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| 2 | How to handle logistics a week in advance? | Logistics | RealHumanBeing2020 | /r/seduction | 18/09/21 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Questions about signs of interest & am I overthinking this? | Conversation | RealHumanBeing2020 | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 06:50 PM |
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| 1 | [deleted by user]Seriously? | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 11:13 AM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]I would also add “How to Wind Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie. Although it’s not a “game” book, the methods and tips talked about within the book help one improve their game and simply become better at interacting with others. | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Fucked My Friend's WifeBros before hos. | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Change my viewStfu with your blackpilled phagocytes. | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 09:07 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Focus instead on meeting women irl, primarily women who show signs of interests | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 12:23 PM |
| 5 | How do you take girls from theyre significant others?This^ | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 11:43 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Clubs and student organizations. | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 03:30 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Have a lighthearted conversation, joke around/be sarcastic, physically escalate if possible. The best thing is taking the coffee and going for a walk. | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 01:47 AM |
| 1 | how do you leave a woman better than she was?Then just be honest with her. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 10:33 PM |
| 1 | how do you leave a woman better than she was?What is the reason you’re leaving her? | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.Good point. I just started dating again after taking about a year off, so I’m rusty. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 03:00 PM |
| 1 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.The most recent one was a coffee date (which I personally thought went really well) and we departed with a hug and generic “it was good to meet you” and “bye” response. I texted her a day later thanking her for meeting up and she responded. I texted her a day after that asking for another date on the weekend and I get no response. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 02:54 PM |
| 1 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.Lol gotcha. Makes sense. It always seems like I’m the one getting ghosted by women after the first date 🥴 | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 02:48 PM |
| 1 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.Oh okay, makes sense lol. So you either sent a text or they did and there was no response? | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.At the end of all 10 dates, neither of us wanted to see each other again 3 times How exactly did you find this out? Did you outright ask them their attraction level? | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 02:33 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Yes. You’ll immediately know it when she does it because there’s no other explanation for that type of look. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 02:26 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Personality and personal interests and hobbies. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Where are you going. Coffee shops? Shopping centers? Grocery stores? Bookstores? | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Anyone ever date a bartender?I would date the bartender tbh. Go for it man. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Anyone ever date a bartender?It was fun, but I prefer sex in LTRs more than a ONS. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Anyone ever date a bartender?Only had a ons with one. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 07:29 PM |
| 1 | During sex can u use your pubes to stimulate the girl clitoris?Why would you want to, tbqh? | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 05:43 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Don’t text her again. Find another girl who’s interested in you. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it even worth it to try to get a girlfriend as a 30+ year old virgin!?So how would you recommend someone start from the very bottom? | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 03:02 PM |
| 10 | If I always get compliments from gay men, am I attractive?Lol damn. Sounds like gay dudes have it easy when it comes to getting laid. Good on them. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 02:58 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I don’t actively seek out black women, but I get a lot of IOIs from them. I feel like style has a lot to do with it, as they just assume stereotypical white guys aren’t in to them. But if you’re dressed slightly more edgy then they become interested. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 01:52 PM |
| 1 | What are the peak dating/HU years for a man?If the man’s 40 but looks like he’s in his mid to late thirties then yes. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 01:16 PM |
| 1 | What are the peak dating/HU years for a man?Dude I’m 31 and all the girls I’ve been out with over the last year were from 25-29. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 01:15 PM |
| 1 | What are the peak dating/HU years for a man?Same here. (31) | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 01:10 PM |
| 7 | If I always get compliments from gay men, am I attractive?That’s a thing? Straights dudes have suddenly hopped on Grindr just for matches? Lol | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 01:00 PM |
| 6 | Can anyone give me advice on flirting/adding sexual tension when talking to my classmates?Lol dude that’s both hilarious and genius. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 12:22 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yes | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Does Porn Use Affect Your Dating?Just say “No!” to cooming to porn. | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 07:43 PM |
| 6 | Meet a girl who just clicked. Should I stop my game?Stay with her and at least get some experience from it. But be real with her, too. | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 01:49 AM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]Are you using dating apps or meeting people irl? | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Girls when they are drunkI wouldn’t have done it either. The only time I’ve slept with women who were “drunk” was when we got in that state together and she clearly was consenting to sex. | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 11:42 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yes, definitely. Also, sex with the right woman a few times can make up for a lifetime of missed sex (i.e. someone is a late bloomer and isn’t very sexually experienced). | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 11:21 AM |
| 2 | How do I ask her to pay without making it awkward?OP, find someone who’s interested in you and who wants to be intimate with you. YOU deserve better. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 03:06 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I’d also recommend starting to meditate. It can help you be more present during sex and focusing on the experience as opposed to focusing solely on the act. | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 11:18 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Sounds like PIED, tbqh. I’ve experienced losing an erection before simply due to being in my head on not being present/being in the moment and not taking deep breaths. | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 08:30 PM |
| 17 | "Just forget about getting laid and eventually you WILL get laid"This is so very true. A lot of these guys who get down and out, put themselves down, etc. due to “not being able to get laid” simply don’t leave their house and socialize. You have to go to social events to find people who are dtf. | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 07:44 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Ok. Then I’d go for it. The worst thing that’ll happen is that she says no. | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 07:12 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Ask her if she wants to go get a coffee with you. It’s lower pressure and requires less time than getting food. | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 07:00 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]If your dick was out and she still didn’t want to have sex, I’d move on to someone who actually wants to feel your dick inside of them. | /r/seduction | 18/09/21 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How to handle logistics a week in advance?Thanks. She’s a friend of a coworker of mine, who set us up to meet by showing her some pics of me and giving me her number. If it was a girl from OLD, I’d not want to wait so long to meet. | /r/seduction | 18/09/21 01:24 PM |
| 1 | How to handle logistics a week in advance?It’s not from OLD — a coworker of mine set us up. She’s a friend of his. | /r/seduction | 18/09/21 01:23 PM |
| 1 | If you want to date 9's and 10's, daygame is the way.Makes sense. So then when you eventually call/text them, do you then try to immediately set something up? | /r/seduction | 17/09/21 07:35 PM |
| 6 | If you want to date 9's and 10's, daygame is the way.So how do you then segue into meeting up sometime? | /r/seduction | 17/09/21 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approach worth the time investment?Is it important to have pics with friends to appear social or does that not matter? | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Where should I bring this girl on a second date?Hiking or walking in a park (and then possibly getting coffee or food afterwards if everything’s going good) are two great first date activities I aim for. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approach worth the time investment?For OLD, how truly important are the pics if a guy is attractive (let’s say a 6/10 at least)? | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 09:04 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]This is one of the few times I’d compliment their looks. “Hey, my name is ___. I thought you were cute and wanted to come talk to you. Let’s grab drinks sometime, when are you free/what’s your number?” Something along those lines. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 08:56 AM |
| 1 | How do I get dates? Is 23 too late for me to start dating?Ok, thanks! | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 01:32 AM |
| 2 | How do I get dates? Is 23 too late for me to start dating?Cool. I’ll check it out. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 01:31 AM |
| 75 | How do I get dates? Is 23 too late for me to start dating?No, you’re definitely not too old. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 01:09 AM |
| 4 | How do I get dates? Is 23 too late for me to start dating?How do you find these classes? | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Got a girls number at the covid vaccination clinicGood point. I guess I am focusing too much on trying to actively make eye contact with others. | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Got a girls number at the covid vaccination clinicThat makes perfect sense to me. I just wish every opportunity I encounter wasn’t when I feel like a complete socially anxious mess. | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 12:07 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]If you bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will save you. If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you do not bring forth will destroy you. | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Got a girls number at the covid vaccination clinicGood idea. | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Got a girls number at the covid vaccination clinicWell, my problem is when I’m feeling at the top of my current game, nobody makes eye contact or even notices me. They only notice and smile on days when I’m feeling down or not very social. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Got a girls number at the covid vaccination clinicI’m going out actively conscious towards being more open, social, making eye contact/smiling/head nods, etc. Whereas sometimes I’ll go out and run errands while feeling totally socially anxious and despite that, people will attempt to make small talk then and I’ll fail to properly reciprocate. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Got a girls number at the covid vaccination clinicGood point. But sometimes it seems like maybe the vibe I give off is repelling people. But then, the times I go out and feel down or not very social I miss on opportunities. It’s weird. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Got a girls number at the covid vaccination clinicI know. And there’s times (recently since starting implementing techniques irl) when I go out willing to strike up conversations, but nobody seems to be receptive of me. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 02:03 PM |
| 23 | Got a girls number at the covid vaccination clinicThis post further stresses the importance to me of how I really need to get better at talking to people whenever I’m out and about. I can’t tell you how many opportunities I’ve missed out on because I was too scared to speak to “strangers” when in public. Im going to do better! | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 01:26 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel around beautiful women?Lots of women will wind up being incredibly lonely as a direct result of this, too. I feel bad for them. | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 08:31 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel around beautiful women?I agree — it’s a wild and crazy world we live in, most especially in these times. Even though I have hooked to with two different girls from the gym, that was in college and the rules are slightly different from in the real world, imo. I always just assume any fit girl who’s at least a 6/10 (perhaps even a 5/10) has an insta and is DM’d by blue check marks 24/7. | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 08:00 PM |
| 2 | How to make OLD more enjoyable for yourselfI think it OLD I have running in the background, which potentially may have benefits. But I’m actively working on making friends and meeting women IRL, not relying solely on OLD. | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 07:47 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel around beautiful women?Amen. | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like Indian guys?Ultimately, we’re all individuals. It’s on YOU to do what it takes to attract the women YOU want to attract. | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | It's crazy how important social circle and status isSo basically, see what establishments and places they frequent and then go to those bars, restaurants, etc. and become acquainted with those types of people? | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 07:16 PM |
| 3 | How do you feel around beautiful women?Yes, my worry is that I come off as actively avoiding them. So then I worry that I’m coming off like a stuck up snob or like I’m better than them, which it also doesn’t help I have a RBF. | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 07:14 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel around beautiful women?Your last two sentences are very true. I’d also go as far as to include neighbors as well. | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 07:12 PM |
| 12 | How do you feel around beautiful women?I literally act like hot women in the gym don’t exist. I’m not sure if that’s the correct approach or because I’m still slightly socially awkward, but I also take my lifting serious and I’m always busy logging my reps and weights used after each set. | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 12:16 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]The average height for women is much shorter than the average height for men, so how does your comment make sense even if you’re below average in height? | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 11:08 AM |
| 1 | It's crazy how important social circle and status isLet’s say a man moves to a new city and doesn’t know a single person. What would be the quickest and simplest method of building a quality social circle? | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 08:44 AM |
| 14 | It's crazy how important social circle and status isYou can still be all of those things employed. Being employed doesn’t automatically grant you access to a social circle. | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 11:33 AM |
| 33 | It's crazy how important social circle and status isI agree. In fact, a lot of dudes who struggle with women do so because they’re somewhat loners and basically have no friends. If they had a social circle, they most likely wouldn’t have problems meeting women. | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 11:12 AM |
| 3 | Sex for Guys Living W/ Parents?Get an air fryer and some chicken thighs or breasts and make nuggets every night like I do lmao | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth asking a trickle ghoster what’s going on?She’s not as interested anymore. It sucks, but it happens. Also, you should be aiming to talk to multiple girls at once, not just her. | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 12:42 AM |
| 5 | What to talk about with a girl on a date?Food. Tv shows. Traveling. Etc. Just ask her questions and listen. | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 08:28 PM |
| 1 | You think it’s generally a bad idea to list a lower age for online dating if someone is in their late 30s?Thirties aren’t even old. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 11:27 PM |
| 4 | You think it’s generally a bad idea to list a lower age for online dating if someone is in their late 30s?No, use your real age. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 11:24 PM |
| 2 | She left me on read a day ago, should I continue or nahYou should be trying to talk to other women as well. Don’t just stick to one. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Countries where Asian men are Most Desired?It’s almost like it’s due to biological factors or something aka being able to provide or something 🤔🤔 | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Eye contact or staring?It’s obviously prolonged eye contact. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 02:10 PM |
| 23 | Countries where Asian men are Most Desired?In the U.S., status > race. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 10:56 PM |
| 3 | Eye contact or staring?Yeah, the gym is where my examples occurred. So basically, you have a very limited window of opportunity in the gym. If a girl makes eye contact she’s likely interested and you need to approach, but if you hesitate or wait too long it’s done and over. At least that’s how it’s been with me. Women who gave me choosing signals I failed to act on it back in the day, quit looking my way and even ignored me every time I was in the gym from that point onward. It’s best to approach in the gym ASAP. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 10:47 PM |
| 8 | Eye contact or staring?Like 3 seconds max. Otherwise it’s creeper territory. Where were you when this happened most recently? | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 10:00 PM |
| 16 | Eye contact or staring?Girls have more advanced peripheral vision than men, so I feel like no matter what she would have seen you looking her way (or at the very least sensed it), and if she was interested I think she would’ve returned the glance. I’ve been on both ends of this, so I know those feels. Normally the girl will sense/see you looking and look your way and give a quick smile. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Getting back into game again. It’s seriously a waste of time, But I can’t help but enjoy it.The average median wage in the U.S. for a single individual is $34,248. The median household income is around $65K. A lot of people don’t realize this and if one’s single (and presumably debt free) even making in the $40K range allows you to live life very comfortably. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Getting back into game again. It’s seriously a waste of time, But I can’t help but enjoy it.It’s definitely “next level game” when you increase your salary like that. I recently went from making $44K to $62K and while that may not be “a lot of money” to some, it’s definitely life changing. I’m able to go to breweries and wine lounges that other people (college kids, etc.) can’t afford to go to and the women there are indeed next level. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Getting back into game again. It’s seriously a waste of time, But I can’t help but enjoy it.85K annually is more money than what 98% of the Earth’s population makes. Gtfo. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]College girls aren’t even all that. I’m interested in and date 25 to 28-year-old women (I’m 31) . | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 09:05 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]100% false. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 12:56 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Ron Paul could’ve saved us. God bless that man. But I totally agree with the fact that millennials (Gen Xers are a little more squared away, having had the first batch of boomers as parents, which were slightly better than the batch of boomers who birthed the millennial generation) have these inabilities to have relationships, homes, etc. because the boomers were simply too lazy to teach them. They were peak hedonists living at the peak of the U.S. economy and they squandered everything for noth… | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 12:38 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]The economy was at its peak and they were so decadent, they couldn’t even manage to have children above replacement levels. It was entirely about “me, me, me.” | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 09:22 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]Agree. This whole “do x, y, and z before n age or else you’ll miss out” is bullshit. Tbh, this stems from an earlier generation (Boomers) simply because in those times the economy was much better, there was less feminism, and the dynamics between men and women were different. And people settled down earlier and could afford to do so. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Girls who are DTF vs wanting ‘more’. Do you care? How do you handle it.I kinda come off the same way, but my issue is that girls will ask the “what are we” question after like the second or third time we sleep together. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 06:17 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Well, aside from Tinder. At least in my area, 80% of the girls there are either shilling their IG, SC, or OF accounts. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Girls who are DTF vs wanting ‘more’. Do you care? How do you handle it.Damn, I can’t believe I’ve never thought of explaining it like that. Good point. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 06:09 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Does match have decent women on it? Serious question. I’ve never been on it. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 05:54 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]True. Good point. But most men who have a high SMV aren’t trying to go after college girls. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]So an older man who has a stable life doesn’t have a higher SMV? | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 05:27 PM |
| 14 | [deleted by user]Most likely not since men don’t even hit their peak until they’re in their late mid to late thirties. Edit: Also, pics are one of the most crucial aspects in having success with online dating. You must have good pics. There’s lots of YouTube resources out there, which offer helpful solutions and advice. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Fixing Erectile Dysfunction & Performance AnxietyCould you please post a link? I recently read a study about the long-term effects (this was a period of 80+ weeks, iirc) of Cialis usage and no negative side effects were reported. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Fixing Erectile Dysfunction & Performance AnxietyTbh, I would recommend taking 5mg of Cialis (you can find tadalafil for not very much online if you look at certain express pct dot com websites) daily for anyone who lifts. I say this simply because of the pump it’ll give you. Plus, it has been studied for long-term usage and there’s no known negative side effects of doing so. Simply put, knowing you’ll get good pumps in the gym and knowing you’ll get a rock hard boner is totally worth it. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 12:01 PM |
| 3 | Girls who are DTF vs wanting ‘more’. Do you care? How do you handle it.I’ve encountered this. What I’ve done is simply told them exactly what I was looking for. In only one instance did I hurt a woman’s feelings, but that wasn’t really my fault, since I was honest and she even admitted that I kept it genuine and she didn’t blame me due to my honesty — she was just more into me than I was her. So my advice is to be 100% truthful even if that means you might miss out on sex with a girl — it’s far better to get your needs me without the added drama. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 11:08 AM |
| 2 | I quitDon’t give up. Keep on pushing. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 01:18 AM |
| 26 | [deleted by user]I love going out alone and trying new bars and restaurants. One thing I’d do when I used to be a little anxious was to go to the bar later at night as opposed to going at happy hour or before “it started to get rowdy.” Because everyone had already been drinking for a while, it made me feel at ease. Idk, maybe this will also help someone. | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 05:58 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I agree with others — you need to strongly consider therapy/counseling in order to have an objective observer in your life you could potentially see things from a different perspective and help you out. Also, focus on making guy friends. | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 09:11 AM |
| 1 | I told this girl about my dog and she told me she wants to be my bitch instead. What does this mean?Bruh | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 08:32 PM |
| 3 | If you were to go from a 7/10 in attractiveness to a 5/10, would you rather this decrease be ENTIRELY due to a decrease in your height or ENTIRELY due to a decrease in your facial aesthetics?Nice straw man lol. No, but if a guy at an average height had a 3/10 face but raised up his shirt to reveal a six pack, more women would be down to fuck him as opposed to a skinny fat dude who’s got a nice face, but is below average in height. | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 03:29 PM |
| 1 | If you were to go from a 7/10 in attractiveness to a 5/10, would you rather this decrease be ENTIRELY due to a decrease in your height or ENTIRELY due to a decrease in your facial aesthetics?Face, because you can still be ugly with a nice body. | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 09:01 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Should’ve gone for drinks (assuming you’re 21+). Even getting food would be a better option than going to the movies. | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 02:45 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I would order the type of coffee she suggested and then talk to her after doing so. Say, “wow, the coffee you recommended me the other week is not bad!” And then continue to conversation from there. Ask her questions and make her talk more than you talk. You’ve got this. | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 02:23 PM |
| 2 | What are key songs in your sex playlist?Random 80s playlist. | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Ending text conversations with “high interest” girls after setting up a dateI’d try to get her on the phone. Conversations over the phone are so much better, plus you can be witty and sarcastic much easier than through text. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?What are some places you had the most success meeting single, available women? | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?You risk potentially missing out by not at least having a presence on the apps. I agree, though, that you should also be doing approaches irl. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 07:15 PM |
| 6 | [ Removed by Reddit ]No way. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | What do I talk about on a date?Ask her emotionally-based questions. “How do you feel about this? What are you’re thoughts on that? Why do you enjoy doing those?” | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Should I even reply to this girl?No. Better to spend the energy and time looking for a girl who’s interested in you. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 01:49 PM |
| 2 | My formula for setting up dates from dating appsYou said you won’t discuss profile pics, but what about IG pics? What type of pics do you have and what if someone only has a dozen or so posts? | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 01:37 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Don’t text her back. Find someone who’s interested in you. | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 11:46 PM |
| 26 | When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her?I’ll usually have a little wine or some mixed drinks while watching different videos on YouTube. Segue into cuddling once she’s warmed up, then escalate with kissing and eventually sex. The most important things are making her feel comfortable and establishing physical touch as soon as possible. | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 05:45 PM |
| 2 | I lack the courage to approach women.Same. | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 12:22 PM |
| 7 | I lack the courage to approach women.30 isn’t old. You haven’t even hit your peak yet. | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Tinder match keeps suggesting having sex and surprisingly it's turning me off. Is it common?I’ve always found that having sex early on led to the better, more loyal gfs I’ve ever had. | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 12:56 AM |
| 1 | "Go out to have fun, not to pick up girls" works. Went to bar solo, talked to another dude doing the same, we got approached, got 2 numbers. Last week, bartender gave me her number.Good post. Also, location is somewhat important too since some areas are more anti-social than others. | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 06:30 PM |
| 2 | "Go out to have fun, not to pick up girls" works. Went to bar solo, talked to another dude doing the same, we got approached, got 2 numbers. Last week, bartender gave me her number.Was this in a U.S. city? | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 06:28 PM |
| 5 | What are your fastest hook up stories?Exactly. I don’t think I’d ever bring a girl back to my place unless I publicly vetted her first. | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 04:14 PM |
| 16 | What are your fastest hook up stories?Matched on Bumble. Met up for a walk in the park so I could ensure she wasn’t a psycho. Walked for five minutes and then we drove in my car to a nearby bar. Drank some beers and then went to my place and smashed. So in total, met a girl and 2 hours later we fucked. | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 11:31 PM |
| 3 | I have a hiking date planned how do I end it with a kiss or makeout?Ok, maybe she’s just not comfortable yet. But if she agrees to go on a hike with you then you know she’s at least somewhat interested. Regardless, I’d still try to greet her with a hug, not a handshake. | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 09:03 AM |
| 3 | I have a hiking date planned how do I end it with a kiss or makeout?Yeah I mean hugging a girl like that wouldn’t be weird. It’d be seen as friendly unless she’s really standoffish. | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 08:58 AM |
| 2 | I have a hiking date planned how do I end it with a kiss or makeout?Ok well if you two are already “acquaintances” or friendly with one another, I’d go for the hug next time you see her in person. That’s the easiest way to break the touch barrier. | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 08:46 AM |
| 7 | I have a hiking date planned how do I end it with a kiss or makeout?Have you two hugged yet? If not, I would hug her when you greet her. | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 08:44 AM |
| 2 | I said Hi to 50+ peopleIkr | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 01:20 AM |
| 4 | I said Hi to 50+ peopleSo being anti-social is socially acceptable now? | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 01:19 AM |
| 3 | What is the problem with "just be yourself"?Because we can never stop self-improving and sometimes certain aspects of our current “self” isn’t that good. | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 12:47 AM |
| 5 | DON'T be on your best behaviour on a first date!They’re talking about people acting like a “nice guy” on dates just because they want approval. That’s needy af. | /r/seduction | 18/08/21 11:37 AM |
| 1 | DON'T be on your best behaviour on a first date!Behaving in the way OP is describing it is being a “nice guy” and that’s never cool. | /r/seduction | 18/08/21 11:36 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Cool. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 04:19 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Are you posing or lifting in the pic? | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 01:55 PM |
| 2 | I can finally look people in the eye and talk to them naturally!Thanks for the response — I appreciate it! Have you noticed any negative side effects from taking Xanax? | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 01:54 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]Do you have a gym pic on your OLD profile? Serious inquiry. I’ve thought of this, but didn’t want to come off as a total douche. | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 01:39 PM |
| 9 | I can finally look people in the eye and talk to them naturally!So what were some steps you took to develop this newfound confidence? | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 01:37 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You have to look a certain way, like as of you lift while wearing a non-tight tee shirt for the most benefits, but I agree. | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 01:08 PM |
| 1 | How to date with covid in the air?Oh yeah, well I’m actually going to be getting monthly booster shots here soon. | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | how do i get my dick biggerLike a HydroMax or whatever, they can permanently damage it? | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 11:30 AM |
| 4 | Is my lifestyle a problem?Have you tried going into any meetup groups? I moved to a larger city in the SE and I’m about to start going to different groups in an attempt to meet other like-minded people. | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 11:26 AM |
| 2 | It looks like needy/creepy/pushy is negative, what to do about it? How to get out of the loop?Another really good book with great advice is “3% Man” by Coach Corey Wayne. | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 01:48 AM |
| 1 | It looks like needy/creepy/pushy is negative, what to do about it? How to get out of the loop?Look into a book called “No More Mr. Nice Guy” | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 01:44 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]I agree. | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 11:51 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]So basically, feminism has destroyed the ability for men and women to develop healthy relationships. Imagine my absolute shock. | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 11:48 PM |
| 1 | For all of you who are successful with womenWell, I don’t even have any guy friends living in the city I’m in so will that affect me? Should I focus on making friends first? | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 09:57 PM |
| 1 | For all of you who are successful with womenWhat would you recommend for someone who just moved to a new city and knows zero people? | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 09:46 PM |
| 22 | Girl takes hours to reply even half a dayThe problem is the overwhelming majority of girls are glued to their phones. And it’s very unlikely that they didn’t see a text until several hours later. | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | how to fingerBasically you want to a “come here” motion with your finger while inside of her. Hope that makes sense! | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 12:12 AM |
| 35 | Should you ask for consent before having sex? Does that turn chicks off?No. You will 100% know a girl is wanting to have sex unless you’re autistic/incapable of picking up on social cues, and I 100% don’t mean that negatively or as an insult. | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 11:59 PM |
| 5 | Should you ask for consent before having sex? Does that turn chicks off?This^ | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Should you ask for consent before having sex? Does that turn chicks off?No. | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 11:58 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I’ve slept with someone I met at the gym, but I definitely believe it’s best not to shit where you eat. Just like how I’d never mess around with a coworker. | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 11:41 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Are you serious? | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 11:41 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I have slept with a girl I met at the gym, but I’m honestly of the opinion that it’s best not to “shit where you eat.” | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Update (gym)That takes balls. Congrats man | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 06:50 PM |
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