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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Women who will settle down in later years due to any circumstance: Will you be okay with knowing that your partner had sex with prostitutes? Am I okay with my partner having a sex-life before me? Yes, we're both adults, and its honestly not my business with who and how many, so long as it was consensual. Everyone has a right to have a history before meeting their current partner. When we as a partner want to be inquisitive we have to understand our intentions. Are we curious about our partner's past because we have insecure-attachments in this relationship? Are we letting jealousy navigate our thoughts and actions?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 01:15 PM
1	CMV: Men don't really love women for who they are There is numerous types of romantic attractions and they can range from unhealthy to healthy. What you have described is an unhealthy attachment and overall an unrealistic perspective of both men and women. I would say it is more rare to find men who don't care about their women/men/partner in comparison to the men who do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/20 08:38 PM
9	There's no way to say this without sounding rude...but have the people on this sub ever met people before? Preach. I tell my partner that this is like trashy reality shows, like House Wifes of ______, but no one is acting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 09:48 PM
1	If a woman shares her sexual history with a partner and it causes the partner to leave, then it's not a partner you want That's not what i am saying. editing because I think i need to summarize and explain more I didn't write that people who have these standards are "bad-people" I basically said their emotional-intelligence is stunted, that it's okay to be hurt and if they come to terms with the fact that a person's sex life and how many partners they had isn't really anyone's business, and if they work-out why they have these standards and expectations then they can continue to have a healthy relationship with th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 02:38 AM
1	Are thin but ultimately plain looking women "top tier" in todays world of overweight people? Yeah, I would say that it was probably uncommon to see an overweight person, there wasn't high food productivity that carried corn-syrup and other addictive sugars. Our modern food is a Frankenstein creation that is endless and easily available. It's so convenient and the portion sizes are massive plus fast-food chains target children audiences so you start with the habit. Women do naturally carry weight, that is normal but yes overweight and obesity aren't but it is symptoms of our environment …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 04:59 PM
1	Are thin but ultimately plain looking women "top tier" in todays world of overweight people? I feel like a fly on a wall, rubbing their palms, waiting for the OP to answer this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 04:42 PM
1	Are thin but ultimately plain looking women "top tier" in todays world of overweight people? You guys go get an education, got to live in a world where you're exposed to life and experience life and get to see and know the human connection and then you chop down someone's jealousy being over-rated because the woman of attention didn't hit the DNA lotto? You do realize that the majority of the women you have listed have money that they use to get the best of the best to stay looking fine. This is an unrealistic standard to put on women who can't give that kind of money and attention to t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 04:42 PM
1	If a woman shares her sexual history with a partner and it causes the partner to leave, then it's not a partner you want Agreed, there should be sex compatibility between partner/s and there shouldn't be any shame-throw, but like I said if the partner is being respectful but is hurt than it's still a workable relationship. Yes, self-esteem could be the root problem however there could be more to it. Maybe they have been misguided by past influences and hold onto an emotional and what they believe is factual perspective or have an ideal. It's a very human reaction to be hurt. I'm not saying that gives them the high…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/20 04:09 PM
2	If a woman shares her sexual history with a partner and it causes the partner to leave, then it's not a partner you want I am bi and I have seen both women and men be upset about their partner's sexual history, more so with men, but I find it's because they aren't experienced, have insecurities, virgin-fetish, sex-negative outlook, or religious reasoning behind it. Which if they are a good person and want to work to accept that people have lived experiences before a relationship than this is positive progress. Everyone is at a different emotional intelligence level, and it can be harder for some to identify the ro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/20 05:48 AM
3	Women approach Chad; for him they don't need to be seduced Yeah, the whole "Are you fat? Lose weight, then say hi" Got Lizzo and me laughing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/20 05:00 AM
2	The argument “men don’t need sex because they can survive without it” is bullshit. Horrifically abusive parents neglecting their child and imprisoning them, causing the child to undergo trauma which affects their mental and emotional state carries completely different emotional needs in comparison to a man who has sexual needs from partner/s who do not wish to participate in sexual acts. Does no one else see how wild and inappropriate that comparison is? I don't think anyone outside of religious settings would villanize sexual wants and desires by claiming that men do not need…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/20 05:16 PM
1	If you DON'T want to have children, then why does a potential partner's job/finances matter to you? Relationships are built up by the people who are in them and although I see your thoughts and I understand where you are coming from, the truth is relationships can be hard for a multitude of reasons and finances are a major factor. If we honestly look outside the relationship we know that our economy isn't doing the best, but the dreams and aspirations we carry into a relationship can be expensive. As individual people, we will have certain materialistic values and we all have an expectation of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/20 11:28 PM
1	Is anyone else scared to have sex? I understand completely what you mean. I too was scared of sex, fascinated deeply by it, but ultimately afraid of risks that could affect my health. I think it is natural to have some anxiety towards sex, especially if you haven't experienced it yet or you are with a new partner. I think what's awesome is that you are educated and you know some measures of protection. There are damsel dams for female oral, though it's not popular even among the lesbian community it is available and the same with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/20 06:04 AM
1	Gender roles As a woman who is bi-sexual, I already don't fall into the heterosexual normality of my gender role that is pressured to pursue and be pursued by just men. This wasn't acceptable in some towns I lived in where certain gender roles are romanticized, by certain groups of the society. As a whole, I don't think gender roles can be neutralized into characterized traits anymore when we are in an age that is now more accepting of gender-fluent, trans-people, non-binary people. But maybe that's because …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/20 04:46 AM
–	Is it true that almost all women want to be dominated in bed? ohhhh kay, this comment is going to be drowned but here is my input. Sexuality, sexual growth, interests, and fantasies are as complex as each individual. I think it is human nature to want to categorize and know the main common trend, but I also think it can be a double-edged sword to say "the majority of women are submissive" when you have a lot of easy-access outlets that are telling people who are sexually awakening what sex is and what their role is during sex when most times women are spot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/20 11:47 PM