentially outsetting yourself for the same treatment. You could be next - you could be branded an abuser, a rapist sympathiser, or an internalised misogynist just for asking questions. Would you stand up for a witch on tr… | /r/MensRights | 14/01/26 03:29 PM |
| 18 | This is wrong on so many levelsCould not be more backwards. Women's belief in the "implication" and that any given man could be a rapist when next to none of us are destroys dudes lives on the reg. False accusations, having to change the way you behave even when you are just being normal so that it is impossible to interpret your actions as creepy even if she decides to be disingenuous. Etc | /r/EverydayMisandry | 11/01/26 11:51 PM |
| 9 | On the Concept of PatriarchyThere's no such thing as a patriarchy -- more at eleven | /r/MensRights | 10/01/26 12:56 AM |
| 15 | How would you describe movements like mgtow, blackpill/redpill (...) and how would you say they fight for men's rights ? How would you say they differ from, for example, the 4b movement in the fight for women's rights ? Is there truly a movement you feel like fights for equality ?Ultimately they aren't hate movements, like 4B. They're about teaching men to protect themselves from the horrors of reality. I'm ok with that. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/26 02:05 PM |
| 130 | Men who had both positive and negative experiences on Marriage, is it worth it in the end?A marriage is essentially a contract between a man and the state wherein a man exposes himself to a great many horrors should that contract ever be broken, and receives essentially no advantage at all in return | /r/MensRights | 08/01/26 08:46 PM |
| 3 | When It Comes to Men, the Left Can't Fucking LearnYes, all good. But the right are winning.. The left must take heed of this and engage with real people. It would be trivially easy for them to build and hold a voting majority if only they stop advocating about certain unpopular things. For example, that all men everywhere are to blame for all bad things ever. I don't even care - lie, get into power and then do all those authoritarian things you want to do anyway. But please do lie and get into power so that you get rid of these people who want … | /r/MensRights | 08/01/26 03:10 AM |
| 22 | I'm curiousRemember, they don't see oppressed men as people. Historically or today. If you look at history as though the vast majority of all men who ever existed didn't exist, that's when their worldview makes sense. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/26 05:13 AM |
| 15 | When It Comes to Men, the Left Can't Fucking LearnWinning the 'losers' but losing the 'winners'? The electoral consequences of the radical right moving to the economic left https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0261379416303390?casa_token=RldqEMbMhmAAAAAA:VfJqJnpIk3tXtZQZA3tlhTVyc09wIIhTjsSvVNUPRoyh2AwL2zsqtZGmjdXljBG-PuQzwhxv0w Cited by 120. 2.More Left or Left No More? An In-depth Analysis of Western European Social Democratic Parties' Emphasis on Traditional Economic Left Goals (1944–2021) https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/po… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/26 06:26 PM |
| 113 | When It Comes to Men, the Left Can't Fucking LearnI actually think many on the left kind of know they need to stop. They just need to find a way to back down that allows them to save face and not admit they were wrong lol. I'm not interested in helping them do that. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/26 01:49 PM |
| 4 | We should learn from feminism and women in generalFeminism also exploits our sort of base biological condition to think women need protecting and men do heavy lifting. This appeals to the overly empathetic left and often to those on the right who believe in traditional gender roles. This is why I think men's rights should generally focus on fundamental fairness, which most humans also stand for, rather than specifically focusing on "lifting men up" (even though it would be correct to do so). It doesn't mean not saying men are disadvantaged spec… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/26 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Why is the man facing 20 years for the same exact crime as the female? Read this article and discuss.I think he probably committed more of the fraud that can be proven in writing. Now that's likely because he was "taking the lead" here. He was the one who was able to fake being an architect. We'll never know in actuality who was in charge. Could have been either of them. They love the phrase "behind every great man is a great woman". Not true of course, but also happily ignoring the fact that this implies "behind every terrible man is a terrible woman". Not a problem for them of course, since w… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/26 02:17 PM |
| 6 | Misogyny, misandry and why one will always worsen the other beyond just retaliation logicYeah well absolutely. But look how much the culture has changed in many ways for the better. Womens liberation and understanding of sexual assault (at least regarding female victims etc). There will essentially always be issues in those areas but we've made great strides. Culture can be changed, it takes people standing up and speaking out. I think it's also the case that a lot of women, certainly not all, respond to group dynamics more than men. If it's no longer the culturally expected or soci… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/01/26 05:46 AM |
| 13 | Invisible Man: My Experience as a Male Trainee Clinical Psychologist in a Female-Dominated System — The Centre for Male PsychologyMhm. But we shouldn't inject our own prejudices and what we experience as "awkward" into a judgment like this. Others had just done what he did and he joined in. I would've found it pretty awkward to hear sexualised comments about male faculty. I wouldn't report it, not because I don't think it is less weird but because I'd be probably correctly worried about ridicule and exclusion if I did. The only winning move for this man was not to play. Yes he should know how the world works and how to def… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/26 04:51 AM |
| 32 | Invisible Man: My Experience as a Male Trainee Clinical Psychologist in a Female-Dominated System — The Centre for Male PsychologyI'd imagine he expected to be treated the same way as everyone else in the discussion. Unfortunately, he was naive to the fact that he was a straight white male and everyone else wasn't. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/26 04:26 AM |
| 37 | Invisible Man: My Experience as a Male Trainee Clinical Psychologist in a Female-Dominated System — The Centre for Male PsychologyNo, he joined in to a discussion of that nature started by people who later reported him and refused to support him. That's entirely different. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/26 04:25 AM |
| 9 | Misogyny, misandry and why one will always worsen the other beyond just retaliation logicAn interesting perspective. Unfortunately (and ironically if you subscribe to "patriarchy" theory), I think getting enough women onside is the only way we're going to get out of where we are. Many women listen a lot more attentively to other women than they do to men. Women are also largely immune to many of the immediate dismissals people will make of men, even the "pick me" stuff doesn't really stick. It's why some of the more vocal women will be angrier at women who tell the truth than they a… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/01/26 03:58 AM |
| 17 | It appears that this subreddit is considered to be centered around misogyny.I'm talking about the readers and leaders among them. They know. They just don't care about the truth, just their team. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/26 03:17 AM |
| 117 | It appears that this subreddit is considered to be centered around misogyny.They know it's not misogynistic. It serves them better to pretend that it is. That's all that's going on. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/26 12:51 AM |
| 9 | “‘Men are trash’ isn’t personal.” Sure, Jan.The "empathetic gender": It's not about how you feel (or what our language logically implies), it's about what we say we mean, and you better accept that | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/01/26 10:30 AM |
| 4 | the amazing incoherence at the heart of feminist ideologyHere's my favourite Margaret Atwood quote: "My fundamental position is that women are human beings, with the full range of saintly and demonic behaviours this entails, including criminal ones." I think that positions like the one in the OP are based on a false and sexist premise. Men can and do feel fear, existential fear, from mockery, laughter, taunting by women. We don't verbalise it because it will make us look weak, but each and every one of us knows that this kind of mockery can destroy ou… | /r/MensRights | 02/01/26 12:02 PM |
| 75 | Family Courts and Child Custody Are Biased Against Women, Not Men - According to an article.This is actually a good example of how feminists use statistics. For example, in the section "Men who seek custody are more likely than not to get it": Fathers who fight for custody typically get it. Ignoring that they had to fight in the first place while women are awarded it by default in many situations and jurisdictions. Even 30 years ago, 94% of fathers who sought custody got sole or joint custody. Translation: A percentage of men got full custody of their children, which is much smaller th… | /r/MensRights | 01/01/26 05:24 PM |
| 24 | Why do feminists try to gaslight male victims of suicideI learned about this through your comment. That is awful, he seemed like a great guy. It is amazing to me that male victims are less likely to be taken seriously even when the perpetrator was a man. Even if the exact same crime happens to a man as happens to a woman we're still less important victims in their eyes. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/25 05:21 PM |
| 20 | Why do feminists try to gaslight male victims of suicideI've always thought this is a take that exemplifies men's Vs women's thinking quite well. The fact that "women attempt more but men use more violent methods" emotionally satisfies them that women are still the main victims so we can stop talking about it. Men are more likely to immediately question the logic behind this phraseology. Their thought process never even gets to "yes but more men are dying, that still requires specific extra intervention". Never mind that many "suicide attempts" were … | /r/MensRights | 31/12/25 05:18 PM |
| 7 | Hold False Accuser(s) Accountable for Their ActionsThe most serious cases of physical sexual assault are more likely to leave physical evidence that can be and is used to prosecute the perpetrators, yes. When there is no such evidence, it is worth questioning whether we should imprison people for say, 4-8 years (UK example), and destroy their entire life after they get out, based on the unsubstantiated or poorly substantiated words of one person. This can and does currently happen. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/25 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Do you think there's increasing awareness and discussion about gender bias against men?Almost everything they say is projection | /r/MensRights | 28/12/25 01:46 PM |
| 30 | Is "Believe Women" Misandrist?This really shouldn't be a gendered thing. It is of course, but the solution is to treat all cases individually and all the accused as genuinely innocent until proven guilty, not believing men. Women make up a sizeable minority of the falsely accused actually, something often forgotten. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/25 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Do you think there's increasing awareness and discussion about gender bias against men?It does, doesn't mean it wouldn't totally fall apart without men. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/25 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you think there's increasing awareness and discussion about gender bias against men?Awareness yes - but for now most of the engagement is adversarial. I think that's a good thing. They aren't arguing from a point of rationality - they don't want to lose the advantages they have. But you can't keep the truth down forever, sooner or later there will need to be some concessions towards fairness, or men will continue to withdraw and not engage with a society that hates them but relies on them completely | /r/MensRights | 27/12/25 09:17 PM |
| 38 | Feminist Artist Lainey Molnar Wants to Have Her Cake and Eat It TooI'm hot by the way and men pay for everything for me without me asking Women are sacred Women can do whatever they want whenever they want and it is always good I love chivalry but only when it's done entirely in service of women only and if I so much as perceive an ulterior motive it's a bad thing Everything bad ever is men's fault I'm a diehard feminist and a liberal and women can all do what they want but "I'm sorry" if they propose to a man they are humiliating themselves Women have to do th… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/12/25 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Zero Self AwarenessThey know what they're doing with that fallacy. Just keep winning. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 26/12/25 03:32 PM |
| 13 | 12 Year Old Boy Falsely Accused of Rape by a 13 Year Old GirlNot only does this still affect the child in question, but what do you think has changed positively in the intervening years that means this couldn't happen again, or would happen differently this time? | /r/MensRights | 20/12/25 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Is it just me, or do the right-wing and conservatives seem to care more about protecting women’s sports and women-only spaces than about all men’s issues combined?Except when it comes to allegations of sexual misconduct. Regardless of what's written, men and women aren't at all treated the same there. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/25 04:34 AM |
| 48 | What is your opinion on Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard and the shift in public opinionThe thing is it could. Once we openly and wholly acknowledge in a public way that women can and do do this sort of thing, with premeditation,malice and intent and with no redeeming factors, it immediately seriously undermines the power of a significant portion of feminist rhetoric. That's why they always try to dilute it somehow. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/12/25 12:08 AM |
| 44 | UK special forces unit had 'deliberate policy' to 'kill fighting-aged males' in Afghanistan, inquiry toldWhile femicide seems to have pretty shaky justifications in most cases, androcide appears to be evidenced in quite some detail. Men are literally killed for no other reason than because they are men. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/25 02:15 PM |
| 75 | Still blaming men 🫠🙄Women: kill all men lmfao, you guys suck Men: I don't think that is entirely fair Women: so yeah this guy was literally a nazi, eugenicist, misogynist ultra-right wing racist ... It's always projection. Who is it here that's discriminating against an entire group of people based on immutable characteristics and regardless of any context? Who is it here that would actually "reverse rights" based on how people are born if they could? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/11/25 09:11 AM |
| 7 | Is femicide an unfair term?https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32839248/#:~:text=Implications%3A%20If%20researchers%20only%20include,suicide%20as%20well%20as%20homicide Implications: If researchers only include intimate partner homicides, they may miss over 60% of IPV-related deaths. Our novel study shows the importance of taking a comprehensive approach to prevent IPV and decrease violent deaths. IPV is a risk factor for suicide as well as homicide. and data therein, to name just one source. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/11/25 05:31 PM |
| 5 | Is femicide an unfair term?It's the classic problem that, looking at the figures objectively, there isn't a problem. So you invent different concepts and categorisations to create a "problem" that you can agitate for taxpayer funding to "fix" | /r/MensRights | 25/11/25 03:47 PM |
| 11 | Is femicide an unfair term?Yes. Also, one of the main reasons that abused women are more commonly killed by an intimate partner is because abused men are driven to just kill themselves instead. This just gets recorded as a suicide. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/11/25 03:42 PM |
| 38 | Goodreads recommends misandryGone girl is about the abject horror and psychopathy inherent to false accusations. Gillian Flynn had to defend her writing by stating that feminism should also allow for the portrayal of complex, "bad" female characters, and not only positive role models. If it's misandrist, it's only in that it focuses a lot more on the woman's actions than the male victims reaction, and in any case offers an unrealistic portrayal of what actually happens to falsely accused men both internally and externally -… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 24/11/25 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Andrew Wilson is probably one of the worst representatives we could possibly have for mens rights...I'm interested to hear the history | /r/MensRights | 23/11/25 06:12 PM |
| 21 | What is the motivation behind all the attempts to erase domestic abuse and sexual victimisation of men?There's no such thing as a patriarchy for ordinary working men. Even if there was, feminists should then care about dismantling those aspects that "hurt men too". It's not an excuse at all when they say patriarchy hurts men too, even on their own terms -- it's a learned response to avoid engagement that has absolutely no meaning. Many modern feminist catchphrases are like this. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/11/25 05:23 PM |
| 21 | Happy International Men’s DayMen are not "understood" or given any leeway for fear of women or distrust of women (and certainly not hatred of women) even if they have had an adverse experience with one. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 20/11/25 09:19 AM |
| 11 | Thoughts?What I mean is misogyny is societally unacceptable. This is why feminists need to invoke a vacuous and intentionally ill defined "patriarchy" as the lense through which to view everything bad that happens in the world - because genuine and real misogyny is already culturally abhorrent and legally punished even beyond reason. Not so with misandry, it's societally and institutionally protected. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/11/25 01:04 PM |
| 11 | Thoughts?It doesn't make sense because misandry is a widespread refusal to recognise a vast swathe of male issues in society, care about them as human beings or give them equal treatment in all sorts of important places. And people can say they hate literally all men with impunity, etc. Misogyny is an incredibly fringe practice perpetrated by a small number of men (and some women) who are seen as pathetic and or total outcasts by other men and the rest of society. One is all but celebrated, and the other… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/11/25 10:04 AM |
| 6 | "Misandry has never killed" Infuriates me the most.The problem is that counting all the deaths ultimately caused by misandry/total lack of base care and support for men versus women, and men being expected to do all the dangerous things, would result in so massive a figure that society couldn't tolerate its recognition. The illusion that things are fair or even tipped in favour of men needs to be maintained so that they can continue to be exploited and put at risk, be that by or for women or other men. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/25 09:18 AM |
| 84 | Shock! Denmark plans to conscript "teenage girls" and they are "scared"! (Fuck teenage boys)When bad things happen to a woman, it's society's fault. When bad things happen to a man, it's his fault. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/25 09:14 AM |
| 3 | What is the issue? Isn’t everyone innocent unless proven guilty?In many cases, including Ellie Wilson's, there are also messages asking for sex etc after the alleged assault. We do need to draw a line somewhere about what communication and behaviour is deemed less likely to be indicative of a situation of a serious and unambiguous sexual assault. As much as you might like to we can't just lock men up at the word of a woman and throw away the key. We might be getting there but we haven't reached that level of female hegemony yet. Even if there weren't message… | /r/MensRights | 13/11/25 08:18 PM |
| 16 | Feminism's True History: A Movement Founded on Supremacy, Violence, and DeceptionThings like the dishonesty about gaining the vote are so telling - someone had to sit down, read that history and see that reality, and actively decide to misrepresent it. Same thing done with many sociological statistics now. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/25 11:26 PM |
| 42 | Apparently, the men who say "lucky boy" when a woman rapes a boy and the men who want men's mental health to be taken seriously are the same.It's a very small percentage of men who actually do and say all the insane shit, let's not trick ourselves into focusing on them or inflating their prevalence. There's enough people who try their best to do that already. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/25 12:11 PM |
| 6 | There's a Revolution Happening You've Never Heard Of. It's Called "The Great FeminizationThis "revolution" isn't saying it's feminine though. It's saying it's being feminized. Different. The lack of pragmatism, degeneration into polarised groups rather than pragmatic people who may disagree but can still work together for the common good, the dissolution of due process and fair treatment for all are doubtless symptoms of this. It doesn't really matter whether it's feminine or not overall, it matters that men alone would not have structured society this way at all. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/25 01:11 AM |
| 22 | Concerns on the subNo, it's the other way around. A lot of people are trying to imply that fervent discussion of men's rights is right-wing by nature. It isn't. As for political, it has always been political and always should be. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/25 09:23 PM |
| 7 | Western feminism in 2025Most "active" feminists at the moment never got on the train with an eye toward overall equality at all. It's a nice fall back position for them to have when challenged on the lack of advocacy for issues affecting men more often, or continuing to advocate for the denial of male victims of domestic abuse and sexual assault // female perpetrators etc, but they got on the train because of misplaced anger that all the world's problems are somehow caused by men in general and the patriarchy we've all… | /r/MensRights | 29/10/25 10:55 AM |
| 10 | We a radical, fundamental makeover of our image and public presencePart of the answer is being amiable and admirable, yes. And not getting irrational or getting away from real data and the genuine verified issues. I think a second part of the answer is bravery. We need to be ardent and uncompromising in telling the evidence-backed truth. Don't make apologies, don't make concessions like "really this is about helping women too so we can all get along". There are clear, defined, serious and undeniable issues facing men at so many levels. We should be angry about … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/10/25 09:52 PM |
| 3 | The level of misandry is insane. Very depressed by reddits attitude towards male victims of abuse/assault.I agree with you, but there's "calm anger" and "shut up shut up shut up" anger. It's about whether there's substance or not, and people talking with substance can be plenty angry but they won't come across as emotionally unhinged, which is what I was talking about in the "get angry [at their opponent personally]" context above. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/25 06:25 AM |
| 22 | The level of misandry is insane. Very depressed by reddits attitude towards male victims of abuse/assault.The vitriol of the attacks is increasing because they know it's all they've got and that they're on borrowed time. People who know they are right calmly explain why they're right, they don't get angry and insult you and call you pathetic etc. The change will come, don't worry. The stats are undeniable now and it's is becoming electorally important to advocate for men. It's always darkest before the dawn :) | /r/MensRights | 27/10/25 05:41 PM |
| 35 | Tried to bring up gender equality in another sub, turned out pretty bad (Also idk if the flair is correct sorry)I was also sexually assaulted by a woman (but I'm a man). My case actually went to court and I got justice. You wouldn't believe the number of women who try to see me as guilty even despite that incredibly high bar. It's not a majority, but it's a sizeable minority. It really exacerbated the trauma I carry for a couple of years, nowadays I'm semi grateful to know a bit more about how the world really works. I'm very sorry for your experience and hope you are getting better. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/25 04:15 PM |
| 13 | Men are expected to be super enthusiastic about women issues, even if they agree that women should have rights.It's because they don't want your help or agreement, that implies you're equals and allows your independence, and implies they might have a responsibility to uphold their side They want your allegiance and your loyalty, not your independence, and they want you to blindly uphold their hegemony for them without question. Not all feminists think like this, but many of the performative ones do. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/10/25 01:50 PM |
| 64 | How do you respond to being called "incel", "misogynist" or any other shaming buzzword to the same tune?Lol I wouldn't worry about it. When they're just using baseless insults like this it's because they know they don't have an actual argument back. Just keep spreading evidence based truth, don't engage or if you do just ask if they'd like to actually refute the point and have a discussion about it or if their only move is to go straight to sexist insults. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/25 01:11 PM |
| 2 | The UK's prison reform is the most openly misandrist rule I can think ofThose stats are for the UK. The sentencing gap is for people who committed the same crime, in the same context, with the same backgrounds, the same criminal history. The only difference is whether they are male or female. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/25 06:29 AM |
| 10 | In the UK immigration debate, all blame leads to men.No. The point that asylum seekers are "disproportionately male" for instance is used as a specific point by these people. Shamima begum and cases like hers literally still has a base of sympathetic support specifically because she is a woman. Nothing like this exists for men in her position or anything like it | /r/MensRights | 07/10/25 06:55 PM |
| 15 | In the UK immigration debate, all blame leads to men.It's the same with transphobia really, at the end of the day it's mostly prejudicial fear about men. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/25 06:15 PM |
| 15 | Woman who lived as a Man for 18 months (2006) - Takes her own lifeNow that is forensic 🤌 Well done and keep up the good work. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/25 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Discrimination Against Men - iPleadersBecause it's 2015 is an excellent blog. I just spent over an hour reading around. Whoever wrote and amalgamated this should write more and I would easily subscribe to a Patreon or similar. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/25 06:37 AM |
| 2 | If I file a Title 9 Claim against an abusive woman, will I be taken seriously?Fair enough, I'm in the UK so perhaps the processes are quite different. Worth asking perhaps anyway. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/25 10:54 PM |
| 1 | If I file a Title 9 Claim against an abusive woman, will I be taken seriously?What many universities will allow you to do is to submit a complaint with evidence but not have it acted upon. OP, see if you can get any advice on this from the sites listed in the comment above/lawyers. This way, there's something on file such that if she did make a complaint about you, you're already in the system as having registered the grievance first, which offers some protection and may make you feel safer, without triggering the violent reactions that systems unfortunately do sometimes … | /r/MensRights | 19/09/25 06:02 PM |
| 16 | If I file a Title 9 Claim against an abusive woman, will I be taken seriously?I understand the motivation to get justice and to feel safe again. I would talk to a specialist lawyer about this, you should be able to get a free consultation. Perhaps talk to more than one. These complaints can be done effectively, but despite what the narrative might say she has essentially all the power and you need to be careful. They are liable to take her seriously and not you, although you being the complainant (getting your side in first) will help a lot. It really depends on the speci… | /r/MensRights | 19/09/25 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Richard V. Reeves @RichardvReeves Among parents: - Moms spend about 50% more time than Dads on both childcare and housework. - Dads spend about 50% more time than Moms on paid work. - The total hours worked are almost identical.I think two simpler explanations can be invoked before saying he's controlled opposition or a Trojan horse. A lot of people find it very difficult to let go of benevolent sexism towards women. They have a very strong inherent dislike of data and opinions that even slightly show women to be at fault or unfairly privileged. He is either simply victim to this himself, but trying to do what he can for men and boys anyway, or he is acutely aware of this and is trying to couch his message in the kind … | /r/MensRights | 24/08/25 10:32 AM |
| 13 | UK: Undercover police officers pose as joggers to crack down on men catcalling female runners. OP: The government and society appears to be at war with men and boys.I didn't mention it because it's not really relevant, what I'm saying is correct anyway. Fallacy of appeal to authority... Catcalling isn't how rapists "get started out" and if it was, telling them off wouldn't do anything to stop them. Rape isn't something you build up to by accident, in my experience. The vast, vast majority of people have no intention to ever rape someone and never do, unlike what disingenuous advocates might like you to believe. Early intervention, using extremely limited re… | /r/MensRights | 13/08/25 04:48 PM |
| 13 | UK: Undercover police officers pose as joggers to crack down on men catcalling female runners. OP: The government and society appears to be at war with men and boys.I work in an area involving legal support for victims of sexual assault and abuse, frequently interfacing with the police and solicitors alike. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/25 04:33 PM |
| 15 | UK: Undercover police officers pose as joggers to crack down on men catcalling female runners. OP: The government and society appears to be at war with men and boys.You seem to do a lot of telling people things didn't happen and that they don't know what you're talking about. I hope that makes you feel ok about your life. I mean it. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/25 03:37 PM |
| 16 | UK: Undercover police officers pose as joggers to crack down on men catcalling female runners. OP: The government and society appears to be at war with men and boys.Good for you. You might be in favour of giving supposed cat callers a good old finger wag on police time with no more impact than that of a private citizen, but I think you should probably care about the already understaffed police distributing resources away from tackling real crime. Assault investigations, theft, patrolling actual high crime areas to keep people safe from - again - actual crimes that harm people, rape investigations, murder investigations. This is time that could be spent assi… | /r/MensRights | 13/08/25 03:25 PM |
| 46 | UK: Undercover police officers pose as joggers to crack down on men catcalling female runners. OP: The government and society appears to be at war with men and boys.Wait a minute. So, catcalling isn't a crime in the UK. It is rude and might make women feel unsafe - people shouldn't do it - but it's not criminal nor is there any evidence it's actually linked to any genuine unsafety or part of an "escalation process". These police officers, paid for by my tax money, are spending time on duty, when they could be working through paperwork backlogs or helping to solve real crime, going on runs and telling people off for something that is not illegal. What? | /r/MensRights | 13/08/25 06:09 AM |
| 12 | TeaOnHer response from MovemberNot a terrible statement, surprised to see this from Movember. Reads like it was given a run through by AI to ensure "balance". I am surprised that they come relatively close to acknowledging that what they initially euphemise as "reputational precarity" is actually a form of violence. It absolutely is, it's often a form ofsexual violence, and an incredibly serious one. At the same point in the text they say that men "face stereotypes" while women have "legitimate concerns" though - immediately … | /r/MensRights | 13/08/25 05:04 AM |
| 14 | Pune rape complaint fake: Woman created bogus evidence, filed case ‘out of anger’ against friendShe has no incentive to claim otherwise - it would just be admitting to the crime more than has already been proven. Same problem for those actually guilty of rape - many will claim they had reasonable belief of consent; some of them will be lying to protect themselves. That's why we look at the evidence rather than judge how much we think someone is telling the truth emotionally. The only evidence presented in the article is that one party is willing to create and capable of creating evidence t… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/25 12:37 PM |
| 6 | Why Many Women Cheat Not to Leave, but to StayLol, situations that don't fit your preferred prescription aren't all strawmen. On the contrary, the people misapplying their arguments are the ones that say men with problems will always be helped by going to therapy and attempting to use cheap linguistic buzzwords to dismiss opposition to that idea, like you are. Unless you are in agreement that therapy doesn't always help, in which case you see my point. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/25 05:25 PM |
| 9 | Why Many Women Cheat Not to Leave, but to StaySometimes we are seeing things badly and therapy can help this - genuine trauma and PTSD for example. The idea that "get therapy" is a good answer for anyone who is distressed is not a good one. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/25 05:03 PM |
| 15 | Why Many Women Cheat Not to Leave, but to StayWhen problems are practical and material, and often due to objective injustice or misfortune, learning to feel differently about it isn't going to help. If the material problems weren't there there would be no bad feeling, and so practical and genuinely tangible support is what is useful not exploring your mind until you feel differently. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/25 04:48 PM |
| 13 | Second Reading: Interpersonal Violence against Men and Boys (Strategy) BillIt is not misogynistic to be angry that if a woman rapes you in this country the law will deny you the power of that word. It happened to me and it makes me very angry. That has nothing to do with systemic hatred of women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/06/25 03:54 PM |
| 13 | The Gen Z gender pay gap has reversed with young women earning more than young men – so what’s up with boys?I optimistically think a lot of young women have been socialised into this (an argument feminists etc often make regarding men's supposed poor behaviour, trying to explain how young men have 'intrinsic' or basal seemingly negative-leaning features favouring competition, aggressiveness etc...). We are told the problem is men are "socialised into these horrible things", because to claim those apparent flaws are genuinely immutable would be reprehensible even in the overt anti-male climate we curre… | /r/MensRights | 06/06/25 07:12 AM |
| 23 | TERFs are a combination of transphobia, benevolent sexism towards women, and hostile sexism towards men gone amok, and these issues feed the culture warMy pet theory is that the vast majority of what we call transphobia is really just misandry. They hate them because they are men or used to be men and are seen as pretending to be women. There are far, far less issues with trans men than trans women across the board. Ironically I think this gives away quite obviously that many of these women know they are privileged and advantaged in lots of soft and unrecorded ways in society and would like to keep it that way and prevent anything blurring the … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/05/25 10:32 AM |
| 1 | How would having an emasculated father affect his son?Fully agree :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/25 05:21 AM |
| 3 | How would having an emasculated father affect his son?Having an understanding, kind and quietly hardworking father (even if at first glance appearing subservient to a potentially overbearing wife) can actually be a great contrast and contribution to the evolution of a deeper and confident masculinity in a young male. They will get enough of the macho stuff from the rest of society and other young males. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/25 02:25 AM |
| 4 | (US) Is it really that easy for a woman to get a man thrown in jail over just words alone and no further investigation? For example, false allegations? (R*pe, domestic violence)The world needs more women like you - thank you | /r/MensRights | 01/05/25 09:33 AM |
| 11 | Is there any country where if I get falsely accused It doesn't destroy my life even if I was found innocentThat's the thing - even the ideal scenario in these situations isn't very ideal. You're absolutely right pragmatically - do what you can to defend yourself. But even kind, considerate people will distance themselves from you over this to save themselves in the event you're found guilty, even if they fully are on your side. It's one of the most nefarious parts of a false accusation that needs to be spoken about and widely understood. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/25 12:53 AM |
| 4 | False Allegations from Ex During Divorce – Feeling Targeted and LostGiven the language you have used I assume you're in the UK. You're right that it's sexist - overtly so. It is not just a little bit unfair and there is essentially no chance that she will be held accountable. I don't say that to dishearten or disturb you, just to make it clear. It is better to accept this now and realise where you are to build from there. It could happen - if it does it is a bonus but it's not something to think about for now. You seem a bit naive about the police - they are not… | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Should we stop using "In relationships without reciprocal violence, women committed 70% of all violence" study?I'm referring to the discrepancy in "Any contact sexual violence, physical violence and/or stalking" between Figure 1 and Figure 2 of the report you linked, which is 3%. Yes, thanks for the conversation. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/25 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Should we stop using "In relationships without reciprocal violence, women committed 70% of all violence" study?I think the main point is that even the NISVS statistics you quote show a picture of relatively close to equal rates of many of these things - 8% gap in severe physical violence, 4% gap in psychological aggression, 3% gap in any contact violence or sexual aggression, etc, show that these issues should not be gendered. At the moment legal systems and institutions frequently ignore male victims completely. That's the issue to press. That's where the effort should go. I am confused that you are spe… | /r/MensRights | 30/03/25 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Should we stop using "In relationships without reciprocal violence, women committed 70% of all violence" study?Men are stronger than women. Severity will be rated higher on that basis. Indeed, this often results in men who are finally defending themselves from a woman who has been attacking them without end harming her more and therefore being punished by authorities for defending himself. The intent and action of using violence is what is important. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/25 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Should we stop using "In relationships without reciprocal violence, women committed 70% of all violence" study?Men are stronger than women. Severity will be rated higher on that basis. Indeed, this often results in men finally defending themselves from a woman who has been attacking them without end harming her more and therefore being punished for defending himself. The intent and action of using violence is what is important. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/25 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Should we stop using "In relationships without reciprocal violence, women committed 70% of all violence" study?While it's good to be thorough and one could recognise the limitations, the data as they stand continue to indicate the main point that needs to be made: women are capable of violence and abuse that would be intimidating and dangerous towards men at least as often as men are. Domestic violence laws and attitudes towards the issue should not be gendered. If you're interested in finding genuine misrepresentations of data and drawing of provably disingenuous conclusions, I suggest you have a read o… | /r/MensRights | 30/03/25 04:14 PM |
| 2 | The Rise Of Angry, Disgruntled Young Males by Lisa Britton an Advocate for fathers and the mental health for menI think she starts unfortunately because in the opening paragraphs it seems like she is about to blame men for feeling like victims, but go on and read the rest of the article because she ends up doing the opposite - she blames society and says society is what should change. Yes there could have been more overt criticism of feminism, but I think people who write these articles know you can only get away with so many 'big steps' at a time. I really enjoyed the article. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/03/25 02:45 PM |
| 2 | The Rise Of Angry, Disgruntled Young Males by Lisa Britton an Advocate for fathers and the mental health for menI think it's an excellent article. She highlights many ways in which society has ignored genuine problems that face men. The section on their total disposability being emphasised by the Ukraine (as soldiers) and Israel-Palestine conflicts (as victims who are not 'women and children') is particularly strong. In it, she mentions that when the war started she tweeted "I never want to hear anyone complaining about manspreading ever again", which is both funny and touches the right nerve regarding th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/03/25 02:43 PM |
| 10 | What do y'all think of this ?The left absolutely has failed men, the premise of his video is wrong. The video says that the left simply need to frame better towards men, change how they message - "the ways and avenues that they try to communicate with them", as he says... A few thoughts: He says "[only] the right is willing to politicise the non-political". Really? Who was it that created the socially authoritarian, stifling cultural paradigm we live in today? Where we can't talk freely for fear of offending someone and the… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/03/25 02:18 PM |
| 13 | The Manosphere doesn’t existThe patriarchy itself doesn't even exist, at least not in the ways that are often claimed. 99.99% of men have no special power, no special privilege, and are in fact seen as disposable (if indeed they are seen at all) and frequently ignored or downtrodden, all through history. I think most of us are wondering when this society structured to benefit and prioritise men is coming to help us rather than keep on beating us down. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 12:36 AM |
| -3 | Man is awarded £35,000 after he was held in hellhole South African jail for rape for two months… despite not having a penisYep, fully agree. Just wanted to make the point. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/25 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Man is awarded £35,000 after he was held in hellhole South African jail for rape for two months… despite not having a penisThe legal definition has nothing to do with the morality of the issue though, and it can and should be changed as it has been in other countries. I imagine it will in our lifetimes. In the meantime, don't let them own that word as if men and boys cannot experience rape. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/25 12:42 PM |
| 28 | Man is awarded £35,000 after he was held in hellhole South African jail for rape for two months… despite not having a penisLooks like an out and out false accusation but let us be clear, one can commit rape without a penis | /r/MensRights | 21/02/25 11:21 AM |
| 12 | A reminder to watch out for International Men's day brainwashingI actually fundamentally disagree with this. Arguing for the fair treatment of men, recognition of male-specific problems, can and should come from a place of stoic strength and adherence to logic and fundamental fairness, not any feminine quality or victim mentality. Where it does, it is powerful. From the perspective of this subreddit, I've literally slept with multiple women because of getting talking about the 'men's rights agenda' in a polarising way. Keep it at logic and fairness, which is… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/24 04:21 AM |
| 1 | How Feminists Celebrate International Men’s DayThat's for wasting police time. You can get more for perverting the course of justice. In practice this is almost never pursued, at the personal discretion of the director of public prosecution, partially because of that convenient fear that such prosecutions (which would already need to have passed the evidential test ie belief that the evidence is such that a jury is more likely than not to convict) will "deter real victims from coming forward". | /r/EverydayMisandry | 20/11/24 01:43 PM |
| 4 | Richard Reeves On The Male VoteYes. Basically I don't want him in his current form to be someone for the institutions to point at and say "there you go, he's identified the problems he's got ideas...that's all it is".. And brush under the carpet the real issues, giving legitimacy to those who would prefer so anyway | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/11/24 04:45 AM |
| 5 | Richard Reeves On The Male VoteReeves makes a lot of salient points and I enjoyed his contributions. I do think he needs to be a little firmer on the fact that there are some issues specifically faced by men where the issues are regulatory or legal, and financial. It is not 'neglect' alone, as he would like to maintain. Certainly a lot of it is, but there are specific ways that systems and institutions are set up at the moment that can be actively harmful towards men. These are even encased in what he is talking about. Reduci… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/11/24 03:56 PM |
| 14 | 20-year-old Oxford student found dead by suicide after female student told his friend group their sexual encounter was 'uncomfortable'Fostering and supporting a culture wherein people are expected not to jump to conclusions, and accept the fact that situations in which people lie are not vanishingly rare, is desirable | /r/MensRights | 09/11/24 07:46 PM |
| 14 | 20-year-old Oxford student found dead by suicide after female student told his friend group their sexual encounter was 'uncomfortable'A culture wherein it is recognised that people can and do lie about these things and judgement is moderated until hard evidence is produced is desirable. The alternative is the outcome seen here. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/24 07:44 PM |
| 26 | 20-year-old Oxford student found dead by suicide after female student told his friend group their sexual encounter was 'uncomfortable'People can and do. False accusations can frequently be distinguished from genuine ones by their lack of specificity. False accusers use broad, general terms and phrases like "maybe I shouldn't have felt this way, but..." or "it all just felt a bit off", "kinda creepy", "didn't feel entirely safe". Others can read into that sort of thing and get a lot more angry than they would if they had seen the events in question play out as they did in reality. When something has actually gone wrong (or the … | /r/MensRights | 09/11/24 07:40 PM |
| 33 | 20-year-old Oxford student found dead by suicide after female student told his friend group their sexual encounter was 'uncomfortable'Just like victims of other sexual crimes, victims of false accusations often blame themselves when actually their behaviour was not wrong and entirely within a normal suite of action. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/24 07:36 PM |
| 20 | Why do feminists feel the need to overinflate rape statistics? What's the real number?I didnt discuss your particulars. I don't know what about what I wrote could make you think I don't consider rape or molestation sexual assault, that is a ridiculous response to what I wrote. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/10/24 02:18 PM |
| 30 | Why do feminists feel the need to overinflate rape statistics? What's the real number?That's a surprising figure for your own life. Usually figures that high are arrived at by including things most people wouldn't really consider as sexual assault (eg receiving an unwanted compliment, or being touched at the waist unexpectedly/without explicit consent). In a nefarious context, these could constitute sexual transgressions but not by themselves and the surveys are often asking for instances without any context. The same thing can be done for men - when you ask general questions to … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/10/24 08:31 AM |
| 13 | How many men here have been falsely accused of rape?This happened to me. In my case she tried to audio record me while making me think it was consensual with her body language, but make it sound bad on audio recording (eg saying "don't choke me" while she smiles irl and literally raises my arm to her neck using her own arms). So it was pre-meditated. Luckily that evidence was seen through and she messed up a lot of other things (she edited the recordings and deleted multiple and the police recovered these...). I got an apology from the police but… | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 12:09 AM |
| 18 | Young women are starting to leave men behindThe title is so indicative of the problem, as well as many points about how the rest of the article had to be written. It's not worded as though society is failing men, it's just "women doing better" and the consequences thereof. I get the subtle impression the writer holds stronger opinions but this is how you have to write about it at the moment just to get the message out. Hopefully it's the early stage in something greater. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/24 02:09 AM |
| 5 | Why such visceral reaction whenever this topic is brought up in any situation? Original post wasnt even minimising or speak over women's strugglesIt's because they know that as soon as they let one thread fall the whole web unravels. If men can have specific mental health problems and needs, not stressed properly by society as it stands, resulting from pressures in society as it stands, then that means shock, horror, men are people too, the vast majority of us don't benefit from the "patriarchy" or have immeasurably easier lives, etc. The fantasy and justification behind most elements of female oppression/female victimhood rather than "ma… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/09/24 11:41 AM |
| 11 | Teen suicide after tea her alleged rape. The news is a month old but fit for this sub.So sorry you went through that. It's the same now except they have more techniques for excusing the lies of women (or any false accuser, which they assume to be "vanishingly rare"). There is no way an investigator would suggest to an alleged victim that she might be lying, that would be so traumatising. They will ask whether that same "trauma" they are pre-assumed to have might have caused them to misremember some details (or have memory gaps completely) where the story is inconsistent. They can… | /r/MensRights | 12/09/24 10:02 AM |
| 7 | "The answer isn't Online Masculinity"Good video. One correction is what he says about domestic violence, for which there is gender parity and is not a female issue or a gendered issue. (E.g. https://genderparity.uk/overwhelming-majority/ ) I think it is somewhat telling however that his solutions are all things men are expected to do themselves. Great to have a direction and ideas to follow, but men also need external help, resources, input just like other groups. He focuses on compassion because he wants to make that zero sum game… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/08/24 06:36 PM |
| 5 | 24F conducting formal research - Why is there no academic literature published about violence perpetrated by women against men in Australia in 2024? There is outstanding 'legitimate' and anecdotal evidence from almost all other countries.It's not just one study they do a lot of work. https://www.law.ox.ac.uk/content/impact-being-wrongly-accused-victims-voices This is an excellent book that I found is very calming to people feeling alone when they have been falsely accused. They recommend changes to the law to protect the innocent, but those recommendations do tend to fall on deaf ears. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 09:24 AM |
| 3 | 24F conducting formal research - Why is there no academic literature published about violence perpetrated by women against men in Australia in 2024? There is outstanding 'legitimate' and anecdotal evidence from almost all other countries.Fair enough. I'll tell you that I've met the group at Oxford doing false accusations research and they're all good people who are just as horrified as the rest of us. And women. Probably wouldn't call themselves feminists though. I agree that feminist academia is entirely ideological and has no interest in scientific truth, moral truth or personal truth. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 09:18 AM |
| 2 | 24F conducting formal research - Why is there no academic literature published about violence perpetrated by women against men in Australia in 2024? There is outstanding 'legitimate' and anecdotal evidence from almost all other countries.From what she's said it sounds like this person is on your side | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 09:09 AM |
| 4 | This sub has fucked up censorship.That's great but a single thread on perhaps the most pertinent legal and political issue for men and boys, false accusations and male sexual assault, does not represent a catastrophic slide into what you say it does. Indeed, some discussion of politics and voting issues is important, since having men's issues be a significant vote winner/voting bloc would put genuine pressure on politicians to listen and adapt. You can't do that very well without naming political parties, whatever country you're… | /r/MensRights | 29/08/24 10:13 AM |
| 4 | This sub has fucked up censorship.I don't know why you'd infer that from what I said. I'm not American myself, but it's a pretty big country and those laws affect a lot of people. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/24 09:46 AM |
| 3 | This sub has fucked up censorship.The right thought to bare in mind but further dismantling of what are already embarrassingly weak title ix protections could not be a more direct example of a political issue that will have real and immediate impact for men and boys. You don't even have to name the politicians. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/24 09:10 AM |
| 15 | Women have problems. Men are problems.It's because all these sorts of terms were invented by people trying to explain why they aren't the problem when their beliefs do have problematic elements. Narcissists justifying their world view and accepting no criticism whatsoever. Where those terms are found to stick and be useful in deflecting legitimate criticism (because others are too slow in realising the linguistic trickery going on and pointing it out succinctly), they can spread to other people looking to explain why their ways are … | /r/MensRights | 28/08/24 03:36 PM |
| 10 | There is a trio that are detrimental to men issues. I call the trio, the Unholy Trinity.I think at the moment, while the excesses of such ideologies should be addressed with concern, it's the lesser of the evils. You can barely discuss any male issue in public without repercussions. Anyone drawing attention to them, forcing the conversation to be palatable and relevant, is doing a job for men in my book. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/08/24 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Is it true, young men will vote for Republicans?I'm not American but viewing from the outside it sounds like what a child or bully says when they can't think of anything clever. "Oh yeah? Well you're.... weird!!". Comes across as very insecure to me, and the opposite of open good faith politics practiced by good people. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/24 11:21 AM |
| – | Crazy ex sends psycho letter and I'm scared for my safetyGlad you found it helpful :) - yes have a walk and enjoy life! | /r/MenSupportMen | 08/08/24 10:08 PM |
| – | Crazy ex sends psycho letter and I'm scared for my safetyYou are young. I am sorry you have been through this traumatic experience, but in a way you are lucky as this is actually a very good lesson to learn about the world at such a young age and you can take this experience with you to live a freer and better life in the future. I promise you will recover in time. Some people are crazy. They do not have good intentions for you, at all. Pay them no mind whatsoever. Avoid them as much as you can. Be more careful with who you are close with, open up to … | /r/MenSupportMen | 08/08/24 08:21 PM |
| 8 | Some validation for a changeThe vast majority of people haven't "liked being racist", insofar as anyone significant number of people ever have as opposed to people responding to the world as it was in their time, since the 80s/90s (a generation after prominent civil rights movements). So much so that racism was referred to as on its death bed at the 'end of history' in the 90s, in academic and non academic circles. Intersectionalists are the ones who revived all of it by bringing focus back to race and going further than t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/08/24 02:13 PM |
| 15 | Men's Health: The tragic loss, of a life not lived.Male domination of things like depression and drug use at the scale of global society is not because of the individual choices of men or men failing to help themselves. It is because society is structured in such a way that more often pushes men to these places. It is frequently devoid of meaning, totally unfair and uncaring. That is what needs to change, not "individual men picking themselves up". | /r/MensRights | 06/08/24 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Fictional female empowerment = AbuseHaha, maybe. I think we all fear death. I would note that lies of such scale - which can cause damage that genuinely taints you in the eyes of even those who would believe you, who will have to think twice about you given a false accusation even if they believe you - can cause life to become torture. Nothing but ridicule, isolation and disbelief despite the other party being the predator. Difficult to describe that horror. Depends whether you think some things are worse than death. It also remov… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/07/24 11:32 AM |
| 10 | Fictional female empowerment = AbuseI haven't read the books. The difference is made when it is shown whether other book characters see and judge poorly that kind of behaviour, and/or there are consequences and the character realising they were wrong and growing down the line. Stephen king for example has plenty of evil and abusive male and female characters, imperfect people. It would actually be a great victory if more media began to be realistic about abusive females, their prevalence, and the abuse of power structures by women… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/07/24 10:21 AM |
| 7 | MrBeast Exposee reveals how he scripted and rigged the results of the Boys Vs Girls competition because if the boys won it would become a "PR Problem"Lol, again, pointing out that hierarchies can be unbalanced, unfair and could do with restructuring or ensuring greater fairness (making sure competent and hard working people rise rather than those with connections e.g. nepotism, for example), does not equate to communism. So I think it's you that has made my argument for me; trying to make things equal or equitable is not always communism. Hierarchies are often good, but they can be intentionally made more fair through regulation and principle… | /r/MensRights | 30/07/24 02:01 PM |
| 4 | MrBeast Exposee reveals how he scripted and rigged the results of the Boys Vs Girls competition because if the boys won it would become a "PR Problem"Not everything is communism. Some things are unfair and exploitation without there needing to be an oppressor class and oppressed class and that's OK. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/24 12:23 PM |
| 17 | WHY ARE MEN OFTEN OVERLOOKED AS VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC ABUSE?Yeah never understood this. A "pussy" because what, he didn't hit a woman back? That's what we're meant to do, isn't it, not hit women? Yes we have more physical strength but actually using it, even to defend ourselves, is often bad because it can be too damaging and too much force against a woman. What is a man who is being physically abused by a woman supposed to do?. Run away? Maybe, but they'll call you a pussy again and say it simply can't be true what you said, it doesn't happen. Restrain … | /r/MensRights | 26/06/24 07:42 PM |
| 10 | Nearly three-quarters of same-sex divorces in 2019 were between female couples, despite female couples constituting only 56% of same-sex marriages.I appreciate your anecdote, but I am not sure what that has to do with reporting rates of inter-partner violence of gay men in male-male relationships | /r/BlackPillScience | 08/06/24 07:49 PM |
| 20 | UK: Sentenced to life and a minimum term of seven years for a rape he did not commit. . Because he claimed his innocence he spent 17 years in prison.I struggle to see how you are reading it that way. It says "a rape he did not commit". There is no reference to whether or not the rape actually happened, in fact being strict about it the opposite is what would be inferred from the original title. Either way, the focus should be on false rape accusations, including those involving misidentification. They are a major and serious problem. The fact that one very serious crime -- rape -- was committed does not vitiate the issue that extremely serio… | /r/MensRights | 07/06/24 12:34 PM |
| 27 | UK: Sentenced to life and a minimum term of seven years for a rape he did not commit. . Because he claimed his innocence he spent 17 years in prison.Being incorrectly identified is a common form of false accusation. If you are uncomfortable with the word false, you can refer to a wrongful accusation. The fact that it was possible to convict and imprison someone for a crime this serious they did not commit, with a total lack of evidence going only on witness statements, should be horrifying to any reasonable person. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/24 11:55 AM |
| 26 | Nearly three-quarters of same-sex divorces in 2019 were between female couples, despite female couples constituting only 56% of same-sex marriages.It is likely an example also of also by women being more likely to report. The men in straight relationships as well as gay relationships won't report. All the more reason to think domestic violence data today is not representative (despite it already showing gender parity!) | /r/BlackPillScience | 06/06/24 09:30 PM |
| 5 | Sister warned me for false accusationPeople default to believing you about rape. They default to avoiding you and "not knowing what happened but I'm gonna stay away from that guy" about false accusations. That's certainly been my experience after I was raped by a woman who immediately when she was done called the police to falsely accuse me of rape to defend herself. This attitude of disbelief persists after the police apologised to me, after they said "the evidence points not only towards your innocence but away from your guilt". … | /r/MensRights | 13/05/24 10:12 AM |
| 23 | Because these false allegations don't matterFalse accusations are not at all rare, despite what feminist institutions attempt to tell you, and the impact on victims of false accusations (male or female) is devastating. As devastating as the most serious cases of rape. And that is not generally what is being spoken about in these situations (more often about grey consent or a woman feeling uncomfortable than having her sexual agency forcibly totally removed from her with no ambiguity, which we can all agree is a deplorable crime). False ac… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 05/05/24 03:10 PM |
| 10 | I have peered behind the curtain of Men's Rights Advocacy, and it’s not good.I am very sorry to hear you went through this. That kind of unfairness, disappointment at the world and seeing how few people really care about justice and the right thing, rather than what the right thing is for them can change you forever. I really appreciate your content and it has helped me through dark times. Look forward to seeing you make more and succeed more than you already have. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/24 10:18 PM |
| 8 | Why is that husband being afraid of wife is taken jokingly but opposite is seen as serious issue?A false accusation with the tiniest amount of planning and kept as vague as possible will ruin or at least severely waylay the life and career of any male target for months to years. There is no risk to the accuser. Such false accusations are common in domestic violence and control situations, either the threat of them or their actual use. Same in family court. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/24 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Man accused of rape"I was stunned and I just kind of froze because of the horror and shock of what just happened and to be honest I was worried if I didn't say those things and act friendly, he could do something else. I don't know what, but something. You can ask my friend who I spoke to two days later I told her all of this." Unfortunately these things do happen, commonly. Yes, the more evidence of everything the more a liar or fantasist can be discredited but implying that these things simply don't go to trial … | /r/MensRights | 04/02/24 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Man accused of rapeDo you think Audio recordings can't be twisted? Without video context anyone could manipulate the apparent goings on quite strongly | /r/MensRights | 04/02/24 12:11 PM |
| 4 | Man accused of rapeIt is absolutely still happening sadly. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/24 12:08 PM |
| 14 | I got my ex girlfriend arrested for attacking me would she be deported from Australia?Lol imagine saying this if the genders were reversed and this were a female victim of domestic violence posting | /r/MensRights | 07/01/24 11:56 AM |
| 4 | Australian women can now report sexual assault cases anonymously online. Oh whatever could go wrong? Surely the angels of Australia would never take advantage of this.Excellent synopsis. I would love to see the rest of the material/examples you have collated. | /r/MensRights | 14/01/23 05:56 PM |
| 1 | I'm scared of women.If you think that, you don't understand malicious false allegations brought by abusive individuals who intend to harm. They will feign consent, lie to you, make everything seem ok, lead you through sexual acts, then claim not to have consented or try to obfuscate the issue and say they "weren't sure" or "said yes but felt pressured" etc. This really can happen to anyone regardless of their own behaviour. It has always confused me that people find this hard to imagine or think it vanishingly rare… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Woman jailed for more than five years for making 10 false rape claims against two different menYes, there is absolutely that jeopardy | /r/MensRights | 03/10/22 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Woman jailed for more than five years for making 10 false rape claims against two different menCan't seem to reply to your reply - in any case, yes I'm fully behind the idea of mass misandry being a thing and totally dismissed or worse by society. If it is genuine police policy however(or if there is direct evidence) that whenever a male presents as a rape victim that the police would not take it seriously that's an important point to make clear. In my understanding, although men are very often sidelined or fucked over by the law, if they genuinely report a rape they will be taken serious… | /r/MensRights | 02/10/22 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Westcliff woman made series of fake rape claims which led to 60 investigationsThanks - I just read a few of her articles. Nice to see a journalist who speaks her mind clearly and confidently. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/22 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Woman jailed for more than five years for making 10 false rape claims against two different menIs that genuinely the case? Abhorrent if so - I'm writing about this so if you've got resources that show that is the case I would love to see them | /r/MensRights | 02/10/22 11:34 AM |
| 2 | Westcliff woman made series of fake rape claims which led to 60 investigationsDo you have a link or time and channel? I am writing about this and would love to include it. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/22 11:42 AM |
| 1 | ‘Lived Experience’You seem to have illustrated my point with your example - physical violence having less consequences than accusations of the most serious sexual kind. You can have your feelings but I'd encourage you to reflect a bit more on the realities of being falsely accused of something like rape. There really is no coming back - I've asked you to give me a case where this is untrue and I don't think you can. Life simply does not go on. Not the same ever again. You seem to believe that this is the extreme … | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 06:37 PM |
| 1 | ‘Lived Experience’What? You don't think people experience PTSD, trauma, anxiety, panic attacks, lifelong trust issues due to false allegations, wherein average people and the system meant to defend them as innocents turn on them and treat them like a monster? Where, rather than receiving sympathy and support while trauma healing is ongoing, you are treated to constant mockery and vilification? What?? | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | ‘Lived Experience’Have you experienced the total social ostracisation and judgement of not just yourself but your family, your partner and the loved ones who support you? I think don't who had would take personal temporary physical harm any day. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 01:41 PM |
| 1 | ‘Lived Experience’I find your point interesting and I think you are right but would you not say the threat of permanent reputational damage and social ostracisation, even in the moment, are pretty high stakes? I don't think that's an exaggeration - it's happened to plenty of men. Falsely accused or extremely overly reacted against for having done something innocuous. The danger in the moment is in actuality just as real, the lasting consequences far more dire, and importantly if something did go wrong it's far le… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 09:13 AM |
| 3 | PSA: Vasectomies aren’t always reversible.Not sure but imagine it might have to do with liability and the way the law of the relevant country is written. If someone can later sue you for allowing them to sterilise themselves in an "uninformed way" when you as a medical professional "should have known better"/"had a responsibility" etc. then why take that risk. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Men’s Experiences of the Criminal Justice System Following Female Perpetrated Intimate Partner ViolenceYou probably have institutional access. It's paywalled until I turn on my institutions vpn | /r/Male_Studies | 22/04/22 02:55 PM |
| 9 | Weaponized incompetence and assumed superiorityAgree with the other comments in here that this is a way to justify nagging or emotionally abusing someone into getting them to do things your way. I would add that it would be interesting to see what these people say about women being "incompetent" at typically male tasks. Doing DIY around the house, fixing the car, getting rid of spiders lol. I suppose in general there is no room for women to feign incompetence at these tasks because they will not even be willing to attempt them. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/01/22 10:01 AM |
| 4 | In RESPONSE: What does a productive, male inclusive YKW movement look like.Could you show me where to find that Roxane Gay video / quote - I'd love to see it Thanks | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/01/22 09:07 AM |
| 2 | How do I know my worth?No one seems to be mentioning the work-time? I agree it is a lot of work to work 30 hours a week and do most of the housework (you don't explicitly say that you do this, but I assume that is the case as this would be less of a problem otherwise). But if your husband is working 40-50 hours a week (but unfortunate to be getting paid less per hour), then in terms of distribution of man-hours it does make sense for you to do more of the work around the house. No one ever said jobs are paid in direct… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/05/21 05:45 PM |
| 7 | Girl surprised that there are consequences to hitting othersMhm, there are times when the calmer person is wrong though. Can simply be an indication of how comfortable you are with confrontation or how arrogant you are (how sure you are that you are right). | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/04/19 12:18 PM |
| 1 | A female James Bond? Never, confirms executive producer | FilmMeh, depends on what you think is the character of James Bond. Is he merely 007, a highly trained rogue officer of the British Intelligence, or is his backstory and origin also important? If his backstory and origin are important, and he must be ancestrally British for a long way back and come from long-established British aristocracy (quite narrow criteria to me) then yes he should be white. Otherwise, I don't see why he can't be black. And that's a subjective choice I think. No right or wrong … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/10/18 09:10 PM |
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