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Great post
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/18 08:07 AM
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Cause I'm a faggot and I've let her treat me like this until now
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 03:59 PM
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I know my frame is shit. I mainly ment solid as in it hasn't gotten worse. I'll book the trip tonight.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 11:32 AM
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10th OYS Background: Been lurking for 1-2 months before my first OYS post. Main problem is "Afraid of Wife" and "Not enough time for myself" Currently on parental leave with my daugter. Married this intelligent chick and quite beautiful one. I would say HB 8 - "The good girl". She moved in from an eastern country to live with me. As we moved in together and with both of us working full time jobs I felt the times were not so fun anymore. She would get tired after work and get more bitchy/moody. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 10:01 AM
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Thanks for that. I see your point. Personally I don't really depend on her. I can't in this moment see what I need her for, except of course being the mother of my daughter. Anyways, what truly breaks my frame or really annoys me is when she doesn't comply to the social rules of a situation or stands out in a negative way. This is what I fear the most and what keeps me adapting and forming my behavior so that she doesn't "misbehave". This stuff stresses me out, especially on the moment, and can …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/18 03:25 PM
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I know I'm in her frame. But I've noticed lately (since MRP) that I'm gradually slipping out and it really bothers her and makes her pissed. There is some real tension and energy flowing in the room when the stuff doesn't happen her way or she is sensing that I'm taking over the frame. Anyways, I'm mostly shrugging of this stuff, but it really makes me feel she is disrespectful when stuff like this would happen around other people. Anyways, back to losing weight and lifting. Thx for the feedback…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/18 09:24 PM
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You're saying I just shouldn't give a Fuck?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/18 08:11 PM
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I felt it was disrespectful. I hate if you can't even manage to end the conversation on the phone in a polite manner. I don't want her to think it's okay. Maybe I give a Fuck, but this woman needs boundaries or she starts treating me with shit. Next time I'll ghost her. Another thing that bothers me is that her phone is all the time on fucking night mode. So I can never call her because it's busy and she usually calls me back whenever she looks at her phone. It bothers me cause when I need her f…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/18 07:52 PM
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9th OYS. Background: Been lurking for 1-2 months before my first OYS post. Main problem is "Afraid of Wife" and "Not enough time for myself" Currently on parental leave with my daugter. Married this intelligent chick and quite beautiful one. I would say HB 8 - "The good girl". She moved in from an eastern country to live with me. As we moved in together and with both of us working full time jobs I felt the times were not so fun anymore. She would get tired after work and get more bitchy/moody. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 01:51 PM
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Sixth, Seventh and Eight OYS post. Main reason for clumping in several OYS is because I've been on vacation and with lots of holidays events with family and friends, my time alone for OYS has been not enough. But now I'm back. Background: Been lurking for 1-2 months before my first OYS post. Main problem is "Afraid of Wife" and "Not enough time for myself" Married this intelligent chick and quite beautiful one. I would say HB 8 - "The good girl". She moved in from an eastern country to live with…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/18 12:53 PM
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I thought she would love me for who I am after we married and were gonna have a kid. I thought letting her wishes and demands come true and not upset her would do me favors. I let this shit go on for too long and now I'm trying to reverse it. Even though how horrible this story sounds I still believe this marriage has potential and I am willing to do as much as I can to fix it. If not for me, but for my daughter at least. I've read NMMNG, but I guess I need to reread it since I didn't do the exe…
/r/askMRP22/12/17 09:22 PM
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Thanks for your reply. I was stressed out cause she took a toy from my brothers kid. I told her to fucking relax in front of my sister and brothers wife (which she doesn't like). She says I should have seen their faces. I didn't scream it out, I said it in a normal voice Then the shit storm above. I want to be married with a kid. I don't wanna give up on this marriage unless it's really toxic and my daughter suffers. Therefore I'm continuing on working on myself and OYS. Today was basically a no…
/r/askMRP22/12/17 09:12 PM
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Thanks for your reply. I quit squatting because I felt I'm tilting forward at 45 kgs plus my right knee began to hurt. So I'm basically gonna lower the weight to only bar, stretch and get myself a good PT to teach me how to squat.
/r/askMRP22/12/17 02:24 PM
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Since I'm married and have a daughter I am taking a lot of shit unfortunately. She is not my only option. If I up my SMV I'm confident I can easily have other options / abundance. But I have slacked and im not in good shape. Therefore my goal is to worl on myself, make my self the prize and see then. If nothing changes, I will next her. The longer she lives in this country the more difficult she will have to move back to her country with the kid. So basically the longer we are together the more …
/r/askMRP21/12/17 07:32 PM
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It's true I'm living for to kid right now. I love her. But since MRP I've shifted much more attention to me. I'm trying to improve fitness, work, SMV as m as po as lo as the kid is small and move in later to a more active social life. I walking on much less egg shells than before. Nowadays I care less about her behavior and letting her take responsibility. It's just at this fucking dinner I was so stressed out that she would flip and It did. So stupid of me.
/r/askMRP21/12/17 07:26 PM
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Can you link to this Cluster theory? Couldn't find it in the sidebar.
/r/askMRP21/12/17 07:23 PM
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The whole family is against her. Similar things have happened before, and especially she becomes "bitchy" when my daughter is crying or really tired. She wants to leave fast, becomes moody and raises the voice. My mom told me yesterday that even though everyone is nice to her, it doesn't mean they are blind goats that don't see how she is treating me. To reply to your post, she wanted to leave as soon as I said that, which means she probably wouldn't mind. Thing is I just wanted to have this din…
/r/askMRP21/12/17 07:02 PM
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I'm not gonna ignore my kid when she is screaming. As she is growing I'm noticing more when she is screaming for attention versus a genuine reason. As related to this post the kid was genuinely screaming because mom left the room.
/r/askMRP21/12/17 03:11 PM
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I can't perform a squat with my own bodyweight. If you check my post history you will witness my poor form in video. Gonna include Toddler Squat into my stretching regime. 5x5 reps: BP; 55kgs, OHP; 32,5 kgs DL : 70 BR : 50 for now.
/r/askMRP21/12/17 03:07 PM
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Thank you.
/r/askMRP20/12/17 10:11 PM
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Didn't think about that. Thx. I'm on parental leave so I'll be implementing this more.
/r/askMRP20/12/17 10:04 PM
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Yes this shit really happened and I hate it. I was fearing some kind of scene like this would happen and it did. Now I have four days left on this trip with the whole family and it's fucking awkward. On top of this she is telling me to go away and divorce. Just like the other 10 times. I don't know if waking up tmrw and pretend like nothing happened is the best solution. I want to punish her somehow but it probably won't do any good. Fucking speed bump.
/r/askMRP20/12/17 09:59 PM
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It's going. Working out 3x a week. Had to stop squatting because of my awful form. So I've started stretching 25 min x 2 per day to improve that. It's only been 4 weeks of lifting so I have a long way to go.
/r/askMRP20/12/17 09:34 PM
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What kind of sling do you mean, those long ass towel ish or the more expensive you buy in the store?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/17 08:28 PM
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Thanks man. I bought shoes now for 100 euros. Anyways I needed some because my running shoes were stupidly old. Great links. I think it's more calves. I know it's gonna take a really long time because I'm a guy that lived 15 years of my life playing computer games and studying so basically sitting on my ass. I got lower back pain when I was 21 which I fixed by stretching my hip flexor and working on my core muscles. Never had a problem since. I'm unfortunately amazingly stiff or tense in my legs…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/17 08:26 PM
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Well she hasn't yet. But she also hasn't really been asking for it. Well I have truly fallen for peer pressure about having a kid around this age, way before my friends. I think none of my friends are even thinking about kids. They are still enjoying life going to bars, trips, playing video games etc.. Obviously a bit jealous about that. Hopefully.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/17 08:14 PM
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Found some for 100 euros. Might be worth it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/17 02:22 PM
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Regular running shoes...have looked into some, but new ones start around 200 bucks, Jesus.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/17 12:28 PM
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Fifth OYS post. Mobile Background: Been lurking for 1-2 months before my first OYS post. Main problem is "Afraid of Wife" and "Not enough time for myself" Married this intelligent chick and quite beautiful one. I would say HB 8 - "The good girl". Moved in together and with both of us working full time jobs I felt the times were not so fun anymore. She would get tired after work and get more bitchy/moody. I tried of course to be the Mr Nice Guy and accommodate to her. She also really wanted a kid…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/17 11:53 AM
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Hey. So I checked out this cereal feeding bottle thing and it looks to be an American thing. Never heard about this in Europe. Anyways, my kid is eating from the spoon and with her own hands the whole day. It's just at night she is fighting to fall asleep without the boob. Well, we are gonna try next week for me to put the kid to bed without mommy and see how it goes. Hopefully gonna go well, but if not I'll try to give her some fruit smoothie by night. I've read one baby book if that matters.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 08:07 PM
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What, cereal? You mean give her some milk and cereal before bed? Never heard about this. What do you mean?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 06:37 AM
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I know. Plus I need to stop caring so much about what other people think of me. Don't know why I do that. Fucking hate that.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 09:51 PM
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Main reason is because kid is still breastfeeding and can't fall asleep at night without her Boob. Plus she is waking up at nights sometimes and demands boob. But we are gonna try to change this behavior next week we agreed. Will do. Working on it. Trying to be more proactive. Thx for your feedback.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 09:50 PM
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I've read a lot about it online. Never got a clear answer, but it's complicated because kid has both passports. I probably need to sit down with a lawyer do find out the answer. But part of me feels like it's going to be to my disadvantage which makes me put it off.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 03:36 PM
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The fact that I'm not caring about a denial.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 02:25 PM
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Smart. Didn't think about that. Don't refer to my kid as it. My mistake.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 01:37 PM
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Yes
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 01:17 PM
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Previously I've tried initiating a few times in bed and she has been horny. It's just that this bed makes lots of noise so we have had to move the kid somewhere. But when kid is sick now it's constantly whining and makes life a tad more difficult. I used to think highly of myself. But after I got together with my current wife I was so proud of myself since she is high SMV I let myself go because I thought she loved me for who I am and that I could just be myself....lol stupid idiot. Now I'm tryi…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 02:34 AM
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I'm scared because theoretically she can just leave the country with the baby in case she decides to. The dumb me was scared of her before the kid, no fucking idea why.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 02:25 AM
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Yea that stuff is cancer. I still have instagram because I'm uploading pics of my daughter while I'm on parental leave, but this shit can easily get you addicted.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 02:24 AM
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Probably. I've stopped caring if she denies me. I've noticed it doesn't make her so happy.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 02:22 AM
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Fourth OYS post. Posting through mobile: Background: Been lurking for 1-2 months before my first OYS post. Main problem is "Afraid of Wife" and "Not enough time for myself" Married this intelligent chick and quite beautiful one. I would say HB 8 - "The good girl". Moved in together and with both of us working full time jobs I felt the times were not so fun anymore. She would get tired after work and get more bitchy/moody. I tried of course to be the Mr Nice Guy and accommodate to her. She also r…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/17 08:56 AM
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Okay but those tantrums pisses me off because the mood in the apartment becomes shit and I feel locked in the apartment because she still needs help to take care of the baby. I'm really bad at dealing with those tantrums. Recently ive just not cared what she says and just wait for it to pass.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 02:25 PM
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Maybe. It's been a hectic week with lots of errands. Plus weather is fucking bad so we haven't been out a lot. I just noticed I'm only writing excuses...
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 01:44 PM
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You implying I should have just STFU?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 01:40 PM
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Third OYS post. Background: Been lurking for 1-2 months before my first OYS post. Main problem is "Afraid of Wife" and "Not enough time for myself" Married this intelligent chick and quite beautiful one. I would say HB 8 - "The good girl". Moved in together and with both of us working full time jobs I felt the times were not so fun anymore. She would get tired after work and get more bitchy/moody. I tried of course to be the Mr Nice Guy and accommodate to her. She also really wanted a kid and si…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 11:24 AM
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Thanks for your reply. Yep. Trying to be keep my self busy and taking care of households, but she sleeps more badly when I'm not in bed. I've been trying to use that time when she is napping to read the sidebar. Doing myself to keep her outside of my frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/17 04:13 PM
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Second OYS post. Wanna just shoutout to you guys who are responding to my OYS posts that I am really happy for your comments and thoughts. Background: Been lurking around for 1-2 months. Plugged in four weeks ago. Afraid of wife. Wanna spend more alone time with my friends - "boys night out". Used to be PUA, became a fucking AFC after LTR. I thought she was the one…embarrassing thoughts after I read the TRM. Stats Married for 3 years. Together for 5. Age 31 Have a kid of 10 months. 182 cm tall, …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/17 09:01 AM
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Thanks man. I naively thought that once we move in together I could settle down and just "be myself". Which means slack and play computer games. I read your posts and I deeply think I have a set of goals personally and work related. Back to work. 💪
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 08:24 AM
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Thanks for the link. In scandinavia there is a guy who is in a good shape just doing calisthenics for 15 min / day because he lives otherwise a very busy life with work. He created a subscription which I subscribed where he goes over exercises to do each day. No, I live in an apartment so I basically have zero space for a weight set. If I would go to the gym it would be by bike, since its faster to get there than walking or car.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 07:15 AM
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Hey man, thanks for your reply. I am currently focusing on calisthenics, because I can do them at home since going back and forth at the gym is like 2 hours and and I dont have that time in the evening. I just checked my gym hours and they open at 5 am. So I guess I have to start waking up at 5 am and stop being a pussy. I really enjoy the calisthenics at the moment so I will see how far it takes me and then ill proceed to gym in the mornings if it doesnt work. I am overweight 5,97 feet and 180 …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/17 07:28 PM
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Thank you
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/17 05:22 PM
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Thank you for the reply. Greatly appreciated. I'm deeply in her frame and I know it. Trying to be take these messages and concepts I learn from here and internalize them slowly not to go Rambo. I think I've been Rambo I few times and she is asking me why I never talk or if I'm in my period. I don't care about not getting sex. Only thing I'm afraid of is her fleeing to home country with baby. That's it. Just bought Gorilla Mindsets. Gonna look through those posts soon. About goals: Yep. Working o…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/17 05:20 PM
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First OYS post. Background: Been lurking around for 1-2 months. Plugged in three weeks ago. Afraid of wife. Wanna spend more alone time with my friends - "boys night out". Used to be PUA, became a fucking AFC after LTR. I thought she was the one…embarrassing thoughts after I read the TRM. Stats Married for 3 years. Together for 5. Age 31 Have a kid of 10 months. 182 cm tall, 82 kgs. Don't know my body fat, according to pics I would say 20-25%. Gonna go to my gym and check it out. Started doing c…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/17 09:16 AM
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Trying to find this post but I can't Thanks for your input
/r/askMRP28/09/17 06:17 PM
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Thanks man.
/r/askMRP27/09/17 05:44 AM
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Thank you. I recognize myself a lot on this. I'll look for wisnig. I'll reply longer once I have more time.
/r/askMRP27/09/17 05:43 AM
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She is not perfect in all senses. But she ticks basically all my boxes except regular bjs, unnecessary screams here and there and this post
/r/askMRP27/09/17 05:41 AM
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Thanks for the reply. In cases before when I've gone out she always asked when I'm home. I say something around 23, and for some reason she is amazingly picky with this hour. She messages me 22.50 and ask if I'm on my way home. When I've been like an hour "late" the big message comes up of how I don't care about her and just being with my friends and it's better if we divorce bla bla bla...
/r/askMRP27/09/17 05:39 AM
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Thanks for your reply. Reading this book. Embarrassingly enough she has called me a brainless pussy a few times because of various scenarios. Will do. Trying. But it's hard cause her reply is why don't you reply. Don't know what that is but will look for it. I don't want to continue this life in the long run. I know I can't find the perfect wife but she is very close to it in many ways. Except for this major jealousy part or whatever it is. The only shit I fear is seeing my kid less. Thanks man …
/r/askMRP27/09/17 05:36 AM
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I need to check with a lawyer about this. I just feel nobody cares about consent when you are traveling with a kid. I'm living in Denmark, EU
/r/askMRP25/09/17 06:41 AM
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Yep. Few kilos in a year is a joke. Well I have known her for five years, but yes we lived together for 1,5 before the kid decision.
/r/askMRP25/09/17 05:50 AM
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. I'm currently 82 kgs and 182 cm tall. I'm not skinny but I guess I'm skinny fat. I've been working out quite good even though we have a small baby (for you who don't have a baby it takes a great deal of time and energy). Thing is I found myself a good workout regime, with 15-20 minutes intense workout every morning around 6 am before work and then bike or run to work. I have no time after work and I want to sleep well. The reason I'm still not in better shape is because of my fucking eating. M…
/r/askMRP25/09/17 05:43 AM
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Been close to this. But the kid has the passport of my country and my wife's country so it's a high risk game.
/r/askMRP25/09/17 05:36 AM
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I've spent one evening with my friends the last 40 days. She is not very capable, we occasionally meet her friends but then it's together with me, the baby and the friends boyfriend. I personally dislike these kind of meetings because they are so Gay. But I still go to make her happy. I don't know, when she throws a tantrum, she becomes a really rude bitch and can be douchy for a few days. Lately since I've been loosing some weight I've returned to fucking her and she is really pleased from that…
/r/askMRP25/09/17 05:35 AM
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Hi, Thanks for your reply. I've tried bringing her along a few times and it's worked although it's been quite stressful cause we brought alone the baby. She is mentioning a few times lately that she can't wait to stop breastfeeding to at least have chance to go out and have a few drinks and dance. I've been trying to take her out for bowling, pool but she never really wants to go. I guess I can try to some dancing course with her even though I'm really crap at it. I'll see what I can do.
/r/askMRP25/09/17 05:27 AM
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Hey sir. I've tried. She had a few friends before but they moved back to their country. Since she has been on maternal leave it's been mostly me and her. I have lurked in this subreddit for over a year and read most links apart from those related to lifting and eating.
/r/askMRP24/09/17 08:39 PM
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I don't lift in the gym. But I workout daily in the mornings and run to work. I've been mainly lurking in this subreddit and following posts but not posting much. In the last year I've lost a few kilos and improved my shape overall. Any help appreciated!
/r/askMRP24/09/17 08:35 PM
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