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| 118 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help) | Advanced (Certain Basic Skills Required!) | ReadyTelephone2395 | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:17 PM |
| 112 | A lot of people here downplay importance of physical attractiveness | Fundamentals | ReadyTelephone2395 | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 07:47 PM |
| 9 | How do I not go down the negative loop | ReadyTelephone2395 | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/22 10:09 PM | |
| 1 | What Happened to Dating Apps? | Fundamentals | ReadyTelephone2395 | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 02:08 AM |
| 1 | This Sub Needs to Change | Fundamentals | ReadyTelephone2395 | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 10:55 PM |
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| 2 | Each rejection brings you closer to successYa i noticed this sub culture too. They want guys here to seek rejection and that it is "good for you". Rejection can actually have bad mental consequences, especially for the more inexperienced guys. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | The genius of cold approach (and why dating apps and social media will destroy humanity)Haha, well the system has improved and benefited my dating life. At the end of the day, that's all the matters. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 11:00 PM |
| 9 | Each rejection brings you closer to successI agree with you to an extent. But hot girls definitely are more picky than your average girl. They have way options and can actually afford to have those high standards. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Help me curve the friend zone!the point of this sub is to improve your dating life. And trying to get out of the friendzone once your in it, isnt improving your dating life. Do you think if a girl finds you super hot she's going to friend zone you? | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 10:57 PM |
| 1 | The genius of cold approach (and why dating apps and social media will destroy humanity)I disagree with a lot of things in this. First, social media isnt going anywhere, it's only going to be more prevalent and encouraging men to quit social media to not conform with society is just pointless and not going to change the way society is heading. I know many people that have met on apps which otherwise probably wouldnt ever have, if it wasnt for the app. So men should try their best to optimize their online dating profiles and social media. Also, I genuinely believe majority of attrac… | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 10:43 PM |
| 9 | The genius of cold approach (and why dating apps and social media will destroy humanity)huh? Girls get hit on all the time everywhere. Especially the attractive ones. Go to any college event and guys are thirsting for them | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 10:37 PM |
| 3 | The genius of cold approach (and why dating apps and social media will destroy humanity)You really think this tweak in opener will change the results much? | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 10:37 PM |
| 5 | Each rejection brings you closer to successthat doesnt rly make sense. Getting rejection doesn't "level" you up or affect the outcome of the next interaction. This is just setting up noobies for disappointment. As I know many men are still struggling after 100s of rejections. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Help me curve the friend zone!you cant, attraction is there or it isnt. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Girls/Women: What if a guy left you a note instead of directly approaching you?Imagine you are a girl, and you see some 30 year old guy eyeing you not saying anything. Then he randomly comes to you, doesnt say anything but drops a note.... Serial killer vibes. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 09:06 PM |
| 1 | I think dating as a man is comprised of 2 thingsAgree with you, girls know immediately if you are her type or not. She might not be into short guys, and if you are short she's most likely will reject you. You are either her type or not. And most of the time, it's out of your control. Agree to an extent. If the girl is that into you, you can get away with almost anything. She will most likely still be into you after the 10th date you havent made a move. It largely just depends on how much she is into you. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 09:02 PM |
| 3 | is it still possible for men like Neil Strauss to run through a ton of women in a short amount of time?No, because: GENZ girls are not open to cold approach. Also, if they are attractive you can bet that their DMs are flooded by attractive high value guys. So why would they entertain a short bald guy? When they can pick exactly their type from their DMs. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 12:15 AM |
| 3 | is it still possible for men like Neil Strauss to run through a ton of women in a short amount of time?Then yes girls from 18-30 are definitely living in the social media era and dating apps era. So Neil would def have trouble. Could you imagine him getting tons of matches and young women thirsting for him on Tinder? It never happen. Also women nowadays are trying to "get the bag". They dont really care about your money. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Girls always flake on me from online dating and just in general I’m a good looking guy who’s tall and have gotten flaked on 10 times in a row now what’s going on?They got other options that they prefer. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 12:05 AM |
| 3 | is it still possible for men like Neil Strauss to run through a ton of women in a short amount of time?No. Dating apps and social media changed the game. People that disagree with that are delusional. But are we talking about Gen Z girls? If yes then definitely. But with his age range idk. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Started out confident, but now feel more insecureWhats your height and weight? | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 12:01 AM |
| 5 | CMV:When dating women, It's better to be an asshole than nice even if uglyThe ugly asshole doesnt work. If you are ugly and an asshole you will get met with harshness from others because they know you are compensating. Good looking and asshole is a completely different story. If you ugly you should be nice I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 04:09 AM |
| 0 | What’s the game on Sugarmamas and Rich Daddy’s Girls?Tinder. After talking to a match and linking up with her for a couple months and saw what car she drove (model X) and had her own apartment I knew what was up. Asked for her to uber me food once and now she offers to uber me food all the time. Now I slowly escalated to massages, dates, and other activities which she would always pay. The point is, is to not ask for huge things but it's a slow escalation. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 12:54 AM |
| 0 | Social media has become too sexualizedOpen relationships and hookups is how society was built. The monogamous relationships was something made in 1900s. With social media (true reflection of society) poly and open relationships are mainstream because we all inherently want that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 11:11 PM |
| 8 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crapTrue, young women like older guys is more 1-3 years older not the 5-10 years older. The notion that young women like 30-40 year old guys is just a revenge fantasy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Why do majority of people and society think we guys, we men, have the better end of the stick in the human mating game, in relationships, when men have to do all or most of the work to make a relationship happen? Men having the burden of performance or building the attraction?Well the top tier guys have it the easiest. Even easier than top tier women because top tier guys are way way more rare. So society looks at their situation instead of the avg guy. Who has it worse than the ugly girl. Top tier guys attract. Avg guys have to fight and chase for what they want which is super hard. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Why am I rejected by lower SMV women than myself?Right... But there are plenty of men on your level or above. Top tier guys get on tinder because they know it's easy pickings for them. So that actually lowers your SMV. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 11:03 PM |
| 2 | How are people able to link so easily?Meet them through tinder. Add them through snap and meet up. Really simple. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 11:01 PM |
| 2 | the SHOCKING reason you're not getting any datesExactly, it's not the norm it's the rare exception. Just because you saw 1 or 2 couples where the guy was short and fat doesnt negate the fact that there are a bunch more couples where the man and woman are looks match. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 10:53 PM |
| 2 | the SHOCKING reason you're not getting any datesExactly, it just delays the disappointment and might actually make men feel worse about themselves after they do a bunch of "self improvement". | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 10:52 PM |
| 4 | the SHOCKING reason you're not getting any datesExactly, the just be "confident bro" advice doesnt rly make sense if you want hot girls. That's like saying to a single mom with wrinkles to just "be confident" and you will get yourself a good looking guy with money. It just makes no sense. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 10:51 PM |
| 2 | the SHOCKING reason you're not getting any datesCold approach is just like a last desperate attempt to meet. If you are cold approaching then that says a lot about you. Like how you have no social life, no prospect (women), and basically no social etiquette. Imagine you an attractive girl and some rando guy who's not very attractive wants to introduce themself to you. You would want them to go away asap. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 10:48 PM |
| 3 | the SHOCKING reason you're not getting any datesExactly it's not a normal way to meet ppl. We are told from a young age not to interact with strangers. Espeicially strange men. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Where do you guys like to meet girls? Day game? Night? I live in Asia, and its a pain in the ass to open if not "appropaite social places such as bars" for most of them. But im willing to try out other spotswhy dont you go clubbing in Taiwan they're lit. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 05:55 AM |
| 45 | the SHOCKING reason you're not getting any datesLooks matter wtf. if you are her type and she's attracted to you, you literally dont need game just exist. No mindset will suddenly make you an attractive guy. You cant negotiate attraction. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Are women's standards that high, or are men just lying to themselves?this is not true. 47 year old men look old af. Also most dudes in their 40s arent rich like that either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 12:19 AM |
| 0 | You often here that one of the things that women love is being kept on edge or a sense of “danger” from a man. What are some examples of this?Nah. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Could it be the porn & jerking it effecting your social skills?It's not the only reason. I think it's pretty overblown unless you are like watching it for hours | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Is it ok to take a step back from women and focus on myself for the time being?Yeah do it but just know that it doesnt actually result in getting more women. Like there is no formula | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Why DO I KEEP GETTING REJECTED!?!!?!?When did I say be pushy? I just said results matter. And they do, if someone is better than they are doing something you are not. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | I get jealous of others having girlfriends as well as female interaction and crave my ex for that reason.You need some options. If you had multple women waiting for you, you wouldnt be even thinking about your ex. So start hitting up multiple girls. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Why DO I KEEP GETTING REJECTED!?!!?!?Exactly what is op's height? If he's 5'2 then.... Also where does he live and whats his race etc. These things matter but can be worked on. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Why DO I KEEP GETTING REJECTED!?!!?!?Bruh results matter. They indicate what you are doing or not doing. Please do not be ignorant of your results. There is a reason why certain guys get the most. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | If you can't crack jokes, are you done for?Not true at all lol. On tinder it's like a few msgs back and forth and she comes over to fk. So I dont understand why you think you out of the race if you dont got humour? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Picking up girls in a clubMen underestimate other men's looks while overestimate their own. Maybe your friends are better looking than you think? Also in clubs it's like 95% non verbal communication. If she's looking then you know there's interest. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 08:16 PM |
| 1 | I find clubs extremely hard to pickup womenWell it's true lol | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 08:14 PM |
| 1 | I find clubs extremely hard to pickup womenIn my experience these guys just get used for the table and drinks. You never want to lead with your wallet in any situation. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 08:14 PM |
| 1 | how does your success wirh girls has improved after learning seduction? does it really work?Most good looking guys are more confident due to positive feedback and reinforcement. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | 26, been on a dry spell almost 3 years. This year is half over already. I don't think my situation will change by year's end.Well I think it's pretty good indication of your standing in the dating market. Hot guys gets lots of play. Avg guys gets results here and there (but becoming less and less) Ugly guys dont get any matches. But doesnt that make sense tho? If you were a woman why wouldnt you swipe on cute guys? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | 8 Secret Ways Women Test Men And How To Pass Them!When i match a girl on tinder or meet a girl irl that is super into me. I dont have to do anything, I just have to exist. So why am i not getting tested? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Hit the bars alone -Then that's good? You know there can be more than one attractive guy in a group right? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 06:55 AM |
| 35 | do you think being tall actually gets you girls?It helps but it doesnt make you hot. But being short can hinder someone quite a bit. Espeicially if they are rly short. 5'7 is short but it's not terrible. Im sure if your 5'7 friend was 6'0 he's have even better results. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 06:53 AM |
| 1 | how does your success wirh girls has improved after learning seduction? does it really work?What if the short balding old guy approached in person? Yaaaa | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Terrible bar experienceI dont think that at all. Im just saying height definitely matters. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 06:50 AM |
| 2 | how does your success wirh girls has improved after learning seduction? does it really work?You rly think girls dont care about looks? Then why do normal/avg guys never get matches but good looking guys do? lol Yes girls are emotional but only for an attractive guy. If a short balding old guy approached her, she is going to reject him before he opens his mouth. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Hit the bars alone -Your wings dont need game. They just need to look good lol. This signifies you are apart of an attractive group. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 05:16 AM |
| 3 | Need Advice on talking to a girl in a clubYou dont rly need to act a certain way at the club. Juist be normal and chill. Once you make eye contact with a girl ask her if she wants to dance or to get a drink (dont pay) Then dance and make out it's rly simple. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 05:15 AM |
| 3 | No replies on dating apps, what should I do?Not rly. Sure there might be a better guy out there but once a girl's attached, you will have all her attention. But how do you get her attached initially? Be one of the best options and ask to talk on the phone. Thats my strat and it works very very well. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 05:13 AM |
| 0 | Terrible bar experienceYou rly think height is not important? Most women reject men if they are shorter than her. That means height matters. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 05:11 AM |
| 5 | 26, been on a dry spell almost 3 years. This year is half over already. I don't think my situation will change by year's end.What do you look like? If you are getting 0 results from dating apps it's not a good sign tbh. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 05:09 AM |
| -2 | If you're good looking can you get rejected?Not true. Where did you get that stat? If you are very good looking you will have plenty of options. Just look at chad fishing experiments on youtube. Also rejection has a lot to with your value (looks, wealth, status) Do you really think Leo Dicaprio gets rejected like that? Also where did you get his rejection stats? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 05:06 AM |
| -1 | Terrible bar experienceHeight is important tho. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 05:05 AM |
| 5 | No replies on dating apps, what should I do?She has other better options. You were cute enough to swipe on. But you are not the best option out of her matches. What can you do? Well you have to become more attractive. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 05:04 AM |
| 1 | how does your success wirh girls has improved after learning seduction? does it really work?Let's say this girl is very attractive. Why would she settle for a guy she feel neutral on in terms of looks? When she can get a very good looking guy with equally a good vibe and personality? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 05:01 AM |
| 1 | how does your success wirh girls has improved after learning seduction? does it really work?Well that's the hand your dealt | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 05:01 AM |
| 3 | Hit the bars alone -how so? if you go with a group it's not like you have to stay with them. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 04:59 AM |
| 2 | high school adviceDont cold approach at school. That's weird. Do you go to parties? | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with direct competition?if you ahead of the competition. She will be into you. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | whats the step by step for getting dates/sex??Literally just ask for their snap. Ask them to "chill". If they say yes you in. If they say no you not in. It's really that simple. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:49 PM |
| 2 | 8 Secret Ways Women Test Men And How To Pass Them!Stop promoting your channel. Also if she's into you, she makes it easy for you. Girls that are not into you "test you". They actually arent testing you, they just have low interest. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:47 PM |
| 27 | Hit the bars alone -Try to go with friends at least. It gives you social proof and more approachable. Alone guy at the bar isnt very inviting at all | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:46 PM |
| 0 | How I get numbers from the club to not flakeyou cant. Its not in your control. If shes super into you, they make it happen. It's really that simple. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | As weak as this sounds, I want to ask a girl/girls who ignored or ghosted me what’s wrong with meill give you the answer: not attracted enough | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | I failed tonight, and I don't know why.You didnt do anything wrong. They just wont be into. Most girls wont be espeicially if you an avg guy. Im tired of this sub telling these guys that it's their fault and that they couldve done something better lol. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Abundance VS Secure Attachment? if you got options you wouldnt be in this predicament | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Tinder and other dating apps are handsome man’s world.Someone mad | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Tinder and other dating apps are handsome man’s world.? He speaking facts. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Bars vs Clubs?clubs | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:38 PM |
| 2 | My cold approach journey fiascono one? Just dont want another guy getting scammed by these pickup guys. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:38 PM |
| 8 | how does your success wirh girls has improved after learning seduction? does it really work?It doesnt work. You cant negotiate attraction. You just need good social skills if she's into you. When she's into you, just dont mess it up. If she's not into (your not her type) no amount of game will make her attracted to you. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:35 PM |
| 3 | My cold approach journey fiascoplz dont do this. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:29 PM |
| 0 | My cold approach journey fiascoCold approach inefficient af. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:29 PM |
| 3 | I’ll put this one out thereAsk her to "chill" if she reciprocates then you good. there is literally no point in thinking about all of this. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 05:53 AM |
| 0 | Approaching in the cityToronto is very closed off. Youre success for cold approaching will be very very low there. There is a lot of good clubs tho. If you got money, looks, and some clout you can do well. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Approaching an Attractive Femaleif you are very introverted why approach at the gym when you can just approach at bars, clubs, etc. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 05:49 AM |
| 3 | Is it just me or is 2021 and 2022 harder to pick up women than before?More options, more ppl on apps, men desperate than ever. So many factors. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 02:14 AM |
| 2 | How do I spin this back?Lol she outright told you, you aint it. Get some options bro. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 02:12 AM |
| 6 | take chances and dont be a pussy. The end.ppl here dont believe in it lol. But agreed. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 02:12 AM |
| 6 | Are You Wasting Your Life?So you a dating coach but you said you arent where you want to be in your 40s. Why should people take advice from you? Also this sub isnt for people to promote their services. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 08:49 PM |
| 0 | Is it weird to carry a pre-written slip of paper with your name and phone number?it's weird bro. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 07:21 PM |
| 2 | What is game does it really workNo such thing as game. Shes either into you or isnt. If there is game it's just not being a total social outcast and messing it up. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 07:10 PM |
| 10 | This greatly increased my value on hingeYou rly dont need to hire a photographer or have 6 pics to be successful. Just have some girlfriends to take pics of you. Girls take great pics. Also i agree a lot of dudes have horrible profiles just look at the tinder subreddit. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 07:07 PM |
| 2 | How often do you get the excuse " I have a boyfriend "?The cold truth | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 07:05 PM |
| -1 | Got rejected more times than I can count tonight and I feel like a billion bucks.Can we stop celebrating rejection in this sub? I mean sure a few rejections are ok. But more than you can count territory is not something to be proud of. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | How often do you get the excuse " I have a boyfriend "?This is why cold approach is super inefficient. Atleast with online dating the pool of women are usually single and are actually looking. With cold approach you have no idea. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Intimidated by women in the gymdont approach at the gym | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Unmatched on Hinge, but she’s still texting? Why would that happen?Some girls unmatch after they get the number. Or she might have deleted her account. Regardless it doesnt matter | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 10:32 PM |
| 4 | Social proof without much effort just clever prepWhat? It is social proof my guy. It shows you have friends, a lifestyle, popularity. The guy that gets thirsty girls in his comments is definitely a positive. It shows you got options and are a man worth vetting for. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 10:29 PM |
| 13 | Venting about interest levels. Hope some of you can relate/give advice.Yeah it's tough man. But the reality is, is that the girls you want to talk to (im assuming attractive) have so many great options themselves. It makes it harder for dudes to stand out. So it is hard to get with these girls unless you are high value yourself. The other girls you arent interested in, that want to talk to you, see you as the prize, because well your value is above theirs. If they leave you on delivered for that long that means low interest sorry. Women that are interested in you w… | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Don’t let your personal victories get filed away during periods of self-doubt and insecurity. Always refer back to what makes you unique and feel like a prizeYes agree with this that your value should be rooted in reality. It is cope to think all your value is tied to inner stuff. Like bro value is shown externally majority of the time. Your status, wealth, looks are extremely important to your value as a man. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 10:19 PM |
| 0 | Is approaching a woman by herself and not in a group creepy?There are def unwritten rules. OP dont be one of those dudes that's not self aware. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 10:17 PM |
| 2 | She declined my offerBro chill she just wanted some fun on the weekend. Do NOT text her that, that will just shut the door completely. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 10:14 PM |
| 7 | What are some "laws" in seduction? Like factual truths in dating and courtship?If she is doesnt want to hang out or make things hard to schedule a date, then she's not interested. Interested people make time for people they want. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 10:12 PM |
| 2 | What if I’m not even given a chanceWell thats the game now. Either your pics are trash or you rly ugly. You seem pretty confident and think you are the prize, unfortunately there are many men that feel and think the same. There is a lot of competition. If you want to stand out have: clout, status, money, good looks. That's the truth. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being enviousAre you popular? Do you have the plugs for the parties, venues, girls? You dont need to be an athlete to have value, but you do need connections and looks. Why do the girls like the athletes? Well they have status. So you need your own status but in a different way. The guy that throws parties, know the parties, or something. You must show value in some way. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 10:08 PM |
| 3 | What is your tinder strategy?Just message all my matches to come over. Dont waste time. The ones that are down are game and the ones that say we should talk more are all game. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 10:06 PM |
| 1 | I am starting to make my own social circle i need some tips!It's mostly just going out as much as possible. Go to every event that you can go to. And when you get invited to something always try to make time to go. When you there just make sure you talk to everyone and be friendly towards everyone and inviting as possible. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 10:02 PM |
| 2 | I’m so confused by all this game bullshitThere is no real "game" just have normal social skills and try to get as attractive as possible. All these techniques that these pick up gurus are selling you is all a sham. If they really worked wouldnt every dude be getting some? Just be fun, social, cool, and try to be in the best shape possible, nice skin, etc. And you'll be fine. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | 3 approaches todayHouse parties are much better because you have mutuals that introduce you, so there is familiarity. Unless you are going to a dead bar, bars are usually pretty packed and there are many bars in close proximity, so if that particular bar isn't the vibe you move on to the next. Since when does going to the club with friends mean you cant have fun with others? | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Why am I so tired after cold approaching, and what is the good, sustainable long-term strategy for getting better at game in general?Tinder. As much as people here hate on it. If you have an optimized profile, you will be picking up passively. You can talk to girls at work at your desk, at the washroom, etc. IT truly is one of the best ways. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | 3 approaches todayWhy dont you do this at the bar, club, house party? Just curious. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 07:03 PM |
| 0 | How do I ask my friend to set me up with her friend?It's not going to work. Your friend is going to get jealous and not be down. These only work when the friend is like "hey I want you to meet _____" These are the real homie type of friends. But she has to initiate first. Usually when you have to ask to get set up, it wont work. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 07:01 PM |
| 6 | Social proof without much effort just clever prepI feel like the insta thing will give you more long term benefits tho. Also you can use it as social proof for everyone, not just women. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 06:46 PM |
| -3 | Why is everything a man does considered creepy?Get some friends bruh | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 04:00 AM |
| 0 | Why is everything a man does considered creepy?yes if the girl is high value then 100% she has high value dudes in her DMs. Confidence does not mean anything if you are behind the other dudes that are going for her in terms of: -height -status -money -looks Behind in any of these then you are not getting chosen over the other dudes. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 03:48 AM |
| 3 | Rewards of Dating Seem Ripe for Women, Barren for MenIt's bad if you unattractive. For both genders. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 03:42 AM |
| 3 | Why is everything a man does considered creepy?This is not true, sure you have control over the person you talk to (because they wouldnt even give you a chance online) but that doesnt negate the fact, these girls are going to pick the best of the best. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Why Cold Approaching is Pretty Much UselessIt is useless, that effort can be used on something much better. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 01:36 AM |
| 4 | Why is everything a man does considered creepy?haha it is basically useless. Cold approach is just what these gurus are trying to sell to you. It can work, but rly only works in certain situations, like parties, meeting new friends of friends. First thing you need is a big social circle. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Asian girls who think it's weird to talk to guys they don't knowThey dont? They just dont want to talk to you, | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 01:31 AM |
| 9 | Why is everything a man does considered creepy?Well imagine you getting approached by some random guy as a girl. Your guard is going to be up. Most people meet through school, clubs, friends of friends (the best way), tinder. You never rly hear about people meeting through the guy cold approaching... | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 01:29 AM |
| 108 | Social proof without much effort just clever prepI think doing the insta thing is a lot cheaper with less effort. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | How to slide into girls DM's on FB and Instagram?Become famous or good looking that's the only way from your method. If you are going the online route use dating apps (tinder, bumble) | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching as at 16you should be going to house parties my guy. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 10:11 PM |
| 2 | A lot of people here downplay importance of physical attractivenessOk but what about the 5'4 ugly bald guy? I mean even though lets say he overcomes his insecurities, that won't increase his chances with women. Sure, he might get more friends since he might be a great guy, but that's not going to turn women on despite how much game this guy might learn. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 10:10 PM |
| -2 | A lot of people here downplay importance of physical attractivenessMoney is huge, it can change someone's perception of someone instantly. Also money does give one access to plastic surgery, better diets, personal trainers, dermatologists. All which do enhance someone's looks. Also I think you are overrating swag and success, it does help, but only if the person is already attractive. If a guy is 5'2 bald and acne ridden they will have no success from showering, working out, and getting better fashion sense, thats just unrealistc | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | I have a boyfriendstop the cold approach in broad day light. go to the bars, clubs, parties, get togethers, etc. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 07:53 AM |
| 1 | I have a boyfriendit rarely works in this day and age | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Who came first: simps or entitled women?Exactly, ppl here are here for a reason. And that reason is they are frustrated with the opposite sex because they are low value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Who came first: simps or entitled women?This is so accurate. Alot of men think that any ounce of attention means the girl is interested in sleeping with them. They are not, they just socializing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Who came first: simps or entitled women?But if you were the man with options you would be doing the same stuff too (sleeping with the hotter woman) It's just that like 90% of dudes dont have options lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Other Guys Always Making Me Feel I’m Doing Something WrongWhat? Just ignore them. If you doing well you can get other friends. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Is it feasible to meet women in this day and age without using apps?But compare the avg woman and avg man, the avg woman has more value simply because men are willing to have sex with her. That cant be said about the avg man. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 01:36 AM |
| 16 | What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender?yup, as long as you attractive you will be seen in a better light | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 11:35 PM |
| 4 | losing hope...exactly, low value dudes have trouble, high value dudes have no problems. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | losing hope...lol this. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 11:26 PM |
| -1 | Turns out my looks were never the real issue…truly good looking dudes dont have issues dating.... | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | How do I become more exciting/thrilling to a girl?knowing where the parties are at, knowing the bouncers knowing Djs Having a big social circle | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Have you guys had any success with girls during spring break?yes, matched on tinder. Asked her if she was going to one of the cluster parties, she said yes, Invited her to pre game with my friends, she said yes, Went to the party, asked her to sit with me, (we were all on the couches) Talked for like 2 hours about random stuff. She asked if I wanted to see her drawings (shes into art) I said yes, I joked about her friendzoning me, she joked that I was frendzoning her, then we held hands then we went to her dorm. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Need advice with group drinks!Sorry but sounds like low interest. Words like: maybe, ill see, ill let you know, etc. Any flakiness means either low interest or medium interest. You can try to get closer, but from the get go it does not sound like she is interested. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 11:08 PM |
| 0 | Is it feasible to meet women in this day and age without using apps?Apps are a good way to gauge your attractiveness from a looks perspective. Which is very important regardless of what others say. MY advice: level up on looks, status, socials. This will show you have value. Like it or not people like people that have value. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Is it feasible to meet women in this day and age without using apps?How will a therapist help these girls' reaction to him? Iv seen it too, some girls react differently to certain guys it's so obvious. They react better when the guy is higher value (taller, richer, cuter, etc) | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Is it feasible to meet women in this day and age without using apps?I rly hate the volume approach. You can use that time to improve yourself and then with that improvment your efficiency goes up way more. Espeicially on online dating. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Am I delusional for thinking i can score hot women despite being short, skinny, mediocre job. Should i settle?exactly. The next generation is going to even more brutal with the standards. 18 yos are all on apps. Next generation cares alot about clout | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 10:59 PM |
| 5 | Stop being scurrredexactly, the dudes that dont care are actually shooting themselves in the foot, because it shows to the girls that you got no standards and only want sex. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Am I delusional for thinking i can score hot women despite being short, skinny, mediocre job. Should i settle?yes, very unlikely you can score them. Competition is stiff these days due to online dating. If they were interested in you, they would have showed it by now, you are in your prime. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 09:50 PM |
| -2 | How to be more sexual/be the person girls want to have sex with in your early 20’s?social proof, status (you dont need to be famous but you need social presence), looks (this is obvious), good social media, keeping up with trends in terms of style. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with hostile competitors?you dont? if they tell you to fuck off or get confrontational you back away, because it simply isnt worth it to get into a potential fight over nothing. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Slightly different flavor of girl not texting back situationim my opinion if she aint super into me i move on | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 09:47 PM |
| 6 | The abundance of options women have has gotten so out of control that even genuine mutual attraction and chemistry aren’t enough to keep their attentionexactly, when ppl are actually into you they make things easy and obvious that they want more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 08:50 PM |
| -1 | The abundance of options women have has gotten so out of control that even genuine mutual attraction and chemistry aren’t enough to keep their attentionexactly the men that are upset are the ones that are missing out and start blaming others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | 28 M, never had the patience or I guess the skillset for online dating. Gave up on that and haven't used it for like 2 years. I am looking to start approaching IRL as I know I will get better results in personYa social media is trash. But that's delusional to think it's not going to be the future. Everyone is on social media. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Building Confidence for a Mangood that you self aware. Yes max out looks first. It's like playing in the pros without the minors first. Also, looks are important to these 7s and 8s thats just facts. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 07:31 PM |
| 1 | 28 M, never had the patience or I guess the skillset for online dating. Gave up on that and haven't used it for like 2 years. I am looking to start approaching IRL as I know I will get better results in personnobody uses fb, it's tiktok, insta, tinder. So many ppl are meeting through DMs here. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Women with boyfriendHow do you know they were interested? Lots of dudes claim they get stares, but the truth is, if you get stares then you would be cleaning up on online dating. I think alot of dudes over analyze "stares" | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Slightly different flavor of girl not texting back situationit's medium interest, she thinks you are alright, and will text back. But not willing to message first and have a decent convo with you | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 07:20 PM |
| 6 | If she changes the conversation when you ask her out on a date through text. Do you bring up the date once again?its low interest, she saw the date message but is avoiding it | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 07:17 PM |
| 3 | DM'ing girlsnah if she wanted to talk she would continue the convo | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 07:16 PM |
| -1 | I feel like all the girls I'm attracted to wouldn't be attracted to me and all those I'm not attracted to would be attracted to me.women date up men date down. Value isnt there for the hot ones to see. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 07:15 PM |
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