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Oh my god as a guy who’s been a stepdad before this is especially infuriating. She should be thrown in jail for false allegations for something so evil
/r/MGTOW11/07/18 02:54 AM
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Southern Indiana is not
/r/MGTOW09/07/18 02:28 PM
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I bet you don’t
/r/askTRP14/06/18 10:22 PM
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You aren’t glad of anything
/r/askTRP14/06/18 09:48 PM
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It was a great analogy. Don’t ever forget what he said. It bears repeating.
/r/askMRP08/02/18 11:15 AM
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This thread got taken down, but in your situation you felt like it was outside of your control? You understand all these red pill concepts I assume. I got her to where it’s basically just one shit. No more than two in a month, but the big problem is that it’s so many days that she’s just not fun to be around that we have to schedule around it. I was banking that if I remained solid and in control that she would find peace. I never allowed anyone on my bank account and we don’t share assets. The …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/18 01:18 AM
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Thanks a lot. The Way of Superior Man... got it. Yeah that 2 women thing did make sense I feel like im 3 months into trying to recondition my wife of 6+ years into knowing that i'm the "captain". I'm definitely not bored or unhappy with whats ahead of me, but this subreddit really has made so much of a difference on my life
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 06:18 PM
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thats fine. Like i told my wife. I take full responsibility for everything thats happened thus far and into the future. I'm 3 months into trying to fix patterning between her and i that started 6+ years ago. I can tell she looks at me differently already. She's been asking me questions and trying to figure out whats up. In the past month she only shit tested me the one time going into her period and i failed it but corrected quick enough that this whole month has been a breeze. My faith lies tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 06:12 PM
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I left one of the nice girls. The other one left me for good reason. Isn't it all possible for a woman to have a hormone problem. How have i not seen this in a woman until in my 30's. My wife's doctor said she needed to be on medication for it because her testosterone and estrogen were way off. She won't take the medication. She thinks she'll get cancer or something.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 06:00 PM
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I was raised by a woman. I've read some of it. I got to get to the gym before work. Is their a simple breakdown? I always feel accountable and i take all the responsibility especially when she fucks up. I know it's my fault that i was a shitty bitch husband for at least everything but the last 3-4 months. She is actually quite confused with me lately, cause she's not used to me stfu and not taking her shit tests seriously. I did everything wrong for a long time. I'm trying to correct the ship th…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 05:51 PM
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I see you like to teach Boot Camp style. Fine Yeah I need to be more accountable for my actions. I just felt like it worked both ways. If you prefer to speak in mom and dad terms. Mom sometimes tells the boy to lock it up (although in a less direct way) and then Dad sometimes tells the daughter to lock it up. I’m not Jesus over here being perfect 24/7. Are you saying you’ve got your shit together constantly? I’m good for about 95% of the time but 5% I’ll fuck up Pretty sure my post was deleted. …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 05:31 PM
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It was my second post ever on Reddit. I’ve learned to be more concise for next time and to the point.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 04:57 PM
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Why would I look for unicorns and why would you shit on another man... isn’t that for the women to do? It’s all good. I got some good advice on here. I see your name on here a lot. It’s good to see how you act personally, douche
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 04:54 PM
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Thank you for that thoughtful reply. That is actually the most useful advice I have received today. I’m going to do just that. You sound like you have experience on your side.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 04:51 PM
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Yes of course I fucked up in the past. Do you have anything at all to say about my post? My post was about how there are super nice girls out there that don’t hold their man accountable and that’s worse imo than girls that can be a bitch if you lose frame Anything to say about that?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 04:15 PM
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Like the post said, that’s why I’m going to school
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 04:11 PM
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Damn I hope you handle your wife better than you do me :) I’ve actually already worked 37 hours this week. 13 on Sunday, 10 on Monday. And 14 yesterday. I’m going to chill and till 2 o’clock and flirt with your feisty ass, till I have to go back to work I understood your point completely, but you are talking about somebody else. Yeah I’m sure you just came to red pill because you knew what you were doing from the start I like you
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 04:05 PM
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So you are directly saying you come here for validation in your life. No I was trying to share positive perspective on a situation and you won’t see it any other way. I honestly don’t give a fuck other than usually my interactions with males are pretty awesome and so I was just talking. I woke up in a good mood and I’m still in a good mood. But this is weird as fuck as if I have 10 to 20 guys projecting on me all at once. I guess men are bitches too!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 04:01 PM
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My point was that nice girls are worse than bitches. It’s nothing I’m trying to get out of. My exes never held me responsible for my actions. I never had to come to this sub Reddit or even learn what frame was with them. It was kind of interesting posting for the first time. Most everyone here did what my wife does on her period: didn’t listen to the point I was trying to make and instead look for discrepancies in a loosely worded statement. Not you personally necessarily , but there’s nothing i…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 03:55 PM
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My point was in the post and I highlighted it. It’s not that she is a bitch, cause she isn’t unless I lose frame which isn’t often. I’m not hiding from her. When she is acting goofy I don’t want to be around her The point was trying to recognize something that we take for granted. The thing that brought us here is complicated women. I was saying that in my personal experience all my ex’s were super easy to get along with and it wasn’t good for me personally. They didn’t know how to be a bitch ev…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 03:44 PM
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I was trying to say that my three other long-term relationships didn’t make me any better, and I walked all over them. Even if I lost frame with them I wouldn’t even know it. My point was having a woman that can be a bitch isn’t worse than having one that can’t be. We see these red flags in women and are like gtfo, But to me this is the most successful and happy I’ve ever been. My wife’s ability to be a bitch isn’t affecting me in a negative way anymore, but my ex-girlfriend’s inability to be a …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 03:08 PM
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She gives me bitchiness if I lose frame. I just don’t get the sex that I used to get in past relationships. I get distance. I’ve just gotten so much more done though lately that I was thinking maybe the distance is good. If that’s the hamster running then it is what it is. I’m just in a really good place in life right now I just never received bitchiness in the past and I think I ran girls over because of it. Knowing that a woman can go bitchy if you lose frame kinda seems better than one that d…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 02:53 PM
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Yeah I’m pretty certain there is medicine for it. I’m not being a doormat to bitchiness, I’m just not getting any sort of sex in the way that I would want during that time. It has to be hormone related but, I just can’t see it being grounds for divorce. I was trying to slip in a fresh perspective a.k.a. hamster running perhaps, that the distance she wants gives me a break from the tediousness of a long-term relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 02:47 PM
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she doesn't continue being a bitch, shes just distant and doesn't want sex. i can't grab her by the hips from behind like i can the rest of the month. maybe my hamster is running but that distance feels good to me. if she were bitch bitch bitching yeah i get it. this is like my first real reddit post so i was loose with my wording. in the past she would bitch but thats cause i didn't know anything about frame and stuff
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 02:37 PM
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i worded it incorrectly. in no way am i walking on eggshells. its just that the sex isn't there during that time. she's distant. she's not continuing to be bitchy, but she doesn't want me grabbing her by the waist and turning her around like i can the rest of the month. maybe that is a lack of abundance mentality. i just meant that i took the other women for granted.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 02:33 PM
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don't you think its possible that i know that i created this? of course i did. i didn't stfu in the past. i'd never dealt with a woman like this before and my dad sure as hell didn't teach me. i appreciate the tough love man. keep in mind i'm only 3-4 months in. i agree i've been a faggot, but i'm not continuing on that road. she's not a "bitch" bitch during the 1.5 weeks but you aren't gonna get to fuck her like you think you are mr alpha sir. Not all women are a carbon copy of each other. Most…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 02:21 PM
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she and i get along basically like friends during the bitch period. if i were to try and play with her though sexually or anything it would not go the way i want it too. i just use the time to do my own stuff. If she were actually being a bitch then that would mean i wasn't holding frame and what not. the bitchiness doesn't continue cause she hits a wall with me
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 02:14 PM
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Like i said to the other guy. The bitchiness hits if i don't stop that first initial shit test, which it still catches me off guard. But after that i'm solid and we are respectful to each other. I'm certainly not hiding and she and i get along, BUT for sure if i start trying to get close (cause she ain't coming to me) then bitchiness would be 100 percent. She doesn't continue to be a bitch, cause i'm in frame, but in the past it was full on bitch cause i didn't know what to do. Now its just that…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 02:03 PM
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well i definitely still haven't mastered the initial shit test that starts it out. what i have done is afterwords maintain frame, which actually keeps her from getting any fights going again. I suppose i didn't word that correctly about the bitchiness. The bitchiness refers to what has happened in the past when i would keep trying to engage with her and she would be a total bitch. Its been respectful and we communicate well during the 1.5 weeks now, BUT it's true that if i tried to do relationsh…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 01:56 PM
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Well i appreciate you telling me what to do, but i'm not really with her 1.5 weeks a month. I'm either at work, with friends and family, or in a coffee shop to study. Do you see what i am saying at all. I'm saying i get a break from her. I get an initial shit test to let me know her period is starting and then i get to go rogue. The shit tests really don't even persist after the first one if i stay in frame, its just that there is a distance between us.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 01:44 PM
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I couldn’t make it through your whole post either, but if I may vent myself. I completely related to how you feel about the sex issue. Can we even have getting more sex to be a goal? It’s so reliant on the other person. We can’t force ourselves on them. If we act like we want it to much some will see that as needy. Where I currently am is that I am trying to live with outcome independence. It’s pretty natural for me to be able to ignore my wife which is the only thing that can make her be the on…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/18 08:15 PM
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You sound insane!
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/18 11:39 PM
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I’ve only been on RP marriage about 3 months. Im actually impressed with the results it’s given me so far. As you can guess it’s making me own my shit. I really think if I do what I need to do then I can be one of the success stories on here. My wife is really responding well, but she still catches me off guard whenever her period is starting. I don’t even care about her being bitchy during the period cause I just do my own fun stuff, but she needs to see that there are certain things she can’t …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/18 04:48 PM
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Isn’t the moon the only tracker we need? I don’t think this is a coincidence you are writing this during a full moon
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/18 04:03 PM
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Problem is my hippy dippy wife doesn’t believe in taking medicine. The lease runs out in November. I explained to her that her periods don’t really affect me, but if she continues to say some of the classless shit she says then I’m leaving.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/18 04:02 PM
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What happened to the ex? I feel like you are describing my wife to a T. I’ve been in about 4 long term relationships all together and I don’t think some guys on here know how bad some women can act. 3 of the girls were a walk in the park, but the girl I’m with now I give two names. One name for the good 2 weeks and another name for the evil 2 weeks
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/18 03:38 PM
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You really explained it well. I’ve been married for 5 years and what I would tell anyone is just to think of it as “boy vs man”. Nothing wrong with being a boy and having fun and seeking an easy life, but if that’s who you are then don’t get in a LTR because you’ll only disappoint the girl as well as yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 03:11 PM
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Im married and it never makes sense to get married if you ask me. Before you even date a woman... you have to know exactly who you are and what you want and be able to calmly stand up for yourself at all times or a woman will wear you down to nothing. I’m not disgusted by my wife because I have just come to see her as someone from a completely different planet. A vicious planet with very few rules!
/r/MGTOW29/12/17 08:26 PM
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You can leave. I might have to do that
/r/MGTOW29/12/17 07:46 PM
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I’d say he needs to do more and read less. He’s obviously lazy but realizing it. Lifting weights is cool (I’ve been doing it for over 15 years) but some of the best dudes I’ve ever met didn’t need to lift anything
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/17 02:18 PM
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