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| 1 | How would you approach winning back a girl that had a crush on you at first but you ruined it by being too needy?You already know what to do then, you said you were needy before and that's what turned you off, just be less needy. Having options means you have good game yourself, you don't need to overthink things. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 06:35 AM |
| 2 | How would you approach winning back a girl that had a crush on you at first but you ruined it by being too needy?Have more options so that you don't have to think about this stuff, never have too much expectations when you approach. Sometimes it works other times it doesn't. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 05:47 AM |
| 2 | How to keep her interested and responding once I have her number (whatsapp messaging) (39 M)The reason dating is a numbers game for guys is to avoid being needy like you are, if she gets a hint of how desperate you are it will be an instant turn off for her, then you would have wasted all your time talking to her amd worrying about her texting you back. Number 1- have other options that you're talking to Number 2- find other things to do with your time, don't let women take away all your time. | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 01:31 PM |
| 1 | 22m, no sexual experience, matched with an older woman on Tinder - should I take the chance?No guy in theor 20s think sex is about love. Let me respect your choice but you should know that real love is not found on dating apps. As a guy you need to be experienced with women to know how to deal with a girlfriend, now might not be the best time to settle buddy considering you're a virgin. Another thing you should know is matching doesn't mean anything, you still have to put in some work and hope to get lucky to get her. Sometimes you match with women everything goes well but they just gh… | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 10:29 AM |
| 5 | Experiences with very attractive women. Is it even worth approaching them?Hoeflation is very good, I'm gonna introduce this to my vocabulary now. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 01:16 PM |
| 1 | I need advice what to doYou feel that way because they possess something we want but the only way you get over the fear of rejection is by actually being rejected. You just learn to live with it until it doesn't bother you anymore. Always remember you're a winner, all men go through this stage. You're not the first and you won't be the last. | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 04:19 PM |
| 18 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.Thank you for sharing your story bro, the biggest lesson I learnt about hot chics is they just want to be treated like a normal person. Most guys overthink stuff and end up not approaching because they think that since she's hot you need to have something really special to tell her to get the number. Approaching her actually makes you stand out because every other guy is intimidated by her. | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Got rejected after the first date for the first time. Now I'm confusedNever ask a girl the 'w' questions, why don't you like me...what can I do to make it betterlll etc. Kama uko na options just move on, haiko serious ivo. This is why us guys deal with quantity when it comes to women, wengine wataingia box wengine watakaa, it's never a guarantee that you will be successful na kila date. | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 06:19 AM |
| 1 | “Calm down!! The mistake most men make when their girlfriend is insecure and argues with them.This is good advice but I definitely see it going wrong in so many ways. First of all we have to understand the context, if she's just being dramatic when you have done nothing wrong then validating her emotions is the worst thing you could do. Always dismiss her emotions with logic, women are dramatic man, being dramatic as them only gives them fuel to continue. Stand your ground and make her understand what she is doing because sometimes they just say stuff. Be logical and set some boundaries.… | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 06:03 AM |
| -1 | Post Rejected | Creep FearsOnly a goofy guy would celebrate a platonic status with a chic just because she's hot, all guys should know that their time is more important than any vagina out there. If she wasn't interested in what you're looking for then there's no need to be friends with her, nect time just say hi and completely ignore her. | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Opinions on being friends, spending time and seeing if there are any sparks?This is why male-female friendships don't exist, men will always smash if they get the chance, let her know the truth. Women appreciate these things, you don't have to say you like her but be specific about how you feel, feelings are real bro. If you feel something communicate. What you're doing is the fastest way to go to the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Went on two dates but got hit with the "Didn't feel the connection i was hoping for." afterwards.When you're taking her to dates what are your intentions with her? You know women always have options, maybe she was going out with other guys at the same time and picked a winner who wasn't you, just move on don't get desperate you're the prize, you'll get other women out there. | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Starting from less than zeroListen to the Black Philip show on YouTube. | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 11:57 AM |
| 1 | First conversation at an airportOnce she told you she had a partner you should have walked away, trying to explain yourself would only make you look desperate. Good guys always finish last, all men should realize that their time is better than any v*gina out there. If she tells you she's busy just tell yourself she wasn't worth your time anyway. This is how people build bullet proof confidence. | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Do women get turned off if you tell them you really like them?This is one thing all men should know, your time is better than any woman's p*ssy. Always be intentional with what you want, do you know the quickest way to get into the friendzone? Take her out, give her your time and attention without letting her know what you're looking for. At the end she will be like 'I didn't ask you to do all those things for me'. She will be fucking another guy and use you as a therapist for all her problems. Face up to her and be honest, there are many women out there. … | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 06:05 AM |
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