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| 4 | Did your (ex)wife’s friends lead her towards divorce?Generally, I should have married someone that would have appreciated all I did for her me. Once I realized the disgust she had for me it was over. She had friends egging her on. But it was her choice and my decision. You chose differently. I respect any choice you make. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/26 12:56 AM |
| 6 | Son turned 16 and ghosted dad.I am seeing a potential future, but have hope that my outcome may be different. I guide my daughter but let her make decisions. She knows my preference and why, but more and more as she ages, she has agency to refuse. I'd prefer to be more strict about some things, but it makes little sense to have rules that won't be enforced 50% of the time. To do so sets myself up for the alienation you describe, especially if I were to be rigid about rules. If it's a clear and immediate issue of health or sa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/26 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts of Father's Day?I care about the time. If I'm asked to accommodate a change that costs me time, I negotiate that time back on the spot, and given my exes behavior, I try to get the extra time first, because after the fact causes her to get upset, and she has trouble keeping the agreements she makes. In your case, I'd accommodate the vacation, but request as part of that a different weekend in her time. If I'm asked to accommodate a change that nets me more time, I agree, it's in my daughter's interest to have m… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/26 01:36 PM |
| 1 | It is SO important that I’m the one who filesFile first. Construct your own narrative. She wanted the divorce. You are in agreement. Her friends will back her even if they know she's wrong. Filing first let's you go first. It's a big advantage. Take the gift | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/26 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Question for divorced men. Why do some of you see an fwb instead of a prostitute for sex and vice versa why do some of you see a prostitute instead of a fwb?It is illegal yes. However, even going to a jurisdiction where it was legal would pose problems, given my ex's posture and the courts behavior towards me. They would likely declare me an unfit parent or some other nonsense. I'm not giving them ammunition to use against me. I'm not telling you what would happen in any other situation, but for me this alone is enough of a deterrent. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/25 05:18 PM |
| 7 | Question for divorced men. Why do some of you see an fwb instead of a prostitute for sex and vice versa why do some of you see a prostitute instead of a fwb?I'm in a relationship now, but if I wasn't seeing a prostitute would carry significant reputational risks that my ex would use to interfere with my 50/50 custody, were it to become known. Beyond any other issue, this is the reason it is a no go, even when unattached. Do I think it's bad that consenting adults exchange money for sex? Not particularly. Do I have objections to sex trafficking and other issues that tend to come with it? You betcha. But losing custody over ephemeral physical pleasure… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/25 11:52 PM |
| 1 | My First Real WTF Incident with XW. How would you handle?Your approach is sensible. You understand that what she did, and the position she put you kids in was wrong, while also realizing that any attempt to hold her accountable is at least as likely to cause you grief as it is her, is very wise. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/24 10:04 PM |
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