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1

Interesting. That’s kinda along the lines of what I am assuming.
/r/seduction17/08/21 06:32 PM
1

Because there’s not much data on it, but we do know that at least 25% of men above the age of 18 are celibate and not necessarily by choice.
/r/seduction17/08/21 06:31 PM
1

Most men are not sexually active. Like at least a quarter of men from 18-29 are virgins.
/r/seduction17/08/21 04:49 PM
1

Are you opposed to joining a fraternity?
/r/seduction13/08/21 11:08 PM
1

Publix is only in FL? No, it’s not.
/r/seduction12/08/21 10:33 PM
1

Why’s that?
/r/seduction12/08/21 10:29 PM
1

What are some good ways to make friends for someone who moved to a new city and doesn’t know a single person?
/r/seduction12/08/21 10:27 PM
1

Same. I’ve literally never seen anyone having a conversation in a grocery store unless they clearly went there together. I feel like the “meet in the grocery store” thing was real maybe 15-20 years ago, but it’s died out since social media and smart phones.
/r/seduction12/08/21 08:12 PM
1

I’d try to invite her back to my place to “check out my library of books”…
/r/seduction12/08/21 07:46 PM
2

I feel for you. I broke up with my gf in November of 2020 and haven’t had sex since. I’m starting from essentially ground zero myself.
/r/seduction11/08/21 09:19 PM
1

I agree — testing their lessons out in the real world is the only way to do it. Paralysis by Analysis is a real thing and it can easily occur. I like Todd V’s in-field footage. Although I’ve watched CCW’s videos for years, I’m finally reading 3% man and it’s so good, straightforward, and definitely recommended.
/r/seduction11/08/21 09:17 PM
8

I like a mix of Todd V and Coach Corey Wayne.
/r/seduction11/08/21 12:20 AM
1

His channel is good.
/r/seduction11/08/21 12:20 AM
-1

Say that you’re really only interested in casual dating. Those who are interested and available will know what’s up.
/r/seduction09/08/21 08:40 PM
1

Great advice.
/r/seduction09/08/21 08:39 PM
0

Great advice.
/r/seduction09/08/21 08:38 PM
3

Thanks for posting this. I saved it for future reference. After I lose another ~10 pounds, I’m going to get some better pics of me taken and get back on OLD apps.
/r/seduction06/08/21 09:21 AM
0

False. Lol
/r/seduction05/08/21 06:44 PM
2

It’s really only effective when a woman is attracted to you. You can neg her then. Until then, I’ve found it’s best to keep things joking and playful. I like using sarcasm and making sarcastic comments about her. That way she won’t get butthurt as easily.
/r/seduction05/08/21 11:29 AM
3

Awesome advice. Baby steps. Then from there, take a little bit larger steps once you’re comfortable.
/r/seduction05/08/21 11:23 AM
3

Sounds like she just isn’t in to you. It’s all good. Go approach another woman.
/r/seduction03/08/21 11:36 AM
1

Do you have any examples of outfits you’ve had success with?
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:44 PM
10

From personal experience, I’ve found the most attractive women are not using OLD apps — they’re going about their lives hoping/waiting to meet a man organically. I’m of the opinion that OLD is a waste of time for men, unless you have incredibly good pics and are above average in looks.
/r/seduction02/08/21 04:19 PM
1

Absolutely true.
/r/seduction02/08/21 02:22 PM
6

Yes, it’s very easy for the guy to slip into complacency (and even become soft and fat) once they’re in a relationship. I’ve seen it dozens and dozens of times with dudes I know.
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:05 PM
3

All of that is extremely interesting to think about.
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:16 AM
3

I don’t doubt that advancements in technology will one day allow people to live longer. But will I still look old at 70 lol? Imagine then what a 125-year-old person would look like hahaha.
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:50 PM
3

Lmao.
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:30 PM
2

Wow, I definitely needed to hear this. I’m 31 and I’m having to start from literal ground zero due to moving to a new city just prior to the pandemic.
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:29 PM
7

How did you go about making friends and were did you meet these women?
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:28 PM
4

Any recommendations/helpful sources for voice tonality training?
/r/seduction30/07/21 09:45 PM
1

12 — 31-year-old.
/r/seduction30/07/21 02:06 PM
1

All of that stuff varies and there is no “standard method to having sex.” From personal experience, some girls like certain positions more than others and prefer it harder or gentler. Everything is dependent upon the individual.
/r/seduction30/07/21 02:02 PM
0

You’d want to try and get her back to your place or some other location where you two can have sex. She’ll know what’s up. Also, escalate.
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:59 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:02 PM
1

So why not get some “practice” and sleep with these drunk and slutty girls who are apparently interested? Serious.
/r/seduction30/07/21 12:17 AM
1

Yeah, I’d prefer living outside of the city. But I procrastinate due to my job being here and enjoying the nightlife/living in an area with tons of attractive single women.
/r/seduction29/07/21 04:08 PM
2

Oh, more lockdowns are absolutely coming. I also think they’ll last longer and be a lot more strict than the 2020 ones.
/r/seduction29/07/21 03:41 PM
1

I understand your point, but there were exactly zero gyms (regardless of what type of gym) allowed to remain open, since the governor of my state is a disgusting coward and a cuck.
/r/seduction29/07/21 03:36 PM
2

You’re lucky then, because my gym was shutdown for almost eight months as was everything else. There was literally nothing social to do here and nobody left their home.
/r/seduction29/07/21 03:18 PM
5

Yes, but that’s why you need to know how to do reverse kegels to help prevent the involuntary pelvic floor contractions.
/r/seduction29/07/21 03:12 PM
1

When everything was shut down and all I did was work from home/be stuck at home 24/7?
/r/seduction29/07/21 03:11 PM
1

Try supplementing with zinc and magnesium.
/r/seduction29/07/21 12:13 PM
1

Why not do them? Reverse kegels and regular keeps help balance out and strength a weak pelvic floor. Right?
/r/seduction29/07/21 12:11 PM
2

Next time you’re in bed with her look into her eyes, then down at her lips for a few seconds, and then back into her eyes. Do this for a few seconds longer and when she looks at your lips, immediately lean in and kiss her. Also, get out of your head, take deep breaths, and make yourself grounded. Focus on your breathing and just stay relaxed and in the moment.
/r/seduction29/07/21 01:45 AM
4

Ok but we’re both back on square one. Social skills and even “game” in general are use it or lose it skills. Don’t forget that.
/r/seduction29/07/21 12:51 AM
7

Good advice. Also, it’s important to state how truly becoming buddies takes several different conversations, over several different days, across several different weeks. Very rarely will anyone become instant friends with someone else. So, know that and definitely take the baby steps approach — otherwise you will come off as needy.
/r/seduction29/07/21 12:24 AM
7

Yeah, I feel you. The pandemic left me feeling like an utter social retard, and now I’m literally having to start from the ground up. We’ll make it, bro!
/r/seduction29/07/21 12:20 AM
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Do you get choosing signals ever?
/r/seduction29/07/21 12:17 AM
4

I (31, 5’11”) started doing really well after college, but then COVID hit and now I’m socially retarded.
/r/seduction29/07/21 12:10 AM
0

Which type of girls are you approaching? That could be another factor.
/r/seduction29/07/21 12:10 AM
12

Yeah, just do what you like, not what you think girls like, and women will be attracted to that.
/r/seduction28/07/21 12:31 PM
29

Have interesting hobbies and do fun things.
/r/seduction28/07/21 12:19 PM
1

What if one of these women becomes your wife and the only way that occurred was through day game?
/r/seduction28/07/21 10:31 AM
2

Yeah, it’s best to always be tactful when you say these types of things.
/r/seduction28/07/21 12:53 AM
6

I hear the grocery store example a lot, and I’ve definitely seen beautiful women there, but I’ve never in my life seen anyone approach them. Idk if it’s simply due to where I live, but it seems like literally everyone is anti-social in the grocery sores here.
/r/seduction27/07/21 05:52 PM
9

Thanks for your responses. I’m a 31-year-old and the pandemic severally messed me up — to the point where I’m literally having to relearn some stuff and start from complete scratch. I will definitely take your advice and apply it to my own personal life. Thanks again.
/r/seduction27/07/21 05:43 PM
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What were some of the initial steps you took before you started dating 4 years ago?
/r/seduction27/07/21 03:29 PM
0

If any women comes off as unwilling to meet up for a fucking coffee or a drink, she’s 100% garbage and is only wasting time. No serious woman — especially one who’s LTR material — would be that way.
/r/seduction27/07/21 02:00 PM
7

For this very reason, I always meetup for a drink or coffee since it requires no more than an hour of your time. What I’ve done in the past is talk and drink the beverage and when I was finished simply say something along the lines of “Thanks for coming out/meeting up with me. I have to be honest, I don’t really feel a connection. I wish you the best.”
/r/seduction27/07/21 12:50 PM
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No.
/r/seduction27/07/21 12:10 PM
3

I mean, I have hooked up with a girl from the gym. It’s doable, but I’d rather just focus on my workout. By all means, shoot your shot if you’re getting choosing signals, though.
/r/seduction26/07/21 03:05 PM
2

I hold the belief that it’s best to not shit where you eat. The only exception would be if one was still in college, trying to get with girls from your classes would be fine and encouraged.
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:42 PM
5

Height isn’t the only thing that matters lol. What if the 6’2” dude is a total awkward goober? What if his personality is shit? What if he can’t even make eye contact with women?
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:32 PM
0

I’m only 5’11” and the amount of women who’ve grabbed my arms and touched my chest in bars tells me that being over 6” is overrated.
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:26 PM
3

Not true at all, bro. Most women are shorter than 5’8” anyway.
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:20 PM
1

What if the 7” only lasts 30 seconds and the 4-5” can last 30 minutes?
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:20 PM
1

Go after girls <5’8”?
/r/seduction26/07/21 11:54 AM
3

Yeah, well dating apps didn’t exist back then either, but now they do.
/r/seduction26/07/21 11:10 AM
3

Good on you to shoot your shot, man. Every time you do is practice and serves and betterment and self-improvement. Keep it up!
/r/seduction26/07/21 11:08 AM
1

Women in their prime just want to have fun. But no, it 100% depends on the man.
/r/seduction26/07/21 10:54 AM
10

You still have to put yourself out there to meet women and cold approaching helps.
/r/seduction26/07/21 03:49 AM
2

I agree about the “I have my ways…” but other than that, you didn’t really blow it. Even if you did, that’s okay because you’ll watch with someone else. It’s a numbers game anyway.
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:28 AM
5

This. Good advice.
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:38 AM
1

Not sure why you can’t wear all of the outfits, depending on what you’re doing/where you’re going?
/r/seduction25/07/21 05:05 PM
3

I’m not at all sure, bro. I’ve been on Bumble twice and each time the matches I had were very good. I would hypothesize that because the app requires the woman to message first, it therefore attracts higher quality women who are more serious about “finding someone.”
/r/seduction25/07/21 12:28 AM
6

Yeah, Bumble by far is my go-to app. I’ve never tried Hinge. Tinder is complete shit now and has objectively much lower quality of women than Bumble.
/r/seduction24/07/21 07:18 PM
1

Which dating apps did you have the most success with?
/r/seduction24/07/21 06:17 PM
22

It’s okay to help her out but DO NOT allow her not to pay you.
/r/seduction24/07/21 01:28 PM
3

Yeah they suck. Tinder is by far the absolute worst of them all. Bumble definitely has higher quality women, but I would always be met with zero responses after their initial response, assuming they ever messaged me to begin with.
/r/seduction23/07/21 01:26 AM
12

I agree. This is the one rule I’ve had contrary experience with irl. Every girl I’ve had sex with on the first date were some of the most loyal gf’s I’ve ever had.
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:54 PM
2

I have met a girl at the gym before who I did end up having sex with and dated for a few months one summer. But other than that, I’m of the idea that it’s best to “not shit where you eat” and I have that approach at work, too.
/r/seduction19/07/21 09:01 PM
501

Delete her number and find someone who’s interested in actually meeting you.
/r/seduction19/07/21 12:46 PM
2

Sorry, man. That sounds extremely uncomfortable.
/r/seduction17/07/21 03:04 PM
2

What did you do/say to segue into having sex in these places. I need advice lol
/r/seduction17/07/21 12:57 PM
0

What type of escalation did you do with her?
/r/seduction17/07/21 01:48 AM
3

Sure. No problem. What is it?
/r/seduction16/07/21 10:46 PM
3

Yeah, same. But after I got some really good pics of me taken (close up of face smiling, doing something fun, doing hobby, etc.) I got lots of quality matches.
/r/seduction16/07/21 07:52 PM
2

It’s all about pics. I’d seriously just pay someone $150 to get a few solid shots of you in nice clothes. Trust me, it’ll pay off tremendously.
/r/seduction16/07/21 07:44 PM
3

All of the FWBs I’ve had really just occurred naturally. Most were met through dating apps and we kinda just both agreed that we were only looking for something casual… then things kinda just happened.
/r/seduction16/07/21 07:43 PM
2

Exactly, man. It’s entirely mental. But for some, overcoming the initial hurdle can be quite the challenge and I truly feel for them.
/r/seduction16/07/21 07:05 PM
49

Text her tomorrow late afternoon.
/r/seduction16/07/21 09:44 AM
19

It was likely a mix of nerves and PIED, bro. It’s happened to me before as well.
/r/seduction15/07/21 12:01 PM
5

Late 20s and early 30s have jobs unlike you bro. Not trying to neg you. But it’s the truth. They’re established and have put in more work to improve themselves.
/r/seduction06/07/21 08:25 PM
5

You think it’s “trolling” to state the obvious fact that a lot of women prefer older men? 24 is young af bro — basically a little baby. No, I’m Hispanic.
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:36 PM
5

So attraction is sociological as opposed to biological? Hmmm🤔
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:17 PM
6

OLD sucks even for attractive men. Also, a lot of the baddies online are going for more established, older men than you.
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:11 PM
8

Yeah, you can still go out to bars solo and meet people. (Guy friends, too, even.)
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:09 PM
3

Porn is terrible and zaps the motivation and drive from the majority of men who are enslaved to it.
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:01 PM
1

Agreed and good points.
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:01 PM
1

What sort of places do you go to by yourself, bars and clubs or where exactly? Thanks.
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:00 PM
3

Real life is so much better. Fuck the apps. You can show your wittiness and personality so much easier in real life.
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:58 PM
8

You couldn’t possibly fathom what it’s like to have an above average sex drive as a man with above average testosterone levels.
/r/seduction06/07/21 12:10 PM
15

All I did was get ripped and throw myself out there Into OLD or going out IRL? Also, while I agree with the overall point of this post, it’s another issue of having a great life and whatnot but constantly are thinking about sex because you aren’t able to have your needs met for whatever reason. I’ve been on both sides of the spectrum and being able to have access to sex is a much better scenario to be in.
/r/seduction06/07/21 12:09 PM
1

We weren’t doing the same thing for 8 hours, though — we ended up going to five different places.
/r/seduction05/07/21 10:01 PM
44

Mind sharing how you found this group of friends?
/r/seduction05/07/21 06:26 PM
2

You’re right. I was. I texted her stating how I had a good time and we should do it again soon and she responded with “Yeah I had fun!”
/r/seduction04/07/21 09:12 PM
2

We split a lot of things.
/r/seduction04/07/21 09:11 PM
17

I’ve been contemplating joining a boxing gym and you’ve kinda helped motivate me to actually go through with it and stop pussying out.
/r/seduction30/06/21 08:45 PM
1

It’s not a lot of money anymore due to inflation. But, no, most of the people (like 97%) in the U.S. don’t have a million dollars.
/r/seduction29/06/21 07:38 PM
1

Yes, I value male friendships and I also enjoy having a social life. But is it possible to effectively make friends and meet women at the same time?
/r/seduction29/06/21 07:36 PM
1

Are they being told these things by women they’re approaching in bars or where?
/r/seduction29/06/21 07:18 PM
1

Where are they approaching?
/r/seduction29/06/21 07:13 PM
5

Yes, you need to see a therapist/counselor who will help you. I wish the best.
/r/seduction29/06/21 06:35 PM
1

No, that’s false.
/r/seduction29/06/21 06:06 PM
3

Yes, on multiple occasions. But I had met them alone at bars. So after a couple of drinks I simply said something along the lines of “hey, let’s go back to my place and watch funny prank compilations on YouTube” and we went back and smashed.
/r/seduction29/06/21 03:58 PM
1

It’s literally more money than 99.999% of the population of Earth makes per year. But, hey, it’s not “bad.”
/r/seduction29/06/21 03:30 PM
1

“Isn’t bad” lmao. That’s the most first world thing I’ve ever heard in my entire life.
/r/seduction29/06/21 03:29 PM
1

A 6 or 7 with an amazing personality becomes a 9.5 in my book.
/r/seduction29/06/21 03:25 PM
1

So you’ve had more luck on Tinder versus Bumble? That’s interesting — I may need to delete Bumble and download Tinder then.
/r/seduction29/06/21 01:00 PM
1

Ok, glad I saw this post. Seriously. I just hopped on Bumble for the first time since 2019 (created a new account with recent pics of me). I’ve only been on the app since Saturday night, and I’ve matched with 11 girls so far and all are attractive, but the conversations seem to go nowhere. I’ve kept all of the conversations non-serious and lighthearted, and things just seem to fizzle out. I’ve had one girl straight up ghost me. What does it take to simply match with a normal girl and go out on a…
/r/seduction29/06/21 12:45 PM
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