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| 1 | She pulled away after sex on first dateNever message repeatedly within same day let alone same week until you guys are in a committed relationship. Always give her reassurance that you aren’t here for a short run & that you really vibe with her before and after, sometimes they drop the “anti-slut defenses” once they open up and start letting loose but afterwards feel terrible. Do plenty of cuddling & tell her and reaffirm her that you want to take her seriously. No girl wants to feel used or played, be happy/ laughing continue talkin… | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Someone hitting on your girlBeta | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 04:57 AM |
| -3 | Building report with a girl who gave me her numberDont ever double text unless she does, comes off as needy/ thirsty. Also try not to use too many hahas’ lol’s lmaos etc etc …. Girls are not your bros, they dont laugh every 5 seconds, keep it cool | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 11:19 AM |
| 4 | I can’t take it anymoreStop jerking off Block those sites from web browser Make conversation with real women, start with talking them. Work your way to their place or clean up and have them come over. After small talk, let your hands do the talking, then kissing, then close. One step at a time, I used to be anxious aswell, after one solid slay & many more attemps … anxiousness went away completely. Much more sanitary that what youre currently doing, its free & you deserve better king. Im also going to reccomend a book… | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 10:32 AM |
| 1 | 20yo virgin, turning 21 in two weeks. Trying to lose my virginity before turning 21. How would I go about this?Get it | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 11:57 PM |
| 6 | 20yo virgin, turning 21 in two weeks. Trying to lose my virginity before turning 21. How would I go about this?Simple guide —- 2024 edition Download tinder/ bumble/ hinge — create a profile - sign up for the gold/ premium versions — they often will charge 20-30$ to give you 10x more exposure so just do it if you’re in a rush, Its worth it. Post the best pictures you possibly have of yourself, if you only have bad quality then take new ones. Pro tip- Put something playful in bio “do you like the beach? Or “do you like hiking?” Gets them to often message you first & ask about it your question or answer it … | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Everything starts well and they just ghost meGirls only go on those apps to sleep around, get with the picture. If you meet her organically you have 10x higher the chance to maintain her longer term | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Texting after first date after having sex?If you think instantly jumping on text the next morning is going to help you, you have zero experience | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 10:37 PM |
| -6 | Texting after first date after having sex?Don’t ever text them the very next day, comes off as desperate/ thirsty. I often will text them a week later or they will message me beforehand | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 09:58 PM |
| 6 | Best country for a 10 day tripRio is fine, just wear shorts/ sandals & old tshirts … nothing flashing & carry nothing more expesnive than an iphone with you. Also pro tip, exchange dollars for brazilian real before you go try carrying “dollars” anywhere …. Either one of those make you a walking target….. most hotels have staff that speak minimal english | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 03:27 AM |
| 1 | I am a 28yo man going to an Anime convention. What’s your advice for approaching/flirting with women?Honestly this universally applies…. Be in shape & don’t be weird … ask her if shell give you her number & if not just thank her & walk away | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 07:09 AM |
| 3 | Help!!! Hooked up with a ClassmateDude, chill…. Its not that serious … you’re human, not a robot without emotion or feeling. Friendly nod hello or smile in class (super casual) - work hard in class & then play hard later & setup a date or weekend fling with her again after work is done… is it really that complicated? | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Is pulling hot girls at an older age something to be happy/excited about it?Sex at any age is an accomplishment… it’s more impressive though post 40’s 18-30 is when men tend to get the most action | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 11:08 PM |
| -1 | She Had A Good Time But Not Feeling Second Date AgainYou’re overly conveying that you think they’re attractive. Also if your body isn’t on point fix that first. Gyms are 10-20$/month, do it every morning or every night for an hour & kill it. No excuses, talk a little bit less on dates, ask open ended questions, let them do the talking & be more of a listener, don’t call them cute or pretty during the entire date, don’t text her the next day … if anything a week later to setup another date, when you do it this way…..she continually thinks in her he… | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 07:13 PM |
| 1 | She replies only once a day, what to do now?Great practice for what not to do, one message a day is what my main girl gets. A random would be lucky to get one text a week from me. You build rapport on dates not by texting only wimps do that. Start talking to local girls, get in shape & get your money right. | /r/seduction | 17/02/24 11:59 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys get your nudes?Not directly afterward but maybe later within a week, your idea should not be to force her to send pics but to get her comfortable sending pics to you in general Then slowly work the dirty talk in to get her steaming.. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 09:40 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys get your nudes?You’re doing rookie numbers, The trick is to pipe her down first & then send her a pic of yourself, she will reciprocate … works best if you’re in shape & send a spicy ab shot or something similar | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Is 24 too late to change?You can’t spell learning & Lessons without a couple of L’s. Start now before it really is too late | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 07:36 AM |
| 3 | When you talk about sex over text with a girlUnless you’re Brad Pitt or Chris brown…. Likely bringing up sex over text before you’ve closed the deal already will get you blocked. It screams of thirsty | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Can an average man have chances with a higher-status woman?What are you bringing to the table? Are you ripped 6 pack, better looking than the dudes in her circle? That’s one of ….if not the only way it would work | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Tips for texting a tinder date?If you show them a great time & they let you know that - great. If you text back right after the date saying it was great comes off as needy. Don’t listen to what women say, they say & want 2 different things. Example- they all say they want a nice guy, they all end up with the douchebag dude who lifts or a guy on a motorcycle you could tell doesn’t take her serious.. | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Tips for texting a tinder date?Don’t ever text them first after a date, if she didn’t have a good enough time to text you first then move on I don’t usually kiss on first date or show too much interest, keeps them guessing if you like them & keeps them in the loop. Date 2 everything is on the table 🤝 | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 09:11 AM |
| 5 | Advice for hookups during Spring BreakWalk down the street anywhere & when you see an attractive girl whether solo or with a group stop her & say “ hey excuse me, I just had to stop & say hello… I’m on the run with my friends but I like your style, I’m in town for the weekend let’s do something later!” | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 08:30 AM |
| 1 | How to get her to invest in me?Men do 99% of the Investing up front, we trickle our way into it becoming 50/50 after 5-10 dates/ meetups & eventually you can continue making her come up on her end but lowering your total investment. Be confident but not unreasonable, be kind but be firm, play the waiting game but don’t wait too long. Two serious tips…. 1. Women invest in guys they like, if she doesn’t find you physically attractive or fall in love with your personality (takes a lot longer) then you’re already shooting yoursel… | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 11:56 PM |
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