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Well you see, I don't think or react to things the way normal people do. I have always assumed that people think like I do (not being a mind reader I had no other frame of reference) but I am able to have both logic and emotion working at the same time. I have been that way since I was a child. I was diagnosed as what they called "hypersensitivity" back then. My doctors theorize that this is what made me a target to all of the abusers in my past. I am not able to see the bad in most people. I on…
/r/MensRights22/09/16 01:13 AM
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You have a good point here. I do try to defend prominent members of the MRM when I really should just be letting my words and actions speak for themselves. I used to be really good at debate but I have to admit that since my life was destroyed and I was forced to rebuild myself I may have become a bit too defensive. I already realized that my future is more likely in videos on Youtube and not twitter battles as I do have a thin skin due to my disorders. I am someone with too much empathy. I can …
/r/MensRights22/09/16 12:43 AM
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Plus she seems to not know that suffrage was a man lead movement, bringing voting rights to the majority of men who couldn't vote either, the "suffragettes" are the ones she is thinking of. The same suffragettes that used arson, vandalism, and bombings to make their point. The ones who pinned white feathers on the chests of boys and young men to shame them into fighting and, most often, dying in wars they were too young to enter. Feminism's noble beginnings.
/r/MensRights21/09/16 06:30 AM
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That is a perfect analogy. I may have to steal it. If you don't mind. :)
/r/MensRights21/09/16 06:20 AM
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You strongly feel this way, I can see that. That isn't going to change what I see. You act nothing like him. I have seen every video you have put out, watched every speech that ended up on youtube and listened to every broadcast of HBR. I am not as new to this as you assume. I don't appreciate the assumption that I look at Elam differently than I do you because of gender. That could not be more false. You may feel you are more extreme in your views but you have said nothing that I can find like …
/r/MensRights21/09/16 01:08 AM
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Well maybe "hating women" is the wrong language for me to use. I am just really good at putting myself in other people's shoes. When I picture myself as a feminist like I used to be, misogynist is definitely the first word that I would think of as this theoretical feminist. I have to agree that the language he used in talking about high risk behaviors of these women and how he believes they are "begging" to be raped is wrong. The feminists have picked up what he said and they are now applying it…
/r/MensRights20/09/16 07:16 AM
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My "argument" is showing alarm at how Paul's behavior has been and continues to be bad for the MRM. This is how I feel and as an MRA I have the right to speak of my concerns. Especially when I have to defend his, let's say "controversial" comments when debating feminists. I don't like to lie and I argue with civility whenever possible no matter who my opponent is. We are not all good and the feminists are not all bad. Your anger doesn't help you make your point, it only exposes your lack of unde…
/r/MensRights20/09/16 07:02 AM
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I don't know about clever. My mom always said I was special though, that's why I get my own bus and this nifty helmet. :D
/r/MensRights19/09/16 06:05 AM
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I saw in the comments of the article that a woman was saying that it is at good to see that false accusers get the same treatment as rapists. lol. IS there such thing as misdemeanor rape? Good she is being punished but it is a crime that it is only a misdemeanor.
/r/MensRights19/09/16 04:31 AM
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Thank you. That's true, I doubt anyone really thought of the risk of women using this system against men. I think everyone just wanted the violence against women to stop. I still do. I have a female family member who went through an abusive relationship for over a decade and when she tried to get help she came to me. We worked with the system and I thought, "well this should be easy, the system is stacked against men so he should get punished for what he did." Well things didn't turn out that wa…
/r/MensRights19/09/16 04:18 AM
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After reading the rest of the Rational Wiki entry I see it is actually quite biased so I take that link back. It did, however, link to this https://archive.is/eIlgf which is one of the articles I was talking about where even MRAs disagreed with it but he doubled down. Not trying to further an argument, just supplying the links you asked for. :)
/r/MensRights19/09/16 01:41 AM
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He definitely hates "most women" according to his own videos on An Ear For Men https://youtu.be/RQGAsVT4TrM Bitch ditch? 3:10 in the video. That took me five minutes to find. I don't follow him and I don't have time to weed through all of his videos but that was really easy to find. Here is a section all about him in Rational wiki: http://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Paul_Elam I know you know Paul, Karen. I trust your judgement so if you tell me he doesn't hate women I believe you. I am just talking ab…
/r/MensRights19/09/16 01:07 AM
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I can't argue when you put it that way. I just really found Paul's statements to be misogynistic (I really hate using that word, lol) and I am afraid that it will legitimize the claims they have always made. Paul is someone I always looked up to for all the work he has done and I am even more worried it will de-legitimize HIS work as well. I guess this might fall under free speech and I am in favour of free speech. I have noticed that the feminists are using him as a way of dismissing the rest o…
/r/MensRights18/09/16 11:48 PM
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True. But we have to keep trying to make them see the truth. To show people that men should not be put beneath women like we always have been. I know it is frustrating but we have to keep trying. :)
/r/MensRights18/09/16 11:39 PM
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Yep. It would force them to give up on the Duluth model and that already makes them soooo much money.
/r/MensRights18/09/16 11:38 PM
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I find it is one of the most common questions I get. I also get the whole, "well if a woman ever hit me, I would just hit her back!" bullshit. The fear of going to jail for her assault was what kept me from getting help. For good reason. I am 6'3 and back then I was a strong tradesman. No one believed me when I tried to get help and the treat of arrest was used to keep me in line. There was also a lot of emotional abuse and people underestimate how powerful a woman can be when she uses the syste…
/r/MensRights18/09/16 11:37 PM
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What, do you think I am not angry? I have plenty of reasons to be angry, that is why I became an MRA. Being angry and acting angry are two different things. I have shown this video to a friend of mine who is very open minded and she says if not for the things I have shown her about the MRA, Paul's comments would have completely turned her away. This is the problem. I am not afraid of offending a feminist, they are too far gone anyway, I am afraid of offending the majority of people who are not o…
/r/MensRights18/09/16 10:55 PM
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I see what you're saying, I really do, but after some time on Twitter and Youtube I have to say that there isn't an MX out there, there are perhaps thousands of them. We have no defined leadership so, like it or not, we are judged by the actions of the individuals in the MRM. This is why MRAs are so easily dismissed and we are only making it easier for the feminists to do so. I am not, and never have, said that we can't be colourful in our language or to stand up for our beliefs but outright hat…
/r/MensRights18/09/16 05:19 PM
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Tone-policing? Really? So being a decent human being is tone-policing now. Wow. The internet is full of new terms that people can use as excuses to act like jerks. Nice. It just so happens that tone is a key element of debate. Debate and getting pissy and having a temper tantrum are two different things. The fact that so many people who think they are MRAs can't tell the difference is really disheartening to me, as someone who wants to see real change for men's rights.
/r/MensRights18/09/16 04:23 AM
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Karen, with all due respect as you are the person who I followed into this movement, I have been watching his videos for awhile now and this seems to have been the trend long before he attended the conference in London. He may have started with good intentions but he is making the MRM look terrible right now. The CAFE movement here in Canada is doing much better than AVFM currently is as they do not try such angry tactics. We can't win people over with hatred and rage, no matter what the reason …
/r/MensRights17/09/16 07:42 AM
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Well aren't you an angry sounding guy. Congrats. Being angry is fucking simple, a complete moron could do it. Try being diplomatic, convincing, having good, solid arguments. Much harder. You realize you are essentially, "well the mean feminists did it, why can't we!"
/r/MensRights17/09/16 07:37 AM
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I am an MRA and I agree that Paul has gone over to the darkside. I think he has seen too much shit that the worst of women can do and now applies it to all women. It is no different than when a woman get's hurt by men and then turns against them and becomes a feminist for all the wrong reasons. He needs to be cut loose ASAP. I will stop following AVFM until they do. Maybe get Janice Fiamengo in there instead! She is level headed and fact based.
/r/MensRights12/09/16 02:37 AM
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Clicking the video definitely led to a browser crashing ad most likely full of malware. DO NOT CLICK ON THE VIDEO. Just a heads up.
/r/MensRights08/09/16 01:12 PM
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You obviously didn't read my whole post if you think I am abandoning the MRM because of this one issue. Geez. It is absolutely NOT nearly universally supported. Show me the stats to back that claim up. There are many who are vocal about it but there are a lot like me who are usually silent about it but more concerned with the far, far more pressing issues men and boys face then a nearly completely harmless cosmetic procedure with less negative side effects than dental surgery. MGM in third world…
/r/MensRights07/09/16 09:27 AM
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I think the whole MGM thing is counter-productive. MRAs who believe in this are using false stats (a feminist tactic) to prove their are deaths from this when almost every single death is from African countries where the practice should be stopped. Here in the first world, circumcision is safe and has less chance of death and harm then going to the dentist. They need to argue the only point that they have that is not based on lies. That they think it is abuse because of body autonomy. That is a …
/r/MensRights04/09/16 06:57 AM
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You were guilty of wrong think. Case closed.
/r/MensRights25/08/16 12:37 AM
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"If you steal $5 and I can't prove it in court, that does NOT mean you didn't steal $5." This is the biggest one that bothers me because what if you just SAY someone stole $5 and she can't prove it in court? Well that person doesn't get charged with theft because there is no proof. However, if someone is accused of rape that did not happen they get convicted of rape even though there is no proof. Every man on the planet knows what rape is. The ones who do it just don't care, they are bad people.…
/r/MensRights24/08/16 11:35 PM
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